The mother hated her younger daughter, because her parents spoiled THEIR younger daughter. So her mother spoiled her OLDER daughter, and abused the younger one, "to make things even." Um, no. That's not how it works.
They literally went through hell in court and the mother thought it was a brilliant idea to make the situation worse for herself by getting charged will assault! Narcissism at its finest.
That sister is lucky she only had to pay 5,000. She destroyed property and recorded it, made terrible posts online, and went on a whole campaign. The worst part is this is an ADULT with a child going after someone younger than them who is a minor still
@@stephaniewilson3955 Even at her age (when dinosaurs ruled the earth), I knew my rights. In this day and age, it's so much easier to find that info. However, I'm glad she didn't let them get away with it.
She should have talked to Aunty when Grandpa died. If she had other relatives, she might not of had to move back in with her parents in the first place.
An abused party has hard time exepting their abusers would escalate to physical abuse. Ops mom must of bin just verbally abusive before then so Op didn't think she would cross that line.
Man! I'm so glad she sued them all! They got what they deserved. After all those years of giving Lori anything she wanted, including OP's own property, they have the GALL to demand that she pay THEM $70,000 for raising her? Did they ask LORI to pay back the money they spent on HER? Of course not! They LOVED Lori. The mother was the worst parent, but the father was horrible, too. I'm so glad OP had friends, and her cousin and aunt, and mostly, her grandpa and his excellent lawyer. And I'm SO GLAD she stood up for herself!
I can't get this out of my mind, what the father did with the house his father left? There's something shady with the father, the money from the house could be used on his oldest daughter, instead of stealing from his youngest.
Good story, love the ending. Good for OP for standing up for herself, it paid off. Her family acted like she was the hated step child. Glad her mother went to jail. Now that she's dead, maybe OP can get some peace.
Same. It continued into adulthood and I finally went no contact with them and have never regretted it. There's no excuse for that kind of neglect and abuse. Absolutely horrible people.
Wow I'm so sorry OP you had a evil mother and sister and your dad's not no better!! Thank God for your grandfather for loving you and I'm happy you're doing better!!
For all the hate OP's mother spit at her youngest daughter and hate at her own mother and younger sister...OP's mom was a copy of her own mother, she just focused or the older rather than the younger. I hope and pray that someone pointed that out to her before she died. Mom you turned into your own mother, enjoy the irony of being someone you hate so much. I am glad that OP had her grandfather for most of her childhood to balance out her home life, and that in the end her left her protected in that last video. I am also glad that she finally stood up to her toxic family and the courts sided with her. Her mother, sister and even her silent father got what the deserved in the end, although OP will never really get what she fully deserved, a decent and loving childhood at home with the love of two parents. Well at least she had Grandpa, then her aunt and cousin.
Thank you Mr Reddito for recording your stories at a decent volume recently some sites have started recording at a lower volume and it is so frustrating having to turn the volume all the way up only to get blasted by advertisers
Sometimes people are so beat down by people they can’t help but be doormats and you act like being a doormat is a bad word it’s not always their fault not everyone can be strong that’s why they need support around them so they can be
Raise children to be good people. Honesty, integrity, and the idea of working toward your goals. That is real love. Instilling healthy values is true love. Most importantly live what you teach. What should give any parent pause is being told by a child they want to be like them. I would wonder am I being a good example?
I don't understand how her family could actually pay her $3000 a month until that last $20000 was up but yet they couldn't send one of the children to college on $3000 a month Good for you OP, I'm glad you were able to find help and stand up for yourself and get the money back your grandfather had allocated to you for your college! Live your best life😊❤!
Because they couldn't send HER to college. They wouldn't have given her a PENNY. They were talking about working to earn her own money or get scholarships. And they wouldn't have given her a cent, if the judge hadn't ordered it. They "managed," because the judge MADE them, and they didn't want to go to prison for contempt of court.
@@soochenwoo2373I'm telling you, something shady happened that she doesn't know. I just commented about what must've happened with the house the grandfather left, her father must have sold the house after she left and didn't use the money to help the family
This child is the whipping boy. I saw it with a cousin..one of 13 kids. She got smacked, abused even by siblings. She grew up as wonderful as a person can be. Her kids & grandkids love her.
Unfortunately the money was left with the dad so the same issue would of applied. But I would rather stay or sell in grandpa's home, move away, far away
The only thing I got to say is this since I'm happy that the original poster got her money back and she won against her terrible parents and terrible sister and at the same time I'm not going to lie I would have thrown a victory party the very moment that the mom kicked the bucket at the age of 40 I'm pretty sure in the afterlife she got exactly what she deserved
There is only one place a mother like that would go. ANd it's not up into the fluffy clouds. Unfortunately. For karma sake though, best not to celebrate something like that.
