Your Dark Side and Control Over Your Life | Robert Greene | EP 237

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  • Опубликовано: 11 май 2024
  • This episode was recorded on November 11, 2021.
    This episode focuses on human nature and the principles surrounding strategy, power, and seduction with Robert Greene. We also discuss the motivations behind power, deceptive strategies, Robert’s many jobs before settling as an author, psychopathy, manipulation, agreeableness, feeling guilt over being ambitious, channeling your shadow, and much more.
    Robert Greene is the author of the NY Times bestsellers The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War, The 50th Law, Mastery, & The Laws of Human Nature. Robert has had over 80 different jobs and is considered an international expert on power strategies. On top of a strong following in the business world and Washington DC, Greene’s books are hailed by everyone from war historians to musicians like Jay-Z, Drake, and 50 Cent.
    Follow Robert’s blog: powerseductionandwar.com
    His Twitter: / robertgreene
    Instagram: / robertgreeneofficial
    & check out his books at: amazon.com/Robert-Greene/e/B0...
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    Chapters
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    [00:00] Intro
    [02:58] Power, Motivation, & Manipulation
    [08:34] Deceptive Strategies
    [11:26] Robert’s Career
    [15:02] When to Change Jobs
    [17:37] Greene's Motivation & Personality
    [22:50] Great Manipulators
    [24:46] The Mask of Agreeableness & Psychopathy
    [30:43] Harsh Real World
    [34:50] Music Industry
    [38:02] Integrating Our Shadow
    [45:45] Guilt Over Ambition
    [50:36] Resentment & the Psyche.
    [58:03] Conflict & Growth
    [01:03:31] Partnership with 50 Cent
    [01:10:39] Channeling Our Shadow & Productivity
    [01:14:46] The Sublime, Pleasure, & Pain
    [01:22:04] Pagans & the Sublime
    [01:25:12] Today’s Writing & the Miracle of Reality
    [01:30:20] The Meaning of Music
    [01:34:13] Outro
    [01:36:14] Bonus Discussion with Our Producer Eric
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Комментарии • 6 тыс.

  • @xXCatalystic37Xx
    @xXCatalystic37Xx 2 года назад +4971

    Dr. Jordan Peterson, I'm addressing this comment to you as a beloved follower of your work. Please consider allowing your guests to finish their full thoughts without interrupting them. I found the variety of topics discussed to be incredibly stimulating in thought, especially when Robert Greene was walking down a path of thoughtfulness only be to interrupted by your interjections. I know you may be excited to share your thoughts and perspectives but found that this podcast in particular left me wanting to hear the guests full thoughts in situ. With love and admiration.

    • @DivertingTales
      @DivertingTales 2 года назад +688

      @@kaivogel253 why are you watching these videos or more exactly commenting? Your under multiple comments insulting these two. I get you don‘t like them but you won’t convince people to not listen to them with your comments, you are probably doing the opposite. If you‘re just having a bad day and need to get it out, there are more productive ways to do it. Sometimes I fall into that myself in comment sections but it’s a waste of time and in the end 30 minutes are gone with nothing to show. Don’t let yourself get trapped in that shit. It‘s a waste of precious time. Just block video recommendations and spend your time with videos that speak to you.

    • @xXCatalystic37Xx
      @xXCatalystic37Xx 2 года назад +316

      ​@@kaivogel253I hope one day you get help to work through your anger. I'd suggest understanding your shadow self and then work on integrating it. You may find it useful rather than spend your time slandering others online. But you do you.

    • @tumultuousforce6204
      @tumultuousforce6204 2 года назад +156

      @@kaivogel253 what are you even doing here, be on your merry way and do something you like

    • @empizzle8
      @empizzle8 2 года назад +260

      Well said, I was also an excited interrupter with good intentions and needed someone to bring it to my attention.

    • @samantacastilho5656
      @samantacastilho5656 2 года назад +253

      I agree with this feedback and believe it to be very constructive criticism.

  • @Drgezimdauti
    @Drgezimdauti Месяц назад +92

    I love how Robert pauses when Jordan interrupts him with theories and some research talk ,and speaks for a long time , but Robert after minutes of silence still continues the sentence or the topic that he was elaborating without forgetting or deviating 👏🏻☺️👍🏻.

    • @carolineseipp933
      @carolineseipp933 29 дней назад +2

      I’ve just discovered Robert. I’m so in love with his approach and practice to life. I have to have his books

    • @ahammouda00
      @ahammouda00 16 дней назад

      bro is the devil 😂

    • @umarhossain2701
      @umarhossain2701 15 дней назад

      ​@@ahammouda00 Jordan? Yes Robert? He's an Angel

  • @brianmugambi3414
    @brianmugambi3414 Год назад +424

    Robert is a good listener and so calm. I love his nature.

  • @andrenax
    @andrenax Год назад +884

    I do wish Jordan let Robert speak a little more, but it seemed entirely based on Jordan’s genuine interest in understanding the mind of Robert. He wanted to analyze him. You can tell he’s truly enjoying their commonalities and wanting to share and toss ideas back and forth. Robert isn’t aggressive or assertive by nature, and he speaks more slowly, whereas Jordan’s pace is much quicker. I’d LOVE to see them work on a project together

    • @ammarimad5178
      @ammarimad5178 Год назад +21

      I felt the same about Jordan’s interest of Robert’s mindset and ideas in a way that he cannot wait to show his agreement with what he is saying

    • @AliDaoudi
      @AliDaoudi Год назад +15

      The man had a conversation based on his accomplishments and shared it for free with us. He is not an entertainer or talk show host

    • @zeynand4039
      @zeynand4039 Год назад +6

      That's how he really shows he is an extravert. It's always much mor eof a conversation instead of an interview.

    • @FlyLivestyle-rm3ei
      @FlyLivestyle-rm3ei Год назад +7

      Factz I think he wants to be the center of attention I think he is just insecure n hasn’t learn to play the host role yet

    • @ughelper5230
      @ughelper5230 Год назад +15

      Exactly I wish Jordan would have let Robert speak a little more. Jordan was like constantly interrupting Robert and barely even let him finish the sentence

  • @somewhereisgone
    @somewhereisgone 2 года назад +606

    I literally screamed when I saw this was posted! We are living in the best reality when the greatest minds find one another. Bless all of you!

  • @Danygotaworldtosee
    @Danygotaworldtosee 2 года назад +286

    2 men that give you the Tools to change your life for the Better 🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @rohanjarande
      @rohanjarande 2 года назад +9

      @@kaivogel253
      It sounds like you don't like to see people seeking information/guidance?
      LOL, If this isn't for you personally then just go away, nobody is forcing you.
      You shouldn't waste your time with this attention seeking behaviour anyway, especially if you already know everything about everything.
      Others here are busy trying to look for various ideas to be an even better version of themselves. You are just annoying them with these clearly made up, temporary notions of yours. It's nothing useful, nor is it effective.

    • @rohanjarande
      @rohanjarande 2 года назад +4

      @@kaivogel253 Says the widdle baby that's been crying all over the comment section...
      You're not a real serious individual, it could've done you good to actually listen to the two talk, but that's still pearls before swine I guess.
      Chao.

    • @alexanderfuchs770
      @alexanderfuchs770 2 года назад +1

      @@kaivogel253 You can only say that if you watched the whole thing and if so, you just gave those 2 the money ;). If you didn't, you gained nothing and lost time writing a comment. Nice

    • @terryblanchard1644
      @terryblanchard1644 2 года назад +1

      It's simple. Though life is very complex. If you can consider these ideas, think them through. Hard to find error here. Try it out, a little bit at a time. Truth takes time for ALL humans, all the time.

    • @terryblanchard1644
      @terryblanchard1644 2 года назад

      There is a dark side to everyone. It's common sense. Devil or dark side, same thing.

  • @onotinikow
    @onotinikow 5 месяцев назад +71

    I can't believe I'm only seeing this now, a year after it went up.
    I just want to throw this out there... Years ago, i worked in a very political environment and made an enemy of one of my managers.
    This manager, a supervisor and a small clique of employees made a coordinated effort to either get me fired or force me to quit.
    I came across the 33 strategies of war at this time, and that book became my bible. After about a year of conflict, a year of defending myself to HR and finally getting a toxic workplace investigation launched.... after about a year, the manager actually lost his job, as did the supervisor in this situation. I got promoted to that supervisors position and later that management position.
    Robert Greene didn't teach me to win by treachery. His book taught me to recognize the games they were playing and helped me to hang in there and counter them.

    • @steve4321able
      @steve4321able 2 месяца назад +2

      I'm in that same position now. I'd love to collaborate with you on a way through this.

  • @DanielReyes-ut9xi
    @DanielReyes-ut9xi 7 месяцев назад +5

    Mr. Greene is wearing his shirt that was sewed by his wife after it being cut after his stroke. He is such an amazing mind that deserves much more attention.

  • @cristobalrojas3712
    @cristobalrojas3712 2 года назад +345

    Here are together two of the most influential authors in my life: "The Art of Seduction" got me a girlfriend and "Mastery" helped me find my professional calling.
    Thanks to Greene I decided to be a writer and started to look over the most influential stories in human history, so then I found in Jordan a mentor and in "Maps of Meaning" a key to understand stories, art and myself. I would not be myself today without these two monsters of teachers. THANK YOU GUYS FOR EXISTING , THANK YOU!!!

    • @Murph999
      @Murph999 2 года назад +20

      @@kaivogel253 Monsters? haha. deadly trolling.

    • @mariamichael1807
      @mariamichael1807 2 года назад +12

      Professor J Peterson is no only an academic but a truly down to earth guy who speaks in layman’s terms but perhaps more importantly his honesty and directness are key to his success. Sadly in today’s modern world where many parents forget what their role is and choose to be “friends “ with their offspring (this is more common with mother and daughter relationships), and teachers and other figures of authority sugar coating everything rather than being honest. Young people thrive on honesty, direction and structure and in some cases discipline not gimmicks and not promoting girls at the expense of boys.

