If the worst thing I have to deal with in New Zealand is a stare, then I'm okay with that! I have to get out of the US where I have to worry about getting stared at AND killed by a cop, or killed by a domestic terrorist in a movie theater.
Right? Considering the current state of things and history of US, staring, with out anyone at all being racist, is seriously not even a real problem 😄 unless you're a self conscious introvert and really want to be invisible..
Well I'm a Maori a native of New Zealand an if u do come to my home country I would like to say on behalf of us kiwis we welcome you with arms wide open
Spend time in the UK and had a gentleman stare down me and a friend as we sat and ate in a cafe. We were both from the states. And we couldn't help noticing that he was staring at us and we looked at him where he proceeded to then talk to us. He apologized for staring, but he wasn't used to hearing our American accents and he found it fascinating listening to us talk, never thought I had an accent till then... LOL!
I know the feeling.... but in reverse. I’m Maori and when I was the U.S I got stared at... or had people start speaking to me in Spanish because they thought I must be Latino. 😂😁✌🏽
lol My bonus kids, husband and I will be going to the US at the end of June and I am telling the kids that they will probably get people speaking Spanish to them. lol It is understandable, especially because we are going to Arizona and Texas.
LOL I'm Samoan originally from NZ and when I was in NYC I had random people speak to me in Spanish and got asked if I was Puerto Rican, Dominican or Mexican. I stayed in Brooklyn so I liked that I didn't really stick out as a tourist though.
Nothing to do with race, skin colour or hair. You are just simply beautiful, and it would be difficult NOT to stare at you. Sorry to be blunt. Just a fact.
Not daily, at least not that I've noticed. When I first arrived here, 23 years ago now, it wasn't uncommon to get some looks. I rarely took offense or felt uncomfortable about it as it was always due to curiosity from what I could tell. The first few years I was here I actually got stopped on the street twice for conversations about my ethnicity and told how nice it was, as an African American, to have me here. I found that to be quite refreshing after being occasionally feared (people clutching their belongings and locking their doors) in passing back in the US... 😏
Fellow African American female about to move to Wellington in April! As someone who travels a lot, I've definitely experienced "the stare". Lol. I'll be ready for it when it comes in NZ.
Sweetie 48421 there’s people that are of a darker complexion in NZ with crazier hairstyle, Wellington will be a breeze because it’s a bit more laid back
as a kiwi, I would have to say just to smile and perhaps a "hey" as you walk might help?.. it really is simply because the lack of African originated people here. And kiwis are typically very approachable, so we wouldn't think your being snarky in reply by making basic contact like I said above..
Sweetie 48421: If and when you go to New Zealand which is where I'm originally from 50 plus years ago. Anyway I'm a white man, when I took a trip back there after many years of living in Canada, people would stare at me when they heard me talk because they thought I was an American and at that time 1987 there was some political upheaval over New Zealand being anti nuclear And the United States (president Reagan) and even Britain (PM Thatcher) were putting political pressure on New Zealand over that.However, I was about to confront one or two people who started getting a little snarky with me, but believe it or not, there own family and friends came to my defense and put them in their places. So if people do stare at you I wouldn't take it too personal because there could be many reasons for that and their not all bad. Cheers.
They stare at you thinking are you Fijian? Samoan? Tongan? Cant be...don't quite know where youre from? You're unique looking so people will stare curiously wondering which tribe or clan you are.
Well that's the thing. Black Americans are unusual here so yes people look. They're not trying to be rude, you're just unusual. We're used to Tongans, Fijians, Samoans and most of the Pacific islands, but you don't look like a Pacific islander. Frankly I think making a big deal out of curiosity is making a mountain out of a molehill.
To be fair, I'm a Black woman and I got the stare when I went to parts of Wyoming and Iowa here in my own country, mind you! Plus I get the old "No, where are you REALLY from?" 👀 Dude, I'm American! Several family lines have been here since the early eighteenth century! One line has been here for thousands of years (Apache), WTF people?! 😫
Kiwi born, here.. It is cool seeing more and more AAs around NZ in recent years.. You see, America is like one huge movie to us.. or me, at least.. and seeing a AA guy, shirt off, going for a run down my street felt like he jumped straight out the TV screen haha.. Theres no hate.. its just something that isnt common here.
It's more of a "whoa! Cool! That's happening HERE!" Right? It's so funny, because I'm from south Russia and year before last I went to a little village near my town to go to the beach. There were a few dark skinned guys and girls - I imagine they were some students from Africa, as one of the best unis is in my town and does get some international students. But oh, goodness! They had ALL the attention on that beach! Kids and people were running up to them, wanting to take pictures with them. They were trying to enjoy the sea and I remember looking at them standing knee deep in water, with a couple of people coming in and taking pictures with them. I felt bad for the situation, as I can see how that could make someone uneasy.. But I also understand the psychology behind the scenario, how these people that live in a little village, who maybe never have even seen people of that dark of complexion. Obvs, unless you live somewhere where there is some diversity, you probably don't know anything about how to be more gentle in approach to not make people feel uncomfortable..and Russians in general can be a bit overbearing in approach. So.. Yeah. It was quite a situation. Luckily, the dark skinned teens didn't seem to mind it all. They were together, so maybe that helped to feel comfortable being bombarded by all the excited locals? They were all smiles and didn't show signs of being uneasy. I was a bit uncomfortable FOR them haha.. But also from what I've been told, people from Africa don't experience racism in as sensitive of ways, as from the US (of course due to US's insane race dynamics and history) and my understanding of how uncomfortable that situation could have been is based on the US To be fair, though, I know in Asian countries people are all over you and want to take pictures if you're white, so.. 🤷🏾♂️ That's just humans, I guess..
@@spider.monkey.ninja.assassinin some countries where dark skin is extremely rare or unheard of like China or Korea I've heard it can be a bit extreme and borders on racism? I bet for a good looking young African guy in Russia it would be extremely helpful in attracting the local Russian ladies? 😉
Jean Uwumuremyi That is a good question! I have no way of knowing for sure, but I’m pretty sure it has an element of that I look different from the usual faces. The staring maybe be people trying to figure out where I am from.
Jacque Elias it is more a different kind of beauty, that’s what people tend to stare at you. They’re just appreciating humans its not a bad or mean stare its more like a “i wish i had hair like that” or a “oh she looks pretty” type of situation , it literally just you different features that make people stare.
