I found it disturbing when Jada laughed after Will slapped Chris. I honestly thought the fiasco was staged until Will yelled profanity. You could hear the pain in his soul.
Yes! I was defending Will for defending Jada because I’ve done the same thing (without physical violence). I could tell she’s the narcissist too due to him going from laughing to livid on her behalf because of her facial expressions etc. His special night was ruined too. SO FAMILIAR. I’ve never had a partner made my special days about me. They’ve always ruined them.
On two separate birthdays I found out my vulnerable narc wife was cheating on me. About 10 years apart. The first one was devestating, the second one was for about 10 minutes, but I was already healing from the narc codependency and knew what she was. I knew her cheating was about her black hole of self esteem and I was actually a great husband, a catch even, it's a weight off me not to care about trying to make her happy.
@@godzillamanstreb524 as much as I can be, I still have to coparent, but the mindfulness that has come from learning about vulnerable narcissists has helped a great deal in my happiness and managing how to deal with her. I've learned there's nothing wrong with me. That I'm capable, awesome, and the narc is more scared of me than I am of her. I won't be "cry bullied" anymore. After over a decade with a vulnerable narc spouse every day feels like a vacation now that I'm free.
Exactly what I said when he did what he did. He was triggered, manipulated by her. She set out to destroy the best night of his career. She is envious of his spectacular career, as hers is practically nonexistent. Yes. He needs to divorce her ASAP. Enough of her already. I feel for him.
No one wants to go through a divorce but this is one couple who should have packed it in years ago. Will is loyal to a fault because he still thinks he can love her enough to fix her. And as anyone who has ever been in any kind of a situationship with a narcissist knows; it’s never gonna happen .. 🙄🤨
I Love your insight and ability to see through people’s motives. I hadn’t heard of that red table interview, or how she had previously mentioned in another interview how she actually loved her bald head. Yeah, yeah! I see it now. Thanks for your comments. That was truly a vile and vicious thing to do to him. Especially in public. A decent person wouldn’t do that, even to their worst enemy. Much less a spouse, and parent to their child. You’ll never see a person with class behaving like that. Regardless of their life circumstances. I’ve always liked him. He always had a precious innocence and light about him too. Poor guy. I hope he gets out of that soul sucking situation asap too. Disgusting.
@@RebeccaZungEsq I would have too. 😔 I remember an interview with Demi Moore years ago, when she was going through her divorce, where she completely degraded Bruce Willis’s sexual stamina. He wasn’t even there, but I remember thinking it was a nasty & vicious thing to do - to ANYONE!
I am glad you are talking about this one. I have a female friend that think it is offensive that I see narcissistic abuse coming from Jada, and they say that Jada is fighting the "patriarchy". Will's networth is $350 Million. Jada's is $50 Million. They have no prenuptial agreement, so she gets at least half of everything. I don't think Jada WANTS divorce either, but you can see she loves holding him hostage in this marriage so she can continue to feed off of his emotional energy. I kinda think $175 Million is worth the cost to just ditch her and move on with his life. He thinks he's being strong, but she is going to keep trying to ruin his life.
Rebecca, it's crazy the awareness and understanding I have regarding narcissism, what was once hidden, is now painfully obvious!!. You have helped me immensely, so thank you for the education, because it has allowed me to heal, fully understanding, you can never make narcissist's happy!! I'm well pleased to have the tools you have taught me, so thanks again! Just know you helped me understand, first, that I am an empath, and that I have no control over anyone but myself, and second, the carrots offered by narcissist's, never come to fruition .. Poor Will Smith, it seems like he is in pretty deep, so prayers for he and his narcissistic wife..
@@jamespimentel1794 The ultimate devaluing & triangulation..."I just wanted to feel good" regarding another man. Translation "25 years married to you...didn't feel good"
I have been saying this myself. I actually talked to lil willow when FB just came out and complimented her on her lil hair whip song. Nice lil girl. Then, she was off. Jaden and her were such beautiful kids. Im not taking the blame off Will though as well. 💯
So painful listening to the affair thing. How can Narcissists believe they are sooooo loving while litterally kicking someone in the face, over and over again? They are so sick in their minds
Will said he said in font of God “till death do us part”. It’s ok Will, God said you can divorce for adultery. Now leave the narcissist and save your soul!
I totally get why Will started yelling like he did. All the pent up emotions from dealing with a narcissist like Jade “ took him there”.Been there and done that myself. Sure, not appropriate but cut him some slack. He’s been dealing with a lot no doubt.