    • @afonsodeportugal
      @afonsodeportugal 2 года назад +2

      @@kaivogel253 Your mama Merkel and your daddy Schröder are two monsters. They paved the way for Putin! So "set your house in order before you criticize the world"!

    • @thiagomuniz8607
      @thiagomuniz8607 2 года назад +8

      @@kaivogel253 I've seen you spreading these type of comments everywhere. Why do you think they're monsters? Why are you bothered?

    • @philosopherofkaos8829
      @philosopherofkaos8829 2 года назад +9

      @@thiagomuniz8607 He is just a troll desperate for attention, which is why he trolls.

  • @alexandercamlin8889
    @alexandercamlin8889 2 года назад +19

    I definitely noticed Mr. Greene practicing his first rule in this one.

  • @ameliahamilton8637
    @ameliahamilton8637 Год назад +252

    As a young girl being raised in a house with a very violent father, I can honestly say "don't outshine your master" and "pretend to be an imbecile to not threaten another's ego" were literally the first lessons I learned in life. I am 38 and still say very little to him, tho he lives across the street. Nor has he ever asked me how I feel. Just let him talk, act interested even if he's wrong, and get away when you can... this is how we all operate with him.
    It took me quite a while to stop choosing men who acted like him, but I am now finally in an "equal" relationship of 6 years (✨️just married✨️), where I am able to practice speaking up at my own speed, having constructive discussions, and having a voice in relationship. Tho i am almost always in leadership roles in community and in work environments, I still see all the time that I have work to do speaking up surrounding my needs, and sharing constructive criticism with my man. He's a gem tho, and is a great partner to be working thru this mess with. I'm getting better at finding my voice in intimate relationship every day 🤜🤛

    • @NaNa-re3wc
      @NaNa-re3wc Год назад +13

      That’s amazing, I’m proud of you! That shit is hard, I still struggle to communicate my needs and sometimes in a healthy way. My close friends have helped me a lot

    • @djohnsveress6616
      @djohnsveress6616 11 месяцев назад +13

      To the degree you went to describe your own situation, i felt that connection, i'm not gonna assume anything but just lay out my own because these words feel like have been with me all along. A shadow almost.
      i'm 21 now, a guy, even now i struggle to describe my own father. I feel weird for struggling to describe it because i can do it and just jump straight to it and yet i feel the need to make it clear where the stake is exactly piercing. How do you describe Aggressiveness, Violence without inserting that you were threatened or beaten or getting any sort of physical. In fact i feel that lack of physical violence is extremely important to describe a person such as MY father. Living in this household, family, i often have to remind myself of what isn't normal.
      One time i was 16ish i remember hearing my mom and dad have a sharp vocal issue with one and other in the middle of the night and i'm just sitting next room on my computer, pull out my earphones and think to myself, why am i not nervous, on edge hearing my father threaten my mother. Murderous language was something that was heard on the daily. This must not be normal, i wonder how will this pan out for me if i'm in a relationship, i thought that to myself.. Spoilers, never gotten into one
      Under 40 year of marriage, My father never hit my mother, never hit my older brother and sister, he have only hit me twice, because i told him the fuck off, for that he only uses his brutish force on objects, on the house, on the house that wasn't ours, burning the money that could've got us mansions over the years, i was sickeningly worried about these things because my mom was sickeningly worried it about it, imagine my 15y old ass unable to do anything really, be consumed by these worries. My mother was actually shocked that happened, because hes a imbecile, a coward who's all mouth, a child who needs the most attention and is always right or else throws a tantrum, how come he has actually come to physicality. I kinda make fun of that event when i tell it saying; my drunk father came up to me, spinned like 3 times with his arm out, of course for balance he did it slowly to make sure he doesn't fall, on the third spin he put his hands on my face, i bet he learned it from old jackie chan action movies because watching crap on a tablet / TV is what he spends his time on instead of actually learning martial arts. So that tickles some the dark humor part of my brain.
      Hes not bad, if a younger self of his would see himself he would probably do better or possibly sink into it even further.. Sad reality is that hes a 62y old alcoholic chain smoker who's been at it since 18, looking at him now, talking to him is sad, his consciousness is not a 100% even sober, people die smoking after 5-10y this bastard lived over 40y smoking 40-80g of tobacco a day with many bottles of wine and strong spirits to go with it, he probably himself carries it from his own father. Hes not that bad really, hes sweet to my sister, sweet to each of us his kids really but we can only be babies around him with no serious thoughts, no opposing tastes. Mom got the worst side of him, a liar, deflecting, accusatory, he would blame the stars on mom, he have this unique sets of words that is only used when mom is in the context, if there were a hole to hell in the ground he would look at it, and say "That's your moms habbit to put it here".
      People, friends that get to know the story assume the two are separated, and be utterly shocked when i tell how it actually is. Marriage +40y strong, add that to one other strangely abnormal things that seemed normal to me. That this is the family, the one and only.. Mom about 3-4 months ago said something to me i didn't realize i wanted to hear "I'm sorry for not leaving him, for you to have to live like this" She says.. She pitied him.. That reminded me of a story where i was still a baby and they did separate, where i fell in a depressive state for weeks and asked about dad, where's dad. Wich motivated her to try again.. Well if people were to ask what would you do with a time machine ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • @ummabdullah7601
      @ummabdullah7601 11 месяцев назад +3

      Woah I did the same in childhood but thought it was just me because my siblings went other routes

    • @Yazan26579
      @Yazan26579 10 месяцев назад +5

      Congratulations to both of you with the marriage.

    • @Paul4Krista20
      @Paul4Krista20 10 месяцев назад +4

      Fantastic comment ❤

  • @kylennpetersen4407
    @kylennpetersen4407 Год назад +497

    Two of the most iconic people I've ever been blessed to walk the earth alongside... thank you for sharing your incredible minds and this encounter.

    • @lifeofme8919
      @lifeofme8919 Год назад +2

      I would love Peterson break Down my mindset online or offline!!

    • @williss1192
      @williss1192 Год назад +4

      They should collab on a book lol

    • @gamerdude4465
      @gamerdude4465 3 месяца назад +1

      Nah Jordon Peterson is pretentious and is a pseudo intellectual. Here, he barely let Greene finish his topics. He just wanted to drag his own thing

    • @TheClearpuddle
      @TheClearpuddle 2 месяца назад

      @@gamerdude4465 hes very complicated. He means well, Im sure. But he has much anger in him. but his words do ring true. Brilliant and troubled. A modern day Alan Watts I see in him.

  • @guitarandvoice7
    @guitarandvoice7 2 года назад +2018

    I really appreciate Jordan Peterson, but I find that he has a consistent habit of interrupting people in the middle of insightful thoughts. Again, I truly appreciate his insights. I hope that this sentiment finds him, and is received well.
    Beyond that, I loved the interview!

    • @shamusenright5387
      @shamusenright5387 2 года назад +281

      Agreed. There's a lot of interrupting. I think it's particularly bad here because Peterson has expertise in subjects that Greene is talking about so he feels compelled to show it. But as a consequence we don't to hear what Greene was going to say. It's poor conversation technique.

    • @Torsdagskvallsmys
      @Torsdagskvallsmys 2 года назад +34

      that really sad that JP cant live up to your expectation.... its not like this is free to watch. i will write a letter to him. becuse im also very disapointed that you are disapointed in JP...

    • @shamusenright5387
      @shamusenright5387 2 года назад +57

      @@Torsdagskvallsmys So do you think JP has a habit of interrupting or not?

    • @Torsdagskvallsmys
      @Torsdagskvallsmys 2 года назад +12

      @@shamusenright5387 definatly not... only nervousnes

    • @guitarandvoice7
      @guitarandvoice7 2 года назад +37

      @@Torsdagskvallsmys Cool. I appreciate the letter. It would be surprising if there weren't alternative views.

  • @Memento-_-Mori-_-982
    @Memento-_-Mori-_-982 2 года назад +373

    I've been wishing for this discussion for ages! Robert Greene is one of my favorite modern authors.

  • @sakshijain599
    @sakshijain599 Год назад +335

    48 laws of power is a good book to cope with narcissists.

    • @amandaa3713
      @amandaa3713 Год назад +15

      I had a narc supervisor who almost killed me.

    • @patmanpatmanson
      @patmanpatmanson Год назад +3

      @@amandaa3713 did Greene's books help?

    • @amandaa3713
      @amandaa3713 Год назад +9

      @@patmanpatmanson I just learned about the book from this video. I plan to get it. I think it would help even though I have already figured things out (out of necessity) that they talked about.

    • @Whodafookisthatguy369
      @Whodafookisthatguy369 Год назад +10

      yea narcs are dangerous people

    • @sakshijain599
      @sakshijain599 Год назад +1

      @@patmanpatmanson yes great book

  • @KristenMelinda47
    @KristenMelinda47 Месяц назад +3

    "You don't have to follow stupid rules, but you have to put up with consequences if you get caught." This is the way I try to live my life every day.

  • @abdalluhalrahpy347
    @abdalluhalrahpy347 Год назад +833

    Robert Greene still one of the most underrated author of our time , he deserves more

    • @juju10683
      @juju10683 Год назад +14

      Agreed. He's in my top 5, if not number one.

    • @thedog5k
      @thedog5k Год назад

      the fucking cringelord?

    • @SaintTrinianz
      @SaintTrinianz Год назад +5

      ...More respect than to be dissected by JP instead of interviewed

    • @GardaOrban
      @GardaOrban Год назад +3

      Jordan Rat Peterson: "My message to the Hungarians. Do not rebel against your dear prime minister! What your leader is trying to restore the metaphysical foundation of the Hungarian culture"
      Another well payed guest of Fűrer Orban in the Nazi eagle nest, the Fűrer-Castle of Buda, Father Jim Blount from the USA: "I would like to tell you a secret about Jesus and a secret about your prime minister. Another name for Jesus is Viktor."

