😊💕💕💕 I also feel living apart helps each wife have "me time" as well as "me and my husband " time. Without undermining the unity of being one whole family.
Ma Sha ALLAH. Mat ALLAH protect you from all evil eye. I also have two wives under one roof and one living near the Same area. May ALLAH protect the ummah
MashAllah brother and sisters. Y’all are representing one of the solutions Islam brings to relationships between men and women. May Allah put what your doing as good deeds.
ALHAMDULILLAH!!! ALLAH, AR RAHMAN (MOST GRACIOUS) has granted men the right to practice polygyny; and it works well in most cases. This family appears to be quite happy. The two wives look alike as if they were related by blood - such as cousins. May ALLAH, AL HAKEEM (ALL WISE) continue to bless this family with much love and respect among them all.
Ma shaa Allah I love you guys so mch.. may. Allah SWT. Grant you guys a long life and happiness and increase y’all wit more-knowledge to do more of best.!! I’m in love with y’all ways of living I know it hasn’t been an easy journey from the look of it but Allahuma barrik is helping a lot of us world wide believe me!!
Body language is obvious can't help but notice may Allah continue to bless you and strengthen all of you on your journey 🙏towards alignment in the deen
Assalamualaikum Brother and Sisters, Thank you for allowing us a view into your private lives Alhamdulilah, for being instruments of Allah. While I was listening to the video a question a question came up Insha-Allah you can share insights on it even create a video on the matter (If it doesn't exist already). Between you're Children as a whole (Mahram and Non-Mahram) have you considered a possible family emerging from them? Have you had the conversation amongst yourselves as adults/Parents and is it something you (As All Three Parents) would accept if it was requested by your kids(The ones whom marriage can be possibly Halal). I do not mean to intrude if I am crossing bounds I would completely understand. I mean well Insha-Allah this comments gets your attention. Assalamualaikum.
Living arrangements has always been the biggest question for me. Its only fair that they each get a roof, but that could be costly. How did you get around that? Before getting married, I was informed if you are going to stress about something financially, it might be that you are not ready for it to begin with. How old are you wives? How old were they when you started with polygyny?
Salam! You guys are doing amazing work with your excellent presentations on the polygamy roadmap subject. I would hope that anyone of you, would take a few minutes to answer emails with questions sent to you.
Maybe to keep it professional and to keep some distance and privacy. Just my guess, because they are sharing a lot of their experience from private life, ma sha Allah, but this small detail may help to keep it more professional than private.
You have to continue waiting sis. We're focusing on helping families build from the inside out and that takes more time. Maybe in the future as we scale and get to the other areas we would like to expand to, but right not right now. .
@@outstandingpersonalrelationshi Wouldn't this be part of helping families? Women should know how to make themselves attractive for their husbands (and vice versa).
Sister Fatima is the elder wife and she is also kind and respestable, but she scrap when people write really rude comments and sister Nalah is more sensitive but both are beautiful.
Wa alaykum as salaam, no worries, it's a 30 sec intro so feel free to continue skipping it. We respect esteemed ulama and this is clearly an issue of iktilaaf. We adopt the view of some music being mubah as evidenced by many fataawa, especially by highly regarded scholars such as Imam Ibn Hazm & Imam Shawkani. So we won't debate with anyone on this any longer and ask that people focus on the content of the actual videos.
What did Coach Nyla mean by Bonus son/Bonus daughter and I didn't get them having to cover Infront of each other. I'm confused by that, maybe clarify so I can learn something new.
Bonus children is a name we choose over step-children. In Islam, once children reach puberty, there are rules that go into place so boys and girls don't freely mix nor are they mahram for each other. So the girls must cover their awrah including hair in front of them just like non related males.
@@outstandingpersonalrelationshi so I'm assuming Coach Nyla has kids from previous relationship because Coach Nyla's Son and Coach Fatima's daughter that are also yours don't have to cover Infront of each other. Am I correct, also sorry if I sound nosey, I just want to fully understand.
Coach Nyla had two children already. My adult daughters cover in front of him because he is not blood (mahram). Her daughter must cover in front of my older sons who have reached puberty and are not blood. The simplest way to explain it is that practicing Muslims are to cover their honor in front of people that are considered marriageable but not those who Islam prohibits for marriage.
Do you three only do things that you all agree on? have two of you agreed on something and one was in disagreement? Do you so nice as a family or does each family have a choice?
