I am flawed. This is where we are now-imagine white women questioning what a BLACK man’s “type” is for dating a BLACK woman. We live in a society where it feels almost unusual for successful Black men to choose Black women as their partners. Let that sink in.
Because it is unusual especially in the media. If his type is YT then I wouldn't be surprised if he's with Meg bc of her status no matter how fine Meg is 😂
Yup people were just under a post of Lavar ball and his sons where they were stating all of their deals in the caption. His wife was in the picture and mofos was talking about they couldn’t have reached such success with a black woman. Im sorry but some Black American men are very disparaging 😢 They leave all this space and opportunity to not only degrade their women themselves but for others to do it also.
This!! Why can’t she leave these rappers and ball players alone😭😭 and I don’t want to be that person but after I saw that clip of Megan and him doing that tik tok trend, it definitely gave she likes him more than he likes her
To think a black man is not attracted to a black woman would be really delusional… That girl seemed very much angry and bothered and knew exactly who Meagan was
It's not that delusional tbh black men show and tell everyday how much that dislike black women and think we are all ghetto uneducated trauma filled hoodlums with no decorum 🤣
The white girl on the right side said she learned men dont have a type. I prefer to say men will sample everything on a buffet table even though they prefer 1 type of meal. I agree with you that if a man usually dates 1 type of woman to be cautious. Pay attention to if he speaks like he's doing you a favor when he mentions your race, skin colour, size, background etc. I made that mistake years ago and it cost me my mental peace.
Yes!! There can be exceptions to the rule, but they usually end up with their “type.” And I agree they will give it away with statements about you “not being their typical type” smh
I once saw a tiktok of this gorgeous black girl narrating how her white friend was offended people were complimenting her beauty and not complimenting the friend. She said her friend couldn’t believe people found her attractive and not the friend.
3:51 this gave me the biggest ick ever 💀 she knows damn well how to pronounce “Megan” correctly lmaoo Also supposedly not knowing Meg Thee Stallion but knowing tory lanez.. mhm, sureeee Olivia sureee 💀💀💀
She’s a big hater she even throws shade at the other two girls on the podcast all the time . I peeped that a while ago when I tried to watch their podcast. Because she think she looks better than the other two.
That’s how those women really feel about the men they date (Black); they make them feel like they are better than Black women. (happens often than you think) Somebody’s type can change, but I don't know.
(Happens more often than you think) Sweetheart as if that conversation alone hasn’t been the backbone of black commentary RUclips. Be serious. People are well aware of the epidemic, more than YOU know.
Yea. But I don’t even think it’s always that. I think white people in general feel like they are better. So, the man doesn’t have to necessarily do or say anything. When they get with a black dude, they are in some weird unwarranted competition with us. Especially Latinas.
What black women should be concerned with is who is good for her? It's not always going to be a black man. Sometimes you might find one that is really good other times not so much.
Idk why Megan, a well-educated and DECORATED top charting rapper, continues to mess with dusty blck men that aren't in her league. It makes absolutely no sense. Also, if this man has a history of dating the mayo mafia, trust and believe he's likely with Megan for clout.
1. Those three were definitely microaggressive. 2. I get your/their point. I think it would be more cemented if his child's mother wasn't a Black woman. 3. I know it was just ole boy's stage name but Megan couldn't find anyone else with a different name lol like that had to throw her off a little bit
I've met stuff like this before. Their question is valid because when some black men date non-black women they talk so BAD about black women is scary. It became a red flag for me to date a guy who only dated non-black girls before because he will act like he's doing me a favour and that there's always better than me. And men's type is hard to change but that's my opinion 🤷🏾♀️
I remember when Russell Wilson’s ex almost had a heart attack when Russell got with the beautiful singer Ciara,Snow rabbits really believe once you go white you never go back 😂
It’s because he’s said some crazy and foul stuff about black women and now here like “wait but you said….” They should have made it known what he was saying. Don’t be scared now lol say what he said bookie
You’re definitely an OG subscriber then! I really gotta bring it back with a studio recorded track because it was an era ✨😂 thanks for watching the podcast and supporting my episode with Taylor! 🩷
The fact that these women are sitting up talking about who this chicks ex is dating definitely gives off bothered vibes. I could care less who my ex dates they’re an ex for reason.
Remember when Travis Kelce started dating Taylor and her fans dragged Kayla Nicole simply for existing??? Something is wrong with them 👱🏻♀️ Godforbid they have to “compete” with a black woman
It’s female solidarity. But most black women don’t know what that is. She is trying to give a warning about a man. She can’t be all nice about it, because that would make her lose status.