    • @realnamerodney
      @realnamerodney Год назад +1

      Those who know, know.

  • @DeepakSingh-qg4ri
    @DeepakSingh-qg4ri 2 года назад +1423

    OMG. I was waiting for this for a long time. And I was thinking about when you'll get Robert on the podcast and here it is. Thank you! :)

    • @joefloine2000
      @joefloine2000 2 года назад +8

      Yeeeesssss!!!!!

    • @therealbs2000
      @therealbs2000 2 года назад +8

      Exactly

    • @jcszot
      @jcszot 2 года назад +4

      You and me both! Lol This is gonna be good! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @benjaminweber7944
      @benjaminweber7944 2 года назад +15

      Same, my two favorite intellectuals finally unite. I've always wondered how JP viewed Robert's books and beliefs. Both men's wisdoms has helped me so much to learn and grow as a person.

    • @JamesBooond
      @JamesBooond 2 года назад +6

      Same!!!

  • @ghanemakram1683
    @ghanemakram1683 10 месяцев назад +19

    I first read the 48 laws of power a decade ago at 16. And I contribute his books to my perspective of the world today. It SAVED me from heartbreak and confusion. You do not read his books, you STUDY them. I’ve read certain pages over a dozen times. Not to say the books are a “Bible.” But honestly, his books are very close to INTENSE REALITY.

    • @MillyTatu
      @MillyTatu 4 месяца назад +1

      I thought I was the only one who was introduced to this book as an adolescent! 15/16 as well and I've revisited it throughout my adult life now 33. I've read all his books finishing up the Laws of Human Nature.
      You and I are fortunate to be introduced to these concepts so early in life 🙏🏾

  • @Empiricalinformation
    @Empiricalinformation Месяц назад +4

    Mastery by Robert Green is one of the most powerful books produced by mankind.

  • @jameschanplasticsurgery3622
    @jameschanplasticsurgery3622 2 года назад +573

    Love the work Jp has been doing - so inspirational; but I wish we could have heard more from Robert who rarely had the chance to embellish his points before getting interrupted..

    • @az4x4
      @az4x4 2 года назад +69

      I was thinking the same...he did interrupt way too much

    • @MichaelCBryan
      @MichaelCBryan 2 года назад +10

      If you’re gonna go up against Jordan Peterson you gotta make him shut up. That’s why he’s such a formidable conversationalist. I like it even though I know everyone thinks he should just chill out and let people talk.

    • @ghosthusler
      @ghosthusler 2 года назад +69

      @@MichaelCBryan What is the point of having a podcast of you're not gonna let your guests talk?

    • @MichaelCBryan
      @MichaelCBryan 2 года назад +28

      @@ghosthusler Peterson is arrogant. He admits it. Why do you think he talks about malevolence so much? He’s not perfect. Sometimes he over talks. But at least he has something to say. And the other guy did get something to say as well. Nothing is ever black or white. It’s all gray.

    • @ghosthusler
      @ghosthusler 2 года назад +21

      @@MichaelCBryan He also talks about being a monster but then learning to control it. Maybe he should learn to control his talking, again, what's the point of having a podcast if you're not going to let your guest talk?

  • @justkatebake
    @justkatebake 2 года назад +446

    I was looking forward to this conversation for so long.

    • @igbanam
      @igbanam 2 года назад +9

      Did it live up to your expectation? I felt like it was so much potential, but it ended up being a more water cooler conversation.

    • @Liars-rDoomed
      @Liars-rDoomed 2 года назад

      @@igbanam po of o

    • @justkatebake
      @justkatebake 2 года назад +16

      @@igbanam Same for me. I would love from Jordan to do more of a deep dive into Roberts books and work. Michaela allso did a pretty bad job in her own podcast about seduction with Robert - not reading the books, too bad - he is such a fascinating author and person. I do believe however this is just first of Jordans and Roberts conversations, so I hope for more.

    • @krtojoe2235
      @krtojoe2235 2 года назад +4

      Me too. And what a disappointment it was, right? Jordan made Robert look like an idiot. What a pity. What should've been a great collab turned into Jordan psycho analysing his guest and making him look like a fool

    • @GG-fo3fp
      @GG-fo3fp 2 года назад +9

      Maybe it's just me but seems in the last few interviews Jordan isn't letting the other person speak much. I was looking forward to this too but Greene can hardly get an word in edgewise. It's almost like Jordan is just using the guest as an audience. Don't get me wrong, I loved what Jordan was saying, but I wanted Greene to discuss his work too.

  • @nmn5550
    @nmn5550 Год назад +84

    Wow. It's a sort of a relief to hear you gentlemen talking about your multiple jobs.
    So far I've been: a waiter, a casino floorman, a gas station attendant, interior designer, warehouse worker, laundry worker, bathroom utensils salesman, kitchen furniture salesman and designer, power tools salesman and again am a kithen stuff salesman and designer.
    I was always told by everyone, including family, that I'm a failure who can't settle at a job.
    You guys made me feel ok with that messy resume. Thanks :)

    • @NaNa-re3wc
      @NaNa-re3wc Год назад +5

      I feel the same!! I’ve done anything from gas station clerk, liquor store clerk, to plumbing, building tractors, in-home caretaker for elderly people, a cleaning job, building doors, mental health peer support… I’ve also sold some of my art and got my poetry published, I’m even working on a poetry book and plan to get into welding sculptures! I plan to join the Marines in about a year to be a combat photographer, plus I’m in college for fine art & writing now. A lot of people seem to frown on having lots of jobs or changing you career goals frequently, but I’ve found I get bored once I have something down plus I love learning new things. It’s helped me to figure out which environments I fit into or find intolerable. Having lots of jobs and finding what you do/don’t like is better than letting yourself be stuck at a job you hate if you ask me!

    • @deez3063
      @deez3063 Год назад +3

      respect bro. Same here. I've worked every odd job from restaurant work to construction to a semi truck driver to cannabis industry...my best friend and my family always saw me as a flake because of it, just because i'm quick to move on if it's no longer benefiting me or i don't like doing it. It's all a part of finding what we truly enjoy doing (not necessarilly our dream or dream job) but something that we enjoy and makes us good money that's worth sticking with. I totally get you and the dude above me. Stay up boys and keep staying true to yourselves. I pity the person who's too afraid to quit a job because they're too comfortable or afraid of change. We embrace change and always look for something better. Bless

    • @deez3063
      @deez3063 Год назад

      @@NaNa-re3wc That's so cool man, I was a photographer in my college years and wanted to be a combat photographer. See my other comment, i resonate with you and OP about being quick to move on and find something better vs just sticking with the same shitty job out of laziness or fear of change. You're doing the right thing brother and good luck out there with the combat photography. Respect

    • @dianabrownburchfield302
      @dianabrownburchfield302 11 месяцев назад

      I'm a 58 year-old recovering addict female I have a similar resume except I became a carnie at 17 years old

    • @MarcosAG90
      @MarcosAG90 11 месяцев назад +1

      Well idk if it's just me, but I see you as one of those superman kinda people who can do anything. That is valuable experience for someone with an entrepreneurial mindset, so there is that 😊

  • @yahavbensarahmadiel8694
    @yahavbensarahmadiel8694 10 месяцев назад +3

    I can't deny that I also noticed how JP kept interrupting RG, but I think it's really from excitement and pure interest. He felt like he had a friend and had a lot he was relating with from his own experience. He was also genuinely intrigued by RG's mind. Both nerdy and curious about human behavior. Hear how he kept saying "I got something cool to share with you." and using "man" in that very friendly way. RG is more intro whereas JP is a little more extro.

  • @lightgrey5365
    @lightgrey5365 2 года назад +59

    When it's not based on results, then it's about ego. Brilliant.

  • @Hamyhamster24
    @Hamyhamster24 2 года назад +461

    I cannot believe the two top influential people in my life are in one video. Recently I had an interview in which I was asked who were my role models…and immediately no doubt Peterson and Greene. You both changed my life in so many ways I can’t thank you enough. Please take care of yourselves and continue passing on your wisdoms to the younger generations. We are all learning and looking up to you 😭❤️

    • @DudeSoWin
      @DudeSoWin 2 года назад +18

      Don't get me wrong its an amazing conversation but only leaves me starving for more. And I think that is intended to bring in a greater audience and let others hook into discussion. I need to watch more and do some reading.

    • @hellomate639
      @hellomate639 2 года назад +11

      It really was a high quality conversation.
      I think the part about hearing the darkness in the most joyous classical music hit me hard in particular, because it's so, SO true to classical music in particular, to be expressing integrated emotions.
      That's really what I think defines classical output, in a way. It expresses deeply integrated experience, which is why the early works of composers tend to often be the trite "crowd pleasers," and the later works tend to be less accessible, but they grow on you as you keep hearing them, and the music starts to make more sense as you grow as a person.
      Beethoven's 9th symphony is one of those. Bach's unfinished fugue is one of the most powerful, moving pieces. For God's sake, I can't think of a piece that feels like I'm listening to the mind of God like that piece:
      This really was an absolutely fantastic conversation, and I think that Jordan Peterson and Robert Greene should do more than just podcast.
      They should collaborate, just as 50 cent and Robert Greene collaborated. He's SO, so right about the fact that we live in these silos.

    • @elcolin_
      @elcolin_ 2 года назад +1

      This girl is so attractive to me. Just based on a thumbnail. But I also love both Robert and Jordan.

    • @arisilias8787
      @arisilias8787 2 года назад

      I am thinking 100% the same

    • @benjaminweber7944
      @benjaminweber7944 2 года назад +7

      @@DudeSoWin agree, I love JP, but it's obvious he knows little of Robert Greene, he needs to read a few of his books, then have him back on for a real deep discussion.