I don't know maybe if I was just in that situation where my mother turned out to be that terrible I think I would celebrate that she's gone you know it's like that song the witch is Dead but instead you know with the mother in that situation
This is a joke, I’m saying that part first. My daughter was definitely the favorite child. And I spoiled her as much as I could afford. Which wasn’t much. But, since I was a single and she was my only child, she was also my most bad behaved
@@saundrahuff5870 99% of these stories are made up but it's still a lesson in life , no parent should treat one child more favourable than another . Just commonsense
@@wheelywheelygood I totally understand that. My bully was my sister, who tried to kill me a few times when she was younger. My mom not only ignored it, she encouraged. When I was raped by my uncle, they all told me I seduced him. I was 7 yo and in footie pj’s. So, I totally get the life lesson. It was literally beaten into me my first 18 years. Sometimes I’ll make a dark joke, because I find that easier to deal with myself when memories get triggered. Once, they left me at the horse barn, and I had to walk home. When I got there, they had just finished dinner and there was none for me. That’s one of the many reasons I joined the army. To get the hell away from that abuse shithole of a family. So, I do get the lesson
Hey now my baby girl is my favorite she is the baby and the only girl and she does get a little more then her brothers do but not to the point it's noticeable but that's mainly because her brothers tend to want and ask for more expensive things then she does
Hey now my baby girl is my favorite she is the baby and the only girl and she does get a little more then her brothers do but not to the point it's noticeable but that's mainly because her brothers tend to want and ask for more expensive things then she does
so the mothers logic was because her younger sister was spoiled she should essentially neglect her youngest daughter whilst spoiling the oldest?.. ngl feels like the mother is taking her shit out on her own kid and only continuing the bs she supposedly had to deal with growing up with her own children. honestly sad when a grown ass adult takes their problems out on their kids.
OP's mom spewed so much poison that she died from it. I'm glad OP was able to get what she deserved from her grandpa's will. If OP's mom was still alive and I was OP, I would have taken pictures of myself living an extravagant life and sent them to her with the caption, "Still wishy sister had a better life than me?"
Have to tell you that I found the ultimate revenge for having the life of middle sister to the “Golden Child”. I married the man who became my mother’s “Platinum Child”! Nothing could be sweeter! 😂🤣😂
I came from a family exactly like this Is! I am so glad for this young woman Is! That is a true reason to stand your ground Is! She should have also sued her mother for pain and suffering for the Abuse!
the fact that her mom was dead by 40 means karma worked overtime on her ass and it was swift and deadly. my mom did the favoritism shit between me and my 4 siblings. my sister is her favorite daughter and my middle brother is her favorite son. i have 5 kids of my own and ALL of my kids are my favorite. i connect to each one of my kids in their own way. i never wanted my kids to feel like i did growing up. my mom is now in her 60's and just now starting to realize the damage she did to us as children but i no longer have an relationship with her like i used to. i keep my distance from my mom. being around her hurts and i have no wish to hurt myself like that. our relationship has been better since i keep my distance.
Well, the aunt was obviously in communication with the OP, so they weren't NC. And she obviously was doing well enough for herself that she could take in her niece for a while. So, my guess is that she wasn't wild, at all. I think the Mother was just another Lori, and LIED about the whole thing!
Someone I knew in junior high school actually murdered her sister when she was a young adult, because the parents always gave the sister preferential treatment. She’s now living out her life in prison.
I know how she feels. My mom was like that, except her crazy ass flip fooled back and forth between my sister (about 80% of the time), and me (about 20% of the time). And if anything bad ever happened, it was my fault.
My parents treated the oldest son as Golden Boy. He was the neighborhood A-hole. Other neighborhood parents hated him, he was constantly terrorizing and beating up their kids. I grew up in my friend's homes. On weekend mornings the sun would creep thru the window and I would bust out of bed, get dressed and out the back door to my friends house. It was early and I would knock on their back door. My friend's mom would open the their back door in her bath robe, turn around and go right back to bed. It was 6 am. I think back now and realize what a saint she was. She knew about my brother and tried to help with what she could. I would sit on the couch downstairs watching tv until my friend woke up. She was truly a Saint. I quit visiting my parents decades ago. My mother is in the nursing home still sulking over every little thing possible. She was miserable and she chose to make herself that way. I can honestly tell you that Manifestation is real. Her belief system was centered around being the victim.
I wonder what actually happened between OP mom and aunt. I find it hard to believe that the grandparents would favors one daughter over the other. At least to the point that the mom would displace her anger into her own daughter just because she was younger. I wouldn’t be surprised if there was some hidden issue that the mom took to her grave.
As parents you spend money on your kids they don’t have to pay it back. They don’t owe you anything. I hope the grand child can actually grow out of this because she’s becoming spoiled like her mother.
They’re golden child already has a failured her future. Now you’re gonna take it away from your younger daughter, like you always do when it was not your right to do that.🤬
I can't help but think the OP's mother lied about her little sister getting "ALL" the attention. She was probably a narcissist from the moment she drew breath, and her parents giving her sister ANY attention caused her to develop hatred for not only her sister, but her parents as well. The mother was an evil, nasty human being, and the sister was a chip off the old block. Dad was just a simp who didn't have the will or the guts to stand up for his younger daughter. An evil in its own right.
a 16 year old got knocked up by a college guy. the likihood of this being a fellow 16 year old just a child prodigy is rare... so Josh was probably in his 20s which means... police should be involved. I don't care if she is a problem kid, minor impregnated by adult should result in jail time and prison yard beatings.
