How To Fix Yourself | 12 Rules For Life by Jordan Peterson Explained

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  • @meesamz7919
    @meesamz7919 Год назад +311

    you know your leveling up when hamza tells you to do something you already do

    • @jytvreal
      @jytvreal Год назад

      Jordan peterson is a zionist sell out

    • @vonstroheimbestwaifu838
      @vonstroheimbestwaifu838 Год назад +3

      Yeah sure but I know you can do better meesamz (honestly)

    • @meesamz7919
      @meesamz7919 Год назад +5

      @@vonstroheimbestwaifu838 of course

    • @vonstroheimbestwaifu838
      @vonstroheimbestwaifu838 Год назад +5

      @@meesamz7919 I am glad you deserve your pfp bro . I ,Von Stroheim hope the best for you

    • @player111q7
      @player111q7 Год назад +1

      @@vonstroheimbestwaifu838 Chad pfp

  • @alexanderthegreatest_
    @alexanderthegreatest_ Год назад +495

    Hamza make a video on how to cut off toxic friends . Or if anyone is reading this comment I would appreciate some advice on how to cut a friend off .

    • @kapurants
      @kapurants Год назад +7

      Break his knees then he cant follow you around.

    • @aiden1367
      @aiden1367 Год назад +59

      You can tell them straight up how you feel and then stop talking to them. Blunt but gets the job done. You can be mindful on what kinda drama they might create or not give af

    • @Zako56.
      @Zako56. Год назад +5

      Please hamza

    • @Sportznba
      @Sportznba Год назад +14

      W video idea

    • @lsk8345
      @lsk8345 Год назад +11

      i think he made one about cutting out toxic people from your life already

  • @bulletgamer521
    @bulletgamer521 Год назад +546

    As someone who is financially unstable and can't even afford a book. Thank you. Thank you Hamza, you have no idea how much you are improving this world day by day.

    • @Camus318
      @Camus318 Год назад +42

      this book is uploaded as a free pdf on academia

    • @bulletgamer521
      @bulletgamer521 Год назад +38

      @@Camus318 thank you so much, I will definitely check it out

    • @SmellyNutz
      @SmellyNutz Год назад +7

      I hope youll recover, brah!

    • @xprnmz8263
      @xprnmz8263 Год назад +1

      @@Camus318 can you send the link?

    • @glacier_10_years_ago
      @glacier_10_years_ago Год назад +4

      @@bulletgamer521 there are infinite audio books in youtube and 12 rules for life is one of themet

  • @amin_dhou
    @amin_dhou Год назад +1352

    I love these book summaries and I hope more of them could be made in the near future to encourage more people to get into reading books!

    • @solxris6833
      @solxris6833 Год назад +12

      I love these because you have the value of the book + the value of hamza's stories which helps you understand the points made in the book even better

    • @parkersmith8997
      @parkersmith8997 Год назад +2

      I agree I want more of these

    • @K-Rehan.
      @K-Rehan. Год назад

      Same Thoughts

    • @gibrilsi
      @gibrilsi Год назад +1

      YEah I was thinking of just reading a book for a video to hopefully cultivate others to read too!

    • @baller8370
      @baller8370 Год назад

      same

  • @johnoliver9123
    @johnoliver9123 Год назад +72

    When Hamza is talking about discipline, we see his physic. When Jordan talks about discipline, we see his ability to debate, entertain and his speaking skills.
    This is it.

  • @Kishu6969
    @Kishu6969 Год назад +97

    1. Maintain a Good Body Posture.
    2. Treat yourself like someone you're responsible for helping.
    3. Make friends with people who want the best for you.
    4. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday.
    5. Don't let your children do anything (that makes you dislike them.)
    6. Set your house in perfect order (beofre you critisize the world).
    7. Pursue what is meaningful (not what is expedient).
    8. Tell the truth (or atleast don't lie).
    9. Assume that the person you're listening to knows something you don't.
    10. Be precise in your speech.
    11. Do not bother children when they are skateboarding. (Let them experiment and experience themselves)
    12. Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street. (Grab the opportunity to experience some pleasentness)

    • @syressx9098
      @syressx9098 Год назад

      Ty man! Need it for my notes

    • @patriotenfield3276
      @patriotenfield3276 Год назад

      about 12) is that you don't pet a cat. the cat pets you.

  • @atpeacewithmusic
    @atpeacewithmusic Год назад +319

    You're like a big brother to me Hamza, I'm very grateful for you.

  • @4m4r75
    @4m4r75 Год назад +219

    I love the second point. Treating yourself like someone you like. Don't feel sorry for yourself and actually see your potential. My body hardely even changed since I started self improvement but my confidence sky rocketed. I used to feel sorry for being me and now I go out and feel bad that other people can't be as fortunate as me to be so grounded with myself.

    • @axel-sior
      @axel-sior Год назад

      you're a goat, keep it up

    • @BeweNNN
      @BeweNNN Год назад +3

      I agree. Hamza covered it a few days ago in his unfiltered channel and a lot of people said that this is probably one of the most important advice in self improvement. I’m glad he finally talks about it in the main channel.

