This is a really good video. Not because it gives you good advice, but because it illustrates how women are the problem on dating apps, being overly critical and looking for problems. I showed this to my mom, aunt, and sister. They all agree that women must have like a look for issues mode that they get into on dating apps. Just shoot your shot in real life and fail upward and focus on getting more experience actually talking with women. Then focus on texting game. Do what you got to do to meet in person, AND THATS WHERE REAL DATING ACTUALLY BEGINS
@@fireflamefine625to sum this up - you need to have a profile of professional popular rich influencer with perfect photos to get some attention. Of course be in great shape, have millions of passions, make great money, and also have a lot of free time to do spontaneous shit basically every week up until she is bored of you being in comfortable relationship. I went recently through a break up. She started fresh with a new guy straight away. I moved back to my country, now being completely alone as all my friends moved on in past years. The wedding was already planned. Sad part is - if you are a man and you get depressed - no woman wants to date you. You need to fight everything alone. When a woman is depressed or sad - she will get a ton of attention from other guys. This is the reason why loneliness is killing men. It's vicious cycle - you are lonely -> depression -> you are getting even lonelier -> more depressed -> more lonely
Meanwhile women could do all of these mistakes and still get 300 matches a day. Datings apps are a complete waste of time for men unless they are in the top 10% of men.
@@diegohurtado4560 No thanks. Bending yourself into a pretzel is simp behavior. I already make over 6 figures, own a house, I am in decent shape, decent looking. If thats not enough. I'll just be single. I represent the tons of men who aren't going to conform to some crazy standard women have. No thank you.
@@delawarehistory1675 Then it seems like you have great potential. And it should never be about bending yourself into a pretzel; its about using what you have to your own best advantage. This will get you what you want not just ind dating, but life in general.
While kind of informative, the point I’d make is that “coaches” will make a video like this to try to get you to sign up for their program to help you get more matches and dates. Send me money and you’ll soon be dating nymphomaniac supermodels. But while you’ll see these coaches give a bit of advice in these videos to make you think their techniques work and are worth the money, they’ll never show you the videos some women have done that tries to put them into practice. Do a search and you’ll find videos, often from women (but not those asking you to send money for their coaching programs), trying to disprove “red pill” theories and that meeting women on dating apps isn’t hard, it’s just that men are doing it wrong. While I’ve seen numerous videos that do that, I remember one in particular where a woman, trying to show it wasn’t hard and men were just doing it wrong, claimed that because she was a woman and knew what women wanted and how women wanted men to communicate, she could create a profile for an average guy and get tons of matches. She used pictures of a friend of hers who was attractive but not hot. She made him a therapist to show he had an education and career but nothing he was going to get rich at. She then filled out the profile in a way she claimed would attract women. The first few days she did have a few matches and thought this was showing how easy it was. In messaging some of these women, it became clear they were only trying to get men to follow them on something, including their O.F. page. She was then messaging women, giving guys tips on making sure they read the woman’s whole profile and mentioning things in the message to show they’d read it and why they were contacting that woman. She especially said to not send out short, generic messages because women could tell if a man was just doing that and sending the same thing to every woman’s profile. Despite her efforts, she got very few responses and little interest. She herself wound up sending out the shorter more generic messages to more women because she found she didn’t have the time to go through all the profiles and try to pick specific women she thought would be a good match for her fantasy guy. I remember seeing her getting frustrated at other women for either not responding at all or only giving one line responses that gave her nothing to work with in communicating. She’d yell at women’s profiles when they weren’t interested in her fake guy, claiming they couldn’t get a guy that good in real life and she was lucky he even wrote her. After a few weeks of the experiment where she tried to prove that it wasn’t actually that hard to meet women online and that it was just men doing it wrong, she gave up, not having gotten to the point where she could have gotten one date even after trying to contact hundreds of women. And there are plenty of women who’d made videos trying to do those, only to show even women can’t figure out women.
Stopped reading after nymphomaniac. Anyone that's ever been with a nymph can tell you that she's always way too much for one man to handle. Nymphs want to have sex all day every day and unless you have an indefinite amount of viagra and god tier cardio that's not happening. Not to mention that the friction burn is absolutely horrendous if she's the kind that wants penetration all the time. Dating Nymphs sounds great but it actually sucks
Your audacity and entitlement. To all men: don't use these scam apps, you have statistically zero chance to match if you're not one of the 5% most attractive men.
