I really enjoy the way Coach Fatimah speaks! Coach Fatimah speaks plainly and directly, she reveres and respects her husband, and she is honest with herself. I'm sensitive to disrespect due to coming up around women with a gross lack of respect for men and I know exactly what Coach Fatimah means when she speaks of how some women question a man's plan or his ability, it can be undermining, disrespectful, and discouraging. This message encourages me to continue to work on my own healing and become a better man for my future family as I cannot fix broken women, but I can fix myself and build a success family.
Another outstanding explanation. Ma sha Allah you understand men’s psychology well. We definitely need both good men and women who can bridge the understanding and relationships between man and women in marriage.
MashAllah - I love Coach Fatima so much, her humor, sarcasm and being so focused on the matter of hand, strong lady, beautiful and wise. Thank you for advising women like it is.
Sister I love the way u break it down into cilibles .this is so awesome.keep it powerful.Thanks for making me believe in myself.I think now that I can make it👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿💖
I think alot of women believe that their husband is "too broke" to handle poly because there may be things that the wife wants but the husband doesn't supply. Also, if the sister has been accepting minimal finances from him and he now has enough to take on another family then she may say, "hey, that's more money that he could be spending on me."
I know for some, it’s more serious than that. You may be surprised how many men in a monogamous marriage are not at all financially supportive. As a marriage therapist, many women, Muslims as well as others, share how they are the single source of income for their families, sometimes for years for various reasons. Most will never admit that fact to friends or family for fear of judgment and the like. So when some of those women come in and share that the men in their lives want to start polygamy, they are concerned how that can take place. They believe the proposed incoming wife can’t possibly know that what they think he may have by looking in from the outside is not at all the case. So they feel resentment for him even mentioning it at all. That’s just one example of many. Some men are absolutely ready for polygamy as emotionally and financially fit for sure. And of course some are not. The key is for the man himself to know the difference. I don’t get to hear many “success” stories due to my position. Most couples come to me already in crisis mode. I’m mainly on this page as well as others to gain some further insight, as I’ve been been taking on more clients in polygamous situations. It’s helpful for me to immerse myself to help my clients in the best way I can. Humans are complicated and interesting in the best ways. I love working with them in this particular area.
😍😍❤️❤️💙💙 You’re a very wise woman!! You’re beautiful inside and out and that wisdom and beauty is key to a husband’s and co-wife peace! May Allah(Subhana wa ta’ala) keep your inside beautiful just as beautiful as your outside Uhkti!!! ❤️❤️
SUPPORT OUR KING Mashallah Sister Fatimah, Allah Ta’ala has really blessed you with phenomenal insight about how women should appreciate and support their husband, especially in polygyny. Women in monogamy can benefit from your advice as well. The gems that you share are REALLY eye, heart and soul openers!!! Subhan Allah!!! May Allah Ta’ala endlessly bless your entire family with an abundance of good in both worlds, Ameen!!!
We are reverts as well sis. A husband doesn't need to seek his wife's permission. She may put in her marriage contract that if he does marry again that she be released from the marriage however her permission isn't needed so no Allah doesn't give her authority over his decision.
You and your husband must have great communication with each other , you come across as a very confident first wife which I believe isn’t very common.
Agree. She is an inspiration. Barakallah.
He's Blessed To Have You!! And Exspecially Your Support.. I'm feeling your a nurturing person. May Allah Reward you to the Highest Level of Jannah ..
For what? For being a cowife? Why? Why does Allah reward this, why does he allow sex slaves and paedophili
Definition of a Queen, mashallah🤲🏾❤
I really enjoy the way Coach Fatimah speaks! Coach Fatimah speaks plainly and directly, she reveres and respects her husband, and she is honest with herself.
I'm sensitive to disrespect due to coming up around women with a gross lack of respect for men and I know exactly what Coach Fatimah means when she speaks of how some women question a man's plan or his ability, it can be undermining, disrespectful, and discouraging.
This message encourages me to continue to work on my own healing and become a better man for my future family as I cannot fix broken women, but I can fix myself and build a success family.
Another outstanding explanation. Ma sha Allah you understand men’s psychology well. We definitely need both good men and women who can bridge the understanding and relationships between man and women in marriage.
