I’m tired of diaspora wars, gender wars,red pill, racism. Everything. This year was absolute hell and I can’t wait for it to be over. I graduated college with high honors which was great! Aside that, Lord Jesus has carried me through cause I would have died or lost my mind. I’m also leaving behind mediocrity, letting opportunities pass me by cause of shyness. Letting Go and Letting God is my goal for 2025.🙏🏾✨
It's interesting because if you create your own platform and speak on these issues, the same person who does not understand how you could possibly know everything that goes into their situation will have no problem referring to their situation as a testimony.
Hi Chioma something that i think should be left in 2024 and im honesty surprised you didn't mention it is celebrity worship and stan culture!! Im so tired of mfs acting like they know these celebrities in real life and will defend them like they pay their rent 🙄
I feel like the shade room falls underneath that umbrella and I really wanted to go. I haven’t followed them in years but someway somehow he could still see their sphere of influence
I really think we need to leave social media in 2024. I know that’s not realistic, but I think people collectively need to have a moment to go and touch grass and realize what’s more important in life and to learn how to be better people for ourselves, for our loved, and ones for society. The way we have become so attached and plugged into social media is not healthy.
You know what’s funny it actually is realistic for us to leave social media. We think social media is a lot larger than what it actually is. Also the majority of other countries already have modified versions of the same exact social media we get to have free rain on. or many of the countries don’t even have access to it So it’s not hard for us to delete Instagram And TikTok off of our phones. I already don’t have TikTok and my time on Instagram is limited to maybe five minutes in a week it’s not hard at all! We have been conditioned to think that social media provides a high income for people, is the only way for people to see success and make their families eat all of it when it’s literally a lie! There are more people off of social media than there are people on it. And even if somebody has a login it doesn’t mean they’re operating on any type of a social media accounts! But you know who does benefit from young kids think they can get into influencing? You know who does benefit from people acting like they have no common sense I need to buy everything that an influencer tells them to? There are people who would benefit from that gap in having people conditioned
What u ask will never be, sadly. People are too far gone, addicted, dependent, n it's their life This is the new world. The ice Age etc has gone Welcome to the Digital Age
YESSSSS!!! Too many people think it’s cute and it’s not. Like swoop it within the hair line or very near it. Not on the forehead. It’s ugly af. I can’t stand it.
Another word I’m SICK of is narcissist. People don’t even use it correctly most of the time. They only use it because they think it makes them sound smart or like an arm chair psychologist.
Maybe because I’m African, but you’re not mean. You’re honest. I think a lot of people aren’t used to people being straight forward. People always want you to sugar coat things.
@@JoaquinAcostaPerezShe’s not as rich as she claims to be. Her label won’t fund her 2nd album because they didn’t recoup all the funds they shelled out on the first one. She can’t afford to pay for writers, features, radio, awards, DJ’s, bloggers, and chart placements out of her own pockets, hence the reason there’s no 2nd album.
exactly. you're not better because you're dating a white man, stop sh*tting on black men. you're not better because you're dating a white woman, stop sh*tting on black women. if you wanna date outside your race, just do it.
I was watching you while laying with my boyfriend and he was listening to your opinions and said"i don't even know her but I like her, she not like these other youtubers😂" I think I made a fan out of him! Happy New Year 🎉
Nah, blk women do need to retire the capes and stop checkn for folks who ain't checkn for them. A lot of folks have made money punchin' down on blk women.That part should be retired along with the word submission.
Amen. I was side eyed all year because people realized that I never caped. I don’t. People threw the election over people who are not black in another country
this will also include black women to stop complaining about it when it does happen. pay no mind to it. like the travis hunter thing... black women preach about how it isn't their fight, yet still follow in on the situation.
I don’t get how some moms don’t stop to think of all the inappropriate child lovers before they dress their child in a belly shirt and post it on the child’s OWN IG pager. I wasn’t even allowed to do a pageant or cheerleading cause of the outfits
Can we bring back shame and journaling in 2025??? We need to leave oversharing and lack of privacy in 2024!!! It’s time for us to stop putting everything on social media for the world to see. It’s not your private diary! People are going to see it! Please write it down and let it stay there instead of broadcasting your business to the world!
11:37 Yes I agree. The kid social medias are weird, but I am here for the pet accounts!! I love those so much!! I don’t mind the owners writing as their pets! 😍
The bbl opinion/ozempic will always be my fav topic. We are going to see a HUGE wave of “I wish I NEVER…” it’s really sad. We are not haters. We just know the other side of the coin when you are on that operating table and/or taking the easy way out. ❤
Thank you! People misuse buzz words and social media words too much. The first half of the 2020’s had been dysfunctional I’m hoping the second half is more uplifting and fruitful.
