I love that you talk about not being excited in the same way other are, I'm very "chill" and I always worry that people perceive me as boring or unexcitable, but its just who I am.
Do you think you would/could ever make a video talking about how you healed your relationship with your parents and came to a place of forgiveness and acceptance? I am dealing with this currently and it feels impossible to do, even though I want to get there SO badly.
Thinking out loud: maybe it helps to see how they are raised by their parents, do some family dynamic system work, and see the similarities. Often parents give you what they have gotten from their parents. And of course it's sad that they didn't change bad patterns. Some parents try to give you the best of their ability, even if it didn't work. Other parents might leave or do bad things (I don't know your situation), and about that I will say: you can choose your own new family. Forgiving means letting go for yourself. You don't have to accept/right the behaviour that happened, but you are worth it to find people you feel supported by and focus your energy on that
I also think sometimes you can't heal it. It depends on the amount of trauma. For me healing can also be stepping out of it. I don't have to forgive or love them.
my two kids have aided tremendously in my growth and consciousness journey. one day while raising my voice to my then-2 year old, I realized that my voice was my parents, not my own. I saw how i was repeating generational trauma and from that point on i've healed SO much and learned things that I wish my inner child got to learn. Im so thankful that I can integrate these lessons to my children since I never had the chance. how beautiful healing can be for ourselves and the collective!! thank you for sharing your lessons and wisdom for others
As a mother to a 1 and 3 year old ❤ I love hearing other parents heal this and NOT pass it to next generation. It's hard work but our children and us deserve it.
You’re really needed Hitomi. I’m so thankful for the light you bring into my life. Thank you for making me feel more normal about feeling my feelings and being my true self.
There's just something about you and your channel that always brings me back for more! You create magic out of every video and you inspire all of us, well done beautiful soul! Much love always! Keep on spreading your light on us!
The way you navigate expectations and reality touches the primal concerns of how we grow up. Your energy is so self assured that it's an energy goal for others.
I have watched you since I was 16 when I got my first really deep depression, and ever since then you have helped me accepting myself, I am 23 now, love from sweden ❤️
I realized lately that my mother has borderline personality disorder. I still have a lot of emotional trauma from growing up and finally I can accept it and believe myself. I am fully concentrating on healing right now and you are a big Inspiration for me!:)
I can relate to having a mother who has a mental health disorder. I have no relationship with her, my father, and the rest of my family in California and my native Italy. So I can definitely relate to what you went through.
Dude. I’m so happy I’ve found you. Not only can I look within my 37 year old self & heal old wounds, but I can take these pieces of info for my 12 year old son so that he doesn’t have to have as much pain around such topics. Thank you for sharing. You’re incredible!! 💕
Thank you for uploading this,I'm 18 yo black girl in Italy and I've been feeling lost lately, I just realized that I needed to hear this. Thank you so much💜
I can say that the part of having to match peoples energy and living with roommates and not wanting to be social straight away Is Me. I’m also very chill and my tone of voice is more on the mellow side. It’s something that I have to learn how to do and just be my authentic self without having to pretend to be something else.
Her videos are so healing. I always watch them alone because they speak to my highest truth and I have to be in my own presence to be honest with myself.
I am so beyond grateful for you, when you mentioned the part about matching others energy I have NEVER related to anything so much, I am also the type that is very calm just nod my head and I am not always energetic and giddy but that does not mean I am not happy or excited and I used to feel so bad for it and journal about it but I know that its okay to be that way you are such an inspiration to me its beyond words thank you for your existence in this universe, to share it with you and experience you is a blessing ( even if its through the screen energy speaks volumes ) x
I love the part about being comfortable with not always matching with people’s energy. I have people in my life.. who I love dearly, who want me to show up for them in this exciting, energetic person but at times I just want to celebrate them through smiling or just being calm up but still celebrating them. Like I don’t want them to think that I don’t care or that I’m jealous or something negative, it’s just I’m not in that energetic field right now to show up like that, but I’m still proud of their successes… and I’m glad You brought that up hitomi bc I always felt like I was the odd one out or would be scared to get deemed as a “bitchy” or less exciting friend who’s probably jealous 😂😭.
I don’t know what it is today, I’ve been very emotional. Seeing and hearing the first 20 seconds of your video I just cried. Because i see a lot of myself in you. Seeing you thrive has opened my eyes up that I can be myself. I can forgive myself. I too can thrive. You always help bring me to a sense of elevation Hitomi. Thank you for sharing your energy and your journey as always. It is felt on so many levels.