    • @looooonooooooooooooooooooooong
      @looooonooooooooooooooooooooong Год назад

      For sure if you have a intresting personality and charisma. But you cant be yourself if you are one of those boring ass dudes who has nothing funny to say

    • @4m4r75
      @4m4r75 Год назад

      @@looooonooooooooooooooooooooong my entire 4 years of highschool I was a outcast that was an invisible person for so long. And this killed my self confidence and self image and made me hate myself because I thought I was different from everyone. I hated myself so much I started going out at 3am to hurt people because I was that bad of a person. I'm not perfect now but I'm getting better. I'm being generous to people not looking for a thank you but secretly trying to forgive myself for the things I did but I can't change the past so all I can do is change my present self.

    • @4m4r75
      @4m4r75 Год назад

      @@looooonooooooooooooooooooooong and I love how you don't want to respond to me because I actually made it out and love myself more from self improvement. If you keep acting this way and thinking this shit is cringe you're gonna end up hating yourself your whole life.

  • @reme1901
    @reme1901 Год назад +21

    To anyone in a dark hole,
    All it takes is one small change to get your momentum going. The hardest part is starting and sticking with it for a good two weeks. If you can push through your life will transform drastically. I used to be 300 pounds, obese and diagnosed with diabetes. I started eating healthy and working out everyday for a year straight. I sacrificed a lot of friendships for this but I lost 120 pounds and I have the abs I used to always think I would never get. After the lockdowns, I digressed back to my fat lazy self. In the last two months, I’ve lost all the weight I’ve gained and I’m back to being disciplined in every area of my life. If you stay consistent and disciplined in any area of your life you will end up succeeding. Talk to strangers, treat them with kindness, and genuinely develop an interest in others. Your social skills will blossom like crazy and you’ll be surprised that having a normal conversation with a girl will lead to her being interested in you. Be assertive in all areas of your life and constantly evaluate your failures. The worst thing you can do is give in to the limited beliefs you have about yourself.
    Sincerely,
    Someone who was stuck in a dark hole twice and made it out

    • @Captaintaliban
      @Captaintaliban Год назад +2

      Good story inspirational

    • @reme1901
      @reme1901 Год назад +1

      @@Captaintaliban thanks bro we stay grinding 💪

    • @nickxvalentin
      @nickxvalentin Год назад

      @@reme1901 this is gold!

    • @cravenpeak12
      @cravenpeak12 Год назад

      Thank you I needed this

  • @slaughter7
    @slaughter7 Год назад +67

    Rule #9 is one of my favorites, because even if the other person can't offer you actual knowledge, they can still offer something.
    If you're talking to someone you consider to be a degenerate, and you know this for sure, then analyze them and try and understand why they are that way.

  • @purpledrakon1307
    @purpledrakon1307 Год назад +4

    "Who you were is dead. What your 'identity' is doesn't matter. Become who you want to be"

  • @haxmalper3633
    @haxmalper3633 Год назад +1

    I recently found this book on my bookshelf and started reading it out of boredom. Only a few days later Hamza releases this video.

  • @wiserguest1238
    @wiserguest1238 Год назад +17

    About rule 11, I've been trying to find a gym near my school or house, and my mom has been "helping" me.
    I was thinking about asking for my parents to sign me up and pay the first monthly payment as my Christmas gift.
    At first I found one about 10 minutes walking from my school, it looked nice and had good reviews. Later I found out it was for 16+ only, I'm 14 nearly 15.
    Now I found a new one near my house, and I'm allowed to sign up, even being only 14. My mom came along and is now demanding to alter my workout routine. I workout multiple times a week, on mondays I have swimming lessons, on tuesdays I have Push Day and cardio, on wednesdays I have Leg Day, on thursday I have pull day, on friday I have swimming lessons again, and on saturdays I do cardio, on sundays I just go to church and do whatever. My mom said that she wouldn't sign me up in the gym unless I only worked out twice a week, so basically giving up on half of my routine. She also demanded that I have a personal trainer who will be always looking at what I'm doing and orientating me. I have been doing calisthenics for over a year now, I am the best at P.E. in my class, and I've been looking into weightlifting, having studied the subject quite vigorously. When I asked her why I couldn't just keep working out as much as I do now if I joined the gym, she replied with "Because I don't want you to get too big, you're already slim and muscular enough", she then asked me to show her what kind of physique I wanted to build, I searched "calisthenics" on google and clicked on images, she said "Noo! That's too muscular, that's just creepy and threatening". What the hell am I supposed to do? I am actually considering telling her that I don't want to join the gym then and just ask for a pair of dumbells for Christmas.