Men have to put in a bunch of effort saying the right stuff and picking the right photos and make sure the photos are in the right order, then they might get a few matches a month. On the other hand, women don't need to put in any effort into their own profiles and they get hundreds of likes. Some only put in two photos and say nothing about themselves, and they still go on dates every week.
I changed my first photo yesterday and the matches increased instantly, but I'm here for the rest of my profile makeover 😅. Ok what do if I wanna show that I have friends but most of my friends are women?
great advice. I am female and think most men need to improve their profiles. Some men also look so much better in life than their profile pics and description shows. People need to insist on video chat before meeting, but also before wasting much time exchanging photo or talk. If a person's way of talking or what he/she says or maybe their facial expressions (or whatever) are a huge turn-off, it's easy to see in a video and you save yourself a huge amount of time. Also, it seems some men are using photos taken days or weeks ago and making you think the photos were taken seconds ago. The same men are asking for sexy photos and god only knows what they are doing with those photos - who they are sharing them with.
I'm gonna fire back at u so women share stuff with friends all the time so thats ok but men can't share pictures of women unless its a girlfriend or wife i understand that's different obviously but girls im just sleeping with now thats different also online dating is toxic yet sometimes I get lucky sometimes I don't I think approaching in person is better stop being so weird and picky about mens profiles I could care less about your experience with guys im speaking on behalf of myself personally but clearly I just wasted 30 seconds typing this
@@delawarehistory1675 That's women, why would they put in much effort if they get tons of matches? The world isn't fair, you'll just have to deal with it.
@@scottverge938 WHo said I wasn't dealing with it? I am just correcting that idea that women have it oh so hard in America. Its actually the men who are considered low value here.
Hahaha, Coach B. in action here! I just started feeling happy sorry for how much I don't know about how to make a good profile. This video was outstanding!
Hey, I got a question. What if Billy did have a photo of himself but was ugly. Would that be better than not having photo in which your looks are not clear?
How do you suggest being open about a recent exit from a long term relationship with children? Include it up front in the bio or just list the children as a response in the "kids" section and omit the relationship part? The intention is to share that I am a committed person and not that I am still hung up on the past. Would love your thoughts!
Being attractive is subjective. So I suggest to invest not only in physical attributes but with your other investment areas. Sample is showing your hobbies and interests in the dating profile.
There are other qualities: brains, free thinking, big warm heart, ambition, and, like she said, hobbies. I'd go out with a less attractive guy if he had the odd hobby I have and could teach me or share in that experience. If he lived a block or two away, that would also move him up in my estimation.
I don’t know why this video is getting hate comments. I agree with her with everything. This video is valid, most of these profiles had the most corniest one liners and “forced goofiness” vibes
Women wanting men to communicate, but then preferring indirect patterns is kind of annoying, but I guess it is easier to fake a bullet point list, and it solicited less emotion.
If the guy is tall enough and attractive enough women will go out with him or even settle a date the same day to f$. Most of them just lie about their virtues or "rules"/"requirements". Most requirements are: - their minimum height threshold, - minimum look. Keep in mind that it's been proven in various data that over 80% of women only consider the top 10% of men as attractive/datable.
Go to the bar, club, social gathering, and meet the lady for real the way it's supposed to be and get laid. It's easy .You can't get a feel for a person on some dating app. Dating apps are garbage. This lady is proving my point of why, No time for these self deserved dating app chicks.
Bro - good luck if you aren't 6" tall and attractive. You are going to be obliterated. Not to mention that most guys live lonely life. Especially those who are in their 30's and 40's
I have never had much luck with dating apps despite get professional photographs taken and having my female friends help build my profile. Dating apps are just not made for some people
If your photos are too good and you look like a model, people might think you are a catfish. I thought this with one guy, but, so far, I am 99% that he is real - and super hot. Not sure why he likes ME, so much, though
I don't understand what's wrong about the first Profil that he wants to know what makes you happier than everything else. You say it's generic but for me it shows that he cars about your feelings and intrest.