It's funny how entitled the mother was. She went to the same exterms her parents did. I almost wonder if the aunt was even spoiled. If the mom just lost her shit over any attention her sister got. My sister would act like that when my mom gave me any attention which she had to do because of my autism. I notice the dad is never mentioned again so I wonder if he divorced his crazy wife or after her death he tried to start fresh. Because he was super spineless. In sure sister will try to get back at op if she finds out she is rich.
It does NOT mention that the OP is now rich, just that her college fund was returned and that the AH garbage of a sister had to pay 5000 in penalties to her. ( should have been much mush higher as in move the decimal point over up two. Instead of 5000. make the minimum penalty 500,000. to be paid to the sister. Also a PUBLIC retraction of the libel , slander and defamation of character that the AH sister did. Oh, also, remove that child from that AH sister Lori. Something that FOUL should NEVER be in charge of a pet ROCK, much less a human child.
@Mary Starr yes if she was Rich. Which is what I meant. Her life is most likely better off then her sister. So compared the two the op would be seem as rich. But it's interesting they had to pay 60k upfront which means they spent 20k already. My guess their legal fees or the sister and mom went spend happy because the rest was paid in installments
Geez, what did the mother die of, sheer meanness? I can hardly credit that a woman like that would have the decency to plotz and let everybody else have some peace!
It was salt in my wounds when, my father the second son to his older brother Joseph, treated my older brother as his golden boy. My older brother smoked weed, drank up my father's beers, dropped out of college and crashed his car. I stayed clean and sober, graduated college, and got a well-paying professional career. My father wanted to know why I couldn't be more like my older brother. What?! Should I smoke dope and drop out of college? Dad! Why can't you be more like your brother Uncle Joseph? What?! My brother Joseph is dead! Hmm!!!
The parents are monsters and hopefully spend their final years homeless and forgotten. Glad to hear the monster mom passed at 40. They aren’t parents, they’re serial abusers and deserve the worst life has to offer. Lori is a monster too and will destroy her own life and likely try to pawn her Trisha off on OP’s abusive parents.
This could have been a story about my life. Except my brother stole the inheritance money. My dad dying with brain cancer wanted my mom to always have a home for herself and if anything happened to any of us 4 grown children we would always have a home. Fast forward 40 years later. Dad died from brain cancer and the inheritance was gone brother kept almost all of it. My share went to buy a house for my mom, I wanted to keep my dad’s dreams alive. A sister stole from her kids, her worthless husband got into drugs. 4 grown kids, 3 untrained pit bulls and 1 weeny dog not house broke destroyed the home. I was told that mom had a Will where she was leaving the house to us 4 grown kids and her favorite grand daughter. Not anymore. Mom is giving her house to the drug sister. I have disowned them all. We have had my worthless siblings life with us at one time and or another and never received a thank you.
I already know where op's egg donor is after she passed I don't think it's Heaven. Hopefully now the sperm donor is free from his narcissistic wife and daughter. I'm not surprised that the parasite cut off op after court ruled in op's favor. Egg donor and parasite were only mad that they were meeting consequences for their vile actions.
I really enjoyed this video. I’m tired of hearing stories where the victim puts up with so much crap. Real life for the most part isn’t like that. We get pissy and take action right then and there
Honestly I am such a fortunate kid to not have experienced this. I never even realized this was something that parents did to children, "Child favoritism" until i was 25 years old and I heard about my girlfriends family. In my family we were 4 brothers and we were all completely different from eachother but our parents always treated us equally. Every one of us got the same number of gifts, if different but always equal value, we all got the same lessons , whether sports or music. I couldn't have imagined a family where that wasn't the case, it just never made any sense to me. I feel so bad the kids that had to grow up with such awful terrible people as parents
Like the girl fought back -- luckily to get the lawyer video will envolved. Deflation was going nowhere (hard to prove in most cases) . I am assuming OP was 18 at the time she retained the lawyer - a I am sure it was on contingency (which means if she got $80K, then she they sued them for much more). Not sure I believe the mother physically attacking OP at end -- or even if she died at 40. (that date strikes me as young for the mother passing a few years after the case) ..
Did she have her at 20 and have her older sister who was 4 years older at 16? I almost started believing this story and she messed it up into fanfiction in the end.
Good on you for Suing Mom for the 80K they STOLE from you. Fun part is that they STOLE 80k, which makes this Grand larceny. Robery is covered up to 15k Above that is a Felony crime. 24:41, Criminal Vandalism and Destruction of Private Propety.... If you got a Copy of this video you will be abue to use it in Criminal Court. 29:34, Assault and battery.... Want another Charge?
Yeah as a parent I honestly don't understand how anyone could treat their child that way, its absolutely abhorrent. you have ONE JOB as a parent: love and support your kids, ALL OF THEM, not just when they meet your expectations and not just ONE of em. ALL OF YOUR KIDS.