    • @MrLorenzoriz
      @MrLorenzoriz Год назад +1

      Hey young bro, first of all congrats for your determination in training and cultivating your physique and strength, you're on the right track! It seems like you have a controlling mother, and it's normal on her part since you were a kid up until yesterday in her eyes, but what does your father have to say/would say? In my opinion you should try and talk to her, show your motivation and make her understand that you have your own goals and identity, that she can't decide who you're gonna become on your behalf.. you are free to become whoever you want, and if you wanna get jacked you should have the right to do so (safely and progressively over time obviously). I bet she is worried because you have a lot boiling on your plate, and you should still save time and energies for studying and reading/relaxing/socializing as well. I can also understand the requirement of a personal trainer, since in the gym it is very important to learn how to train and how to use the equipment in the right way, especially in the beginning in order not to build wrong habits. Maybe you could try and reach an agreement with her, you could start going to the gym twice a week with a trainer while still swimming, and than ramp up from there over time! In any case talking openly is the best way to deal with disagreements! Try to understand her perspective/worries and make yourself be understood!

    • @jytvreal
      @jytvreal Год назад

      Jordan peterson is a zionist sell out

    • @wiserguest1238
      @wiserguest1238 Год назад

      @@MrLorenzoriz Talking with her is hardly a choice being that I've already tried doing so and she started screaming at me. But I am not going to slow down my progress even if that means keep running in the woods while she isn't home for cardio, learning survival techniques while doing so, and using a bag with all the books I have to simulate dumbells. About my dad's opinion, he agreed with my mother about the personal trainer but had a different idea in mind. He meant personal trainer, as in someone who will let me know when I'm doing half reps and have bad form, and spot me for example, and someone who I can ask how to do certain exercises for example. I also asked him about the 2 times a week thing, and he agreed with me, saying that if I've been doing that routine consistently, he had no problem with me going to the gym as much times as I wanted. In the gym I found recently, there is always atleast 1 staff member walking around, who I can ask for help and even ask him/her to spot me if needed. My mom doesn't appear to understand the level that I've been operating on for the last 2 months however and wants to treat me like a newbie.

    • @kevinsaysyuh
      @kevinsaysyuh Год назад +1

      @@wiserguest1238 Just wait until you are 16, for now just do calisthenics and become a beast that way, if you have an aunt, uncle, or someone who is an adult, ask them to make you a gym membership or to use their current one or just go with them.
      Be creative in adding weight to your workouts with calisthenics, use a backpack and books, add rocks, you'll figure it out bro.
      I did that for a whole year or 2

    • @wiserguest1238
      @wiserguest1238 Год назад +1

      @@kevinsaysyuh I can join the gym already, problem is getting the membership itself.

  • @sofimcorrea
    @sofimcorrea Год назад +23

    I read this book on December of last year and decided that for 2022 I would focus solely on one rule per month (January - stand up straight... etc). I think it's a great way of implementing every rule and actually making it a habit. Thanks for the video Hamza, regards from Spain

    • @therichbuddha3277
      @therichbuddha3277 Год назад +1

      That's a great idea and plan!!

    • @jytvreal
      @jytvreal Год назад

      Jordan peterson is a zionist sell out

    • @user-ce1iw3bc4w
      @user-ce1iw3bc4w Год назад

      How much did you change? How much improved yourself?

  • @ganges2264
    @ganges2264 Год назад +2

    Hamza has just arrived at dubai and already the first thing he's doing is work. You're the best leader of this generation fr

  • @callumpower2k23
    @callumpower2k23 Год назад +14

    When I was in uni aged 20 I had had very similar experiences to yours at the time (I am also 25 now), I stayed in doing a lot of bad habits and I was letting let my life fall to bits. Reading 12 rules for life was the one of the first things that made me realize I could take responsibilty for myself, and not only that, but that it was neccesary.
    So glad to hear you speak about this book. So refreshing to be hearing your own perspective on it. Keep up the good work 👊

    • @gui.aesthetics.santos
      @gui.aesthetics.santos Год назад

      this is very relatable, this made my day, finding people with the same ideas always motivates me.
      I think you will like my channel I started self-improvement and
      I made my first youtube video a couple of days ago and also posted a video today
      I need some advice maybe if you watched it would help me a lot and i am also gonna post today a video on how to change your life.

  • @db2ez
    @db2ez Год назад +6

    Hamza always be spitting facts and then randomly follows it up with the most outta pocket statement ever 😂😂

  • @MagniTude324
    @MagniTude324 Год назад +13

    I haven’t read the book. And point number 2 is something I learned literally 2 weeks ago. I talk to my inner self like a little brother. It’s helped me tremendously

    • @mu2137
      @mu2137 Год назад +1

      Bra, I almost teared up like a little girl, we were just too hard on ourselves to the point of breaking ourselves down without building ourselves up

    • @jytvreal
      @jytvreal Год назад

      Jordan peterson is a zionist sell out

  • @felixk9124
    @felixk9124 Год назад +12

    I have the book myself. And just stopped and rule 3 to read it. Through your video I started again to read it. Thanks

  • @mehditate
    @mehditate Год назад +1

    This is my testimony. Jordan has literally changed my life. I'm 28 and life hit me pretty hard. I'm actually coming up with a resource that helped me become the man I am today. I used to live in Miami around street violence, I used to eat $3 a day, 25 cents noodles, expired toast and canned campbell tomato soup. I survived the Boston Marathon Bombing which was a few feet away and I saw all the blood the people screaming and I was alone at 18. I also used to live in a room with no kitchen, trash bag as a window and bugs crawling on me at night. I also took boxing to protect myself and learned how to defend against bigger threats. Now I live in a cabin in the north of Sweden where I go down to a lake to breathe and heal my past and I post on RUclips to help others who need it the most.