  • @MandycandyL337
    @MandycandyL337 Год назад +73

    "48 Laws of Power" helped me out so much in my career! So grateful for Robert Greene. Thank you JP for having him as a guest 💯🙌

  • @juanjosealvarezhidalgo4096
    @juanjosealvarezhidalgo4096 21 день назад +1

    The way Mr Greene maneuvers Peterson is simply awesome

  • @lebmc2148
    @lebmc2148 2 года назад +45

    I did 14 years on probation, and after reading the "48 Laws of Power" I analyzed my past behaviors, and behaviors from the authority figures. I can see why people would think this book is evil, and teaching people how to manipulate, but once you read it you'll see that all it is labeling the natural behaviors people display when interacting with each other. I bet most people are acting out some of the laws in their everyday life without even knowing it because it's natural responses to the experience of socializing.

    • @katscandance
      @katscandance Год назад

      Yeah I agree if we aren’t aware of these tactics, we and others can easily fall into being a prey or a predator.

    • @MrBigGun100
      @MrBigGun100 Год назад +1

      But I wonder why does he use language like choosing your victim/target? You can explain something without that kind of loaded language as if he expects the reader to engage in that behaviour. The Art of Seduction is also full of these kind of phrases too. Don't get me wrong i learned A LOT! But I'm not surprised it's got a bad rep for being manipulative since in some parts it literally does guide people to be manipulative and take advantage either for power or seduction.

  • @Shayanwahedi
    @Shayanwahedi 2 года назад +983

    Extremely stoked to live in a world where these two phenomenal minds exist. The 48 laws of power is an exploration of the deep dark recesses of the collective human unconscious which allows and provides us the opportunity to integrate our shadow, to become a more competent, charismatic and wholesome human being (as explained in my ‘Power Intro’ video).
    Looking forward to having both of these gentlemen (the only two alive on my background painting) on my channel in the near future 🔥
    Enormous thank you to both of you.

    • @hazardstudios9835
      @hazardstudios9835 2 года назад +2

      @Shayan Wahedi True💯

    • @bernardmatias2758
      @bernardmatias2758 2 года назад +4

      Hey shayan love your work and I’m also wishing they’d be in your channel soon

    • @Shayanwahedi
      @Shayanwahedi 2 года назад +4

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    • @andrewt.6401
      @andrewt.6401 2 года назад +3

      It'd be great if they will be being interviewed by you Shayan, love your videos!

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      @AB-ws2sj 2 года назад +2

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  • @sevenedge3934
    @sevenedge3934 Год назад +4

    These kinds of conversations would change the world if our leaders had integrity enough to have them

  • @lnAmberClad
    @lnAmberClad Год назад +14

    This makes me grateful I'm a bartender. One of the things I look forward to the most every day is getting to work so I can tell jokes and talk shit with my coworkers and guests. It's still a stressful job, but not in the same way office jobs seem to be.

  • @georgekanyoni8029
    @georgekanyoni8029 2 года назад +56

    I'm surprised I can sit down at my computer for 1 hr 43mins watching this kind of stuff without getting bored. I love Jordan Peterson and his work. Very educative.

    • @ladyusa6647
      @ladyusa6647 2 года назад +4

      Yep! I finish watching these lectures during my lunch, breaks and while going to sleep.

    • @carolynbrightfield8911
      @carolynbrightfield8911 2 года назад +5

      @@ladyusa6647 for me, while I do the washing. Nothing like psychology and philosophy in the sunshine to feel optimistic.

    • @rutherford5619
      @rutherford5619 2 года назад +6

      Literally one of 4 youtubers I watch, Bret Weinstein, Russell Brand, Joe rogan and Peterson himself

    • @ladyusa6647
      @ladyusa6647 2 года назад

      @@carolynbrightfield8911 heck yes

  • @marvelousmike5488
    @marvelousmike5488 2 года назад +218

    I have the read most of the ‘48’ book, I had no idea it was written by such a nice, soft spoken man. Thanks for this insightful interview

    • @augustinetwumasi5031
      @augustinetwumasi5031 2 года назад +1

      Read it

    • @segundojoel10
      @segundojoel10 Год назад +3

      Most people with temperance will exercise a soft spoken manner with Jordan. I don't neccessarily believe he is that soft spoken, he even alluded to that multiple times in this interview. I was too surprised by how assertive he was rather than aggressive.

    • @j.fnorfleet1969
      @j.fnorfleet1969 Год назад +6

      That soft spoken man has a viciousness underneath that is so familiar. Hell if you read the book you know who I am.

    • @bed7610
      @bed7610 Год назад

      @@segundojoel10 if you watch any interview of his you will see he is just as soft spoken talking to anyone.

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  • @korystewart3799
    @korystewart3799 Год назад +7

    Notice how Jordan in the first 6 minutes uses the exact law he is talking about and Robert reciprocates not to manipulate one another but to have a conversation demonstrating the power we have to come together to have meaningful dialog. Neither one is trying to out shine the other but shine together as individual powers towards a common goal of understanding and growth both personally and for the benefit of everyone willing to listen.

    • @Lauren-cu6ht
      @Lauren-cu6ht 11 месяцев назад +3

      Absolutely disagree. It was irritating how often Jordan was interrupting Robert, Robert was unable to finish most of his thoughts and sentences.

  • @WickedSickProd
    @WickedSickProd 9 месяцев назад +5

    Two Stoic philosiphers sharing their minds with each other. I love this!

  • @brianct7801
    @brianct7801 Год назад +277

    Wish Greene had more time to share his thoughts. I've listened to a few of his other interviews and podcast appearances, and the man has some very deep insight into history and human nature.

    • @Paid2Win
      @Paid2Win 11 месяцев назад

      Agreed

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      @Thomas-gd9ms 10 месяцев назад

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    • @SpeaksYourWord
      @SpeaksYourWord 8 месяцев назад +7

      if peterson didn't cut him off every two minutes

  • @francescaali8782
    @francescaali8782 2 года назад +218

    I remember buying the 48 Laws of Power wanting to feel/become powerful (feeling very powerless) I couldn’t get half way through the book because it seemed at the time so brutal and heartless…. I eventually worked for a psychopath and his company was full of family and I so quickly learned the truth the book was right and I was extremely naïve and ill prepared. Needless to say it didn’t end well for me when I tried to finally break free and stand up for myself and the trauma were unreal I still struggle with the abuse and have nightmares…. Listening to this was sooooo reaffirming it’s insane! No one around me could believe what was happening to me and faulted me surely I did something…. I did I woke up and tried to get free from the abuse. This book is sadly a reality in a lot of environments I wish I wasn’t offended by the idea I would have run so fast from the company if I took heed still dealing with court cases because of it

    • @symcardnel1741
      @symcardnel1741 2 года назад +22

      Glad you got out. Most don't.

    • @argentinaencanada
      @argentinaencanada 2 года назад +5

      Same

    • @adekunlerichard1655
      @adekunlerichard1655 2 года назад +6

      Sorry about your experience. ❤️

    • @taroulucasava4550
      @taroulucasava4550 2 года назад +12

      I have tried to read the book as well, but could not finish it. I think it is important to confront the "dark side" of human nature, but sometimes my mind needs something uplifting- like this conversation!

    • @francescaali8782
      @francescaali8782 2 года назад +9

      @Sym Cardnel thank you! He tried to destroy my life for walking away but I am still standing and stronger for it. I wish I could help others but it’s such a silent struggle

  • @sh0ty2theb0dy
    @sh0ty2theb0dy 11 месяцев назад +1

    You tube, every once in a while throws me a bone and teaches me instead of trying to poisoning me. That's what gets me coming back. I struggle with to much wasted time on RUclips.

  • @babytheresalight6699
    @babytheresalight6699 Год назад +5

    The way that Robert Greene said "people almost feel like it's something naughty when they have it" completely took all the naughtiness out of it for me😂

  • @embraceyourshadow9295
    @embraceyourshadow9295 2 года назад +326

    Dr. Peterson, it is because of people like yourself, Carl Jung, and Robert here that inspired this brand and it’s message. We’ve all got wolves in the shadows of our souls. Thank you for everything you do

    • @BBunnythaPhilosiopher
      @BBunnythaPhilosiopher 2 года назад +2

      This man jordan is lost! When you have a child you are suppose to relearn life! So yea everyone is an ignorant moronic human being! With being said…..

    • @BBunnythaPhilosiopher
      @BBunnythaPhilosiopher 2 года назад +1

      With that being said!

    • @embraceyourshadow9295
      @embraceyourshadow9295 2 года назад +3

      Wow - thanks for all the love everyone! Check us out on IG!

    • @nana-rs8en
      @nana-rs8en 2 года назад +4

      Don't forget Nietzsche. He had similar ideas long before Jung.

    • @hoorayforyoutoob
      @hoorayforyoutoob 2 года назад +1

      @@BBunnythaPhilosiopher can you elaborate?

  • @anonmouse7900
    @anonmouse7900 2 года назад +13

    This is where you see the brilliance of Robert Greene. He subtly plays on Jordan Peterson's intellectual insecurity. I enjoyed the talk, but felt like JP was like an appeaser to Robert. Without attempting to fully understand Robert, he kept throwing theories and stories at him to see which would stick. You can fully appreciate Robert's calmness at the matter. He's there for the ride, and he's also promoting his own material throughout the talk. Honestly this brought out the worst of JP's mental rigidity, and showcased Robert as a practicing theoretian.. without needing to directly control the conversation at all, he established his own credibility.

    • @anonmouse7900
      @anonmouse7900 2 года назад +5

      Jordan Peterson is smart and he's pretty captivating throughout the talk, but you can also sense that he's being a bit of a fool here.

  • @jmhp4930
    @jmhp4930 Год назад +30

    Amazing interview. I think these two understood each other very well. Two intellectual titans without egos, how rare.

