How to Handle Toxic Situations In Your Life
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- Опубликовано: 30 авг 2020
- How to Handle Toxic Situations In Your Life
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It's also a trust issue. It's not healthy to be a doormat. He obviously only asked for forgiveness after he got caught. Hold him accountable for his actions. If he doesn't seek counseling, kick him to the curb.
Actually feel bad for this woman. What a shame. I've heard hundreds of people where I can see something like this happening to them but this girl sounds emotionally drained. There's someone out there that would genuinely appreciate her
Dr. Delony you are so right when you say this man made no progress. He's not utterly repentant AT ALL. He's playing games with her. He's not ready to turn over everything, an apology, his credit cards, his paycheck, he's not admitting he was wrong and he's going to do it again.
I've ben excited for this! John impressed me the moment he was introduced to Ramsey Solutions. A great addition to the team!
Congratulations on the podcast John! Will be tuning in!
Super glad you started this podcast. You are appreciated and some wise and compassionate guidance can't ever hurt. Keep on...
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Can you address, bullies at work, looking for solutions, hard to go to management when it a very tight click of people.
He is NOT changing. You aren't changing him. If you can live with that - stay :)
Oh, Dr. John, you really nailed it in that she no longer trusts herself. I think that she likely feels that way.
For me? I didn't trust my own judgement anymore.
So I just never remarried. Now, I might. I'm finally over it.
RE: Estranged Dad's Funeral
1) If Stephanie decides to help, she can phone a crematory and have them pick up the body. Have him cremated, with no service. Then, when ready,
hold a picnic in a park for his friends and your family.
Call it a Celebration of Life.
Hopefully, his Social Security will cover the cost of cremation.
This is the least expensive way to do this, besides doing nothing.
You might find out that there were people that appreciated him. Maybe he helped some people that needed it.
There is never enough voices to show the love and the light that we need to be strong. I appreciate your passionate approach to serving and sharing your experiences. We all don't have to agree on everything but we need to master understanding and communication that will lead to love of each other. All the POWER My Brother !
Gary Thompson's book "when to walk away" is a must!
Jessica got us all fired up 🔥
She is trapped in a bad and situation.His advice is spot on.
After being divorced for 5 years it is still tremendously helpful to hear this!! Thank you! If they really don’t apologize they don’t think they need to change. We were “in love”. And I had to walk away…it is still hard
I was hoping I stumbled upon something that's been around a while so I could binge Dr. Delony content. Guess I'll have to wait and watch in real time. So glad this exists!
Great 1st episode!! I'm excited for your second episode! I'm glad you told that 1st caller the truth. I don't think her husband is being truthful and you're right - if she keeps sticking her hand in that bag - she's going to get the same outcome.
Thank you Dr. Delony. I've shared with all my friends and family!
Congrats on your new podcast John! You are going to change so many lives for the better with this show!
Always picking relevant helpful topics. Thank you.
Seriously excited for this video. Could not be better timing!
I'm so glad I discovered you and yourchannel! Wisdom, paired with keeping it real, makes it easy to listen and appreciate what you have to say.
We appreciate you Dr. JOHN!
We need to hear the hard truth
And need to hear the honesry!
🙏🙏🙏
you're doing a great job, JD. You are in your element here!
Thank you John. This is my new favourite channel. Thank you for your sound advice and empathy is delivering your advice. Thank you so much!
Great Show John!
Good call. It's a sh!t situation but it's the high road with the love for someone that was struggling with addicting and communicating with words that are hard to explain.
You rock Dr. John!
I really thought this podcast would just be more finance but more emotional. I’m glad that it serves more the emotional side of life because I’ve always lacked the guidance and this is sort of filling in the gaps I’ve had in my upbringing.
You are a total gem!! I am sooo glad to have found you thru Dave Ramsey....your genuine love for your callers is palpable! Many blessings to you as this podcast and your fame grows.....