  • @lesterbrothers2878
    @lesterbrothers2878 Год назад +7

    What I love about these comment sections is that it’s literally just wholesome people with the same problems trying to help each other and no only in ohios or some shit like that.

  • @PrimsJournal
    @PrimsJournal Год назад +4

    You dont know how much uve helped me with my self journey Hamza! Reppin from Philippines 🇵🇭

  • @FRON.
    @FRON. Год назад +1

    Bro seriously you teaches me more than my parents do in my whole 19 yrs life.THANKS.

  • @jalen2141
    @jalen2141 Год назад

    Had the opportunity to see Jordan Peterson over the weekend in Melbourne. Very well spoken and inspiring to see in person, everyone here should hopefully have the same opportunity to see him in person and read his books.

  • @biscuittownd65
    @biscuittownd65 Год назад +3

    “The beliefs that you have about yourself, largely make up your life” - Hamza
    Damn, that quote really hit me. As a person who actually read Jordan Peterson’s “12 Rules for Life” book back in 2020 at 18 years old, I still was living a lie. Even though I was born with a pretty rare heart condition (HLHS), I always grew up liking history more than science, even though I got good grades in both. It caused me to major in political science my first year of university because I always told myself “I don’t like science that much.” After taking some political science classes my freshman year, and realizing I didn’t want to go to law school, I decided to become honest with myself.
    I began to realize that, throughout my whole 20 years of life, every time I was in the hospital for any surgery / procedure for my heart, I always loved, and still love, talking to the nurses, doctors, cardiologists, etc. and noticed that I would love to have the job they do. I changed my degree around three months ago from Political Science to Nursing and hope to become a Pediatric Cardiac ICU Nurse.
    I have also already been volunteering at my local hospital just for fun and I already love it way more than a paid job I had in high school as a cashier.
    Nursing school might be hard, but when I was completely honest with myself, I realize…
    ITS WORTH THE SACRIFICE!

  • @vojvodavukderaltejugoslave8161
    @vojvodavukderaltejugoslave8161 Год назад +9

    Read Peterson's book this summer and have been trying to implement his advice as much as I possibly can. Dr. Peterson is one of the people who changed my life for the better so much, along with Hamza and some self improvement authors. I'm really grateful for them to stand up for men regardless of the backlash. God bless y'all ❤

  • @tanishqbhanwala4841
    @tanishqbhanwala4841 Год назад +1

    that "chalo theek hai " stole my heart

  • @khyzer7865
    @khyzer7865 Год назад +6

    I've noticed some of the stuff mentioned in this video and feel abit proud about myself as I was able to figure out some of these things before clicking onto this video. Like the point about really listening in a conversation instead of interrupting and judging making people feel unable to open up as they may feel hate, guilt and alienated by a negative response . Another one of the points included being transparent with yourself. This is powerful as it links with the idea of 'self trust' and how u are able to be more trusting and can believe ur able to get things done as u have built the habit of doing so. It goes further as once u form this connection in my experience along with trust comes many other things. U start trusting ur decision making more as u are improving ur flaws by being transparent and have a boosted confidence when doing conscious acts as u kW u put in the work to improve and have a better self perception. Sorry if I couldn't explain the best I'm a bit new to this concept but I will eventually tackle it😂. Hamza I was wondering if I would be able to join ur team. I seen ur form to join ur workforce and I am working on the things u are looking for like: editing and people who manage ur buisness like the marketing, sales etc.. I am working on the things u are looking for and want to send u a email about my backstory, how u have helped me and the new reformed person I am and why I would like to be on ur team.

  • @Voxel.Visionary
    @Voxel.Visionary Год назад +6

    You're all love ❤️
    u said "challo theekh hai" and i was like "challo yeh b theekh hai"😅😅

  • @xfco5612
    @xfco5612 Год назад +9

    Thank you hamza for uploading this, I’ve been slipping recently I just needed some extra support and this video is gonna get me back up to 100%
    Many blessings 🙏

    • @jytvreal
      @jytvreal Год назад

      Jordan peterson is a zionist sell out

  • @cooperbrill4577
    @cooperbrill4577 Год назад

    “Don’t let your kids do anything that makes you dislike them” also has to do with resentment I believe. When you allow your kids to act in a way that creates resentment, you are allowing them to put a strain on your relationship, and you will begin to act towards them out of anger instead of level headedness

  • @jordy4644
    @jordy4644 Год назад +1

    I like that last one, because it's the encounter of meeting a cat that's rare that makes it wholesome to interact with

