Signs Of A Narcissistic Relationship God Doesn’t Want You To Ignore

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  • Опубликовано: 25 июл 2024
  • Narcissism in marriage is very common in Christian families. If you’re in a relationship, these signs will help you avoid a mistake of marrying a narcissist.
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  • @agnesmumbi
    @agnesmumbi  Год назад +315

    Blessings to you family! This video is as a warning from God. Use wisdom as you move forward and God will do the rest 🙏🏽❤️

    • @tinaheavenlysoundsglory4631
      @tinaheavenlysoundsglory4631 Год назад +3

      Blessings to you woman of God, thank you for this message, what will I do, if I find people like this inside the house of God? Please help me with this question 😔

    • @handylitelihanda7675
      @handylitelihanda7675 Год назад +7

      Thank you so MUCH mummy... this massage is for me... what am going through in my marriage life is what you talking about... THANK you

    • @racheledwardstarawalie3060
      @racheledwardstarawalie3060 Год назад +2

      Amen ! Thank you so much sister Agnès. This message is so réal !

    • @Lydia-hi7mk
      @Lydia-hi7mk Год назад +2

      Amen sisterAgness may God bless u it's hard to love someone who doesn't love u back as for me I quit this relashonship oh God help me to see good partner with good manners

    • @sallygrace1495
      @sallygrace1495 Год назад +2

      Greetings you sister Agnes thank so much for this message. 🙏🙏

  • @cedarinlebanon2908
    @cedarinlebanon2908 Год назад +54

    After two kids, 10 year relationship, I left and never felt so relieved, now he's refusing to support his kids financially just to punish me. he doesn't know I serve Jehovah Jirah, my Father in Heaven will provide. HalleluYah🕊💫🙏

    • @realvibes48
      @realvibes48 Год назад +2

      You are not alone mine did the same thing. He got al those qualities. But God is always faithful

    • @beautymuranda5907
      @beautymuranda5907 Год назад +2

      Same story here, 12 years of pain and 2 kids later, it has finally dawned on me that he's a bitter narcissist. Separated now and he's using money to try to punish and control me.

  • @asumptabridget732
    @asumptabridget732 Год назад +181

    And these relationships make you even weak to pray. Dear Jesus save me. Thank you Jesus for this message. Thank you sister Agnes.

  • @mariamoriga2230
    @mariamoriga2230 Год назад +228

    I love today's topic. I was in a marriage with a Narc for 8 years and they were years of sufferings but I thank God he gave me courage to leave with 3 children. I blame myself for the mysteries I underwent while in that marriage because before I got married, I prayed for a husband for some reason I met this man and thought it was an answered prayer.. unfortunately while dating there were several redflags which I never paid attention to..I asked God for a sign if he was the one, but I never got an answer but I went on to marry him anyway.. eventually, I regretted and asked God for forgiveness.
    I remember the more I prayed while still in the union the worse my situation got.

    • @anneborders3212
      @anneborders3212 Год назад +30

      You telling my story, peace and blessings to us both

    • @batengajosephine3206
      @batengajosephine3206 Год назад +11

      My 1st marriage i got warning from God ,i entered another one before confirmation from him i have cried eversince i got him its now 9yrs with one son but am done with it

    • @hardylisette2756
      @hardylisette2756 Год назад +33

      The red flags were answers from GOD. We have to ask HIM for the Spirit of discernment to understand what GOD is showing us. 🙏🏽

    • @mariamoriga2230
      @mariamoriga2230 Год назад +32

      I have now learnt over the years that the Holy Spirit always show us the red flags but we are always "too in love' to pay attention and eventually be in a miserable life.

    • @obiageliarisamadiebo4240
      @obiageliarisamadiebo4240 Год назад +17

      This is exactly my story 😢 😭 😪 💔 😞
      I also didn't get any answer when I prayed
      It was later GOD told me that I should have changed my prayer request to why am I not getting any answer

  • @Fay-wicks
    @Fay-wicks Год назад +120

    I had an ex boyfriend who was narcissist,he could be called by his lovers when am with him calling him "babe"if I dare ask I could be bitten mercilessly,he hits me on the wall,,verbal harsh words😭,am telling you when your in this ,the person makes you have low esteem of your self ,you even think if you leave him you will never get another man to love you,I could sleep crying like a baby,he could not talk to me,he could tell me to cry until I cry blood,he could turn and start chatting with women,I could peep and see it's women,I couldn't pray,I loved him until I had no time to love myself,until I wasn't attending classes in college,lemmie tell you guys one day I decided to give up and move on,I decided to do it in bits,I decided to assume I don't have a man with me,stop being hurted by his actions,never question anything from him and assume he is no longer my boyfriend,we were in the same house,I took a paper and wrote 4pages crying and removing all my pains in that paper,I went and hidden it somewhere,it took me two weeks and I was done with him from my heart,it was a lunch hour one day eating lunch I had prepared,I told him in a joking way that,I wanted Mee and him to part peacefully,he thought it was a joke,I took out the paper I had written I gave it to him and told him to take everything that belonged to him and go,and it raised another form of fight of which I wasn't ready for it,he realized I had already made up with my mind and I had realized who I am,he saw a lady he didn't know about and ahe took everything including his shirt I was wearing I was told to remove and the phone I was using he took it, everything and I was there to hand over everything unto him and he went ,I found peace being alone,I went back to my father God,he bandaged my wounds,healed me,I moved on and I found love again,the best love I can never imagine that it exists,a God fearing man,a man who can never raise his voice to me,we are now on our 4th year and we have achieved alot with him.

    • @maryimmaculate669
      @maryimmaculate669 Год назад +4

      God win .

