Honestly, the Op should have gotten suspicious when daddy dearest move his new wife into his son's home, instead of trying to find somewhere else to live out his new life with his new partner. I bet the dad lied and said that the house was his, and was allowing Op to use it for a time. Girl thought she hit a jackpot when she was really living in a lie. Op should honestly kick the dad out anyway, because he is only being taught that his dear son will help him when everything in his life goes to the dogs. It has been too long for this grown man, who has gone and got married to his affair partner, to still be living with his son.
I think the fact that his Dad had been fired from his job and was job-hunting probably made OP feel sorry for him. More sorry than he rightly deserved, but he was going through a lot (making his own way in life, his parents breaking up and divorcing, his Dad having an affair.) Still, I would have put a stop to it sooner, but it is easy for me to judge when it is not my parents we are talking about. The people who gave you life have a different place in your heart, whether you want to admit it or not. At least, if you have a good relationship with them. If you don’t, I suppose it would be easier to draw the line and kick them out.
His biggest mistake was HONORING his father's request not to tell his wife that the son really owned that house. She thought the father owned the house and the kid was the one staying there rent free. Because he was about to start a new relationship with a woman close to his own age and was afraid of his stepmother being rude or inappropriate and ruining the visit I would have sat down with BOTH my step mother AND father the day before the visit and explained to them that I am the owner of the house and if either of them does or says anything that ruins my visit with my new potential girlfriend then I will immediately evict them both and never allow them back in my house AT ALL not even for a brief visit.
Needed to do it before that day, far enough ahead that either Patricia could come to terms with it, or be out of the house. As it happened, it sems like OP was using this meeting with Viola just to tick on another unnecessary reason to kick Patricia out, when he already has sufficient reasons. Patricia's not going to turn on a dime, and would probably fight to stay.
Yep. The men are the liars here. Dad probably whispered lies about the son to keep her quiet. And OP himself kept up a bro code ruse against her that now she's made into the evil one? No. She is responsible for what she did to the 1st wife. But this 2nd issue was all caused by bro code deception. Of course she was misled to think the son was freeloading in her home and felt expected to clean. I agree with you. Viola should run. Had she known from the start, an agreement of chores could have been worked out.
@@wplainsTrue. I do wonder why she wasnt trying to redecorate if this is a true story. The fiction writer must be a dude and failed to consider she'd redecorate lmao.
Fount the misandrist... most women don't appreciate what men do to build and maintain the society that women enjoy, use, then complain about incessantly....
Honestly, I’m impressed that you put up with all that toxicity for so long! Glad you kicked them to the curb. Congratulations on your up coming nuptials, I’m glad the witch did not ruin everything for you. Don’t let your dad off the hook, his actions are outrageous. He needs to live with his wife, and support her, you should NEVER give him another cent, another thing or another thought. Just “yeet him” over the fence. I wouldn’t even wave bye!
@@tracygardner6318 the father was marrying the woman that he cheated on her with. I think the stunt mom pulled was mild compared to what they deserve. Team Mom all the way!
The Dad did too. Threatened to not attend OP’s wedding, if he doesn’t let his side-piece back in the house. That’s emotional blackmail and the Dad is an idiot (which, honestly, we already knew, when he cheated on OP’s Mom with this vile gold-digger.) Talk about cutting your nose off to spite your face!
Yes, like the very first time she entered your room/private space without invitation and started ordering you around. Forget trying to protect your dad, He's a grown m,an and you need to protect what is yours and yourself.
Honestly, I don't care if she's my "Step-Mother". If I own the house and paying bills, I WILL be saying something if there's conflict. If Daddy don't like it MOVE!!!
It’s your house your rules. I hate when parents tell her kids. Don’t tell your stepmother that this is your house. It’s like it’s a mark against Man ego and it’s not. It’s just a fact of life.
Just throw the “dad” out too. He’s shown time after time that he doesn’t care what Patricia puts OP through as long as his own life is easier or he gets what he wants.
You did the right thing by telling your father you would not be blackmailed by him. If he wants to come to your wedding that would be great but not to bring his wife she is a trouble maker.
Dad was allegedly moving in until he got his act together. By the 8-month mark, he would have been on notice that his tenancy was coming to an end. As for the juice glass, I would have smashed it ending that nonsense and putting her on notice that her opinion didn't matter in my house. The wine would have been locked up preventing her and her friends from guzzling it down. OP let that go on far too long.