Jada, not Jade. See, we all make mistakes. Big and little. But the people in our life are either kind and don’t manipulate us or NOT! It’s subtle sometimes ( for some of us) but one day we just have had it and lose it…most likely in the wrong place and time. Need to stay away from narcissism…
I also prepared a surprise birthday party for my ex-husband. I told a receptionist from his work and I told her to ask other coworkers but I also told her not to say anything to my ex-husband. She ended up telling him and when he got home, he got very angry. He began to yell at me and screamed at me saying..."I DON'T WANT ANYONE TO KNOW HOW OLD I AM." "Why can't you respect my wishes!? I had also told his family and I forgot to call them to cancel the reunion. However when his family sang happy birthday. Then he became happy and apologized to me for screaming at me. He said..."I am sorry for giving me this birthday party. Then I said..."DON'T WORRY ABOUT ME EVER MAKING ANY BIRTHDAY PLANS OR ANYTHING. " You are right, I'm so stupid for doing that for you but believe me when I say that I will make a birthday party for you ever again. Of course I kept my words and then he started saying that he missed the family gatherings. I said...oh well! It's too late for you to say anything because I will never make any plans for your birthday.
Ms. Jada has a Jaded Pattern! I am Ready To Heal Positively, Truthfully, and Realistically Self Care! Let Her Go Will! Start Living a Real Clean Life Again!🙏❤****No More Open Marriages!!!
Wow just a couple days ago i was saying that she gives me narcissist vibes. Glad ur covering this!!!!!! I’m with a narcissist so it was easy for me to spot.
What happens to the narcissist in a situation like this - with such extensive public disapproval? Would they accept it on some level? Or would they justify / rewrite the story to excuse themselves.. and avoiding feeling shame?
Jada has said over and over again that she doesn’t love Will and never has. She says that she married him because she was pregnant and not for love. Her mother told her she had to get married. Her mother was an alcoholic for many years and has been clean and sober for a few years.
I agree with the narcissist hold of their victims. But no matter what it was Will Smiths hand that did the slapping. You have got to stipulate that. Or the next time a husband says to his wife, after he broke her jaw, “you made me do that to you”, the woman will believe him, after listening to you about Jada. You have to address the reverse, men narcs to women relationships which has got its major violence going with this line of believing. It’s not the same. Will slapped. Totally his responsibility. Even if ten Jadas are twisting his arms.
Amen!! Great analogy. It really scares me how many videos I keep seeing about people defending Will and demonizing Jada. Jada very well could be (and probably is) a narcissist, so I'm not defending her but Will is the one who went and committed an act of violence. I don't care if Jada gave him a "look". I was abused by my narcissistic father and I can't tell you how many times he got away with it because people actually bought into this idea that I somehow "made" him hit me. This narrative that people are spreading of making Will out to be a victim is extremely dangerous, more so than they probably realize.
@@sweetielady7710 your the one who clearly has no idea what your talking about will did do it but not because he wanted to or because he planned to do it. He had no intention of doing it until she looked at him and as he is so manipulated doing what his wife says is the only thing he felt like he could do, which was defend her honour. Oh he is being mentally abused for years and it's more evident.
You nailed it they actually are both narcissist using each other for supply but for different reasons he feels guilty for not being able to defend his mom so Jada becomes a surrogate for him to make up for lost time and Jada is taking out all of her abandonment childhood trauma issues of her father leaving on her onto Will.
@@TheRealJuseBeats it doesn’t. It’s very rare for 2 narcs to be together because they won’t accept the behaviour they dish out! Will is likely an empath
Jada wanted a reaction from Will and sadly he took the bait. Will probably baited by Jada everyday. He don’t need her it’s frustrating to watch him tolerate her...smh
Her Narcissism is always on full display. Her main objective to appear on The Red Table w/Will was to publically emasculate him. She spoke w/such pride w/o any regret or shame, as if she was casting for a role in a soap opera. Not to mention, the lack of thought & carelessness of what her kids must be thinking post interview. I'm sure she put a gold star for that move in her diary.
True. I was amazed by the complete lack of remorse about her cheating, but instead putting blame on him publicly. And I sadly believe that many people have justified her.
Will isn't a narcissist. He has a lot of confidence and outgoing but he's not evil. Narcs are evil spirited. Will is a nice guy. But he has been in Hollywood long enough to believehe could get away with that slap. But slot of that was Jada's pull on him because it really is out of character on Will's part.
I was so hurt and disappointed in Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith's behavior. I lived with narcissistic abuse for several years during my marriage and I never took my hurt and pain out on anyone except myself. I understand Will Smith's emotions, but I am not going to justify his bad choices and behavior. He could have handled that situation when leaving the event by stating that Chris Rock's comments were immature and unbecoming and he owed Jada an apology. But to assault Chris Rock while he was working. That is work place harassment and violence. If that was done in a federal building during a hearing or an awards ceremony Will Smith would have been brought up on charges by the federal government. Forget about the person he assaulted...the work place would have brought the charges against Will Smith.
