The truth on feminism and relationships in 2022

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  • Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024
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Комментарии • 604

  • @mattfinley4544
    @mattfinley4544 2 года назад +287

    I'm not encouraging men to be assholes here but every guy I know who is sad, alone and often gets disrespected by his wife or gf is the kind of guy who is sweet and sensitive to all her needs. Having a backbone is key. Learn to be assertive and don't get pushed around.

    • @ongobongo8333
      @ongobongo8333 2 года назад

      Men who think they should be dominant and in control end up drunk and divorced, if they can get anyone's attention at all

    • @walkingdead7115
      @walkingdead7115 2 года назад +34

      My dad is super strict with my Mom.
      Pakistani family here.
      But my dad earns n spends all his money on his kids n wife.
      He is strict n loving.
      But listening to guys like firaz makes me realize with out my dads strictness they wouldn't have been together for 32 years.
      My dads a classic strong toxic guy.

    • @bilalkhares9337
      @bilalkhares9337 2 года назад +18

      You can be kind with a backbone

    • @PiceaSitchensis
      @PiceaSitchensis Год назад

      @@walkingdead7115 Your dad sounds like a misogynist.

    • @ricardovanduuren389
      @ricardovanduuren389 Год назад

      True dat!

  • @GoldenGully
    @GoldenGully 2 года назад +141

    "My mind was literally breaking reading this" 😅

    • @ishakghansar3456
      @ishakghansar3456 2 года назад +2

      @KAMRAN NUMAN Firas and Gully are both canadian and into martial artists so not too surprising

    • @weetheeopps
      @weetheeopps Год назад +2

      I love ur content

    • @BKS0
      @BKS0 Год назад +1

      That segment was Gold meme content 😂

  • @MGV23
    @MGV23 2 года назад +42

    Hahahaha
    "I spar with my woman"
    - Proceeds to Leg Lock her

    • @goldtiger9453
      @goldtiger9453 2 года назад +8

      *Spinning wheel kick*

    • @christotheedge
      @christotheedge 2 года назад +3

      no Firas said he can't roll with woman because he can't control his urges or something.

    • @goldtiger9453
      @goldtiger9453 2 года назад

      @@christotheedge quite sure he rolls with his wife all the time lol

    • @MGV23
      @MGV23 2 года назад +2

      @@goldtiger9453 They roll naked and oiled he told me.

  • @tempacct5812
    @tempacct5812 2 года назад +36

    yeah this is the type of content I expect out of Tristar Gym

  • @bushy9780
    @bushy9780 2 года назад +86

    "feeling in one place, that's what you should be concerned with" - lmao this is gold

  • @Pablohoma
    @Pablohoma 2 года назад +24

    Respect for you to make this video. fell man they can't talk openly about feminism, abortion, hypergamy, especially here in Quebec, where women openly act like man and men act like women)

  • @checkmate5338
    @checkmate5338 2 года назад +113

    I remember reading somewhere that often times what women claim they want is totally different than what they seek after.

    • @Wenutz
      @Wenutz 2 года назад +7

      it's only later in life that most of us realise that what we need and what we want can be the opposite of each other.

    • @Cub__
      @Cub__ 2 года назад +1

      Of course, they live off of social approval.. they'd never admit to wanting something that is generally viewed as immoral or wrong by societal standards. That's why when Woman buy into Sexual liberation their true selves come out and they stop caring because now there's a movement that will defend them and their actions, one where they can now get away with anything and not have any real consequences now.

    • @bigshantolifting
      @bigshantolifting 2 года назад +21

      women want what other women want

    • @VaporRize08
      @VaporRize08 2 года назад +1

      @@bigshantolifting untrue

    • @hollowking7414
      @hollowking7414 2 года назад +15

      I believe that. what women say they want in a man, and what they are actually attracted to, are 2 different types of men.

  • @DontbeanNPC
    @DontbeanNPC 2 года назад +31

    Damn. I have always loved your Jiu-Jitsu and now I know you're based af too. I like you even more now, Firas.

  • @lennydelgado2501
    @lennydelgado2501 2 года назад +33

    Alhamdulillah , coach you are dropping gems.

  • @MrMojo13ification
    @MrMojo13ification 2 года назад +33

    " I read the summary and my mind was breaking" 🤣🤣

  • @the_famous_reply_guy
    @the_famous_reply_guy 2 года назад +17

    Jane Eyre pronunced Air, its a standard part of English literature in the UK education in the 80's. It's very much about hypergamy, status, social class and power.
    Charlotte Bronte 21 April 1816 - 31 March 1855) was an English novelist and poet, the eldest of the three Brontë sisters who survived into adulthood and whose novels became classics of English literature.
    Bronte first novel the Professor was not published in her life time. Its also a book about class, love and feminine nature to acquire the highest value male.
    If you like old stories, black and white films from the classic film era I highly recommend "The Browning version" simply put it's about an old English Latin teacher whose being replaced by a younger, fitter man at his job. The main theme is dignity.

  • @sullyswrldd
    @sullyswrldd 2 года назад +35

    You should honestly continue on this topic Firas. I think hearing this from a masculine married man that is apart of such a male dominated sport gives us younger more in-experienced men a different perspective that which we need.