Thank you for your channel. My girlfriend is black and planning on coming to New Zealand. Think these videos are really honest and informative with out being too negative, hopefully they help
Hi there! I'm planning to go to NZ for the month of December. Thank you for sharing your experiences!! I am wondering if you've formed a community with other African American people that I might connect with!!
Hi, I do know a couple of other Black Americans but haven't formed any group or anything. If I did, it would need to be online because we're so spread out. How long are you staying?
Are you still in New Zealand? Have you been to Rotorua? It's near where I live.. 1 of New Zealands' best tourist destinations.. It literally stinks because of the geothermal activity & sulphur, but you get used to it..
Whydoesmy Channelneedaname Yes I live in Wellington. I’ve been to Rotorua but I didn’t get too much time to do touristy things. I did go to Kerosene Creek and saw some bubbly mud.
After our recent election results, I really want to expatriate to another country. New Zealand has always been my first choice. Any advice on making that move?
As a black male who has lived here in New Zealand for all my life. I can definitely say 100% of the time, IT IS NOT RACISM. New Zealanders stare out of intrigue and fascination, most black people they see is through the media so seeing a black person in real life is like seeing a unicorn or a celebrity out of a tv screen. Although this is speaking from my own personal experiences and I have never really experienced any outward racism, maybe the odd micro aggression with a jaded older person but not really. But then again I am signed with the top modelling agency in New Zealand so maybe looking like a black male model could also be a factor in why people stare at me?
I hate the stare, i'm a fellow Maori living in Australia, and when we first moved here we got stared at alot, I guess people were wondering what nationality we were and mind you, we later figured that there weren't many kiwis where we were. It's usually only curiosity because people are not used to seeing or have never seen or heard a certain race around. Im always intrigued when I hear a different accent nearby. Glad your enjoying Aotearoa.
My god! Australia is so full of Maori and Pacific islanders especially the east coast cities! There's about a million people from NZ and the Pacific islands currently living in Australia with more coming every day so it's hard to imagine someone here not knowing what a Maori looked like? I live in Adelaide and in the CBD it's as multicultural as any of the major cities worldwide. You'll see people from all corners of the globe and hear languages you've never heard? If you were shocked by seeing a Maori you would be fascinated just watching the lunchtime crowds walk the streets every day!
Don’t read into it too much. NZ is so diverse all shades of human exist here and live in harmony. You’re not different and Afro’s is common in the Pacific. It’s only a big deal if you make it or want it to be. Sweet as
I remember watching in one of her other videos years ago how she said she was often mistaken for a Fijian here in New Zealand and she does look a lot like a Fijian.
I’m a 63 year old black man who has never been to New Zealand but if I was to visit the country; I wouldn’t mind having people staring at me because I like attention! The black lady in the video was a novelty when she visited New Zealand!
Other African Americans are around but African people have been here since 1960, with greater numbers arriving in the 1980s. I've been here 50+ years. I identify as an AfricanNZer (we actually exist) and so do my sons - but we are a minority within a minority. When Africans stare at you they are trying to figure out where "in Africa" you are probably from, (most likely - we all do it). Its also a habit that is very common in Africa. It threw me when I went home to visit my family and everyone stared LOL!! Like your Tapa cloth in the background btw!
The stare could be compared to a new car on the block where your used to seing your everyday of the mill car and then a new one pulls up and naturally becomes a focus point of interest on so many levels
People Stare out of curiosity , not Racism . I would Stare back and say "Hello ". 😂 and wave 🖐️and just continue walking .lol Life is to short to care about what people think , to be honest if you are black like myself in America and you move in to a white neighborhood , they Stare at you too 😨😨😨😨😨, but that might not be curiousity , it can really be racism ,, so it's everywhere . Lol ( just embrace who you are and keep on stepping ) 😎
My grandson is half African his Mummy has a white complexion because his Dad is part German Scottish and Im from Ck Islands..He is georgous..i have to say his African heritage comes through also Chinese..on his daddys side..
If I ever come to New Zealand, I can't wait to share soul food with the locals, vegan soul food or regular! And I bet you're gonna love sweet potato pie
Really looking forward to your video on how you manage your hair in NZ! I'm moving to Auckland in a few months, and I'm not sure what to expect. There aren't many resources online, so anything you can share would be much appreciated! Please keep posting :)
Lydia Everhart They have a million Black hair RUclips videos though. Btw, Dark and Lovely Au Natural Hair spray is what I use in the summer for the frizz.
These videos have been really helpful. I'll be going to college in New Zealand in a couple of months and I was wondering how do black women get their hair done there. I'm planning on getting locks but I don't have any idea how I would maintain it there.
I'm thinking of moving with my 4 children, its deep on my heart but I'm scared to death about putting my children in an environment I'm not familiar with. Please any advice or encouragement is accepted.
I understand your fear. First, I would say moving to a new country is an experience like no other. You cannot replicate it. It forces you to develop parts of your character that you wouldn't do otherwise. I think getting used to a new culture and surroundings is good for us all. With that said, you know your children best. If they are dealing with mental health issues or other complications, a big move is going to be an even bigger adjustment for them. Many children I've met that have moved from overseas are coping well. Some take more time to adjust than others, but kids, for the most part, are resilient. The adults I have met struggle more than the kids do. The key is to build relationships with people. Second, New Zealand is amazing and the people are very friendly. It is a very different culture than the US, but there are enough similarities, like language and other elements of Western culture, that you can hook onto to find rest from all the newness. Hopefully, that helps.
I'm sorry for the stare. Passing on the street, I'm one who would find it hard to not take a 2nd look for several reasons. The accent, you have a charm with your moves, and your beauty, but mostly the unicorn effect. This silent fascination is not intended to be rude or cause harm...it's a Wow! moment.
Hi! My suggestion is anywhere you can get a job atm. There is more cultural diversity in the North Island, but I know some lovely people in the South Island as well. I personally have lived and loved Auckland and Wellington. I also love Tauranga but only visited. With the economy being so bad right now, many people are having to go back home. Jobs are slim atm, so I would prioritise that.
Hi Jacque. I just came across your videos and how you met your fiance. What a great story! Would you be willing to give an update on how and what you are doing any time soon? Thanks for sharing with us. Praying all is well.
Sometimes My parents and i did get the stares too in the Netherlands or Germany. In my opinion it is stupid, rude and strange if adults do that, but it is not meant that way. You are worth to look at!