@Kay Shields they can because she is the reason he did it. He had no intention of doing it,but because his wife looked at him in the way where he had to stand up for her he did it was just the wrong thing to do and that's why it was out of character
Your an amazing Lawyer. Yes your very right about this subject. I feel its true. When Good men have minors as children with a marriage contract. Well that usually means they are owned. Love your videos
Please don’t talk so dragged on, wwe arre nott chilldrenn. You make good points but I had to change the playback speed to 1.5 to get rid of the dragging on. Hope I don’t sound rude or narcissistic but it is painful waiting for the words. I studder a little bit and I still talk faster lol. Love your videos and your focus and you are spot on about narcs and co-dependents😛🇨🇦
I don't think his independent. I think he really loves her. The thing is that dhe might have made him feel like he can't find someone better or that he would be a bad dad if he left
I'll preface this by saying will is ultimately responsible for his behavior at the Oscars. Having said that he if you have been in a relationship with someone who truly has NPD, it is really easy to see her behavior, And Wills desperate attempt to gain her love and approval, Which of course will never happen
My ex to be narc is only happy when she is making my life a living hell. Not only did she not even aknowledge my standing by her side through 3 years of battleing cervical cancer and only leaving her once the doctor said it was gone but she goes on to tell everyone she can that i not only left her while she had cancer but is also telling people i tried to kill her despite the fact i saved her life 4 times by calling EMS at criticsl points during the battle. Just easter sunday, as i will copy and paste the brief text exchange, hopefully demonstrates just a hint of what i have been dealing with. I have custody of our duaghter and she is on supervised visits which is recorded on a digital voice recorder. The thing she claims our daughter said was never said by our girl. Me to her: Paula, happy easter. Sorry to hear you have decided to have a shortened visit with faith today due to your last minute change of plans and that you wished to meet with her early before your scheduled visit time today. Her reply: I have other kids and grandkids that was begging to be with me today. This to shall pass soon. Faith knows what u r doing - shes smart. But u do what u need to make u feel better - but rem when u play games - it only hurts faith. She wanted to go with me today to c her sisters and family - i told her u wouldnt let her - which is only the truth. She knows i love her - so do what u feel u need to. It will all be over soon. God knows the truth - its about to come out. He is a good God and I am a chosen one - he will let it all come out - i trust and believe in him. By the way i will be making another police report again today - cause we did not agree upon a place for visition again. And please dont call the police on me again like u did last week - trying to get me in trouble again on lies. They told me about u trying to get me in trouble on lies again. They said its all civil - they r on to your lies now - they r well aware of what u have done. They know everything - they know about your affair - and kicking your sick wife of 23 years out to the street with nowhere to go with cancer. They know about how your lying on getting ptos - tbey know it all. But most of all God knows- and God dont like lies and evil. Tell my baby i love her and i will c her soon. This is almost done - so i can go on with my life - praise God!
Amazing how when we go real deep - there the WHOLE truth comes out. I forget the original comment that Chris made, but the "G.I. Jane" stuck out. It's said it's related to her bald head (alopecia) but now am thinking it's bc Chris was referring to her PERSONALITY. Her body language seems kinda stiff and maybe she acts dominant a lot? It would be good to see what an expert says. (there's a good channel: Observe
Jada is truly a narcissist, she is attempting to make will appear to have mental health problems. She said that they lived separate lives but yet she is showing up as his wife.
Totally- he needs to demonstrate unpredictability, like here’s the divorce papers! Honestly though after his switch song I figured he was playing with bdsm and liked the role of male submissive??? Spoken or unspoken?? Whatever he signed up for he’s hurting himself.
Rebecca, I can see what your saying here… in general for their relationship…but don’t you think that the comments from Chris Rock didn’t have anything to do with her. Unless he set it up because he knew Will Smith would trigger??? But I don’t think so. Either way why punch him on stage, this entire thing is about controlling reactions. That’s why it seems a bit set up.
I agree with a lot of what you said, but you can't blame Jada for Will's behaviour at the Oscars. Punching Chris Rock was a very bad look (as well as swearing at him afterwards). It was his choice to behave that way. I do agree with your other assessments though: from what I can tell its a very bad dynamic between the two. As you said when she discussed her cheating she wouldn't even acknowledge that she did something bad, there was zero remorse. Also as you mentioned she made Will believe that he was selfish for planning a birthday for her. Bizarre!
She sounds like a high dollar version of my ex. One big exception, after some time, I hated her, and I couldn't get rid of her for several years. After she was out of my life, I had to seek professional help.
I don’t support their marriage dynamics and especially the red table talk moments but I don’t agree with the notion that she ruined his big night. He ruined it himself and literally wasn’t forced to slap Chris. Why blame another for a persons actions like they’re a child. She was within her rights to be annoyed by the joke but I didn’t see her telling him what to do. If he tried to impress her, that’s on him. I think y’all are being too harsh on her.