  • @JiuJitsuWarRoom
    @JiuJitsuWarRoom Год назад +4

    I only needed to hear 3 words. “Women love drama”

  • @tomsawyer7429
    @tomsawyer7429 2 года назад +100

    Pretty cool to see a respected man talk honestly like this…

    • @WitchyWithASideOfQueso
      @WitchyWithASideOfQueso 2 года назад +3

      lmfao just bc hes respected doesnt mean its correct. this is all nonsense LMFAO

    • @darkoverllord
      @darkoverllord 2 года назад

      @@WitchyWithASideOfQueso kk clam party

    • @josewead1
      @josewead1 Год назад

      @@WitchyWithASideOfQueso lap 🐶

    • @scarred10
      @scarred10 Год назад

      He is respected as a coach of combat sports,not as anything else,least of all an intellectual. The man is a Muslim so by definition a misogynist.He cannot even say Jane eyres name correctly.

  • @timm285
    @timm285 2 года назад +5

    Women don’t want to work as much as men. Imo many like to stay home but would never say it out loud

  • @nerdobject5351
    @nerdobject5351 2 года назад +18

    100% fact. I spent my 20s being the sweet beta male. Got me nowhere. Changed to an alpha who returned calls when I felt like it, got a lot farther with women.

    • @samisyed2370
      @samisyed2370 2 года назад

      How did you convert from beta to alpha

    • @Pvezin
      @Pvezin Год назад +3

      @@samisyed2370 beta, alpha or sigma are just men in different steps of their development. You dont "convert", you just keep self-actualizing. A 'beta' has boy behavior, an 'alpha' has young adult behavior, and 'sigma' has healthy adult behavior.

    • @PiceaSitchensis
      @PiceaSitchensis Год назад

      The alpha/beta thing isn't actually real. It comes from wolf biology but has long since been discounted - not that wolf biology would even be relevant to understanding humans.

  • @Leopar525
    @Leopar525 2 года назад +21

    Honestly man I was looking for this info a long time. Thank you fellow BJJ brother. I never expected to find this info here. Keep sharing your thoughts please. Greetings from Greece and UK

  • @cptseagull
    @cptseagull 2 года назад +46

    I don’t think feminism is about women just having rights man.

    • @ongobongo8333
      @ongobongo8333 2 года назад +6

      It is

    • @younesbenaddi4721
      @younesbenaddi4721 2 года назад +6

      As he said there are several waves but at the beggining it was a way that colonizers used to divide and conquer

    • @User-54631
      @User-54631 2 года назад

      @@younesbenaddi4721 I’m very Interested,. Can you provide any specific examples?
      Any credited authors to read to educate myself on the subject?

    • @MineteInc
      @MineteInc 2 года назад +3

      That's why he mentioned that he's in a way a feminist himself, and that he thinks 3rd wave feminism specifically is going too far. The feminism you think of that describes equality of the genders, is not the same that you see being spread today

    • @kirito3082
      @kirito3082 2 года назад +3

      @@ongobongo8333 it's clearly not and obviously not

  • @kyartick8502
    @kyartick8502 Год назад +4

    7:16 happened to me 😂. I was hanging out with a girl who liked me and a few days later she said she felt liked we run out of things to talk about. And for 3 years our conversations flowed so well. And weeks after our last hang out we parted ways. Hurt a lot

  • @adamzoubi96
    @adamzoubi96 2 года назад +6

    coach always been the goat!

  • @onefootoutthedoor9937
    @onefootoutthedoor9937 2 года назад +47

    If people start taking control of their relationships it might threaten the consumption of garbage media
    The last thing they want is people to be inspired by an alpha taking no bs and tell it like it is

    • @ongobongo8333
      @ongobongo8333 2 года назад

      Funny how people who identify with "alphas who take no bs" are always losers who nobody likes lol

  • @mahdizahir
    @mahdizahir 2 года назад +8

    Everything you said is fantastic; it reminds me of a Hadith from our prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I advise you to treat women kindly, for the woman was created from a rib, and the most crooked part of the rib is its uppermost part. If you try to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, treat women kindly."

  • @sleeplessdev7204
    @sleeplessdev7204 6 месяцев назад +2

    I enjoy these philisophical breakdowns, as well as the fighting tips 😅

  • @joebotz1243
    @joebotz1243 2 года назад +51

    Best video since the one on the mandates. Feminism can only exist in this type of society. Ironically they keep talking about burning it all down. If they ever did at that exact moment feminism would be over with and they would be in for a bad surprise

    • @ongobongo8333
      @ongobongo8333 2 года назад

      That's retarded. Feminism exists due to freedom, more freedom is all it wants.

    • @MrAntinexus
      @MrAntinexus 2 года назад +8

      Guess what, feminism in Ukraine disappeared half a year ago suddenly

  • @shafaatoo9328
    @shafaatoo9328 2 года назад +18

    We need more people like you coach, Idk about Andrew's lifestyle. He seems to lack the nobility a man should have, but he does say a lot of good stuff. People like you are definitely needed though, men with values and backbone.

    • @prandz420
      @prandz420 2 года назад

      Andrew Tate has also made a lot of pedophilic comments. People should be very wary of associating with him at all…

  • @icyBulls
    @icyBulls Год назад +1

    This was a great talk, every statement was a homerun, absolute truth!!

    • @AndrewLaReal
      @AndrewLaReal 11 месяцев назад

      If you’re insecure then yes

  • @jeremykemp3782
    @jeremykemp3782 2 года назад +9

    DO NOT, and I mean DO NOT give her a history lesson, she’ll scratch ya eyes out. Brilliant, just brilliant

  • @ThursonJames
    @ThursonJames 2 года назад +3

    It’s almost like Cinderella, Beauty and the Beast, The Princess and the Frog, etc are all variations on a theme.