    • @Graclyna12
      @Graclyna12 Год назад +2

      Wow Amen

    • @adongosheila9215
      @adongosheila9215 Год назад +5

      I love this statement " you love them till you have stop loving yourself" and they still want more from you!

    • @BEADSAREME
      @BEADSAREME Год назад +15

      I just found out from my daughter-in-law that my son is a narcissist. They are in the middle of a divorce after being married 29 years. They are both 42 years old with 4 kids. She started telling me the things he has done to her and the kids. He confessed that he was a Christian years ago, he knows the Bible inside and out. Then I am reminded so does Satan. He told the pastor that the Lord told him to divorce his wife ( She’s the one who finally told him he has to go.) When they were dating I told her his behavior I would have never tolerated. He was always controlling. He was the only one working, thank God he has a good paying job. She said she loves him. They dated from junior high school and never dated anyone else. Of course he stepped out on her a few times and she continued to keep him in her life until last year. Of course he is giving her a hard time regarding the divorce, he acts like she cheated on him, but he is the one with the girlfriends. he has a girlfriend and they now live together regardless of the divorce not being finalized. Listen , this video is accurate to a T. Ladies and gents if you see the red flags run and don’t look back. if you don’t you will live a unhappy life. This is the fifth video that I watched on RUclips trying to understand this behavior. Gods wants you to be happy. Being with a person who hurts you to your core is not happiness, being by yourself in peace and with the Lord is happiness. Also, note doctors say it almost impossible for a narcissist to be healed. It would take a miracle. Being under the influence of demonic influence would mean this type of person needs deliverance! It breaks my heart to know that my son has this condition. My daughter in law gets professional help now, and she is blossoming into her own. She helps coach families with disability children , because one of her kids has a disability. She’s in school studying online and working during the day, also getting her licenses together to help others and hopefully in the future go into her own business. God has truly blessed her as she depends on Him . She is a new person, praise God. God bless Mumbi and her ministry. God bless all who tune in and listen.

    • @ceez3572
      @ceez3572 Год назад +2

      Powerful testimony

  • @annettehenry7734
    @annettehenry7734 Год назад +21

    Thank you, sister. My own household has been controlled by this spirit , both of my adult children; the more you do for them, the more they abuse you.

    • @TravelatorH8r
      @TravelatorH8r Год назад

      Not allowing your children to properly detach can cause narcissism and that can most likely be because you have a deep insecurity that your only job is to raise children and that's your only value so you carry out this task with hyper-vigilance

  • @justinethomas5020
    @justinethomas5020 Год назад +20

    The relationship with the father of my children nearly drove me crazy. I nearly lost everything even my connection to God. It was mentioned that even praying becomes hard.. I can agree with this.."they" really have their ways to break your soul😢I thank God for helping me escape

    • @amy-ut7qu
      @amy-ut7qu Год назад +2

      God our Heavenly Father Be WITH You, I can relate.
      I had no idea Love an Unconditional Love we are to represent as Children of God walking in Jesus character, I had no idea how horribly bad what I learned Live was go so rejected discarded dismissed and abused unwanted. My spirit truthfully was shattered. I started being angry at God. I fell into a very dark place slowly I’m getting out and running back to My God who would never ever forsake me or throw me away. There is no reasons to chase after a man who will never love me ever as the word of God states in the Bible. Acceptance is hard the result is truthfully freeing. Jesus keep showing me truths and guiding me.
      And this young woman too. Jesus you YOU ARE THE ONLY ABSOLUTE TRUTH OF LOVE TO CHASE AFTER.

  • @ruthnakawala6317
    @ruthnakawala6317 Год назад +116

    This is the message God put in my heart yesterday I was remembering how God saved me from a narcissistic boyfriend, when I met this person I thought to my self he was the one for me, little did I know that he was sent by the enemy, I was always doing things he wanted but he never did the same ,he lied that he was single when in fact he had a wife , God saved me from that relationship when I surrendered to God for him to choose the person he knew was the right person for me and am here testifying that God has given me more than I ever thought or ever imagined that I could meet the man God has given me now.

    • @ntombifuthisenanela2308
      @ntombifuthisenanela2308 Год назад +3

      This topic is eye opening thank you very much🙏🏿..I can relate .

    • @atuhaireedinah2191
      @atuhaireedinah2191 Год назад +5

      Exactly what i have been experiencing but God helped me to get out of that ugly relationship.
      I pray God brings me the right man

    • @gracer7031
      @gracer7031 Год назад +1

      I have passed through it twice, thanks God for his mercy

    • @atungyecarolyn7334
      @atungyecarolyn7334 Год назад

      Congratulations mukazi, we give glory to God🙏

    • @akaikirizamildred5612
      @akaikirizamildred5612 Год назад +1

      God is faithful and he never leaves us in the hands of the 😈 👿 devil, I went through the same thing 🙏 bur God revealed his true character

  • @cynthiatramil461
    @cynthiatramil461 Год назад +36

    I didn’t know my husband was narcissistic until after I divorced him( after 23 yrs )I haven’t shedded one tear since I left. I got crucified by the church. I didn’t care. I’m free ❤❤😁

    • @frankiemorgan8056
      @frankiemorgan8056 Год назад +6

      Cynthia Tramil you don't need the church, you need God

    • @cynthiatramil461
      @cynthiatramil461 Год назад +1

      @@frankiemorgan8056 , I’m full of Holy Spirit. 😁

    • @miraclesforus2
      @miraclesforus2 Год назад +1

      Cynthia..abuse is not to be tolerated.forget the church that enables these demonically infested monsters. You didn.t divorce. This was never your god given spouse.

    • @jayangli
      @jayangli Год назад +3

      Cynthia I am glad there are these videos. And it’s coming out they are everywhere the narcissists. It’s after years, you realise you are dealing with a narcissist!