Watching the Oscar scene I actually understand the speaker saying: "GI Jada" so besides all smiling probably that that reveals more about the relationship between Will and Jada ... when Jada is seen as tough GI ... will appears like a clown 🤡 besides that ... that belittling might also trigger him ...
Officer of the court, Rebecca Zung, blaming Jada Smith because Will Smith [a full-grown man of sound mind] committed the violent misdemeanor crimes of Disorderly conduct [California Penal Code § 2.34] and BATTERY [California Penal Code § 242 PC]. That's rich.
I mean will is an adult man. He chose to slap chris...we cant blame jada for that. I understand there are a ton of narcs but that doesnt mean ppl who are in relationships with obe shouldnt be held accountable for their actions. They are both narcs more likely. Him moreso
I can tell you right now. A Libra man will always back up his wife. Usually this ends up being a manipulative act to keep the libra man constrained. Will Smith has Kids. Hes trying desperatly to maintain a family structure. Yes he knows he can anyone he wants. Hes Will Smith. But hes also worth $240 million dollars. He gets divorced now. He looses more than half. In fact he might loose everything.
He'll never leave her because shes an impossible challenge for him, he just doesnt know it. And she wont leave him because hes everything she wants. She gets her happiness from manipulating him. She would move on to another weak gullible man if it wasnt him.
Honestly, he’s very egotistical imo. I completely see that he would do big extravagant things just to feed his own ego. She said the same thing about the house he built for her. It was all his own idea and didn’t incorporate anything she would have liked. It’s a weird dynamic…. Interesting that you see it different- I’m completely second guessing my instincts. Hmm
Don't second guess yourself. You're not wrong. TBH I think Will and Jada are both narcissists. I don't think Will should get let off the hook so easily. People can twist the narrative all they want but at the end of the day, Will is the one who slapped someone, not Jada. Jada didn't put a gun to his head and force him to do it (people can miss me with this whole "she gave him a look" nonsense. Someone giving you a "look" is not a justification or even remotely a defense for assault). I lived my life in fear being raised by a manipulative malignant narcissist so I understand narcissistic abuse firsthand. But I wouldn't go and slap someone.
I don’t think she really has alopecia she just likes to shave her head. I have seen women with alopecia and they have bald spots all over her head and she doesn’t have a bald spot in any part of her head.
You are the only person who has recognized that Jada incited this and delighted in it, yet made herself into a victim. How very cunning and runtie of her.
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I found it disturbing when Jada laughed after Will slapped Chris. I honestly thought the fiasco was staged until Will yelled profanity. You could hear the pain in his soul.
Jada was really showing different faces at that time!
Will smiled as he walk away from Chris as well....
@@nocapp6180 he probably believed that now finally his wife gonna be happy...
Yes! I was defending Will for defending Jada because I’ve done the same thing (without physical violence). I could tell she’s the narcissist too due to him going from laughing to livid on her behalf because of her facial expressions etc. His special night was ruined too. SO FAMILIAR. I’ve never had a partner made my special days about me. They’ve always ruined them.
On two separate birthdays I found out my vulnerable narc wife was cheating on me. About 10 years apart.
The first one was devestating, the second one was for about 10 minutes, but I was already healing from the narc codependency and knew what she was. I knew her cheating was about her black hole of self esteem and I was actually a great husband, a catch even, it's a weight off me not to care about trying to make her happy.
@@SuicideVan hope you’re narc free & happy now
@@godzillamanstreb524 as much as I can be, I still have to coparent, but the mindfulness that has come from learning about vulnerable narcissists has helped a great deal in my happiness and managing how to deal with her.
I've learned there's nothing wrong with me. That I'm capable, awesome, and the narc is more scared of me than I am of her. I won't be "cry bullied" anymore.
After over a decade with a vulnerable narc spouse every day feels like a vacation now that I'm free.
Exactly what I said when he did what he did. He was triggered, manipulated by her. She set out to destroy the best night of his career. She is envious of his spectacular career, as hers is practically nonexistent. Yes. He needs to divorce her ASAP. Enough of her already. I feel for him.
She was showing all signs of narcissism.
No one wants to go through a divorce but this is one couple who should have packed it in years ago. Will is loyal to a fault because he still thinks he can love her enough to fix her. And as anyone who has ever been in any kind of a situationship with a narcissist knows; it’s never gonna happen .. 🙄🤨
Omg, that was me for 20yrs and it is so painful!
I Love your insight and ability to see through people’s motives. I hadn’t heard of that red table interview, or how she had previously mentioned in another interview how she actually loved her bald head. Yeah, yeah! I see it now. Thanks for your comments.