  • @arawproductions3156
    @arawproductions3156 2 года назад +6

    thanks to this video I am now firas zahabipilled

  • @serenevalor
    @serenevalor Год назад +10

    I really like how you put this in such an easy to understand way. I find myself really worried for my little brothers and future children because we live in strange times where men are treated like crap and women are put on a pedestal. Funny considering that once upon a time, it used to be the opposite. You'd think we'd learn to have some sort of equilibrium.
    Regarding the romance novel: I see these personality traits in most women now a days. However, I must contest that not all women are like this. For example, I find that women that have either had a strong male figure in their childhood or have gone through some tough circumstances don't fit the mold of the "Romance Girl" narrative. For example, when I see my own mother and her relationship to my father, I didn't see that drama or materialistic element in her. That is probably because of the tough upbringing she had along with the fact that her father (my grandfather) was police officer.
    Other than that, really nice to hear a fresh perspective. I hope people (both men and women) can learn to be strong. We need strength from both ends. Men need to be strong like Men and Women need to strong like Women. Strong men and women make for strong parents. That makes for strong children that will be able to withstand tough times and create a better future.

    • @JustChill-zd4ib
      @JustChill-zd4ib 9 месяцев назад

      Not all men and not by all women. Just some rabid femanazis don't worry you can fight them off they are very sensitive and can't handle the truth at all and crumble under slightest pressure.

  • @VoyageHomeImprovements
    @VoyageHomeImprovements 2 года назад +13

    Coach is a philosopher 💪

  • @sp6990
    @sp6990 2 года назад +14

    Damn, first time I’m gonna disagree with Firaz on most of these points.
    Not all women want what the femcel spokeswomen spout. They are just the loudest, and for the record, just as cringeworthy as the incels.
    In re makeup, Neither sex will usually put things on their body that doesn’t make them attractive to the opposite sex, which is why Google Glass and all those technologies haven’t taken off. I don’t see a guy with a VR headset on and say, roarrr I want him. Physically fit, yes for both obvi. Yes, smarts and confidence is sexy, but not cocky. That’s absolutely a turn off, at least for me. We want guys that have worked on themselves, but not beta.
    Resources have always been a thing and I don’t think in one generation we will undo that. And I don’t like drama, not at the academy and not at home. A guy breaks up with me; my response “alright.”
    I think we should build up our men. I don’t think they should be put down, but if all they look for is sex, don’t want to build families, don’t want to be of service to their communities, I can’t respect them no matter how powerful they come off as. I think social media has ruined both sexes. The plane loads of women coming back from other countries to the US with BBLs and other plastic surgeries is on a scale unprecedented. And the guys, steroid use, calf and ab implants, attitudes seemingly trying to show who’s a bigger A-hole. I personally am sad for young people and wouldn’t want to date any of those people.
    Edit to add: if all the info from the red pill community like Andrew Tate and Fresh & Fit is out there for men to employ, we should have the generation of the most confident, personally successful and powerful men. In fact, we have the generation of men for the first time that has less sex than any previous generation, less confidence, more depression, and highest suicide rate in history. I can’t express enough how tragic that is. Please understand those “influencers” smell the lack of confidence and are looking to make money off it. Period.

    • @DePeaceHunter
      @DePeaceHunter Год назад +4

      I'm not sure where you disagree with him

    • @serenevalor
      @serenevalor Год назад +1

      "Not all women want what the femcel spokeswomen spout. They are just the loudest, and for the record, just as cringeworthy as the incels."
      "I think social media has ruined both sexes"
      100% absolutely agree with you on both these points. I find that a large majority of women on social media are the "damsel in distress" types. Or, they pretend to be strong, but their only point is to bash men and make them look weak.
      You hit the mark when you said that social media has ruined it for both sides. It really has. It has completely skewed our perspective on ourselves. We forget what it is like to be male/female. We forget that there is nothing wrong with a man being a man and a women being a women. Both are needed to maintain an equilibrium. This is one of the reasons why we have so many injustices in the world. There is no more balance. Everyone is too busy trying to be like each other, they forget who they are themselves.

    • @migueljuarez6788
      @migueljuarez6788 Год назад

      ​@@DePeaceHunter I think where Firas said what women are attracted to.

  • @hidetoedwarduno7681
    @hidetoedwarduno7681 2 года назад +1

    This is so good! Coach is so well spoken, but I didn't know with other topics too! Unlike many, idealistic PUA gurus, Coach Zahabi comes from a transparent place (not marketing). He also speaks from direct experience with research that is boiling things down, instead of 'techniques' that don't work, especially long term, it's psychology, not PUA. I also never heard the make-up thing - LOVE IT! BTW, Y'ALL MUST READ 'MEN ARE FROM MARS - WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS'!!! I thought it was just an old book, but it's the best book I read on relationships & why men & women don't understand each other.

  • @marcusfedor4641
    @marcusfedor4641 2 года назад +6

    He’s right to a large extent. My observation is this:: highly attractive women are put on a pedestal by society. Such a women will constantly have other suitors, Some of these women have narcissistic traits. It’s not practical or wise to get into a relationship and have children with such people. In the end, a man who ends up in divorce courts typically has himself to blame to some extent. An average looking girl who is well raised and kind is easier to come by. Beauty fades. Stability and predictability above beauty.

