don't dim your light for anyone... EVER.
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In this episode of 'Big Sis Advice', Elle encourages her listeners to never dim their light for anyone. She discusses the importance of being true to oneself and not allowing others to influence or suppress their natural shine. Elle suggests if people around are unable to appreciate and celebrate your light, it's better to move on and find people who can. She further discusses the significance of surrounding oneself with supportive and positive people, sharing her personal experiences. Elle also talks about societal beauty standards and the difference between the public objective consumerist type of beauty and the private objective type of beauty. She shares her journey of dealing with negative people and urges listeners to not let them win. Elle emphasizes the need to reject people's negative projections and focus on improving their own lives. The episode ends with Elle's powerful reminder to never dim your light for anyone.
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The audacity the average man has in measuring women's beauty all the time is wild. Imagine if women turned the tables and raised the bar for men to appeal to the female gaze. I wish, I hope, and I challenge women to have the same amount of audacity in turning the tables on men with average looks!
I do it all the time. And men lose their gd minds when I tell them most of them are ugly. But funny enough they get madder when I tell them for most men it has nothing to do with them being born "ugly" but the fact they don't take care of themselves or dress in any stylish way.
The way they absolutely seethe is hilarious.
Let’s do it! Done with the double standards lol
Audacity downloaded ❤, I will shift my perspective and do exactly this. 🥰🥰 I love when we women get together and create a better understanding 🥰🥰
In the animal world, its the males who decorate themselves to get a partner.... As it should be.
@@decoraqueena6413 🏆 👏 👏 👏
I once saw a youtube comment that started "as a self proclaimed pretty girl" and that honestly changed my perception to ohh I don't need anybody's permission to be beautiful.
😳 I’m proclaiming that.. right.. now!! 🙌
I love this sentiment!
literally i see so many beautiful women every day in my life, but when it comes to attractive men im like where are they... and then they have the audacity to call a pretty woman unattractive when the man looks like they dont know what a shower looks like
😅😅😅😅 or a toothbrush, soap, a clean pair of underwear, a comb, haircut, deodorant and nail clippers.
And struggles to find the right clothes that actually fight and suit an adult man. 😂
@@vikki8699 They want their mom/wife to pick it for them.
Fr😂😂
And they say our looks don't matter to women ,and I'm like sir, I'm a woman and say it really matters
100%
“They never water their lawn that’s why the grass is always greener…” big download 👏🏼👏🏼
Numerous bars!
This lady fully brings it hard with nothing but facts!! Legend.
Maybe I'm "too much". Maybe my abundance reminds you that you're lacking.
touche
Literally the biggest flex I had once during a break up was the guy said, “You’re too much!” and perfectly calm, I responded, “No, you’re just not enough.” Buddy lost his mind.
When someone tells me I'm, "too much," I tell them to 🗣️ GO FIND LESS.
Then as any Scorpio would, I block and delete them from my life. 😊
"consume media that makes you shine brighter" - that's why I
watched all of your videos at least twice, you're a light of sanity in this insane world
I’m on my way through every video for the second time. Reprogramming my brain fr
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Same!!!
Absolutely.
loool same. i rewatched some of her videos at least couple times. love it
I always say women get who they want, men get who they can 🥂
Omg this!!! ❤ Thank you! I love it!! 👏👏
I hope manifesting works 🫶
@@heyizzjust ‘know’ that it works 😘
@@heyizz It always works in some way or form. If anything, it puts you into a different mindset that builds your resilience and helps to align you better with similar people.
@@cornwallismorgan874 idk if I can "manifest" the kind of man I want in my notoriously vain city 😂
If calling yourself “pretty” is uncomfortable, try calling yourself “attractive”. When I have an attractive mindset I take better care of myself for myself and it makes me feel “beautiful”!
okaay thx
Soooo good!!
When Elle said she was pretty I cringed, and not because she's not pretty. She's objectively and societally beautiful.
However, society has so deeply ingrained in us women that we are never allowed to own our own beauty.