Op should go ahead and make his dad move out too. I don’t see any way to keep Patricia out of the house when op and Viola are out. Dad has already proven that he doesn’t care about op’s feelings or safety by trying to get him to let the witch back in. The dad will do whatever the witch wants, whether it hurts op and Viola or not.
On the topic of weird timing with the OP's decisions, it looks like he did NOT kick her out immediately after ruining his chances with his new girlfriend (he did not yet know that he would be able to salvage that relationship at a later time and even if he had known even TRYING to ruin a relationship is crossing the line). Somehow at a later date he only kicked her out in response to her threatening to kick him out. (that was VERY nervy of her because even though she thought her husband owned the house, even IF she had been right about that what made her so sure that he would kick his own son out to please her? Pretty presumptuous if you ask me?).
Dad told her he's the one mooching. It's the reason why he told his son not to say anything. She was frustrated with Op because dad lied to her. She thought a mooch should pitch in more around the house. She had no idea they were the mooch. Op is mad at the wrong person.
I love mom! That petty speech at the wedding was so YUMMY! She's my hero! Dude, I would have told dad look, you both need to go because I cannot live with this woman anymore.. If he keeps her staying then both will be evicted... He's being too good of a son..
Like we would have put up with a very small fraction that from Dad as well as the witch he married.. Bwahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WE wouldn't have even allowed THEM to stay in OUR HOMES. Right Sis
It's so twisted how OP is still feeling sorry for his dad. He is not a victim but the instigator of all the problems. No evil can seduce a good and virtuous man. She's guilty but your dad is the main culprit.
Yeah I wouldn't date him. He makes excuses for his dad and blame the affair partner he will do the same find an excuse to cheat. Look how he talks about the women in his life how his mom cooked cleaned made time making the perfect wife and that's what he expects from the GF. He wrote how he was sure what his mother did at the wedding had a reason. Like its a mystery like he is so blind to what that reason was. He describes the GF physically but not personality. Op is more Ike his father than he relies so many red flags.
I disagree. I think OP is the worst person in the story. How dare they seek sympathy when all their suffering came as a result of them being so stupid and passive.
Yeah OP constantly goes 'I'd never hurt Viola', but given he views his dad like a sort of victim I wouldn't really trust him either. You can learn a lot about a person by looking at the company they keep sometimes
I thought the same thing. He cheated on his wife,he took out a bank loan, and he lied to his new wife, saying he owned the house,etc. Patricia saw her stepson as a bum because dad communicated that to her. Dad is far from the victim,but he sure as heck is an instigator of them.
Neither OP and his mom deserved that toxic treatment from his dad and shame on dad for bad mouthing his wife (ex). I laughed at OP's mom's toast at her ex husband's wedding!🤣 OP's not the AH for wanting his dad and his toxic stepmother out of his house. Happy Holidays to all!😇💝💝💝
They kinda do though cause they enabled that behaviour instead of cutting it off from the very beginning....if you leave enough space for people to disrespect you they ll usually take it....
OP needs to tell stepmom to stand in the middle of the room and to close her eyes and slowly turn around. “Everything you see now belongs to you.” Edit: Take Viola to OP’s mom and tell her to ask his mom about him.
You need to get your Dad out of your house too. You need to start your married life with Viola and not any extra baggage like your father. He needs to go live with his wife.
I commend OP for having the patience to put up with the all the negativity from both his dad and his dad's new wife. I applaud him for having the courage to stand his ground with both! No one should have to put up with negativity anyone. The hardest part is when it comes from a family member. At some point, boundaries must be set and ALWAYS BE RESPECTED.
This reminds me when my wife divorced me and her boyfriend come to the house and told me I should give it up to the kids and I asked him to step in the house and we could just discuss it in the smartest thing the man did was run down to the street and call me names and leave and never come back
OP should have kicked them out a long time ago. And he is moving way too fast in his relationship, like marriage off jump of meeting her. Also why didn't OP defend himself when his gf rejected him the first time.
Warning for the your wedding, MAKE SURE Dad is NOT ALLOWED his wife or a PLUS 1. also make sure mom is willing to help SECURITY spot her if she TRIES to attend the wedding anyways. Bet it would make moms day to REMOVE HER from your wedding with the help of Security as well.