Non black women get jealous and insecure around beautiful black woman. I’ve experienced this first hand the micro aggression come out when they aren’t the center of attention.
He’s dated several black women before. His child’s mother is even black. So what they’re saying doesn’t even make sense. He don’t just fw with skinny ww
She acted as if she didn’t know how to pronounce Megan’s name correctly.. but not even a minute later she knew who Tory Lanez was 🤔 girl be for real lol for obvious reasons, most ppl who know of Tory Lanez also know of Meg Thee Stallion
They acted the same way once they found out Jalen hurts girlfriend was black lolol They are so accustomed to being the preference for these athletes and genuinely use it as a battery pack for themselves that when they’re not chosen their true colors come out
Tbh they had a valid point. They were hinting to the fact he was using her for clout (which i think so too) he sounds trash af. Jalen don't have no background of only dating YTs
Facts. I had a coworker lose her mind when I told her Idris Elbas wife was black. She had to Google her. This same coworker was married to a black man who told her he just wasn't attracted to black women. Mind you they have two bi racial daughters .
@@JessAnonymous if I’m being honest with you, they do the same thing with white women. It’s literally no different, they get with one and it gets them more of them and then socially they advance in their circles. It’s no shade but he doesn’t need Megan he doesn’t do the same thing Megan does. So no he doesn’t need her. Sports and entertainment are two completely different categories where yes he may make a couple dollars more but is it enough money for it to be something where he needs to put on a show? No not by a longshot. He makes enough money as an athlete with his endorsements and through his team Just like she does not need him
They definitely sound pressed!! And I don’t know why they’re acting like Meg wouldn’t be his “type.” Although he might of dated mostly blonde girls in the past, Meg actually favors his bm a bit so it’s not a stretch to see him with someone like her at all!
I’m not offended by the athlete with the white woman trend because I think that women are treated as a trophy in these types of spaces and in THOSE spaces white women have been deemed as the prize. I think this is because sports ARE white spaces it’s the “good ol boys” club. These men live in the same society under racism as we do.
I can understand how it can come off racist like they’re putting themselves above or being better than Megan, but I’m indigenous and Middle Eastern, and I’ve dated a Puerto Rican and Italian mix man, whose type or past dating history was always always always ALWAYS petite, blonde hair (usually no longer than chest length and straight), blue eyes stereotypical girl and she usually was white. I’m not white, not skinny, have long curly jet black hair down to my hips, curvy, brown eyes, olive toned in my pale season and if I’m having an active summer outside just being out like gardening, walking my pets, biking, hiking, traveling which I try to do while the weather is nice since our winters can drop to -12, I get tan very easily just being out and not even purposely going out in baby boil and literally baking myself until golden like a lot of people do. I’m just living my life and will naturally tan because of my background. I am nothing like his normal girl so you do question “why is dude interested in me? What does he want from me? Does he have ulterior motives? Is he experimenting around and I’m just a test?” because it is weird. You can’t just ignore his history, you do have to take it in consideration even if you don’t take action on it. When I found out, I was shocked. When his family found out when he introduced me to them, they were shocked. When we would hang out with his friends they were shocked. Everyone he ever introduced me to from being his girlfriend to fiancé, EVERYBODY was shocked. Everybody was so shocked cause I was the *COMPLETE OPPOSITE* of what he usually goes with and people were worried saying we wouldn’t last cause I wasn’t his type. Guess what? They ended up being kinda right cause he cheated one year into the engagement his normal skinny, white, blond hair and blue eye girl type. Since we were engaged and almost married, it did take a slight mental toll on me thinking I wasn’t good enough as I am and if I was “his type” he wouldn’t have done this. I bounced back quick but it is natural to think that way when you’re upset. So if someone ventures out of their type they’re basically just experimenting to see if the grass is greener somewhere else- at least that’s the case normally.
Sorry to hear this happened to you as well.😕 When you put the perspective in such detail with your own experience, it actually does make a lot of sense. Another thing to vet for in the dating scene unfortunately.
I wish Megan would keep her new relationships all the way private until she 100% sure, I know its hard bc she is a celebrity but everyone always waiting for her to mess up or have a tragic heartbreak . But I'm hopeful she'll learn that in her 30s.