    • @TravelatorH8r
      @TravelatorH8r Год назад +1

      I just left a relationship of 23 years with my first and only and it took me four years of suspecting she was a narcissist for me to give up and I didn't shed one tear for her either because I realized I didn't even know who she was and now that I do I only have pity for her inability to love somebody like how I love everyone

  • @finediningexperiencewithch8455
    @finediningexperiencewithch8455 Год назад +7

    I am so drained 😩. Worse part of it he is a serial cheater. Sad part of it someone stole my clothes so that I don't get employment. Just finished my 21 days fasting yesterday. Today I get a rejection from my interview last month. 2 interviews I missed because something went to my eye I went blind and I got admitted in hospital. No matter what He is still God 😭. 3 weeks back he took my son and introduced the side chick to him and told him she's her mom I am the aunt. It is well with my soul.

    • @thobiledlamini3669
      @thobiledlamini3669 Год назад +3

      May God be with you all the time my dear ...Psalms 118:17 upon your life may you tell of the goodness of the Lord in testimony one day.

  • @kimberlys347
    @kimberlys347 Год назад +66

    Thank you so much for talking about this. God was so good to expose the last one I got caught up with. He was a covert, the most dangerous kind in my opinion. Claimed to be a real Christian but showed zero fruit. He was deceitful, secretly jealous of me and appreciated nothing I did for our relationship. I’m a really happy person, in under a year he turned my smiles to tears. He would laugh at me as I cried. Once God started to expose him, I left. They are the hardest relationships to leave, bc you have to leave the lies you believed as well about living happily ever after. I’m getting older and I believe the devil sent me this person to attempt to delay and destroy my destiny. God saved me! To anyone dating one, get out now and stay out. They are spiritual robbers and destiny killers. Nothing to say or do will make these kinds change unless they want to and honestly they don’t. Give up now, pick someone else.

    • @nessahjay2270
      @nessahjay2270 Год назад

      I was hurt when he used my lip as his ash tray and when I started crying he looked at me and said look you’re ruining your makeup 😫

    • @kimberlys347
      @kimberlys347 Год назад +2

      @@nessahjay2270 that’s awful. Run and don’t ever look back

    • @shanelleellis2540
      @shanelleellis2540 Год назад

      That's good that u left such a toxic relationship 🙏

    • @oluwatoyin6348
      @oluwatoyin6348 Год назад

      @@nessahjay2270
      please leave him ASAP !
      And don't ever look back.
      He is an offspring of the devil, a PSYCHOPATH at best.

  • @squeakie45
    @squeakie45 Год назад +30

    I’ve been with a narcissist for 20 years married for 18 years.
    He has asked me for a divorce and I’m seeking the Lord for my next chapter in life.
    Single people…Never ever settle because when you settle you will get what you settled for 🙏🏾

  • @rrscotts4894
    @rrscotts4894 Год назад +32

    Amen!! I wish that the church understood narcissism more, and we are definitely wrestling with something evil when it comes to narcissists.

    • @thebestindewest
      @thebestindewest Год назад +11

      Sadly it won't be recognize because the main narcissism in the church is from the pulpit.

    • @yvettejones6196
      @yvettejones6196 Год назад

      The church is loaded with evil spirits and narcissists and spiritual abuse by narcissistic church leaders and pastors. 😢

    • @oluwatoyin6348
      @oluwatoyin6348 Год назад +5

      Sometimes I think there are more narcissists in church than in the 'world'
      My husband is a church leader, and he is the textbook definition of a Narcissist. The Christian narc is proud, legalistic and egoistic.
      They are often high achievers, and therefore knownhow to buy the praise and affection of people around them with money.
      In the church, they are often the biggest givers, BUT it's all for show, and manipulation.
      They are the modern day Pharisees.
      It's so so sad.

    • @thebestindewest
      @thebestindewest Год назад +2

      @@oluwatoyin6348 you said it well 👏

    • @kgaogelomashiane7302
      @kgaogelomashiane7302 2 месяца назад

      ​@@oluwatoyin6348very true I thought I was the only one who could see this

  • @halimazako4019
    @halimazako4019 Год назад +183

    I just ended a relationship with a narcissist it was emotionally draining. Enough with the manipulation, gaslighting and emotionally abuse. He would suddenly go silent on me just to punish me. I thank God for this. I would end up apologising everytime. He uses money as a tool of control.

    • @highlyfavoured2422
      @highlyfavoured2422 Год назад +7

      I can relate

    • @martiniloganmartinilogan83
      @martiniloganmartinilogan83 Год назад +6

      So true , but God is bigger than him I got the strength to walk away from him he doesn't call his daughter and she just turn 6 years , but God is my strength of our life .

    • @buledewaal9470
      @buledewaal9470 Год назад +5

      Very True. I walked out of it.. And never regret it. Thankfull God opened my eyes. God really make a way

    • @miria659
      @miria659 Год назад +3

      May God help us

    • @tati0201
      @tati0201 Год назад +7

      Yes in the same situation leaving soon as well. It's been 19 yrs.

  • @peta-gayerichards603
    @peta-gayerichards603 Год назад +3

    Narcissists tug at your heart string and back you up in a corner and keep hurting you and when you react they say you are emotionally unstable and tell people all kinds of hurting untrue things about you.

  • @mutsamukuze7855
    @mutsamukuze7855 Год назад +9

    10 yrs in marriage and u hv described exactly what I am going through. I have lost myself. I have nothing else left to give because I have done everything I can. I have given everything I have nothing more to give. Oh Father in heaven I still believe in You wholeheartedly but I am empty inside, I am exhausted, I am hurting hear my prayer as you heard Hannah, Sarah, Ruth, Esther. You have done it before, You can still do it again.