  • @amirsaeed3395
    @amirsaeed3395 Год назад +10

    Robert Greene is the best. Always making the most sense, clear and cogent.

  • @iliftmoods
    @iliftmoods 2 года назад +259

    Robert Greene helped me so much with being more assertive in my teens with his book The 50th Law. I suppressed so much of myself to please others which led to people walking all over me. It led me down a very lonely and suicidal path.
    I contribute exercise and his books to helping me build up my self esteem and crawl out of that "hell".
    Grateful for his books, and I was super excited for this talk. Thank you Jordan and Robert, you two have written some incredible works that have changed lives.

    • @jonathanbecker8935
      @jonathanbecker8935 2 года назад +4

      Yeah that path. I'm def on it now.
      Starting to wonder at what point one loses the control, the perspective to stop at the last minute and decide to live. Feel like I get a little farther down it every day towards that place of no longer having perspective.

    • @melvinburchett
      @melvinburchett 2 года назад +2

      @@jonathanbecker8935 Yeah, I'm more or less there myself, and really the only thing you can do is think about how much your family will miss you. If someone made your mother cry, would you be pissed? Or if you have a kid, think about how much they unconditionally love you. I'm basically a homeless comic (day job but meh it sucks my soul) with a child, couch surfing. Had my ex basically leave me because God told her to, when she said earlier it wouldn't affect us, and thus we got engaged and had our kid (right at the beginning of the lockdown). Three months later, she took little pieces of the relationship away until there was nothing, and I had nowhere to live. I've been back and forth multiple times, and she won't even try or lift a finger to fix "us", but anytime she needs something (apartment, van, etc.), she wants to "work on it." DUDE. I had a house bought and paid for, and turned the loan down because she wanted to work on it. Look at the housing market now. My parents live 500 miles away, and I have no family here. It would be easier to end it, and goddamn I want to. But I can't leave my child here alone. If you don't have anything or anyone to stop you from feeling this way, and in turn, who you have makes you feel worse, find something to get out of your comfort zone and feel alive. I chose comedy, because you gotta laugh at this shit man, no one knows what they're doing or how they're doing it. They just do. Purpose. You can't change shit, but you can laugh at it all day.
      Hope this helps dude,
      Melvis

    • @izzydeadyet7336
      @izzydeadyet7336 2 года назад +3

      @@melvinburchett I understand what you're saying because my kids are the love anchors that keep me here , if not for them I'd have no desire or reason to stay on this bubble full of malfunctioning meat puppets! I've always been an outsider, a loner, was an only child then spent 12 years alone after I left the kids dad. I like being alone, then I met the man I've been with for the past 3 years, I wasnt looking and wasnt trying to team up with anyone, then when I met him, randomly in a parking lot, he was like the man of my dreams and vise versa he felt the same about me! So I have everything I could want, I'm not a high maintence or flashy person, but my suicidal nature wont leave! I can feel fine for weeks then as soon as I have a bad day its like I've been living in that bad day indefinitely.. and I would off myself in a minute if it werent for the kids, and cats and loved ones .. sometimes I even resent having these loved ones forcing me to stay, but I cant just abandon ship and leave my kids to the wolves! If everything is for a mysterious purpose, then there is some reason we persist

    • @carolineseipp933
      @carolineseipp933 29 дней назад

      So good to read this and all the comments of people who read in their teens. I was mortified at Jordan’s piece on how he taught his son No and the struggle I’ve had with that with my boys as a single mum. I’m going to get my boys the 50th law, especially my eldest. We’ve had a tough life. My relationship with my boys are honest and close but they can struggle.

  • @nefwaenre
    @nefwaenre 2 года назад +172

    Absolutely fascinating! Thank you so much professor. One of your quotes that i always keep in mind is, a virtuous man is he who knows he's capable of doing great evil BUT he chooses not to. Love from Egypt~ 💙

    • @kaledon6
      @kaledon6 2 года назад

      You don't look like a man to care about male virtuosity

    • @nefwaenre
      @nefwaenre 2 года назад +1

      @@kaledon6 so what? 🙄

    • @samara6041
      @samara6041 2 года назад +4

      @kaledon6 what a dumb comment. So grade school of you! What are you like 8 years old?

    • @christianjireh8958
      @christianjireh8958 2 года назад

      @@kaledon6 go watch feminist videos

    • @kond1e
      @kond1e 2 года назад +3

      I agree, I think that's one of his best quotes. "He who knows how to use a sword but keeps it sheathed will inherit the earth." That's the version I heard
      I heard it in one of his compilation videos

  • @pedjarajic3620
    @pedjarajic3620 10 месяцев назад +11

    2 legends talking about … life!
    Usefully perfect

  • @user-jj1cs8sx3v
    @user-jj1cs8sx3v 3 месяца назад +38

    So who was interviewing who 😂

    • @diutrinh1240
      @diutrinh1240 23 дня назад +3

      Well, it’s no longer an interview. It’s rather a conversation. I guess JP knows too well about his topic so he didn’t bother to explore more about it.
      At least, they both learned something from each other.

    • @roseb4534
      @roseb4534 20 дней назад +1

      Very annoying interview lol. Wouldn’t let Robert speak

  • @mohamedtsattia
    @mohamedtsattia 2 года назад +185

    OMG !!!! That's like a dream came to reality, i am really deeply happy to see you both together... You are both heros to me, and you can't imagine how much it means to me.

  • @jamescatford3623
    @jamescatford3623 2 года назад +549

    Love your work JP and what a privilege to live in an age that I can stream this level of intellectual conversation for free, but man sometimes you just gotta let a guy speak, your insights are amazing and it’s not like when you cut Robert off you don’t provide an amazing detail to the pod, but it would have been nice to hear the end of what he was saying on a number of occasions!

    • @bellanoire2271
      @bellanoire2271 2 года назад +53

      Ok I thought it was just me lol

    • @letshowit_3956
      @letshowit_3956 2 года назад +36

      100% agreed

    • @doyle6000
      @doyle6000 2 года назад +19

      agree

    • @sophiestephens5811
      @sophiestephens5811 2 года назад +33

      Agreed. I love JP, but he can talk over people that he is excited to speak with.

    • @s0lidniy
      @s0lidniy 2 года назад +21

      Extremely frustrating. I'm 40min in and he hasn't let Robert finish a single thought

  • @ruizian
    @ruizian 16 дней назад

    Jordan always interrupting, in a good way, bringing out relevant snippets. I love this duo

  • @rast4man
    @rast4man 8 месяцев назад +1

    The books exist for people that are truly understanding their own two sides. How to live with the obvious dark side and almost become friends and harness the usable power, and also, capitalize on the good side and become aware of others dark sides.

  • @SeanKernan
    @SeanKernan 2 года назад +19

    You could tell Jordan was really enjoying this. He went from not really knowing who Greene was to loving his company.

    • @ShadaeMastersAstrology
      @ShadaeMastersAstrology 2 года назад +4

      @@kaivogel253 I peeped this big time with his interview. At moments I thought Jordan was actually trying to insult Green. It was quite cringe bc he insisted this man was bullied although Greene reiterated that it wasn’t the case.

  • @BelladonnaRiso
    @BelladonnaRiso Год назад +21

    "The worst people torture the people who are competent." That sums it up! As funny as it sounds, I LOVED the honesty of this book on power and deception.

  • @dji-k
    @dji-k 5 месяцев назад +8

    When we are with the right person, we can easily open to talk about things we wouldn't talk about with anyone else. I love their calmness, respect for each other's thoughts and honest conversations. Conversations like this can last a lifetime. Incredible!!

  • @felicisimomalinao1981
    @felicisimomalinao1981 11 месяцев назад +28

    Great sharing - Jordan Peterson and Robert Greene. I was really curious as to how an accomplished psychologist would interview Robert Greene. I had to replay this video more times than any other. These two men complement each other. More please.

  • @cameronidk2
    @cameronidk2 2 года назад +44

    The 48 laws of Power is one of the most dangerous Books of the 21'st century. It's the equivalent of a modern Pandora's box on a individual level. It is Well written, well researched well thought out .. and in my opinion every thing it clams to be ...

    • @HelderP1337
      @HelderP1337 2 года назад +3

      I also clam it's pretty good.

    • @leroy707
      @leroy707 2 года назад +1

      Yes. Extremely dangerous book. Extremely well researched and written. That’s what makes it dangerous. I got through 8 chapters and had to close it.

  • @facu5563
    @facu5563 2 года назад +140

    We need a part 2 of this interview, looking forward for when Robert's book comes out!

    • @blowupjames
      @blowupjames 2 года назад

      Yes, part two please!!

    • @Cagalhuni
      @Cagalhuni 2 года назад +10

      Looking forward where we can hear more of Robert as well!! Robert was so gentle he left it until the last minute of the video to praise Dr. Peterson in expressing that he read Maps of Meaning, even though Dr. Peterson did not even read or know much of Robert Greene's books and writings!! Hope Dr. Peterson can let his guest speak more next time!

    • @walteredstates
      @walteredstates 2 года назад +3

      Yes, please! Part two - with Mr. Greene getting no less than 80%..no, well: %75 airtime.
      Do you read that, Herr @Jordan B Peterson? 😁😘 still - love yer work, very much.

    • @nursegaines3519
      @nursegaines3519 2 года назад +1

      @@Cagalhuni Yea, JP is use to being the expert in the situation and ALWAYS having the floor. It's kool when he's being interviewed but not when he's interviewing... it's a little irritating 🤏🏿

  • @slr-d
    @slr-d 8 месяцев назад

    To:
    *Anyone who's listening to this and thinking "I'm not feeling this"*
    TRUST ME.
    You're just not *ready* yet.
    Try to listen again in about 6 months, if not try another 6. Until it starts to *click*
    Between Dr Peterson's insightful questions based from his profession and the material of Greene's work;
    This is likely one of the Greatest and Most insightful and actual honest conversations that's ever existed on the internet!