Time to Disown the Entire Family ! Trust me, it will be the Best Decision you can make and you will be so Free from their bull crap you will be successful in everything you do !
I become SO saddened when I hear OPs stating that parents have their favourite child. I have 2 sons and I feel I am so blessed to have two completely different children. I love them both equally BECAUSE they are both so different. I support them in everything, and enjoy the differences. No,OP, your parents shouldn’t have a favourite child, THAT IS SO WRONG.
S1: I always enjoy a good old fashion nuclear reaction, OP left nothing but burnt and salted earth behind. People tend to forget that their are always reactions or consequences for their actions. Usually no reaction, the reaction or consequences they thought might happen and then my favorite all out nuclear war, scorched and salted earth War to the K ice and take no prisoners. Or damn the torpedoes full speed ahead…..OP learned a valuable lesson, just because they are blood relatives doesn’t mean they are family. Family is more about behavior and Yes, Virginia, you really can pick your family based on how they treat you.
![[Full Saga] Sister Stopped Eating After Discovering My Salary & Now Parents Demand I Make Up To Her.](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/j10f944CwBE/mqdefault.jpg)
See you know it's total bs when you say "We dont want to have a spoiled daughter" but you spoiled your first born daughter.
What they are saying is "We're pretending there is a good reason to treat you like crap."
The mother hated her younger daughter, because her parents spoiled THEIR younger daughter. So her mother spoiled her OLDER daughter, and abused the younger one, "to make things even." Um, no. That's not how it works.
My aunt's husband treated their first daughter like crap and spoiled the shit out of the 2nd daughter.
@@anyagetman8596 smh terrible
And as I said something about that mom's story doesn't make sense you think she would have been a better mother to her children
They literally went through hell in court and the mother thought it was a brilliant idea to make the situation worse for herself by getting charged will assault! Narcissism at its finest.
I guess her brain had fried already at that point.
Finally a part where the OP Went to the lawyer and made a family do as a WILL SAYS. Sick of these doormats. Get yo damn money back.
Right???
Good for her! I'd of done the same thing if it were me. No one should get away with stealing from one child to spoil another child in the family.
Amen.
It's all made up by Mr. Fakestoriesditto you clown.
That sister is lucky she only had to pay 5,000. She destroyed property and recorded it, made terrible posts online, and went on a whole campaign. The worst part is this is an ADULT with a child going after someone younger than them who is a minor still
Yep yep
she should have been forced by the court to tell the whole truth to everyone that followed her, and to the school.
The second I heard they'd REHOMED my money, I'd have gone straight to grandad's lawyer.
She was young and ignorant of the law. Reddit can be so helpful this way.
@@stephaniewilson3955 Even at her age (when dinosaurs ruled the earth), I knew my rights. In this day and age, it's so much easier to find that info. However, I'm glad she didn't let them get away with it.
It's all made up by Mr. Fakestoriesditto you clown.
@@ravenfox926 I'd imagine her upbringing is not the same as yours was...
@@NevahLose but I bet she has Google
Glad OP’s mom was arrested, I’m not surprised her fam never contacted her-I’m glad her aunt helped her out.
It's all made up by Mr. Fakestoriesditto you clown.
She should have talked to Aunty when Grandpa died. If she had other relatives, she might not of had to move back in with her parents in the first place.
"Lori valued her interest over mine, which was a major red flag for me".
OP just made the understatement of the century.
I'm shocked OP went back to the family house to get her stuff without the police escorting her. That could have ended so much worse.
I kind of think she might have considering that, immediately after it there's the thing with the mother attacking her and getting hauled arrested.
Well done to you for doing what you did. Your sister was the selfish one not you
It's all made up by Mr. Fakestoriesditto you clown.
An abused party has hard time exepting their abusers would escalate to physical abuse. Ops mom must of bin just verbally abusive before then so Op didn't think she would cross that line.
They could have killed her there. It's a good thing she got out alive.
Man! I'm so glad she sued them all! They got what they deserved.
After all those years of giving Lori anything she wanted, including OP's own property, they have the GALL to demand that she pay THEM $70,000 for raising her? Did they ask LORI to pay back the money they spent on HER? Of course not! They LOVED Lori.
The mother was the worst parent, but the father was horrible, too.
I'm so glad OP had friends, and her cousin and aunt, and mostly, her grandpa and his excellent lawyer. And I'm SO GLAD she stood up for herself!
I can't get this out of my mind, what the father did with the house his father left?
There's something shady with the father, the money from the house could be used on his oldest daughter, instead of stealing from his youngest.
The "mother" dying at a young age was probably a result of poor health, likely because she was so full of hate and anger...
Good story, love the ending. Good for OP for standing up for herself, it paid off. Her family acted like she was the hated step child. Glad her mother went to jail. Now that she's dead, maybe OP can get some peace.
For the sake of her mental health? She left for the same reason! OP should never had gone back!
I hate it when one child is spoiled and others ignored, it happened to me growing up. Needless to say I wasn’t the golden child…
Same. It continued into adulthood and I finally went no contact with them and have never regretted it.