  • @m-possible1173
    @m-possible1173 Год назад +21

    This is a topic that can never be discussed enough. This is an evil spirit that exists even in BUSINESS RELATIONSHIPS. Let me tell you it is a NIGHTMARE they except no responsibility for what they do wrong! Everything is always your fault and just like Sister Agnes says all of the focus and attention has got to be on them ALL the time...OMG. You can be about to die and they won't feel any sympathy for you when something is wrong with you. If they do something that looks kind don't be fooled, they have a strategic reason for their purpose to have power over you. The only way to end things with them is to leave them without notice for your own sanity's sake 😱 in JESUS name! Run ! RUN!

  • @yeukaimadzudzo7171
    @yeukaimadzudzo7171 Год назад +20

    This is the a truth that every sister needs to hear . It is true that the relationship is so draining .It can result in Blood Pressure .Run with you life if you are not married. I am experiencing this and some days it even get hard to pray . Honestly it's been 11 years and if I did not have to think of the children I would flee too. May God give a spirit of discernment to all not married. To all those in marriage I pray God intervention because not only does it destroy you but it affects the children and even extended family relationship friendships. You are left alone but God is faithful he will advise deliver .

    • @blessingwegwu913
      @blessingwegwu913 Год назад

      What you have taught is right, am married to such a person for 18yrs, but I love him so much, he treated me just the way you say, but he left to marry another woman, so should I still pray for him to change.

  • @alicemwangi1068
    @alicemwangi1068 Год назад +16

    Thank you sister Agnes. Most of us going through hell with a thought that someday this person will change. Holy spirit speaking to me.

  • @myrleakolajo5184
    @myrleakolajo5184 Год назад +33

    I’ve done extensive research on Narcissism, and this by far is one of the BEST descriptions from a Godly/Spiritual perspective. God bless you for helping many of us who are going through this type of relationship. I’m currently planning my exit for the third time. Not going back this time. It’s been a NIGHTMARE.

    • @franceshaggitt3104
      @franceshaggitt3104 Год назад +2

      I got out finally on third time. Are you ok

    • @charityanyango2742
      @charityanyango2742 Год назад +2

      Mine will be the second and final time. Thank you Jesus. I chanced upon this at a time when i was asking God if i really made a wise decision to come back to him. Three kids two badly broken by his behaviour yet it's just almost a year of reunion.

    • @myrleakolajo5184
      @myrleakolajo5184 Год назад

      @@franceshaggitt3104 yes I am fine, thank you for asking. Just need OUT

    • @thebookofyourlifemotivatio7950
      @thebookofyourlifemotivatio7950 10 месяцев назад

      @@charityanyango2742
      When you come back and it's the same or worse , it's an answer from God to go away.
      Love, May God help you in your journey out and after. God bless your children, they will thank you later.

  • @azike24
    @azike24 Год назад +9

    They are in our churches too as some pastors. When you disagree with them they start fighting you with demonic powers.

    • @thandiwezulu3614
      @thandiwezulu3614 Год назад

      I have personally experienced this...and it can break you to a point of feeling condemned

  • @darkndlovly3
    @darkndlovly3 Год назад +6

    I was with one for four years, and almost married him. Laughed at my pain, threw my past trauma and pain in my face, physically, mentally, and verbally abused me. Thank God for answering my prayers and showing me this person was not for me! Now I’m planning my wedding with a TRUE man of God. Thank you Lord!

  • @zepgirl6495
    @zepgirl6495 Год назад +3

    We will never be enough for a person with an empty soul.

  • @jenifferkinuthia5317
    @jenifferkinuthia5317 Год назад +90

    Thanks Agnes. I have been married to a narcissist man for the last 30 years and it has been nothing but pain. It is like I have been caged. I would come from work late and he would give me a thorough beating, if I happen to go see my mother upcountry he would not allow me to sleep there, if I did he would call my parents to confirm that am there insisting that I talk to him on their phone. If I buy a property he would say it's my boyfriends who bought for me. If I wake up to pray at night he would say there is nowhere in the Bible written that one prays at night. My friends and relatives are not supposed to visit me. He has torchered me physically and emotionally. I hate where he has placed me. I have decided that I want to quit. I could write a whole book of the persecution s I have endured. On part 2 of this topic dwell more on those in marriages for a long time with narcissists. He has made me hate marriage soooooo much.

    • @ndungeuuyuni5117
      @ndungeuuyuni5117 Год назад +7

      I can relate although that seems to be worse...I pray that we will finally overcome sis...they make you feel small yet you are big....it's like you are threat...

    • @moraa5970
      @moraa5970 Год назад +6

      You feel like you are in competition...aaah thank you Holy Spirit. They will never be wrong and will never be sorry

    • @miria659
      @miria659 Год назад +3

      You are even lucky that you have your own money God heal you iv gone through the same bt God of mercy have shown me mercy

    • @tuntufyechamba314
      @tuntufyechamba314 Год назад +7

      My dear your problems same like me but GOD is watching us all the time it's too painful for me l don't know what to do now so GOD help us

    • @catherinewamalwa8264
      @catherinewamalwa8264 Год назад +3

      Ooh sorry my dear fill lived by whatever has a beginning has an end you will never suffer for ever

  • @chelceasurgenor598
    @chelceasurgenor598 Год назад +4

    I'm still with the narc. I'm leaving today. God has made a way for me to leave for good! Praise the Lord! It's made me physically sick! Hormone issues, chronic stress, depression/anxiety, gut issues. I saw the red flags 12 years ago and ignored them. He has tried turning our daughter against me! Please if anyone sees this message, you need to run and run fast before it becomes a crazy addiction! God has been trying to show me for so long but its been so hard for me to leave because I did love him. I've been praying for God to take my love for him away and he has now! Praise the Lord! Please take my advice and run! You will only get sicker and sicker until you want to kill yourself or wither away and die. Thank you for this video! Pray for me and my daughter please. I know as long as I'm trusting God, he will keep us safe. He never admits to anything Even when I had proof! So that starts to make you think your crazy even though you see it with you own eyes. They are so evil! They don't care about you! They really hate you! He also claims to be a Christian and has used the bible against me. He goes to church every Sunday!