Great video Chioma, I need a part 2! lol. Yeah, there's a reason I call Hollywood. HollyWEIRD. I just can't with most celebrities and celebrity culture in general, there's just a weird spirit when it comes to a lot of celebrities, of course there's some I still like but I'm distancing myself for the most part with the culture/fandom. Who knows what goes on behind close doors. I also completely agree with the normalization of the jezebel spirit as well. It's not cute and it's not empowering. I hope you and everyone else has a great New Year's!!
Lets leave those fake lashes in 2024. Crazy how that became the norm. We used to only wear lashes for events, performances, photo shoots, etc. Now you see them flapping around the grocery store 😅
Leave oversharing. Privacy all 2025. And let’s leave the crying about bullying when you put all your business on the internet. The internet is not your friend and people are mean. Now that we know that let’s act accordingly. Social media is not your private diary.
So tired of people speaking negatively on ozempic. Ive been on zepbound which is just like ozempic and it’s helped me in so many ways. I’ve been obese since I was a toddler and I’ve been vegan for over ten years and nothing has helped even with me working out regularly but this drug. Not everyone uses it for a “quick fix”. It’s truly Changed my life for the better and I’ve only been on for a few months so far and I’ve lost so much weight, not rapidly but steadily.
Yesss to everything!! 👏👏👏 And I usually don’t even watch these “things we’re leaving behind” type of videos, but I have to agree with everything you said here
I don’t totally agree with the 0zempic opinion. I think any one over 250lb that has tried “natural” weight loss and failed should get medically assisted weight loss… via medication or surgery.. I agree that smaller people should go the natural route, but morbid obesity is still a d1sease that should be treated like others
But it’s a self inflicted disease for the most part so no, ozempic should be reserved for the people it was intended for, diabetics. People that fail weightloss naturally aren’t on job properly.
@@XmeimeisworldX as someone who is pre diabetic, Ozempic only lowers your sugar because you are eating less. it’s not a miracle drug. it just makes you not hungry so you still have to do the work. there isn’t any reason why people who are overweight can’t take it too.
Medications like ozempic can help people get over the mental and hormonal issues that hold them back from losing the weight. It’s a good tool along with diet, exercise and mental health care. It’s no different than bariatric surgery or other medications used in obesity medicine, you still have to make the same lifestyle changes.
all the tiktok language is gonna have to go. "standing on business" "i fear" "that is crazy work/diabolical/nasty work" "clock it" "crash out" "yn" ALL of it. lets promote finding our own vocabulary instead of acting like sheep and always using the most trending terms.
Right. That's why I said I don't necessarily agree with the environmental aspect of it all. I even always think of how many plastic bags I get from Shein and where they possibly end up ..
6:03 EXACTLY - everytime I see “BW stand down” I roll my eyes so hard because okay why are they here (not here literally but on the said videos) commenting then? We know it’s not our fight, but we’re still allowed to comment if we want to
exactly sis!! people can comment and give opinions. That does not mean they're advocating and giving their life to the cause. News is news. We all consume it, and many of us have feelings or opinions on what we read or see
@@QueenChioma that partttt! We can still have an opinion and comment with our popcorn whilst watching from the sidelines chile🤣🤣🤣 we shouldn’t censor our opinion at all at all ABEG!
Some of us need that reminder not to even say the thing we were originally going to say in the comments. Soon as you see that this ain’t even your fight, you should be deleting that paragraph. You should be getting out your feelings. “Not my fight” doesn’t mean the content isn’t worth consuming , it just means its not worth arguing about. It’s not even worth conversing about to be very honest but like I said some of us just wanted to support Chioma but we really shouldn’t keep the hurtful cycle going. BW have to walk away. We have to stop participating in these conversations that hurt us or serve absolutely nothing. I don’t think BW should be shamed for doing what we supposed to do which is mind our business! Every conversation ain’t for us to speak on or care about.
Chioma, I love your videos! Been a silent watcher for a while but your cut throat and honesty is beautiful and I most times agree with you. Keep being you 💚🤞🏽 the open minded people really appreciate you!