  • @OTO2380
    @OTO2380 Год назад

    Thank God for Coach Firas touching base on stuff like this! His 3Muslims podcast was just as amazing.

  • @costasrex476
    @costasrex476 2 года назад +22

    Real confident men don’t fear empowered women

    • @TheOlzee
      @TheOlzee 2 года назад

      I didn’t think any men did. Wtf for? Fearing a female makes no sense to me

  • @oysterpt2018
    @oysterpt2018 2 года назад +3

    what kind of butter do you use? Salted or not salted?

  • @MontyQueues
    @MontyQueues 2 года назад +19

    jesus this firas guy is so smart and based, SOMEONE GIVE HIM BEST COACH OF THE YEAR AWARD

  • @prideneverdies1001
    @prideneverdies1001 2 года назад +3

    Deniers or Living-in-Disney-World are losing their minds on /r/bjj with this lmao

  • @stringsnare
    @stringsnare 2 года назад

    now we know how to break Coach Firas in sparring, pull out Jane Eyre and start reading. lol

  • @20FreeWill
    @20FreeWill 2 года назад +1

    I too am an epistemologist coach. I do not see meat and human mystery, I see windows to the soul and moving cogs of the mind

  • @captainnemo4422
    @captainnemo4422 2 года назад +22

    Coach for president!!

  • @saadmahbub8787
    @saadmahbub8787 Год назад

    Brother Firaz, I really enjoy your videos man. Thank you!

  • @AyatollahS.A.Khamenei
    @AyatollahS.A.Khamenei 6 месяцев назад

    Love to see abdools with CTE chiming in on anything…always amusing!

  • @zoomergrrlinluv
    @zoomergrrlinluv 2 года назад +9

    Ma broooooo! Im 52 years old and agree with you 100%.

  • @flatericccc
    @flatericccc 2 года назад +25

    You shouldn't have to transition from "women deserve rights" into "however". Lots of what's expected on women around makeup and appearance is forced upon them by our societal structures. Don't assume that the only driver is personal power, it's often also an avoidance of punishment for not doing those behaviors. You're smarter than this my friend.

    • @Uusaal
      @Uusaal 2 года назад +11

      Is he?

    • @PoeticSonic
      @PoeticSonic 2 года назад +12

      bro with all due respect, when men tell women you don't need makeup you look beautiful without make up, they tell the men to shut up that they are doing it for themselves, not the validation of men, which is half true and half bs.
      yes once upon a time, make up was worn to attract men, just as the coach said, the advertisement was geared towards women buying these products to please their men BUT then the feminist movement came and they changed the total advertisement to "buy this make up for yourself to express yourself and your freedom and nobody else"
      it's not full on social structure and it's more like women falling for the advertisement industry as they like to do (being 85% of the consumer market).
      and the whole "for yourself" is half bs, because big part of wearing makeup and being good at it is for female validation/ feeling superior to other women, plus male attraction, when a woman wants to attract a man on a date, she knows what specific type of make up to wear, when she wants to appear more casual she knows what type of makeup to wear.
      a lot of female insecurity doesn't come from the actual men in society, it comes from other women and the consumer industry to make women consume more products, think of any female insecurity and you will find it has something in relation to it for women to spend a shit ton of money on.
      weight lose/ gain? shit ton of products that either are straight-up bs o provide little effect before ruining to the body and causing it to gain more weight after stopping the use of the product.
      cloths? again men don't care that much it's other women that care.and it goes on and on, where the sources of the insecurities? it's from (or used to be) from female-centric magazines.
      on the other hand, male insecurity much of it couldn't be changed, it is society based and women actively use them to suppress men and take power, not through twesting hands but words.
      up until recently you couldn't enhance your height even now, it's very painful and not everybody can do them and most men don't.
      penis size? there is no surgery to make it longer no matter how much money you have.
      hair loss surgery is also relatively new and it's again relatively not expensive.
      and so on and so forth. although i would say the penis size thing was manufactured first to sell products that didn't work but it then transitioned to an actual thing that society will actively shame men for even when it's a normal size as to how women ACTUALLY treat a normal sized woman vs the insecurity she feels being normal sized (which in her mind is over weight)

    • @VaporRize08
      @VaporRize08 2 года назад

      Clearly he's not. Whenever a man seems a good person and he opens his mouth about women I'm corrected. I have learned not to see men this way since I'm always disappointed

    • @bez1196
      @bez1196 2 года назад

      @@PoeticSonic you got it backwards bro. Advertisment agencies hijacked feminist talking points and made their products about "female empowerment". Just like they did with cigarettes.

    • @PoeticSonic
      @PoeticSonic 2 года назад +3

      @@bez1196 no i didn't get it backwards, that was exactly my point🤦‍♂it's not "soceity" it's big companies, who btw also kick started the feminist movement.

  • @DanRice-h6g
    @DanRice-h6g 10 месяцев назад

    "after studying female behavior...." the hubris!

  • @DMurdock
    @DMurdock 2 года назад +16

    Women wear makeup for the same reason that men have beards. Vanity. Nothing wrong with that, in my opinion.

    • @siezard4663
      @siezard4663 Год назад +1

      A lot of guys have beards out of laziness.

  • @globalfreedomnetwork888
    @globalfreedomnetwork888 2 года назад +10

    Best advice on women ever

  • @nazdabner2685
    @nazdabner2685 2 года назад +5

    You nailed this one bro.