Hmm it's funny to me that these discussions are taking all these twists & turns & not addressing the very obvious issue that the reason for questioning if Megan is his type or not is to ascertain if he is only dating her for clout.
Its WEIRD. u wont hear black woman questioning if a white women is the type of a white man. N its not a 'New thing' if he has a black baby mama. Its shady how she couldn't say her name but she knew its a flex that he is with her. Dumb Dumb Dumb.
Yes been waiting on you to speak on this. Their blatant disrespect towards Meg was both uncalled for and astonishing to say the least. They act like a man can’t date two different races. HES ATTRACTED TO WOMEN PERIOD.
I think their question got backlash because that would be like black women thinking Travis Kelcey could never be attracted to a white woman because he normally dates black. Hes white. Thats the baseline.
What gets me about this is Tory’s type isn't strictly white or biracial women. His baby mama is literally black and he's dated countless of bw before too, so I question it when she says “type”
It’s the micro aggressions and pretending to not know Megan that was the real issue or that’s all the complaints I’ve seen. Also the fact that she has a video on her story with Megs song playing in the background. That’s the issue.
this is sad but this is what BLK MEN DID TO US.... I FEEL ACTUALLY sorry for these men. when blk men tell them they are better and look better. they believe it.... so
This is giving Opposite by Sabrina Carpenter but like if Regina George wrote it. I really hope that makes sense 😅 like instead of processing and working through your insecurities they’re projecting and trying to bring others down. It won’t make you feel better babes, hate to break it to you 😂
I never understand how women have a problem when their exes with someone new😅. Play he dumped you or you dumped him either way you're not together move the f on.
They were trying to be messy and imply he is using Meg for fame . Instead of just being real and saying that , they tried to do it in a passive aggressive way (how most white women do). All in all their comment was tasteless .
Nah she definitely looks black imo. She’s brown skin with obviously curly hair that happens to be long (and what does her hair being long have anything to do with her looking unambiguously black to you?)
Bottom line MEN DONT HAVE A TYPE….lets just leave it at that …don’t forget some men may date differently PUBLICLY but don’t be confused they have different types behind the BEARD
r yall not listening to what they’re saying???? One of the girls did a video explaining what she ment …. She said “It’s a red flag for when a man dates a certain type of woman who r a copy nd paste of each other, nd all of a sudden it changes” yes, they could be a bit bitter, but the depth of those words were much louder for me. All I got from this is tht man must have been talking down on black woman while in the presence of them. He was dating one of them. 🤷🏽♀️
They can’t listen. Starting to think they just feel hurt and rejected by the three Beccas. They’re so male identified they can’t see through their racism to realize these girls issued a warning. This man is a clout chaser and a race traitor.
The reality is that his baby mama is a black woman, so sounds like he goes after anything he can get. Also, I do think he was talking bad about black women to them. If they were really trying to warn Megan they should have said what he said instead of being passive aggressive and shady. Also, sayin Mag instead of Meg, when it’s not that hard to pronounce. Megan is a white girl name, please.
Manipulative people will literally find someone new that looks nothing like you! Just so you don’t get the satisfaction that they’re still looking for you in someone else. The goal is to triangulate and make you feel devalued or like you don’t compare because looks wise, you LITERALLY DON’T 😅
Does his type need to be questioned? Maybe he doesn’t have a type and he only likes good looking women? You showed the guys BM and the only fans girl and they both look black to me
I just feel like we’re all entitled to grow up and change our types. My types now are farrrrr from what I used to want in the past and if this is not the case, so be it. It’s not always set in stone.
This is one time Meg should have actually spoken out. Any other time, especially when it involves BW, she has something to say. She should have the same energy for them!
Why have energy for a person who wants to be her 🤣🤣 y'all so draining I'm here for Megan not speaking on this mess.. I can tell you the type to fight over a man
I like your pov I think us as black women need to sit this one out it’s obvious that ole dude over the years put down brown/black women around her for her to even have to ask that question let’s not act like most of society deem us as the ugly step sisters and are shock when we have high standards goals and dreams for ourself and I hope that she use her discernment when it comes to him because she may be a place holder until he finds someone that’s more his “type”
Hey Queen Chioma, love your videos! I think it’s important to note that it’s just the girls that get it, get it. There is sum sort of class system developed within our group as black women. Some of black women just haven’t learned to decenter black men and just focus on themselves and expand their options 🤷🏾♀️🏡
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It's them acting like they don't know her and pretending she can't say Meg, one of the whitest names😭
😅
Right!!!