You can put words on my inner thought and on the way I deeply feel about life, it's soooo good to hear this from outside ❤️ And thank you so much for the courage you have to share this on RUclips
Thank you for this video Hitomi. I’ve been struggling with my acne these past couple months. Sometimes it’s hard for me to even look at myself in the mirror. I’m really working on trying to be ok with this part of myself but it isn’t easy. Your videos like these really help me with this journey I’m on of learning to love myself fully. Thank you and sending so much love 💕
"At the end of the day I just want to be a good person." I felt that internally. I love the uniqueness of your content, and I'm glad that I subscribed to you!!
Hitomi thank you for helping me know my true soul within myself . Just want to let you know that I truly love and adore you 😊. I hope we could meet someday 🥺❤️ . Sending you hugs and wishing you happiness in every moment your life ❤️🤗
I’ve love to see you make a video on how to help others heal from their trauma, especially if they don’t talk about it a lot or are less spiritually tuned in
This video spoke to me on so many different levels. I am almost 28 and feel more lost now then I did when I was in my teenage years. Thanks for your insight Hotomi it helps me realize I am not inadequate, i am not alone, that I am valid and I am just human. I often feel love for strangers and you’re one of them. I really want to sit with you under a tree and talk for hours, then laugh form our bellies. I just love who you are! ❤️✨
Hitomi, I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for these beautiful words and lessons. You radiate such a powerful yet calm energy that makes me feel in a safe space. You've helped and inspired me to finally vocalise my boundaries and be okay with who I am, not always trying to make myself small or run away from social situations in fear of my shadow being seen. Sending you all the love 🙏✨❤️
I feel like whenever you head towards your journey and real self you kind of naturally become the most beautiful version of yourself and it's clearly visible, you can somehow feel it inside out... And thank you for sharing your lovely wisdom with the world🤗 Sending loads of love and good vibes 💞
I literally just wrote a song about just wanting to create a safe space for the people I love. I love watching your videos because it feels like hanging out with a friend who gets me and who’s thinking about what I’m thinking about. Very small but very impactful in this rather lonely season. Much love to you, Hitomi! And thanks for sharing your wisdom and co-regulating with us! Have a lovely evening :)
I found you through Isabel and seriously, I'm a lot like you. I don't like to socialize in the morning and am chill wallflower 80% of the time, buzzing energy the other 20%. It's such a different perspective to realize I don't have to match other's energy. That's the thing that's been keeping me away from people, society is just super exhausting sometimes. Thanks Hitomi and I just subscribed!!
Needed to hear this today! Practicing just being present more and not getting so caught up in who I am going to be and that all parts of me are always existing 💜 Love your videos!
Thank you for sharing the spiritual plateau. I’m currently experiencing too, it helps me to think that, “It’s normal and ok. I’m still on the right path.” ☺️
I wish we could be friends! Maybe we will cross paths one day! I have been having a hard time with emotional regulation, and I felt like from watching this video I got a pep talk from a friend. Thank you so much for your light. ☀️
I'm so incredibly grateful that I found this channel. She's such a relatable human being!! Her content reminds me that I am not alone and helps me to embrace my authentic self.
Your thoughts and energy really push me and make me uncomfortable, and I’m struggling to not judge like “what she’s saying is wrong; here’s why”, “She is right, and look it shows she’s happy and beautiful and successful and improving millions of lives” I feel our shared human values, and I really want to learn your mind as just a way of living life. It’s not one I will walk as a man, but I can tell it’ll feel right and fulfill me in whatever way I’m feeling and being pushed by you
you worded this so well, I noticed I judge so quickly and then react to the judgement and it's been this way forever. I can notice it in my body better now, and I have hope we can both get to a peaceful energy.
literally just spent the past little while binging your content to try to help me with a bit of a tougher day, and then you post! so perfect, thank you.
I haven’t watched your videos in a while, and I’ve been going through a lot of mental health issues and disconnect from my spirituality due to it. I came back and watched this today and I really think God led me here for a reason. I really needed to hear this especially today. Thank you ❤
Thank you. I'm a new viewer, struggling with self-acceptance, feelings of belonging, and a general sense of purpose. Your videos speak to the quiet, unseen parts of myself that needed a hug. I am forever grateful for your willingness to teach in ways that affirm and give life.