  • @Jxrye
    @Jxrye 2 года назад +11

    I’m a big Tristar fan, and I’m not completely disagreeing with the respected coach; but, experts are best when they stay in their fields. I’m glad he’s happy and successful in love in his life. That’s awesome, but that doesn’t make his opinion automatically wisdom for a wide audience like the Internet provides. Maybe that’s a problem with these platforms. Some days you gotta talk about something… anything. And it gets off topic like this.

    • @roflswamp6
      @roflswamp6 2 года назад +3

      Idk bro thousands of years of tradition proves otherwise I think ur just salty that more and more men are waking up and ur not part of that

    • @MatteoR77
      @MatteoR77 2 года назад

      Yeah bro, i mean he’s just giving out his opinions (which i mostly don’t agree with) so i don’t take him too seriously cuz i have my own ideas etc. but when he’s talking about combat sports in general i shut up and listen cuz he’s competent.

    • @MatteoR77
      @MatteoR77 2 года назад +3

      @@roflswamp6 here we go another misogynist OmegaLuL

    • @roflswamp6
      @roflswamp6 2 года назад

      @@MatteoR77 I don't hate women tho don't project

  • @darthwizzywizard
    @darthwizzywizard 2 года назад +11

    Lots of men go along with the ideology, and defend it too get with that women. It’s pathetic. Plus career , Gov, Corp, pressures etc.
    Anyways agree completely. Everything has gone wacky in the west. It’s a lot of psychologically warped people that belong in a mental hospital that are attaching themselves to these movements as well.
    That being said the whole Feminism movement was spearhead by Gloria Stein back in the 60’70’s etc.
    Really it’s about destroying the family unit.

    • @xxdragan1969
      @xxdragan1969 2 года назад +2

      Yes and she is part of the Tribe and their plans for the "west"....Refer to Frankfurt School and their Chosen professors ...

    • @goldtiger9453
      @goldtiger9453 2 года назад

      The problem with feminism is that we don't get to "spar", it's seen like a holy doctrine now and absolute power corrupts absolutely. Male domination can be good or bad but female domination will always be bad because they will resent u for not being better than them

  • @RealMattKiefer
    @RealMattKiefer 2 года назад +1

    Firas dropping red pill bombs

  • @croissant87712
    @croissant87712 2 года назад +15

    Weird takes to point out about how you only need a dust worth’s of masculinity to keep a woman satisfied but will more quickly jump to say you agree with Andrew Tate’s points when majority of his message sides with the obsession of masculinity and into it’s more toxic traits. These points have been said over and over and are refuting more rare opinions of everyday people like extreme feminism, albeit they maybe louder than everyone else. A more refreshing take, instead of the same as every live stream I have watched for the past two years, is to also critique the pompous Andrew Tate opinions so we can get a well balanced and refreshing argument.

    • @goldtiger9453
      @goldtiger9453 2 года назад +11

      I don't like tate but honestly his takes are better than the mainstream soft pro censorship narrative. They should just let extremes battle each other. Censorship makes the extremes more powerful

    • @croissant87712
      @croissant87712 2 года назад +8

      @@goldtiger9453 With Andrew Tate’s methods in his Hustler’s course, (manipulating typically young impressionable men to not only believe his skewed opinions but also to spread the message in a cult like fashion on Tik Tok and Instagram) seems like a more immediate opinion and situation to combat. Also censorship in the terms of a company is up to their discretion, the government and law would be another discussion. We may agree to disagree.

    • @goldtiger9453
      @goldtiger9453 2 года назад +3

      @@croissant87712 ok true but hopefully this isn't a trend. Tate cheated the algorithm but if he got kicked off for selling a scam then we'd have to kick alot of big RUclipsrs off the platform like Jake Paul.
      This is unrelated but I'm not so sure social media is a private company the government definitely had its hand in big tech and media thru the whole covid situation.

  • @shashankganesha5620
    @shashankganesha5620 2 года назад +11

    Ah Firas you suddenly became my favorite mma coach ...

  • @jag8968
    @jag8968 2 года назад +9

    I just want to say Jane Eyre is a great novel, I genuinely intelligent, literary and philosophical classic from the 19th century, that was copied by hack writers of romance novels later on. It's not boring at all. You would like it, Coach, as a fan of philosophy.

    • @cryptocaesar8972
      @cryptocaesar8972 2 года назад +1

      Men read less fiction.

    • @jag8968
      @jag8968 2 года назад +7

      @@cryptocaesar8972 our loss

    • @cryptocaesar8972
      @cryptocaesar8972 2 года назад

      @@jag8968 Is it? Isn’t reality more fun and interesting? What is the net benefit of reading this fiction over reading say a book on how world war 2 began?

    • @mariosargiropoulos1715
      @mariosargiropoulos1715 2 года назад +8

      @@cryptocaesar8972 What is the benefit of watching movies? What is the benefit of mythology? Stories are the foundation of the human condition and serve to inspire and help us understand and navigate life. How can one be inspired to be a hero without first hearing stories of heroes?

    • @cryptocaesar8972
      @cryptocaesar8972 2 года назад

      @@mariosargiropoulos1715 I don’t know if movies are very great for you.

  • @rollotomassi8251
    @rollotomassi8251 2 года назад +2

    "Pump and dump'
    -Descartes

  • @divinethug1
    @divinethug1 2 года назад +6

    Hit the nail right on the head.
    Thnx for your insight coach!