Be attractive, yeah sure ... Good advice, but as guys on dating apps we see shit ton of women with no photo at all, blurry photo in front of mirrors, and close up goofy ass picture and those girls get a ton of matches and messages either way. This is just that wamen give likes on rare occasion like 5% of the time so that guys needs to put out top tier mind trick 4D game plan profile and photoshoot picture just to be able to get some likes. Better advice, go outside and try to date IRL. This is harder at the beginning but far easier after. As an average Joe myself, I was only getting likes from Dark Souls bosses and cave trolls. On rare occasion I had real matches, but most of the time they never responds cuz they're drowned by other guys messages. IRL no one talks to them, you got your chances.
Women’s profile Mirror selfies Clubs bathroom selfies Infinite matches Mens Profile Travel Photo Pet photo Funny photo Fashion Photo High paying job photo Maybe a few like who don’t reply
All of that is a lie. Women only swipe on the guys if they are tall enough and handsome. You might be good, interesting, intelligent and funny guy but if you luck one (or most likely both attributes) you are done. They swipe in a split of a second on a guy but here we have the few minutes breakdown of a profile 😅😂
@12:28 Regardless of how "solid the profile is". He's clearly more attractive than most men, and the important ("6") to start out his height. There might be useful takeaways here, but don't kid yourself.
Ok I have 4 pictures in my profile¡ first picture I am learning how to flight an airplane¡ second picture I am in a swimming pool in Ibiza¡ 3rd photo I am arrested in USA USA because I was speeding 4 th is in my Ferrari 812
if yall had a good personality and understood how to present yourself you would get at least 3 matches. its not hard you just have to show the best parts of yourself
This is a really good video. Not because it gives you good advice, but because it illustrates how women are the problem on dating apps, being overly critical and looking for problems. I showed this to my mom, aunt, and sister. They all agree that women must have like a look for issues mode that they get into on dating apps. Just shoot your shot in real life and fail upward and focus on getting more experience actually talking with women. Then focus on texting game. Do what you got to do to meet in person, AND THATS WHERE REAL DATING ACTUALLY BEGINS
@@fireflamefine625 if you had the options you would have to spend less time going through each person too
💯 FACTS!! I've never been on a dating app in my entire life. Bc I've NEVER HAD to
@@TreAloisio good for you
@@fireflamefine625to sum this up - you need to have a profile of professional popular rich influencer with perfect photos to get some attention. Of course be in great shape, have millions of passions, make great money, and also have a lot of free time to do spontaneous shit basically every week up until she is bored of you being in comfortable relationship. I went recently through a break up. She started fresh with a new guy straight away. I moved back to my country, now being completely alone as all my friends moved on in past years. The wedding was already planned. Sad part is - if you are a man and you get depressed - no woman wants to date you. You need to fight everything alone. When a woman is depressed or sad - she will get a ton of attention from other guys. This is the reason why loneliness is killing men. It's vicious cycle - you are lonely -> depression -> you are getting even lonelier -> more depressed -> more lonely
can i roast your profile???
Please 🙏
Ninguém está te impedindo
Lmao. Don’t watch the video guys here’s a summary:
1. Be attractive
2. Don’t be unattractive
Cant blame Josh for being honest.. if we’re honest
1 photo -money in my pocket
2 photo - supercar
3 photo - vacation on a super yacht
Result = 203 matches in 48 hours
Ultimate Chad W
But NONE of them are interested in you. Only you $$$. So, not much of an accomplishment. And I would bet your daddy bought the car and yacht.
@@Mr-gg8ekyep
🤣
@@Mr-gg8ek take a wild guess why he is interested in them 😂 protip: its not a relationship
Meanwhile women could do all of these mistakes and still get 300 matches a day. Datings apps are a complete waste of time for men unless they are in the top 10% of men.
Although you're right. Quit complaining and become that top 10%!
@@diegohurtado4560 No thanks. Bending yourself into a pretzel is simp behavior. I already make over 6 figures, own a house, I am in decent shape, decent looking. If thats not enough. I'll just be single. I represent the tons of men who aren't going to conform to some crazy standard women have. No thank you.
@@delawarehistory1675 Then it seems like you have great potential. And it should never be about bending yourself into a pretzel; its about using what you have to your own best advantage. This will get you what you want not just ind dating, but life in general.