That was truly a vile and vicious thing to do to him. Especially in public. A decent person wouldn’t do that, even to their worst enemy. Much less a spouse, and parent to their child. You’ll never see a person with class behaving like that. Regardless of their life circumstances.
I’ve always liked him. He always had a precious innocence and light about him too. Poor guy. I hope he gets out of that soul sucking situation asap too. Disgusting.
I really felt bad for him during that interview.
@@RebeccaZungEsq I would have too. 😔 I remember an interview with Demi Moore years ago, when she was going through her divorce, where she completely degraded Bruce Willis’s sexual stamina. He wasn’t even there, but I remember thinking it was a nasty & vicious thing to do - to ANYONE!
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I am glad you are talking about this one. I have a female friend that think it is offensive that I see narcissistic abuse coming from Jada, and they say that Jada is fighting the "patriarchy".
Will's networth is $350 Million. Jada's is $50 Million. They have no prenuptial agreement, so she gets at least half of everything. I don't think Jada WANTS divorce either, but you can see she loves holding him hostage in this marriage so she can continue to feed off of his emotional energy. I kinda think $175 Million is worth the cost to just ditch her and move on with his life. He thinks he's being strong, but she is going to keep trying to ruin his life.
Rebecca, it's crazy the awareness and understanding I have regarding narcissism, what was once hidden, is now painfully obvious!!. You have helped me immensely, so thank you for the education, because it has allowed me to heal, fully understanding, you can never make narcissist's happy!! I'm well pleased to have the tools you have taught me, so thanks again! Just know you helped me understand, first, that I am an empath, and that I have no control over anyone but myself, and second, the carrots offered by narcissist's, never come to fruition
.. Poor Will Smith, it seems like he is in pretty deep, so prayers for he and his narcissistic wife..
Rebecca you totally nailed it. Thank you for sharing.
"I just wanted to feel good." That's so insulting to say because that insinuates Will Smith never did that for her and they even have kids together
That short statement created a whole lot of wounds!
I have no idea what that statement says
@@jamespimentel1794 The ultimate devaluing & triangulation..."I just wanted to feel good" regarding another man. Translation "25 years married to you...didn't feel good"
I’m ready to heal. It’s a black hole that never gets filled - awesome way to put it!
I'm ready to heal! Good talk, Rebecca. 😀
She is venomous. I really think the kids have been affected too. 😪
I have been saying this myself. I actually talked to lil willow when FB just came out and complimented her on her lil hair whip song. Nice lil girl. Then, she was off. Jaden and her were such beautiful kids. Im not taking the blame off Will though as well. 💯
Thank you, Rebecca! You are God sent...
I hope to really help more and more people win against the narcissists. Thank YOU!
@@RebeccaZungEsq You are helping all of us around the globe. Croatia online here. Thank you, thank you!
So painful listening to the affair thing. How can Narcissists believe they are sooooo loving while litterally kicking someone in the face, over and over again? They are so sick in their minds
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Say it like it is.I love your breakdowns on issues. Thankyou
Thank you Nessa! I aim to educate more and more people about this toxic personality and help people win against them.
Spot on Rebecca! About the look that Jada gave Will before he got up, I have never seen it. Do you have a clip of that?
Will said he said in font of God “till death do us part”. It’s ok Will, God said you can divorce for adultery. Now leave the narcissist and save your soul!
I totally get why Will started yelling like he did. All the pent up emotions from dealing with a narcissist like Jade “ took him there”.Been there and done that myself. Sure, not appropriate but cut him some slack. He’s been dealing with a lot no doubt.
Jada, not Jade. See, we all make mistakes. Big and little. But the people in our life are either kind and don’t manipulate us or NOT! It’s subtle sometimes ( for some of us) but one day we just have had it and lose it…most likely in the wrong place and time. Need to stay away from narcissism…
Now that it's been brought to light, I can totally see the signs she's a narcissist.
I am so ready to heal! Have been for some time, but now have the tools to do it!
I'm ready to heal.
I'm ready to heal. Never get into their empty black hole.
I also prepared a surprise birthday party for my ex-husband. I told a receptionist from his work and I told her to ask other coworkers but I also told her not to say anything to my ex-husband. She ended up telling him and when he got home, he got very angry. He began to yell at me and screamed at me saying..."I DON'T WANT ANYONE TO KNOW HOW OLD I AM." "Why can't you respect my wishes!? I had also told his family and I forgot to call them to cancel the reunion.
However when his family sang happy birthday. Then he became happy and apologized to me for screaming at me. He said..."I am sorry for giving me this birthday party. Then I said..."DON'T WORRY ABOUT ME EVER MAKING ANY BIRTHDAY PLANS OR ANYTHING. " You are right, I'm so stupid for doing that for you but believe me when I say that I will make a birthday party for you ever again. Of course I kept my words and then he started saying that he missed the family gatherings. I said...oh well! It's too late for you to say anything because I will never make any plans for your birthday.