  • @StillGoers
    @StillGoers Год назад +11

    This movement towards good life on this planet is giving hope and power to me and you 💪🏽🔥

    • @jytvreal
      @jytvreal Год назад

      Jordan peterson is a zionist sell out

  • @yoopicul8237
    @yoopicul8237 Год назад +8

    Halfway through reading the book right now 💪

  • @notdutch8253
    @notdutch8253 Год назад +1

    Recently, I became friends with a guy called Ben, he is the strongest in my year and he makes mote money then all of our year combined (I'm in year ten) but I didn't know that origionaly, I became friends with him because we sat next to each over in biology. At the start we were not realy friends, we would only chat in class but because of what he was doing he motivated me to get better. I'm currently overweight but I'm going to the gym 3 times a week because he advised me too, and aswell due to his motivation, I've started my own clothing brand. I think the most important thing in life is to find someone who can push you to be better, a mix of You and Ben is what strives me. Thanks alot. And because I am striving to achieve these goals our friendship has become elite. I don't think anything can break this bond we have.

  • @VaheirRCE
    @VaheirRCE Год назад +1

    I seen a tiktok edit of one of your videos about 4 days ago now. I'm currently starting a diet, dopamine detox, and constant at-home workout. I think its about time I start my life.

  • @3Gthatyungin
    @3Gthatyungin Год назад +4

    this video was full of absolute gems, especially that second rule. keep up the good work boys

  • @seanburke8414
    @seanburke8414 Год назад +4

    Hamza you are a great leader and you have helped me to get through sadness and im so grateful for you, you will always have my respect

  • @b.warrior_
    @b.warrior_ Год назад

    We r actually lucky for having Hamza making these videos. He’s knowledge is priceless

  • @arivaro
    @arivaro Год назад +1

    Rule 11: (in other words) Let them make the mistake and learn from it. experience is the best teacher

  • @Aditya-ri4pt
    @Aditya-ri4pt Год назад +3

    34:30 my fav part
    bro speaking hindi

  • @top.g.clips0
    @top.g.clips0 Год назад +4

    I regret that I didn't read this book over the summer. I had it for 2 months but I was focused heavily on you can't hurt me instead. I still got insane value from it but thank you for summarizing this book hamza

  • @MrFuzzwuzzle
    @MrFuzzwuzzle Год назад

    Honestly its INSANE how diffrent the world treats you just JUST using rule 1, i'm a 400lb (yeah yeah working on it) guy and used to sort of hunch forward to try and hide myself, started walking with my back straight, head up making eye contact with people the amount of smiles from women i got back QUADRUPLED, i walk around mow with my head held high and repeat the mantra "i'm THE man, i'm the provider, i'm wjo my gamily looks up to" and it radiates off you

  • @danielestiferson2345
    @danielestiferson2345 Год назад

    I'm really grateful my grandma raised me the right way

  • @Nutsaq2222
    @Nutsaq2222 Год назад +63

    My daily routine:
    wake up early as hell. 4am
    Hunt down the wild might boar 4:30am
    go to school. 8:20am
    come home 2:10pm
    make food. 2:10pm 40 min process.
    go to the gym. 3:10pm
    come home 5:45pm
    eat food 5:50pm
    Work on anything that you need to work on. 6:10pm
    Go to bed at 8pm
    *repeat*
    (I do have some cheat days on the weekend where i throw in a Netflix or two. Come on guys I’m not Adonis yet…?!)

    • @Shujing8792
      @Shujing8792 Год назад +9

      Adonis does not have cheat days, he directly moves on to the next challenge. Also Hamza made a video about cheat days so go watch it

    • @abuqadr629
      @abuqadr629 Год назад +8

      Meanwhile me: going to school at 6am, coming home 4, 5pm 🗿

    • @looooonooooooooooooooooooooong
      @looooonooooooooooooooooooooong Год назад

      How do you find the motivation to do these everyday

    • @twenty6993
      @twenty6993 Год назад

      ​@@abuqadr629x2

    • @rpdleachie8422
      @rpdleachie8422 Год назад +1

      @@looooonooooooooooooooooooooong it’s not motivation it’s will power consistency and discipline.

  • @helly0290
    @helly0290 Год назад +8

    as a woman this also resonates with me

    • @manopu2113
      @manopu2113 Год назад

      So dont raise your son without a good man

    • @helly0290
      @helly0290 Год назад +2

      this resonates with me meaning with decision-making and life choices regarding my life. same rules but applied in the same manner to me as a woman. regarding a son, I am 18 and will worry about this when the time comes. none of your concern:)

    • @kingship8437
      @kingship8437 Год назад +1

      @@helly0290 all right mate

  • @Flingflonguydong
    @Flingflonguydong Год назад

    Whenever I see hamza ,he lights up my day because he has helped me so much for the past 6months

  • @joefitto
    @joefitto Год назад +2

    English is my second language and this book was quite frankly too difficult for me but this video really helped me understand better about the book! Cheers!