@@delawarehistory1675all of that and watching a video of a woman giving tips for a dating app profile
@@diegohurtado4560Bro stop watching Andrew Tate. It's not good for your brain
*It’s amazing how much a little creativity and personality can improve a dating profile.*
Don´t forget guys, you need a 10/10 profile to get a right swipe from a cute girl.
Conclusion…dating apps are too exhausting. I think I’m good
While kind of informative, the point I’d make is that “coaches” will make a video like this to try to get you to sign up for their program to help you get more matches and dates. Send me money and you’ll soon be dating nymphomaniac supermodels.
But while you’ll see these coaches give a bit of advice in these videos to make you think their techniques work and are worth the money, they’ll never show you the videos some women have done that tries to put them into practice.
Do a search and you’ll find videos, often from women (but not those asking you to send money for their coaching programs), trying to disprove “red pill” theories and that meeting women on dating apps isn’t hard, it’s just that men are doing it wrong.
While I’ve seen numerous videos that do that, I remember one in particular where a woman, trying to show it wasn’t hard and men were just doing it wrong, claimed that because she was a woman and knew what women wanted and how women wanted men to communicate, she could create a profile for an average guy and get tons of matches.
She used pictures of a friend of hers who was attractive but not hot. She made him a therapist to show he had an education and career but nothing he was going to get rich at. She then filled out the profile in a way she claimed would attract women.
The first few days she did have a few matches and thought this was showing how easy it was. In messaging some of these women, it became clear they were only trying to get men to follow them on something, including their O.F. page. She was then messaging women, giving guys tips on making sure they read the woman’s whole profile and mentioning things in the message to show they’d read it and why they were contacting that woman. She especially said to not send out short, generic messages because women could tell if a man was just doing that and sending the same thing to every woman’s profile.
Despite her efforts, she got very few responses and little interest. She herself wound up sending out the shorter more generic messages to more women because she found she didn’t have the time to go through all the profiles and try to pick specific women she thought would be a good match for her fantasy guy.
I remember seeing her getting frustrated at other women for either not responding at all or only giving one line responses that gave her nothing to work with in communicating. She’d yell at women’s profiles when they weren’t interested in her fake guy, claiming they couldn’t get a guy that good in real life and she was lucky he even wrote her.
After a few weeks of the experiment where she tried to prove that it wasn’t actually that hard to meet women online and that it was just men doing it wrong, she gave up, not having gotten to the point where she could have gotten one date even after trying to contact hundreds of women.
And there are plenty of women who’d made videos trying to do those, only to show even women can’t figure out women.
Stopped reading after nymphomaniac. Anyone that's ever been with a nymph can tell you that she's always way too much for one man to handle. Nymphs want to have sex all day every day and unless you have an indefinite amount of viagra and god tier cardio that's not happening. Not to mention that the friction burn is absolutely horrendous if she's the kind that wants penetration all the time. Dating Nymphs sounds great but it actually sucks
Your audacity and entitlement. To all men: don't use these scam apps, you have statistically zero chance to match if you're not one of the 5% most attractive men.
Watched this and reviewed my dating profile and realized how many mistakes I had, thank you!!
Not yet too late to change those mistakes :)
100%, I changed a few pictures and prompt and got 3 new matches and a date for tomorrow. Grateful for the help! 🙏❤️
Men have to put in a bunch of effort saying the right stuff and picking the right photos and make sure the photos are in the right order, then they might get a few matches a month.
On the other hand, women don't need to put in any effort into their own profiles and they get hundreds of likes. Some only put in two photos and say nothing about themselves, and they still go on dates every week.
This inspired me too delete my profile and give up on dating 🙏
what im getting from this is guys have to put in 200% effort for 0% effort not even a bio, girls.
These "girls" can keep the dating apps, I'll pass.
I changed my first photo yesterday and the matches increased instantly, but I'm here for the rest of my profile makeover 😅.
Ok what do if I wanna show that I have friends but most of my friends are women?
add a text box to the photo saying the women are only platonic friends
Lol, this can't be a serious question. They'll be even more interested if other women are in the photos.