The trauma shame and feeling like you’re not allowed to have those responses and hide that part of yourself even though it’s a completely natural, authentic and understandable response, like why would you have to hide that. I felt that
Oooo yes socialize in my present energy. Stay present and grounded in myself. Sometimes I want to say something, w my parents, but it's unkind, more of a flashback to how they treated me in the past. Wanting to say the same mean things they said to me. Yikes, that passes, but makes me feel like I'm a bad person .
I loved the advice of not matching people's energy. As an HSP introvert, this is really a big one for me, since socializing can be such an energy drain for me. Will definitely carry this idea with me from now on. ♥️
wow, this is exactly what i needed to hear right now. it can be so stressful trying to match someone’s energy so that i’ll be appealing to them when that’s just not who i want to be in the moment.
Redefining beauty and success!! My goal is to experience different things, meet different people, and look someone in the eyes, make them feel heard or seen, even if lasts seconds. My soul feels sooo better after, and i feel so free, free of mundane expectations like killing myself for a "better" job or graduating faster.. what are we running for?
felt this. me staying true to myself has been healing to my entire family. I have broken many generational curses and have attracted so many opportunities. I love being weird and cool and quirky
I think sometimes people just show up or a video like this to guide us to thread better in our life. It is reassuring the feelings, people and the fear in our lives are real and we need to own it up and move through these feelings with little bit of self love. Thanks for the wisdom Hitomi :)
I love this so much. Especially the part about dressing for the male gaze and just being comfortable in the clothing you already own ! THANK YOU FOR THIS MEDICINE
Hi Hitomi! Thank you so much for all the videos. I was able to say NO to strengthen my YES thanks to you. My whole life has changed and I am more than thankful for discovering you!
I’m having a such a weird emotional night. It might be pms… all the anger flaring up inside me for no reason might be unconscious feelings. However listening to you talking about self acceptance. It is like re-grounding myself again find the center and be kind to my anger. So I won’t feel ashamed of myself of having this anger. Thank you for sharing. This help me.
I have grown up with you as a person in last couple of years and just listening to your voice sends signals to my brain that it's a safe space. I m going to play this video in the background as affirmations whenever I will have dissociations and doubts.
Ohh, my I am a bit older then you and I am thankful for your honesty!!! I grew up with Narcissist parents and I feel you about having no guidance. I was on my own as soon as I turned 18. Thank you sister, stay blessed 🙏🏼
We collectively realized cutting off parents just makes things worse. Forgiveness and love is the only source of comfort. Also understanding that one day my kids will grow up and have complaints about me bc I’m not perfect, and I’m hoping they’ll show me grace as I have for my parents.
Love, love, love, absolutely loved everything you said. It all resonated with me. The only thing I would add to this, is the need to feed ourselves spiritually. We were created with a spiritual need, feeding that and working on maintaining that connection with our Creator, has, for me, changed everything. Contentment, inner joy, and true happiness have been the benefits I have found when I finally studied the Holy Scriptures. The truth about God, as presented in the Bible, as opposed to the stories we've been told, has been incredibly freeing in every way that you've mentioned.
I’m so grateful you shared thoughts on pretty privilege. I was thinking this exact thing this morning, that while I know my appearance has played a role in social acceptance and follows the conditioned narratives we are tough to believe, I also know the amount of love and care I pour into my spiritual well-being is ultimately what I derive my confidence and joy from. That my life purpose is to radiate love to others, despite what my physical form looks like. Thank you for helping me remove the guilt of being ‘societally pretty,’ and accept my foundational Truth and freedom. MmHmmm!
I just turned 13 and my parents are not people to look up to but I just accepted that I am on my own path either with my family or not i still love them.💗
This video actually helped me so much! I always feel so guilty with what I say or if I act too mellow in social situations but this made me realise that it‘s alright not to adapt to others!! Thank you xx
Thank you so much for this video, you're helping me and so much more people, so I hope you feel proud of yourself because you’re a kind and good person / ilyy
Hitomi needs her own podcast. I would be a faithful listener 🙏🏽🔮✨
Yees that’s an excellent idea 🙌🏻
SAMEEEE her voice is so comforting & she is so insightful & eloquent💚✨
I know, I thought that a while back to. I’m here for it!!!
