@@ankitasingh3085 zindagi bhar mar kha 😂😂😂 . Lol kya galat fehmi h wah. Meri behen Engineer h uski arrange marriage hui h, roz office jati h, pati love respect sab karta h . Aur full freedom hai use. Apni dakiyanusi thoughts se bahar aa 😂😂😂🙏🙏
Sahi baat hai Jab do log ek dusre ko samajhte hai , jante hai , pyar karte hai To phir problem kya hai Why society hate love marriage I prefer love marriage
Why today's marriage is failed . Give anyone what,s the reason ? Because No one want to carry burden of marriage . And secondly , now a days there are lot of guys and girls had many relationship before marriage that,s way they compare their present partner and past partner compatibility , and finally .... Marriage is failed , jo ek baar chicken kha liya hai usko dal chana aacha lgega kya?
@@rajatkumar6144 it's ur 19 s mentality uncle 😂😂 don't give advices as its everyone personal choices but at present situation most of them prefer love marriages 😘
Arranged marriages in my opinion promote segregation and division within society since you are choosing a partner based upon your pre-determined criteria like caste, class, and family ego whereas the agenda of love marriage is love without considering social barriers. It is a celebration of individual choice and diversity.
If you can marry person you love this is biggest blessing you can have, people make mistakes in love marriages too but it doesn't mean every love marriage is bad. I wasn't able to marry the girl I love because of caste issue and I regret it everyday.
1) love marriage & Arrange marriage dono marriage dono me beauty to dekhi hi jati hai. Wrna arrange marriage me koi kali ldki ya kale ldke se shadi krle 🤪 2) people say ki arrange marriage me Divorce rate km hai , reason a) Agr couple ek dusre ko psnd nhi ya abusing ,sharab,no work .. fir bhi sath rhna pdta.. society kya kahegi b) Female financially independent nhi hai India me.talak ke bad Dusri shadi hona muskil hai india me c) Indian parents- ye to ek ldki ka nasib ki bat hai.. adjust kr le beta... Ab tu to paraya dhan bn gyi..hm kya kr skte hai. d) Couple fight hr trh ki marriage me hoti hai ,pr arrange marriage parents ki mrji se hoti..so thoda sath dete rhte vo. e) na sari love marriage successful na sari arrange marriage. Village side me aao..u will find ki kitni ladies se marpit ki jati hai
Lmao I hate how people are fighting. Come to your senses- marriage is between two individuals if they love and understand eachother nothing could break them. Love or Arranged It's just until marriage after getting married they are MARRIED. You can never predict one's relationship because it doesn't come with community, caste, religion, gender, sexuality or nationality. It's with in an individual. Every one vary from eachother- you can never generalize such situations
3:33 love marriage isn't a problem. Not getting support from parents is. Ye kesa ego hai bhai parents ka? Same ladke se love k through shadi karu to galat par arrange marriage karte hi , wo pavitra ho jayega?🤦
@@mukullatwal4861 pehli baat main purane zamane ki soch ki baat kar raha hu tab riste mazboot hote thai divorce naam ki koi cheez hi nhi thi .yeh tere naye zamane ki meharbani hai carona ,divorce ,rap phencho gandu zamana .tumhari dadi ki konsi love marrige thi kya onko pyaar nhi tha apje dada ji se yeh hota hi pyaar thik hai .arrange marriage konsa petrol pai chalti hai love pai hi chalti. phone pai game khelo bete😂😂😂😂bizzaro
In the West Kids plan their own marriage and invite their parents. In India Parents literally plan everything in your marriage and invite you to ur marriage 😂
Love marriage is bond between two persons. Arrange marriage is bond between two families. The harsh reality is u come in life alone and u should go alone in death.
Arrange marriage is mostly preferred by those who can't find a loving partner for themselves or those who want dowry or for those girls who aren't financially independent or for those men who want a submissive wife. And definitely the divorce rate is low in arrange marriage because those who couldn't take the decison of marrying can't take the decision of divorcing also. And divorce aren't bad, it's better to live alone when things aren't well between two people, rather then fighting everyday and making things worse for children.
What u mean by Submissove wife...i want submissive wife..but i don't want dowry,..okk ,but what u r , submissive ,or dominating...or nothing......but submissive hona biri baat bhi nhi.... What u mean by submssiive ..please tell
@@thefoodstar118 bilkul sahi pehle zamane main konsa love marriage hoti thi . phnecho zeh nya drama hai bina maa baap kai shadi yeh koi shadi hoti hai .
Arrange marriage me kaun sa ldkiya ldk k ma baap ko samjhti h 2 3 saal me alag hone ki sochti h.. but koi bol nhi sakta ab adjest kro.. yhi boltr h sab
@Nikhil dubey love marriage to sirf badnaam but agar love marriage ko bhi support mile to love se behtar kucg nhi arrange marriage me bar bar k dahej diya jata h damad k aane per.. aise khade ho jate h gulam.... Chahe wo ldki ko khus rkhe ya nhi fir bhi jhuke rhnge.. wahi love marriage me ldk ki na izzar krnge koi na support.. kyuki usne psand se kiya.... Arrange marriage me ldkiya kitna kuch krti h tb nhi bolta koi aur kro arrange marriage but love me ldki kuch glti ho jye.. bola tha na kro ye wo bc zindagii barbad.. system hi khrb h..