  • @L23559
    @L23559 Год назад +17

    So true, I saw the signs all along and was and ignoring them. Thank God for his grace and love; he finally rescued me from a narcissistic!

  • @adejokeokewole698
    @adejokeokewole698 Год назад +2

    This generation is blessed to know these things now. Hallelujah

  • @thelordismyshepherd8728
    @thelordismyshepherd8728 Год назад +5

    Woow. On time. This gives me lot of courage to walk away. I know it is hard but it's worth it..Thank you Lord for this revelation. I need serious prayers.

  • @oliviachivhanganye5721
    @oliviachivhanganye5721 Год назад +15

    I wish I had known this before I got married. Anyway, it was my fault because I didn't ask God for wisdom. The red flags were there, but I.was so blinded. Now, 30 years later, my eyes are opened. That's a lifetime, gone. Thank you for sharing and may people be aware of narcissists before they get married. God bless you. This has been helpful and I want to pass on this message to my daughters and loved ones.

    • @aposel5876
      @aposel5876 Год назад

      Thanks so much dia,am blessed with this message. God bless you mighty

    • @thebestindewest
      @thebestindewest Год назад +4

      The Lord promises to restore what the cankerworm has eaten-Joel 2

    • @rosemondepeitz603
      @rosemondepeitz603 5 месяцев назад

      Dont worry God is in control. I have exactly same situation and married 30yrs too. He will do it far more than we think he can do.😊

  • @julietgenius4946
    @julietgenius4946 Год назад +7

    I bless God , I thought I was wrong to come out of that relationship but it was God, he was always emotionally absent but always wants attention unnecessarily, thank you Jesus and you sister for highlighting this🙏

  • @clemmykando1436
    @clemmykando1436 Год назад +10

    U r r so right sis....I hve ended such a relationship 3 years ago , now I leave a happy life without being accused all the time....Thnx to my Almighty God who gave me the strength to move out 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @faridahuragiwe834
    @faridahuragiwe834 Год назад +13

    Thank you for this topic. I also had a narcissist boyfriend and I really wouldn't see how toxic he was. I thought I would adapt to his behaviors, I thought it wasn't fair for me to leave him. The only time I was happy with him was the first month when we started dating and after that, it was only pain. We could break up and before I got over it, he came back to me whith a bunch of lies and I thought he loved me.
    All along, I thought he was single yet he had someone and I found out that when I went to see him and it was just a day after he had done his traditional wedding and a church wedding coming next in two weeks time. I was broken 💔 but I thank God that that relationship actually didn't work out. God was there for me and I finally healed.
    Later on God gave me a good man and I can't thank Him enough.

  • @charmainvandijk3543
    @charmainvandijk3543 Год назад +13

    I can identify with every word coming out of your mouth Mumbi this exactly explains what happened to me. I left my narcissistic husband after 42 years with only my personal effects, my name blackened, my entire life shattered as I stood alone without support from my children. Praise to the Lord who is carrying me through! This truth you are sharing needs to be heard. Christians are sometimes not aware of this kind of evil that does exist in more ways than one can imagine. Bless you for sharing.

  • @racheledwardstarawalie3060
    @racheledwardstarawalie3060 Год назад +21

    God We're here together as one ! We're greatful for saving us from thé evil of this world. Thank you so much sister Agnès for reminding and guiding us... of

    • @nellyrichy
      @nellyrichy Год назад

      Amen ,thank you be blessed

  • @ruthmaina5275
    @ruthmaina5275 Год назад +15

    Thank you sister Agnes for this topic, it's true most of our marriages are wrong and full of pain for many years may the spirit of God show us the way out in Jesus name before we think of quiting after putting in so many years in these marriages. Dear God please we cry for your help.

  • @pnew2565
    @pnew2565 Год назад +15

    Thank you for highlighting this - this applies to family members too - not just partners.

  • @veranyambori1729
    @veranyambori1729 Год назад +4

    So much wisdom. There are married people who been hurt emotionally and physically and some even killed since they ignored narcissists.
    Sometimes people should even leave marriages with a narcissistic partner

  • @jupiterj6913
    @jupiterj6913 Год назад +8

    God bless you sis! You hit so many points! I dated one. Their level of ‘woe is me’ is out of this point, also it takes a really long time to realize you’re being used if you’re not aware of what’s going on!

  • @getrudezitha6683
    @getrudezitha6683 Год назад +10

    Wow, I was accused after I've found that my husband is lying to me. The whole family turned against me, was accused and the relationship nearly destroyed.
    I thank God for His mercy and wisdom that I now know how to associate and leave with them. With God upon my life, I'm more than a conquerer.
    Thanks sister for this video

  • @DestinyUnleashed
    @DestinyUnleashed Год назад +1

    This is so true. Especially the fact that they are in pain themselves. The enemy is using them.