There's no excuse for that kind of neglect and abuse. Absolutely horrible people.
I hear you. :)
Not spoken to my family for over a decade, and have no intensions in communicating with them...
Bet you are a better person though.
Sandra younare absolutely correct. My brother continued to get in trouble with the law while I went to college…
You should have brought a cop with you to pick up your things. Glad you have a witness to your mother's assault.
I’m glad this OP didn’t become a doormat for abusive people. She wasn’t concerned if people thought she was an a-hole or not. It’s a miracle!
That "mom" hated her sister so much that she dedicated her life to turning her first born into a carbon copy of how she sees her sister.
That's some serious crazy...
This comment hit so real
took out her anger on her own child is disgusting
Big brain time
It's all made up by Mr. Fakestoriesditto you clown.
Wow I'm so sorry OP you had a evil mother and sister and your dad's not no better!! Thank God for your grandfather for loving you and I'm happy you're doing better!!
For all the hate OP's mother spit at her youngest daughter and hate at her own mother and younger sister...OP's mom was a copy of her own mother, she just focused or the older rather than the younger. I hope and pray that someone pointed that out to her before she died. Mom you turned into your own mother, enjoy the irony of being someone you hate so much. I am glad that OP had her grandfather for most of her childhood to balance out her home life, and that in the end her left her protected in that last video. I am also glad that she finally stood up to her toxic family and the courts sided with her. Her mother, sister and even her silent father got what the deserved in the end, although OP will never really get what she fully deserved, a decent and loving childhood at home with the love of two parents. Well at least she had Grandpa, then her aunt and cousin.
Thank you Mr Reddito for recording your stories at a decent volume recently some sites have started recording at a lower volume and it is so frustrating having to turn the volume all the way up only to get blasted by advertisers
True, True.
For ONCE the wronged person stood up for themselves. I am so tired of all doormats.
A fuking man to that!
Sometimes people are so beat down by people they can’t help but be doormats and you act like being a doormat is a bad word it’s not always their fault not everyone can be strong that’s why they need support around them so they can be
@@tracygardner6318
I am aware of that.
There's stories like this all over Reddit
@@tracygardner6318 That's the problem, they just stand there and keep taking it. Not turning around then walking away. Giving that sorry excuse.
Here's a crazy concept for parents. Treat your kids equally and try to spend the same on both kids
Oops...love them.
Raise children to be good people. Honesty, integrity, and the idea of working toward your goals. That is real love. Instilling healthy values is true love. Most importantly live what you teach. What should give any parent pause is being told by a child they want to be like them. I would wonder am I being a good example?
It wasn't even their money to spend. It was OPs inheritance
I always did my best to do that, but their mother still turned two of them against me because I didn't want to hang around and be her cuck.
Most don’t care 🤦🏻♀️
After I sued them, I'd disown the lot and move far, far, FAR away, change my name and go live my life.
awesome shirt. Great story. Those parents should have gone to prison for treating their own daughter like they did.
I don't understand how her family could actually pay her $3000 a month until that last $20000 was up but yet they couldn't send one of the children to college on $3000 a month
Good for you OP, I'm glad you were able to find help and stand up for yourself and get the money back your grandfather had allocated to you for your college!
Live your best life😊❤!
I think the 80k still went to big sis but 60k was the parents' savings.
Because they couldn't send HER to college. They wouldn't have given her a PENNY. They were talking about working to earn her own money or get scholarships.
And they wouldn't have given her a cent, if the judge hadn't ordered it. They "managed," because the judge MADE them, and they didn't want to go to prison for contempt of court.
@@soochenwoo2373I'm telling you, something shady happened that she doesn't know. I just commented about what must've happened with the house the grandfather left, her father must have sold the house after she left and didn't use the money to help the family
@@AuntLoopy123Exactly!
It's because a court isn't ordering you to send your daughter to college, so you're a little more willing to do whatever it takes.
Having three kids myself it’s your freaking duty to make each one of them feel loved equally. That’s it.
They'd be paying in cash, holes, or organs, but They'd be paying it back even if they had to rent holes out on the streets or have organs harvested.
This child is the whipping boy. I saw it with a cousin..one of 13 kids. She got smacked, abused even by siblings. She grew up as wonderful as a person can be. Her kids & grandkids love her.
Glad OP s mom got what was coming to her. What a vile woman
I am so glad this was a happy ending because the story was infuriating
The mother is a classic Narc. Get er. OP was so lucky to get her money back.
I love it when the self centered ones accuse others of being self centered.
Those are some terrible parents
Op should have left her family a long time ago
Unfortunately the money was left with the dad so the same issue would of applied. But I would rather stay or sell in grandpa's home, move away, far away
Thanks Mr Reddito. Glad parents got what they deserved
read title this is going do be a golden child story
The only thing I got to say is this since I'm happy that the original poster got her money back and she won against her terrible parents and terrible sister and at the same time I'm not going to lie I would have thrown a victory party the very moment that the mom kicked the bucket at the age of 40 I'm pretty sure in the afterlife she got exactly what she deserved
😢 thank goodness she got away from her awful family
There is only one place a mother like that would go. ANd it's not up into the fluffy clouds. Unfortunately. For karma sake though, best not to celebrate something like that.