Her visuals are so comforting though
Would love this!
"Living in your purest natural authenticity is medicine for everyone"
Yes!
I love that you talk about not being excited in the same way other are, I'm very "chill" and I always worry that people perceive me as boring or unexcitable, but its just who I am.
Absolutely relate
Do you think you would/could ever make a video talking about how you healed your relationship with your parents and came to a place of forgiveness and acceptance? I am dealing with this currently and it feels impossible to do, even though I want to get there SO badly.
Thinking out loud: maybe it helps to see how they are raised by their parents, do some family dynamic system work, and see the similarities. Often parents give you what they have gotten from their parents. And of course it's sad that they didn't change bad patterns. Some parents try to give you the best of their ability, even if it didn't work. Other parents might leave or do bad things (I don't know your situation), and about that I will say: you can choose your own new family. Forgiving means letting go for yourself. You don't have to accept/right the behaviour that happened, but you are worth it to find people you feel supported by and focus your energy on that
So many people would benefit from this!
I also think sometimes you can't heal it. It depends on the amount of trauma. For me healing can also be stepping out of it. I don't have to forgive or love them.
Me too! I would love to hear it!
@@anih8199 wow I needed to read this❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
my two kids have aided tremendously in my growth and consciousness journey. one day while raising my voice to my then-2 year old, I realized that my voice was my parents, not my own. I saw how i was repeating generational trauma and from that point on i've healed SO much and learned things that I wish my inner child got to learn. Im so thankful that I can integrate these lessons to my children since I never had the chance. how beautiful healing can be for ourselves and the collective!! thank you for sharing your lessons and wisdom for others
Right there with you, mama! It is so challenging but so rewarding to do this work within ourselves and for our kids! ❤️❤️
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As a mother to a 1 and 3 year old ❤ I love hearing other parents heal this and NOT pass it to next generation. It's hard work but our children and us deserve it.
literally crying cas of how much I love this human giving me the comfort I didn’t even know I needed
ikr they're amazing
randomly started sobbing when you discussed feeling embarrassed after social interactions. i'm so grateful for your realness.
You’re really needed Hitomi. I’m so thankful for the light you bring into my life. Thank you for making me feel more normal about feeling my feelings and being my true self.
There's just something about you and your channel that always brings me back for more! You create magic out of every video and you inspire all of us, well done beautiful soul! Much love always! Keep on spreading your light on us!
The way you navigate expectations and reality touches the primal concerns of how we grow up. Your energy is so self assured that it's an energy goal for others.
I have watched you since I was 16 when I got my first really deep depression, and ever since then you have helped me accepting myself, I am 23 now, love from sweden ❤️
"living in your purest natural authenticity is medicine for everyone" love this so much
I feel so lucky and DEEPLY blessed that the people who actually see me and understand me ARE my parents ❤
I needed this so bad. I honestly started crying because my voice in my head can be so mean and I really need to work on unconditional acceptance
I realized lately that my mother has borderline personality disorder. I still have a lot of emotional trauma from growing up and finally I can accept it and believe myself. I am fully concentrating on healing right now and you are a big Inspiration for me!:)
I can relate to having a mother who has a mental health disorder. I have no relationship with her, my father, and the rest of my family in California and my native Italy. So I can definitely relate to what you went through.
I've followed you for over 15 years Hitomi you have no idea how much I resonate with you. So happy to still see you around so authentically.
Dude. I’m so happy I’ve found you. Not only can I look within my 37 year old self & heal old wounds, but I can take these pieces of info for my 12 year old son so that he doesn’t have to have as much pain around such topics. Thank you for sharing. You’re incredible!! 💕
Thank you for uploading this,I'm 18 yo black girl in Italy and I've been feeling lost lately, I just realized that I needed to hear this.
Thank you so much💜
I could literally cry these words are so affirming n refreshing.
I can say that the part of having to match peoples energy and living with roommates and not wanting to be social straight away Is Me. I’m also very chill and my tone of voice is more on the mellow side. It’s something that I have to learn how to do and just be my authentic self without having to pretend to be something else.
like that match of energy for me would be a downward match
Her videos are so healing. I always watch them alone because they speak to my highest truth and I have to be in my own presence to be honest with myself.