MashAllah - I love Coach Fatima so much, her humor, sarcasm and being so focused on the matter of hand, strong lady, beautiful and wise. Thank you for advising women like it is.
5:12 "my fear was that I knew he could do it". 👏👏👏
Sister I love the way u break it down into cilibles .this is so awesome.keep it powerful.Thanks for making me believe in myself.I think now that I can make it👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿💖
Support our kings!.✊
I think alot of women believe that their husband is "too broke" to handle poly because there may be things that the wife wants but the husband doesn't supply. Also, if the sister has been accepting minimal finances from him and he now has enough to take on another family then she may say, "hey, that's more money that he could be spending on me."
I know for some, it’s more serious than that. You may be surprised how many men in a monogamous marriage are not at all financially supportive. As a marriage therapist, many women, Muslims as well as others, share how they are the single source of income for their families, sometimes for years for various reasons. Most will never admit that fact to friends or family for fear of judgment and the like.
So when some of those women come in and share that the men in their lives want to start polygamy, they are concerned how that can take place. They believe the proposed incoming wife can’t possibly know that what they think he may have by looking in from the outside is not at all the case. So they feel resentment for him even mentioning it at all. That’s just one example of many.
Some men are absolutely ready for polygamy as emotionally and financially fit for sure. And of course some are not. The key is for the man himself to know the difference. I don’t get to hear many “success” stories due to my position. Most couples come to me already in crisis mode.
I’m mainly on this page as well as others to gain some further insight, as I’ve been been taking on more clients in polygamous situations. It’s helpful for me to immerse myself to help my clients in the best way I can. Humans are complicated and interesting in the best ways. I love working with them in this particular area.
This was great information! May Allah Azza wa Jal continue to bless your polygamous family. Aameen
iv wanted this for a long time.. but iv suppressed it.. I'm bout to benge watch your whole channel.. May Allah bless yall!!!
Heart warning and reflective for myself. Thank you
😍😍❤️❤️💙💙 You’re a very wise woman!! You’re beautiful inside and out and that wisdom and beauty is key to a husband’s and co-wife peace! May Allah(Subhana wa ta’ala) keep your inside beautiful just as beautiful as your outside Uhkti!!! ❤️❤️
The 2nd wife keeps looking at him smiling..The second wife is happy an admires his every word..
The 1st wife doesn't look at him smiling? She doesn't admire him? If not, why? Isn't he the same person?
Assamalakium I didnt mention her so I dont know..Inshallah Goodday..
Excellent video!
Support our King! InshaAllah
Great reminder….
Good insights but video doesn't really answer the question
May ALLAH (SWT) continue to Increase you and your family in All Good. Ameen.
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it's hard to provide for one home, imagine two. i wish i could understand another way through this
Increase your skills by finding solutions
@@outstandingpersonalrelationshi how do you mean??
Mad Appreciation for your commitment to personal development 🙏🏽
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Mashallah Sister Fatimah, Allah Ta’ala has really blessed you with phenomenal insight about how women should appreciate and support their husband, especially in polygyny. Women in monogamy can benefit from your advice as well. The gems that you share are REALLY eye, heart and soul openers!!! Subhan Allah!!!
May Allah Ta’ala endlessly bless your entire family with an abundance of good in both worlds, Ameen!!!
Do you wives help with the finances or do he take care of y'all on his own?( from his own means)
Coach Nazir handles the bills without our help.
@@outstandingpersonalrelationshi shu'kran! Alhamdulillah
excellent!👍
sister I am a revert and I may have this information a bit mixed up but I have heard you could say no to your husband marrying a second wife?
We are reverts as well sis. A husband doesn't need to seek his wife's permission. She may put in her marriage contract that if he does marry again that she be released from the marriage however her permission isn't needed so no Allah doesn't give her authority over his decision.
Interesting I did not know that. I’ve have seen revert and convert used interchangeably though.
@@outstandingpersonalrelationshi And thank you for answering!
Please pardon my ignorance, what is a revert?
Words like revert/convert mean someone who wasn't a Muslim but then accepted Islam.
Alhamduli’lah
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What the H!!
Why?
Masha'allah
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