Kia ora Jacque, people stare cause they are wondering if your famous, but unlike in america there not going to storm you for an autograph, us kiwis will just stare and think ,'wow, is that Macy Grey , omg i want to meet her , but i dont want to bother her', because i know i would, please dont get put off , us kiwis usually just stare in wonder of natural beauty, of which category you fit.
Again thank you for your outlook on New Zealand I really want to know what the difference is between Living in America and living in those dealing as far as hello beautiful people do you have the same things like healthcare school money jobs things like that
Especially in Asia hell even in Europe I got stared at. In Europe I got mistaken for Cuban, Dominican, or German. In Asia they all think black ppl are from Africa (more ingorance that anything over here in Asia) but it happens no matter where u live at in the world, just embrace it because it’s amazing when ppl stare trying to figure u out. I love that mysterious factor I have. 😆😆
That's probably half the stares I'm sure! I check out attractive Asian and African women on the bus and I wonder when I occasionally get busted looking whether they think I'm being racist? 🤔 I'm not im just being a creep! 😆
Thank you so very much my boyfriend is white an I'm black with locs we are planning on going too New Zealand at the beginning of next year for 2 months an i really appreciate the talk because even when we went to Thailand, Bangkok an Cambodia OMY Goodness not they stared me down an also wanted to take pictures with me they even touch my skin so yes i could stare right back😮but I'm looking forward to it..
If you go to a major city like Auckland or Wellington I wouldn't expect people to stare at you especially in the CBD? The inner city of Auckland is very much a multicultural environment with people of all races and religions living and working together. If you get stares it's probably because of your accent or because they think you're attractive and they're just checking you out? Here in Australia there are people of African descent as well as Indigenous people everywhere especially in the major cities, people in America tend to think of Australia as a white country but it's extremely multicultural and around 15% of the population is non white. In the big cities of Sydney and Melbourne there are entire suburbs where you will struggle to find a white person! It's not quite as multicultural or large in New Zealand but they definitely have a fairly large immigrant population of African descent so it's not unusual for a new Zealander to see people of different races daily. People are making it seem like rural China or Mongolia where they literally never see anyone other than their own people and seeing a dark skinned person on the street would be the most exciting thing the town had seen in years! 😆
Hmmm... I’ve never noticed people staring at interracial couples here, all my relationships have been interracial... Maori are technically half caste These days, perhaps people here are socialised to seeing Polynesian and white interracial relationships, so no one pays attention to those. Anything else seems exotic and new(?)... as a Sociology major I find this interesting. # Thesis? 😁✌🏽
In this day and age whether it's in New Zealand, Australia or America it's safe to say it's pretty rude and probably racist if someone is blatantly staring at you and your inter racial partner!
Just smile and give a little wave with good morning, afternoon etc. Probably stare because you are a beautiful young woman and some folks probably think you are a famous movie star or singer!
PS good luck this winter!!! Winter in NZ always makes me want to move to Arizona ha!! Tip: celebrate midwinter Christmas and go all-out. Cuz Wellington winter + no Christmas = major sad!
Everytime I go to the Hospital or University here in Australia I hear the American accent everywhere! It's cool trying to decipher which part of the country the accent is from? 😆
Here in Hamilton we have one of the highest concentrations of black people living in NZ within our city boundary, mainly from Somalia. There's a big chunk of young ones at my university - men and women. Nowadays most Somalis are NZ born. If I see a non-somali black person, I'm amazed. I definitely notice since most Somalis especially the girls wear Islamic style fashion. I don't stare though I think that's rude, I'd rather say something if I was that curious 😄.
It’s weird how many people are commenting attempting to discredit this woman’s experience. She said she’s never experienced racism in NZ but that doesn’t mean people don’t stare out of racism. A simple google search will show you that African refugees experience a ton of racism and xenophobia in NZ. Knowing that it’s not uncalled for when a black person who has experienced racism their whole life to be guarded and weary when people stare. Yes sometimes it admiration but let’s not act like these behaviors can’t also be tied to racism because that simply isn’t true. It makes no sense for people that aren’t black to dictate when a black person is and isn’t experiencing racism…
I’m A Kiwi This is Absolute Cap… if Your Live Streaming in Weird Places You’ll Get Stared At As We Like Our Privacy & Never interfere or Annoy Tourists…. If Someone is Looking At You in NZ They Usally Are Wanting To Talk To You & Eye Contact is important in Our Culture…. 🇳🇿🤙
maybe yr just cute? I think yr taking one encounter as happening all the time maybe, small complaint if u ask me considering every country isnt perfect, every country can be picked at....also my mama taught me that everything said before "but" means nothing lol......says being stared at happened everywhere she goes, after saying it happened in 2 cities ......hmmmm Im thinking this happened only twice....yes yr rare thats why maybe a couple people stared in yr direction. All kinds of people look of all ages...so it cant be racism
The reason behind the stares is, you're gorgeous. You look so cute . The hairs? We stare because we never have beautiful hairs like yours. My hairs like lion mane to be honest.
There are not a lot of African or African Americans in New Zealand so firstly there is the novelty factor to account for people staring. The further south you travel like in the South Island you will see far greater proportion of white people ( too cold haha) . If you were in Auckland the largest city you could be mistaken for a Melanesian person, Fijian , Vanuatu , Solomon Islands because of your hair and colouring and you wouldn't stand out particularly in South Auckland with lots of other brown people. I would think the main reason is that you are very attractive and probably dress relatively well. NZers are notorious for how casual and scruffy we are plus we like to wear black a lot. Ive noticed African Americans often wear bright colours like Polynesians which adds to the lookability..
As a Kiwi, I couldn't care less about the color of your skin. Yes there will be some ignorant and racist people here but I can imagine half of them would be looking because you are gorgeous. Also because that hair/hairstyle is quite rare here so it could just be out of curiosity in my opinion. Half my family is white/NZ European and half is maori
We're the country furthest from the rest of the world, most kiwis have a natural interest in tourists and people from other places. If people are staring I'm sure 99% of the time its not in a bad way.
Haha, when I was in the Philippines, I was stared at all the time. In your case, I'm guessing that it's because you're so pretty. Also, your hairstyle isn't common in NZ.