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Positively, Truthfully, and Realistically Self Care!
Let Her Go Will! Start Living a Real Clean Life Again!🙏❤****No More Open Marriages!!!
Wow just a couple days ago i was saying that she gives me narcissist vibes. Glad ur covering this!!!!!! I’m with a narcissist so it was easy for me to spot.
Rebecca!! You have to react to Johny Depp's trial!!!
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What happens to the narcissist in a situation like this - with such extensive public disapproval? Would they accept it on some level? Or would they justify / rewrite the story to excuse themselves.. and avoiding feeling shame?
Jada has said over and over again that she doesn’t love Will and never has. She says that she married him because she was pregnant and not for love. Her mother told her she had to get married. Her mother was an alcoholic for many years and has been clean and sober for a few years.
How did Will even got to know her?
That's Cray
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I have always thought that about her even with her children
I agree with the narcissist hold of their victims. But no matter what it was Will Smiths hand that did the slapping. You have got to stipulate that. Or the next time a husband says to his wife, after he broke her jaw, “you made me do that to you”, the woman will believe him, after listening to you about Jada. You have to address the reverse, men narcs to women relationships which has got its major violence going with this line of believing. It’s not the same. Will slapped. Totally his responsibility. Even if ten Jadas are twisting his arms.
Amen!! Great analogy. It really scares me how many videos I keep seeing about people defending Will and demonizing Jada. Jada very well could be (and probably is) a narcissist, so I'm not defending her but Will is the one who went and committed an act of violence. I don't care if Jada gave him a "look". I was abused by my narcissistic father and I can't tell you how many times he got away with it because people actually bought into this idea that I somehow "made" him hit me. This narrative that people are spreading of making Will out to be a victim is extremely dangerous, more so than they probably realize.
@@sweetielady7710 your the one who clearly has no idea what your talking about will did do it but not because he wanted to or because he planned to do it. He had no intention of doing it until she looked at him and as he is so manipulated doing what his wife says is the only thing he felt like he could do, which was defend her honour. Oh he is being mentally abused for years and it's more evident.
I’m ready to heal
You nailed it they actually are both narcissist using each other for supply but for different reasons he feels guilty for not being able to defend his mom so Jada becomes a surrogate for him to make up for lost time and Jada is taking out all of her abandonment childhood trauma issues of her father leaving on her onto Will.
How does that make Will a narc?
@@TheRealJuseBeats it doesn’t.
It’s very rare for 2 narcs to be together because they won’t accept the behaviour they dish out! Will is likely an empath
You explain it sooo well!!! 🤩😍🥰
I just have a feeling that she just *KNEW* that Will would defend her “honor”. She set him up completely
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Jada wanted a reaction from Will and sadly he took the bait.
Will probably baited by Jada everyday. He don’t need her it’s frustrating to watch him tolerate her...smh
She's jealous. She feels He is in her light and doesn't like sharing that. I've seen this all my life.
Her Narcissism is always on full display. Her main objective to appear on The Red Table w/Will was to publically emasculate him. She spoke w/such pride w/o any regret or shame, as if she was casting for a role in a soap opera. Not to mention, the lack of thought & carelessness of what her kids must be thinking post interview. I'm sure she put a gold star for that move in her diary.
True. I was amazed by the complete lack of remorse about her cheating, but instead putting blame on him publicly. And I sadly believe that many people have justified her.
Will is a Narcissist too it was from his father side being one towards his Mom & very abusive is a classic sign.....
Will isn't a narcissist. He has a lot of confidence and outgoing but he's not evil. Narcs are evil spirited. Will is a nice guy. But he has been in Hollywood long enough to believehe could get away with that slap. But slot of that was Jada's pull on him because it really is out of character on Will's part.
I was so hurt and disappointed in Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith's behavior.
I lived with narcissistic abuse for several years during my marriage and I never took my hurt and pain out on anyone except myself.
I understand Will Smith's emotions, but I am not going to justify his bad choices and behavior. He could have handled that situation when leaving the event by stating that Chris Rock's comments were immature and unbecoming and he owed Jada an apology. But to assault Chris Rock while he was working. That is work place harassment and violence. If that was done in a federal building during a hearing or an awards ceremony Will Smith would have been brought up on charges by the federal government. Forget about the person he assaulted...the work place would have brought the charges against Will Smith.
@Kay Shields they can because she is the reason he did it. He had no intention of doing it,but because his wife looked at him in the way where he had to stand up for her he did it was just the wrong thing to do and that's why it was out of character
Your an amazing Lawyer. Yes your very right about this subject. I feel its true. When Good men have minors as children with a marriage contract. Well that usually means they are owned. Love your videos
Thanks James! More helpful videos to come!