GIRL DO YOU GET! 😂😂😂😂
They struggling to say the name of half of the white women in America they should get out disrespectfully
Srsly one of the whitest names 😂 salty ssa 304s
Megan should sample that and put it in a rap
I am flawed. This is where we are now-imagine white women questioning what a BLACK man’s “type” is for dating a BLACK woman. We live in a society where it feels almost unusual for successful Black men to choose Black women as their partners. Let that sink in.
Because it is unusual especially in the media. If his type is YT then I wouldn't be surprised if he's with Meg bc of her status no matter how fine Meg is 😂
do you mean that you’re “floored”?
Yup people were just under a post of Lavar ball and his sons where they were stating all of their deals in the caption. His wife was in the picture and mofos was talking about they couldn’t have reached such success with a black woman. Im sorry but some Black American men are very disparaging 😢 They leave all this space and opportunity to not only degrade their women themselves but for others to do it also.
Yeah that is actually very crazy and sad. The fact that they know they’re preferred over us is actually insane.
It's unusual to you because you hyper focus on the ones that aren't dating black woman.
Forget about him.... Meg needs to pick better 😭🤷🏽♀️
Men need to pick better than meg she is an industry thot say it ain't so
This!
she really does and try to keep that relationship private.
This!! Why can’t she leave these rappers and ball players alone😭😭 and I don’t want to be that person but after I saw that clip of Megan and him doing that tik tok trend, it definitely gave she likes him more than he likes her
she does why does she keep choosing these bozos
To think a black man is not attracted to a black woman would be really delusional… That girl seemed very much angry and bothered and knew exactly who Meagan was
They’re out there. I’m sorry, but these women wouldn’t be so bold to speak like this if those men did not exist.
Delusional? Plenty of BM do not prefer BW lmao, especially gen z.
It's not that delusional tbh black men show and tell everyday how much that dislike black women and think we are all ghetto uneducated trauma filled hoodlums with no decorum 🤣
@@artheaux666exactly
And his child's mother is a black woman! 🙄
The white girl on the right side said she learned men dont have a type. I prefer to say men will sample everything on a buffet table even though they prefer 1 type of meal. I agree with you that if a man usually dates 1 type of woman to be cautious. Pay attention to if he speaks like he's doing you a favor when he mentions your race, skin colour, size, background etc. I made that mistake years ago and it cost me my mental peace.
Yes!! There can be exceptions to the rule, but they usually end up with their “type.” And I agree they will give it away with statements about you “not being their typical type” smh
Plenty of men definitely have a type
Yes. Normal men will def recognize bad comes in ALL everything
Apt!!
@@hitsugayatoshiro3331you are here too😂
I once saw a tiktok of this gorgeous black girl narrating how her white friend was offended people were complimenting her beauty and not complimenting the friend. She said her friend couldn’t believe people found her attractive and not the friend.
They don't know Megan name yet know about her and Tory Lanez...interesting!!🤔
I caught that too. No they damn well knew and they were just being messy
they were trying to belittle her and it’s so crazy cause theyre literally prostitutes. like you have no room to be judging anybody.
And also somehow knew being tied to Megan will benefit the man??
3:51 this gave me the biggest ick ever 💀 she knows damn well how to pronounce “Megan” correctly lmaoo
Also supposedly not knowing Meg Thee Stallion but knowing tory lanez.. mhm, sureeee Olivia sureee 💀💀💀
right like girl stop playing, that actually pissed me off 😂
She’s a big hater she even throws shade at the other two girls on the podcast all the time . I peeped that a while ago when I tried to watch their podcast. Because she think she looks better than the other two.
That’s how those women really feel about the men they date (Black); they make them feel like they are better than Black women. (happens often than you think) Somebody’s type can change, but I don't know.
(Happens more often than you think) Sweetheart as if that conversation alone hasn’t been the backbone of black commentary RUclips. Be serious. People are well aware of the epidemic, more than YOU know.
Yea. But I don’t even think it’s always that. I think white people in general feel like they are better. So, the man doesn’t have to necessarily do or say anything. When they get with a black dude, they are in some weird unwarranted competition with us. Especially Latinas.
Say the quiet part out loud
Someone's type can also vary. It happens to women too.
What black women should be concerned with is who is good for her? It's not always going to be a black man. Sometimes you might find one that is really good other times not so much.
Somebody called them unseasoned Purdue chickens 😂❤ Love u Chioma!