@@cj7139 I've heard both 'no female friends' and 'female friends are fine' but now I'm dating my friend that was in my dating profile photo lol
great advice. I am female and think most men need to improve their profiles. Some men also look so much better in life than their profile pics and description shows.
People need to insist on video chat before meeting, but also before wasting much time exchanging photo or talk. If a person's way of talking or what he/she says or maybe their facial expressions (or whatever) are a huge turn-off, it's easy to see in a video and you save yourself a huge amount of time. Also, it seems some men are using photos taken days or weeks ago and making you think the photos were taken seconds ago. The same men are asking for sexy photos and god only knows what they are doing with those photos - who they are sharing them with.
I'm gonna fire back at u so women share stuff with friends all the time so thats ok but men can't share pictures of women unless its a girlfriend or wife i understand that's different obviously but girls im just sleeping with now thats different also online dating is toxic yet sometimes I get lucky sometimes I don't I think approaching in person is better stop being so weird and picky about mens profiles I could care less about your experience with guys im speaking on behalf of myself personally but clearly I just wasted 30 seconds typing this
You should see some of the women's low effort profiles. 90% of them are garbage profiles. Yet they still get like 300 matches a day.
@@delawarehistory1675 That's women, why would they put in much effort if they get tons of matches? The world isn't fair, you'll just have to deal with it.
@@scottverge938 WHo said I wasn't dealing with it? I am just correcting that idea that women have it oh so hard in America. Its actually the men who are considered low value here.
@@delawarehistory1675 sounds more like you're whining about it.
Be Better Than Ezra
Hahaha, Coach B. in action here! I just started feeling happy sorry for how much I don't know about how to make a good profile. This video was outstanding!
Now that you already have an idea. Not too late yet to make a start :) You got this!
Hey, I got a question. What if Billy did have a photo of himself but was ugly. Would that be better than not having photo in which your looks are not clear?
Thanks for this video, make more, ill watch every single one
How do you suggest being open about a recent exit from a long term relationship with children? Include it up front in the bio or just list the children as a response in the "kids" section and omit the relationship part? The intention is to share that I am a committed person and not that I am still hung up on the past. Would love your thoughts!
"I think Josh is clowning us, 0/10" 🤣🤣🤣
:D
What are you supposed to do when you’re not an attractive guy? I’ve taken thousands of photos and even got professional photos done. Still no results.
Being attractive is subjective. So I suggest to invest not only in physical attributes but with your other investment areas. Sample is showing your hobbies and interests in the dating profile.
There are other qualities: brains, free thinking, big warm heart, ambition, and, like she said, hobbies. I'd go out with a less attractive guy if he had the odd hobby I have and could teach me or share in that experience. If he lived a block or two away, that would also move him up in my estimation.
Looksmaxx. Don’t listen to the virtue signalling about “personality”. Looks are what matter.
Settle for an obese single-mother. Men who are an 8/10 from an attractiveness standpoint are expected to do the same.
I don’t know why this video is getting hate comments.
I agree with her with everything.
This video is valid, most of these profiles had the most corniest one liners and “forced goofiness” vibes
Why so insisting on to show what you bring to the table it's like women wanna date guys just to pay their bills😂😂😂
I'm not the only one seeing the Playboy coffee table book right?
Was just thinking the same thing
Good eye lol
Women wanting men to communicate, but then preferring indirect patterns is kind of annoying, but I guess it is easier to fake a bullet point list, and it solicited less emotion.
If the guy is tall enough and attractive enough women will go out with him or even settle a date the same day to f$. Most of them just lie about their virtues or "rules"/"requirements". Most requirements are: - their minimum height threshold, - minimum look. Keep in mind that it's been proven in various data that over 80% of women only consider the top 10% of men as attractive/datable.
Go to the bar, club, social gathering, and meet the lady for real the way it's supposed to be and get laid. It's easy .You can't get a feel for a person on some dating app. Dating apps are garbage. This lady is proving my point of why, No time for these self deserved dating app chicks.
Bro - good luck if you aren't 6" tall and attractive. You are going to be obliterated. Not to mention that most guys live lonely life. Especially those who are in their 30's and 40's
These critiques are on point - I'm definitely stealing that tip about including hobbies. Gonna boost my match rate for sure
I have never had much luck with dating apps despite get professional photographs taken and having my female friends help build my profile. Dating apps are just not made for some people
If your photos are too good and you look like a model, people might think you are a catfish. I thought this with one guy, but, so far, I am 99% that he is real - and super hot. Not sure why he likes ME, so much, though
@@genkiferal7178 Did you end up finding why he liked you?