I left alot of these things a long time ago to be very honest. I do think that BW should stop making every BM issue theirs. Every fight is truly not ours to be arguing in the comments or streets about and i stand ten toes on that. Who they date & marry outside of us is genuinely not our business or concern so I’m always gonna run the engagement up for my faves but I really don’t have it in me to argue or chat about it. Stating that this aint our fight keeps us on code and keeps our feelings in check about what we should be giving a fck about and what shouldn’t. Ofc it’s everyone’s choice to do your own thing but sometimes even i need that reminder myself to not write that paragraph. Don’t even bother responding to that ignorant comment. Stay on code. 👩🏽💻 Stay out of the red pill and red pill adjacent community and don’t let those hurt people hurt you.
We need to leave over sharing and having “no shame” in 2024. Not everything needs to be shared on social media and there are people who do the absolute absurd things that they need to be shamed for
What annoys me about OverConsumption Culture is the products they’re using in such enormous amounts have chemicals in them that are directly linked to cancer or hormone disruption like infertility or fibroids. With the amount of information out here about these chemicals you’d think people be more conscious of the products they buy.
I don’t think Latto made cheetah print popular… she helped to reintroduce it, but the trend came back with everything else that was popular in the early 2000s
Comment for the buzzwords I never knew how to explain it, and when I did, I genuinely felt like a hater! As a college student who excelled in my studies, I almost felt stupid using buzzwords or phrases like 'bombastic,' 'diabolical,' 'demure,' or even 'it’s giving.' Even though I know what they mean, they just didn’t make me feel educated!
i’ve never understood the whole babies having social media accounts bc why would you put your child at risk like that ??? or when ppl posting pics of their babies fresh out the womb….like can you enjoy the moment & just keep that moment special and private ?
Ooh I got a list Demure Ken vs drake Unhealthy food promo Hating on gen z and gen alpha Stupid conspiracy theories with no proof Pretending dead artist woulda been the biggest thing ever if they were alive; just cause they dead Over sexual ig reels
This was perfect!!!!! We need to leave all of that bull crap lol 😂 I love your honesty!!!! Thank you for this Queen Chioma 👌🏾👌🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥💖💖💖💖💖💁🏽♀️💁🏽♀️💁🏽♀️
Happy New Year! Love this list, Chioma. Leave all that ish in 24. I feel like the Jen-Dashians & influencers helped push the overconsumption and overly organized aesthetic. These kinds of things used to be left for the rich and celebrity but now regular folks feel the need to keep up with the Jones' via social media. Keeping up with the Jones' will hurt you every time! Let's make financial literacy, natural living, self control, and morals trendy!
I think the most annoying part about Ozempic was thinking ANYONE who lost weight was on it. Lizzo for instance. Has been losing weight naturally and actually putting in hard work and discipline. For ozempic to step on the scene, as she’s made noticeable weight loss progress, to be accused of taking it. THAT’S annoying as well.
@4:26 YESSSSS AGREED I was very shocked this year that people did not know the word demure which to me is such a word that’s so naturally in my vocabulary and it’s so crazy that I got it from something as simple as the show the nanny.
All words are not in people's vocabulary's until they learn them. Certain words are not used by the average everyday person, so it should be seen as a good thing that people are learning new words. No one should be judged for learning something new.
@@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 ummmm 🤨 smartass it’s shocking bc of my perspective. Obviously everyone knows words that would or wouldn’t be in others vocabulary. However demure was a word that I’ve used before it became a buzzword and I don’t follow trends or go on tiktok a lot so I didn’t even know that demure or even diabolical were words that became that popular u til I started hearing it in real time as a buzzword
@ and you’re right. And I do find it as a positive bc this would mean that these words are now being utilized by people who otherwise wouldn’t. However it is just annoying that it is OVERUSED in situations and conversations that wouldn’t call for it. Like you can tell when something is apart of someone’s vocabulary and a learned word vs. someone doing it for a trend. Meadning that once the hype is over almost like fashion the word is forgotten into oblivion.
I found this beautiful channel on here called “Black hopecore” and I just want to suggest it here because the negative and nasty is what goes viral but I think this deserves to aswell 😭❤️ I pray to see more positive content being pushed in 2025!
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I’m tired of diaspora wars, gender wars,red pill, racism. Everything.
This year was absolute hell and I can’t wait for it to be over. I graduated college with high honors which was great!
Aside that, Lord Jesus has carried me through cause I would have died or lost my mind.
I’m also leaving behind mediocrity, letting opportunities pass me by cause of shyness. Letting Go and Letting God is my goal for 2025.🙏🏾✨
Okay college graduate I see you! 🎉💕
@ thank you boo🥰❤️✨
The only way you can escape the wars is to filter or delete your socials. The wars will only get worse unfortunately.
