Man, I was really sorry to hear this. I enjoyed watching your adventures together and the love you guys shared. I've been there. I pray for your healing and for Tida too. Best wishes to you both.
100% respect for you, no bad words spoken about her or yourself. Break up is hard, keep moving forward and healing. When you're ready, we will be waiting for more video's. Keep your head up, cry it out, and then smile!!
Hey there Esquire…….so sorry to hear about your break up……you will be fine…….I’m sure you will meet someone else one day when your ready to move on……life is a journey and that was just part of it……lots more happy times to come……keep posting and you will be fine…..go on some more adventures…..all the best Esquire…….looking forward to the next video……
Mate, I’m shocked to say the least, but as someone who has had two broken relationships and another partner who passed away, I can relate to what you’ve been through. You’re a strong sensible guy. Look after number one. And don’t rush into anything, you’re a really good guy. Much love from England.
I think we all knew something was up, when the videos stopped. I am truly heartbroken for you, I thought you two were a lovely couple. That took a lot of strength for you to share your raw emotions with the world. Keeping you in my prayers that you find peace and happiness. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Indeed. The hiatus of videos had me thinking that something was wrong. We've all been through this and it is a rough time to go through but there is light at the end of the tunnel. I'm planning to remain an interested subscriber to the channel and wishing LJ the best. Things do happen for a reason. As long as we stay strong and look ahead. Life goes on and can be better. I trust that LJ will prove to us all that he is strong
@@josephkensil8831 he not real man. He stick camera in face all day and just pay money. He not good guy off camera. I with Tida now. I am real bulgarian man
My brother this brought me to tears. I felt your pain, for the same happened to me 7 years ago when the love of my life just decided she needed space after 8 years together. I was broken in every way possible -- but as I was told and I tell you my friend "this too will pass". Maintain the great memories, but each new day brings healing to the mind, body, heart, and soul. Much luv Esquire.
Take care of yourself, I'm a sentimental man and I started crying when I saw this video. Now you just have to look ahead, even if you have a lot of good memories backwards. Wish you all the best in the future. Greetings from Norway
I was married to a beautiful Japanese lady for 32 years. I loved her with all my heart. Parkinson’s disease took her in just two years. That was four years ago. I am 70 years old and a disabled veteran. I am able to have happy days, I am able to make a difference by feeding the poor and helping my friends. I can still be a good person and contribute to society and live honorably. My life Diddnt stop after my wife’s death. You are young. This will pass. You are in control of how long you will suffer with this. It’s up to you. Your life will go on. Make it count. Make your life beautiful.
“If you brave enough to say goodbye life will reward you with new hello. “ stay strong and don’t give up your RUclips account, this will make you grow in many ways. You done it before you can do it again. Move on friend.
Love you both. Thank you for sharing as painful as it is. Know that you are not alone. You have brothers and sisters worldwide that deeply care for both of you. Blessings from SoCal....Action Jackson and Erika America. :-)
Your pain is felt my friend. You are not alone. Thank you for being real and sharing ALL of your experiences with us - you are the real deal. The light always shines in the end. Be Blessed 🙌.
I know that there are no words to take away the emotions you are feeling. You have the right attitude mate, you will find your way through these difficult times. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. If ever you are in PKK, you are always welcome to come stay with Gift and I for a while. Wishing you nothing but the best! Much love.
Joe I wish you get well soon , take a good care yourself , Lj life is go on , what’s happening today it’s a history tomorrow . You will be alright mate , Melbourne, Australia 🇦🇺
I am shocked. My heart hurts for you. The courage that you display is an inspiration to me. It takes a heck of a Man to share his pain. I started following you pre-Tida and will continue to do so. Chin up brother, you are loved and you are not alone. Thank you for all that you are doing.
@@kennethpaulsen5407 Kenneth?? How can you say this? He advertises his whole life and relationship with her on RUclips and the pain he’s going through with the breakup, in fact advertising your personal life and relationship on RUclips is the cause of many breakups in social media,,,,, so how could you say it might be a private matter? 😄😄😁😁😄😁😄
I’m beyond shocked 😳. I felt sure you two were together for life. I wish you both well in your lives. Please take good care of yourself mate 🙏🏻. Best wishes from Northern Ireland ☘️
@@bigal2417 Can I ask you? Do you really think she left him because a lack of money? Seriously? You think because he doesn’t have enough? Life seemed very good for her with him! I’m just curious about why it really ended? Thank you Bigal 👋
@@user-me7tr8uc2b what I said was a bit tough in cheek but I would think it probably had something to do with money. U don't know what her financial commitments are and having lived in Thailand for 21 years I'd say money was a part of the problem.
That pain you feel is the good memories settling in. You will be able to look back one day with perspective and pleasure. love is painful, but it is a damn sight better than no love.
LJ, they say that ‘to grieve shows that you have lived’. And you two certainly did that. It was something that mattered and that is what makes life worth living. Sadly everything does end but at least you can console yourself with the amazing memories. It is better to have risked the heartache and had the experience. Look fwd to the videos as you rebuild to the better version of you. Good luck.
Unfortunately, we’ve all been there brother. When it feels like there’s no light at the end of the tunnel, I promise you that the light will soon appear and the darkness will go away. Hang tough and thanks for sharing.