Lol ❤
😂😂😂😂😂 undercooked and unseasoned
Never frozen or giving additives!😂GMO behavior 😂
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Idk why Megan, a well-educated and DECORATED top charting rapper, continues to mess with dusty blck men that aren't in her league. It makes absolutely no sense. Also, if this man has a history of dating the mayo mafia, trust and believe he's likely with Megan for clout.
Mayo mafia 😂🤣
@@HaHaGirl16 Y’know what- 💀💀💀
Hahaha
It’s likely her mentality and conditioning that’s allowing her to keep choosing these low quality men.
Exactly what I said! Megan needs to know her worth smh
i don’t even like megan like that but hearing those birds akekeing pissed me off 💀
Right 😂😂
Same!
Agreed 👍🏽
same
Right same here!*🙄
They had a valid question but i feel it came from a place of bad intent.
True
I feel like they were hinting at him using Meg for clout since she did say he was talking to other girls while with her (Olivia)
Agreed. It wasn’t in their place or range to question.
LMAAAO wow look at the "preferences" becoming the same bitter women, I thought everyone is allowed to date everyone? What happened to love is love?!🤣
That part! 😂😂
Stop calling mixed and non bw preferences. Its not what you think it is. Please stop calling us it. It further puts us on a pedestal
@@BlasianLynndid she exclusively mention mixed or non-blk women? Or did u just want to point out ur mixed?
That exactly why you know it’s not… now they sound bitter now look at that… dude does seem like a dusty though….
@@BlasianLynn its used ironically, ain't nobody praising y'all here.
1. Those three were definitely microaggressive.
2. I get your/their point. I think it would be more cemented if his child's mother wasn't a Black woman.
3. I know it was just ole boy's stage name but Megan couldn't find anyone else with a different name lol like that had to throw her off a little bit
Right, I was a bit confused by that myself! I don’t know if I could date any celebrity… it doesn’t turn out well!
Exactly!
Emphasis on number 3
His baby mama black so Whats the problem lol
I've met stuff like this before. Their question is valid because when some black men date non-black women they talk so BAD about black women is scary. It became a red flag for me to date a guy who only dated non-black girls before because he will act like he's doing me a favour and that there's always better than me. And men's type is hard to change but that's my opinion 🤷🏾♀️
Exactly
His baby mama black
I remember when Russell Wilson’s ex almost had a heart attack when Russell got with the beautiful singer Ciara,Snow rabbits really believe once you go white you never go back 😂
Yup!
Yes!! They are so obsessed
It’s because he’s said some crazy and foul stuff about black women and now here like “wait but you said….” They should have made it known what he was saying. Don’t be scared now lol say what he said bookie
literally saying this …
They’d probably get cancelled if they repeated his words 😂 that’s ninjas be
Acts like she can’t pronounce her name then immediately says it at 4:00 but plays it off as her giving her a nickname 🙄
I watched your interview! I was rolling when y’all did the old Chioma Chats intro. 😭
You’re definitely an OG subscriber then! I really gotta bring it back with a studio recorded track because it was an era ✨😂 thanks for watching the podcast and supporting my episode with Taylor! 🩷
Also Meg is always trending on tik tok and I’m sure one of them have dancing along to one of her songs
Meg lips are what Olivia wants.
The fact that these women are sitting up talking about who this chicks ex is dating definitely gives off bothered vibes. I could care less who my ex dates they’re an ex for reason.
Remember when Travis Kelce started dating Taylor and her fans dragged Kayla Nicole simply for existing??? Something is wrong with them 👱🏻♀️ Godforbid they have to “compete” with a black woman
Megan don’t have them pressed, bw have them pressed.
I’m trying to understand why they’re concerned or discussing his type and the dating…
BC HES PROBABLY TOLD THEM THEYYYYYY WERE HIS PREFERENCE!!! which makes sense on why they said what they said
It’s female solidarity. But most black women don’t know what that is. She is trying to give a warning about a man. She can’t be all nice about it, because that would make her lose status.
@@beautifullEternalNAH SHE’S JUST OFFENDED AND JEALOUS THAT’S IT !
@@beautifullEternal you're so funny😐
If that was the case she would've definitely worded it out differently. IF that was her intention but it wasn't.
@@nandim6282So what was it? Get your crystal ball, and please....do tell.
Non black women get jealous and insecure around beautiful black woman. I’ve experienced this first hand the micro aggression come out when they aren’t the center of attention.