Red pill & manosphere, mgtow, Andrew Tate 😂 they make me laugh tho ngl
But yea I was waiting for someone to say it 👀 😂
I think oversharing should be left behind.
Especially on tiktok
I agree
I take pride in people knowing very little about me online
Dat part.
This
I want to leave being called jealous or a hater for having an independent or opposing opinion, in 2024. Please and thank you 😊
This is the one!!
It's interesting because if you create your own platform and speak on these issues, the same person who does not understand how you could possibly know everything that goes into their situation will have no problem referring to their situation as a testimony.
Yes
This the one
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Hi Chioma something that i think should be left in 2024 and im honesty surprised you didn't mention it is celebrity worship and stan culture!! Im so tired of mfs acting like they know these celebrities in real life and will defend them like they pay their rent 🙄
You know that will never be left behind lol
That is never happening, lol.
I feel like the shade room falls underneath that umbrella and I really wanted to go. I haven’t followed them in years but someway somehow he could still see their sphere of influence
😂😂😂😂 who even does that
@@chequemate449 Hmmm the Barbz,Beyhive,Swifties and Bardi Gang just to name a few lol
leave diddy and the diddy jokes in 2024! sexual assault is never funny.
leave the drake jokes there too.
@ well no. that’s something that actually needs to be investigated on the other hand.
Real@@shivani815
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO
@@i_lovejamarion random people making jokes about it on the internet isn't investigating.
I really think we need to leave social media in 2024. I know that’s not realistic, but I think people collectively need to have a moment to go and touch grass and realize what’s more important in life and to learn how to be better people for ourselves, for our loved, and ones for society. The way we have become so attached and plugged into social media is not healthy.
society is becoming dystopian
You know what’s funny it actually is realistic for us to leave social media. We think social media is a lot larger than what it actually is. Also the majority of other countries already have modified versions of the same exact social media we get to have free rain on. or many of the countries don’t even have access to it
So it’s not hard for us to delete Instagram And TikTok off of our phones. I already don’t have TikTok and my time on Instagram is limited to maybe five minutes in a week it’s not hard at all! We have been conditioned to think that social media provides a high income for people, is the only way for people to see success and make their families eat all of it when it’s literally a lie! There are more people off of social media than there are people on it. And even if somebody has a login it doesn’t mean they’re operating on any type of a social media accounts!
But you know who does benefit from young kids think they can get into influencing? You know who does benefit from people acting like they have no common sense I need to buy everything that an influencer tells them to? There are people who would benefit from that gap in having people conditioned
What u ask will never be, sadly. People are too far gone, addicted, dependent, n it's their life
This is the new world. The ice Age etc has gone
Welcome to the Digital Age
@@Lonerstoner21yes
This!!!!!
I'm late but situationships, the phrase "type sh*t", and the whole valueable debate between single women & single women with kids.
Plz those big crusty uglahh edges touching the eyebrows in 2024 swear it makes my stomach hurt why do u yall do that shit?!
I cant wait for them to die out lmao 😭😭
Really it should have been left in 2017/2018
I hate those so much
My natural lashes touch my eyebrows 😂😢 leave me alone jk lmao I'm one of the lucky ones 🥰🤪
YESSSSS!!! Too many people think it’s cute and it’s not. Like swoop it within the hair line or very near it. Not on the forehead. It’s ugly af. I can’t stand it.
Another word I’m SICK of is narcissist. People don’t even use it correctly most of the time. They only use it because they think it makes them sound smart or like an arm chair psychologist.
I just got into it with someone who used the word to describe a person and it did not fit. 😂😂😂
Another thing can we leave alone 50/50 relationship talk high value low value everybody is valuable believe or not! Gods creation is valuable!
God and His love aren't relevant to high value/low value dialogue.
@AsaiaJohnson-w8q Yes❤
Yes please
@@BougieIntuitive lol I’m married, but yes very much so.
This babe!❤
I agree with you on everything..the gender wars, lip fillers, bbls, modesty, aesthetics, overconsumption, ozempic.
yesssss
Maybe because I’m African, but you’re not mean. You’re honest. I think a lot of people aren’t used to people being straight forward. People always want you to sugar coat things.
A lot of African people are mean under the disguise of being straight forward.
Aesthetics have killed individuality. Just wear what you want!!!
I'm leaving the whole 2024 in 2024 going into 2025 with a clean slate
Yes
Amen
This is the ☝🏾
I’m tired hearing Cardi saying she dropping an album! 🤦🏾♀️ please let’s leave it in 2017,2018,2019,2020,2021,2022,2023,2024! Lol
That’s literally insane when you write it out.