Thanks for sharing. By any chance, are you still in New Zealand? Any plans on creating more videos? We will definitely stay tuned. :D By the way.... is there a way to contact you? The ladies of Expat Divas would love to see more of your videos. Keep in touch.
lived in Malaysia for many years in a town where i was one of the first black people to land. the stares made me feel very special.. sometimes the naughty boys would chant 'Bob Marly Bob Marley'.. lol.. if u cant handle such things then just stay where you are. i grew up in a rural African village where we would run after a car especially if it had a white person inside.. i bet those white people felt special too
I'm very much interested on visiting NZ for like a 2 month stay. If I came could we be friends? I'm a sister too. Would love to have company there. Once this whole Covid virus is a thing of the past of course.
I'm Maori, a kiwi. I would stare because you are different to the rest of us, human curiosity. The point is are you offended ? Secondly have you opened a conversation to ask why they are staring at you ? Talking about it on social media before directing a question to the starer to ask why..seems to be the American way.. why is that ? Do social media comments give you answers before considering a direct approach.. Why does social media play an importance here..
Hi, not offended by it. My AA in NZ videos are about giving other Black Americans who are thinking about coming to NZ an idea of what they might experience. So no I haven't asked someone why they are staring at me because it would be socially inappropriate to stop someone who is walking by or walk up to someone in a waiting room. This video isn't to get answers. It's to provide an answer to a question that Black Americans have about going to another country.
If I saw you on the street unaware of your culture I would think u r Tongan\samoan, your hairtype is common in south auckland. But also most of us don’t mean to be rude, mind you you’re very pretty so that could b the reason but yeah.
Does New Zealand really have so few people of African or Caribbean descent? Here over the ditch in Australia all the major cities have large African immigrant populations as well as people from PNG and Fiji plus there's obviously a lot of indigenous Australians too so its not unusual at all to see darker skinned people and if someone is staring at you as an African person in the middle of a city here i would say it must be racism because it's not exactly exotic? 😆
You need to come to south Auckland lol you'll fit in with us Polynesian and to be honest it will be mainly Europeans given you the stare an I ain't been racist. I'm born an raised in nz south Auckland if I go around to botany,howick area they will look at me like I don't belong there
Jacque Elias: I've lived in Canada since I was only 8 years old, but New Zealand is where I'm originally from. However nice to see you are there probably like a few other African American's, that is aside from a few African English people I met the last time I took a trip back there, but I'm a little surprised you get stared at because I thought you would just about pass for a Fijian or a Pacific Islander which New Zealand does have a lot of, that is aside from the native Maori people, well especially an indigenous Fijian, because they look very similar to Africans, they also have kinky hair and there is quite a number is them in New Zealand. However, it's nice to see that you are venturous. Why? Well I have been to the U.S. a few times and while being there, would you believe me if I told you that I ran into a couple or so people who don't even know Canada exists much less New Zealand?.....Well anyway, you having now spent some time there, I was just curious as to what you think of the native Maori people and their culture now I'm quite sure you have had some exposure to that. I would really like to know if you can find the time to reply. Oh by the way, I hope you like the meat pies. Cheers!.....P.S. If people stare at you, well although staring is not considered polite, I would take it too seriously, reason being is there could be many reasons why they're staring, that is aside from you being attractive like a few others have mentioned in the comments. All the best.
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If the worst thing I have to deal with in New Zealand is a stare, then I'm okay with that! I have to get out of the US where I have to worry about getting stared at AND killed by a cop, or killed by a domestic terrorist in a movie theater.
Parise Easton
Staring happens in America too
Just visit a local suburb
Right? Considering the current state of things and history of US, staring, with out anyone at all being racist, is seriously not even a real problem 😄 unless you're a self conscious introvert and really want to be invisible..
Well I'm a Maori a native of New Zealand an if u do come to my home country I would like to say on behalf of us kiwis we welcome you with arms wide open
@@lanleyheke6578 I'm planning to buy a home in Nelson.
Sad to say Parise Easton. But so true. I really wouldn't mind leaving the U.S..
Spend time in the UK and had a gentleman stare down me and a friend as we sat and ate in a cafe. We were both from the states. And we couldn't help noticing that he was staring at us and we looked at him where he proceeded to then talk to us. He apologized for staring, but he wasn't used to hearing our American accents and he found it fascinating listening to us talk, never thought I had an accent till then... LOL!
Could have been staring at the beauty rather than the accent!!😂👍🏼
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I know the feeling.... but in reverse. I’m Maori and when I was the U.S I got stared at... or had people start speaking to me in Spanish because they thought I must be Latino. 😂😁✌🏽
lol My bonus kids, husband and I will be going to the US at the end of June and I am telling the kids that they will probably get people speaking Spanish to them. lol It is understandable, especially because we are going to Arizona and Texas.
ZAmpedNZ Yes, people do think I am Spanish.
LOL I'm Samoan originally from NZ and when I was in NYC I had random people speak to me in Spanish and got asked if I was Puerto Rican, Dominican or Mexican. I stayed in Brooklyn so I liked that I didn't really stick out as a tourist though.
I used to stay in Brooklyn. One block Spanish, next block Arabic, next block East Indian, ect.
Samething happened to me but in north Dakota
Nothing to do with race, skin colour or hair. You are just simply beautiful, and it would be difficult NOT to stare at you. Sorry to be blunt. Just a fact.
Martin Buck She is beautiful, but don’t pretend that race does not play a factor
@@pastelpepe exactly. You don't have to be in the US to experience racism
Agree...Your energy is lovely and it shows :)
Get yo nasty tale outta here
Always some racist/fetishist talking about race don’t matter.
Not daily, at least not that I've noticed. When I first arrived here, 23 years ago now, it wasn't uncommon to get some looks. I rarely took offense or felt uncomfortable about it as it was always due to curiosity from what I could tell.
The first few years I was here I actually got stopped on the street twice for conversations about my ethnicity and told how nice it was, as an African American, to have me here. I found that to be quite refreshing after being occasionally feared (people clutching their belongings and locking their doors) in passing back in the US... 😏
Fellow African American female about to move to Wellington in April! As someone who travels a lot, I've definitely experienced "the stare". Lol. I'll be ready for it when it comes in NZ.
Sweetie 48421 there’s people that are of a darker complexion in NZ with crazier hairstyle, Wellington will be a breeze because it’s a bit more laid back
as a kiwi, I would have to say just to smile and perhaps a "hey" as you walk might help?.. it really is simply because the lack of African originated people here. And kiwis are typically very approachable, so we wouldn't think your being snarky in reply by making basic contact like I said above..