I am so beyond grateful for you, when you mentioned the part about matching others energy I have NEVER related to anything so much, I am also the type that is very calm just nod my head and I am not always energetic and giddy but that does not mean I am not happy or excited and I used to feel so bad for it and journal about it but I know that its okay to be that way you are such an inspiration to me its beyond words thank you for your existence in this universe, to share it with you and experience you is a blessing ( even if its through the screen energy speaks volumes ) x
I love the part about being comfortable with not always matching with people’s energy. I have people in my life.. who I love dearly, who want me to show up for them in this exciting, energetic person but at times I just want to celebrate them through smiling or just being calm up but still celebrating them. Like I don’t want them to think that I don’t care or that I’m jealous or something negative, it’s just I’m not in that energetic field right now to show up like that, but I’m still proud of their successes… and I’m glad You brought that up hitomi bc I always felt like I was the odd one out or would be scared to get deemed as a “bitchy” or less exciting friend who’s probably jealous 😂😭.
I don’t know what it is today, I’ve been very emotional. Seeing and hearing the first 20 seconds of your video I just cried. Because i see a lot of myself in you. Seeing you thrive has opened my eyes up that I can be myself. I can forgive myself. I too can thrive. You always help bring me to a sense of elevation Hitomi. Thank you for sharing your energy and your journey as always. It is felt on so many levels.
You can put words on my inner thought and on the way I deeply feel about life, it's soooo good to hear this from outside ❤️ And thank you so much for the courage you have to share this on RUclips
You literally validate my existence, listening to you I always resonate deeply and that normalises my experiences/thoughts. Thank you 💖
You’re such an inspiration Hitomi, always reminding us to be the authentic version of ourselves, which is so difficult in todays society ❤️
feeling so much love and gratitude for you. thank you for creating this safe internet space.
Thank you for this video Hitomi. I’ve been struggling with my acne these past couple months. Sometimes it’s hard for me to even look at myself in the mirror. I’m really working on trying to be ok with this part of myself but it isn’t easy. Your videos like these really help me with this journey I’m on of learning to love myself fully. Thank you and sending so much love 💕
oh my goodness, I appreciate you existing so much. the feelings and thoughts you share always make me feel so validated and seen.
"At the end of the day I just want to be a good person." I felt that internally. I love the uniqueness of your content, and I'm glad that I subscribed to you!!
Hitomi thank you for helping me know my true soul within myself . Just want to let you know that I truly love and adore you 😊. I hope we could meet someday 🥺❤️ . Sending you hugs and wishing you happiness in every moment your life ❤️🤗
I’ve love to see you make a video on how to help others heal from their trauma, especially if they don’t talk about it a lot or are less spiritually tuned in
This video spoke to me on so many different levels. I am almost 28 and feel more lost now then I did when I was in my teenage years. Thanks for your insight Hotomi it helps me realize I am not inadequate, i am not alone, that I am valid and I am just human. I often feel love for strangers and you’re one of them. I really want to sit with you under a tree and talk for hours, then laugh form our bellies. I just love who you are! ❤️✨
thats a precious talk, I even took notes.. I just love the vibe, so calming. thank you precious ✨
Hitomi, I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for these beautiful words and lessons. You radiate such a powerful yet calm energy that makes me feel in a safe space. You've helped and inspired me to finally vocalise my boundaries and be okay with who I am, not always trying to make myself small or run away from social situations in fear of my shadow being seen. Sending you all the love 🙏✨❤️
I feel like whenever you head towards your journey and real self you kind of naturally become the most beautiful version of yourself and it's clearly visible, you can somehow feel it inside out...
And thank you for sharing your lovely wisdom with the world🤗
Sending loads of love and good vibes 💞
I literally just wrote a song about just wanting to create a safe space for the people I love. I love watching your videos because it feels like hanging out with a friend who gets me and who’s thinking about what I’m thinking about. Very small but very impactful in this rather lonely season. Much love to you, Hitomi! And thanks for sharing your wisdom and co-regulating with us! Have a lovely evening :)
I found you through Isabel and seriously, I'm a lot like you. I don't like to socialize in the morning and am chill wallflower 80% of the time, buzzing energy the other 20%. It's such a different perspective to realize I don't have to match other's energy. That's the thing that's been keeping me away from people, society is just super exhausting sometimes. Thanks Hitomi and I just subscribed!!
This video is almost triggering because I relate so much to these experiences and lessons mentioned. This one's a gem, thank you for sharing x
Needed to hear this today! Practicing just being present more and not getting so caught up in who I am going to be and that all parts of me are always existing 💜 Love your videos!