It shows exceptional self-awareness to be able to recognize your cringe was about conditioning and not something to be believed. We're always gonna have those thoughts we were programmed with, the trick is not buying it when they come up which is what you did. This is the work of deconstruction. Love it.
@@evergreenforestwitchagreed! we have the power of choice - to choose what we believe in, so we can rewire our mind and deconstruct society’s programming ❤
@@Joyce-om2rc wholeheartedly agree!
Go walk over to your mirror and call that girl pretty right now!!!
@@llamababiezhellyeahNo! Call her beautiful.
I did a bro purge two months ago, also a “people who are rude to me” purge, and it might sound a bit exaggerated to someone people, but my life it’s finally starting to sound how I always wanted to be. So peaceful, so much time for myself, realizing how much time a spent explaining and defending myself instead of just having a good time with friends. Respect is everything.
thats so nice! keep going babe.
LOVE THIS ❤💯❤ Same here, Cheers 🥂💃🥂
Elle is the sister I always needed and never had.
Same 🥹
Can relate. My sister can be the biggest hater ever. She used to compete with me to get attention from our mom
I'm just so thankful that my little sister is receptive to listening to her!
@@thundercascadia same ❤
Yes! Especially as an eldest daughter, she’s a real role model to me
This is so well articulated. the way a man treats a women he cant sexualize is a huge indicator of his character
It’s so sad when the women that raised you mother sister aunts, want to dim your light 🥀
Tell me about it. My mum and my Dad's mum use to always say to me, "why can't you be like so 'n' so's daughter?". "Why are you so fully of energy? Why can't you be normal?", "God, you're embarrassing!".
And my favourite "Oh look, she's showing off!" - They use to say this at my award ceremonies for excellent work, achievements or talking to people in higher status then us.
I learned to no longer let their words dim my light. Now, I burn them with being too bright.
I recommend you do the same. Those guys want you to dim your light because secretly, they're jealous you are brighter then them and they don't want you to succeed where they lack.
Keep shining lovely! Shine brighter then a star! 🌟
The best revenge is a healthy, thriving life well lived. ❤
Love that last line!⚘
@@vikki8699 🌸🌷
That’s the saddest part. It comes from a place of jealousy. When you are better looking and/or more intelligent than your female relatives, including your own mother, they try so hard to dim your light. 😢
I was told by a man i was interested in that my laughter was annoying.
I have too much hobbies, energy, too much interests and always on the move. It honestly got to my head and I consciously tried to stop smiling and laughing so this video is sincerely God sent and what was needed. Thank you a lot ❤
He wanted to drag you down to his miserable, insecure level
that’s an insecure man if I’ve ever seen one. I’m sorry but he’s not the one 💖 I’m sure you’re great!!
Don’t let the inner voice of toxic exes before your own inner voice.
I broke up with my bare minimum low-level effort, long term boyfriend yesterday after he brought up paying my rent..again (That is his job as far as I'm concerned). He low-key thought he could eventually get me to lower my standards. Not only do I not feel sad, life has gone on and I'm good. I'm already making plans for my second "glow up", strengthening my female friendships, and get a bigger bag. Slept better last night than I have in months! 😅 There is nothing easier to get than a man. 😂
Happy for you!!
Walking arrogantly? I swear peoples projections get crazier by the day.
I have friends who are intelligent, fun and funny but when their bf's or husbands are around, they become quiet and boring. Almost like they're scared of saying something that will offend their guys or they don't want them seeing that part of them.
Women shouldn't desperately look forward to girl's nights because it's the only opportunities for them to be themselves. Why would anyone want to live with a guy who makes them feel uncomfortable being themselves. Seems like living in a prison having to dim your light for some guy who is below you.
That’s so sad! Also a scary thought and Im terrified that I’ll accidentally end up with a mediocre man who brings this out of me
Dang! This hit home for me
Came right on time. Been dealing with people who want to make me small my whole life. Now I know they don’t get to even be a background character in my own life.
Me too 😔 and its sad when they are your closest family members.. they’ve been the hardest to let go.. but I have to, I cannot take it anymore
@@evamontheiro i’ve had to go no contact with most of my family and my whole life looked up soon after. Blood means nothing without love and respect.