I don't know maybe if I was just in that situation where my mother turned out to be that terrible I think I would celebrate that she's gone you know it's like that song the witch is Dead but instead you know with the mother in that situation
I wouldn't have left gramp's home, no matter what!!
OPs family certainly received their just desserts but the mother received the severest karma.
The grandfather has it right he treated them equally something the parent should’ve been doing
Do you think op mom was lying to op about mistreatment
Any Parent who has a favourite child isn't fit to be a parent at all
This is a joke, I’m saying that part first. My daughter was definitely the favorite child. And I spoiled her as much as I could afford. Which wasn’t much. But, since I was a single and she was my only child, she was also my most bad behaved
@@saundrahuff5870 99% of these stories are made up but it's still a lesson in life , no parent should treat one child more favourable than another . Just commonsense
@@wheelywheelygood I totally understand that. My bully was my sister, who tried to kill me a few times when she was younger. My mom not only ignored it, she encouraged. When I was raped by my uncle, they all told me I seduced him. I was 7 yo and in footie pj’s. So, I totally get the life lesson. It was literally beaten into me my first 18 years. Sometimes I’ll make a dark joke, because I find that easier to deal with myself when memories get triggered. Once, they left me at the horse barn, and I had to walk home. When I got there, they had just finished dinner and there was none for me. That’s one of the many reasons I joined the army. To get the hell away from that abuse shithole of a family. So, I do get the lesson
Hey now my baby girl is my favorite she is the baby and the only girl and she does get a little more then her brothers do but not to the point it's noticeable but that's mainly because her brothers tend to want and ask for more expensive things then she does
Hey now my baby girl is my favorite she is the baby and the only girl and she does get a little more then her brothers do but not to the point it's noticeable but that's mainly because her brothers tend to want and ask for more expensive things then she does
so the mothers logic was because her younger sister was spoiled she should essentially neglect her youngest daughter whilst spoiling the oldest?.. ngl feels like the mother is taking her shit out on her own kid and only continuing the bs she supposedly had to deal with growing up with her own children. honestly sad when a grown ass adult takes their problems out on their kids.
I doubt the aunt was spoiled at all I think it was just an excuse
I’m kind of surprised OP didn’t ask Grandpa about this while he was still alive
OP's mom spewed so much poison that she died from it. I'm glad OP was able to get what she deserved from her grandpa's will. If OP's mom was still alive and I was OP, I would have taken pictures of myself living an extravagant life and sent them to her with the caption, "Still wishy sister had a better life than me?"
She didn't die from the poison she spewed, she was just so full of shit that she finally choked on it
Glad OP had good friends and her aunt!
Money should have been put in a trust & the lawyer handle it.
Have to tell you that I found the ultimate revenge for having the life of middle sister to the “Golden Child”. I married the man who became my mother’s “Platinum Child”! Nothing could be sweeter! 😂🤣😂
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OMG. They stole your inheritance?! Time to get a lawyer and sue the carp out of them.
SUE SUE SUE
Call Grandpa's lawyer.
Well, she did.and she won 😊😊
It is really sad that parents pick favorites among their children.
I came from a family exactly like this Is! I am so glad for this young woman Is! That is a true reason to stand your ground Is! She should have also sued her mother for pain and suffering for the Abuse!
That’s how you have self respect
the fact that her mom was dead by 40 means karma worked overtime on her ass and it was swift and deadly.
my mom did the favoritism shit between me and my 4 siblings. my sister is her favorite daughter and my middle brother is her favorite son.
i have 5 kids of my own and ALL of my kids are my favorite. i connect to each one of my kids in their own way. i never wanted my kids to feel like i did growing up. my mom is now in her 60's and just now starting to realize the damage she did to us as children but i no longer have an relationship with her like i used to.
i keep my distance from my mom. being around her hurts and i have no wish to hurt myself like that. our relationship has been better since i keep my distance.
They didn't even split it with $40k to each.
Why the full 80k was ops not mom dads or that pos sister
Story 1-What happened to OP's aunt...her mom's younger sister, whom her mom contended was spoiled and a "wild child"?
That makes me wonder too. Like... did she become homeless?? Die? Or go NC because of OPs Mom
Well, the aunt was obviously in communication with the OP, so they weren't NC. And she obviously was doing well enough for herself that she could take in her niece for a while.
So, my guess is that she wasn't wild, at all. I think the Mother was just another Lori, and LIED about the whole thing!
@@AuntLoopy123i think op mom was narcissistic from childhood that's why she was treated differently
I wonder why the mother passed away at an early age? I'm happy for the daughter that she got her money, attend college, and became successful.
Sharing goes both ways I would’ve kept the toys at his house
The mother was so determined to not treat her youngest daughter as her youngest sister, that she turned into parents
Someone I knew in junior high school actually murdered her sister when she was a young adult, because the parents always gave the sister preferential treatment. She’s now living out her life in prison.
