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3 False Promises Narcissists Make | Dr. David Hawkins

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  • Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
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    If your spouse says things like “I’m doing the best I can” or “I have every intention of making changes” they are very likely signs that he or she is not truly committed to change or serious about doing the work needed to affect change in their lives. In this video Dr. Hawkins talks about how to tell when someone is genuine about changing, and when they are not.
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    The internet is inundated with hyperbole and misinformation about narcissism, leaving many people confused and hopeless. Get the facts about narcissism and emotional abuse from someone who has been researching, writing about and treating narcissism and emotional abuse for over a decade.
    Dr. Hawkins is a best-selling author and clinical psychologist with over three decades of experience helping people break unhealthy patterns and build healthier relationships. He is the founder and director of the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute which offers education, training and counseling for people who want to break free of, and heal from, emotional abuse.
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Комментарии • 38

  • @Rsvohi
    @Rsvohi 2 года назад +19

    Always trust people to be who they have demonstrated themselves to be.

    • @drdavidbhawkins
      @drdavidbhawkins  2 года назад +5

      Yes, actions speak louder than words.

    • @llwydanwyl
      @llwydanwyl 10 месяцев назад +1

      maya angelou

    • @TheShaqii
      @TheShaqii 3 месяца назад

      Amen. And im not even christian. I just felt that

  • @nancymc
    @nancymc 2 года назад +5

    such common empty promises, i remember hearing them after each devaluation until the next cycle of abuse over and over again. thank
    you for this valuable information.

    • @drdavidbhawkins
      @drdavidbhawkins  2 года назад +1

      Glad you found it helpful! For more related content, subscribe to our channel or sign up for our newsletters for more helpful articles and videos from our therapists: marriagerecoverycenter.com/mailing-list/

    • @nancymc
      @nancymc 2 года назад

      thank you

  • @Liz-in8lu
    @Liz-in8lu Год назад +3

    He told me he puts me first in everything. But you know, unless it’s related to his job or his dog or his alcoholism…

    • @TheShaqii
      @TheShaqii 3 месяца назад

      Ooof. The alcoholism hits

    • @Liz-in8lu
      @Liz-in8lu 3 месяца назад

      @@TheShaqii yeah it is torture and brutal and soul sucking 😔

    • @TheShaqii
      @TheShaqii 3 месяца назад +1

      @@Liz-in8lu i experienced someone who couldnt stop lying even if it was the smallest things. and the rage/real her came out while drinking. it was heartbreaking being in love at the same time i wanted out. and the fact that your supposed partner accept to go out drinking alone with random guys. it was her that asked me to be her boyfriend, and we are adults. it made me not wanting to date for a long time even how good of a person i meet. ive never been broken this way but wanting to be alone is so much stronger then wanting to be with someone.

  • @marykatherinerosson213
    @marykatherinerosson213 2 года назад +3

    Dr Hawkins is always spot on

    • @drdavidbhawkins
      @drdavidbhawkins  2 года назад +1

      Glad you found it helpful. For more related content, subscribe to our channel or sign up for our newsletters for more helpful articles and videos from our therapists: marriagerecoverycenter.com/mailing-list/

  • @Rekt-ui7pq
    @Rekt-ui7pq 10 месяцев назад

    Hold them accountable
    That has to be the strongest tactic you can use against a false promising narcissist

  • @VDMac
    @VDMac 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Doc.. I really learn a lot from your videos. God bless you.

    • @drdavidbhawkins
      @drdavidbhawkins  2 года назад

      You are very welcome, and thanks for your feedback. For more related content, subscribe to our channel or sign up for our newsletters for more helpful articles and videos from our therapists: marriagerecoverycenter.com/mailing-list/

  • @freedom768
    @freedom768 Год назад +1

    In my narc education I've learnt to trust myself for the first time in my life, I was educated to trust others first when I was a wee girl the person that tought me this was my natural father who later when I was a teenager tried to have sex with me I was very luck he changed his mind the next day he was so angry ...I learnt too stay away from him ,now I trust my gut am happy in therapy now.. trust no one until you trust yourself..

    • @drdavidbhawkins
      @drdavidbhawkins  Год назад

      Yes! Healing is all about discovering and trusting your own inner voice and knowing you have value. Thanks for your comment.

  • @eileensmith3962
    @eileensmith3962 Год назад +1

    We are getting married I’m getting you a ring he helped pick out a dress venue and I found out he told his sister he was never getting married I won’t leave him alone! Vacations that never happened dates that never happened

    • @drdavidbhawkins
      @drdavidbhawkins  Год назад

      The first step is recognizing the patterns, which it seems you have.

    • @KDP7777
      @KDP7777 Год назад +1

      Yup mine was promising me vacations and a wedding he actually said he didn’t want one but if I wanted it he would…. I should’ve recognized that red flag at first!

  • @DG123z
    @DG123z 7 месяцев назад

    Not always men

  • @RedwihteGame
    @RedwihteGame 2 месяца назад

    what if this person is your manager?

  • @johnnyjames9705
    @johnnyjames9705 Год назад

    Simply true and everyday reduculi

    • @drdavidbhawkins
      @drdavidbhawkins  Год назад

      Glad you found it helpful. For more related content, subscribe to our channel or sign up for our newsletter to get helpful tips and advice delivered directly to your Inbox: marriagerecoverycenter.com/mailing-list/

  • @TheGonzo680
    @TheGonzo680 2 года назад

    Hey Doc; You provide plenty of insights and good advice on your channel - exclusively in the context of male narcissists. Are you not aware that roughly 50% of narcissists are females?

    • @drdavidbhawkins
      @drdavidbhawkins  2 года назад

      Thanks for your feedback, yes we are aware and will soon be pushing out more content that addresses that.

  • @mjvictoriano
    @mjvictoriano 2 года назад

    I'm not even here.

  • @heatherhall3452
    @heatherhall3452 2 года назад +1

    Why did you say men? It’s not defined by sex, your wrong

    • @drdavidbhawkins
      @drdavidbhawkins  2 года назад

      We agree, it is not male exclusive. Watch for more videos on female narcissists. You can subscribe to our channel to be notified when new videos are published.

  • @anedhsae
    @anedhsae 2 года назад

    Why do these usually pertain to men???? I've seen, first hand, some of the most devastating narcissist, and they are women!!! Who and where are these people being "diagnosed "?

    • @drdavidbhawkins
      @drdavidbhawkins  2 года назад

      Thanks for your comment. The use of gender specific pronouns does not imply that he believes all narcissists are male, he just happens to fall back on the male pronoun because the majority of his clients happen to be male but he has acknowledged many times and published articles on female narcissists and men that are abused.

  • @JohnBrown722so
    @JohnBrown722so Год назад

    Dante is a str8 liar.