  • @sibahlezulu4306
    @sibahlezulu4306 Год назад +51

    Such a profound and crucial topic... So spot on Mam Agnes. I don't even know where to start there's so much to be said about 'narcissists'. Most important is to be aware of how we feel when around certain people. Most times you would tell that something is off about that certain person, especially narcissists. The big favour you can do for yourself is to never ignore that feeling because you will then overlook every other red flag. The signs mentioned are spot on. At the very beginning, they appear so angelic you would be so sure you are soulmates. They bombard you with compliments, buy you a lot of gifts basically worship the ground you walk on, this is called "love bombing". They (appear to) understand you and your struggles, and they 'support you', in fact, they are going through the same challenges you are going through, and oh, even like the same music you do, "wow", soulmates right? No, they are "mirroring you" pretending to understand every bit about you, this is to just make you fall for them... and they make sure they move so fast that you don't have time to process anything, then you get caught like that. Then once they have you, the mask starts to fall off, and by that time you might be married, when you start to see the monster you've never seen before then all hell breaks loose. You'll end up not recognising yourself, not trusting your thoughts and things you actually can see with your eyes because you're being manipulated or "gaslighted"... I can go on all day. Really, the only way is to not be near these people, the same rule may not apply to everyone though. God will lead and guide you into what to do, specific to you.

  • @ruthmulenga8000
    @ruthmulenga8000 Год назад +11

    Thank you sis Agnes for this powerful message let God exposed any hidden situation in our family and spouses in jesus name God bless you🙏

  • @liliankimani1508
    @liliankimani1508 Год назад +4

    Thanks so much for sharing sis Agnes...i can testify what you are saying is absolutely 💯 true because i was a victim for 19yrs...but we separated last year with kind of a Narcissist man...am in a process of healing from toxins and abusive kind of marriage. Those guys have sold their soul to the devil

  • @otobongjonah925
    @otobongjonah925 Год назад +4

    God actually delivered me from such a relationship. It was 8years of pain

  • @sarahturay5281
    @sarahturay5281 Год назад +3

    Thank you Lord for taking me away from a narcissist relationship 🙏🙏🙏

  • @marinadeanna
    @marinadeanna Год назад +5

    i am currently going through a lot of war fare with my narcissistic mom & ex / my sons dad..… thank you for reminding me that God will give me and my son a powerful testimonies…

  • @lucymuhoro2194
    @lucymuhoro2194 Год назад +1

    The whole message is total truth.
    Though with great pain, persistence in prayer and counsel from the Holy Spirit, God is able to intervene

  • @JudionSmith
    @JudionSmith Год назад +8

    Thank you my sister in Christ. Ten months in and I walked away from a person I strongly believed to be a narcissist. He was egoistic and arrogant. So full of himself. I thought I found the one for me because he was a 'Christian' and very ambitious. Something I have always wanted. After 4 months things shifted. I was accused countless of times and he attempted to control and manipulate me. When we started dating I had a dream that I wanted to walk away and he wouldn't let me. I didn't see how that would be possible because what we had was so amazing (so I thought). He love-bombed me. Said all the nice things. Only to turn around and tried to emotionally abused me. Had I not know who I was he would have damaged my self-esteem. In the end walking away was so hard. He wouldn't let me go. He asked for all his money back that he spent on me. Absolutely ridiculous. It was my worst experience to date. I thank God for healing and deliverance.

  • @roketaraiford7990
    @roketaraiford7990 Год назад +4

    This was so good! Thank you. In the process of divorcing my narcissistic husband of 15yrs. I know this is not what God wants for my life. They don’t change. Only God can change them. Until then, I need to work on me.

  • @aaliyahthepainter27
    @aaliyahthepainter27 Год назад +5

    I knew I shouldn’t have married my husband… I ignored all the red flags … I asked for signs and He showed me every reason why not to Mary him …but ofcourse we always find someway in our hearts to stay…. Jesus even came to me in a dream and asked me why did I married him I’ll never forget😮‍💨😔

  • @lizzychauke7736
    @lizzychauke7736 Год назад +5

    Amen, the message my ear wanted to hear, thank you Lord 🙏🙏

  • @janefentaman9723
    @janefentaman9723 Год назад +6

    So true my sister. Thank you for your obedience in sharing. Single women I pray that God opens your eyes and ears. Matthew 11:15 He who has ears let him hear.
    Please listen to what our sister has shared it’s of utmost importance. I was in a relationship of this kind for 10 years. What my sister has shared is spot on. To God be
    the glory, thank you. I am always blessed, encouraged, empowered and uplifting by your words. God bless you 🙏🏾

  • @turquoiseashley8526
    @turquoiseashley8526 Год назад +4

    Thank you for this! An on time word 🙏🏽

  • @FiFie_Bakes-Decors
    @FiFie_Bakes-Decors Год назад +12

    Oh my God what a message for me... God has spoken.. thank you so very much sister Aggie... Iam blessed🙏😔

  • @kondwanimbuzi5431
    @kondwanimbuzi5431 Год назад +1

    Serious Message for Christians. We are blessed to have this message. The topic of narcissism is not taught in churches.

  • @janekartak8503
    @janekartak8503 Год назад +2

    Thank you for These message i forwarded to my daughter my Son inlaw is exactly how woman of God explained .my daughter had a thought of commiting suicide she ha three kinds .my daughter is IT technician but she is now an acoholic please pray for her.

  • @AM-sz6lu
    @AM-sz6lu Год назад +5

    Thank you sister Agnes for the eye opener. I thank God for rescuing me from this kind of relationship.
    I am now free.

  • @cosmasnzioka7036
    @cosmasnzioka7036 Год назад +12

    Well said ! The truth that sets free indeed. This is such an eye opener. This is exposing how the enemy creeps into lives of innocent children of God to make their lives a living hell and to push them away from God and Christ Jesus. Thanks alot Agnes for exposing this trap of the enemy. God is using you in a mighty was to bring his protection to His children. I give God and Christ Jesus all the Glory for this.

  • @priscasibanda3515
    @priscasibanda3515 Год назад +2

    Very true Sister Agnes this thing is happening to so many relationships,thank you for opening our eyes.

