How to Get Matches On Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Etc.
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- Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024
- If you're like most guys, you don't get matches AT ALL, much less, QUALITY MATCHES on online dating apps. Here's why. These are some of the most common mistakes I see time and time again.
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Im a 6’2 blue eyed good looking guy…with a pretty good profile from watching all the Todd V vids and its still rough. With a month of Tinder Platinum. I think women just love the likes for their self esteem.
If you're in the states I think Hinge works quite a bit better. I'm pretty good looking, not too tall, in good shape, got a mid level profile by Todd standards and planning on getting some better pics taken soon. I got 4 dates over the last month and a half since installing, no second dates so far. Each one was a little more attractive than the last and I've got a couple more girls in the funnel I'm starting to make plans with. Which is spectacular compared to the rest of my life until now. Although now I'm seeing a lot of the same profiles I swiped left on over and over and rarely seeing attractive new ones, and it's getting old. It's starting to make me actually want to go out and learn cold approaches since I'm getting comfortable just holding a conversation with a girl, lol. So I was trying to buy the ODA since he's discounted all the programs for V day and after having card issues, I decided to just buy the system instead. Not like Hinge is not working but I want it to be a supplement so it isn't soo tedious. And approaching a cute girl is far more exciting and gratifying than coming up with something to say to a cute account and hoping it gets her attention.
You got it. Most of the bihs there are just to keep their self esteem in check, "I got liked by 150 dudes, how many Sarah got?" You can't expect to excel in those 150, and if she does choose you it's a 100% fact you're in a list of 10 other dudes.
Why are you even on online dating platforms , go out girls will fuckin approach you
Online dating is shit. One of my brother gets a date out of 100 matches. The other (muscular guy) got 2 girl friends but He took the first girl as girlfriend so he took always dumb girls.
You get banned from online dating Plattforms without reason.
Girls do waste your time and only ugly girls or crazy girls want to meet.
I have better experiences by showing my balls (metaphorical) and just approach the hottie in the subway, Shopping Center etc.
And this gives acces to girls without online dating profiles.
And I think most of the girls do not like blue eyes and bright hair colours on men
Na bro, I’ve had tons of success, you’re just not running your tinder well enough
God damn... Are we all supposed to imitate celebrities just to find a good partner? What a shallow world.
That’s why online dating is a waste of time if you don’t do it properly
You can only imitate, but you are not. Unless you are looking for hookups, but in the long term, the other side will request a return label.
You gotta do what you gotta do mate.
Thats why they call it the dating "game" bro, just gotta learn the rules of the game and play it better than the competituon
@@tamie341 Yes. That's been a revelation to me. You can't choose not to play the game. You can only learn to play it well -- if you have any hopes of success. Sobering but true.
“Polite and rarely late” is a quote from Anchorman. Still a bad idea to add it since 90% of women wont get the reference
I followed a few of Todd's tips from a prior video (removing the "you shouldn't date me if" prompts etc) and practically double the liked I had on the app in a week....
Todd, first of all, I watched like 2 of your videos - don't know why you appeared on my feed, but I wanted to say...
You're a legend, thank you.
How about not using the photo click noise for every cut next time? Makes me go nuts while trying to watch all!
That shit pissed me off so much
Hello Todd,
I purchased your course online (and have already paid for it), but despite several days passing, I have not received any login details and am unable to access the course. Additionally, your support team has been responding very slowly and has not resolved the issue. I request your assistance in this matter.
Best regards.
Dude, stop breaking down bad examples, break down good ones instead. Jesus.
The good examples = being attractive.
@@painexotic3757 lol
Under 6 feet and not the top 10% in looks, you need to do real world dating.
“I’m polite and rarely late” is an anchorman quote
True short guide:
Gymmax
Wear clothing that shows physique
Wear business clothes with a slick background as if youre rich
Add an inch to your height (shes not gonna notice youre 5"8 and not 5"9)
Thank me later, online game is 100% looks, only cold approach gives leeway for game
Let's just use AI and make a fake photo of yourself then.