You would think when OP kicked SM out dad would have either A) gone with her or B) stayed and used it as an excuse to get a divorce. I just can't understand why he's still living there but is still trying to hold on to that marriage! OP needs to send dad packing also! He'll never get any peace until he does!
There in your house they need to follow the rules. You are nice enough to let them stay with you and if they have a problem with that tell him them its the Highway are your way.
It's 100% op's fault Viola didn't want to date him. OP had plenty of time to deal with Patricia, and even afterwards there was time to explain the real situation. His lack of action directly led to missing Viola.
OP's stepmother apparently was told by OP's dad that HE owned OP's house. Yep, she thinks OP's dad is rich. She should have been more able to see that OP is the bread winner in the house. BUT NOOOOO, she thinks the house belongs to OP's dad. There's no reason OP's dad and new wife cannot get a job and an apartment. OP's stepmom trying to ruin his date. Yeah, OP has every reason to toss stepmom out. Am so happy SM didn't ruin OP's chances with Viola.⭐⭐⭐
honestly the glass incident OP should have told there father "dad i love you but if your wife crosses the line one more time, you got 30 days to get out" and walk out.
What I noticed that is weird is why op let her stay in the first place. Second if violet really didn't want to date op because she thought he would leave her she wouldnt have agreed to a first date. Story has too many holes. This one really feels like bad fanfic. For a dude who conned a girl on the internet and she was like nope when she realized he still lived with his parents. Probably says he does freelance but actually just the aging single adult male who just plays video games all day.
this sounds likje a drastically different culture then my own with how he constantly speaks of the women and their "roles" as if it was natural and expected
Whoa; hang on. After the honeymoon, the wife was referred to as Olivia. I paused the video and said: "I thought her name was Patricia." A sentence or two later, yes, back to Patricia. More to come as I watch more of this video.
I just watched this now and noticed that picked up on it i was thinking before this story maybe the most recent one before this there was a character name Olivia and was in voice narrator head so mis spoke it by mistake
In loving life OP, she took someone else’s opinion of you know she’s not as good as you think I can’t believe she said yes to a date that was cruel to you.
I would have laid down the law with Patricia from day one. "You are a GUEST in my home. You will clean up after yourself, and are not to change curtains, blinds, rugs, or anything."
This OP is the worst kind of person. Whiny and "woe is me" when OP is 100% responsible for knowingly inviting a monster into their life AND NEVER KICKING THEM OUT! This OP deserves to live a ruined life. But I'm only halfway thru the story, hopefully OP experiences even more mistreatment because that's all they deserve.
All right this is my honest opinion about the whole entire story in all honesty I'm proud that Op finally stood up for himself got that terrible bitch of a woman named Patricia out of his house finally stood up to his dad and told him off that not everything's about him and everything evolves around him just because you know he's Op's father and I think it's overall great that Op showed how much control he has over his life versus anybody else not only that I'm happy that he ended up with the person he wanted to be with and marry and I'm glad that he's a wonderful person who wants to take care of his future wife and even his future stepdaughter
I posted above that it was ENOUGH that he was allowing his father and a woman that by all rights he should hate for ruining his parent's marriage live with them indefinitely and rent free. He should have told Patricia who really owns that house with the threat of eviction if she misbehaves. He put off doing that too long and at the very least he could have sat her and her husband down in the living room the day before the expected visit from his new girlfriend and explained to them that the visit is very important to him and if EITHER of them ruin it with their behavior he will immediately evict them both and never allow them back even for brief visits. Hell, he could even suggest that they go out to dinner and a movie or something so that they are not there at all for a few hours and to really entice them I would have even paid for it myself.
Wrong move to allow Dad and wife live in his home without a contract including expenses, chores, food & length of time to stay in his house. Give some folks an inch they take a mile, your $ and you for their fool !!
My step father came into my house like Lord of the Manor when he got my mom. She was a widow, my father passed away leaving a house, insurance, and his pension from being a County Engineer. Step was making minimum wage and sharing an apartment with his mother. I was only under the same roof with him for 2 years when I got thrown out one night, with no car and no where to go. I was 18 but a girl with no real life experience. I got by but it was a horrible shock to me.