I don’t know that I would date a Black man if he’s only dated whyte women before me….🤔🤔
Yea that would be a red flag
@@Jay-jb2vrand he has a baby mama and was talking to that IG heavy girl… yeah no
Fax....Meg clearly the problem too (no matter how much I like her as an artist) she needs to know her worth
He’s dated several black women before. His child’s mother is even black. So what they’re saying doesn’t even make sense. He don’t just fw with skinny ww
Facts
Megan wasn't lying when she said she had haters 🙄
Megan better get in the studio and put her response in the music 😂 and show them how to properly say her name
she will 😂
She acted as if she didn’t know how to pronounce Megan’s name correctly.. but not even a minute later she knew who Tory Lanez was 🤔 girl be for real lol for obvious reasons, most ppl who know of Tory Lanez also know of Meg Thee Stallion
They acted the same way once they found out Jalen hurts girlfriend was black lolol
They are so accustomed to being the preference for these athletes and genuinely use it as a battery pack for themselves that when they’re not chosen their true colors come out
Tbh they had a valid point. They were hinting to the fact he was using her for clout (which i think so too) he sounds trash af. Jalen don't have no background of only dating YTs
Facts. I had a coworker lose her mind when I told her Idris Elbas wife was black. She had to Google her. This same coworker was married to a black man who told her he just wasn't attracted to black women. Mind you they have two bi racial daughters .
Definitely and very controlling
@@JessAnonymous if I’m being honest with you, they do the same thing with white women. It’s literally no different, they get with one and it gets them more of them and then socially they advance in their circles. It’s no shade but he doesn’t need Megan he doesn’t do the same thing Megan does. So no he doesn’t need her. Sports and entertainment are two completely different categories where yes he may make a couple dollars more but is it enough money for it to be something where he needs to put on a show? No not by a longshot. He makes enough money as an athlete with his endorsements and through his team
Just like she does not need him
Keep posting content. Yours is the best.
There’s backlash because he was with a black woman first. How did you date him and not know that his Baby mom is a BLACK WOMAN ???😅
They definitely sound pressed!! And I don’t know why they’re acting like Meg wouldn’t be his “type.” Although he might of dated mostly blonde girls in the past, Meg actually favors his bm a bit so it’s not a stretch to see him with someone like her at all!
I said the same damn thing! The BM is beautiful just like Meg and they favor!
My husband and I always have to show appreciation to black women. Y'all are so beautiful! We're always in awe! lol
Like why are ✋🏻they even surprised Meg is of a higher status than they are .. they think cuz they show bunnies they the prize 🏆 😅
They are very passive aggressive!! They are not even fine 🙄🙄🙄
I’m not offended by the athlete with the white woman trend because I think that women are treated as a trophy in these types of spaces and in THOSE spaces white women have been deemed as the prize. I think this is because sports ARE white spaces it’s the “good ol boys” club. These men live in the same society under racism as we do.
Great take.
I can understand how it can come off racist like they’re putting themselves above or being better than Megan, but I’m indigenous and Middle Eastern, and I’ve dated a Puerto Rican and Italian mix man, whose type or past dating history was always always always ALWAYS petite, blonde hair (usually no longer than chest length and straight), blue eyes stereotypical girl and she usually was white. I’m not white, not skinny, have long curly jet black hair down to my hips, curvy, brown eyes, olive toned in my pale season and if I’m having an active summer outside just being out like gardening, walking my pets, biking, hiking, traveling which I try to do while the weather is nice since our winters can drop to -12, I get tan very easily just being out and not even purposely going out in baby boil and literally baking myself until golden like a lot of people do. I’m just living my life and will naturally tan because of my background. I am nothing like his normal girl so you do question “why is dude interested in me? What does he want from me? Does he have ulterior motives? Is he experimenting around and I’m just a test?” because it is weird. You can’t just ignore his history, you do have to take it in consideration even if you don’t take action on it.
When I found out, I was shocked. When his family found out when he introduced me to them, they were shocked. When we would hang out with his friends they were shocked. Everyone he ever introduced me to from being his girlfriend to fiancé, EVERYBODY was shocked. Everybody was so shocked cause I was the *COMPLETE OPPOSITE* of what he usually goes with and people were worried saying we wouldn’t last cause I wasn’t his type.
Guess what? They ended up being kinda right cause he cheated one year into the engagement his normal skinny, white, blond hair and blue eye girl type. Since we were engaged and almost married, it did take a slight mental toll on me thinking I wasn’t good enough as I am and if I was “his type” he wouldn’t have done this. I bounced back quick but it is natural to think that way when you’re upset.