Sweetie 48421: If and when you go to New Zealand which is where I'm originally from 50 plus years ago. Anyway I'm a white man, when I took a trip back there after many years of living in Canada, people would stare at me when they heard me talk because they thought I was an American and at that time 1987 there was some political upheaval over New Zealand being anti nuclear And the United States (president Reagan) and even Britain (PM Thatcher) were putting political pressure on New Zealand over that.However, I was about to confront one or two people who started getting a little snarky with me, but believe it or not, there own family and friends came to my defense and put them in their places. So if people do stare at you I wouldn't take it too personal because there could be many reasons for that and their not all bad. Cheers.
How has it been for you?
Did you move?
They stare at you thinking are you Fijian? Samoan? Tongan? Cant be...don't quite know where youre from? You're unique looking so people will stare curiously wondering which tribe or clan you are.
Lol to black to be Samoan or Tongan 😂
Well that's the thing. Black Americans are unusual here so yes people look. They're not trying to be rude, you're just unusual. We're used to Tongans, Fijians, Samoans and most of the Pacific islands, but you don't look like a Pacific islander. Frankly I think making a big deal out of curiosity is making a mountain out of a molehill.
Spot on
First thing I thought was she looks Fijian
To be fair, I'm a Black woman and I got the stare when I went to parts of Wyoming and Iowa here in my own country, mind you!
Plus I get the old "No, where are you REALLY from?" 👀
Dude, I'm American! Several family lines have been here since the early eighteenth century! One line has been here for thousands of years (Apache), WTF people?! 😫
Kiwi born, here.. It is cool seeing more and more AAs around NZ in recent years.. You see, America is like one huge movie to us.. or me, at least.. and seeing a AA guy, shirt off, going for a run down my street felt like he jumped straight out the TV screen haha..
Theres no hate.. its just something that isnt common here.
It's more of a "whoa! Cool! That's happening HERE!" Right?
It's so funny, because I'm from south Russia and year before last I went to a little village near my town to go to the beach. There were a few dark skinned guys and girls - I imagine they were some students from Africa, as one of the best unis is in my town and does get some international students. But oh, goodness! They had ALL the attention on that beach! Kids and people were running up to them, wanting to take pictures with them. They were trying to enjoy the sea and I remember looking at them standing knee deep in water, with a couple of people coming in and taking pictures with them. I felt bad for the situation, as I can see how that could make someone uneasy.. But I also understand the psychology behind the scenario, how these people that live in a little village, who maybe never have even seen people of that dark of complexion. Obvs, unless you live somewhere where there is some diversity, you probably don't know anything about how to be more gentle in approach to not make people feel uncomfortable..and Russians in general can be a bit overbearing in approach. So.. Yeah. It was quite a situation. Luckily, the dark skinned teens didn't seem to mind it all. They were together, so maybe that helped to feel comfortable being bombarded by all the excited locals? They were all smiles and didn't show signs of being uneasy.
I was a bit uncomfortable FOR them haha.. But also from what I've been told, people from Africa don't experience racism in as sensitive of ways, as from the US (of course due to US's insane race dynamics and history) and my understanding of how uncomfortable that situation could have been is based on the US
To be fair, though, I know in Asian countries people are all over you and want to take pictures if you're white, so.. 🤷🏾♂️ That's just humans, I guess..
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@@spider.monkey.ninja.assassinin some countries where dark skin is extremely rare or unheard of like China or Korea I've heard it can be a bit extreme and borders on racism? I bet for a good looking young African guy in Russia it would be extremely helpful in attracting the local Russian ladies? 😉
My son is moving to New Zealand!
Thank you for giving us Americans a update!
They probably assume you’re a celebrity and are trying to place what movie they’ve seen you in lol 😁
"Oh my god hi, i'm a really huge fan. I really loved you in Game of Thrones and Fast and Furious 7" haha
Lol! 😂
I am black, white and Native American. I met a woman visiting the states from New Zealand who thought I was a Maori.
They stare because you are black or because you are pretty?
Jean Uwumuremyi That is a good question! I have no way of knowing for sure, but I’m pretty sure it has an element of that I look different from the usual faces. The staring maybe be people trying to figure out where I am from.
Jacque Elias it is more a different kind of beauty, that’s what people tend to stare at you. They’re just appreciating humans its not a bad or mean stare its more like a “i wish i had hair like that” or a “oh she looks pretty” type of situation , it literally just you different features that make people stare.
black and pretty yes I think so :)
Jacque Elias Sis. I love your sweet and non judgemental attitude about the stares. keep sweet. God bless you richly.
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Thank you for your channel. My girlfriend is black and planning on coming to New Zealand. Think these videos are really honest and informative with out being too negative, hopefully they help
Are you American born living in NZ ? If so, what are your thoughts on the culture and people ? 😀
Hi there! I'm planning to go to NZ for the month of December. Thank you for sharing your experiences!! I am wondering if you've formed a community with other African American people that I might connect with!!
Hi, I do know a couple of other Black Americans but haven't formed any group or anything. If I did, it would need to be online because we're so spread out. How long are you staying?
We stear at you like that cause it's fkn awesome to see an african here in New Zealand, I wish. More come here and lived a happy good safe life.
They not staring because you're black, they're staring because you're fine...
lol maybe
Are you still in New Zealand? Have you been to Rotorua? It's near where I live.. 1 of New Zealands' best tourist destinations.. It literally stinks because of the geothermal activity & sulphur, but you get used to it..
Whydoesmy Channelneedaname Yes I live in Wellington. I’ve been to Rotorua but I didn’t get too much time to do touristy things. I did go to Kerosene Creek and saw some bubbly mud.
Kerosene Creek is literally 5mins from my house, I live in Reporoa lol
What is the full process to moving to New Zealand permanently?
Been thinking about relocating to NZ as an AA woman from the states. Would love to see an update! Many blessings to you!
After our recent election results, I really want to expatriate to another country. New Zealand has always been my first choice. Any advice on making that move?
NZ needs professionals, particularly in the medical field, so find a job first that will give you a path to residency.
I think it's the hair style ... looks great by the way 👍👍
It's not a hair style, it's a hair natural.
It was the reason i clicked this video. Beautiful! I'm Russian BTW.
Are you still in NZ? I'm thinking about moving there as soon as the borders open to finish my dissertation. Would love to gather your feedback.
I'm still here and loving it! To which part of NZ are you thinking about moving?
@@JacqueElias365 Is it expensive to live in New Zealand?