If Violet can take someone else is worried about OP maybe they shouldn’t be together yes, she went on a date but she needs to get his side to his stepmother is ruining his life and I don’t know why
Definitely not, you should of kicked them out a long time ago. You don't owe them anything. If they want to take advantage of you like they are the A-hole not you.
Should have booted Dad and Viola at the same time. And told Dad flat out at the beginning that you're not going to lie about who owns the house. Dad is an adult so he needs to take care of his own problems SOMEWHERE else.
Op was a strong man. Ops Father is so blind. I don't think Op is crazy he loves his dad. Oh Ops mothers revenge was Classic. Perfect outfit for a wedding. Perfect toast as well. I love it. Lol
I so want another update. Lol. I personally would not even consider the Dad's wife as a Step anything. Step Parents are for children not adults. She is the Dad's wife, nothing more. He has way more patience than anyone I know. Dad and his new wife would have been kicked out WAY SOONER. I am wondering if OPs reasoning was "culture related"? Some cultures expect to take care of their Elders.
All those months and Dad hasn't got a Job? My father was never out of a job for more than a month or so. And my father was a a**hole in 98% of everything else he did.
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You did good by getting step-mom out of your house, never let her back!! Enjoy your life and wedding !!
Its good for you sticking up for yourself and standing for yourself against your Dad.
Honestly, the Op should have gotten suspicious when daddy dearest move his new wife into his son's home, instead of trying to find somewhere else to live out his new life with his new partner. I bet the dad lied and said that the house was his, and was allowing Op to use it for a time. Girl thought she hit a jackpot when she was really living in a lie. Op should honestly kick the dad out anyway, because he is only being taught that his dear son will help him when everything in his life goes to the dogs. It has been too long for this grown man, who has gone and got married to his affair partner, to still be living with his son.
Daddy relied on his wife as a servant and was treating his son the same. The dad was an incompetent hack.
I think the fact that his Dad had been fired from his job and was job-hunting probably made OP feel sorry for him. More sorry than he rightly deserved, but he was going through a lot (making his own way in life, his parents breaking up and divorcing, his Dad having an affair.) Still, I would have put a stop to it sooner, but it is easy for me to judge when it is not my parents we are talking about. The people who gave you life have a different place in your heart, whether you want to admit it or not. At least, if you have a good relationship with them. If you don’t, I suppose it would be easier to draw the line and kick them out.
Anyone that try’s to hurt you in your own home gets what they deserve
*tries
His biggest mistake was HONORING his father's request not to tell his wife that the son really owned that house. She thought the father owned the house and the kid was the one staying there rent free. Because he was about to start a new relationship with a woman close to his own age and was afraid of his stepmother being rude or inappropriate and ruining the visit I would have sat down with BOTH my step mother AND father the day before the visit and explained to them that I am the owner of the house and if either of them does or says anything that ruins my visit with my new potential girlfriend then I will immediately evict them both and never allow them back in my house AT ALL not even for a brief visit.
Needed to do it before that day, far enough ahead that either Patricia could come to terms with it, or be out of the house. As it happened, it sems like OP was using this meeting with Viola just to tick on another unnecessary reason to kick Patricia out, when he already has sufficient reasons. Patricia's not going to turn on a dime, and would probably fight to stay.
This whole story is ridiculous and unbelievable!
Yep. The men are the liars here. Dad probably whispered lies about the son to keep her quiet. And OP himself kept up a bro code ruse against her that now she's made into the evil one? No. She is responsible for what she did to the 1st wife. But this 2nd issue was all caused by bro code deception. Of course she was misled to think the son was freeloading in her home and felt expected to clean.
I agree with you. Viola should run. Had she known from the start, an agreement of chores could have been worked out.
@@wplainsTrue. I do wonder why she wasnt trying to redecorate if this is a true story. The fiction writer must be a dude and failed to consider she'd redecorate lmao.
Marcus, your mother sounds incredible. Your father did not appreciate what she did most men do not appreciate what their wives do for them.
That toast was so petty YUMMY!! She's my hero! 🤣
Fount the misandrist... most women don't appreciate what men do to build and maintain the society that women enjoy, use, then complain about incessantly....