How is she still rich?
@@JoaquinAcostaPerez lol 🤷🏽♀️
@@JoaquinAcostaPerezShe’s not as rich as she claims to be. Her label won’t fund her 2nd album because they didn’t recoup all the funds they shelled out on the first one. She can’t afford to pay for writers, features, radio, awards, DJ’s, bloggers, and chart placements out of her own pockets, hence the reason there’s no 2nd album.
@@JoaquinAcostaPerezshe just beats rich but isn’t really rich LOL
All of your takes don’t miss sis frfr you are a breath of fresh air to this generation
Can we leave behind caring too much about interracial relationships.. who cares, everybody dates whom they’re attracted to
I can't stand how people act like it's an accomplishment
I agree. As a black woman married to a Japanese man I get the hate raw. Almost entirely by black people.
@@brittanytakenaka8411do you speak fluent Japanese language ?
exactly. you're not better because you're dating a white man, stop sh*tting on black men. you're not better because you're dating a white woman, stop sh*tting on black women. if you wanna date outside your race, just do it.
Exactly cause its really not@@CandaceJonesCarter
I was watching you while laying with my boyfriend and he was listening to your opinions and said"i don't even know her but I like her, she not like these other youtubers😂" I think I made a fan out of him!
Happy New Year 🎉
Haha!!! Aw yes! Tell him I said thanks for tuning in a little! We welcome him.
I live under a rock 😂 didnt know the cheetah print panties and white tee w red letters was a thing
lol same 😂
Neither did I so I must live under that rock too, girl
Nah, blk women do need to retire the capes and stop checkn for folks who ain't checkn for them. A lot of folks have made money punchin' down on blk women.That part should be retired along with the word submission.
I agree focus on business ventures not duties its embarrassing
AGREED 💯
Amen. I was side eyed all year because people realized that I never caped. I don’t. People threw the election over people who are not black in another country
this will also include black women to stop complaining about it when it does happen. pay no mind to it. like the travis hunter thing... black women preach about how it isn't their fight, yet still follow in on the situation.
That part. I’m gonna watch cause i love Chioma but its not worth arguing or giving an opinion about. Not my fight. Watch, lurk and leave. 👀 🍿
Happy New Year Everyone !🎈 I Hope 2025 Bring You Lots of Happiness!
We should leave baddies and toxicity in 2024 as well
I agree with the BW vs BM war. Needs to end ASAP
I don’t get how some moms don’t stop to think of all the inappropriate child lovers before they dress their child in a belly shirt and post it on the child’s OWN IG pager. I wasn’t even allowed to do a pageant or cheerleading cause of the outfits
Yes! They dress these children like adults and then call them a mini me. I can't help but believe that it's not in an endearing way 🤢
And then when you call it out it’s always “why are you sexualizing a child?” I’m sorry but do you not see the outfit🥴
its weird because its not their fault that pedos exist, but it is their fault that they're not protecting their child.
A lot of them DO know, and simply don’t care because the attention (and sometimes profit) is more important. It’s extremely sick
Can we bring back shame and journaling in 2025??? We need to leave oversharing and lack of privacy in 2024!!! It’s time for us to stop putting everything on social media for the world to see. It’s not your private diary! People are going to see it! Please write it down and let it stay there instead of broadcasting your business to the world!
11:37 Yes I agree. The kid social medias are weird, but I am here for the pet accounts!! I love those so much!! I don’t mind the owners writing as their pets! 😍
The bbl opinion/ozempic will always be my fav topic. We are going to see a HUGE wave of “I wish I NEVER…” it’s really sad. We are not haters. We just know the other side of the coin when you are on that operating table and/or taking the easy way out. ❤
I agree but as soon as a woman shows up as her natural self she’s torn apart for not having a certain body type smh 🤦🏾♀️
Thank you! People misuse buzz words and social media words too much. The first half of the 2020’s had been dysfunctional I’m hoping the second half is more uplifting and fruitful.
Christarock , Blueface I don’t want to toxicity anymore of relationships with celebrities please leave it in 2024
Happy new year yall and let’s stand on business for 2025 frfr and leave this list behind too
2024 was an amazing year for me! I graduated from high school and I will be entering my second semester of my freshman year in college 😊🩷
Congrats 🎉🎉🎉 side note: don’t do drugs, watch who you surround yourself with, and have a good time (responsibly ofc)
@dynastyandrews2416 Thank you! 💛🙏🏾
Love that for you ❤ keep going girl, you've got this!
Congratulations!!!
