From a cis woman to a trans woman, you are very beautiful and I hope for you a time when you will feel comfortable and confident with yourself as you are, whatever that may mean to you. I can’t imagine what it would be like to live my first 21 years as a male while not feeling comfortable with that, so you kinda fake it, and then you transition and you still feel like your pretending to be something, and of course there are those people out there who point it out to you, I really feel for you. It’s like an in between land that must be very challenging. I have a nephew who is a trans man and he was quite defensive when he first started his transition since he felt like a target. Now he is a very calm and gentle man who is very comfortable with who he is, has a lovely girlfriend and is happy with his life. I wish the same for you. 💕
@@the_happy_goth this comment I had to screenshot as it is exactly what I wish to see in the world today!! Thank you sooo much for the love and compassion!!! Your nephew must be very brave!! 💗💗💗🥰🥰🥰🥰💗
50 years of prep and 11 years of transition and I am still only semi passable and I have been full time for 10 years. I stopped caring about the rubes as if I get attacked it's their problem. If I get stopped by the cops and they run NCIC on me they call for backup before they approach the car and I am to be arrested at gunpoint with backup, even if unarmed. Half of my military record is classified. I'm having difficulty changing my name, anad I was on the no fly list for 10 years. I have no shame! it's not an option! At 70, I ran out of F***s. Dysphoria: gone! I no longer cae about getting clocked. I got clocked more trying to pass as male. It usually ended up with someone injured, usually me. I do a podcast, The Trainwreck with Helga Mann. I project a camel toe without any artificial aid, in yoga pants or bicycle shorts. I can hold it naked unless I have to bend over.I wear a 42 D bra and fill it.
You’re pretty and absolutely pass based on your physical appearance. I know voice training is challenging, but it’s critical if we want to pass 100% of the time. Remember that trans women and cis women are both women. 🥰
Girl, you're beautiful af, and your voice is as well. For us transfemmes, you pass, let society be wretched, as it always has been. I have several AFAB friends who get misgendered even, while they are more female than I ever will be (in the strictest sense of the word). People will always have criticism, no matter how you look or sound, and we'll have to live with it. As long as we are happy with ourselves, let them talk.
Hello, i get it. Its not easy to be us but that doesn't invalidate who we are as trans woman. Yes I'm also a fellow trans woman here. I totally understand how much we criticize our appearance but never felt being good enough to be passable. I've been in the closet since I was 16 and it took me till I was in my mid 20s to come out to be me. I'd always knew it would be a struggle but I know that I must face 2 options. Be myself happily with life struggles or live the rest of my life in a lie with constant regret not transitioning. I chose to be myself happily and any struggles in life is just part of life where we grow to be a functioning human in society. Life is just hard but that's just how it is. At least I will not live my life in constant regret. If it was my final days of my life, at least I can rest in peace with what I had achieved and experienced real life experiences throughout my life.
@@Momma_Char I get it; yeah, I have body dysmorphia myself. I had to go through a gastric bypass when I was 19, though my dysmorphia will flare when I can feel my collarbones. It’s a weird feeling. Take care and virtual hugs from across the circuits of the time… aka the internet. 💗💕💗
Char Beautiful, I think I get it, as well as a trans-amorous man can, but please be mindful that we don't have to be beholden to a White patriarchal notion of beauty we can opt to know that your beautiful feminine mind shows through regardless...... The rest of it is just icing on the cake to me.
Some want to pass and I’m in that category. I try to dress and blend in and not draw attention. Works and sometimes it doesn’t. What I don’t get is getting upset that people stare or make comments when people dress and wear makeup like drag queens. Want to be a Queen fine deal with it want to be tolerated and maybe accepted don’t stand out try to fit in and be respectful of peoples spaces they all don’t understand.
I feel we need to start embracing trans beauty almost like how we have different races, if we were in a world building type of book I can imagine trans women being that bad ass warrior class species that are beautiful but look ready for battle 😊
From a cis woman to a trans woman, you are very beautiful and I hope for you a time when you will feel comfortable and confident with yourself as you are, whatever that may mean to you. I can’t imagine what it would be like to live my first 21 years as a male while not feeling comfortable with that, so you kinda fake it, and then you transition and you still feel like your pretending to be something, and of course there are those people out there who point it out to you, I really feel for you. It’s like an in between land that must be very challenging. I have a nephew who is a trans man and he was quite defensive when he first started his transition since he felt like a target. Now he is a very calm and gentle man who is very comfortable with who he is, has a lovely girlfriend and is happy with his life. I wish the same for you. 💕
@@the_happy_goth this comment I had to screenshot as it is exactly what I wish to see in the world today!! Thank you sooo much for the love and compassion!!! Your nephew must be very brave!! 💗💗💗🥰🥰🥰🥰💗
And you are so brave too my love, keep going! ❤️
I know how you feel. Char you are totally passable and beautiful.
Thank you so much sweetie but I still got alot to go to get where I want to! 💗💗🥰
@@Momma_Char Understandable, transition seems to be constant, I always feel there is more to do.
I’m hoping that I can look just as beautiful as you are❤
Awww but I encourage you to be the best beautiful you can be! 💗
@@Momma_Char he looks like man
50 years of prep and 11 years of transition and I am still only semi passable and I have been full time for 10 years. I stopped caring about the rubes as if I get attacked it's their problem. If I get stopped by the cops and they run NCIC on me they call for backup before they approach the car and I am to be arrested at gunpoint with backup, even if unarmed. Half of my military record is classified. I'm having difficulty changing my name, anad I was on the no fly list for 10 years. I have no shame! it's not an option! At 70, I ran out of F***s. Dysphoria: gone! I no longer cae about getting clocked. I got clocked more trying to pass as male. It usually ended up with someone injured, usually me. I do a podcast, The Trainwreck with Helga Mann. I project a camel toe without any artificial aid, in yoga pants or bicycle shorts. I can hold it naked unless I have to bend over.I wear a 42 D bra and fill it.