@@RebeccaZungEsq thank you. Have a wonderful day
She used him to the max
Sadly, that's true.
I’m ready to heal ♥️
Pity play of the narc gaslighting him i need to feel good; i never felt good with you.
Smear campaign is brutal. Especially publicly.
No contact, avoid like a plague. Now 'I'm Ready to Heal'. Jezebel and Ahab in the modern world that's my take on the Smiths
How sad😔
I’m ready to HEAL…❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you. I love your channel and Your an enormous help for the world
Thanks James! My goal is to empower people so they win against narcissists. More videos to come!
Topdog / underdog
I doubt Will is a narcissist. Jada is definitely one.
She thinks she’s too good for him….total narcissist
Thank you
Please don’t talk so dragged on, wwe arre nott chilldrenn. You make good points but I had to change the playback speed to 1.5 to get rid of the dragging on. Hope I don’t sound rude or narcissistic but it is painful waiting for the words. I studder a little bit and I still talk faster lol. Love your videos and your focus and you are spot on about narcs and co-dependents😛🇨🇦
I don't think his independent. I think he really loves her. The thing is that dhe might have made him feel like he can't find someone better or that he would be a bad dad if he left
I'll preface this by saying will is ultimately responsible for his behavior at the Oscars. Having said that he if you have been in a relationship with someone who truly has NPD, it is really easy to see her behavior, And Wills desperate attempt to gain her love and approval, Which of course will never happen
Hopefully their children will not be affected/infected…
My ex to be narc is only happy when she is making my life a living hell. Not only did she not even aknowledge my standing by her side through 3 years of battleing cervical cancer and only leaving her once the doctor said it was gone but she goes on to tell everyone she can that i not only left her while she had cancer but is also telling people i tried to kill her despite the fact i saved her life 4 times by calling EMS at criticsl points during the battle. Just easter sunday, as i will copy and paste the brief text exchange, hopefully demonstrates just a hint of what i have been dealing with. I have custody of our duaghter and she is on supervised visits which is recorded on a digital voice recorder. The thing she claims our daughter said was never said by our girl.
Me to her:
Paula, happy easter. Sorry to hear you have decided to have a shortened visit with faith today due to your last minute change of plans and that you wished to meet with her early before your scheduled visit time today.
Her reply:
I have other kids and grandkids that was begging to be with me today. This to shall pass soon. Faith knows what u r doing - shes smart. But u do what u need to make u feel better - but rem when u play games - it only hurts faith. She wanted to go with me today to c her sisters and family - i told her u wouldnt let her - which is only the truth. She knows i love her - so do what u feel u need to. It will all be over soon. God knows the truth - its about to come out. He is a good God and I am a chosen one - he will let it all come out - i trust and believe in him. By the way i will be making another police report again today - cause we did not agree upon a place for visition again. And please dont call the police on me again like u did last week - trying to get me in trouble again on lies. They told me about u trying to get me in trouble on lies again. They said its all civil - they r on to your lies now - they r well aware of what u have done. They know everything - they know about your affair - and kicking your sick wife of 23 years out to the street with nowhere to go with cancer. They know about how your lying on getting ptos - tbey know it all. But most of all God knows- and God dont like lies and evil. Tell my baby i love her and i will c her soon. This is almost done - so i can go on with my life - praise God!
Amazing how when we go real deep - there the WHOLE truth comes out. I forget the original comment that Chris made, but the "G.I. Jane" stuck out. It's said it's related to her bald head (alopecia) but now am thinking it's bc Chris was referring to her PERSONALITY.
Her body language seems kinda stiff and maybe she acts dominant a lot? It would be good to see what an expert says. (there's a good channel: Observe
What about the kids????? They will never be ok. 😵💫
All Narcissists are Codependent. Not all Codependents are Narcissists.
It happens all too much. This Kanye and Will scenario is sad but it's only cared about because their famous
Jada is truly a narcissist, she is attempting to make will appear to have mental health problems. She said that they lived separate lives but yet she is showing up as his wife.
Totally- he needs to demonstrate unpredictability, like here’s the divorce papers! Honestly though after his switch song I figured he was playing with bdsm and liked the role of male submissive??? Spoken or unspoken??
Whatever he signed up for he’s hurting himself.
Rebecca, I can see what your saying here… in general for their relationship…but don’t you think that the comments from Chris Rock didn’t have anything to do with her. Unless he set it up because he knew Will Smith would trigger??? But I don’t think so. Either way why punch him on stage, this entire thing is about controlling reactions. That’s why it seems a bit set up.