@@slayfaee yeah...
“People who looked like they snuck onto earth…” 😆I’m dying, girl you are so funny I just love your content!
If you read this, drink some water 💙💙💙
I can go outside and point out a bunch of women of all ages who look beautiful.
I can only point 1 man out if i am lucky.
Having awareness and confidence isnt narcissism. Narcissists come across as confident but they need the validation of others to feel good. They're basically toddlers in adult bodies, and I wish more people knew this instead of putting women in their place by trying to keep us humble.
the truest truth 🤯
perfect timing bae. I need to get rid of some "friends"
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 im here for it
When I came across your channel, I was not expecting you to drastically change my life. Keep up the good work, girl! Too many women have been fed lies and we deserve to know our worth truly
my world shone brighter after watching her vids. All my life surrounded by insecure people, she is the adult i wish i had in my life. Now im inspired to be the adult little me needed.
Same, Elle educates me so much! My self image and standards have improved so much since watching her
She’s changed my life for sure - she’s the sister AND dad I never had 😅
Remember the brighter your light the more shadows you cast.
Why did I instantly think of Simone Biles...
Anytime I think of how he said that he didn't know who she was at first and how she was the one that chased him and he didn't care that much about her just to be cool in front of some bros that think he's a loser for the same reason, it breaks my heart.
the crazy thing is that those men were praising her and thought he was out of line. he did it on his own when even the interviewers were trying to make him sound better.
I was having a bad day and so I got dressed to go out, my "friend" immediately goes on to say how my dress doesn't suit me at all. I feel super insecure now, but I'll try to keep the things you said in mind, much love❤
People who go out of their way to attack you are spilling their secrets of you can decode them. She's saying you look too good in that. She's gonna look ugly if you stand next to her looking so good. ❤ a true friend will tell you how you look so good and how that color makes you shine. She's a frienemy. She's around to steal your light.
Please block and delete or slow fade bc that’s a jealous, monitoring spirit right there not a friend
Only go out with friends who tell you how beautiful you look in that dress girl!
It was a guy actually, so worse I guess, but you guys have really given me the courage. I'm gonna show up for myself in the same dress with my head held high. I hope you guys find someone to uplift you on those difficult days, just like you did for me today!
@@slayfaee That's not true. If my friend is wearing something unflattering then I tell her. I'm not about to let her get a photo later in the night and have her ask me "Why'd you let me wear that?" I got my friend's back!
I stopped using TikTok and Instagram, and only go on RUclips to watch uplifting content like this one, because I realized I was letting a lot of toxic garbage get to me. I was constantly insecure and angry. I put my phone down and grabbed a good book instead. Not only that, but yesterday I put an end to my one year situationship with this guy that was affecting my self esteem so much I haven’t taken any pictures of myself in months. It’s not easy to take the first steps but I feel much lighter now.
I'm tired of guys being mean to me coz they have a crush on me but don't know how to treat me. I treat myself really well! 💌
If a guy is rude to you and gas lights you inti thinks he likes you, don't believe it. It is a precursor to DV and grape.
this is sooo good to hear. i feel like ive been dimmed and held back because of my bf for a while. and now I have this amazing opportunity to buy my mom’s neighbor’s house, but he doesn’t want me to do it because I live with him, and he doesn’t want to pay me rent to live there together because he wants equity in the house if his money will be going towards a mortgage. even though it’s so much better than our small apartment AND his rent would be cheaper, but he’s too entitled to do it. like sorry sir, you’re my BOYFRIEND. NOT my husband. you don’t get equity in my house just for paying your monthly half to live there and benefit. he wouldnt even be helping with the down payment, it would be all me. wtf are these dudes on. literal entitled babies.
I hope he’s an EX boyfriend now. ❤
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If folks can't handle your light, that's their problem, not yours. Stay spoiled, girlies!
"People who look like they snuck onto Earth" had me rolling! 😂
Let me start off by saying I am 47 y/o
I wish you were around when I was in my early 20’s. These young ladies and even pre -teens girls need to hear what you are saying.