Honestly, I’m impressed that you put up with all that toxicity for so long! Glad you kicked them to the curb. Congratulations on your up coming nuptials, I’m glad the witch did not ruin everything for you. Don’t let your dad off the hook, his actions are outrageous. He needs to live with his wife, and support her, you should NEVER give him another cent, another thing or another thought. Just “yeet him” over the fence. I wouldn’t even wave bye!
Wow. I kind of love what his mom did on their wedding day.
She’s a hole in the story for doing that.
Serious Sue Sylvester vibes 😂
@@tracygardner6318 the father was marrying the woman that he cheated on her with. I think the stunt mom pulled was mild compared to what they deserve. Team Mom all the way!
Imagine trying to blackmail someone when you're completely dependent on them 😂
I guess the stepmother failed blackmail 101.😂
The Dad did too. Threatened to not attend OP’s wedding, if he doesn’t let his side-piece back in the house. That’s emotional blackmail and the Dad is an idiot (which, honestly, we already knew, when he cheated on OP’s Mom with this vile gold-digger.) Talk about cutting your nose off to spite your face!
Glad to see that OP came to his senses and kicked out the father as well.
You should’ve put Patricia in her place along time ago the minute she started bossing you around
Yes, like the very first time she entered your room/private space without invitation and started ordering you around. Forget trying to protect your dad, He's a grown m,an and you need to protect what is yours and yourself.
Honestly, I don't care if she's my "Step-Mother". If I own the house and paying bills, I WILL be saying something if there's conflict. If Daddy don't like it MOVE!!!
Agreed. OP may be the asshole, at The very least, the asshat.
Yep if I’m paying all the bills I’ll gladly present the step bitch and dad with the eviction notice
Exactly
It’s your house your rules. I hate when parents tell her kids. Don’t tell your stepmother that this is your house. It’s like it’s a mark against Man ego and it’s not. It’s just a fact of life.
Just throw the “dad” out too. He’s shown time after time that he doesn’t care what Patricia puts OP through as long as his own life is easier or he gets what he wants.
I think that's the only time I've ever enjoyed someone wearing white to someone else's wedding
All he had to tell his dad was if he heard the name Patricia again from his father that his father could leave the home immediately.
Slap him like you was Will Smith, “keep your wife's name out your f-king mouth!”
You did the right thing by telling your father you would not be blackmailed by him. If he wants to come to your wedding that would be great but not to bring his wife she is a trouble maker.
Dad was allegedly moving in until he got his act together. By the 8-month mark, he would have been on notice that his tenancy was coming to an end. As for the juice glass, I would have smashed it ending that nonsense and putting her on notice that her opinion didn't matter in my house. The wine would have been locked up preventing her and her friends from guzzling it down. OP let that go on far too long.
If he had to lock anything up that was already a sign that he had the wrong people in his house.
That's where you can see the fake vs real stories
He was faaaar tooooo patient. I would not have been as nice. She would have been told from the start that this home is yours, not her husband's.
Op should go ahead and make his dad move out too. I don’t see any way to keep Patricia out of the house when op and Viola are out. Dad has already proven that he doesn’t care about op’s feelings or safety by trying to get him to let the witch back in. The dad will do whatever the witch wants, whether it hurts op and Viola or not.
On the topic of weird timing with the OP's decisions, it looks like he did NOT kick her out immediately after ruining his chances with his new girlfriend (he did not yet know that he would be able to salvage that relationship at a later time and even if he had known even TRYING to ruin a relationship is crossing the line). Somehow at a later date he only kicked her out in response to her threatening to kick him out. (that was VERY nervy of her because even though she thought her husband owned the house, even IF she had been right about that what made her so sure that he would kick his own son out to please her? Pretty presumptuous if you ask me?).
You're letting her drink your wine collection?! She's telling you to do the dishes and laundry? Seriously?!
I'm more upset about the red wine being in the fridge.
Dad told her he's the one mooching. It's the reason why he told his son not to say anything. She was frustrated with Op because dad lied to her. She thought a mooch should pitch in more around the house. She had no idea they were the mooch. Op is mad at the wrong person.
@@3monsters014 OP should have been mad at BOTH of them.
Fake story, lol!
It is so nice you’re letting your dad stay with you after everything he did to your family. You are a good son and a good person.
Yet the dad took advantage of his son's kindness
You better mean a doormat and deserving of that happened to him.