So if someone ventures out of their type they’re basically just experimenting to see if the grass is greener somewhere else- at least that’s the case normally.
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Sorry this happened to you!! I hope you’re doing better!!!!
@@silvadacunha692 thank you and yes I am! Found better too ;)
Sorry to hear this happened to you as well.😕 When you put the perspective in such detail with your own experience, it actually does make a lot of sense. Another thing to vet for in the dating scene unfortunately.
His child’s mother is a black woman though….
The bm is so pretty
I wish Megan would keep her new relationships all the way private until she 100% sure, I know its hard bc she is a celebrity but everyone always waiting for her to mess up or have a tragic heartbreak . But I'm hopeful she'll learn that in her 30s.
They didn't know Meg but knew to make that "joke" about talking about a different Tory (not Lanez)? Come on now.
Hmm it's funny to me that these discussions are taking all these twists & turns & not addressing the very obvious issue that the reason for questioning if Megan is his type or not is to ascertain if he is only dating her for clout.
You don't really hear anything about them though. I heard more about her and Pardison.
I know you may not be as motivated by RUclips anymore chioma but I love love love your commentary!!
Its WEIRD. u wont hear black woman questioning if a white women is the type of a white man. N its not a 'New thing' if he has a black baby mama.
Its shady how she couldn't say her name but she knew its a flex that he is with her. Dumb Dumb Dumb.
Exactly???!!
Yes been waiting on you to speak on this. Their blatant disrespect towards Meg was both uncalled for and astonishing to say the least. They act like a man can’t date two different races. HES ATTRACTED TO WOMEN PERIOD.
Y’all heard what katt williams said!!!😂
I don’t think the backlash was about the question. I think most of the backlash was the Meg slander
I think their question got backlash because that would be like black women thinking Travis Kelcey could never be attracted to a white woman because he normally dates black. Hes white. Thats the baseline.
1:00 ❤I enjoyed the interview and Podcast 🤗👏🏽
What gets me about this is Tory’s type isn't strictly white or biracial women. His baby mama is literally black and he's dated countless of bw before too, so I question it when she says “type”
It’s the micro aggressions and pretending to not know Megan that was the real issue or that’s all the complaints I’ve seen. Also the fact that she has a video on her story with Megs song playing in the background. That’s the issue.
Chioma I’m already dying of laughter from the Zendaya video, give me a break sista!
this is sad but this is what BLK MEN DID TO US.... I FEEL ACTUALLY sorry for these men. when blk men tell them they are better and look better. they believe it.... so
I just feel like just because the question is valid doesn’t mean they should’ve been the ones to ask publicly
8:49 screen is black, no picture nothing.
You can hear it hopefully😂
@BabyFaceRose that's not the point😅
@ yeah I know that but yall will be fine ..
fun fact: all these women have a video using meg thee stallions audio/ songs 🤣😆
This is giving Opposite by Sabrina Carpenter but like if Regina George wrote it. I really hope that makes sense 😅 like instead of processing and working through your insecurities they’re projecting and trying to bring others down. It won’t make you feel better babes, hate to break it to you 😂
Seems like he’s only with Meg because she’s a famous rapper. But snowbunnies can be regular women hahahaa
Legit the most unseasoned convo I ever listened to, they’re all so weak smh
I saw other channels talking about this situation, but I value your commentary more ❤
No it wasn’t the preference talk it was her trying to make fun of her!
I feel like people are blowing this out of proportion. They are clearly rage baiting on purpose and the insecure black women are falling for it smh
MESSAGE! 😮
Exactly
I think the 3 mayo mafia are Just jealous
The question was definitely racist
The thing is, it’s not true his baby moms is black And the suppose the other side chick are black
I never understand how women have a problem when their exes with someone new😅. Play he dumped you or you dumped him either way you're not together move the f on.
honestly, the question is valid! i thought i was the only one who had that opinion 😭
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Thanks for watching love ❤️
They were trying to be messy and imply he is using Meg for fame . Instead of just being real and saying that , they tried to do it in a passive aggressive way (how most white women do). All in all their comment was tasteless .
You have sense. The point they made was valid but the shade about not knowing how to pronounce Megan is crazy😂
Meg isn’t exactly an unambiguous black woman, she has light skin and long hair
She's Golden Melenated 😊
Yes she's creole too
Nah she definitely looks black imo. She’s brown skin with obviously curly hair that happens to be long (and what does her hair being long have anything to do with her looking unambiguously black to you?)