Congratulations sweetheart, study hard and stay true to who you are always. You've got this.
Great video Chioma, I need a part 2! lol. Yeah, there's a reason I call Hollywood. HollyWEIRD. I just can't with most celebrities and celebrity culture in general, there's just a weird spirit when it comes to a lot of celebrities, of course there's some I still like but I'm distancing myself for the most part with the culture/fandom. Who knows what goes on behind close doors.
I also completely agree with the normalization of the jezebel spirit as well. It's not cute and it's not empowering.
I hope you and everyone else has a great New Year's!!
Can we stop making gym contents . I hate that I have to wait 15 min to use an equipment just because you want to film a 15 second video
Some gyms have a no phone policy
Lets leave those fake lashes in 2024. Crazy how that became the norm. We used to only wear lashes for events, performances, photo shoots, etc. Now you see them flapping around the grocery store 😅
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
Yes!!! Starting strong, the BBL’s and fillers are so so bad. They look awful. Not to mention BBL’s are so dangerous!! 😢
Thank you for bringing reason to these topics. So many want to throw around the “judgement” word but the truth hurts no matter how it’s said.
wow this is the best leave it in 2024 vid i’ve seen yet str to the point str facts i agreed with it all from beginning to end i subscribed🔥
I thoroughly enjoyed this video as well. ❤️💯👍🏾 I love it when people aren't afraid to just keep it raw and honest.
HAPPY NEW YEAR CHIOMA!!!
oh and another thing you should add is the diaspora wars should be left in 2024.
DEFINITELY THIS!!!! I am NOT engaging in any diaspora wars content or conversations moving forward. Enough is enough lol Happy New Year love 💗
The Travis comment is so true… I ignored that video when you uploaded it.
Leave oversharing. Privacy all 2025. And let’s leave the crying about bullying when you put all your business on the internet. The internet is not your friend and people are mean. Now that we know that let’s act accordingly. Social media is not your private diary.
I hope to see us black women wear our NATURAL HAIR more, take care of it properly, and EMBRACE IT BECAUSE OUR HAIR IS BEAUTIFUL, ALL TEXTURES!!!🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Agreed!! I’m sick of all of it too
So tired of people speaking negatively on ozempic. Ive been on zepbound which is just like ozempic and it’s helped me in so many ways. I’ve been obese since I was a toddler and I’ve been vegan for over ten years and nothing has helped even with me working out regularly but this drug.
Not everyone uses it for a “quick fix”. It’s truly Changed my life for the better and I’ve only been on for a few months so far and I’ve lost so much weight, not rapidly but steadily.
Yesss to everything!! 👏👏👏 And I usually don’t even watch these “things we’re leaving behind” type of videos, but I have to agree with everything you said here
4:43 omg thank you!!!!!! I’ve been saying this!!!! Ugh phobias are IRRATIONAL FEARS not simply disliking something 🤦🏽♀️
I’m tired of the gender wars too 🚮
Can we talk about best ways to maximize our individual relationship dynamics?
Individual!!! cause that’s all that matters
@@ThatGirlMoi stop looking for advice from others in 2025. Live YOUR life and get the answers from experience
“Judgement day is coming” 👏 yesss girl, loving the Christian commentary. The Kingdom of God is too near not to just spit the facts
I don’t totally agree with the 0zempic opinion.
I think any one over 250lb that has tried “natural” weight loss and failed should get medically assisted weight loss… via medication or surgery..
I agree that smaller people should go the natural route, but morbid obesity is still a d1sease that should be treated like others
Exactly 💯
But it’s a self inflicted disease for the most part so no, ozempic should be reserved for the people it was intended for, diabetics.
People that fail weightloss naturally aren’t on job properly.
They need a mental health professional first.
@@XmeimeisworldX as someone who is pre diabetic, Ozempic only lowers your sugar because you are eating less. it’s not a miracle drug. it just makes you not hungry so you still have to do the work. there isn’t any reason why people who are overweight can’t take it too.
Medications like ozempic can help people get over the mental and hormonal issues that hold them back from losing the weight. It’s a good tool along with diet, exercise and mental health care. It’s no different than bariatric surgery or other medications used in obesity medicine, you still have to make the same lifestyle changes.
Lets leave "ate, ate down, ate & left no crumbs" ... STOP IT ...
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No. I will not leave that.
Keep AAVE
@@BelleLeilaNoir its tiktok language at this point since no ones been using this recent "aave" terms until no older than 2020.
all the tiktok language is gonna have to go. "standing on business" "i fear" "that is crazy work/diabolical/nasty work" "clock it" "crash out" "yn" ALL of it. lets promote finding our own vocabulary instead of acting like sheep and always using the most trending terms.