True, women can be super picky specially on dating apps.
Any woman that adds that extra line outside their eye..... Run!! Haha
So funny, especially the comment re the guy who's main achievement in life is going to Cabo...once 🤣
Is this a freaking job interview?
I don't understand what's wrong about the first Profil that he wants to know what makes you happier than everything else. You say it's generic but for me it shows that he cars about your feelings and intrest.
Sounds desparate.
Women hate goodness. They like adventure, excitement and risk.
Women feel Good Guy energy and they hate it they want bad boy energy and when they suffer physical trauma they complain that all men are same
3:46 would you prefer if men used their passport photo as their first pic lol
As a 50yo who's been on dating apps for years, I found this helpful Blaine!
Glad to have helped :)
Does it really work?
3:44 photos are actually shown to be better if not staring directly into the camera but yes I agree that you need to see a clear front of their face!
Ì think we can all agree that Josh had the best profile🤣
Be attractive, yeah sure ... Good advice, but as guys on dating apps we see shit ton of women with no photo at all, blurry photo in front of mirrors, and close up goofy ass picture and those girls get a ton of matches and messages either way. This is just that wamen give likes on rare occasion like 5% of the time so that guys needs to put out top tier mind trick 4D game plan profile and photoshoot picture just to be able to get some likes. Better advice, go outside and try to date IRL. This is harder at the beginning but far easier after. As an average Joe myself, I was only getting likes from Dark Souls bosses and cave trolls. On rare occasion I had real matches, but most of the time they never responds cuz they're drowned by other guys messages. IRL no one talks to them, you got your chances.
Thanks for the tips :)
simp
Women’s profile
Mirror selfies
Clubs bathroom selfies
Infinite matches
Mens Profile
Travel Photo
Pet photo
Funny photo
Fashion Photo
High paying job photo
Maybe a few like who don’t reply
All of that is a lie. Women only swipe on the guys if they are tall enough and handsome. You might be good, interesting, intelligent and funny guy but if you luck one (or most likely both attributes) you are done. They swipe in a split of a second on a guy but here we have the few minutes breakdown of a profile 😅😂
You also forgot low quality picture coupled with few black empty images 😂 I know that those get probably 10x more attention than regular guy
meanwhile guys: oh, black photo, no description. Hm, maybe a nice one, I'll give it to the right.
Josh is the best jsjajajajja 😂
We should organize a live roasting someday 🔥
Sounds cool :)
Dayum Blaine came with the heat 🔥 subscribed!
simp
This was good video! Really insightful!
Thank you Varun!! I'm glad you enjoyed it :)
@12:28 Regardless of how "solid the profile is". He's clearly more attractive than most men, and the important ("6") to start out his height. There might be useful takeaways here, but don't kid yourself.
Wow those profiles needed work! That last guy's photo had me rolling lol
“Omg he wears a suit” lol put your profile up so we can roast you.
how do you show personality in images?
Ok I have 4 pictures in my profile¡ first picture I am learning how to flight an airplane¡ second picture I am in a swimming pool in Ibiza¡ 3rd photo I am arrested in USA USA because I was speeding 4 th is in my Ferrari 812
Really nice video!! Please do more like these!
Thank you :) I'll take note :)
Quiet
Shy
Violent
and
Unpredictable
Whats wrong with that ?
😎
Shit if billie was a 3/10 am a 0.5/10 😢
Oh my, these profiles were horrible. Please review some good ones
Please do a video about dark skinned Indian guys.
It’s ok mate. Uninstall the app. Or move to another country
Only 871 likes. Prob stop watching then
For all the roasting - maybe go to the gym so your arms don't look like twigs.
You are nothing special yourself
Playboy;-)
if yall had a good personality and understood how to present yourself you would get at least 3 matches. its not hard you just have to show the best parts of yourself
She is roasting them, yet she is a dog
Simps haha
This girl is clueless . Men will always struggle with dating apps unless they are super super attractive .