There are plenty of positive explanations for the low divorce rates of arranged marriages. Couples feel more inclined to work through issues and are more dedicated to each other. Mutual admiration develops. They don't make rash decisions to marry someone because of passion or lust
@@himawarinohara6593 love marriages arent stable because people "fall out of love" for them love is the only thing which keeps them together. Got a problem? get a divorce. Thats how they think
@@himawarinohara6593 behen meri agar ladhki hai toh. I support love marriage per yeah baata aaj kal Kay ladhkay ladhkiyo ko lust or love mai antar malum bhee hai. Mai toh kahu ga phele waala system hee theek tha jab log gf bf nahi bantey thayy. Kyu ki 18 - 25 ki age Mai mostly temporary log hee miltey hai. Or yahi age bhee hoti hai learning or apna career banaey ki. Aur iss Age thak insan Mai ek maturity bhee aajati hai. Ek imp point 18-25 ki age Mai testosterone ka level bhee peek per hota hai toh love aur lust mai antar nahi paata chalta
@@viralbajpai8027 main cheez jo love marriage ko fail karwa deti h woh hai. Ki aap ek dusre ko pehle se hi jante ho toh woh ek excitement nahi rehta and 2nd yeh ki aap ek fantasy mein jite ho . Aur arranged marriage mein ajkal courtship bhi rehta hai aur parents support bhi . So high educated log prefer arranged marriage
I agree with it that parents would not allow arrange marriage but my case is different.. I'm a 23 year old guy who is living in delhi but my mom forcing me to get love marriage and on the other side my dad believe in arrange marriage and now they both are fighting on this topic and I'm watching their program with having popcorn...😀 but seriously most of girls have advantage that they will definitely get a guy who has batter standard of living than them and that's why they choose arrange marriage even if there is no love but at least they are getting a partner with batter life. And you will see there is no case that a girl who get married (in arrange marriage) with lower standard guy and this is very bad thing that girls looking for batter life by taking advantage of arrange marriage. I always think that it is good to being single rather than get married with a girl who is showing fake love in entire life... And I think that's why my mom force me to get love marriage because she knows all about it..
Only those people choose arrange marriage who are dependent. For doing love marriage you need to go through a lot because of our society & parent's outlook. So one needs to be completely independent & strong to stand for their decision & it's consequences.
Love and arrange both marriages can be success or failures. Risk in Arrange marriages. 1. Marrying a complete stranger 2. Risk of low compatibility 3. Family pressure. 4. No individual freedom Risk in love marriages. 1. Lack of support from family. 2. Inexperience in choosing a life partner 3. Chance of fraud from spouse because backgrounds may not have been checked
Love marriage aur arrange marriage me koi difference nahi hai..... dono ko successful karne ke liye understanding ki zarurat hai......... sara khel understanding ka hai......
@@sikanderjaiswar776 its quite simple bro .... Arrange marriage is basically a business done by 2 families. The boy and girl are the products.if u want a guy with high social status, high paying job .... Blah....blah...blah... You should give higher dowry... Opposite also. Only the parents have the freedom to take decision over the couple's life. They will decide even when those couples have to share bed . Even if the relationship is not well you ppl can't divorce unless parents will force u to settle with the same person. .... As far as i see arrange marriage is a pure gambling between 2 families. As you said understanding zaroori hai lekin arrange marriage ek ajnabi ko kaise samjh lenge🤙 also there isn't have much transparency between the couples. They will know one other's real nature only after marriage....
People : i prefer love marriage because we know the guy/gal. I don't care about parents. Also same people after divorce: पापा मुझे ले चलो यहा से मुझे बचाओ शादी के बाद पुरा बदल गया रोज मारता है मुझे. Moral: No one can predict the future. Only plus point in arrange marriage is that elders are always there to try resolve issues .
Iiterally I dont understand why it is the question like arrange marriage love marriage 😡 accept every thing the way it is.... Why parents does not support when there is a problem in love marriage.... Hadd hai yaar
I am in relation with my gf from last 9 year from 9th class...But she is from diffrent cast and I m living in village..as u know in village inter cast marriage is mostly not possible..I request you all..could you plz tell me how Can I convey to my parents and her parents...Even I have good job with intresting package...I m working in IT company as data analyst... Pls tell me your suggestions...
@@manojrajput7742 please fight for your rights yaad rkhna parents b galat ho skta h aur bache b koi perfect ni hota h aaj laad loge to apne pyaar k sth rhoge kal ko arrange kroge aur ladki galat nikal gye to parents b yhi khte h nibhalo aur arrange m feeling ni aye to kya kroge zidngi bhar kosoge apne ap ko kyki pyaar br br ni hota aur sabse ni hota 9 years chotta time ni h bhai to love m ladoge to 9 years m BBT br lade hoge solve b ho jayga pyr krte time ni socha to stand lete time ku sochna life tumne beetani h financially emotionally partner hr jagah kaam ata h koi aur ni to parents ko convence kro ladki ko apne gf ko b do mra y msg Aaj soch ni bdloge kl ko ap logo k bache b suffer krnge
@@manojrajput7742 aur arrange mrrg m hr koi acha h behave krta h phle ladki galat nkl gye to kya kroge ek h life h pure life pachtane s acha ek br ladai krkr hak k liye apne partner k saath beetao
Eh apart from the personal issue I have with deciding someone's future for them, the only problem I have with arranged marriages is that they do cause social divides. In some cases people have married within caste in India so much that specific genetic diseases have become prevalent in those castes that Apparently doctors ask you for your caste in some states to make sure they don't kill you with a medicine that could've saved someone else! Because your genetically predespositioned to be 'allergic' to them thanks to all the in breeding. Arranged marriages often occur within caste and religion basically to similar people, this often makes it a breeding ground for genetic diseases to be passed down from generation to generation. At least that is my scientific and biological argument for love marriage 😅
Those who things love marriage is best they should appoint doctor,😂from dramas and movies they seen arrange marriage is piece of bull shit but reality is different.94%of love marraige not go for result and after 1or2 years they get divorced💯👎👎
My friend did love marriage......They struggled alot....to convince their parents ...and now she is leaving with her parents.....she wants divorce ...💔
I am not against love itself, but not really into love marriage. I have been in love multiple times from high school to college to office. But when it comes to marriage, I will chose arranged when I am ready in a few years.