The mom going to the wedding in a white gown is *chefs kiss*
I love mom! That petty speech at the wedding was so YUMMY! She's my hero! Dude, I would have told dad look, you both need to go because I cannot live with this woman anymore.. If he keeps her staying then both will be evicted... He's being too good of a son..
I'm listening to the STORY now
Like we would have put up with a very small fraction that from Dad as well as the witch he married.. Bwahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WE wouldn't have even allowed THEM to stay in OUR HOMES. Right Sis
I don't get why OP allowed all that to happen when he could have told his father "tell your wife who owns this house before i kick her out.".
It's so twisted how OP is still feeling sorry for his dad. He is not a victim but the instigator of all the problems. No evil can seduce a good and virtuous man. She's guilty but your dad is the main culprit.
Yep. She didn't make him choose to sleep with her while he was still married.
Yeah I wouldn't date him. He makes excuses for his dad and blame the affair partner he will do the same find an excuse to cheat. Look how he talks about the women in his life how his mom cooked cleaned made time making the perfect wife and that's what he expects from the GF. He wrote how he was sure what his mother did at the wedding had a reason. Like its a mystery like he is so blind to what that reason was. He describes the GF physically but not personality. Op is more Ike his father than he relies so many red flags.
I disagree. I think OP is the worst person in the story. How dare they seek sympathy when all their suffering came as a result of them being so stupid and passive.
Yeah OP constantly goes 'I'd never hurt Viola', but given he views his dad like a sort of victim I wouldn't really trust him either. You can learn a lot about a person by looking at the company they keep sometimes
I thought the same thing. He cheated on his wife,he took out a bank loan, and he lied to his new wife, saying he owned the house,etc. Patricia saw her stepson as a bum because dad communicated that to her. Dad is far from the victim,but he sure as heck is an instigator of them.
Op was so chill through this whole ordeal. But at least he kept his peace in the end.
Neither OP and his mom deserved that toxic treatment from his dad and shame on dad for bad mouthing his wife (ex). I laughed at OP's mom's toast at her ex husband's wedding!🤣 OP's not the AH for wanting his dad and his toxic stepmother out of his house.
Happy Holidays to all!😇💝💝💝
They kinda do though cause they enabled that behaviour instead of cutting it off from the very beginning....if you leave enough space for people to disrespect you they ll usually take it....
OP needs to tell stepmom to stand in the middle of the room and to close her eyes and slowly turn around. “Everything you see now belongs to you.”
Edit: Take Viola to OP’s mom and tell her to ask his mom about him.
Who invites an ex to their wedding ??? He should have set step mom on the curb after the first fight.
Op is the best person on reddit I have ever heard
Opie just remember brutal honesty is the best policy there's nothing left to discuss after you lay the honesty out in brutal details
You need to get your Dad out of your house too. You need to start your married life with Viola and not any extra baggage like your father. He needs to go live with his wife.
I commend OP for having the patience to put up with the all the negativity from both his dad and his dad's new wife. I applaud him for having the courage to stand his ground with both! No one should have to put up with negativity anyone. The hardest part is when it comes from a family member. At some point, boundaries must be set and ALWAYS BE RESPECTED.
I must say......... you did a great job narrating this story. No exaggerating, or saying a word incorrectly....... great job Me. Reddito.
Thank you for sharing this video with us all
Merry Christmas to one and all
Merry Christmas to you and your family, as well. Merry Christmas to everyone!!!!!! Stay safe.
Oh no she'd be out on her but immediately and dad too. If He cheated on your mother I don't think she deserves anything
The first time I was told she made food and I could not eat it I would ask where her rent money is.
A lion in a sheep's costume 😅 Love that interpretation of that saying ❤️
Good for OP, he did what his cowardly father wouldn't.
It is what it is. What goes around comes back around.
OP, should have never allowed Dad nor the new wife to move in with him. It’s a slap in the face to his Mom.
His mom is awesome.
Honestly, all betrayed exes should show up at their cheating exes wedding dressed in white/ red
That would be a blast 😂😂😂😂
Took him a little to long but he did great for himself and fiance.
This reminds me when my wife divorced me and her boyfriend come to the house and told me I should give it up to the kids and I asked him to step in the house and we could just discuss it in the smartest thing the man did was run down to the street and call me names and leave and never come back
I'm sorry but that funny 😁 😂
Beautiful.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 he was about to fuck around and find out 🤣🤣🤣🤣👏🏿
Thanks for all the updates Mr. Reddito Happy New Year to you.