  • @susansookdeo8041
    @susansookdeo8041 Год назад +1

    Hello my dear sister I have with dealing this behavior for many years over 25 years now .but I have been getting videos how to deal with it .but I believe God will deliver us from these demons . thank you and God bless. Caledon Canada 🍁

  • @DianaWARINGA
    @DianaWARINGA Год назад +10

    omg, my grandmother is like this, she is never wrong. she has really caused so many issues in her own family( shehas really frustrated her children and their families.) This video has opened my eyes that With God all things will be perfect

  • @robertphiri7546
    @robertphiri7546 Год назад +4

    Aggie , this video is one of the best of your videos I've ever watched . God is really using you nightly. Keep it up.

  • @kellyk5777
    @kellyk5777 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for this wonderful message.
    God Bless You.🙏🏽

  • @bangoxx
    @bangoxx Год назад +1

    I’m so thankful I came across this channel. This is the best explanation I have heard to date. Every woman should listen to this message, it will save you from the bondage I found myself in. God bless you, and thank you.

  • @andreagallardo9868
    @andreagallardo9868 Год назад +3

    Thank you Sis Agnes, this message is so powerful. Surprisingly there are others in this category.
    A very powerful message.
    Thanks to all who have commented.

  • @brehn03
    @brehn03 Год назад +3

    Glory be to God. Wow! Narcissistic husband, mother, father and siblings. May God touch their lives to love and not to manipulate. God bless you woman of God for this teaching. Thank you for the counsel. Much love❤

  • @rhouzelandmoss561
    @rhouzelandmoss561 Год назад

    Thank God for this message sister Agnes

  • @squeakie45
    @squeakie45 Год назад +1

    What a POWERFUL message! 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️

  • @adongosheila9215
    @adongosheila9215 Год назад +5

    Yes,I have been in such a relationship. With very deep wounds.What the woman of God is saying is true👍 .Run away from people who have no empathy

    • @joychin-fx6sh
      @joychin-fx6sh Год назад +1

      I am trying to get out of this relationship and thinking about them. Please pray for me. I need God's help in the name of Jesus

  • @pauline2604
    @pauline2604 Год назад +4

    When I found this channel I was Soo down, doubted myself, was slowly sinking into depression....... This far I say it's God. When you stay woke spiritually God Will always Show you The trap they've set for you.

  • @sueayres494
    @sueayres494 Год назад

    Clear, concise, calm and soothing.

  • @rosebosibori6839
    @rosebosibori6839 Год назад

    I thanks God for landing on this channel.have learnt alot.glory to GOD

  • @nicolecrichard72
    @nicolecrichard72 Год назад +3

    It's 😒draining just to hear someone talk about their behaviors. Feels like waddling around in misery, refusing to OBEY🙏🏾🕊️🌿 INSTRUCTIONS from GOD FOR SAFETY. Agnes you addressed this topic well as you ALWAYS DO!

  • @veronicaveamatahau179
    @veronicaveamatahau179 Год назад +16

    Thank you sister for the message. I have been in marriage for 18 years and everything you share happened in my marriagr and even my ex husband tried his best to turn our children agaunst me but God didnt let it happen. I have divorced him and I have the children. Thank God for releasing me frim this marriage.

    • @ednahchirchir1924
      @ednahchirchir1924 Год назад +4

      This is real. They manipulate people to hate you yet they are the cause of your pain

    • @rrscotts4894
      @rrscotts4894 Год назад

      Praise the LORD!!!

    • @smoothiecutie2277
      @smoothiecutie2277 Год назад

      Praise God🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍

  • @elizabethbanda3545
    @elizabethbanda3545 Год назад +1

    Well teachable, it's happening in our families.

  • @medisterbbenkele4811
    @medisterbbenkele4811 Год назад +2

    Wow what a message for me,thanks my sister

  • @awoedith9751
    @awoedith9751 Год назад +3

    Listening to u is so refreshing. Thanx for sharing. Lord let your favor be our portion in Jesus name 🙌

  • @zibiemotshabi646
    @zibiemotshabi646 Год назад +4

    Thank you Sis Agnes for this message. I suffered emotionally from a narcissist. He took my peace and he affected me mentally to an extent that i ended up seeking psychological help.

  • @princesspretorius9322
    @princesspretorius9322 Год назад

    Thank you Agnes for the powerful teaching God bless you abundantly for opening our eyes

  • @stefanieschmidt5187
    @stefanieschmidt5187 Год назад

    Very important topic and so up today because there are more and more of this tipe of people. thank you very much for your input 🙏

  • @pinky4636
    @pinky4636 Год назад +21

    May we also not be narcissists in our relationships. We sometimes feel like we're being robbed or controlled yet we're also the one's behaving like that. Thank u for this message. May the grace of God be with us all🙏

    • @theanswersisinsideu
      @theanswersisinsideu Год назад +3

      That’s what the narcissistic will
      Have you feeling😂 like you need to question your own integrity

    • @mologadi-acceptedinthebelo2923
      @mologadi-acceptedinthebelo2923 Год назад +1

      Narcissist will make you believe what you just said my darling

    • @mafoua
      @mafoua Год назад

      That’s what a narcissist would say dear

  • @chiangongceciliangum1918
    @chiangongceciliangum1918 Год назад +53

    Oh la la la , I CANNOT thank you enough sister Agnes for thus wonderful message. All what you have said is very true. It's an eye opener or a reminder.
    I will share this video all over the world. People are suffering in silence while the devil is taking advantage to destroy others. May our God inspire you more in Jesus' Holy Name Amen . OUR GOD LIVES

  • @geraldanthonchuwa3068
    @geraldanthonchuwa3068 Год назад +1

    May God continue to enlighten you it is now two years watching your teachings which have changed my life physically and emotionaly thank you

  • @isdorelinda1461
    @isdorelinda1461 Год назад

    Thank you sister Agnes, I think it's the spirit talking to me through you. May God give us the grace to see us through these narcissist

  • @ndyndy2785
    @ndyndy2785 Год назад +7

    Amen sis Agnes our relationships affects our spiritual life and prayer life.