When we do family travel, Coach Nazir usually leads the way and we operate as a team and things get discussed at our weekly family meetings in advance. He knows our likes and dislikes and we add to the itinerary and events. We also travel and do things separately, yes we're one big family, but we don't have to nor want to do everything together. We're individuals and couples that also appreciate our time away from the children and everyone else also.
Wives under the same roof? Each wife and her kids have a right to their own home and space. If a man cannot provide that then he cannot afford to have more than one wife. Thank God that they don’t live together. I have never seen a situation where everyone under one roof works for everyone. There is either conflict between the adults or the kids.
There are families that do exactly that. We have to remember that houses are set up differently in other countries. Remember how they mentioned during their trip that the house they rented had MANY floors?
@@aminah761 Where did Prophet Mohamed say that multiple families cannot live under one roof? In Muslim countries, you'll find multiple families living under one roof. I'm sure you would find the same thing where the housing arrangement is set up like a compound...
You're a dumb bitter broad for saying such a thing. Just like a troll. They're dropping gems and you worried about who's looking at who more like you're a body language expert. Get a life you basic insecure POS!
😊💕💕💕 I also feel living apart helps each wife have "me time" as well as "me and my husband " time. Without undermining the unity of being one whole family.
I could never accept this in my marriage but mashallah you guys seem to be happy together. May Allah bless your marriage
Ma Sha ALLAH.
Mat ALLAH protect you from all evil eye.
I also have two wives under one roof and one living near the Same area.
May ALLAH protect the ummah
Shalom and greetings. Being Hebrew and new to this type of marriage, you guys have been such a blessing! Keep up the good work! Shalom
MashAllah brother and sisters. Y’all are representing one of the solutions Islam brings to relationships between men and women. May Allah put what your doing as good deeds.
Beautiful family brother. As Salaam Alaykum. May Allah grant us righteous spouses and righteous children.
In order to have your own style & make your home into a home the way women do, it makes sense for each to have their own home.
May Allah SWT bless you all whether under the same roof or separate roof!
In Islam, a man having one good wife is POWER, two good wives is SUPER-POWER! Barakhallaahu fikum to this powerful family!
4 wives is probably super saiyan mode.
ALHAMDULILLAH!!! ALLAH, AR RAHMAN (MOST GRACIOUS) has granted men the right to practice polygyny; and it works well in most cases. This family appears to be quite happy. The two wives look alike as if they were related by blood - such as cousins. May ALLAH, AL HAKEEM (ALL WISE) continue to bless this family with much love and respect among them all.
Ma shaa Allah I love you guys so mch.. may. Allah SWT. Grant you guys a long life and happiness and increase y’all wit more-knowledge to do more of best.!! I’m in love with y’all ways of living I know it hasn’t been an easy journey from the look of it but Allahuma barrik is helping a lot of us world wide believe me!!
Outstanding insight 👍🏻 Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for sharing experiences- Blessings to you all
Body language is obvious can't help but notice may Allah continue to bless you and strengthen all of you on your journey 🙏towards alignment in the deen
How do the emotions the husband’s experiencing in one marriage impact the other?
Assalamualaikum Brother and Sisters, Thank you for allowing us a view into your private lives Alhamdulilah, for being instruments of Allah. While I was listening to the video a question a question came up Insha-Allah you can share insights on it even create a video on the matter (If it doesn't exist already). Between you're Children as a whole (Mahram and Non-Mahram) have you considered a possible family emerging from them? Have you had the conversation amongst yourselves as adults/Parents and is it something you (As All Three Parents) would accept if it was requested by your kids(The ones whom marriage can be possibly Halal). I do not mean to intrude if I am crossing bounds I would completely understand. I mean well Insha-Allah this comments gets your attention. Assalamualaikum.
Living arrangements has always been the biggest question for me. Its only fair that they each get a roof, but that could be costly. How did you get around that? Before getting married, I was informed if you are going to stress about something financially, it might be that you are not ready for it to begin with. How old are you wives? How old were they when you started with polygyny?
I think they’re in their 40s
We're all in our early to mid 40s
Salam! You guys are doing amazing work with your excellent presentations on the polygamy roadmap subject. I would hope that anyone of you, would take a few minutes to answer emails with questions sent to you.
Sisters looking gorgeous Allahumma barik all of you
How y’all do ya hijabs like that I wanna learn the sisters need
A simple story told to illustrate a moral truth.
You don’t have to constantly refer each other as “coach”. Why not just mention their name instead.
Maybe to keep it professional and to keep some distance and privacy. Just my guess, because they are sharing a lot of their experience from private life, ma sha Allah, but this small detail may help to keep it more professional than private.