This has been tremendously helpful, thank you. 🙏♥️🥰
Thank you for sharing the spiritual plateau. I’m currently experiencing too, it helps me to think that, “It’s normal and ok. I’m still on the right path.” ☺️
I wish we could be friends! Maybe we will cross paths one day! I have been having a hard time with emotional regulation, and I felt like from watching this video I got a pep talk from a friend. Thank you so much for your light. ☀️
I'm so incredibly grateful that I found this channel. She's such a relatable human being!! Her content reminds me that I am not alone and helps me to embrace my authentic self.
Your thoughts and energy really push me and make me uncomfortable, and I’m struggling to not judge like “what she’s saying is wrong; here’s why”, “She is right, and look it shows she’s happy and beautiful and successful and improving millions of lives”
I feel our shared human values, and I really want to learn your mind as just a way of living life. It’s not one I will walk as a man, but I can tell it’ll feel right and fulfill me in whatever way I’m feeling and being pushed by you
you worded this so well, I noticed I judge so quickly and then react to the judgement and it's been this way forever. I can notice it in my body better now, and I have hope we can both get to a peaceful energy.
@@Rothko333 (:
literally just spent the past little while binging your content to try to help me with a bit of a tougher day, and then you post! so perfect, thank you.
I haven’t watched your videos in a while, and I’ve been going through a lot of mental health issues and disconnect from my spirituality due to it. I came back and watched this today and I really think God led me here for a reason. I really needed to hear this especially today. Thank you ❤
Quality human being right here. We love you, Hitomi. Your presence and introspection is always so appreciated.
Hitomi 💖 Thank You for this helpful and relatable therapy session. 😌🌱
I so agree with being your authentic self! ❤️
thank you so much💚💚💚it’s always so healing to hear your honesty-you make me feel seen🙏🏼💫
thank you so much Hitomi, you're like a big sister to me 💕
this video came at divine timing for me! i really needed to hear it. thank you so much for being you and spreading love
The compassion you show yourself is so genuine that in turn, I can feel it for myself 💖 thank you for your kind words!
your reflection resonate perfectly with mine right now... that's crazy. I feel you so much, you seem to be my subconscience talking to me!
Thank you. I'm a new viewer, struggling with self-acceptance, feelings of belonging, and a general sense of purpose. Your videos speak to the quiet, unseen parts of myself that needed a hug. I am forever grateful for your willingness to teach in ways that affirm and give life.
I LOVE YOU, I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR BEING THAT BEAUTIFUL SOUL, I LOVE HOW YOU TALK ABOUT BEAUTY, THANK YOU!!
This was so freakin on point and validating Hitomi 😫 thank you for sharing ❤️🥹
The trauma shame and feeling like you’re not allowed to have those responses and hide that part of yourself even though it’s a completely natural, authentic and understandable response, like why would you have to hide that. I felt that
Oooo yes socialize in my present energy. Stay present and grounded in myself. Sometimes I want to say something, w my parents, but it's unkind, more of a flashback to how they treated me in the past. Wanting to say the same mean things they said to me. Yikes, that passes, but makes me feel like I'm a bad person .
I loved the advice of not matching people's energy. As an HSP introvert, this is really a big one for me, since socializing can be such an energy drain for me. Will definitely carry this idea with me from now on. ♥️
wow, this is exactly what i needed to hear right now. it can be so stressful trying to match someone’s energy so that i’ll be appealing to them when that’s just not who i want to be in the moment.
Redefining beauty and success!!
My goal is to experience different things, meet different people, and look someone in the eyes, make them feel heard or seen, even if lasts seconds. My soul feels sooo better after, and i feel so free, free of mundane expectations like killing myself for a "better" job or graduating faster.. what are we running for?
i relate to you a lot and your words bring me a lot of comfort. it feels good to know that i can simply be me, thank you
This is probably the most important content ever created. You make the universe a better place with everything you do...thank you for being.