It is so spot on and I have the experience to attest to it.
I’m subscribed just to support you spreading the message.
You may not have had a big sis but you def have an auntie rt here gurl ❤
Somewhat unrelated but since we're talking look and how others perceive you...Honestly, I love giving compliments to other women. I love seeing the smile on their face and you can just see that they weren't expecting it per se but they like that someone acknowledge the efforts they put into looking good! The same way that sometiles, just receiving a compliment on my outfit makes my day. I want others to experience this feeling too 🥰
I so needed this right now. I feel like I’m naturally a super high energy and talkative person but a lot of people have made me feel I needed to tone it down cuz they weren’t on my level, so recently I dimmed my light and have been depressed
You are going to be like you were before ❤
@@beatrizrosa2272 thank you
"Luck is a statistical phenomenon when you consistently think and act a certain way". Biggest insight of the day!
From now on if someone questions me I'll say "Well big sis Elle said..."
Ty
Guys don't lower your standards because of other's
Absolutely never dim your light! I learned too late.
I grew up in a toxic household and this big sis advice format is something I would've needed badly ♥
Life really does become so much more colorful and saturated when you are truly thriving, celebrated, and living in gratitude and love. People seem to think that it's the norm for life to become more greyscale as you get older, but I truly believe that is the effect of unaddressed depression, anxiety, and low-vibration status from not livin in their light!!
Elle posts her stuff at 8am and knows we'll start the day off with her wisdom!
I wish I learned this earlier in life tbh
You’re gorgeous. That’s why they call you mid because they want to humble you. Keep being you bestie❤❤❤❤
Needed this ❤️ I m an elder daughter of a brown Indian Family
I m unlearning so much conditioning watching you ☝️
I love this video Elle!! Thank you! ❤
I have been there and I've done that. I dimmed my light so someone else could shine or not feel so bad for not being as bright and guess what? They hated me anyway. They treated me poorly and even resented me.
Being a people pleaser was a curse and that I actually needed to walk through hell to unlearn.
Now, when people tell me to dim my light because "you're too much", I shine so much brighter that I burn them.
I still feel guilty for doing it however I remind myself that when I ever did dim my light, those people hated me anway. So I might as well keep being me.
Confident, happy, goofy and creative.
Thank you for this beautiful video! You are absolutely right. ❤❤
A lot of people told me if you have Scorpio in your alignments or whatever, then you will constantly find people to either be extremely attracted to you or be extremely repelled by you. Scorpios have an intense energy to them
This is true. Scorpio is the sign of extremes, and people either love or hate them. No in between.
True! I’m Scorpio rising and my light brings out other women’s shadows. I have very few female “friends”
I love this video Elle, and honestly conversations like this make me so happy to be a woman.
The fact that men and some women feel the need to project so haaard just to bring you to some level is baffling -
I can see beauty in the various compartments that collectively make up another person and it doesn’t even always have to be physical and it feels like these men are so cursed to be short sighted in that. like they are literally struggling to see the light in themselves, which is why they project so much darkness
I think there are bizarre standards of beauty these days. I think most people rank between a 6 and an 8. It’s like a high school class. The average isn’t a D. it’s a C+. For most people any reasonable effort (clothes, hair, hygiene) gets above a 5.
You are 100% correct. Most people on this earth are “average”, even the celebrities on the “Most Beautiful People” lists. What separates a lot of “pretty people” from others is they know how to work with what they got to make themselves look better by enhancing their conventionally attractive features and minimizing/hiding their not-so-attractive features.
As an only child
Thank you Elle for exuding such a warm energy along with giving me all these advices 💕
Elle is pretty, wise and we love her.
Greetings from Germany.