@@hidayah840 I mean we know their names already and of course they’re both his wives so to keep on referencing each other as coaches seems a bit odd.
This is also their brand and they have a business
Still waiting on for a hijab tutorial
You have to continue waiting sis. We're focusing on helping families build from the inside out and that takes more time. Maybe in the future as we scale and get to the other areas we would like to expand to, but right not right now. .
@@outstandingpersonalrelationshi Wouldn't this be part of helping families? Women should know how to make themselves attractive for their husbands (and vice versa).
Which one is the first wife? I feel the lady in orange is much more polite and calm❤
The one on the right (Coach Fatima)
Sister Fatima is the elder wife and she is also kind and respestable, but she scrap when people write really rude comments and sister Nalah is more sensitive but both are beautiful.
As salaamu alaykum , I suggest you change the intro , because music is not permissible in Islam. I always skip that part. May Allāh bless you all.
Wa alaykum as salaam, no worries, it's a 30 sec intro so feel free to continue skipping it.
We respect esteemed ulama and this is clearly an issue of iktilaaf. We adopt the view of some music being mubah as evidenced by many fataawa, especially by highly regarded scholars such as Imam Ibn Hazm & Imam Shawkani. So we won't debate with anyone on this any longer and ask that people focus on the content of the actual videos.
better have plenty of land 🥬
Alhamduli’lah
What did Coach Nyla mean by Bonus son/Bonus daughter and I didn't get them having to cover Infront of each other. I'm confused by that, maybe clarify so I can learn something new.
Bonus children is a name we choose over step-children. In Islam, once children reach puberty, there are rules that go into place so boys and girls don't freely mix nor are they mahram for each other. So the girls must cover their awrah including hair in front of them just like non related males.
@@outstandingpersonalrelationshi so I'm assuming Coach Nyla has kids from previous relationship because Coach Nyla's Son and Coach Fatima's daughter that are also yours don't have to cover Infront of each other. Am I correct, also sorry if I sound nosey, I just want to fully understand.
Coach Nyla had two children already. My adult daughters cover in front of him because he is not blood (mahram). Her daughter must cover in front of my older sons who have reached puberty and are not blood.
The simplest way to explain it is that practicing Muslims are to cover their honor in front of people that are considered marriageable but not those who Islam prohibits for marriage.
@@outstandingpersonalrelationshi Alhamdullilah understood clearly. Thank you so much for your time.
Do you three only do things that you all agree on? have two of you agreed on something and one was in disagreement? Do you so nice as a family or does each family have a choice?
When we do family travel, Coach Nazir usually leads the way and we operate as a team and things get discussed at our weekly family meetings in advance. He knows our likes and dislikes and we add to the itinerary and events.
We also travel and do things separately, yes we're one big family, but we don't have to nor want to do everything together. We're individuals and couples that also appreciate our time away from the children and everyone else also.
ماشاءالله تبارك الله
شكرا
beautiful masha Allah
ما شاء الله تبارك الرحمن
Wives under the same roof? Each wife and her kids have a right to their own home and space. If a man cannot provide that then he cannot afford to have more than one wife.
Thank God that they don’t live together. I have never seen a situation where everyone under one roof works for everyone. There is either conflict between the adults or the kids.
It'd be better to watch the video before commenting instead of commenting simply based on the thumbnail...
Exactly our Prohet Muhammad did not live like this . This is not sunnah
There are families that do exactly that. We have to remember that houses are set up differently in other countries. Remember how they mentioned during their trip that the house they rented had MANY floors?
@@aminah761 Where did Prophet Mohamed say that multiple families cannot live under one roof? In Muslim countries, you'll find multiple families living under one roof. I'm sure you would find the same thing where the housing arrangement is set up like a compound...
Which one is the first wife ?
Coach Fatimah
Do you have music instruments in your intro? If yes, you know the rest. May Allah bless your family!
Traduzione in italiano
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Mashallah
Islam lov
Familay , yeeeh but uxusemeeee, verry.differents and unuques.yeeeh
Mashaallah you guys Alhamdulilah ❤️❤️❤️
You can tell he favors coach Nyla more from the body language. He's barely looking towards coach Fatima
You're a dumb bitter broad for saying such a thing. Just like a troll. They're dropping gems and you worried about who's looking at who more like you're a body language expert. Get a life you basic insecure POS!
Yallah start the final Allah knows what's in our hearts and as long as he is just other things don't matter
Yea i noticed too. I thought i was the only one
السلام عليكم
و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله و بركاته
Both wives don't look very happy
Unnecessarily living a miserable life