Fast fashion is polluting the planet.
Right. That's why I said I don't necessarily agree with the environmental aspect of it all. I even always think of how many plastic bags I get from Shein and where they possibly end up ..
Bring back reading books… Accelerated Reader❤
Yess! As I fat kid 😂I was so motivated to get free pizza for reading
6:03 EXACTLY - everytime I see “BW stand down” I roll my eyes so hard because okay why are they here (not here literally but on the said videos) commenting then? We know it’s not our fight, but we’re still allowed to comment if we want to
exactly sis!! people can comment and give opinions. That does not mean they're advocating and giving their life to the cause. News is news. We all consume it, and many of us have feelings or opinions on what we read or see
@@bbybxnmi They here because they love Chioma! Every fight AINT ours thats a fact
@@venusvicious4446 I think you read my comment wrong please, it’s not to do with Chioma I’m agreeing with her.
@@QueenChioma that partttt! We can still have an opinion and comment with our popcorn whilst watching from the sidelines chile🤣🤣🤣 we shouldn’t censor our opinion at all at all ABEG!
Some of us need that reminder not to even say the thing we were originally going to say in the comments. Soon as you see that this ain’t even your fight, you should be deleting that paragraph. You should be getting out your feelings. “Not my fight” doesn’t mean the content isn’t worth consuming , it just means its not worth arguing about. It’s not even worth conversing about to be very honest but like I said some of us just wanted to support Chioma but we really shouldn’t keep the hurtful cycle going. BW have to walk away. We have to stop participating in these conversations that hurt us or serve absolutely nothing. I don’t think BW should be shamed for doing what we supposed to do which is mind our business! Every conversation ain’t for us to speak on or care about.
Hi Chioma & Happy New Year.🎉🎉
Chioma, I love your videos! Been a silent watcher for a while but your cut throat and honesty is beautiful and I most times agree with you. Keep being you 💚🤞🏽 the open minded people really appreciate you!
This was great as usual 🤗. But can we also leave them fly me away long and thick mink lashes in 2024. Thank you and Happy New Year🎉🎊☺️
We leave Blueface and Chrisean behind every year 😭😭but they always find a way back to us😂😂
All these were spot on!
I left alot of these things a long time ago to be very honest. I do think that BW should stop making every BM issue theirs. Every fight is truly not ours to be arguing in the comments or streets about and i stand ten toes on that. Who they date & marry outside of us is genuinely not our business or concern so I’m always gonna run the engagement up for my faves but I really don’t have it in me to argue or chat about it. Stating that this aint our fight keeps us on code and keeps our feelings in check about what we should be giving a fck about and what shouldn’t. Ofc it’s everyone’s choice to do your own thing but sometimes even i need that reminder myself to not write that paragraph. Don’t even bother responding to that ignorant comment. Stay on code. 👩🏽💻 Stay out of the red pill and red pill adjacent community and don’t let those hurt people hurt you.
Omg yesss. I love when you post ❤❤
Omg I LOVE your hair!
I wish people would stop following trends so heavily and would get their own personality and not the personality of an influencers
We need to leave over sharing and having “no shame” in 2024. Not everything needs to be shared on social media and there are people who do the absolute absurd things that they need to be shamed for
What annoys me about OverConsumption Culture is the products they’re using in such enormous amounts have chemicals in them that are directly linked to cancer or hormone disruption like infertility or fibroids. With the amount of information out here about these chemicals you’d think people be more conscious of the products they buy.
This❤
We’re going to see the same stuff because the root of these conversations are men. They be starting women beef and no one notices
Happy New Year Chioma and everyone ❤🎉🍾
I don’t think Latto made cheetah print popular… she helped to reintroduce it, but the trend came back with everything else that was popular in the early 2000s
5:24 Can we add 'narcissist' to the buzz words people need to stop saying? Mfs don't even know what a narcissist is, yet throw it around 24/7.
i think telling social media your business and then get mad when anyone has any input on it should be left behind.
Also…Jezebel was a entitled queen not a “wh*re” …let’s verify before we use the word
Thank you with a weak husband that’s how you know people don’t know what there talking about not QC she right but that’s not what it mean
She's a conservative and you know how they love changing the meanings of words
Please leave baby mamahood behind and build stronger families ❤❤
Love your content!! Excited to see where you and your channel go in this new year. God bless youuu
I wanna leave the word “PERIOD” in 2024 😂😂😂😂😂
You‘re always speeking facts 👏👏 Thank you for sharing your thoughts and opinions
Even though I strongly disagreed with some of your points, I still respect you being blunt about what you believe in and not sugarcoating.