I am a plant! I need to be re-potted 😔
I have been made out to be the villain, the trouble maker, the lazy one throughout my life because I choose not to live how other people wanted me to. And that pushed me to have a delusional negative sense of self. I did not hurt anyone, I chose a different path and that made me ‘wrong’ I’m still working on healing but this episode helped
You were the scape goat :(
I hope you escaped and now living your best life 😘😘
@@vikki8699 Thank you. I haven’t escaped completely but I’m still working on it. Progress is there even if it’s slow 💕
"people who look like they snuck onto earth calling me names" 😂🤣😂
I am sitting in front of the class today✨
Find people who *grow* from your light! There are bright, shiny, _successful_ people whose inner light motivates me to keep achieving. *YOU'RE* one of those people. I look forward to these videos, like mana. *THANK YOU!*
People go after other people's looks because of internal issues. Remember, they want to tear you down because they are seated so low.
It's so true that if we don't dim our light we have to change the people around us and unfortunately that can mean choosing not to hang with old friend groups who might not accept you anymore. I've done that in the past, where I've stopped following some people on social media and I've stopped going to some social circles because those environments were just making me feel depressed and felt like I wasn't going to be accepted for being myself. Oh my god! When you started to talk about the walking and the gait thing and people staring, that happens to me in public a lot. Or when I say good morning to someone, they will sigh and walk away. It makes me wonder, is it me or are they just having a bad day in their personal life?
If you say, "Good morning" to someone and their response is to sigh then it's them not having a good morning & has nothing to do with you. btw it's 5:30pm so "Have a good evening" :)
Moving is too expensive...I'm literally stuck with an abusive man because he convinced me not to go to work and screwed up my work history. I don't make good enough money right now to even get in a different place. I'm trying to work on that but it's hard out here.
Consider remote work. Even if it pays less if it is stable you can move. Essentially you could move for a year somewhere low cost but beautiful in another country. Ironically sometimes that scenario is easier. Put current items in a storage locker and pay for a year or two and only take your important things with you.
Keep the faith lovely. Move in silence.
If you have soneone trustworthy to help you or to go to, do it!
I hope you get out of there asap! Stay safe lovely. 😘
Dont give up and do what you can to find work, even remotely! Once you have saved enough, leave him and life will change 1000% better I promise 1
You are extremely pretty!!! & I love you know it!!
Keep saying it boldly. Men try to shame women into low self esteem. YES “the average man is ugly” YEP LOOK AT THE GROCERY STORE!!! I get started at by so many unattractive old men … STARING IS RUDE YOU WEIRDOS!!!
So true “the people with the most beautiful souls are the most beautiful” ❤❤❤ it’s soooo true ❤❤❤
I feel you girl, I have been attacked and humiliated in front of my colleagues because a women shouted at me saying I had pretty privilege and that I was looking rich. When the only thing I did was to.. exist. And then followed the gossiping, exclusion.. a classic in my life at this point 😅
YASSS i'm a scorpio too and my school life was me being constantly bullied, like i had a bulls eye on me. boys and girls were verbally and physically abusive to me. but hey guess what? you only throw rocks at the fruit at the top of the tree! i'm not a piece of fruit rotting on the ground. :)
This was recommended to me just now - might be a sign from god!
I dim my light for my siblings all the time lmao i need to get over my fear of being pretty talented gorgeous and charming
Do a video on “Are we dating the same guy?”. All our groups are getting taken down on fb, and we deserve to be able to warn other women about the bad guys.
That’s so crazy. We need to quit dating men.
Hey, Elle. Your content has really helped me understand how this world works, especially in navigating the male perspective. Thank you so much. Sending love from Brazil! ❤
FYI. You are stunning. Regardless of what anyone thinks
But bright lights attract PESTS 😂 I'm a naturally beautiful woman and honestly, I dim my light purposely to be safe in this pests filled world. Every time when I shine (dress nicely, do my hair, standard stuff) I attract more men = more danger&idiots, more jealousy and bad energy. I always feel so down and drained when I come back home. So I try to dim my light because to me, being perceived as pretty is not worth the bad emotions and experiences I get. Believe me, being pretty and standing out is not good for you. Nails that stand out get hammered and you become a target. I don't care about validation, I just want to be invisible all of the time and not being stared at FOR MINUTES no matter what I do. Men send you the worst energy when they stare disgustingly, it's exhausting. But women too, they stare even longer idk why. It's truly exhausting, especially if you're a hyper sensitive introvert. I look like an Insta model and have anxiety all the damn time. People and their reactions to me have become worse over the last 10 years. Nobody has manners anymore.