Marriages are fine when there's love and understanding but not when they are for society. I wish humans acknowledge that. But for me being single is the best thing to do
@@Karmayoga. Apni aukad Tera language Bata Raha , bapp ke beta ,, family k against nahi jata ,, Tera bap se keha ke cigarette ,daru pita hai , Apni bap se bhi Aisa baat karta hai Kaya ? Rahi baat saadhi ke ,,India ka hai Na tu ,,azadi sabdh ka MATLAB pata hai tho ans kar ? Beta
@@Karmayoga. Tera aukad nahi to ladki Ko impress kar le ,, Accha hai tu karid le 👍 Again : tu agar mera sister Ko pata leta hai Mai teri mummy Ko bhaga launga 😀 Don't try to oversmart ,, 👍
All depends on situation in love no guarantee is there as if boy say I can not handle he will leave also parents will tell it's your choice and in arrange marriage parents pressure on boys is there so he will stay also his parents choose you ..so they will compromise in all things🥰
Karma achhe karo bas, love marriage karoge tab bhi achchhi jayegi air arrange kar loge to bhi mauj. It's all about individual's karma. Karma achchhe hain to nark bhi swarg me badal jayega apke kadam rakhte hi.
@@himawarinohara6593 bruh nope in arranged marriage even if u don't like the your partner you won't divorce them coz of the society arrange marriage is absolute shit and that's what ppl with brain and senses say
@@o_o8372 let's say you will do love marriage after some time. You are not happy you will take divorce. What about your kids? What about time wasted on relationship? What about your finances?
Love marriage is totally foolish because if you and your partner are not understand you as well as your parents maa bap ka dil mat todiye ye love married sab faltu chig hoti he ab jinki ho gye he bo to camera ke samne kahegein he lekin yaha bilkul galat he ( hamari sanaatan sankrati ko barbad mat kigeye 🚩🚩🚩🚩) padhein likhe gamar mat bano 😡😡😡😡😡😡
Love sbhi ko nhi hota lekin jb ho jata h to usy nibhana chahiye yr is pr controle nhi hota agar bacha apne parents ko ye bat btata h to usy bhi srm aati h pr ldki ki bjaye ldko ko ye bat parents se krni chahiye boht naseeb wale hote h jo apne pyar k saath jeete h umr bhr sbse muskil hota h jb parents ko aisi bat btana village. Me aaj bhi love marriage ko nhi maante jb ghr walo ki hm bat maante h to ghr walo ko bhi hme smjha chahiye
Arrange mrg is always far better than love mrg... Less expectations from each other then less fighting bcoz in arrange mrg we never argue such like love mrg where for every single thing we start saying that "are yaar tum to samajhte hi nhi mujhe"🙄 in arrange mrg if husband asks to go out for dinner wife be like kya jarurat hai ghar pe bana dungi na but in love mrg when husband asks wife to make something at home wife be like are yaar aisehi thaki hui hu tumhe to meri care hi nhi hai jao bahar se le aao kha liya jayega 😂😂 after returning from office when husband asks that please jara pair daba do thak gaya hu wife in arrange mrg silently do but in love mrg wife be like are yaar mai nhi thakti kya mujhe kaam nhi hote kya.. in arrange mrg husband is always treated by saying aap where as in love mrg he is mostly treated by tum 🙄🙄🙄and if husband asks that are yaar sbke bich me mujhe tum keh kr bulati ho to wife be like to kya hua tum mujhe samajhte ho na duniya se mujhe kya mtlb 🤣🤣 huhhh etc etc many more like this...
Marriages r supposed to be based solely on love bases.. only india has options like love marriage or wat..? Hate marriage..? Aka arranged marriage..? Come on. If that marriage criteria didn’t start with the sole purpose of love n respect n care .. how would they or should they expect that later even in this generation if we r discussing if this is an option. I have no words
Arrenge marrige is good cos hmare mohalle me ek arrenge marrenge hui thi or baad me dono me or saas sasur me itnii ladai hoti thi ki ek din vo apne saas ko mar dali or fir 6 month baad apne pati ko daru pila k maar dali..it's true.. so thanks arrenge marrage sapporting people ...so arrenge marrige is best👍
Ghr walo ko convince kaise kre..... Hm dono government job pe h inter caste marriage k liye mere family nhi man rhi.... Wt can i do???? Pls help me guys..
Cricket is played in cricket ground and tennis on tennis court. Love marriages suits in the west. Indian culture, values & ecosystem supports arrange marriage. Most of the love marriages end in separation/divorce and parents of both sides are not respected the way they deserve.
Then Indians should stop playing cricket, football, tennis etc because they are foreign games. Also stop using RUclips, Instagram, Facebook, Computer, Mobile etc. They are all foreign items.
In love marriage arguments and fightings is also expressed with only love, but then suddenly it becomes correct because of their love..but in arrange marriage both will have ego problem & the small matter circulates the whole family and the family members will make the problem too big and finally 👎👎👎👎....