  • @rougeandrei9095
    @rougeandrei9095 Год назад +42

    I really like how you created a detailed guide for this book. Jordan Peterson's insights are fantastic, and he's seriously underappreciated in the realm of red pills. He has so many useful insights as a psychologist, and I'm adding this film to my Watch Later queue. Maybe you can offer some insights that I hadn't considered previously.

    • @artyom5659
      @artyom5659 Год назад

      His not fantastic, it’s for insecure men. Who want validation, which they don’t get from women

    • @user-ce1iw3bc4w
      @user-ce1iw3bc4w Год назад

      Why did you watch the video if you think his insights are not worthy?

  • @storm.fighting
    @storm.fighting Год назад +3

    This video made me realize how lucky I was to have a masculine father raise me. He didn't say I had to be home by six or seven or whatever so I used to often ride my bike in the dark. One day I fell really badly and hurt my knee and had to walk me and my bike home. Once I got home I was feeling hurt and when he saw me like this he asked if I fell and I answered yes. He told me to wash up and come for dinner and since then I haven't ever stopped an activity because of something. I just stopped doing an activity in a certain way for example riding very fast on a narrow road while cars are there.

  • @hatchi4212
    @hatchi4212 Год назад +2

    The first rule is so important. Never accept violence towards yourself or your family and stand up for yourself

  • @mortalnutshell6420
    @mortalnutshell6420 Год назад +1

    I had the great pleasure of attending Jordan Peterson's show a couple of days ago, and must I say it will be something I'll never forget. Dubbed as a hero for lonely adolescent men, it was surprising and yet optimistic to see that the crowd consisted of people from all walks of life. Old, young, black, white, rich, poor. Goes ti show you the profound effect that Peterson has. Thank you for this review summary, Hamza. I know this video will change many lives and I highly reccommend seeing Peterson in person ❤️

  • @ewanramsden2983
    @ewanramsden2983 Год назад +8

    My favourite type of content from you Hamza, especially when you have already read the book, it reinforces the points and makes it easier to implement in real life. Also interesting to see how other people interpret it. Thank you

  • @thedudeofsomethingorsometh273
    @thedudeofsomethingorsometh273 Год назад +4

    Hamza thanks for making these videos. I was close to becoming a jeffery a while ago, then i started to watch you, Dr. Peterson, and other creators like you and I'm now close to being an Adonis.

  • @rovicktrono9244
    @rovicktrono9244 Год назад +1

    My guy just stated facts, my man slowly changing my life. Keep it up man

  • @GrowthMindsetChannel
    @GrowthMindsetChannel Год назад +1

    “Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today.” ~ Jordan Peterson 💪🏻🚀

  • @RomanceEnjoyer88
    @RomanceEnjoyer88 Год назад +4

    Being precise in your speech is more about saying exactly what you mean. This requires expanding your vocabulary and learning grammar rules. This is related to Peterson’s teachings about writing. His students in Uni would write rambling, unfocused essays, and it was because they didn’t know how to say what they believed.

  • @mukundan101
    @mukundan101 Год назад +3

    Hamza, can you please make a video on atomic habits? And put more emphasis on the identity part.

  • @Sumesest
    @Sumesest Год назад +1

    1. Stand up straight and confidently. Present yourself well.
    2. Act like your own best friend. Treat yourself well.
    3. Make your own identity if your old one doesn't fit anymore.
    "I am an athlete"
    4. Be friends with people who want the best for you.
    5. Competition, not comparison. Compete with yourself if you have to.
    6. Girls are not your friends, it's a different type of relationship.
    7. At least don't lie.

  • @rinkariteki_san
    @rinkariteki_san 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hamza your motivation is best for most your young men.

  • @abdelgadereindenharut6913
    @abdelgadereindenharut6913 Год назад +3

    I was rised by a single mother and I can totally relate. I play videogames and I am not maskulin at all.

    • @ZelenoJabko
      @ZelenoJabko Год назад

      Maskulin Maskulin Maskulin Maskulin Maskulin Maskulin Maskulin Maskulin Maskulin Maskulin Maskulin Maskulin

  • @noweebatall5520
    @noweebatall5520 Год назад +4

    This really helped me understand the principles in the book, I'm reading it rn

  • @hrishikeshtamuli01
    @hrishikeshtamuli01 Год назад

    the observing nature in the last part
    when i go out for a run.. i try to look at trees with a deep meaning like a deep stare and after sometime in feel like i am standing at a different position and feel as if i can see something more something i never saw before.. a new perspective.. i dont know how to put it better for people to understand this properly.. bht trust me the after effect of this is happiness
    just like.. stare at the tree for some more time then you usually.. you look at it and then within a second you change your view.. just stare at the tree for 30 secs.. you'll see something.. just stare deep.. i promise it will feel good

  • @atem8101
    @atem8101 Год назад +1

    Rule #2 just changed my whole perspective of myself. As a kid I was always called to be smart but lazy because of school. And now it makes sense to me I always see myself as smart but many times I call myself lazy for the smallest of things. But when I put some thought into it I'm not lazy, not at all. I work 9 hrs, go to the gym eat healthy and am always productive. I wouldn't call myself lazy in terms of school because I just have no interest and don't find useful some of the classes so I don't bother. Thanks Hamza.