That was amazing to watch and more importantly to me, it was incredible to feel all of that with you!
felt this. me staying true to myself has been healing to my entire family. I have broken many generational curses and have attracted so many opportunities. I love being weird and cool and quirky
I think sometimes people just show up or a video like this to guide us to thread better in our life. It is reassuring the feelings, people and the fear in our lives are real and we need to own it up and move through these feelings with little bit of self love. Thanks for the wisdom Hitomi :)
these topics and everything hitomi makes would be so so good as podcasts, love her 💗
I agree 💯
You’re the wise, loving parent I never had. Thank you ❤️
I love this so much. Especially the part about dressing for the male gaze and just being comfortable in the clothing you already own ! THANK YOU FOR THIS MEDICINE
I feel deeply understood with the need to remain silent in the morning. I will start communicating this from now on
Hi Hitomi! Thank you so much for all the videos. I was able to say NO to strengthen my YES thanks to you. My whole life has changed and I am more than thankful for discovering you!
I’m having a such a weird emotional night. It might be pms… all the anger flaring up inside me for no reason might be unconscious feelings. However listening to you talking about self acceptance. It is like re-grounding myself again find the center and be kind to my anger. So I won’t feel ashamed of myself of having this anger. Thank you for sharing. This help me.
I have grown up with you as a person in last couple of years and just listening to your voice sends signals to my brain that it's a safe space. I m going to play this video in the background as affirmations whenever I will have dissociations and doubts.
ILYSM 🤍 thank you for being you Hitomi my inner child & light are so grateful for you 🙏🏼
every sentence you say speaks and awakens something in my soul
You have no idea how happy I get when you upload!!!It literally makes my year 👑👑👑
Thank you for sharing what you have learned that can also be applied and resonate with what is going on in our lives ❤️
This resonated SO much. Thank you for making me feel not so alone
Ohh, my I am a bit older then you and I am thankful for your honesty!!! I grew up with Narcissist parents and I feel you about having no guidance. I was on my own as soon as I turned 18. Thank you sister, stay blessed 🙏🏼
this video addressed exactly what i’ve been struggling with, thank you for sharing hitomi💕
We collectively realized cutting off parents just makes things worse. Forgiveness and love is the only source of comfort. Also understanding that one day my kids will grow up and have complaints about me bc I’m not perfect, and I’m hoping they’ll show me grace as I have for my parents.
omg the green inlay part of the video is a mood
Yeah i loved it too...so aesthetic 😍
I resonated with every single word you said it’s honestly scary. I’m going through self worth and acceptance as well
I LOVE YOU, i relate to you so much, im happy that youre speaking about things i wish so many people know about
Nothing like Hitomi’s videos to ground yourself 💙💙
Having a baby & taking a lot into consideration from my personal experiences to others. These are insightful videos ♥️
Congrats on your little one! I just had my second baby in February. Motherhood is such an amazing journey.
I can definitely relate because I have a three-year-old daughter.
Love, love, love, absolutely loved everything you said. It all resonated with me. The only thing I would add to this, is the need to feed ourselves spiritually. We were created with a spiritual need, feeding that and working on maintaining that connection with our Creator, has, for me, changed everything. Contentment, inner joy, and true happiness have been the benefits I have found when I finally studied the Holy Scriptures. The truth about God, as presented in the Bible, as opposed to the stories we've been told, has been incredibly freeing in every way that you've mentioned.
This is something I’m coming back to I need these reminders 🐯
my love for you & your teachings are forever expanding
I’m so grateful you shared thoughts on pretty privilege. I was thinking this exact thing this morning, that while I know my appearance has played a role in social acceptance and follows the conditioned narratives we are tough to believe, I also know the amount of love and care I pour into my spiritual well-being is ultimately what I derive my confidence and joy from. That my life purpose is to radiate love to others, despite what my physical form looks like. Thank you for helping me remove the guilt of being ‘societally pretty,’ and accept my foundational Truth and freedom. MmHmmm!
I just turned 13 and my parents are not people to look up to but I just accepted that I am on my own path either with my family or not i still love them.💗
Why are you a better therapist than any licensed therapist I’ve ever been too
this video makes my heart feel so full
This video actually helped me so much! I always feel so guilty with what I say or if I act too mellow in social situations but this made me realise that it‘s alright not to adapt to others!! Thank you xx
Thank you so much for this video, you're helping me and so much more people, so I hope you feel proud of yourself because you’re a kind and good person / ilyy
Dear hitomi, thank you for being that big sis talk i never received
I really appreciate you Hitomi ❤❤ Thankyou for your words and care, bless you and i'm so proud of how far you've blossomed ❤❤ 🙏🫶❤️🥹🫂😚