  • @everything5797
    @everything5797 5 месяцев назад +1

    I love how they enjoyed eachother's company, they sound like old friends reunited

  • @yeevelyndeng4563
    @yeevelyndeng4563 2 года назад +40

    JP, your ideas and stories are awesome, I'm a huge fan. But you gotta let other people talk without cutting them off.

    • @sevenlocks5238
      @sevenlocks5238 2 года назад +7

      100%

    • @ivthecause
      @ivthecause 2 года назад

      Came to comment this

    • @1911free
      @1911free 2 года назад +1

      @@ivthecause for me it feels more like JP is such a big RG fan that just poors himself out. It's like he is trying to earn his validation.

    • @beaujones5124
      @beaujones5124 2 года назад

      Kindred spirits and Jordan couldn’t wait to chime in. I completely understand the urge though.

    • @yeevelyndeng4563
      @yeevelyndeng4563 2 года назад

      @@1911free he does this a lot with other people too though. I also watched a video after writing this where he actually says something like "people have criticized me in the past for cutting other people off, and it's because of my high extraversion that I do this." I think it was his daughter's interview with he and his wife where they talk about the big five results for the two of them and how it affects their relationship.

  • @paulet990
    @paulet990 2 года назад +127

    I turned my husband onto Jordan Peterson years ago and now he's begging me watch these videos with him. This is the best discussion yet, and I have loved most of them. Greene's observations in the workplace are spot on -- concepts I've never really heard articulated so well before. And he's right that these experiences can traumatize a naive person. I am an early retiree -- part of "the Great Quit" aka "the Great Retire" precisely because I could not participate in that environment anymore. I was in Marketing for 25 years and now believe that the constant cognitive dissonance American marketing perpetuates in American peoples' minds is contributing to a very mentally unwell society.

    • @flspacebear
      @flspacebear 2 года назад +2

      JBP ftw

    • @jordanmercier3616
      @jordanmercier3616 2 года назад +7

      The end of your comment reminds me of that bill Hicks bit about marketing. "If there's anyone in marketing here tonight, KYS, no seriously do. There's no rationalization for what you do and you are Satan's little helpers."

    • @BPBrutalPenguin
      @BPBrutalPenguin 2 года назад +4

      Could you elaborate on your views on marketing please?

    • @only5186
      @only5186 2 года назад +2

      @@BPBrutalPenguin Would love to hear it to! There's alot to be said

    • @kostamojin9591
      @kostamojin9591 2 года назад +1

      Really? Do you believe it creates and perpetuates cognitive dissonance? I would love to hear even a basic exploration of that it sounds genuinely fascinating.

  • @Alien_at_Large
    @Alien_at_Large Год назад +31

    I just added 48 Laws of Power to my Audible library. I was recently diagnosed with autism, which diagnosis I sought after I suffered a terrible failure. As an adult, I am really terrible at endearing anyone to me despite my supposed intelligence and talent. This book sounds like it is going to frame social interaction in a practical way that I can understand. Thanks for bringing this to my attention; I'm going to need it.

    • @dibbi3237
      @dibbi3237 Год назад

      Any opinions on it so far?

    • @Alien_at_Large
      @Alien_at_Large Год назад +7

      @@dibbi3237 The rules that I've heard so far are interesting. If you like history, you would enjoy all of the historical examples he gives for obeying each law and transgressing each law. It turned out to be a little too much history for me (math person here), and I keep falling asleep while listening, lol. That being said, I'm sure that keeping some of these in mind is going to be handy in the future. The book will not really teach a person to form loving, trusting relationships with peers; rather it's extremely pragmatic, which would seem to preserve the emotional distance between people. I would not use a lot of these rules on people I actually cared about.

    • @dibbi3237
      @dibbi3237 Год назад +5

      @Alien at Large I feel the same way for the most part. Some laws felt too unfeeling for me to see any value in, apart from theoretical application. Thinking on it, though, I realized that these are incredibly important for those in situations less blessed than my own. After realizing this and thinking more about my less positive interactions I actually came to find I was utilizing some of the colder laws in more toxic relationships with people in my past. It's definitely a fascinating concept of a book, to say the least. Thanks for your response.

    • @user-bl3si3kq6x
      @user-bl3si3kq6x Год назад +1

      Thanks for posting this. I am like you but I love history and math bores me

    • @cooked.gaming
      @cooked.gaming 11 месяцев назад +1

      I would advise you get it in a readable form! Audiobooks are great, but this is one of those which is more useful I believe in print form!!! Good luck and all the best ❤

  • @extremelucky1
    @extremelucky1 Год назад +19

    Two fantastic minds of human psychology. Greene is so underrated. Glad he’s getting the spotlight. His books are phenomenal

  • @netkhuwari2298
    @netkhuwari2298 2 года назад +46

    I felt as if Peterson was trying to intimidate Robert by his psychological knack. But, Robert actually used the mirroring technique to its maximum. It was awesome to watch 2 x highly educated minds of the world.

    • @SimbaAliaye
      @SimbaAliaye 2 года назад +7

      Passion not intimidation. 😆

    • @kevinq6628
      @kevinq6628 2 года назад +2

      Intimidate? 😂 this is not a competition

    • @CryBaby2211
      @CryBaby2211 2 года назад +4

      Robert’s facial expression kinda stagnates everytime jordan peterson cuts his stories

    • @kevinq6628
      @kevinq6628 2 года назад +1

      @@CryBaby2211 yes I saw this

    • @miriamb2367
      @miriamb2367 2 года назад +10

      @@CryBaby2211 He wasn't allowed to talk. Peterson probably felt threatened by Greene's worldview, but Greene handled it like a champ and got more exposure for his books. At the end of the day, that's what matters.

  • @TheFesta01
    @TheFesta01 2 года назад +51

    I was raised by a hippy/feminist who taught me that all of my masculine traits were bad. This affected me a great deal. I grew up so confused and hating myself. Depression anxiety drug addiction all came calling later.

    • @zedrockiby
      @zedrockiby 2 года назад +9

      Yeah fuck all that shit, hit the gym, do a fuck load of push-ups, get full of T and earn a boat load of money 😎

    • @criss5405
      @criss5405 2 года назад +1

      She has issues. You are well created!

    • @TheFesta01
      @TheFesta01 2 года назад +15

      @@proudatheist2042 it was bad, she got let down greatly by her family. I don’t blame everything on parenting ... she tried her best and I know she cared but had bad guidance herself. Cycles y’know? Also I later got diagnosed as having aspergers and she kept trying to make me outgoing which was the opposite of what I needed. But hey that’s life right? Anyway she’s gone (last year) and I miss her everyday. But every so often I still get pangs of bitterness/anger call it what you will. Possibly part of the grieving process. But I’m really struggling to find strength atm. Thanks 4 asking btw. I hope life is treating you well.

    • @TheFesta01
      @TheFesta01 2 года назад +2

      @@zedrockiby thanks man. Hope life is treating you well.

    • @TheFesta01
      @TheFesta01 2 года назад +1

      @@criss5405 cheers cris.

  • @easyicesack
    @easyicesack 4 месяца назад +2

    Both of these guys are masters of conversation. What a joy to watch.

  • @liviamoraes2573
    @liviamoraes2573 2 года назад +42

    Please let the guest finish his thoughts. The conversation is always incredibly interesting, but for the most part we already know your views. The guest thoughts and what they are working on is what I want to discover. I would like to have learned more about him, his book and filosofie in combination with your opinion of course.

    • @nathan-vm4ss
      @nathan-vm4ss 2 года назад

      @soapfanaddict bruh what?? u good ??

    • @canguneri8355
      @canguneri8355 2 года назад

      @soapfanaddict ok edgy 15 year old

    • @rimotay
      @rimotay Год назад

      @soapfanaddict you're funny man

  • @CaribbeanSeaWaters
    @CaribbeanSeaWaters 2 года назад +82

    One of the best things that happened to me during the Pandemic was to come across Jordan, this discussion really helps me to understand my inner anger and not be afraid of it. Every time I listen to an episode by JP and with guests, I feel is the best use of my time. I love the example of cleaning the room or having some order in one’s life, could sound banal, but is soo true. Great discussion gentleman, May God keep you going in good health!

    • @HarleyQuinn-bg3jp
      @HarleyQuinn-bg3jp 2 года назад +5

      I survived the last 2 years because Jordan Taught me the history I was never taught to then be prepared and see it all coming. I owe this man my life!

    • @summan41man
      @summan41man 2 года назад +1

      @@kaivogel253 Your comment is either quite ambiguous, or grammatically misleading, maybe both. Could you please elaborate?

    • @CaribbeanSeaWaters
      @CaribbeanSeaWaters 2 года назад +3

      @@kaivogel253 are you Perfect? Perhaps don’t comment on my comment if you will hide it with your negativity. If he is not helpful to you, stop following him.

    • @HarleyQuinn-bg3jp
      @HarleyQuinn-bg3jp 2 года назад

      @@kaivogel253 Why are you here watching them ?

  • @rezaerlangga6482
    @rezaerlangga6482 8 месяцев назад

    About power/ambition,
    Ambition is a good thing, even a positive thing
    It means that you believed in yourself
    , you have some self
    , and you believe you're worth something
    And you want to go out and achieve and creates something worthwhile for other people

  • @kimeldiin1930
    @kimeldiin1930 Год назад +2

    I am a European engineer , and a fair number of my friends have tried to work in the US , for most of them it took very long to realize that to , as is SO important here , get somewhere it wasn't important to do a good job but to backstab ur colleagues....and THUS APPEAR ,better than the others .....after which they gave up on working in the US as the emotional cost was FAR TOO BIG !