  • @iannisel
    @iannisel Год назад +3

    Bro you really should make a book about this self-improvement thing!

  • @tav7630
    @tav7630 Год назад +3

    The 12th rule. Like a month ago, I actually had a fear of petting any animal because my dad got attacked by one while doing it (he still pets tho he didn't stop). But I couldn't pet any cat because I thought they would attack and I had to go to doctor etc. One time I built up the courage and actually pet a cat that always was around our house, and it felt amazing. Nowadays I just pet any cat I see and it actually feels amazing.

    • @gui.aesthetics.santos
      @gui.aesthetics.santos Год назад

      this is very relatable, this made my day, finding people with the same ideas always motivates me.
      I think you will like my channel I started self-improvement and
      I made my first youtube video a couple of days ago and also posted a video today
      I need some advice maybe if you watched it would help me a lot and i am also gonna post today a video on how to change your life.

  • @odmurko
    @odmurko Год назад +1

    Just bought 2 books recommended by you, I’m excited to get in to reading and not just listening to books now 💪

  • @tyw5
    @tyw5 Год назад

    I am so enlightened to have seen jordan peterson in person, his lectures are top g

  • @Mephistopheles14
    @Mephistopheles14 Год назад +4

    That "Chalo theek hai"😂😂😂

  • @OrestisSI
    @OrestisSI Год назад +12

    Might be the most useful video I've watched in a while. Thank you Hamza! Many people don't have the ability to buy the book so we are grateful for this video

    • @balls2442
      @balls2442 Год назад +1

      Bro just read it online

  • @Cobrawolf2024
    @Cobrawolf2024 Год назад

    This is why I love you man, I gotta get my friends onto self improvement especially when they don’t want to. They’re special Ed and I am too.

  • @Marwinst
    @Marwinst Год назад +1

    Love these summaries thank you 🎆

  • @knoxtapgaming4853
    @knoxtapgaming4853 Год назад +3

    you are the best part in my life when it comes to self improvement

  • @filipvanwonterghem2782
    @filipvanwonterghem2782 Год назад +5

    26:49 Rule #10 in dr.Petersons book beyond order 12 more rules for life (rule 10. sustain your romance). He actually goes farther into the point Hamza is making in the video that you and your partner should speak about things that make you unhappy as fast as possible before you start resenting each other. At some point he mentioned a story about a woman cutting her dying husbands nails too short so they would bleed just to make dying a little worse, asuming you don't want to end up in a similar situation you'd want to make sure you don't resent eachother.

  • @gamersreactions9267
    @gamersreactions9267 Год назад +1

    #12 is so beautiful... i love feeling the rain dropping on my clothes while cycling and the razor sharp wind hitting me in my face, making my eyes teary. Absolute peak of feeling alive

  • @Abdaaru
    @Abdaaru Год назад

    Jordan Peterson is one of the most influential and important thinkers of our time. His work touches on a wide range of topics including psychology, philosophy, religion, and politics. Jordan Peterson's message of personal responsibility and self-improvement has resonated with millions worldwide. In his book "12 Rules for Life" he lays out twelve practical guidelines for living a rich and fulfilling life. These rules are simple but not always easy to follow. They require hard work and dedication, but provide a blueprint for success in any sphere of life. Jordan Peterson is a great role model and someone to be admired.

  • @ichheissemihai9811
    @ichheissemihai9811 Год назад +3

    I just bought the book after watching the video. Thanks for the inspiration❤️❤️

    • @jytvreal
      @jytvreal Год назад

      Jordan peterson is a zionist sell out

    • @ichheissemihai9811
      @ichheissemihai9811 Год назад

      @@jytvreal respect and thanks for your opinion. Have a beautiful day

    • @sr20
      @sr20 Год назад

      about to buy the book too brother

    • @ichheissemihai9811
      @ichheissemihai9811 Год назад +1

      @@sr20 lets goo

  • @iamshinbo
    @iamshinbo Год назад +3

    We have to appreciate what this man does for us🙏Beard💯/10

  • @MrMoEdu
    @MrMoEdu Год назад +1

    I'd love to see an interview or call with Jordan Peterson. Along with you, he's my role model.

  • @oznur1522
    @oznur1522 Год назад

    as a woman i love this man he doesn^'t talk about bullshit he spread the real facts and also has respect to woman good job brother thank u

  • @ottoelg2748
    @ottoelg2748 Год назад +11

    I read the book a couple of months ago.
    My favourite rule, the one that really stuck with me, was rule number 8: ”Tell the truth, or at least don’t lie.”.
    What hamza failed to bring up on this point is that most of your lies are actions. In the moment, you always know when you make these small lies to yourself, for example: ”it doesnt matter if i watch one more video.”. These small lies may seem insignificant, but after a while they add up. Trust me.
    Be honest with yourself, in every little small decision in life, and you will progress faster than ever.