I agree with a lot of what you said, but you can't blame Jada for Will's behaviour at the Oscars. Punching Chris Rock was a very bad look (as well as swearing at him afterwards). It was his choice to behave that way. I do agree with your other assessments though: from what I can tell its a very bad dynamic between the two. As you said when she discussed her cheating she wouldn't even acknowledge that she did something bad, there was zero remorse. Also as you mentioned she made Will believe that he was selfish for planning a birthday for her. Bizarre!
Which he had no intention of doing. He went from laughing to being pissed,I mean hello
Oh God. 🖤😨
She sounds like a high dollar version of my ex. One big exception, after some time, I hated her, and I couldn't get rid of her for several years. After she was out of my life, I had to seek professional help.
Wow
You can see the narcissist look she has. They enjoy seeing you feeling miserable
A narcissist can’t allow a day to be about anyone else but them. Will winning an award is about Will, not Jada. And she can’t have that.
Imreadytoheal#
I don’t support their marriage dynamics and especially the red table talk moments but I don’t agree with the notion that she ruined his big night. He ruined it himself and literally wasn’t forced to slap Chris. Why blame another for a persons actions like they’re a child. She was within her rights to be annoyed by the joke but I didn’t see her telling him what to do. If he tried to impress her, that’s on him. I think y’all are being too harsh on her.
I have NEVER liked her. He deserves better & she knows it!
Watching the Oscar scene I actually understand the speaker saying: "GI Jada" so besides all smiling probably that that reveals more about the relationship between Will and Jada ... when Jada is seen as tough GI ... will appears like a clown 🤡 besides that ... that belittling might also trigger him ...
Officer of the court, Rebecca Zung, blaming Jada Smith because Will Smith [a full-grown man of sound mind] committed the violent misdemeanor crimes of Disorderly conduct [California Penal Code § 2.34] and BATTERY [California Penal Code § 242 PC]. That's rich.
As I despise injustice and all those who support it, especially attorneys who support the corruption of our laws, I can not support this channel.
Shut up
I mean will is an adult man. He chose to slap chris...we cant blame jada for that. I understand there are a ton of narcs but that doesnt mean ppl who are in relationships with obe shouldnt be held accountable for their actions. They are both narcs more likely. Him moreso
She is very Narcissistic!! And Will did what he did so he wouldnt be beat up by her at home...She is horrible
I can tell you right now. A Libra man will always back up his wife. Usually this ends up being a manipulative act to keep the libra man constrained. Will Smith has Kids. Hes trying desperatly to maintain a family structure. Yes he knows he can anyone he wants. Hes Will Smith. But hes also worth $240 million dollars. He gets divorced now. He looses more than half. In fact he might loose everything.
That IS another deal that needs to be considered.
@@RebeccaZungEsq i think that as well. Shes a Virgo and hes a Libra. One is controlling and the other is people pleasing.
@@jameslaiola4976 And he is an Earth Monkey and she is a Metal Pig. Think about it...
@@MN-yb8un absolutely
What an embarrassment!!
Will is a WIMP!
Will is a narcissist and didn’t need any help!
He'll never leave her because shes an impossible challenge for him, he just doesnt know it. And she wont leave him because hes everything she wants. She gets her happiness from manipulating him. She would move on to another weak gullible man if it wasnt him.
You would think you know them! She said today I don’t care about this bald head. He has had so many affairs !
I want everyone to give me a thumbs up if they're tired of being told to put a phrase in the comment section.
why do you seem so angry?
Honestly, he’s very egotistical imo. I completely see that he would do big extravagant things just to feed his own ego. She said the same thing about the house he built for her. It was all his own idea and didn’t incorporate anything she would have liked. It’s a weird dynamic…. Interesting that you see it different- I’m completely second guessing my instincts. Hmm
Don't second guess yourself. You're not wrong. TBH I think Will and Jada are both narcissists. I don't think Will should get let off the hook so easily. People can twist the narrative all they want but at the end of the day, Will is the one who slapped someone, not Jada. Jada didn't put a gun to his head and force him to do it (people can miss me with this whole "she gave him a look" nonsense. Someone giving you a "look" is not a justification or even remotely a defense for assault). I lived my life in fear being raised by a manipulative malignant narcissist so I understand narcissistic abuse firsthand. But I wouldn't go and slap someone.
@@sweetielady7710 yeah I don't think you did and your just full of shit because your not a fan
Sounds like my kids mom
Oh no! Must be tough for you. Stay strong!
How are you doing. Babe. I. Love you too 🌹❤️💓💋💖😘
I don’t think she really has alopecia she just likes to shave her head. I have seen women with alopecia and they have bald spots all over her head and she doesn’t have a bald spot in any part of her head.
I feel like jada is more of a covert narcissist which is quite dangerous😂sneaky.
You are the only person who has recognized that Jada incited this and delighted in it, yet made herself into a victim. How very cunning and runtie of her.
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Jada is the biggest narcissist