OP should have kicked them out a long time ago. And he is moving way too fast in his relationship, like marriage off jump of meeting her. Also why didn't OP defend himself when his gf rejected him the first time.
NTA good for you glad you finally got rid of the Garbage in your life. Enjoy your new wife and home without the drama.
What a family, they should all be ashamed of their behavior
Story one: I don’t understand why op couldn’t speak up for himself with Vila.
Who is Vila?
Because his dad lied and said that it was HIS house. That's why he asked his son not to fight back.
Vila i think you meant viola Even the voice narrator talking pronounced the name wrong its v i o L A pronounced how it is spelled Vi o LA
Hope everyone has a wonderful holiday this coming weekend
Thank you. Have a great holiday weekend as well.
Thanks 😊 and to you. Merry Christmas 🤶🎅🎄🎁🥳😙💜
Warning for the your wedding, MAKE SURE Dad is NOT ALLOWED his wife or a PLUS 1. also make sure mom is willing to help SECURITY spot her if she TRIES to attend the wedding anyways. Bet it would make moms day to REMOVE HER from your wedding with the help of Security as well.
Dumping out orange juice because I want that cup. It’s my favorite. What does she have against Opie? Opie has been nothing but kind of her
You would think when OP kicked SM out dad would have either A) gone with her or B) stayed and used it as an excuse to get a divorce. I just can't understand why he's still living there but is still trying to hold on to that marriage! OP needs to send dad packing also! He'll never get any peace until he does!
I really like the colors and design of this one!
There in your house they need to follow the rules. You are nice enough to let them stay with you and if they have a problem with that tell him them its the Highway are your way.
It's 100% op's fault Viola didn't want to date him. OP had plenty of time to deal with Patricia, and even afterwards there was time to explain the real situation. His lack of action directly led to missing Viola.
Honestly, if Viola left him just for gossip from his STEPMOTHER she was no worth it.
OP's stepmother apparently was told by OP's dad that HE owned OP's house. Yep, she thinks OP's dad is rich. She should have been more able to see that OP is the bread winner in the house. BUT NOOOOO, she thinks the house belongs to OP's dad. There's no reason OP's dad and new wife cannot get a job and an apartment. OP's stepmom trying to ruin his date. Yeah, OP has every reason to toss stepmom out. Am so happy SM didn't ruin OP's chances with Viola.⭐⭐⭐
honestly the glass incident OP should have told there father "dad i love you but if your wife crosses the line one more time, you got 30 days to get out" and walk out.
OP is a doormat.
I love your voice. It's very mellow.
daddy and the step mama should’ve been tossed out like uncle Phil does jazz on the fresh prince of bel air 👏🏿🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can't believe he let's the father still stay rent free. He can get a job washing dishes.
Got unreasonably happy when I heard OP and Vila became an item 🥰
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Your dad would be better off single or with just a girlfriend with her own home
Hell naw you definitely not the asshole..you the man.,..I admire your courage and determination...👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
OP could have ended all this by standing up for himself
My wine collection would have been locked up!
What I noticed that is weird is why op let her stay in the first place. Second if violet really didn't want to date op because she thought he would leave her she wouldnt have agreed to a first date. Story has too many holes. This one really feels like bad fanfic. For a dude who conned a girl on the internet and she was like nope when she realized he still lived with his parents. Probably says he does freelance but actually just the aging single adult male who just plays video games all day.
Brilliant I love these stories
this sounds likje a drastically different culture then my own with how he constantly speaks of the women and their "roles" as if it was natural and expected
Whoa; hang on. After the honeymoon, the wife was referred to as Olivia. I paused the video and said: "I thought her name was Patricia." A sentence or two later, yes, back to Patricia. More to come as I watch more of this video.
Probably a slip up with her real name.
I just watched this now and noticed that picked up on it i was thinking before this story maybe the most recent one before this there was a character name Olivia and was in voice narrator head so mis spoke it by mistake
In loving life OP, she took someone else’s opinion of you know she’s not as good as you think I can’t believe she said yes to a date that was cruel to you.