Chioma, you went hard in this video, but everything you said was super Necessary!!!! Thank you!!! ❤
Not trying to make fetch happen 😂
I just said this Fetch is happening
A lot of things you mentioned only exists on social media
Comment for the buzzwords
I never knew how to explain it, and when I did, I genuinely felt like a hater! As a college student who excelled in my studies, I almost felt stupid using buzzwords or phrases like 'bombastic,' 'diabolical,' 'demure,' or even 'it’s giving.' Even though I know what they mean, they just didn’t make
me feel educated!
i’ve never understood the whole babies having social media accounts bc why would you put your child at risk like that ??? or when ppl posting pics of their babies fresh out the womb….like can you enjoy the moment & just keep that moment special and private ?
2025 we do not tolerate/accept the slander of black women.
25 mins ago let’s go!!! happy new year chioma!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Pt 2 please definitely wanna hear more of your list
Doing trends and aesthetics
The white/ mainstream bastardization of culturally black slang/colloquialisms. (That'll probably always be a thing sadly)
Ooh I got a list
Demure
Ken vs drake
Unhealthy food promo
Hating on gen z and gen alpha
Stupid conspiracy theories with no proof
Pretending dead artist woulda been the biggest thing ever if they were alive; just cause they dead
Over sexual ig reels
This was perfect!!!!! We need to leave all of that bull crap lol 😂 I love your honesty!!!! Thank you for this Queen Chioma 👌🏾👌🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥💖💖💖💖💖💁🏽♀️💁🏽♀️💁🏽♀️
I'm sorry Chioma I can't let go of the word diabolical. It's hilarious and I crack up whenever anyone uses it 😂
Happy New Year! Love this list, Chioma. Leave all that ish in 24. I feel like the Jen-Dashians & influencers helped push the overconsumption and overly organized aesthetic. These kinds of things used to be left for the rich and celebrity but now regular folks feel the need to keep up with the Jones' via social media. Keeping up with the Jones' will hurt you every time! Let's make financial literacy, natural living, self control, and morals trendy!
I think the most annoying part about Ozempic was thinking ANYONE who lost weight was on it. Lizzo for instance. Has been losing weight naturally and actually putting in hard work and discipline. For ozempic to step on the scene, as she’s made noticeable weight loss progress, to be accused of taking it. THAT’S annoying as well.
9:04 this “jezebel spirit” section has got me rolling🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thank you ❤ this video is valid I agree with every point you made
This whole video was hitting. I agree with everything you said on here❤.❤
@4:26 YESSSSS AGREED I was very shocked this year that people did not know the word demure which to me is such a word that’s so naturally in my vocabulary and it’s so crazy that I got it from something as simple as the show the nanny.
😂😂😂 wow
How is that shocking? I’m pretty sure many people know words that may not be in your vocabulary either?
All words are not in people's vocabulary's until they learn them. Certain words are not used by the average everyday person, so it should be seen as a good thing that people are learning new words. No one should be judged for learning something new.
@@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 ummmm 🤨 smartass it’s shocking bc of my perspective. Obviously everyone knows words that would or wouldn’t be in others vocabulary. However demure was a word that I’ve used before it became a buzzword and I don’t follow trends or go on tiktok a lot so I didn’t even know that demure or even diabolical were words that became that popular u til I started hearing it in real time as a buzzword
@ and you’re right. And I do find it as a positive bc this would mean that these words are now being utilized by people who otherwise wouldn’t. However it is just annoying that it is OVERUSED in situations and conversations that wouldn’t call for it. Like you can tell when something is apart of someone’s vocabulary and a learned word vs. someone doing it for a trend. Meadning that once the hype is over almost like fashion the word is forgotten into oblivion.
Happy new years Chioma!! One of my favorite commentators on this app.
I found this beautiful channel on here called “Black hopecore” and I just want to suggest it here because the negative and nasty is what goes viral but I think this deserves to aswell 😭❤️ I pray to see more positive content being pushed in 2025!
thank you, and lets add theshaderoom and justinlaboy to the list
We need to leave dressing half naked in 2024 too and dress modestly
Yesss somebody had to say it about the lip filler! It looks gross and uncomfortable
What am I leaving in 2024 is every one being deemed as innocent or being a grown up and people still babying you
Happy New Year 🎈🎊, I hope everyone has a wonderful 2025.