  • @Superdisco199
    @Superdisco199 2 года назад +9

    I was a super creative kid, but I can't access any of that because of my deep resentment for my dad. I've had a life of dreams where i'm bashing him to death because he's always ridiculed me and laughed at whatever I've said and never let me express power. Resentment is the most toxic energy robbing emotion of all.

  • @christineprovo4883
    @christineprovo4883 2 года назад +113

    I drowned when I was under 5. I remember it fondly. Quite peaceful looking out into the murky lake, definitely not fearful.
    A year ago I almost died in a car accident and while I had no fear of death prior to this the accident flipped a switch in my brain. Nothing matters, you’re going to die and none of it will have mattered. Start living life without being afraid of other peoples reactions, stop living in the past. I’ve lived through incredible pain, there is very little anyone can do to hurt me further. I had no fear of death why should I live life in fear?

    • @mojo6112
      @mojo6112 2 года назад +2

      Weird question: do u consider yourself lucky?

    • @pr5pr
      @pr5pr 2 года назад

      I also had a near-death experience with a bike crash. fell on my face (hitting the bike handlebar), next to a steep road, with a speed around 30 miles. but that was a very winning moment in my life, because it taught me to let go of vanity and lame stuff, and instead focus on my Mission. and it was like a green light that I'm destined for something, because if not, I would have been dead in that situation.

    • @bperez8656
      @bperez8656 2 года назад

      😍

  • @dres5510
    @dres5510 Год назад +3

    I first watched a short clip of this video and noticed how Dr. Peterson was interrupting Greene and I was a bit taken aback. I was very intrigued by what Greene was saying and wanted to hear more of his thoughts. Dr. Peterson you are someone I look up to and admire but please allow for others to speak their minds and finish their sentences lol

  • @Milla300
    @Milla300 Год назад +2

    Jordan doesn’t interrupt like from anything other then he is obviously trying to stay in the moment he has been going hard for people despite some kind of health battle he teaches communication people this is him wanting to promote dialogue amidst needing to mitigate his health issues

  • @micbetancur9131
    @micbetancur9131 2 года назад +311

    Thrilled to have the opportunity to listen to two of the biggest minds willing to guide my generation. I really wish Jordan would have let Robert finish his thoughts more, I can tell Jordan was very excited to be speaking to Robert. But other than that, this was super interesting, I'd like to see more.

    • @PiMiner
      @PiMiner Год назад +5

      I think the more time they would have talked together that differential would even out. Although Jordan did talk a lot, I do think Robert really wanted to listen to what he had to say. As if a negative outcome in the short-term but good in the long-term. I want to see more as well!

    • @gormenfreeman499
      @gormenfreeman499 Год назад +5

      Great to see my two favourite authors here talking, but it felt like two people just waiting for their turn to talk. It felt aimless.

    • @dembashow
      @dembashow Год назад +9

      Definitelly, the interview shows how Robert is better listener than Jordan. I really wanted to stop jordan some times.

    • @sardonyxsky
      @sardonyxsky Год назад +2

      who cares ... let the man have his conversation

    • @BSmiths100
      @BSmiths100 Год назад

      AHAHAHAHAHAH u r sick!

  • @Heathmcdonald
    @Heathmcdonald 2 года назад +68

    it's very strange that I've learned more about human psychology from one of his books than all of the lecture and books I've consumed on the subject and his books are obviously anecdotal and have examples from both factual historical accounts and works of classical fiction

    • @SI-rv9te
      @SI-rv9te 2 года назад

      Interesting...which book?

    • @FiremarshalM1
      @FiremarshalM1 2 года назад

      @@JohnDoe-iu5xi thanks for the recommendation

    • @dalnim4294
      @dalnim4294 2 года назад +2

      @@SI-rv9te Absolutely read the 48 Laws of Power, it’s just brilliant

    • @carsonhunt4642
      @carsonhunt4642 2 года назад +2

      I’ve heard Peterson talk about people who get punished for being virtuous, but that’s about as far as he goes. Where as this new guy he is talking to resonates with me deeper than I ever thought anyone would.
      It bothers me beyond belief how we were lied to about working hard (results) and they’d get you anywhere etc. when in reality you are more likely to be punished for such behaviors. If you show up to work with a smile, they’ll be more likely to try and put you down behind your back. Because why can he be happy when you’re not?
      I never liked to play the game of politics, yet without it you can’t get anywhere….
      Anyways rambling aside, he’s one of the first I’ve seen acknowledging this oddity that most won’t admit exists. Would love to learn more and hopefully put it to use in my work life. Thanks for the recommendation👍

    • @YoutubeCommenter1
      @YoutubeCommenter1 2 года назад

      @@JohnDoe-iu5xi What have I done to you?

  • @sarahmcbeth9156
    @sarahmcbeth9156 8 месяцев назад

    Robert Greene basically unveils in a clear and systematic way the games many people play but nobody wants to talk about. That's why some people show a negative reaction.

  • @SwaggaJonez1
    @SwaggaJonez1 Год назад +9

    This has to be ONE GREATEST INTERVIEWS OFF ALL TIME🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @rsnnrichardsnydersnewsnetw5388
      @rsnnrichardsnydersnewsnetw5388 Год назад

      I am just watching this now, but if you want to see another good interview, watch The Fall doctor as Jordan, Peterson, interview.

  • @DannySullivanMusic
    @DannySullivanMusic 2 года назад +67

    This is undoubtedly the best interview of Robert Greene I've seen. Thank you Jordan and Robert for coming together to make magic!

    • @carsonhunt4642
      @carsonhunt4642 2 года назад +5

      It’s the first time I’ve ever wanted to hear more from the interviewee instead of JP lol!
      I didn’t know this guy before the interview, so I thank JP for the discovery.

    • @mikeohernia5498
      @mikeohernia5498 2 года назад +24

      @@carsonhunt4642 I wish Jordan would shut up for 5 minutes

    • @raulvelez2827
      @raulvelez2827 2 года назад +8

      @@mikeohernia5498 agreed. I love hearing Dr Peterson, but here he just shows he needs to improve his interviewing skills.

    • @benjaminweber7944
      @benjaminweber7944 2 года назад +7

      They need a round 2 interview, I'd like JP to go deeper into the views of Robert Greene, but for that he needs to probably read some of his books, especially the 48 laws of power, and the art of seduction.

    • @AndreasFroehliPoker
      @AndreasFroehliPoker 2 года назад +10

      disagree, there are a lot of better interviews out there, where there's less interruption

  • @ryanhelmer9369
    @ryanhelmer9369 2 года назад +27

    Never outshine the master... I hand picked tobacco with my father, and tried to win his affection by harvesting better than everyone had ever seen to earn his honour or pride. He was so cross with me that I had the worst day or season of my life. I found one of the most valuable fossils ever discovered in the field while I was working. The next worst two days of my life where scenarios of the same tragedy, but to my surprise, I found the two other most valuable stones in the known world.

    • @fauciliedbeaglesdied6537
      @fauciliedbeaglesdied6537 2 года назад +6

      Where can we Read about your discoveries?

    • @Junglebtc
      @Junglebtc 2 года назад +1

      @@fauciliedbeaglesdied6537 Great name my friend! As per your question links to your claims OP

    • @leinaddnalkrik9009
      @leinaddnalkrik9009 2 года назад +6

      😆 I think the "stones" OP is referring to aren't what you think. 😉
      He's most likely talking about discovering his assertive masculinity.

    • @fauciliedbeaglesdied6537
      @fauciliedbeaglesdied6537 2 года назад +1

      @@leinaddnalkrik9009 Oh my. Right over my head. This is embarrassing. 😅

    • @Torsdagskvallsmys
      @Torsdagskvallsmys 2 года назад

      sound like you need a therapist.

  • @bigmack6344
    @bigmack6344 9 месяцев назад +3

    This is the type of content I’m looking for. Two highly intellectual men applying their skillsets to real world events that impact individuals in different ways. Robert E Greene’s books has literally been life savers whether it be in romantic relationship or dealing with work place politics. For me, he is the best author whose books I’ve ever read.

  • @Lauren-cu6ht
    @Lauren-cu6ht 11 месяцев назад

    Jordan, this was a perfect moment to allow your guest to speak fully instead of interrupting and interjecting your thoughts, experiences, and opinions, but for some reason you did not allow him to get a word in edgewise.

  • @josephineonearth
    @josephineonearth Год назад +27

    Very frustrating how Jordan never let Robert finish. That said, both brilliant, wonderful souls. I always feel richer after listening to either one, thank you for the wonderful insights.

    • @bunnylopez1808
      @bunnylopez1808 Год назад +5

      lol yes, I think Jordon met his male soulmate and got way too excited, he's almost confessing to Robert. They are two of my favorite intellectuals.

    • @josephineonearth
      @josephineonearth Год назад +1

      @@bunnylopez1808 I think you're right!

  • @aboucard93
    @aboucard93 2 года назад +134

    These two men are incredible and are helping me through life

  • @aloha1005
    @aloha1005 20 дней назад

    Green is so capable of explaining nuances about his feelings , experiences and observations. I have 2 of his books ! Great thinker. He wanted to be a writer. He has reached even more than that. He has become a great thinker!

  • @aloha1005
    @aloha1005 20 дней назад

    These 2 great thinkers should write a book together! Would be absolutely out of this world!

  • @originalAtreyu
    @originalAtreyu 2 года назад +5

    Jordan, I value your content immensely, and have for a long time. I know that you know you have a propensity to overspeak. Please continue to work on your patience to listen to the full thoughts if your guests.

  • @joeythakyd
    @joeythakyd 2 года назад +5

    Robert greene talking about bumping that 50 cent to put him in the mood got me cracking up he g unit now

  • @cinderling5472
    @cinderling5472 8 месяцев назад +9

    Ohh i could sit at the feet of these intellectual giants and listen forever...
    ABSOLUTELY precious 💖🥺
    I really hope they'll grace us with one of these again. Their chemistry and connection is off the charts!
    A joy to see ❤ Thank you for this!