Arrange marriages lasts because in most of the cases wives are totally dependent on their husbands
Lol 10 % success rate hai love marriage mein 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@@himawarinohara6593 source?
@@AnkitYadav-rb7jn bombay high courtv
I am asking about the report
@@ankitasingh3085 zindagi bhar mar kha 😂😂😂 . Lol kya galat fehmi h wah. Meri behen Engineer h uski arrange marriage hui h, roz office jati h, pati love respect sab karta h . Aur full freedom hai use. Apni dakiyanusi thoughts se bahar aa 😂😂😂🙏🙏
Sahi baat hai
Jab do log ek dusre ko samajhte hai , jante hai , pyar karte hai
To phir problem kya hai
Why society hate love marriage
I prefer love marriage
I prefer 😊 Arrange marriage 😊😊
Love marriage is most preferred as Arrange marriage is just a blind gamble and marrying a complete stranger is an absolute turnoff.
Exactly everyone have their own choice but I don't know how can people marry a person who is a complete stranger to them..
@@megha1827 true mam 😘😘
Why today's marriage is failed . Give anyone what,s the reason ? Because No one want to carry burden of marriage . And secondly , now a days there are lot of guys and girls had many relationship before marriage that,s way they compare their present partner and past partner compatibility , and finally .... Marriage is failed , jo ek baar chicken kha liya hai usko dal chana aacha lgega kya?
@@rajatkumar6144 it's ur 19 s mentality uncle 😂😂 don't give advices as its everyone personal choices but at present situation most of them prefer love marriages 😘
@@mukullatwal4861 and today's generation also want,s freedom of adultery , pls mention these statement also, granny
1:00 uncle so much sensible
Perfect 👌 bola sir ne ,,
Bilkul galat bola
Arranged marriages in my opinion promote segregation and division within society since you are choosing a partner based upon your pre-determined criteria like caste, class, and family ego whereas the agenda of love marriage is love without considering social barriers. It is a celebration of individual choice and diversity.
But the later can mean less compatability hence less successful marriage
Forget love...if u don't have sustainable and secure future ahead.
If you can marry person you love this is biggest blessing you can have, people make mistakes in love marriages too but it doesn't mean every love marriage is bad.
I wasn't able to marry the girl I love because of caste issue and I regret it everyday.
My situation is also the same 🙂
1) love marriage & Arrange marriage dono marriage dono me beauty to dekhi hi jati hai.
Wrna arrange marriage me koi kali ldki ya kale ldke se shadi krle 🤪
2) people say ki arrange marriage me Divorce rate km hai , reason
a) Agr couple ek dusre ko psnd nhi ya abusing ,sharab,no work .. fir bhi sath rhna pdta.. society kya kahegi
b) Female financially independent nhi hai India me.talak ke bad Dusri shadi hona muskil hai india me
c) Indian parents- ye to ek ldki ka nasib ki bat hai.. adjust kr le beta...
Ab tu to paraya dhan bn gyi..hm kya kr skte hai.
d) Couple fight hr trh ki marriage me hoti hai ,pr arrange marriage parents ki mrji se hoti..so thoda sath dete rhte vo.
e) na sari love marriage successful na sari arrange marriage.
Village side me aao..u will find ki kitni ladies se marpit ki jati hai
Agreee
1 Point Is Very True
Best answer 2:55
👌👌👌👌👌
Why can't we Indian's properly differentiate between lust and love.
Such an crap society in terms of marriage and love
Lmao I hate how people are fighting. Come to your senses- marriage is between two individuals if they love and understand eachother nothing could break them. Love or Arranged It's just until marriage after getting married they are MARRIED. You can never predict one's relationship because it doesn't come with community, caste, religion, gender, sexuality or nationality. It's with in an individual. Every one vary from eachother- you can never generalize such situations
Lol !!
You don't know nothing about 99% arranged marriage in India !!
Your words are valid for only rich people who opt for Arranged marriage!!
Sensible comment
3:33 love marriage isn't a problem. Not getting support from parents is.
Ye kesa ego hai bhai parents ka?
Same ladke se love k through shadi karu to galat par arrange marriage karte hi , wo pavitra ho jayega?🤦
Pajji didn’t choose thug life,
Thug life choose pajji 😂👍
Love marriage is best cause marrying a stranger by parents choice is something getting botched😁😁😁
yeh tumhari soch hai pehle zamane main konsa love marriage hoti tab love nhi hota tha . pehle sabhi stranger hi hote hain
@@amritpalsingh3005 tu ab phle zamane me nhi hai na ab love marriage hi best hai
@@mukullatwal4861 pehli baat main purane zamane ki soch ki baat kar raha hu tab riste mazboot hote thai divorce naam ki koi cheez hi nhi thi .yeh tere naye zamane ki meharbani hai carona ,divorce ,rap phencho gandu zamana .tumhari dadi ki konsi love marrige thi kya onko pyaar nhi tha apje dada ji se yeh hota hi pyaar thik hai .arrange marriage konsa petrol pai chalti hai love pai hi chalti. phone pai game khelo bete😂😂😂😂bizzaro
@@amritpalsingh3005 are uncle aap apni shaadi pe dhyan de hme gyan mat de apke bolne se konsa ham arrange marriage kar lenge 😂😂
tumhare yaha 19 saal walo ko uncle kehte hai .tu chahe arrange kra chahe tu mujhe kya .bete pogo dekh .😂😂😂😂
In the West
Kids plan their own marriage and invite their parents.