As a black male who has lived here in New Zealand for all my life. I can definitely say 100% of the time, IT IS NOT RACISM. New Zealanders stare out of intrigue and fascination, most black people they see is through the media so seeing a black person in real life is like seeing a unicorn or a celebrity out of a tv screen. Although this is speaking from my own personal experiences and I have never really experienced any outward racism, maybe the odd micro aggression with a jaded older person but not really. But then again I am signed with the top modelling agency in New Zealand so maybe looking like a black male model could also be a factor in why people stare at me?
Agreed. I don't think it is racism.
You still in NZ?
@@JacqueElias365 you still in NZ?
Darling, people stare at you because you are fucking beautiful. No more, no less.
You’ve lived in Aotearoa your whole life but call yourself black????
Where I come from in nz people might assume your from Columbia or Brazil we have a small Latin American community who have predominantly African roots
I hate the stare, i'm a fellow Maori living in Australia, and when we first moved here we got stared at alot, I guess people were wondering what nationality we were and mind you, we later figured that there weren't many kiwis where we were. It's usually only curiosity because people are not used to seeing or have never seen or heard a certain race around. Im always intrigued when I hear a different accent nearby. Glad your enjoying Aotearoa.
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My god! Australia is so full of Maori and Pacific islanders especially the east coast cities! There's about a million people from NZ and the Pacific islands currently living in Australia with more coming every day so it's hard to imagine someone here not knowing what a Maori looked like? I live in Adelaide and in the CBD it's as multicultural as any of the major cities worldwide. You'll see people from all corners of the globe and hear languages you've never heard? If you were shocked by seeing a Maori you would be fascinated just watching the lunchtime crowds walk the streets every day!
Don’t read into it too much. NZ is so diverse all shades of human exist here and live in harmony. You’re not different and Afro’s is common in the Pacific. It’s only a big deal if you make it or want it to be. Sweet as
I remember watching in one of her other videos years ago how she said she was often mistaken for a Fijian here in New Zealand and she does look a lot like a Fijian.
I am stared at in America, even though I’m an African American, so I’m used to it 🤧
I’m a 63 year old black man who has never been to New Zealand but if I was to visit the country; I wouldn’t mind having people staring at me because I like attention!
The black lady in the video was a novelty when she visited New Zealand!
People are just appreciating something beautiful that they haven’t seen before so its more like oh she looks pretty or i like her hair kinda stare
Other African Americans are around but African people have been here since 1960, with greater numbers arriving in the 1980s. I've been here 50+ years. I identify as an AfricanNZer (we actually exist) and so do my sons - but we are a minority within a minority. When Africans stare at you they are trying to figure out where "in Africa" you are probably from, (most likely - we all do it). Its also a habit that is very common in Africa. It threw me when I went home to visit my family and everyone stared LOL!! Like your Tapa cloth in the background btw!
The stare could be compared to a new car on the block where your used to seing your everyday of the mill car and then a new one pulls up and naturally becomes a focus point of interest on so many levels
Black is beautiful ♥️🖤
People Stare out of curiosity , not Racism . I would Stare back and say "Hello ". 😂 and wave 🖐️and just continue walking .lol Life is to short to care about what people think , to be honest if you are black like myself in America and you move in to a white neighborhood , they Stare at you too 😨😨😨😨😨, but that might not be curiousity , it can really be racism ,, so it's everywhere . Lol ( just embrace who you are and keep on stepping ) 😎
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I think Australia is where all the racism is at . Big difference !
I agreed ++++
She literally just said that she hasn’t experienced racism so this comment was kinda misplaced.
It's the hair that's all, it's beautiful
My grandson is half African his Mummy has a white complexion because his Dad is part German Scottish and Im from Ck Islands..He is georgous..i have to say his African heritage comes through also Chinese..on his daddys side..
You r So cool!!!. You are unique and we love meeting people from different cultures, especially if it has nice food lol!
If I ever come to New Zealand, I can't wait to share soul food with the locals, vegan soul food or regular! And I bet you're gonna love sweet potato pie
Really looking forward to your video on how you manage your hair in NZ! I'm moving to Auckland in a few months, and I'm not sure what to expect. There aren't many resources online, so anything you can share would be much appreciated! Please keep posting :)
Lydia Everhart They have a million Black hair RUclips videos though. Btw, Dark and Lovely Au Natural Hair spray is what I use in the summer for the frizz.
There's an African hair salon in just about every suburb in Auckland. Well at least in South Auckland.
There is a website called All things hair limited it has a reasonable amount of hair products
The ' stare ' is where we are trying to guess where exactly you come from...It's nothing personal , it's an observation...
It is just the unicorn phenomena.
Ohhh look - a unicorn...
That is 100 percent true! Being stared at is normal mostly because you have something that is different it happens in NZ a lottttttttttt.
White Scottish, moved to NZ a long time ago. Took me ages to get used to the kiwi stare. Thought I had two heads for a while lol
These videos have been really helpful. I'll be going to college in New Zealand in a couple of months and I was wondering how do black women get their hair done there. I'm planning on getting locks but I don't have any idea how I would maintain it there.
Potential lucrative business idea? 😀
Can you do a video on how you moved to New Zealand?
I'm thinking of moving with my 4 children, its deep on my heart but I'm scared to death about putting my children in an environment I'm not familiar with. Please any advice or encouragement is accepted.
I understand your fear. First, I would say moving to a new country is an experience like no other. You cannot replicate it. It forces you to develop parts of your character that you wouldn't do otherwise. I think getting used to a new culture and surroundings is good for us all. With that said, you know your children best. If they are dealing with mental health issues or other complications, a big move is going to be an even bigger adjustment for them. Many children I've met that have moved from overseas are coping well. Some take more time to adjust than others, but kids, for the most part, are resilient. The adults I have met struggle more than the kids do. The key is to build relationships with people. Second, New Zealand is amazing and the people are very friendly. It is a very different culture than the US, but there are enough similarities, like language and other elements of Western culture, that you can hook onto to find rest from all the newness. Hopefully, that helps.
I'm sorry for the stare. Passing on the street, I'm one who would find it hard to not take a 2nd look for several reasons. The accent, you have a charm with your moves, and your beauty, but mostly the unicorn effect. This silent fascination is not intended to be rude or cause harm...it's a Wow! moment.
I’m thinking about moving to New Zealand do you have any suggestions where? I have a 12 year old daughter
Hi! My suggestion is anywhere you can get a job atm. There is more cultural diversity in the North Island, but I know some lovely people in the South Island as well. I personally have lived and loved Auckland and Wellington. I also love Tauranga but only visited. With the economy being so bad right now, many people are having to go back home. Jobs are slim atm, so I would prioritise that.