  • @sleepconcentrationmeditation
    @sleepconcentrationmeditation Год назад +7

    Still one of the best recent books I've read.🍀

  • @Abhaytiwarri
    @Abhaytiwarri Год назад

    1. Stand straight
    2. Change your identity.
    Im a leader
    Im an athelete
    3. Make friends with whom you want to be.
    4. Compare yourself to what you were yesterday, not with someone else.
    5. Pursue whats meaningful, not expedient.
    6. Tell the truth, or atleast dont lie.
    7. Assume that the person who you are listening to knows smth that you dont.
    8. Be precise in your speech

  • @rubencasanova6144
    @rubencasanova6144 Год назад +1

    Yo! What’s good!
    I’m 40 I am that Parent now. 25 turns to 40 real quick.
    I’m still working on me and now it gets real. Your flaws start to show up.
    Invest in you. Read books exercise build.
    Keep it simple and easy because it is.

  • @goldencell3826
    @goldencell3826 Год назад +3

    Sorry hamza I'm not watching this one, I'm reading the book right now so no spoilers

  • @deaconwood-jx2fy
    @deaconwood-jx2fy Год назад +5

    Hamza, i'm 16 and im struggling with addiction to video games and, other things sadly. i rode my bike on an icy morning and as you would expect i fell off. i damaged my cruciate ligament and my collateral ligament. it was fairly painful yet i still walked to school which took a fair amount of pain and ill admit a couple tears. do i not ride my bike when its icy or continue despite the fear of falling and ending up on crutched again. a response would be extremely appreciated.

    • @tobi-xo3if
      @tobi-xo3if Год назад +1

      While I'm not Hamza, I do feel the urge to respond.
      If you are still injured, refrain from riding your bike anywhere that could get you too injured. Focus on rebuilding your physical health and strength by doing basic exercise that you still can (e.g walking, running, stretching), but if you are not injured, understand that all physical circumstances and actions (that require any amount of skill or risk) will be dangerous.
      Even just walking and running has a risk of injury, even lifting has a risk of injury, even calisthenics has a risk of injury, and of course, bike riding has a great danger present within it at all times.
      I would weigh 2 options: Do you want to continue riding, in spite of the risk? Do you enjoy bike riding? Or do you wish to eliminate the risk entirely? If you wish to continue riding, consider practicing your riding skills near cold areas, or ride in safer areas.

    • @LeeEverett1
      @LeeEverett1 Год назад +1

      Video game addiction will ruin your life and will progressively get worse if you don't take any steps to limit them. I wasted my teenage years and early 20s on playing video games rather than experiencing life and it put me behind as well as made me really lonely.
      Please don't repeat my mistakes.

  • @MaazUnfiltered
    @MaazUnfiltered Год назад

    8:27 “it’s not the things that you need to do, It’s who you need to become”

  • @obiwobi6125
    @obiwobi6125 Год назад +2

    I borrowed this book but didn’t have the time to get past chapter one. Had to return it by the time I could get around to reading it so this video is pretty damn convenient

  • @callumaldridge3015
    @callumaldridge3015 Год назад +4

    i read this book it’s very good 👍🏼

  • @samunfiltered09
    @samunfiltered09 Год назад +1

    I love how you are teaching men how to be the best version of themselves. Love you Hamza ❤️

  • @adityasailada4218
    @adityasailada4218 Год назад +1

    You are a true chad elder brother that everyone needs

  • @isaiahmeaux4149
    @isaiahmeaux4149 Год назад +1

    Hamza you are one of the GOATs. Appreciate you bro. People like you, Andrew Tate, Mike Thurston, Luke Belmar, Fresh and Fit, etc.. are really helping lay the foundation for us men and leading us in the right direction to reach our maximum potential as an Alpha Man. Thank you!

  • @ayaanshaikh1448
    @ayaanshaikh1448 Год назад +1

    Yeah I love these summaries bro do more of them

  • @jonny6738
    @jonny6738 Год назад

    Hamza your editors are nuts bro

  • @manuelhernandez2430
    @manuelhernandez2430 Год назад

    What changed for me was moving out and having nothing. Moved far away with no family and friends no credit to my name and no home. I made it out of such a scary time and it was rule 1, 2, and 3 that changed my life.

  • @realsrnsh
    @realsrnsh Год назад

    that chalo theak hai, gives me chill fr

  • @mz5403
    @mz5403 Год назад +2

    Remember if the pain doesnt kill you, it will make you stronger.

  • @iamchronix_
    @iamchronix_ Год назад

    Hamza really changed the self improvement game

  • @practicing2002
    @practicing2002 Год назад +1

    Read the book, still watched the video. New member of the family and I’m surprised I took this long to find you because I started my masculine journey about 4 months ago and I cannot believe I finally found the cure. Thanks fam and it’s true, that’s exactly why I watch you now

  • @jedibiglion2298
    @jedibiglion2298 Год назад

    I’ve wanted to do RUclips for years but what I found out is I actually wanna work as a carpenter, I love the hands on work, building stuff, the tools, just all of it