Samuel, I thank you so much for today’s message! As the betrayed, my second time in the last 25 yrs of our 40 yr marriage, I have been struggling with the feeling of being a victim. Today’s vlog has lifted me, inspired me to see that I am truly a warrior. I am fighting for my marriage, for my family, and for my dignity! Thank you so much, your work is more valuable than you will ever know! You are saving lives.... you have saved my life... and my marriage.
This is so profoundly true. At 2 years out we’ve learned you have to actively fight for your marriage and family. Passiveness or trying to pretend it didn’t happen will lead to profound failure. My husband betrayed and devastated me but I’ve had to stand with the armor of God and fight for myself and for his recovery. He’s had to fight shame and consequences. He has finally become the warrior I’ve always longed for in our marriage and for our family.
1 Match I am praying for you. This kind of betrayal and devastation effects every area of your life. People don’t realize the losses you deal with. Research shows this kind of loss is the most painful anyone can experience only next to the loss of a child.
Thank you, Samuel. Needed to hear this today. Been a tough few weeks and I've wanted to quit and walk away so many times. But by the grace of God and your help, I am still here. God Bless you.
I owe to God, he pulled me out of the darkness and I still fear to look back at what I have crossed ... that dark tunnel ... I am thankful that God didn’t let me suffer ... I could become a warrior because of God and will also say Samuel your videos were great help
as the unfaithful... I have gone all in to save this marriage... yes it has not been easy the past 15 years of a 20-year marriage... and looking back... I was unhealthy... in a few ways... way too many distractions... well, she finally got my attention... and since then I have taken on this warrior's approach... I have done so much in the past 3 weeks since she asked me to leave... and I will continue to improve my relationship with God and myself... and keep learning how to be the man that God requires me to be... but she is just so angry... at me... but it appears that in every other around she is doing ok to great... she refuses to even look at any videos or courses... or anything thing else to work on "us"... We both are working on ourselves... what more can I do, besides give her, her space... and trust the process? I want nothing more than to save this marriage and make it better than ever before...
I'm 3 year's out. Samuel nothing has changed. Only thing he is doing is gaslighting me and placing blame on me now. I feel the need to just let go of a 30 year Marriage. For my own health. This relationship is making me sick already. Plus my childhood trauma.
oh how i long to hear those words from my UH. He left me for dead in the carnage he caused. i had to pick up the shattered pieces of my heart and soul and sought healing by myself. not one compliment from him. it would be nice to hear those words, from anyone at this point, to know that i have had to battle my way through this war and what a warrior I am for having gone through it.
My wife had affair after 25 years and she doesn’t care empathize, says she didn’t do anything wrong and I deserved it in her mind She’s even wants a dovorve to be with ap and I’m trying to save our marriage ..it’s agonizing
Might want to point out to her that if they both don't address why they chose the affair then they will most likely cheat again in the future on each other. Your not the chosen because someone wants to cheat with you, it means they are trying to use you for whatever they think you fulfill and when thats gone, so is the affair love.
It's so hard when they don't care about the pain they've caused. That hurts just as bad as the betrayal!
Samuel, I thank you so much for today’s message! As the betrayed, my second time in the last 25 yrs of our 40 yr marriage, I have been struggling with the feeling of being a victim. Today’s vlog has lifted me, inspired me to see that I am truly a warrior. I am fighting for my marriage, for my family, and for my dignity! Thank you so much, your work is more valuable than you will ever know! You are saving lives.... you have saved my life... and my marriage.
so kind of you to share those words. thank you.
So true, you are saving lives and I am happy to call myself also a survivor and a warrior... your videos really helped Samuel
This is so profoundly true. At 2 years out we’ve learned you have to actively fight for your marriage and family. Passiveness or trying to pretend it didn’t happen will lead to profound failure. My husband betrayed and devastated me but I’ve had to stand with the armor of God and fight for myself and for his recovery. He’s had to fight shame and consequences. He has finally become the warrior I’ve always longed for in our marriage and for our family.
1 Match I am praying for you. This kind of betrayal and devastation effects every area of your life. People don’t realize the losses you deal with. Research shows this kind of loss is the most painful anyone can experience only next to the loss of a child.
Thank you, Samuel. Needed to hear this today. Been a tough few weeks and I've wanted to quit and walk away so many times. But by the grace of God and your help, I am still here. God Bless you.
thanks for encouraging me my friend.
I owe to God, he pulled me out of the darkness and I still fear to look back at what I have crossed ... that dark tunnel ... I am thankful that God didn’t let me suffer ... I could become a warrior because of God and will also say Samuel your videos were great help
as the unfaithful... I have gone all in to save this marriage... yes it has not been easy the past 15 years of a 20-year marriage... and looking back... I was unhealthy... in a few ways... way too many distractions... well, she finally got my attention... and since then I have taken on this warrior's approach... I have done so much in the past 3 weeks since she asked me to leave... and I will continue to improve my relationship with God and myself... and keep learning how to be the man that God requires me to be... but she is just so angry... at me... but it appears that in every other around she is doing ok to great... she refuses to even look at any videos or courses... or anything thing else to work on "us"... We both are working on ourselves... what more can I do, besides give her, her space... and trust the process? I want nothing more than to save this marriage and make it better than ever before...
I'm 3 year's out. Samuel nothing has changed. Only thing he is doing is gaslighting me and placing blame on me now. I feel the need to just let go of a 30 year Marriage. For my own health. This relationship is making me sick already. Plus my childhood trauma.
oh how i long to hear those words from my UH. He left me for dead in the carnage he caused. i had to pick up the shattered pieces of my heart and soul and sought healing by myself. not one compliment from him. it would be nice to hear those words, from anyone at this point, to know that i have had to battle my way through this war and what a warrior I am for having gone through it.
M trying to heal but there is a child involved, how do I approach such?
a child from the affair or your own child?
Is there any email address that I can talk to you? I'm looking for some suggestions on other videos that you may have that I'm not seeing.
My wife had affair after 25 years and she doesn’t care empathize, says she didn’t do anything wrong and I deserved it in her mind
She’s even wants a dovorve to be with ap and I’m trying to save our marriage ..it’s agonizing
Might want to point out to her that if they both don't address why they chose the affair then they will most likely cheat again in the future on each other. Your not the chosen because someone wants to cheat with you, it means they are trying to use you for whatever they think you fulfill and when thats gone, so is the affair love.
No care & no remorse for our pain becomes worse than the infidelity