“I can’t even get mad” BUT YOU ARE MAD LMFAO WE SEE IT
I’ve never been this early to a RUclipsrs video. Excited to hear your thoughts!
Bottom line MEN DONT HAVE A TYPE….lets just leave it at that …don’t forget some men may date differently PUBLICLY but don’t be confused they have different types behind the BEARD
I have had plenty of Black men who tend to date outside their race date me. They like a particular body type not skin color.
SAY IT 💟 LOUDEST! 😂
r yall not listening to what they’re saying???? One of the girls did a video explaining what she ment …. She said “It’s a red flag for when a man dates a certain type of woman who r a copy nd paste of each other, nd all of a sudden it changes” yes, they could be a bit bitter, but the depth of those words were much louder for me. All I got from this is tht man must have been talking down on black woman while in the presence of them. He was dating one of them. 🤷🏽♀️
They can’t listen. Starting to think they just feel hurt and rejected by the three Beccas.
They’re so male identified they can’t see through their racism to realize these girls issued a warning. This man is a clout chaser and a race traitor.
The reality is that his baby mama is a black woman, so sounds like he goes after anything he can get. Also, I do think he was talking bad about black women to them. If they were really trying to warn Megan they should have said what he said instead of being passive aggressive and shady. Also, sayin Mag instead of Meg, when it’s not that hard to pronounce. Megan is a white girl name, please.
@@beautifullEternal Even you don’t believe that bs. 😂
Manipulative people will literally find someone new that looks nothing like you! Just so you don’t get the satisfaction that they’re still looking for you in someone else. The goal is to triangulate and make you feel devalued or like you don’t compare because looks wise, you LITERALLY DON’T 😅
I thought the question was weird too and I still do but you've given me a different perspective because I didn't see the validity in the question
You damn right being with Megan Thee Stallion is a flex.
Being with someone you love is a flex period ✌️
Does his type need to be questioned? Maybe he doesn’t have a type and he only likes good looking women? You showed the guys BM and the only fans girl and they both look black to me
Keep in mind that they're all p Stars
You definitely clocked it!!!
it’s crazy how i was thinking to myself when will my Chioma bring the on camera #chiomachats with the clapping back and seen it im excited
Run Meg is all I got to say💃💃💃
I just feel like we’re all entitled to grow up and change our types. My types now are farrrrr from what I used to want in the past and if this is not the case, so be it. It’s not always set in stone.
Like Meg isn’t all over their girl’s night getting ready playlist 😂
❤❤ Thank you for speaking on it.
Love your content Chioma!
This is one time Meg should have actually spoken out. Any other time, especially when it involves BW, she has something to say. She should have the same energy for them!
Exactly, it's kinda how bw never have smoke for cardi B when she disrespects them
@@Franskie266speak
No, she should not give clout and attention to people beneath her. This literally the only time these random girls have gone viral.
Why give there yt 304 attention and clout there obviously jealous of her
Why have energy for a person who wants to be her 🤣🤣 y'all so draining I'm here for Megan not speaking on this mess.. I can tell you the type to fight over a man
The fact that his name is TORY 😂
The name "Megan" is such an easy name to pronounce 🙄 cut that ish...out
I like your pov I think us as black women need to sit this one out it’s obvious that ole dude over the years put down brown/black women around her for her to even have to ask that question let’s not act like most of society deem us as the ugly step sisters and are shock when we have high standards goals and dreams for ourself and I hope that she use her discernment when it comes to him because she may be a place holder until he finds someone that’s more his “type”
How Are You 😊 Aware Of This 😯
If Meg ends up a baby mama, I’m just gonna delete all social media
Hey Queen Chioma, love your videos! I think it’s important to note that it’s just the girls that get it, get it. There is sum sort of class system developed within our group as black women. Some of black women just haven’t learned to decenter black men and just focus on themselves and expand their options 🤷🏾♀️🏡
He also dated Nicole Zavala from VH1 Cartel Crew..
Now this is interesting 🧐 I remember her and that show.
lol i ain’t dating nobody whose type is white 😂😭 everyone wanna miss that, but it’s not lost on me 😂
Good Tuesday Evening Chioma and everyone 🩷🤗🙏🏽
They know they know Meg. Probably was doing the Savage challeneg and the new one lol
You left no crumbs😌