Great show today, and I still enjoy those 80’s-90’s rockers like Poison too.
What a great bio! I have been listening now for some time, what a great mission.
This is going to be amazing!
So nice and very helpful! I need to add this in my upcoming VIDS🙂
This is so sad. I’m sorry, Jessica, that you are going through this. Protect yourself and leave.
Thank you Dr. John.
Really cool guy! Great edition to the line up
CAN’T WAIT!!!
I like this guy. I'd love for him to tell me like it is...I know I need it
call him. it all starts with you and get out of comfort zone important keep yourself healthy fit vary important just learn from your mistakes quit blaming people learn from your mistakes be strong❤
I needed this years ago before I married ( with undiagnosed adhd to someone who gave me a very unwanted twenty year education. In narcissism then set up his alibis before his big. dramatic discard ic me, that he made our teenagers watch).
They will continue acting that way because it keeps people at a distance and keeps them from dealing with whatever madd them that way. Meanwhile. spouses, kids, etc. are churning in their wake as they hunt for another unwitting player.
I CANT WAIT!
You had me dying on the CrossFit article 🤣
Yep! The gravelly macho voice cracked me up.
I cant wait!
Welcome and thank you.
Yes! I love Poison and the song “something to believe in”
Coming back to these is so cool great job
Awesome show John! And Poison is one of the best bands ever (we must be about the same age, lol)! 👍
Your relationship advice is always helping and relating to me. Thank you
You were talking about the best band and Poison came to my mind and then you said Poison!! Heck yeah!! Just saw them recently (2022) as a follow up to seeing them back in 1988!! Great band and great song to quote. Thank you for your words of wisdom🙏
Idk... Think young "Frasier" without Roz. Would love Dr D with a sidekick. Lol Great first episode! I look forward to the next episode! 😍
I love your podcast
Bout to go visit family and saw this title and thought “I need this! How did he know?”
good stuff
Great, really great! Thank you so much!
Greetings from Belgium 💝🐴🌹
Very helpful! Maybe I should have that in my VIDS🙂
Good podcast!!!
Judging on how young John looks, he must have stated his counseling practice when he was 12!
I was cracking up at the CrossFit part 🤣🤣
I love this podcast Dr. John! I especially love your song of the days too, that's a great element, as I'm a music-fanatic! Dont' forget to reach down into the often-over-looked Contemporary Christian genre. That is a deep well of AMAZING songs, by artists who are in alignment with good values and higher purposes. Wishing you the best in this new journey, you are awesome!
Woah what a first call to kickoff.
Digging the background wall
@John Delony I recently moved out (into my camper relocated to a different location) after months in counseling with my partner. In March, an accident happened and caused me to spiral when feeling like I could be widowed for a second time in my life. 8 counseling sessions visibly unstable and the counselor’s responses was consistent “my priority is the relationship”. This resulted in no action or support and my decision for my own mental health was made.
I have attempted to resolve our relationship while protecting my own mental health, but continue to be met with “I don’t know” after 6 months.
Do you have recommendations for an individual to release this emotional attachment? I shared your “fire in the house” videos and was met with the response “it’s not my fault, I’m not the only person that should be making changes”
Thinking of all the questions I can ask you!
He’s a modern day Frasier Crane!
Hahaha
Everybody knows the best band is Iron Maiden ;-) Love the show!!!
POISON!! YESSSSSS!!!!!!! Best band EVER!
Nope! Guns N Roses is the best Band ever!!!
Yes!!!!!
I love your show. I absolutely wish you could council me and my daughter.
For funeral costs pay your 1/3 or set amount. But yes you do not have to pay.
stay healthy dont do drugs or drink alot workout good for the mind
John’s intro song is so much better than Baker Street
My fiancée doesn’t know what he wants to do, and has not created any plan the past 8 years. He is responsible with money but he is selling his business soon with no plan on how he will earn money after that. Should I be worried? I graduated from college debt free and now pursuing my masters plus accounting certifications (that will be company paid) so I feel I have planned out my life. But he does not “like planning”. Is this a red flag? I don’t want to be controlling but I wish he had some sort of plan mapped out
Please cut music sooner🥰🥰 great talk dr d!!