In India
Parents literally plan everything in your marriage and invite you to ur marriage 😂
Actually 🥺
No
@@veerpalsingh6304 so you are pro love marriage?
@@himawarinohara6593 Western countries me bhi arrange marriage hoti hai aur waha par phi parents ko girls friends aur boyfriends pasand nhi
@@veerpalsingh6304 love marriage acchi h kyu ki ap ek dusre ko pehle se jante ho
Love marriage is bond between two persons.
Arrange marriage is bond between two families.
The harsh reality is u come in life alone and u should go alone in death.
Arrange marriage is mostly preferred by those who can't find a loving partner for themselves or those who want dowry or for those girls who aren't financially independent or for those men who want a submissive wife. And definitely the divorce rate is low in arrange marriage because those who couldn't take the decison of marrying can't take the decision of divorcing also. And divorce aren't bad, it's better to live alone when things aren't well between two people, rather then fighting everyday and making things worse for children.
What u mean by Submissove wife...i want submissive wife..but i don't want dowry,..okk ,but what u r , submissive ,or dominating...or nothing......but submissive hona biri baat bhi nhi....
What u mean by submssiive ..please tell
Good reply aditi
Wow kha soch he completely gone case🤣 divorce is ok it seems kya soch he behen
Explained very nice😌
True that
Love merriage is best but when perents permit
Love marriage is best Arrange marriage is perfect....
Yes bina maa baap k kuch nhi ,
@@thefoodstar118 bilkul sahi pehle zamane main konsa love marriage hoti thi . phnecho zeh nya drama hai bina maa baap kai shadi yeh koi shadi hoti hai .
Always they won't permit...😂😂
Absolutely right 👍💯
Waah Sardar Ji tussi great ho...! Bahut badiya gal kar deta tussi...! Bilkul sach baat hai paaji...!
marriage is not about love but responsibility.
Only for sex and family no love right!
wow dude doesn't need love to spend your whole life with someone🤣🤣🤣,, are u out of ur mind ?
Marriage is not only abt love but responsibilities also 😊
Both required
1.15 man is more genuine than few youngster here .
Lol people today don't know the diff. between forced marriage and arranged marriage.
I support both love and arrange marriages.
Arrange marriage me kaun sa ldkiya ldk k ma baap ko samjhti h 2 3 saal me alag hone ki sochti h.. but koi bol nhi sakta ab adjest kro.. yhi boltr h sab
@Nikhil dubey love marriage to sirf badnaam but agar love marriage ko bhi support mile to love se behtar kucg nhi arrange marriage me bar bar k dahej diya jata h damad k aane per.. aise khade ho jate h gulam.... Chahe wo ldki ko khus rkhe ya nhi fir bhi jhuke rhnge.. wahi love marriage me ldk ki na izzar krnge koi na support.. kyuki usne psand se kiya.... Arrange marriage me ldkiya kitna kuch krti h tb nhi bolta koi aur kro arrange marriage but love me ldki kuch glti ho jye.. bola tha na kro ye wo bc zindagii barbad.. system hi khrb h..
Yes you are correct
Yaha love story 2000 say chal Rahi hay.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
but duniya wale alag kar hi dete hi
Agree. Love marriages bahut jyada badnaam hain
There are plenty of positive explanations for the low divorce rates of arranged marriages. Couples feel more inclined to work through issues and are more dedicated to each other. Mutual admiration develops. They don't make rash decisions to marry someone because of passion or lust
So you mean love marriage are because of lust? Do you mean that ?
@@himawarinohara6593 love marriages arent stable because people "fall out of love" for them love is the only thing which keeps them together. Got a problem? get a divorce. Thats how they think
@@hydra4962 yeah there is difference between love and commitment. But why can't both come together In a love marriage ?
@@himawarinohara6593 behen meri agar ladhki hai toh. I support love marriage per yeah baata aaj kal Kay ladhkay ladhkiyo ko lust or love mai antar malum bhee hai. Mai toh kahu ga phele waala system hee theek tha jab log gf bf nahi bantey thayy. Kyu ki 18 - 25 ki age Mai mostly temporary log hee miltey hai. Or yahi age bhee hoti hai learning or apna career banaey ki. Aur iss Age thak insan Mai ek maturity bhee aajati hai. Ek imp point 18-25 ki age Mai testosterone ka level bhee peek per hota hai toh love aur lust mai antar nahi paata chalta
@@viralbajpai8027 main cheez jo love marriage ko fail karwa deti h woh hai. Ki aap ek dusre ko pehle se hi jante ho toh woh ek excitement nahi rehta and 2nd yeh ki aap ek fantasy mein jite ho . Aur arranged marriage mein ajkal courtship bhi rehta hai aur parents support bhi . So high educated log prefer arranged marriage
I agree with it that parents would not allow arrange marriage but my case is different.. I'm a 23 year old guy who is living in delhi but my mom forcing me to get love marriage and on the other side my dad believe in arrange marriage and now they both are fighting on this topic and I'm watching their program with having popcorn...😀 but seriously most of girls have advantage that they will definitely get a guy who has batter standard of living than them and that's why they choose arrange marriage even if there is no love but at least they are getting a partner with batter life. And you will see there is no case that a girl who get married (in arrange marriage) with lower standard guy and this is very bad thing that girls looking for batter life by taking advantage of arrange marriage. I always think that it is good to being single rather than get married with a girl who is showing fake love in entire life... And I think that's why my mom force me to get love marriage because she knows all about it..