  • @newbritainpauly4841
    @newbritainpauly4841 22 дня назад

    Firas is brilliant.

  • @Freiheit1232
    @Freiheit1232 Год назад +3

    I disagree about the lipstick being sexual. I've heard that argument from JBP but the only women i know who really wear lipstick (because most wear nothing) it's because they look dead without it.... My mom has such pale lips it's odd to see her without lip stick because there is no color in her pale face without it. I think it's just beauty standards that have changed where to see a woman without color and they look pale/dull, it's so out of the norm and bizarre looking

  • @UncleJoeyPodcast
    @UncleJoeyPodcast 2 года назад +7

    Brother. This is beautiful.

  • @party38
    @party38 Год назад

    Drama burned me out I can’t handle drama and focus on business

  • @barryirlandi4217
    @barryirlandi4217 2 года назад +3

    Women are different.. Alhamdulillah.. 37 years of marriage and so far so good

  • @julesthewalker
    @julesthewalker 2 года назад +15

    Firas, why not keep your gym channel about the gym and combat sports and have a seperate channel for subjects such as this?

    • @terreneofficial
      @terreneofficial 2 года назад +10

      It's his channel. He can do what he wants.

  • @N1L507
    @N1L507 2 года назад +31

    I thought it was bizarre when bro said that as a coach he refuses to roll w women for whatever weird ass reason he gave, but this really takes the cake lmao wtf

    • @cryptocaesar8972
      @cryptocaesar8972 2 года назад +3

      Why would you roll with someone you’re sexually attracted to?

    • @N1L507
      @N1L507 2 года назад +18

      @@cryptocaesar8972 he’s attracted to every single woman that walks into his gym? Lol

    • @roflswamp6
      @roflswamp6 2 года назад

      @@N1L507 he never said that tho

    • @testtestlast4306
      @testtestlast4306 2 года назад +12

      @@N1L507 so you want him to go "yes you are ugly enough, let's roll". That's gonna go down great i bet.

    • @bez1196
      @bez1196 2 года назад +4

      @@N1L507nah, he's just a realist. The irony is that most ppl in the past would agree with him. There's a reason why the sexes used to segregated in gyms, especially martial arts gyms and no, it wasn't because they hated women. But I'm sure you'll come back with some juvenile BS like "this is the 21st century bro, get with the times" as if that's an argument in itself. Do you think human nature, which has been fairly stable for tens of thousands of years, somehow underwent a radical change in the past 100 years?

  • @testtestlast4306
    @testtestlast4306 2 года назад +3

    Yeah but what color is your bugatti?

  • @verlith30
    @verlith30 2 года назад +2

    Treat them like they dont matter and they chase, don't and they leave, doesn't matter age, even if a woman is 50, they're designed this way

  • @Kalama_Llama_King_Kong
    @Kalama_Llama_King_Kong 2 года назад +5

    I don't know ,Coach. I wouldn't say it is in the girls individual intention to mirror swollen lips and blushed cheeks. I think the reason for that actually begins where the power is, not with the women individually.
    The individual woman just wants to feel worthy

    • @Kalama_Llama_King_Kong
      @Kalama_Llama_King_Kong 2 года назад

      Btw. They SHOULD yield that power. That is Yin and yang balance. We can harm them and they are able to give us what we want most. Balance.

    • @Kalama_Llama_King_Kong
      @Kalama_Llama_King_Kong 2 года назад

      There are women aware of their nature, which you describe accurately. Those who can check it are rad AF

  • @duskoskako5415
    @duskoskako5415 2 года назад +23

    We need more philosophers as leaders

    • @fractalzoomgoggles
      @fractalzoomgoggles 2 года назад

      Stefan Molyneux

    • @charles-antoinelafond4655
      @charles-antoinelafond4655 2 года назад +1

      It's litteraly one of the easiest degree to complete it means nothing

    • @duskoskako5415
      @duskoskako5415 2 года назад +6

      @@charles-antoinelafond4655 Tell me you never studied philosophy without telling me....

    • @charles-antoinelafond4655
      @charles-antoinelafond4655 2 года назад

      @@duskoskako5415 I have a degree in a similar field, in a comparable university in the same province as him. Trust me it's not that hard. Look at concordia's university requirent to enter a degree in philosophy. Also the guy is far from being an expert in his field, he has no authority on the subjet whatsoever. You're just a simp buddy

    • @fractalzoomgoggles
      @fractalzoomgoggles 2 года назад

      @@duskoskako5415 Blue pilled think degrees mean something, everything.

  • @toamcdohl
    @toamcdohl 2 года назад +21

    Poorly-worded nonsense lol. Genuinely embarrassing to hear shit like this from someone often pointed to as a voice of reason in MMA.

    • @nefeskar
      @nefeskar 12 дней назад +1

      Yeah why don't you offer some substance? You have an opinion without any backing.

  • @shawnchuang1450
    @shawnchuang1450 2 года назад +4

    he aint lying though

  • @honestlee9921
    @honestlee9921 2 года назад +3

    This is the best

  • @ballisticfish1212
    @ballisticfish1212 2 года назад +18

    Not sure why mma coach Firas Zahabi would know the ‘truth about feminism and relationships’

    • @goldtiger9453
      @goldtiger9453 2 года назад +3

      Every guy that's successful with women knows

    • @shakir1998
      @shakir1998 2 года назад +3

      he studies philosophy, he's not just a mma coach.