  • @melissasimoneau7142
    @melissasimoneau7142 3 месяца назад +1

    I thoroughly enjoyed the podcast featuring Dr. Peterson and Mr. Green. Their insightful conversation was captivating, and I could easily spend hours listening to their perspectives. I truly admire these individuals and express my gratitude for facilitating such an exceptional exchange. Thank you for this enriching experience.

  • @MrJbritt84
    @MrJbritt84 Год назад +142

    I remember when I first read 48 LOP it put me into a dark place leaving me trust issues. After maturing and learning more in the world I came back to try it again. After that it brought me more awareness and ways to delicately work with evil/corrupt/egotistical people in a smoother manor. Certain tools for certain jobs. Same way we can’t use a hammer to fix everything. Awesome interview with two great minds.

    • @franciscogerardohernandezr4788
      @franciscogerardohernandezr4788 Год назад +2

      How old were you at that time? I intend to read it and discuss each law with my son, but I am not sure about the appropriate age for it.

    • @MrJbritt84
      @MrJbritt84 Год назад +8

      @@franciscogerardohernandezr4788 I believe I was about 20y/o when I first read it. The reason why I can come back now and see it differently is because learned more about ego. Ego chases power and will use deceptive practices in order to obtain and protect it. Not everyone however operates from that area. It's good to read with someone and provide them with further understanding that not everyone in the world is like that but to be aware of it. That's my opinion with it

    • @joshuadasilva3995
      @joshuadasilva3995 Год назад +3

      Yah i agree. I feel that you have to be in the right state of mind to dwelve into the book, knowing that it should probably not be used as a tool to manipulate, but rather as a shield, understanding how people in the world operate and being able to navigate those situations

    • @ivywoodxrecords
      @ivywoodxrecords Год назад

      @@joshuadasilva3995 Actually the argument of that book is based on Machiavelli's school of thought, which basically states that you should use whatever means necessary to gain power, as the one who does so has the RIGHT to do so.
      Its the same ethic that got Tupac killed at 25 years old. Careful, men.

    • @MrJbritt84
      @MrJbritt84 Год назад +1

      @@joshuadasilva3995 100%. But if a person is overcome with a thirst for power along with a high ego then it instructs how to tactfully work with them. I've found two things that unfortunately can corrupt is $ and power.

  • @jasperrafols750
    @jasperrafols750 2 года назад +48

    Dr. Peterson I love the talk but please let your guests finish their sentences first 😅. As always, great learning and had me thinking about my previous self too and evaluated myself from the "now" perspective.

    • @alpakka1920
      @alpakka1920 2 года назад +8

      I thought the same, even though I like listening to Dr. Peterson, he did cut Robert Greene off quite a few times.

  • @SlimeOhIm
    @SlimeOhIm 8 месяцев назад

    In this I can see how they’re both talking and letting each other speak. Jordan did speak in a few different times and I agree it almost seemed over bearing. But I didn’t hear that “breathe taking” from his voice. Meaning he wasn’t chopping that the bit to get a word out. I’d love to be more like both Robert and Jordan. I want friends who are similar to them and I have to make myself that way to achieve it.

  • @larsschafer2948
    @larsschafer2948 Год назад +5

    I can feel every single word Robert Greene says is 100% True... and honest. I love his attitude.

  • @Nikthehermit
    @Nikthehermit Год назад +23

    This conversation really shows just how dynamic of a mind Robert Greene really has, he’s able to take Peterson head on, without going with his highs and lows. Peterson is very scattered verbally but intellectually vicious. While Greene actually has quite a “heart” while being able to keep this “veil” of realism around the conversation. This was really interesting.

    • @sumfattytuna1
      @sumfattytuna1 9 месяцев назад

      this comment goes deep as hell

  • @CRFSUIGENERIS
    @CRFSUIGENERIS 2 года назад +105

    Finally! They got together! This is an amazing meeting of the minds. I can feel the synergy between the highly cerebral intellect of Peterson and the earthy intuitive wisdom of Greene. Thank you for this.

  • @jenbingham0914
    @jenbingham0914 Год назад +13

    The very 1st reading from the rules in the intro resonated so well with me. My IQ was tested in grade school to determine exactly what grade I belonged in because I was excelling so quickly and basically burning through the curriculum. It was determined that I had a rather high IQ and would be better suited to move up 2 years in school, but my mother refused. I learned early on that the best idea for a very smart person, was to never ever let on how smart you are unless a situation really calls for it. I learned that back in the 80's and it has served me well.

    • @cooked.gaming
      @cooked.gaming 11 месяцев назад

      As a high IQ individual who dropped out of school at 15, i feel the same
      If you shine too strongly, everybody around will try and dim your brightness

    • @peterburns4586
      @peterburns4586 9 месяцев назад

      But if you have a burning lamp, do you hide it away beneath the table? Rather you should hold it up for people to use the light to see clearly. Otherwise it's instrumental machiavellianism

    • @peterburns4586
      @peterburns4586 9 месяцев назад

      But if you have a burning lamp, do you hide it away beneath the table? Rather you should hold it up for people to use the light to see clearly. Otherwise it's instrumental machiavellianism

    • @RafaelBenedicto
      @RafaelBenedicto 7 месяцев назад

      Agreed. As the Japanese proverb says it: "The nail that sticks out gets hammered back into place".

  • @Chris-cf2kp
    @Chris-cf2kp Год назад +36

    19:00 I've always had this kind of lingering apprehension about working for anyone else that he describes, ever since working a job where the people there were the type of people he describes who try to denigrate and undermine someone for doing a good job - and especially someone who outdoes them for their own incompetence or negligence. I work for myself now, which was a benefit, but it definitely ruined my perception of work environments that most people find themselves in, and it did leave a sort of residual trauma - because it caused chaos when I was doing everything right. Infuriating really, when you get down to the bottom of it.

    • @patmanpatmanson
      @patmanpatmanson Год назад +2

      Thank you man, that was quite interesting! Right now in this exact position.

    • @Chris-cf2kp
      @Chris-cf2kp Год назад +3

      @@patmanpatmanson My advice to you, is to speak the truth in your defense as clearly and articulately as possible, especially if it will rock the boat. Document and record information of your work as carefully and in as much detail as possible to back up this truthful, conscientious mode of speech. This is a tactic Dr. Peterson advises for situations like these, where people are detracting from their environment and trying to undermine you maliciously, intentionally or not.. He has talked about speaking extremely truthfully of your thoughts and observations even if it will cause upheaval, because that upheaval is always better than the outcome of allowing truth to go unspoken or unrecognized. Have exit-strategies lined up in advance, in the way of an updated resume and new interviews ready if necessary - an important key factor if people who should listen to that truth choose not to or are apart of the problem in the first place. Best of luck.

    • @BeautynBrains75
      @BeautynBrains75 Год назад +3

      Residual trauma 😆 it was more than that, man! Remember Jordan's talk when he spoke about how when we're at a shitty job or toxic work environment. We hatch a brilliant plan in our heads to get out in 5 years type thing. He then reminds that we may stay on at the company for those five years, but it may take 20 yrs just to restore the bits of our wrecked freaking soul that has been stolen in the process! I worked there too, friend. I was there. I worked in a government position that was corporate psychopathology at its best. There are devils! Even if I didn't believe in them before I did by the end. I wanted to write about the experience but was too drained and infuriated to even function by the end of it.
      I did come to realise that there seems to be a virus or disease of sorts that occurs. Sadly, even if a perfectly emotionally, mentally, or spiritually healthy person joins that environment, they will become infected in time. If they're smart, they'll get out quickly before it robs their soul!

    • @BeautynBrains75
      @BeautynBrains75 Год назад +3

      @Patman Patmanson prayers. I will honestly spend energy and time meditating and seeing goodness and success for you, and covering from conflict and torment in your environment. I've been out of mine over a year now but I'd have given anything for someone to relate or be able to truly understand what I was going through. People don't want to hear that sht. I hear you. The only solace I had was that I finally chose to invest just as much time visualizing, planning, and putting into place the pieces to make my future bigger than my present as the time I spent dealing with the burn out, trauma, and daily 'beatings' i was recieving. I now work for myself. I am completely changed by the experience but I went back to school and finished a masters.
      Bnb

    • @Chris-cf2kp
      @Chris-cf2kp Год назад +1

      @@BeautynBrains75 "but it may take 20 yrs just to restore the bits of our wrecked freaking soul that has been stolen in the process!" So damn true. That stress and malice literally changes DNA. I don't recall encountering JP talking about this specifically but I've watched enough of him to have gotten that gist, and certainly had the anecdotal experience of it myself. When you're in those situations, in the meat-grinder of the slog - fight or flight inducing weight that is it's routine, it's all too difficult to see a way out but there are always such small steps, actions, and beliefs that can be shifted towards improvement at the most immediate and simple level before having to worry about the whole 'dragon.' Learning about personality types through JP, among the big five, and how certain types of people will essentially 'funnel' through 'valleys' to certain fields of work or end up trapped in them was revelatory - because I think what can happen, like you say, good people can end up among bad - and those types can change others around them - embitter - if they're stuck with each other - not to say clashing personality types are inherently 'bad' but you certainly need to know what yours are so you are at least in the right field, first off. Because then you will be emboldened as a competent force among your peers to hold them up to high standards, and to speak out with purpose when others try to detract from your environment. The faster and more proactively you 'care for yourself like another person you love' and realign your life - accepting your own faults or mistakes, and taking responsibility for your position in your life and trying to change it, the better - especially in comparison to the outcome of NOT doing so - being stuck in a toxic environment, not making the most of your own potential, being pulled down by others for their own abandon or whim. Scary, really, how easy it is to end up feeling stuck like that. My prayers go out to Pat too, and anyone else in a similar situation.