Are you single ?
You’re pretty and absolutely pass based on your physical appearance. I know voice training is challenging, but it’s critical if we want to pass 100% of the time. Remember that trans women and cis women are both women. 🥰
This was a confidence booster comment! Thank you for being realistic to me sweetie!! 💗💗💗💗🥰
your voice is fine...exudes a confident professional woman
Girl, you're beautiful af, and your voice is as well. For us transfemmes, you pass, let society be wretched, as it always has been. I have several AFAB friends who get misgendered even, while they are more female than I ever will be (in the strictest sense of the word). People will always have criticism, no matter how you look or sound, and we'll have to live with it. As long as we are happy with ourselves, let them talk.
@@MajorenSnor awww thank you sooo much for this amazing comment! 💗💗
You definitely pass 😍 gorgeous 😍
Thank you sweetie 💗💗
You look absolutely gorgeous .
Thank you soo much hun! 💗💗💗🥰
I rarely pass.... probably since I wear makeup on occasion, not constantly.
You are a beautiful Lady .You be the best you that you can be ....AND a Smile and middle finger to those that don't like it .
@@chris2words woot woot you can say that again! 💗💗🥰🥰💗💗
Hello, i get it. Its not easy to be us but that doesn't invalidate who we are as trans woman. Yes I'm also a fellow trans woman here. I totally understand how much we criticize our appearance but never felt being good enough to be passable.
I've been in the closet since I was 16 and it took me till I was in my mid 20s to come out to be me. I'd always knew it would be a struggle but I know that I must face 2 options. Be myself happily with life struggles or live the rest of my life in a lie with constant regret not transitioning. I chose to be myself happily and any struggles in life is just part of life where we grow to be a functioning human in society. Life is just hard but that's just how it is. At least I will not live my life in constant regret.
If it was my final days of my life, at least I can rest in peace with what I had achieved and experienced real life experiences throughout my life.
I find myself in the same position I hear you❤
what are you talking about? You totally pass.
Awwww it’s a mental thing for me hun! It’s the voice but thank you love 💕
@@Momma_Char I get it; yeah, I have body dysmorphia myself. I had to go through a gastric bypass when I was 19, though my dysmorphia will flare when I can feel my collarbones. It’s a weird feeling.
Take care and virtual hugs from across the circuits of the time… aka the internet.
💗💕💗
@@JenniferMcMahonhawaii78 awww stay in there love! You got this! Thank you!! 💗💗💗
The general consensus here is you are gorgeous.
you are VERY passable, Char; mental health very important, good luck on your facial surgery
You look good enough for me
Don't let any tell you different
@@Rose-may26 thank you sooo much Rose! That gives me confidence 💗💗💗
Your GORGEOUS AS YOU ARE
My birthday is coming up on October 16th momma charlotte
Happy early birthday! 🎉
@@Momma_Char can you possibly make a birthday video
Char Beautiful, I think I get it, as well as a trans-amorous man can, but please be mindful that we don't have to be beholden to a White patriarchal notion of beauty we can opt to know that your beautiful feminine mind shows through regardless...... The rest of it is just icing on the cake to me.
@@Gervais-l7x that is completely correct! My journey isn’t about finding beauty but finding my mold that I was meant to be in 💗💗🥰
First of all i love yout nails, you are a REAL, REAL women, would not mind dating you at all
Kissssssesss
Thank you soooo much! It means a lot! 💗💗
Some want to pass and I’m in that category. I try to dress and blend in and not draw attention. Works and sometimes it doesn’t. What I don’t get is getting upset that people stare or make comments when people dress and wear makeup like drag queens. Want to be a Queen fine deal with it want to be tolerated and maybe accepted don’t stand out try to fit in and be respectful of peoples spaces they all don’t understand.
I feel we need to start embracing trans beauty almost like how we have different races, if we were in a world building type of book I can imagine trans women being that bad ass warrior class species that are beautiful but look ready for battle 😊
@@Transtalk-777 this is epic! Cool concept btw 💗💗💗
I really love this. Trans warrior.
That’s great if it works for you, but some of us are dysphoric and need to pass and need to blend in with women.
If think you would pass with FFS. I think I saw an old video where you said you were going to Alex Sinclair?..
@@creamedcorn-yq7tq a while back I wanted to go to him but decided I’m going to Toby Meltzer 💗💗🥰
All love here for you sweetie 😘 ❤️ 💕 💗 💓
Stunning love her
Do you see yourself in the future changing more and more as time goes by? Do you think your gender will not really matter some day?
Some day I hope it doesn’t for a lot of people but o do hope for the best changes for me 💗💗
@@Momma_Char I love that vision for you. Im with you all the way girl 🙏
You are beautiful and do pass sister!
@@princessjulieta thank you! It means a lot! 💗🥰💗💗
Im git you
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Gorgeous
Pretty 😍 Woman
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You look and sound fine but I'd suggest to dress and appear a little more normal. Blend in so to speak.
And really, you don't need the stuff that you did do. Natural is the best beauty. You look great but trash those nails-nasty looking. Best wishes
So they told you in school im guessing.
@@barco99 never transitioned in school
@@Momma_Char Oh it's not. Oh so it's not identity. real deal medically?