  • @turnwaiter
    @turnwaiter Год назад +1

    Women wearing makeup is not always sexual. Of course, it can be, but a lot of women don't/can't wear makeup how they would like to because people like this will sexualize them and make countless inferences about them. Why can't it be artistic expression or a fun hobby? You can't just handwave thousands of years of oppression because of a few decades of progress. If you are raised in a world where gender and racial inequality are systemically intertwined with literally everything, it's only natural that you yourself will be a product of that. You can either choose to be aware of this fact and learn to be more empathetic and understanding, or, you can covertly fight for a return to traditionalism (where women are viewed as capital) by playing the moderate.

    • @sucaadshardi9650
      @sucaadshardi9650 5 месяцев назад

      I disagree that women love to read romance books because those books were the only books available in the library and it was promoted in movies and magazines of course women will read it. Your a product of your environment

  • @JorgeHernandez-dd1so
    @JorgeHernandez-dd1so 2 года назад +4

    Firas is based as fuck.

  • @Ioc1legsweep
    @Ioc1legsweep 2 года назад +3

    You Speak Truth! Many women won’t admit it though.

  • @Saidyokub35
    @Saidyokub35 7 месяцев назад

    This is gold

  • @thesource6673
    @thesource6673 2 года назад +12

    You are on point coach, just please dont call yourself a feminist if your not one, for the sake of not giving power to this label.

    • @flatericccc
      @flatericccc 2 года назад

      If you think women should have equal opportunity and freedom to have agency over themselves, then you are a feminist.

  • @brennancarter7721
    @brennancarter7721 2 года назад +6

    Coach, you are a wise and thoughtful individual who I respect very much.

  • @Cristian-zz9ny
    @Cristian-zz9ny 2 года назад +6

    Firas dropping the truth, we appreciate you

  • @ClearlyReviews
    @ClearlyReviews 2 года назад +1

    Shout out to you! I honestly wasn’t expecting you to talk about something like this but I am glad you did!

  • @panosts6178
    @panosts6178 2 года назад +11

    Ultra common Firas W.
    Instead of trying to be second class men by trying to embrace masculine traits women should embrace their natural feminine roles in society. That way they are way more useful and way happier.

  • @cart3sam389
    @cart3sam389 2 года назад +30

    Coach is a great coach but his political takes are not as great as he thinks they are.
    He missed the mark by assuming all women want the same thing and act the same way. Half of the humans living on this planet are women with individual wants and needs.
    Also, women don’t do everything for men. It’s possible that women want to put on makeup for themselves. Just like a man can want a haircut or trim their beards for themselves.
    Lastly, you can be nice to women without sacrificing your manliness. You’re right, don’t try too hard or it’s kinda cringe but, being dark and moody gets old fast too.
    The other videos are great but this one was a miss for me, sorry.

    • @VaporRize08
      @VaporRize08 2 года назад +6

      Of there's one thing most men will band together on its their unwillingness to see women as diverse human beings with diverse human being needs. Missing the mark on women is a given

    • @bez1196
      @bez1196 2 года назад +2

      @@VaporRize08 ironically, your comment suggests that men aren't diverse human beings with different opinions. Why don't you apply the same standards for men and women?

    • @bez1196
      @bez1196 2 года назад +1

      I think you misunderstood the point he was making. There's nothing wrong with speaking in general terms. Of course he would agree that women as individuals have different tastes, desires, needs etc.. But making a statement that says "women want a protective man" is generally true if we make inferences based on history and our lived realities. It does not become invalidated if there is a subset of women out there who desire soft men.
      What is the exact statement that you disagree with here anyway?

    • @cart3sam389
      @cart3sam389 2 года назад +2

      @@bez1196 I strongly disagree with his point about women putting on makeup for men. I’d say most women just want to feel comfortable in their own skin. Assuming women base small decisions like their makeup choices on men is a little insulting. Women can make decisions independently of how it will affect men lol.
      Also, make general statement about half the human population based on a single book is a little dumb. Tastes in books don’t indicate what a woman might want in a relationship. For exemple, the book “fifty Shades of Grey” was insanely popular. Doesn’t mean most women want sex dungeons in their living room lol
      I respect everything Coach says about sports. His political views are just not it for me.

    • @simonmasson-dupras3946
      @simonmasson-dupras3946 2 года назад

      i think overall the message was to be balanced

  • @mineshaftrisotto
    @mineshaftrisotto 2 года назад +4

    Damn Andrew Tate got tanned

  • @mariojuana
    @mariojuana 2 года назад +15

    That’s not why women wear make up 😂 have some control of your weird thoughts.

    • @ebp1234
      @ebp1234 2 года назад +9

      They dont wear makeup to make themselves more attractive?

    • @bushy9780
      @bushy9780 2 года назад +14

      why do they wear it then? "to look good for themselves"? LOL

    • @thesource6673
      @thesource6673 2 года назад +3

      And the coach doesnt train to be stronger

    • @nbl1ve804
      @nbl1ve804 2 года назад +4

      @@bushy9780 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @MontyQueues
      @MontyQueues 2 года назад +5

      @@bushy9780 no to look good for their friends, LMAO LMAO same for the high heels

  • @hongkongkev3941
    @hongkongkev3941 2 года назад +4

    I'm actually surprised to see this content from Firas (I don't know him personally) I still find it interesting that he's using his platform in this way.
    It says more about Firaz than the actual subject; what he's using his platform for... then you gotta think why? how? because?
    A bit like Firas take on Tate... I agree 90% but not totally.
    Because there are too many moving parts to generalise the roles of what men and women want in a relationship. We have culture, education, religion, experience, age, economics.
    Still we are all natural psychologists learning on the job, even if most aren't aware of it, particularly in the mating game.
    I think the key is getting the basics right 'Pen and Sword' in accord and practice!
    This kind of content tells me more about Firaz than the actual subject.