Being ugly makes you feel like crap but being pretty makes you also feel like crap. See a pattern there? Men just make women feel like crap no matter how we look! It's not us, it's them!
Exactly ! I still struggle with this.
Sometimes I just want to do my hair on a casual day and wear clothes that I love, but I know I'll be looked at like I was some kind of alien out of jealousy.
"Oh you're overdressed blahblah" Sir let me do groceries in my favourite silk dress if it makes me happy !
So I learned to blend in, to only wear the classical jean / tee-shirt combo, and it's so freaking sad.
I did it long enough to lose myself.
Now I can only dress "up" in the safety of my home, when I'm in hermit mode.
Does anyone else have a solution on how to wear what makes us happy without receiving disgusting or hateful stares ?
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EVEN SERVANTS SHALL EVOLVE.✔️
Goddess posted again. 🌸❤️❤️❤️🌸🌸😭🥰🥰🥰🥰🙇🏻♀️
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She is the big sis I always needed but never had fr
My big sister (idk you're older, I meant by your wisdom), I love your videos, I was rewatching some of your videos because I really wanted reassurance inside my heart.
I had so many problematic relationships that its still hard for me to take up space and believe i deserve to do it. I need to change
Where was the first 37 seconds a month ago when my job was trying to gaslight me over *THEIR* mistakes 😩❤️
Great new concept ! I wished I had videos like that when I was a teenager, when the norm was to drag girls down, and to tell girls that they have no worth and arrogant for wanting better things in their life you are a true blessing !
Elle is so beautiful. I can’t believe anyone would say all that nonsense. And I also knew that definition of beauty from the article she mentioned - indeed the faces perceived as beautiful are average or slightly deviating. That’s what we like. ❤
It's crucial to be mindful of the friends you have during your formative years. If your friends try to belittle you or undermine your worth, it can have a lasting impact on your adult life. You might find yourself constantly trying to compensate, playing catch-up, and engaging in a lot of self-reflection in order to rebuild the self-love and confidence that you couldn't develop during that time.
I suggest that anyone in their teens (and even early 20s) re-evaluate their friendships and influences so they don't end up in a similar situation to mine. I had to "dim my light" for people who were insecure with themselves and just recently learned to accept the fact that it was not my job to appease their bruised egos.
saying to urself "im pretty" and trying ur absolute hardest to believe it, is such a light feeling. it's like u shrug off everyone's expectations including ur own all at once. it doesnt even matter if it's 'true' (beauty being subjective anyway). it's such a nice feeling when u let go of all the negativity and celebrate yourself, i promise
Shoot wait till you get to "beautiful" and "gorgeous" you'll start making yourself blush lol highly recommend
Can you make a video on why some women get jealous of other women even when they're doing better in their lives? I never really understood this one.
It’s not just women babe - men now also envy women
Thank you Goddess big sis 💗 everyone share this🌷
I’m so glad I found your channel! I had so many girlfriends get envious and jealous of me when all I tried to do was have their back and best interest. You’re so relatable and made me realize I’m not alone wanting the best for women. I just have to have strong boundaries now and keep things to myself. You’re the best! 💜💜
Human is in quotes bc we are still barely human when we are pretty in their eyes
Being tall, average or pretty and raised by parents who adore you will make you generally hated by people with low self-esteem. It shows up in dirty looks, malicious gossip or hurtful put downs in the form of ‘jokes.’
Thank you, Elle. As a perfectionist and orphan young woman, I needed that message. I am always working and studying to honour my parents. It has become a life purpose for me. Being a good girl and following always the rules gets tiring and I forget myself sometimes with all the responsibilities. Keep shining, Elle 💝💘💖💓💞💕 To all the people who read this message, you are loved and you are bright. Never let others tell you aren't. Any time you are sad, remember: Don't cry, because your tears are like pearls. That was one of my grandmas tips💞💖
People will be mad that you will not dim your light and doubly so when you swap them out
Truth, thank you! They are always wanting to dim my light but my light will shine brighter everyday. I either trigger you or you’re chasing after me whether you’re a stranger or friend. I love myself, value myself, and absolutely care for myself!