Right! Wht is it with the Dave Ramsey team that just LOVE to have super loud intro music!?!? Lol 😅🤦🏽♂️
I lost everybody that I have known! This croon virus wiped everything I had!
AND you appreciate Poison?!?! Sold.
"progress"
I love your 'macho buzz" voice when reading that dumb, bozo brained iCross Fit thing.
That's right she's not going anywhere.... sad
Funeral: there is an alternative. In Northern California, it's common to have the body cremated, and then to wait until spring or fall and have a get together, picnic style in a park, in order to show respect for the life that God gave the deceased.
Often, it's called a "Celebration of life". A notice is put in a paper, or is done via phone! It's not expensive, and it doesn't have to be maudlin.
I believe she KNOWS the right answer for her and her children. She just doesn't want or have the resources to do it. Still, that too is a choice.
Why??? Do these men get married and drag children into this then treat them like this stay single
he needs to go. no good sob. he will NOT. change no way i could be with him again start a new life ❤
Im a senior highschool at my school..and in my class there so many toxic students..they like to tease me..i dont know whats to do..whether..should i just ignore them and let them be..even i feel hurt and sad because of their words?
Call the cops
Huh...
Choose a hobby or a skill and Perfect it. If that’s a job, a hobby, a sport, college classes. Get great and leave them behind. Do u better and let them live in their misery. New friends will form with similar hobbies. Get a great job ( doesn’t mean high paying) and get friends there in same situation. Find a RUclips channel and learn a. Skill or hobby. Start delivering food and groceries and smile and be professional and watch your bank account. Get creative and go for it. Be an adult and leave the children behind. U r ready. We are all valued, get in a situation where u r valued
@@donotrobme9295 thank you i will take that advice
I am a person who never knew how to or stood up for myself and in my older years I look back and regret it I realize now the best response to rude or cruel people picking on me is in a firm loud voice say - PLEASE JUST STOP I find now after doing this people are so taken aback to hear me speaking up they just shut up and respect me more!
Hey bro .you know Dr joe beam? Hes good friends with dave ramsey
Once a cheater always a cheater whether it’s a man or woman
Jesus needs to watch 'Regarding Henry' , with Harrison Ford and Annette Bening.
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I'll speak for John. This marriage is ruined and you should end it.
Isn’t immediate family legally obligated to pay for funeral costs?
Excited you’re starting this! Have really appreciated your wisdom on Dave Ramsey’s channel. In this video, unfortunate that you take God’s name in vain so much though. Otherwise, great start! Appreciate the righteous indignation with the ridiculous “he said he’s making progress” comment.
They really had you in a basement office huh Bud? 🤣
I would not pay for the funeral!
She already said she does not want to pay for the funeral it's more for the looks .what will people think of her..you know what you'll feel worst after paying for it if that was not your first instinct.The dead father knows himself what an asshole he was luckily I believe they are in the all knowing so no need for bullshit
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If he has been with one women the marriage is over, if he’s been with 3 your completely naive and desperate if you think there is even .1 percent of him stopping, he will never stop no matter what he says he’s lying and if you believe him you deserve it, sorry to be so harsh and I know you have kids but it’s completely over
Hey.. why you throwing shade towards crossfit lol
I would leave the cheating man immediately. Don't put up with it. Are you not worried about catching diseases? Your children deserve a far better role model from a father.
The only machine I know is Arnold Schwarzenegger 😎
I’d like to request song lyrics, “WAP” by Cardi B. Thank you.
Triggered!!!!
Leave
2nd caller. Run. And get checked for diseases. Please.
Move on!
She’s making excuses for him 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️