Love marriage unke liye best jinko partner mil gya jinko nahi mila bo nalle arrange marriage hi krenge aur kya raasta he unke pass lol😂
Love come arrange
जो जो love marriage बोला उस्के घर पे फोन लगाव 😂😂🤣🤣
Only those people choose arrange marriage who are dependent.
For doing love marriage you need to go through a lot because of our society & parent's outlook. So one needs to be completely independent & strong to stand for their decision & it's consequences.
Love and arrange both marriages can be success or failures.
Risk in Arrange marriages.
1. Marrying a complete stranger
2. Risk of low compatibility
3. Family pressure.
4. No individual freedom
Risk in love marriages.
1. Lack of support from family.
2. Inexperience in choosing a life partner
3. Chance of fraud from spouse because backgrounds may not have been checked
The reasons you stated in a love marriage apply to an arranged marriage as well
@@RandomKun true lol
I want to do both love in arrange marriage like it should look like love marriage💗☺️
Love marriage aur arrange marriage me koi difference nahi hai..... dono ko successful karne ke liye understanding ki zarurat hai......... sara khel understanding ka hai......
Arrange marriage is just like a business deal
@@Here_we_go..557 right
@@Here_we_go..557 aaur love marriage. Gudde gudiya ka khel
@@Here_we_go..557 ok........ What about love marriage?
@@sikanderjaiswar776 its quite simple bro .... Arrange marriage is basically a business done by 2 families. The boy and girl are the products.if u want a guy with high social status, high paying job ....
Blah....blah...blah... You should give higher dowry... Opposite also. Only the parents have the freedom to take decision over the couple's life. They will decide even when those couples have to share bed . Even if the relationship is not well you ppl can't divorce unless parents will force u to settle with the same person. ....
As far as i see arrange marriage is a pure gambling between 2 families. As you said understanding zaroori hai lekin arrange marriage ek ajnabi ko kaise samjh lenge🤙 also there isn't have much transparency between the couples. They will know one other's real nature only after marriage....
Love or arranged the question is which marriage do you get bored in quicker?
Parents to poochte hai ki koi pasand hai toh bata de lekin Mujhe ladki nhi mil rhi toh last option arrange marriage ka hai 🤣🤣
As The girl' said that's completely Right
In love marriage couple get separated after sometime
And it's sad for the kid.
Arrange marriage is good.... love marriage mene ki thi sala life jhnd ho gi respect to lhtm
Love marriage success rate 1%
Quality of life is good in love marriage.
Love or arrange both mey marriage common hey😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
People : i prefer love marriage because we know the guy/gal. I don't care about parents.
Also same people after divorce: पापा मुझे ले चलो यहा से मुझे बचाओ शादी के बाद पुरा बदल गया रोज मारता है मुझे.
Moral: No one can predict the future. Only plus point in arrange marriage is that elders are always there to try resolve issues .
Arrange marriage mein divorce bhi nahi milega the only option is to suffer 👍
In my family domastick voliancee is important.
Every one support voliancee.
@@AKASHSingh-ku7fi toh jaakar arrange marriage le😂
@@Here_we_go..557
????
@@Here_we_go..557 arrange marriage le.
Sardarji best answer !
Arrange Marriage 😘😘😘
Iiterally I dont understand why it is the question like arrange marriage love marriage 😡 accept every thing the way it is.... Why parents does not support when there is a problem in love marriage.... Hadd hai yaar
Yes it's correct just accept but question everything whenether it's good or not
@@taruntarun9950 true
I am in relation with my gf from last 9 year from 9th class...But she is from diffrent cast and I m living in village..as u know in village inter cast marriage is mostly not possible..I request you all..could you plz tell me how Can I convey to my parents and her parents...Even I have good job with intresting package...I m working in IT company as data analyst... Pls tell me your suggestions...
No, not yet as she is still studying master .
@@manojrajput7742 please fight for your rights yaad rkhna parents b galat ho skta h aur bache b koi perfect ni hota h aaj laad loge to apne pyaar k sth rhoge kal ko arrange kroge aur ladki galat nikal gye to parents b yhi khte h nibhalo aur arrange m feeling ni aye to kya kroge zidngi bhar kosoge apne ap ko kyki pyaar br br ni hota aur sabse ni hota 9 years chotta time ni h bhai to love m ladoge to 9 years m BBT br lade hoge solve b ho jayga pyr krte time ni socha to stand lete time ku sochna life tumne beetani h financially emotionally partner hr jagah kaam ata h koi aur ni to parents ko convence kro ladki ko apne gf ko b do mra y msg Aaj soch ni bdloge kl ko ap logo k bache b suffer krnge
@@manojrajput7742 aur arrange mrrg m hr koi acha h behave krta h phle ladki galat nkl gye to kya kroge ek h life h pure life pachtane s acha ek br ladai krkr hak k liye apne partner k saath beetao
Eh apart from the personal issue I have with deciding someone's future for them, the only problem I have with arranged marriages is that they do cause social divides.
In some cases people have married within caste in India so much that specific genetic diseases have become prevalent in those castes that Apparently doctors ask you for your caste in some states to make sure they don't kill you with a medicine that could've saved someone else! Because your genetically predespositioned to be 'allergic' to them thanks to all the in breeding.
Arranged marriages often occur within caste and religion basically to similar people, this often makes it a breeding ground for genetic diseases to be passed down from generation to generation.