    • @neezydablokboi4962
      @neezydablokboi4962 2 года назад +1

      I'm not. Firas has a pretty conservative outlook in life - he's a devout religious man, which tends to lead to conservative values. If you knew anything about Firas - it wouldn't be a surprise.

    • @hongkongkev3941
      @hongkongkev3941 2 года назад +1

      @@neezydablokboi4962 fair point.
      To be fair I have only ever looked at Firas through the lens of a martial arts student.
      As a coach myself I have learned a lot from his style and attitude particularly from his grappling instructionals.
      I like his personality and thought he came across well on JRE.
      Still interesting to me that he feels like he wants to share his values on this platform in this way.

  • @hishamghazi77
    @hishamghazi77 2 года назад +11

    Coach, this is an important topic for men's issues in this current generation.

  • @anti_hero_660
    @anti_hero_660 2 года назад +7

    Love these side chats could listen all day

  • @MidWanker-Minis
    @MidWanker-Minis Год назад +1

    I love this guy ❤🔥👌🏻

  • @imranchoate
    @imranchoate Год назад +1

    Alhamdulillah ....Very Good Advice! Even if you Do everything "right" she will always find drama. In the End she is not the Judge.

  • @MontyQueues
    @MontyQueues 2 года назад +5

    destroy family values, destroy the minds of the youth... this is textbook
    people are falling for it

  • @bman6065
    @bman6065 Год назад +1

    I never thought lipstick was attractive. Red lipstick is actually appalling to me. I guess it's one thing I have in common with Hitler.

  • @stealthmode1303
    @stealthmode1303 2 года назад +7

    Bless you coach

  • @barryk00da
    @barryk00da 2 года назад +5

    This is embarrassingly ignorant and under-researched - I’m actually very surprised as I have great respect for you.

    • @barryk00da
      @barryk00da 2 года назад +7

      Conflating sexual fantasy in literature with how a functional, fair society should be run is farcical.
      Some women like to literally be slaves in the bedroom. That’s not indicative how we should have women as slaves in a factory.

    • @easychange2345
      @easychange2345 2 года назад

      If u have great respect for him, do enlighten us on his errors.

  • @diogomata2438
    @diogomata2438 2 года назад +12

    Zahabi and Tate in a thumbnail?
    Never clicked so fast

  • @josephavila6226
    @josephavila6226 2 года назад +2

    Based coach faras

  • @ivanivan5511
    @ivanivan5511 Год назад

    Since I was very young I found make up something sexual, just I couldn't speak it cos the truth always hurts

  • @inubbzz7
    @inubbzz7 2 года назад +19

    Yikes… I like a lot of the ideas conveyed here, but some of them are not jiving well with me. Huge generalizations based on nonscientific ideas. The idea that all women are the same and desire the same things is just not correct. There are many strong independent women in the world today who don’t desire a strong and capable man, but rather a beta male type of character or what you refer to as a ‘lap dog’ man who will do whatever they say. For that matter, many women today don’t desire men at all. Another thing, you’re referring to Jane Eyre as a romance novel. By definition, a romance novel is “a work of extended prose fiction with a theme of love”. Jane Eyre is a nonfiction piece that was written hundreds of years ago. Of course a book written in the 1800s, before women had the rights they do today, would have some very antiquated ideas and a different culture entirely. You can’t use this ancient selection as any type of proof that women today are the same as they were hundreds of years ago. Not all women prefer to be naïve. Not all women want a man who knows more than they do. I suspect women are just like men in that each individual has a unique personality and a wide range of characteristics. Another person in the comments said something like this sounds as ridiculous as women explaining how men are and what they want, and I tend to agree. I will still love Firas forever!

    • @inubbzz7
      @inubbzz7 2 года назад +3

      @Enigma Vids It's actually a comment, but thanks for the thoughtful reply :)

    • @roflswamp6
      @roflswamp6 2 года назад

      Maybe ur just insecure

    • @inubbzz7
      @inubbzz7 2 года назад

      @@roflswamp6 lol lol maybe you're right

    • @roflswamp6
      @roflswamp6 2 года назад +4

      @@inubbzz7 I am open to being wring and will not assert myself as an authority on the subject but my father and family and culture (mexican) also reflects alot of what tate and firas say and the men in our family that went to college and embraces more "progressive" ideals have trouble woth women and always get cheated on etc so it's an interesting observation for sure and shouldn't encourage abuse towards women either but the line really there and it can be maintained without being toxic or harmful I hope that makes sense God bless you

    • @VaporRize08
      @VaporRize08 2 года назад +1

      It's 2022 and it's still having to be stated that women are human beings with diverse personalities and needs. Yet feminism is the problem

  • @plutonium120
    @plutonium120 2 года назад +3

    coach firas dropping truth nonstop.

  • @modernexistence4206
    @modernexistence4206 2 года назад +3

    Facts. Respect