Love that mom
Not the AH. You have a right to have peace in your home and life
I would have laid down the law with Patricia from day one. "You are a GUEST in my home. You will clean up after yourself, and are not to change curtains, blinds, rugs, or anything."
Congratulations on your marriage
This OP is the worst kind of person.
Whiny and "woe is me" when OP is 100% responsible for knowingly inviting a monster into their life AND NEVER KICKING THEM OUT!
This OP deserves to live a ruined life.
But I'm only halfway thru the story, hopefully OP experiences even more mistreatment because that's all they deserve.
All right this is my honest opinion about the whole entire story in all honesty I'm proud that Op finally stood up for himself got that terrible bitch of a woman named Patricia out of his house finally stood up to his dad and told him off that not everything's about him and everything evolves around him just because you know he's Op's father and I think it's overall great that Op showed how much control he has over his life versus anybody else not only that I'm happy that he ended up with the person he wanted to be with and marry and I'm glad that he's a wonderful person who wants to take care of his future wife and even his future stepdaughter
I posted above that it was ENOUGH that he was allowing his father and a woman that by all rights he should hate for ruining his parent's marriage live with them indefinitely and rent free. He should have told Patricia who really owns that house with the threat of eviction if she misbehaves. He put off doing that too long and at the very least he could have sat her and her husband down in the living room the day before the expected visit from his new girlfriend and explained to them that the visit is very important to him and if EITHER of them ruin it with their behavior he will immediately evict them both and never allow them back even for brief visits. Hell, he could even suggest that they go out to dinner and a movie or something so that they are not there at all for a few hours and to really entice them I would have even paid for it myself.
Gg
She was frustrated over the stepson mooching; it's what she was told. Dad is the cause of the entire shit fest.
Wrong move to allow Dad and wife live in his home without a contract including
expenses, chores, food & length of time to stay in his house. Give some folks an
inch they take a mile, your $ and you for their fool !!
My step father came into my house like Lord of the Manor when he got my mom. She was a widow, my father passed away leaving a house, insurance, and his pension from being a County Engineer. Step was making minimum wage and sharing an apartment with his mother. I was only under the same roof with him for 2 years when I got thrown out one night, with no car and no where to go. I was 18 but a girl with no real life experience. I got by but it was a horrible shock to me.
Shame on your mom for putting he new guy above blood.
Dude you put up with more than I did and kudos for finding happiness...lov rocks on
I don’t know of a single soul in this world that would allow a stepmother to treat & do them that way. It makes it seem unbelievable.
If Violet can take someone else is worried about OP maybe they shouldn’t be together yes, she went on a date but she needs to get his side to his stepmother is ruining his life and I don’t know why
Ease him out of the house. He is trying to control you.
Kick the step mom out! She has no respect for you and wants to use you as an ATM
Your fault for ALLOWING THEM IN YOUR HOUSE!!!!!!
Op needs to get an upgraded security system.
Do not let her back into your house and if your dad wants to be with her so bad tell your dad to go be with her outside of your house
It’s your home, don’t let her make you uncomfortable in your own home.
Definitely not, you should of kicked them out a long time ago. You don't owe them anything. If they want to take advantage of you like they are the A-hole not you.
Should have booted Dad and Viola at the same time. And told Dad flat out at the beginning that you're not going to lie about who owns the house. Dad is an adult so he needs to take care of his own problems SOMEWHERE else.
Great response to her OP
He was not the ahole for sueing Pat's cousin but that is not standing up for yourself because the lawyer stood up for him.
Why doesn’t his father go with his wife?
Op was a strong man. Ops Father is so blind. I don't think Op is crazy he loves his dad. Oh Ops mothers revenge was Classic. Perfect outfit for a wedding. Perfect toast as well. I love it. Lol
OP should have told his dad off sooner and kick him out.
I so want another update. Lol. I personally would not even consider the Dad's wife as a Step anything. Step Parents are for children not adults. She is the Dad's wife, nothing more.
He has way more patience than anyone I know. Dad and his new wife would have been kicked out WAY SOONER. I am wondering if OPs reasoning was "culture related"? Some cultures expect to take care of their Elders.
All those months and Dad hasn't got a Job? My father was never out of a job for more than a month or so. And my father was a a**hole in 98% of everything else he did.
I would not even tell the father when the wedding will take place or where. I would kick him out and go no contact until after the wedding.