5 reasons why you're going to marry the wrong person
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- Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024
- 5 reasons why you're going to marry the wrong person.
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Be real, how many of us stop and re-evaluate the decision we are about to make before getting married. I mean really stop thinking without feelings and emotions attached.
I believe we take marriages likely in today's society. Divorce rates are very high. You should consider the following before getting married -
1. Rushing into Marriage Due to External Pressure
Societal expectations, family pressure, or the fear of being alone can push people into marriage before they’re truly ready. This often leads to choosing a partner based on timing rather than true compatibility.
2. Confusing Infatuation with Love
The early stages of a relationship are often filled with intense emotions, which can be mistaken for deep love. Marrying based on infatuation without understanding each other’s values, goals, and personalities can lead to disappointment once the initial passion fades.
3. Overlooking Red Flags
Many people ignore or downplay serious issues or red flags because they are overly focused on the positives or believe things will change over time. Marrying someone without addressing these concerns can result in long-term dissatisfaction and conflict.
4. Unresolved Personal Issues
Entering into a marriage without addressing personal issues like insecurity, trauma, or lack of self-awareness can cause problems. These issues can strain the relationship, especially if they affect communication and emotional stability.
5. Incompatibility in Core Values and Life Goals
Failing to discuss and align on essential aspects of life, such as children, finances, religion, and lifestyle, can lead to significant conflicts down the road. Marrying someone without shared core values or life goals can create a relationship built on unstable foundations.
Avoiding these pitfalls requires self-awareness, clear communication, and taking the time to truly understand and align with a partner before making a lifelong commitment.
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Very cool video A month ago, I ended a five-year relationship. My soulmate made the decision to walk away from me, and even though I've done everything in my power to get him back, I can't help but feel disappointed because I can't see my life with anyone else. I want to say that I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I simply can't. I miss him so much and I don't know why I'm saying this here.
I learnt the hard way that saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult when a 12-year relationship ends. But I was unable to let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counsellor, and he was able to assist me in getting him back.
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Thankyou for the words of advice 🙏🙏
This is true to the core. I did that twice. My mom especially was the pressure. She meant good, but thinking back it was all my bad judgment. I was pressured just like that to get out of the military due to combat deployments, I got out twice, but eventually was motivated with the idea of early retirement and went back in regardless of what anyone says and thankfully I retired with full benefits after 21 years of active service.
You been divorced twice????
@@CameronRoberts-r9w Lol, sadly yes.
@@DjangofootballDid you love them thou or you loved marriage?
Knowing tour person is very very crucial.🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is so true be careful people it's not a good thing, please please please be careful 🙏
i completely agree with this video
Very sound advice to families interfering. We need to make comments on the topic, so 3 dimensional, without love or respect as some person. Don't ever dim someone's light to make yours shine brightly that's low life. Namaste
I am not getting married...
definitely not ...
surely ..
how and when did you hear this....
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😂
I am not getting
Married.... Never
Never..
Now u tell me! Where are you in 2014! Would had saved me so much😊
At the end, she will get tired of men or I will get tired of her, this is why I'm single. Because I already know how it's going to end.
And because I'm a man, my relationships are all based on how much money I bring to the table.
Only women and pets get unconditional love.
@@BobSmith-tn2qp Your thoughts create your reality. Whatever you believe, will most likely come to fruition. Everyone I know personally, are happily married 5, 10, 15, 20, 25 plus years. Their relationships are not based on money or favours. But I empathize with you. But my thoughts and reality are different to yours. Just be mindful. I wish you all the success in life.
Most definitely ❤️✌️
I want polygamy I can't love one woman I tried it doesn't work I prefer them in twos
@@JamaalCox What's telling is that less than 5% of marriages last 50 years. Very few couples get it right.
Hundred 💯 agree
Is true we got married to the wrong people bcs a person will never show you his real self until ur married to him,start to brought up his failed relationships in ur marriage
I agree
Men make marriage sound like a prison. Do you really think that I or any woman would like to have a man to dictate and control their every move? That's why divorce rate is sky high, cause we had enough of being dictated, controlled and restricted. Traditional marriage model has never been functional, long marriages happened because women were financially restricted and coerced into marriages with religios and other types of men propaganda. A lot of men are limited and inappropriate in relationship to women therefore they need to evolve. Marriages are not for life, people grow and change, divorce has to always be an option. You cannot imprison and enslave women for benefit of men. Listening to this rubbish and other men wishes videos I know for sure I don't want to ever get entangled with a man long term.
Chil...take a cold bath you're too emotional 😢😢😢