At least that is my scientific and biological argument for love marriage 😅
Those who things love marriage is best they should appoint doctor,😂from dramas and movies they seen arrange marriage is piece of bull shit but reality is different.94%of love marraige not go for result and after 1or2 years they get divorced💯👎👎
What about best love stories. How do that happen?
Divorce rate is low in arrange marriage is cause of tolerable girls! They want to divorce but they can't!
@@cyberbot2709 facts
@@cyberbot2709 yeahh logical answer dude🙌 you'r right
🤣😂🤣😂🤣
My friend did love marriage......They struggled alot....to convince their parents ...and now she is leaving with her parents.....she wants divorce ...💔
I am not against love itself, but not really into love marriage. I have been in love multiple times from high school to college to office. But when it comes to marriage, I will chose arranged when I am ready in a few years.
Bhai insaan hi ho na
Multiple times in love ???What type of love scene is this ?🤦
@@seetasha9393 hum to aise bando ko chutiya bolte he
Bhen ya bhai fir tujhe Pyaar nahi cahiye tha tu bas muh maar Rahi thi har jagha
Single life is best koi interfere nhi krta h apni lyf apne hishab se jiyo mst
Parents arrange marrige ke baad bhi support nai karte bolte hai ki teri kismat Tu jaan
Right
Sahi
U r right
Is marriage is really important either is love or arrange?
Marriages are fine when there's love and understanding but not when they are for society. I wish humans acknowledge that. But for me being single is the best thing to do
Yes because when you're young you won't feel the need but after 35...36 you know the real value of marriage.
Jiska ladki patane ki himmat nahi whh mard karta hai arrange marriage ❣️❣️
Criticism
Beta pata to hum aapki sister ko bhi le lekin hum apne family ke against nahi ja sakte
@@Karmayoga. Apni aukad Tera language Bata Raha , bapp ke beta ,, family k against nahi jata ,, Tera bap se keha ke cigarette ,daru pita hai ,
Apni bap se bhi Aisa baat karta hai Kaya ?
Rahi baat saadhi ke ,,India ka hai Na tu ,,azadi sabdh ka MATLAB pata hai tho ans kar ? Beta
@@Karmayoga. Tera aukad nahi to ladki Ko impress kar le ,,
Accha hai tu karid le 👍
Again : tu agar mera sister Ko pata leta hai Mai teri mummy Ko bhaga launga 😀
Don't try to oversmart ,, 👍
All depends on situation in love no guarantee is there as if boy say I can not handle he will leave also parents will tell it's your choice and in arrange marriage parents pressure on boys is there so he will stay also his parents choose you ..so they will compromise in all things🥰
दोनों जगह अनिश्चितता है ,जुआ में यही होता है
Karma achhe karo bas, love marriage karoge tab bhi achchhi jayegi air arrange kar loge to bhi mauj. It's all about individual's karma. Karma achchhe hain to nark bhi swarg me badal jayega apke kadam rakhte hi.
Love marriage is best ❤️
kabhi Kiya hai love ya bass man hi man laduu phod rha hai🤣🤣🤣, rejection, betrayal, extreme also happens in love life okay
@@prakash1-x1d thankyou 💙💙
Bro don't worry
I have a girl friend 😂
@@bts_delhi isilye... love marriage ka Sapna dekhe hooo😀😀😀
@@prakash1-x1d spna to nhi dikha rha hu
Kr leya hu 😂😂
@@bts_delhi achii baat hai, good luck
Parents in arrange marriage be like :this is business....🚗💰🕴️🧲💃
Right
@@sangitaroy3464 but nobody cares
Dono marriage ki koi gurantee ni insan nibhane wala hona chahiye.
I love the answer of sardarji 😍
Shadi chahe jaisi ho, sachai aur imaandari se honi chahiye, koi chalaaki nahi warna baad rishta hmesha dukh deta hai,
Love marriage or stay single !!
Pagal ho ap. Arrange mein jo understanding aur respect hota hai wo love mein nahi hota. Paji ne kya kaha love marriage 5-6 salo mein nipat jate h
@@himawarinohara6593 bruh nope in arranged marriage even if u don't like the your partner you won't divorce them coz of the society arrange marriage is absolute shit and that's what ppl with brain and senses say
@@o_o8372 let's say you will do love marriage after some time. You are not happy you will take divorce. What about your kids? What about time wasted on relationship? What about your finances?
@@o_o8372 arrange marriage is shit. So according to you 91% of indians are doing, shit. And all arrange marriage r unhappy, who told you that?
Love marriage nahi own choice marriage bolo......
R.I.P: INTROVERTS *ME INCLUDED
Love marriage is totally foolish because if you and your partner are not understand you as well as your parents maa bap ka dil mat todiye ye love married sab faltu chig hoti he ab jinki ho gye he bo to camera ke samne kahegein he lekin yaha bilkul galat he ( hamari sanaatan sankrati ko barbad mat kigeye 🚩🚩🚩🚩) padhein likhe gamar mat bano 😡😡😡😡😡😡
Love marriage karne ke liye paida huye ho kya tum maa bapuji ne isliye tumehe padya likhaya he kya saram karo
Learn to spell gawar first
Before interviewing, pl ask a question, what they are doing? It will be easy for viewer to decide the correct path.
Uncle ne sahi kaha parents ko sath leke love marriage ki jaa sakti hai..