Damn, Mother was so filled with hate she died😂
I know how she feels. My mom was like that, except her crazy ass flip fooled back and forth between my sister (about 80% of the time), and me (about 20% of the time). And if anything bad ever happened, it was my fault.
My parents treated the oldest son as Golden Boy. He was the neighborhood A-hole. Other neighborhood parents hated him, he was constantly terrorizing and beating up their kids. I grew up in my friend's homes. On weekend mornings the sun would creep thru the window and I would bust out of bed, get dressed and out the back door to my friends house. It was early and I would knock
on their back door. My friend's mom would open the their back door in her bath robe, turn around and go right back to bed.
It was 6 am. I think back now and realize what a saint she was. She knew about my brother and tried to help with what she could.
I would sit on the couch downstairs watching tv until my friend woke up. She was truly a Saint.
I quit visiting my parents decades ago. My mother is in the nursing home still sulking over every little thing possible.
She was miserable and she chose to make herself that way. I can honestly tell you that Manifestation is real. Her belief system
was centered around being the victim.
I'm glad op get her money back from her family they are evil
I wonder what actually happened between OP mom and aunt. I find it hard to believe that the grandparents would favors one daughter over the other. At least to the point that the mom would displace her anger into her own daughter just because she was younger. I wouldn’t be surprised if there was some hidden issue that the mom took to her grave.
I don't think they would be mistreatment between op mom and aunt. Maybe op mom was brat
That "mom" died from all the hate in her heart. To much bile built up.
As parents you spend money on your kids they don’t have to pay it back. They don’t owe you anything. I hope the grand child can actually grow out of this because she’s becoming spoiled like her mother.
They’re golden child already has a failured her future. Now you’re gonna take it away from your younger daughter, like you always do when it was not your right to do that.🤬
Grandad never would have left the money in her parents trust, he would have left it in the lawyers hands.
I can't help but think the OP's mother lied about her little sister getting "ALL" the attention.
She was probably a narcissist from the moment she drew breath, and her parents giving her sister ANY attention caused her to develop hatred for not only her sister, but her parents as well.
The mother was an evil, nasty human being, and the sister was a chip off the old block.
Dad was just a simp who didn't have the will or the guts to stand up for his younger daughter.
An evil in its own right.
I’m surprised grandpa didn’t will his house to OP
a 16 year old got knocked up by a college guy. the likihood of this being a fellow 16 year old just a child prodigy is rare... so Josh was probably in his 20s which means... police should be involved. I don't care if she is a problem kid, minor impregnated by adult should result in jail time and prison yard beatings.
It's funny how entitled the mother was. She went to the same exterms her parents did. I almost wonder if the aunt was even spoiled. If the mom just lost her shit over any attention her sister got. My sister would act like that when my mom gave me any attention which she had to do because of my autism.
I notice the dad is never mentioned again so I wonder if he divorced his crazy wife or after her death he tried to start fresh. Because he was super spineless. In sure sister will try to get back at op if she finds out she is rich.
It does NOT mention that the OP is now rich, just that her college fund was returned and that the AH garbage of a sister had to pay 5000 in penalties to her. ( should have been much mush higher as in move the decimal point over up two. Instead of 5000. make the minimum penalty 500,000. to be paid to the sister. Also a PUBLIC retraction of the libel , slander and defamation of character that the AH sister did. Oh, also, remove that child from that AH sister Lori. Something that FOUL should NEVER be in charge of a pet ROCK, much less a human child.
@Mary Starr yes if she was Rich. Which is what I meant. Her life is most likely better off then her sister. So compared the two the op would be seem as rich.
But it's interesting they had to pay 60k upfront which means they spent 20k already. My guess their legal fees or the sister and mom went spend happy because the rest was paid in installments
Geez, what did the mother die of, sheer meanness? I can hardly credit that a woman like that would have the decency to plotz and let everybody else have some peace!
Holding all that hatred can do a number on one's health. Perhaps dying is the only good thing she ever did for OP.
I would have turned into a bowl of rice crispy, snap crackle, pop and open a can of whoop Ass😠😡😤🤬
It's amazing how people are train to be doormats how a person is as they're older is a direct reflection as how they are raise
It was salt in my wounds when, my father the second son to his older brother Joseph, treated my older brother as his golden boy. My older brother smoked weed, drank up my father's beers, dropped out of college and crashed his car. I stayed clean and sober, graduated college, and got a well-paying professional career. My father wanted to know why I couldn't be more like my older brother. What?! Should I smoke dope and drop out of college? Dad! Why can't you be more like your brother Uncle Joseph? What?! My brother Joseph is dead! Hmm!!!
I wonder what happened to her dad and her niece.
The parents are monsters and hopefully spend their final years homeless and forgotten. Glad to hear the monster mom passed at 40. They aren’t parents, they’re serial abusers and deserve the worst life has to offer. Lori is a monster too and will destroy her own life and likely try to pawn her Trisha off on OP’s abusive parents.