Thank you so much... bad economy ok... being killed by corona or anything else 😒.... I’ll take New Zealand for 500 Alex ... lol 😂
How are you doing currently? 2023
Hi Jacque. I just came across your videos and how you met your fiance. What a great story! Would you be willing to give an update on how and what you are doing any time soon? Thanks for sharing with us. Praying all is well.
They do stare because You are gorgeous Lady
Sometimes My parents and i did get the stares too in the Netherlands or Germany. In my opinion it is stupid, rude and strange if adults do that, but it is not meant that way. You are worth to look at!
Kia ora Jacque, people stare cause they are wondering if your famous, but unlike in america there not going to storm you for an autograph, us kiwis will just stare and think ,'wow, is that Macy Grey , omg i want to meet her , but i dont want to bother her', because i know i would, please dont get put off , us kiwis usually just stare in wonder of natural beauty, of which category you fit.
I’m sure now even a curious look would be considered racist by American standards
Again thank you for your outlook on New Zealand I really want to know what the difference is between Living in America and living in those dealing as far as hello beautiful people do you have the same things like healthcare school money jobs things like that
Especially in Asia hell even in Europe I got stared at. In Europe I got mistaken for Cuban, Dominican, or German. In Asia they all think black ppl are from Africa (more ingorance that anything over here in Asia) but it happens no matter where u live at in the world, just embrace it because it’s amazing when ppl stare trying to figure u out. I love that mysterious factor I have. 😆😆
Would having a name tag type thing saying "hi, since you're wondering, I'm from ___" solve the situation and make people stop staring sooner? 😆
Have you ever thought that people may stare at you, because you're a beautiful person?
That's probably half the stares I'm sure! I check out attractive Asian and African women on the bus and I wonder when I occasionally get busted looking whether they think I'm being racist? 🤔 I'm not im just being a creep! 😆
Thank you so very much my boyfriend is white an I'm black with locs we are planning on going too New Zealand at the beginning of next year for 2 months an i really appreciate the talk because even when we went to Thailand, Bangkok an Cambodia OMY Goodness not they stared me down an also wanted to take pictures with me they even touch my skin so yes i could stare right back😮but I'm looking forward to it..
If you go to a major city like Auckland or Wellington I wouldn't expect people to stare at you especially in the CBD? The inner city of Auckland is very much a multicultural environment with people of all races and religions living and working together. If you get stares it's probably because of your accent or because they think you're attractive and they're just checking you out? Here in Australia there are people of African descent as well as Indigenous people everywhere especially in the major cities, people in America tend to think of Australia as a white country but it's extremely multicultural and around 15% of the population is non white. In the big cities of Sydney and Melbourne there are entire suburbs where you will struggle to find a white person! It's not quite as multicultural or large in New Zealand but they definitely have a fairly large immigrant population of African descent so it's not unusual for a new Zealander to see people of different races daily. People are making it seem like rural China or Mongolia where they literally never see anyone other than their own people and seeing a dark skinned person on the street would be the most exciting thing the town had seen in years! 😆
Hmmm... I’ve never noticed people staring at interracial couples here, all my relationships have been interracial... Maori are technically half caste These days, perhaps people here are socialised to seeing Polynesian and white interracial relationships, so no one pays attention to those. Anything else seems exotic and new(?)... as a Sociology major I find this interesting. # Thesis? 😁✌🏽
ZAmpedNZ Half caste? even that is becoming rare as being part Maori myself with African American Heritage.
In this day and age whether it's in New Zealand, Australia or America it's safe to say it's pretty rude and probably racist if someone is blatantly staring at you and your inter racial partner!
Just found your videos...I am all caught up..will you be making an update video soon?
Just smile and give a little wave with good morning, afternoon etc. Probably stare because you are a beautiful young woman and some folks probably think you are a famous movie star or singer!
PS good luck this winter!!! Winter in NZ always makes me want to move to Arizona ha!! Tip: celebrate midwinter Christmas and go all-out. Cuz Wellington winter + no Christmas = major sad!
I get stared at in Asian countries,because i am tall and blonde.I stayed in the mountains,in Thailand now i really got stared at there!!!!
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I feel bad because I find myself staring as well when i hear the accent, but its only because im like "oh cool its an american" lol,
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I think she is referring to that long creepy why are you here stare that can make most ppl uncomfortable.
Everytime I go to the Hospital or University here in Australia I hear the American accent everywhere! It's cool trying to decipher which part of the country the accent is from? 😆
Here in Hamilton we have one of the highest concentrations of black people living in NZ within our city boundary, mainly from Somalia. There's a big chunk of young ones at my university - men and women. Nowadays most Somalis are NZ born. If I see a non-somali black person, I'm amazed. I definitely notice since most Somalis especially the girls wear Islamic style fashion. I don't stare though I think that's rude, I'd rather say something if I was that curious 😄.
At 3:49. " Nobody has ever been racist, except my fiance...making jokes about fried chicken". ... hmmm??🤔
It’s weird how many people are commenting attempting to discredit this woman’s experience. She said she’s never experienced racism in NZ but that doesn’t mean people don’t stare out of racism. A simple google search will show you that African refugees experience a ton of racism and xenophobia in NZ. Knowing that it’s not uncalled for when a black person who has experienced racism their whole life to be guarded and weary when people stare. Yes sometimes it admiration but let’s not act like these behaviors can’t also be tied to racism because that simply isn’t true. It makes no sense for people that aren’t black to dictate when a black person is and isn’t experiencing racism…
New Zealand is Where Famous People Come To Be Left Alone & Not Harrassed….
I’m A Kiwi This is Absolute Cap… if Your Live Streaming in Weird Places You’ll Get Stared At As We Like Our Privacy & Never interfere or Annoy Tourists…. If Someone is Looking At You in NZ They Usally Are Wanting To Talk To You & Eye Contact is important in Our Culture…. 🇳🇿🤙
A stare is better than a fucking knife.
maybe yr just cute? I think yr taking one encounter as happening all the time maybe, small complaint if u ask me considering every country isnt perfect, every country can be picked at....also my mama taught me that everything said before "but" means nothing lol......says being stared at happened everywhere she goes, after saying it happened in 2 cities ......hmmmm Im thinking this happened only twice....yes yr rare thats why maybe a couple people stared in yr direction. All kinds of people look of all ages...so it cant be racism
The reason behind the stares is, you're gorgeous. You look so cute . The hairs? We stare because we never have beautiful hairs like yours. My hairs like lion mane to be honest.