Love sbhi ko nhi hota lekin jb ho jata h to usy nibhana chahiye yr is pr controle nhi hota agar bacha apne parents ko ye bat btata h to usy bhi srm aati h pr ldki ki bjaye ldko ko ye bat parents se krni chahiye boht naseeb wale hote h jo apne pyar k saath jeete h umr bhr sbse muskil hota h jb parents ko aisi bat btana village. Me aaj bhi love marriage ko nhi maante jb ghr walo ki hm bat maante h to ghr walo ko bhi hme smjha chahiye
Arrange marriage is best.
I done love ❤️❤️ marriage my parents accepted
Kya aapki wife ki parents accept ki unko
Love' marriege ❤️
00:47 Epic reply 😂
0:43
Hi all, without wasting no time,
Let's waste some more time 🤣
I am with sardarji ,,😎
Jo mummy papa ki Pasand se arrange marriage Karta Hai vah Kabhi galat Nahin ho sakta
Arrange marriage me sirf paisoki paramatma rehatha hai....
Love Mai bhee kon si lakpati ki beti ek garib say pyar karey gi. Sirf filmo Mai hota tha yeah
@@viralbajpai8027 no yaar... Reality mehi jyada hote hai...
1st girl, what she want...
I am sad poor her future husband 😢
Arrange marriage
Love ho ya arrange ho.. Compatibility or maturity honi chahiye couple mei😊❤
Love marriage is best arrange marriage are not perfect single rahna sahi hai Lekin parent single rahna dege kya socho
Ladkiya sehti rehti hai isliye arrange marriage lambe chalte hai...pyar ho ya na ho..dikhava bahut hota hai
Right bro!
jinki shadi ni hui vo bhi gyan pel rhe hai😂 lagta hai didi ne ek ek ghar jake check kiya hai
aur love marriage me respect ni hota ye bat janlo😂😂
I prefer Being Single
मैरिज कोई सा भी हो बस हमसफर सही होना चाहिए 😅
Arrange mrg is always far better than love mrg... Less expectations from each other then less fighting bcoz in arrange mrg we never argue such like love mrg where for every single thing we start saying that "are yaar tum to samajhte hi nhi mujhe"🙄 in arrange mrg if husband asks to go out for dinner wife be like kya jarurat hai ghar pe bana dungi na but in love mrg when husband asks wife to make something at home wife be like are yaar aisehi thaki hui hu tumhe to meri care hi nhi hai jao bahar se le aao kha liya jayega 😂😂 after returning from office when husband asks that please jara pair daba do thak gaya hu wife in arrange mrg silently do but in love mrg wife be like are yaar mai nhi thakti kya mujhe kaam nhi hote kya.. in arrange mrg husband is always treated by saying aap where as in love mrg he is mostly treated by tum 🙄🙄🙄and if husband asks that are yaar sbke bich me mujhe tum keh kr bulati ho to wife be like to kya hua tum mujhe samajhte ho na duniya se mujhe kya mtlb 🤣🤣 huhhh etc etc many more like this...
Bhai sach bata. Girlfriend nahi mili na 🤣
So you want your favour only !
@@himawarinohara6593 girlfriend mil jaye to ghar valo ke pass jayo
@@saketadarsh7606 matlab?
@@saketadarsh7606 bhai maine use reply diya.tu kehena kya chah raha hai
Bakwas is love marriage
Sardar ji ne kya mast bat kahi😀
Depend on understanding ❤
Marriages r supposed to be based solely on love bases.. only india has options like love marriage or wat..? Hate marriage..? Aka arranged marriage..? Come on. If that marriage criteria didn’t start with the sole purpose of love n respect n care .. how would they or should they expect that later even in this generation if we r discussing if this is an option. I have no words
Arrange marriage is best 👍👍👍👍👍
It's totally depends on your Karama and core values ❤❤❤
Arrenge marrige is good cos hmare mohalle me ek arrenge marrenge hui thi or baad me dono me or saas sasur me itnii ladai hoti thi ki ek din vo apne saas ko mar dali or fir 6 month baad apne pati ko daru pila k maar dali..it's true.. so thanks arrenge marrage sapporting people ...so arrenge marrige is best👍
It's serious but why i am laughing. 😂
Kanought place?
Ghr walo ko convince kaise kre..... Hm dono government job pe h inter caste marriage k liye mere family nhi man rhi.... Wt can i do???? Pls help me guys..
Nobody can help.....
Bhaag jao apni jindgi apne hisab se jio
Girls:Arrange marriage (kyunki achhe package wala ladka mil jayega undoubtedly without any efforts)
😂😂
Cricket is played in cricket ground and tennis on tennis court. Love marriages suits in the west. Indian culture, values & ecosystem supports arrange marriage. Most of the love marriages end in separation/divorce and parents of both sides are not respected the way they deserve.
@Abhay Kumar ye badhiya tha
@Abhay Kumar best reply ❤️
Then Indians should stop playing cricket, football, tennis etc because they are foreign games. Also stop using RUclips, Instagram, Facebook, Computer, Mobile etc. They are all foreign items.
@@swiss512 it shows your cheap mentality!
Chhapri spotted
Mujhe ptaa hai love marriage ke baad ladies lady gangster bnn jaati hai ghar mein
I want to wish love marriage with my partner...
I prefer Love marriage and even like to face challenges.
Bro what do ya think will a boy be allowed to marry a japanese
Love marriage is worst
love marrige aapne cast me karo koe dikat nahi hai intercast me dikat hai
In love marriage arguments and fightings is also expressed with only love, but then suddenly it becomes correct because of their love..but in arrange marriage both will have ego problem & the small matter circulates the whole family and the family members will make the problem too big and finally 👎👎👎👎....
Love marriage I don't think it will work
❤️ Love marriage