This could have been a story about my life. Except my brother stole the inheritance money. My dad dying with brain cancer wanted my mom to always have a home for herself and if anything happened to any of us 4 grown children we would always have a home. Fast forward 40 years later. Dad died from brain cancer and the inheritance was gone brother kept almost all of it. My share went to buy a house for my mom, I wanted to keep my dad’s dreams alive. A sister stole from her kids, her worthless husband got into drugs. 4 grown kids, 3 untrained pit bulls and 1 weeny dog not house broke destroyed the home. I was told that mom had a Will where she was leaving the house to us 4 grown kids and her favorite grand daughter. Not anymore. Mom is giving her house to the drug sister. I have disowned them all. We have had my worthless siblings life with us at one time and or another and never received a thank you.
The voice over this episode is hilarious 😂😂😂😂
I already know where op's egg donor is after she passed I don't think it's Heaven. Hopefully now the sperm donor is free from his narcissistic wife and daughter. I'm not surprised that the parasite cut off op after court ruled in op's favor. Egg donor and parasite were only mad that they were meeting consequences for their vile actions.
I really enjoyed this video. I’m tired of hearing stories where the victim puts up with so much crap. Real life for the most part isn’t like that. We get pissy and take action right then and there
Honestly I am such a fortunate kid to not have experienced this. I never even realized this was something that parents did to children, "Child favoritism" until i was 25 years old and I heard about my girlfriends family. In my family we were 4 brothers and we were all completely different from eachother but our parents always treated us equally. Every one of us got the same number of gifts, if different but always equal value, we all got the same lessons , whether sports or music. I couldn't have imagined a family where that wasn't the case, it just never made any sense to me. I feel so bad the kids that had to grow up with such awful terrible people as parents
I'd like to think my mom wouldn't do this but I know my brother is my mother's favorite . And my dad doesnt seem to like me anymore. Oh well
I understand completely, I took after my mother’s side (she abandoned us) but I had the height and brains. My brother got the looks
Like the girl fought back -- luckily to get the lawyer video will envolved. Deflation was going nowhere (hard to prove in most cases) .
I am assuming OP was 18 at the time she retained the lawyer - a I am sure it was on contingency (which means if she got $80K, then she they sued them for much more). Not sure I believe the mother physically attacking OP at end -- or even if she died at 40. (that date strikes me as young for the mother passing a few years after the case) ..
Did she have her at 20 and have her older sister who was 4 years older at 16? I almost started believing this story and she messed it up into fanfiction in the end.
@@steve9833 ahh missed that -- i was focusing on mon's age thinking it all didn't match up well -- good catch.
I know that feeling!!
I would have pressed charges, after getting a Lawyer!!
Some people don't deserve to have kids!!!
Considering the age of OP and her sister, how could her mother die at the age of 40?
its called lien on the parents home, the fact they stole your money they normally lose there share.
Good on you for Suing Mom for the 80K they STOLE from you. Fun part is that they STOLE 80k, which makes this Grand larceny. Robery is covered up to 15k Above that is a Felony crime.
24:41, Criminal Vandalism and Destruction of Private Propety.... If you got a Copy of this video you will be abue to use it in Criminal Court.
29:34, Assault and battery.... Want another Charge?
Should have sacked on child support as well as abuse, neglect, and pushed for criminal charges.
Yeah as a parent I honestly don't understand how anyone could treat their child that way, its absolutely abhorrent. you have ONE JOB as a parent: love and support your kids, ALL OF THEM, not just when they meet your expectations and not just ONE of em. ALL OF YOUR KIDS.
OP should have had even MORE damages from the abuse and psychological trauma.
Do we all agree that the OP'S parents and sister deserve to lose everything.
Because she older is not an answer that’s gaslighting a small child 2:05
Time to Disown the Entire Family !
Trust me, it will be the Best Decision you can make and you will be so Free from their bull crap you will be successful in everything you do !
Man, I feel so lucky that I had my Grandfather until I was 42. My Grandfather was born in 1910 and died in 2001 at age 91.
"Charged with abuse" 😂 it's called assault
I love how he narrates❤
There was a lot of times during this that I thought 'hmm, maybe murder CAN be justified after all' 😅
If it were me, and they were calling me insolent, I'd let them know what being insolent really meant.
I become SO saddened when I hear OPs stating that parents have their favourite child. I have 2 sons and I feel I am so blessed to have two completely different children. I love them both equally BECAUSE they are both so different. I support them in everything, and enjoy the differences. No,OP, your parents shouldn’t have a favourite child, THAT IS SO WRONG.
Parents do play favorites. Its not right but they do. It creates sibling rivals and animosity.
S1: I always enjoy a good old fashion nuclear reaction, OP left nothing but burnt and salted earth behind.
People tend to forget that their are always reactions or consequences for their actions.
Usually no reaction, the reaction or consequences they thought might happen and then my favorite all out nuclear war, scorched and salted earth War to the K ice and take no prisoners. Or damn the torpedoes full speed ahead…..OP learned a valuable lesson, just because they are blood relatives doesn’t mean they are family.
Family is more about behavior and Yes, Virginia, you really can pick your family based on how they treat you.