    • @trezahamboozi9215
      @trezahamboozi9215 Год назад

      Thanks for this message Agnes it's really helpful to me

  • @karenn5597
    @karenn5597 Год назад +3

    I ended a relationship with a narcissist and it was difficult to get away. I prayed for four months for God to help me end it and He made a way. After one month of being away from the narcissist, I have more peace, my happiness is returning and I’m starting to get my energy back. I was fooled, but God showed me this person just in time. I will always thank God. Amen

  • @lohhygga3656
    @lohhygga3656 Год назад

    This message is for me sister.
    Thank you very much, God bless you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @liz9664
    @liz9664 Год назад +2

    All glory to God. 🙌🏻
    I thank God for directing me to your channel. 🙏🏻

  • @RLT89
    @RLT89 Год назад +8

    You couldn't have told me God didn't send her when we 1st met. Overlooked so many red flags you'd thought i was Stevie wonder 😂 I thank God daily for getting me out of that relationship because i was too weak to leave. Last 4 of the 5 years i was confused, depressed and defeated felt like i didn't wanna be here anymore. In the end i learned i had some narcissistic ways also myself. Glory be to God for delivering me from that too 🙌🏾

  • @joankakokota7464
    @joankakokota7464 Год назад +3

    I can relate very well and before I watched this,I put up a status about how manipulation can cause you to miss God’s promises for you, not knowing Aunty Agness was going to talk about it today, lord am grateful 🙏🏼

  • @busingyevangilister5594
    @busingyevangilister5594 Год назад +1

    Thank you sister Agnes for this conversation.👏👏🙏

  • @Suzy-Nzi
    @Suzy-Nzi Год назад

    Thank you for the word. This is so true

  • @zepgirl6495
    @zepgirl6495 Год назад +7

    Thank you for your encouragement! I am finding peace and healing in God's Word and the love of Jesus. I made an exit this past January, from a malignant narcissist, who threatened my life on Dec 8th. God made a way for me to find a new home and with help from wonderful friends, I left him without his knowledge of my move. He returned the next day to find an empty house. Praise be to God!!

    • @thebestindewest
      @thebestindewest Год назад

      Thank God you made it....a ministry is born out of this...looking forward to seeing great things#goforwardijn

    • @charityanyango2742
      @charityanyango2742 Год назад

      Mine threatens me to leave everyday. Says we're just housemates. Forced me to sllep in the girls' bedroom. Poursvwater on me when am in bed and hurls abuses at me morning before he leaves and at night when he comes back. He's tried beating mevup severally and three days ago only succeeded in kicking my face because the wall of firevthat i commanded around me keeps him at bay. Am done. Second time happeningvis once too many. A man who abuses his own children wkth the very same abuses he uses on you.

  • @Petrovakami
    @Petrovakami Год назад +3

    Very helpful and insightful, thank you! I wish I had realized those truths earlier. I'm in divorce now with a psychopatic narcissist, was through physical abuse and emotional abuse. Those people try to destroy your identity, it's an attack against who you are. That's mean and evil. God calls us His children, those people put us down deep, destroying our will, confidence, causing confusion, exhaustion and hopelessness. Run for your life! Protect yourselves from having children with those people. All they do is to use them, to manipulate them, to destroy them. They have no mercy to their own children! In God I trust to save me and my daugther!

    • @charityanyango2742
      @charityanyango2742 Год назад

      This is what he's done and stii doing to ours. They have rejected him because of this.

    • @TravelatorH8r
      @TravelatorH8r Год назад

      I'm very sorry I spent 20 years with a girl who didn't love me and didn't see it cuz I was taught that to be a guy it's just good enough if somebody doesn't reject you but enough about me uses his own learning experience to teach your children the only give value to people in their lives that truly love them back and have their best interest in mind and also to forgive those who can't love others because they are hurting inside as well I'm not religious but I am deeply empathic and love everyone through recognizing the faults in myself and being able to see them in other people even if they hide it

  • @veronicanghihalwa
    @veronicanghihalwa Год назад

    God bless you for this message. To God be the Glory. 👏🏼🙏🏽

  • @mildredarmstrong9646
    @mildredarmstrong9646 Год назад +2

    My God you are Amazing you know your stuff 🙏🤗❣️ Thank God for You helping People I was Married to a Narcissist Back in the 70s He almost destroyed me and now Another family Member 🙏🙏 God has covered me all these Years I am so Grateful to God for Protecting me all these Years💔🙏

  • @winninduts796
    @winninduts796 Год назад +7

    I am two months out of such a relationship. Classic narcissist. He drained me completely. No church, no prayer, no talking to friends, etc. I got distanced even from my children, sisters and relatives. He drained me out spiritually, emotionally, physically and financially. God helped me out. All you have said is true. Do not ignore those red flags.

    • @ImmaculateInspired
      @ImmaculateInspired Год назад +3

      God is with you and always faithful

    • @charityanyango2742
      @charityanyango2742 Год назад +1

      Same! You cannot even worship! I sleep with earphoes on every single night yet we dont even share bedroom..

  • @jAm00217
    @jAm00217 Год назад +3

    When I met him , I was lost, lost. Everything you described happened to me and more…. But Jesus!!!! ❤

  • @christinelukelesia3971
    @christinelukelesia3971 Год назад +1

    Point taken sister Agnes be blessed the message is very much powerful

  • @cathrynmwerere8044
    @cathrynmwerere8044 Год назад +2

    Dear Sister Agnes, thank you so much for this message.... It wouldn't have come at a better time..... God is faithful, God is alive and God is on my side.....
    May this ministry grow in lips and bounds....