One of the things that father’s side of the family asked me before they betrayed me was do I think I’m beautiful? And I said I know I am. They were very angry.
This message came in the right time! I was just reflecting how I picked up so many bad habits from my ex jealous friends who used to compete and compare with me. I started acting like them. And I was like wait that's not me! I am so grateful for making new better healthier friends. Move! And choose better.
This video is so healing for me. Thanks Elle ❤
I'm above average and I don't even wear make up. But it doesn't make finding good men easier in my experience.
So true, I feel like I get approached less going for overweight to fit
If you wanna know who is jealous of your beauty just call yourself beautiful out loud randomly while checking yourself out and see others reaction. This saves you so much time
ALSO - the Devil only wants to destroy those who choose to be a Child of God. so the devil doesn't try and destroy his own minions. the (evil) world hates good people. let that sink in.
The devil wants to destroy everyone regardless of their religious affiliation. MOST people are good regardless of their religion or lack thereof.
i wish everyone had a family like yours, it would change the world so much~
A man on a dating app, aka the deepest layer of hell, said not to come at him with ‘I deserve…, whatever you deserve is to be earned.’ I asked him if ‘that means he doesn’t deserve a woman until he earns a woman? Are we talking about inherent worth?’ Then I realized he prob doesn’t know what inherent means. Lolllll.
This is a below bare minimum man. This type of guy will ask to slit 50/50 with you for sure. Glad you saw him through. Dating apps have tons of leftover men or sowmthing. I never use any dating apps for dating. Go outside and find a real man.
Today the algorithm warns me about bad men, first I saw a video about why men who cheat are bullshit, then a "husband stitch" and now this, the universe is telling me that I'm taking the right decision about being single forever, I usually don't watch that amount of vidos about the bad partners or *men the same day, I watch one and days later other, I listen music all day and I only watch gossip related to Hollywood and Government on my breakfast. I like to read romance from time to time and I know that is fantasy just as I wrote on dystopians stories, not reality, *men are everywhere.
girl this is your choice but there are many good men out there. they just dont use internet, they are not online. elle has film about that topic, watch it!
@@anonim34025 I'm planning to move to other city because I can't find a job here and unfortunately here is the single mothers land since I was a child and I don't see that changes.
Yeah, I found out about the "husband stitch" a couple years ago.. it's pure disrespect to the new mother, bcuz it makes s-x very painful for her. Her pleasure and autonomy over her body... like the fact you basically have to demand to your birthing team BEFOREHAND "NO husband stitch" but I've seen where husbands still went behind women's backs and asked for it & got it. I've also seen where a woman was adamant w/her birthing team "no husband stitch!" and she was still given one, but when she got home she cut that one herself. I'm just glad the rest of her stitches didn't unravel.
@@silververnallbells191 That's horrible, in my country is totally illegal because it's affect the women life, on labor room the husband doesn't have the right of ask for whatever he wants, even the child name is asked to moms, if husband start asking to doctor for things he wants the doctor can kick him out.
I hear cases when husband ask for the extra stitch and doctor told him "yes, I will stitch your private parts".
I'm proud of you, for doing this youtube channel and sharing your best advice for the sake of women and girls. You've correctly recognized that the world is hostile to femininity and your resources/people are the exception rather than the rule. Instead of despairing or retreating into a hole, you've repeatedly put out videos addressing the lack of confidence, sisterhood and life skills denied to so many in an approachable format. I'm proud of what you've done so far, and I hope to see you do so much more. I think you're really making a difference.
Shine bright sisters ✨
Everything you're saying and doing is 100% completely correct. Please never go to a party or gathering with people who try to bring you down. The jealous and evil can go so deeply in people. You are better than them. Period. Full stop.
just smiled when I got a notification