We have a huge African community here, my wife is Sudanese.They probably stare at you because they hear your accent and are happy to see you lol
Yeah I thought New Zealand must have a large immigrant population by now? I think they might be staring because she's very attractive too? 😉
Maybe it's because you're attractive or because it's a novelty seeing and hearing your accent.
There are not a lot of African or African Americans in New Zealand so firstly there is the novelty factor to account for people staring. The further south you travel like in the South Island you will see far greater proportion of white people ( too cold haha) . If you were in Auckland the largest city you could be mistaken for a Melanesian person, Fijian , Vanuatu , Solomon Islands because of your hair and colouring and you wouldn't stand out particularly in South Auckland with lots of other brown people.
I would think the main reason is that you are very attractive and probably dress relatively well. NZers are notorious for how casual and scruffy we are plus we like to wear black a lot. Ive noticed African Americans often wear bright colours like Polynesians which adds to the lookability..
Maybe cause you’re a beautiful looking human being aswell.
Correction my daughters father is white german scots..my gson African on his daddys side and chinese..nzers will stare ..your georgeous..❤
As a Kiwi, I couldn't care less about the color of your skin. Yes there will be some ignorant and racist people here but I can imagine half of them would be looking because you are gorgeous. Also because that hair/hairstyle is quite rare here so it could just be out of curiosity in my opinion. Half my family is white/NZ European and half is maori
Thanks for Sharing ❤ 🥀 😎
new zealand still amazing country
We're the country furthest from the rest of the world, most kiwis have a natural interest in tourists and people from other places. If people are staring I'm sure 99% of the time its not in a bad way.
Haha, when I was in the Philippines, I was stared at all the time. In your case, I'm guessing that it's because you're so pretty. Also, your hairstyle isn't common in NZ.
Theyaybe trying to figure out which country you come from more than distant. I myself look at the immigrants to see where they are from
Thanks for sharing. By any chance, are you still in New Zealand? Any plans on creating more videos? We will definitely stay tuned. :D By the way.... is there a way to contact you? The ladies of Expat Divas would love to see more of your videos. Keep in touch.
Francesca Fraser Yes I am in New Zealand. I have two new videos coming soon. I’m on Facebook.
@@JacqueElias365 are you still in New Zealand
lived in Malaysia for many years in a town where i was one of the first black people to land. the stares made me feel very special.. sometimes the naughty boys would chant 'Bob Marly Bob Marley'.. lol..
if u cant handle such things then just stay where you are.
i grew up in a rural African village where we would run after a car especially if it had a white person inside.. i bet those white people felt special too
I'm very much interested on visiting NZ for like a 2 month stay. If I came could we be friends? I'm a sister too. Would love to have company there. Once this whole Covid virus is a thing of the past of course.
So many Pacific Islanders look like us Africans so I find it weird when they "stare". A Samoan once thought I was from Samoa 😂😂
I'm Maori, a kiwi. I would stare because you are different to the rest of us, human curiosity. The point is are you offended ? Secondly have you opened a conversation to ask why they are staring at you ? Talking about it on social media before directing a question to the starer to ask why..seems to be the American way.. why is that ? Do social media comments give you answers before considering a direct approach.. Why does social media play an importance here..
Hi, not offended by it. My AA in NZ videos are about giving other Black Americans who are thinking about coming to NZ an idea of what they might experience. So no I haven't asked someone why they are staring at me because it would be socially inappropriate to stop someone who is walking by or walk up to someone in a waiting room. This video isn't to get answers. It's to provide an answer to a question that Black Americans have about going to another country.
are you guys still together?
If I saw you on the street unaware of your culture I would think u r Tongan\samoan, your hairtype is common in south auckland. But also most of us don’t mean to be rude, mind you you’re very pretty so that could b the reason but yeah.
I would say she looks more Fijian in the islander context.......I have never seen a Tongan or Samoan that looks like her.....
I know in china they follow you and take pictures of you even if you say no to them
In China that's the case if you're white, too haha!
China's got too many people for their own good
Beautiful sister
Sweetheart the stares you get are because your beautiful.
Does New Zealand really have so few people of African or Caribbean descent? Here over the ditch in Australia all the major cities have large African immigrant populations as well as people from PNG and Fiji plus there's obviously a lot of indigenous Australians too so its not unusual at all to see darker skinned people and if someone is staring at you as an African person in the middle of a city here i would say it must be racism because it's not exactly exotic? 😆
Yeah they were like that when i was in Germany also. Well you've got to look past it.
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I'm seriously considering this
When one day NZ will be a populated country,this effects won't be happened again!!!!
Bruh.. I'm literally about to land in Auckland... Fuck
You need to come to south Auckland lol you'll fit in with us Polynesian and to be honest it will be mainly Europeans given you the stare an I ain't been racist. I'm born an raised in nz south Auckland if I go around to botany,howick area they will look at me like I don't belong there
I feel like you're giving new zelanders too much credit. I grew up in New Zealand and I'm african and I got stared at too. It's not a nice stare.
Wtf is his dad is "brown"? I'm dark-skinned myself and I'm brown but I'd rather be called black
Brown is usually used to refer to south east asian and latin americans.
Jacque Elias: I've lived in Canada since I was only 8 years old, but New Zealand is where I'm originally from. However nice to see you are there probably like a few other African American's, that is aside from a few African English people I met the last time I took a trip back there, but I'm a little surprised you get stared at because I thought you would just about pass for a Fijian or a Pacific Islander which New Zealand does have a lot of, that is aside from the native Maori people, well especially an indigenous Fijian, because they look very similar to Africans, they also have kinky hair and there is quite a number is them in New Zealand. However, it's nice to see that you are venturous. Why? Well I have been to the U.S. a few times and while being there, would you believe me if I told you that I ran into a couple or so people who don't even know Canada exists much less New Zealand?.....Well anyway, you having now spent some time there, I was just curious as to what you think of the native Maori people and their culture now I'm quite sure you have had some exposure to that. I would really like to know if you can find the time to reply. Oh by the way, I hope you like the meat pies. Cheers!.....P.S. If people stare at you, well although staring is not considered polite, I would take it too seriously, reason being is there could be many reasons why they're staring, that is aside from you being attractive like a few others have mentioned in the comments. All the best.