Here’s the problem. All these tips work. But depends.
You can have the best photos ever. The best profile ever. The wittiest and funniest shit written on your profile. You can do all that and more but you better be able to back that up.
If you can’t it’ll become apparent very fast that you’re not who you say you are.
Oh but you say “all you need is that foot in the door.”
Sure. But I say again - you better be able to back your words up. Unless you’re simply just gonna hit it and peace, and the girl is in the same mindset you’ll flame out fast.
No secret be the top 5% of the most attractive men women match and swipe on. Statistics and data show this.
you keep saying what not to do and some what to do but give clear examples ...
He clearly points out some of the things that guys are doing properly
The Myers-Briggs test is not considered valid, but it’s considered as an unreliable psychological instrument.
The Myers-Briggs Personality Test (official name: Myers Briggs Type Indicator or MBTI) was developed in the 1940s based on Carl Jung’s theories of personality.
Many criticize the assumptions behind it and by relying strongly on limited binaries and a rigid dichotomy, the MBTI gives an oversimplified view of human personality.
Another common criticism of the MBTI is a lack of evidence to show a positive correlation between MBTI type and occupational success.
Myers Briggcel
Neither Myers or Briggs were licensed therapist....
Get a Tripod and a remote shutter and know how to light your pictures and they will be 100x better
I"ll save you guys 20 min of video, to get matches, be handsome.
Looking physically good is #1 in online dating, as Todd admits in the video, but the other advice will absolutely still improve your results for whatever handsomeness you have.
Looks and quality photos. You can ruin your attractiveness with bad photos, despite looks.
Lots of good looking guys seek help from Todd and other dating coaches for a reason
The whole point of the video is to maximize the factors that have nothing to do with genetic appearance.
If you’re not getting results it’s no one’s fault but your own. Quit or try long enough to succeed - your choice
i live in a small town… dont get many matches… but whenever i go to the college town next to mine 40 mins away i get tons, im 35
😂 These photos are hilarious....
Me as a man wouldn't describe these guys as interesting even for a male friendship.
No matter what they think or do... they simply look nerdy and weak.... so what does a girl would think???
I think a man has to choose photos as if he want to find male friends for spending freetime and for fun.
If he can't even hit this... forget the search for girls😆
I don't watch these videos often, I noticed your hair got longer but what's up with the eyes? Looks like you made a deal with Dormammu
Myers-Briggs? Seriously? Stop it guys. About as accurate as a horoscope. They made up the entire thing.
Listing your hobbies are really dumb and boring he says, well then maybe you guys should get better hobbies. I show my hobbies on my hinge. They are in your face and flat out awesome. Riding side-by-side’s/dirt bikes in the sand dunes and the forest. Staying in/camping with my monster fifth wheel, working out and being a National level men’s physique competitor, pics of travel to foreign countries. Owning your own business. I’ve had over 450 matches on hinge, and it has been simple getting to know people. The biggest problem is finding one that I want to keep around who brings value to my life. Moral of the story. Do awesome shit and people will notice.
Post profile
The reason your profile works so well is because your hobbies display physique, money and status, where you have mentioned a national level mens physique, having your own business and travelling, this all communicates money and status.
Most men have normal hobbies, best thing is to gymmaxx and fashion max to display status
Why even bother?
Never understood the advice of removing preferences like religion, politics etc. What's the point if you disagree on core values. Most of these analysis videos seem to just focus on getting matches rather than finding someone you actually want to have a relationship with. Unless it's all about hooking up, then fine.
You just learned the essence of pick up
All that you mentioned are second value im essence of putting ur foot through the door. At dates u will learn to see even without asking if u guys get along so looking for answers will not benefit u both. She will ride along with what u lead and when shes not wish her well. Tell her by not spelling it to her. If she starts asking u specific Qs, tell her how the cow ate the cabbage.
I have one question and please answer me, do looks matter to womens?
First impression matters way way more than looks. Looks matters only on dating apps because that's the first impression you give them, they do not know you so they judge you based on your look that your pictures convey.
In real life looks matters zero
@@marioottaiano475 I can't agree with you, if a girl doesn't like your looks, she will accept you like a friend, physical attraction is important
@@marioottaiano475 I'm talking about hygiene, weight, not genetics, I think that matters.
@@nikazoska2994 you said it right, "she will accept you like a friend", but your goal is not that one to be her friend.
The point is this you can be the most handsome guy of the world dressed with the most expensive and elegant clothes of the world, but if you are not able to spark attraction inside her mind, I mean if you act feminine, needy, weak, without any kind of ambition your look matters less than zero, instead if you are ugly, but you are really masculine, ambitious, a goal driven guy, charming, funny the fact that you are ugly gets overcame, that's why looks matters zero.
We guys care about women look, if we saw an ugly girl, we don't care if she is funny and easygoing, she is ugly and we don't date her, instead women care about your personality, not about your look, so if you are ugly, but you have a great charismatic and attractive personality you get the girl
@@nikazoska2994 I do not consider hygiene as a "looks aspect", I consider hygiene as a trait that should be normal in your daily life, if you do not take care of your own personal hygiene you will be victim of viruses and diseases and you will die, but in my life I saw so many really really fat guys engaged with extremely beautiful girls, so weight does not matter, what matters is personality, and particularly girls want guys who have the courage to lead them and definitely they fall for ballsy guys who are not afraid to go after what they want in life. A very basic example if you see a top model on the street and you approach her, maybe she rejects you, but even in the rejection she will be attracted to you because you had the balls to approach her
Were is the promised best profiles!???
What is the best way to ask someone out
Words
Starting off with your midersbriggs? What are you talking about? You rattle off everything so fast it's impossible to understand what information you're trying to convey!
Myers-Briggs. Personality types.
JFL at all you dudes competing in red ocean markets😹😹
Maybe i did something wrong. I followed and paid for all these tips for dating apps. I even paid for the dating app.
Maybe its me,my area idk but these dating apps dont work. Over half the account in their are fake/ other things. The other 30% are girls you really dont want.
Then the other 20% or less. Either want the typical 6 foot talk rich guy, or they just arent good at dating , or maybe ya dont vibe etc
Your writing in this comment is full of mistakes (punctuation, spelling, grammar). If your profile and texting with women is the same way, that might be a reason you're not getting results.
@@Paul-yk7dshe may be in non English country
Don't pay for tinder or other apps. As soon as you pay you are put on the bottom and if you get any matches they will be fake. As soon as you pay the identify you as money. It's in their best interest to keep you on the app.... duh.
@@MrEvilgypsy Your comment makes no sense. If the apps treat you worse after paying, then you won't stay subscribed and pay more, so they would lose potential money. It's in the apps' best financial interest to treat the paying customers well, and to treat the women well (because the women are what attract the men who pay). The non-paying men are the least valuable users to a dating app.
@@Paul-yk7ds it's been proven. But believe what you want. You don't get put on tip of the algorithm by paying. Sorry.
How to act when girl won't stop talking on a date?
Masculine women friendzone themselves by not allowing any sexual tension. I have videos for this on my channel
P r o m o S M 👉
But shouldn’t we be ourselves so that we don’t feel we have to do all this extra steps lol I see benefits of it but you know what I’m saying
Bro I 100% agree, but if this is what helps get matches, then so be it.
It's just marketing, putting your best foot forward to get noticed and make a good impression in a crowded marketplace. Maybe if you meet women in person, it's less competitive, but online dating apps are so noisy and busy, especially for hot girls-the only guys who can get away with a lazy profile are naturally super attractive guys, and even they would get better results with Todd's strategies.
Be yourself, just be your best self.
Girls wear makeup and use best angles, why wouldn't you take extra steps? Everything is supply and demand, if you don't want to compete you can't win
Come on Todd 😂 you said better haircut for the first one have you seen your hair its oily and beard do you know what trim is?