Only discovered your travel last week and already a big fan. When I stumbled on this one it really hit home. I met a woman from Thailand, fell in love and we got married… one day I came home and she was gone… years later she called to apologize but never gave a clear explanation. You’re a really good hearted human and it’s really valuable that you made this video. Thank you being who you are. Cheers mate
Damn. It surely must be tough. You two had an amazing two years together and nothing will change that. She may not have had such amazing adventures without you. You are resilient and will bounce back to live a rich and fulfilling life. Hang in there mate ❤️🙏
From one Australian to another . Don’t change yrself mate , you seem like a very kind genuine guy . Just stay strong . When one door closes another opens mate !! Beers are on me when I come to Thailand
I have enjoyed your videos and your “pure” energy my friend. I learned decades ago that a relationship is.... just a relationship. They build on each other. We can grow as men with each passing one. We are here to grow and what better way than by being in relationship. Personally I’m a much better partner today than I ever was. It’s taken many and I have more work to do. Relationships are a perfect mirror for us to grow and learn better ways to be in relationship. You said you will work to dissolve your ego. I’m proof that day only happens when we pass-on. So if we travel our life and relationships with an ego than accept it but don’t act on it. That is the muscle we need to train strong. Our muscle to keep our ego quiet and always behind us. Of course it wants to lead but it most often will cause us pain when it does. You are far along on your life path just by acknowledging the presence of your ego. Congratulate yourself for this advanced state and work that muscle as often as needed everyday. You are not your ego. Your ego is insane and you surely are not. You are a man filled with love, compassion and creativity. Celebrate the Spirit Being you are. You are a Spiritual Being having human experiences. I’m sure you’ve heard that one given the path you travel. Learn and grow from your time with Tida (sp). And take what you’ve learned into your next relationship and with that, think how wonderful it will be. Perfect Love is when two spiritual people share their lives and loves with each other. The key here is “share their lives” with each other. Not become each other or become one, but continue to grow as spiritual beings who are sharing their journeys together. We can loose ourselves in relationship and that’s more ego than being on our unique spiritual life path. Share lives, not become lives. You will hopefully have more beautiful relationships, growing all the time. It’s no accident this one is over. There must be one in the wings waiting for you to be open to her and her ready for you. Relationships are way too important to our growth and journey down here to be random. Be thankful for Tida and thankful for your new mystery woman when your timing’s are perfect. Be open to Love and revel in what you’ve learned so far and excited to share it all. CBL
All you can do is appreciate the good memories you created together. This is a new beginning of another chapter in your life. The pain may seem too much to bear now, but keep your head up! Keep moving forward...keep improving yourself physically and mentally each day. I have no doubt that someone with a great soul like you will shine bright once again! Better days will come...I'm certain of it. Stay strong! 🙏
I've been married to a Thai woman for 10 years mate. Its an emotional roller coaster ride that is sometimes more than what you signed up for. Not easy bro. Aussies and Thais have different behaviours, opinions and goals. You be cool bro. Ok. Every things going to be alright. 👍
Things happen for a reason, always onwards and upwards onto the next chapter Esquire keep the vids coming and think how blessed and lucky you are to be alive.
One day at a time brother.... Don't rush too quickly to forget. You need time to come through the process the other end ready for the next chapter in your life. I've watched you from the beginning and followed your whole journey. I'm sure I speak for everyone when I say we're all with you buddy. Take care and keep your chin up.
So sorry Esquire. I was so enamored with you and Tida as a couple in my heart and mind. I do know though that you will go on and life will go around this corner to a new road. Keep the good and let the dark get behind you. You have many who are still with you and cheering for your peace mind and heart. Go forward my friend and know you are admired and dare I say even loved. Your grace and your fortitude and your clear vision is an inspiration for all of us and I know it has been for me. Peace brother.
@@melvinstoychev5131 I thought everything was real, cause i know that many people from outside Tailand get real married with thai girls. But that you saldrá make sense and can be possible, with money you can do anything.
I feel your pain, brother. Been there and it is never easy. Best wishes to both of you. One always wonders why these things happen. Sometimes, life leads you in that direction. Sometimes, we take ourselves in that direction. This is now a time of reflection and a time to ascertain how we can make ourselves better. Hopefully you and Tida can both grow from this and all the viewers as well.
I’m in total shock mate . It doesn’t make sense , I just can’t imagine what happened between you both , but anyway , from my own experience being similar to yours LJ , my first Thai relationship failed due to her not being what she portrayed herself to be , but I learnt a lot from that lesson , and years later I met the greatest Thai woman who turned out to be the one that I was meant to meet , and I married her and my life has never been so full of love and happiness since the first day we met . You always have to believe that everything in life happens for a reason, and when you finally meet the right one , you soon realise why you weren’t meant to be with the other women . Chin up mate , as that mrs right is out there still wondering where you are , and one day when the time is right , you will meet her . Sometimes we meet the right woman at the wrong time , Great to see Johnny trying to cheer you up LJ , as it is so good to have a good Aussie mate to help you through this tough time. My thoughts are with you mate And sending you big man hugs From down under 🇦🇺
This is such an emotional video to watch. Only started watching your videos recently so by now a couple of years have pasted. Hope yo have healed your broken heart and are back to your old jovial self. Love you Bro, take care.
This broke my heart.. I feel the loss.. I was always so inspired by the both of you to be a better person myself and envied your relationship with the love, joy and respect you showed each other..I know we never can know the full extent of what goes on in a relationship from a 30 minute edited video but I always thought you were 2 wonderful human beings that had found their perfect match..I kinda still wanna believe that.. I just wish the both of you the best in all you do in your lives and hope you find what it is you each are looking for.. Take good care of yourselves and know there are many people out here who care about you both
Your words and wisdom well beyond your years really proud of you for identifying your feelings and sharing them sitting with them is the hard bit especially the GoD hours (at night when alone) thinking about everything can be exhausting and taxing keep everything simple and self care I’m sure she is in as much pain as yourself I hope you both find peace and happiness staY safe bruZ - Johnny good man got your back both legends
I know your pain, and it is a very empty feeling. Things will get better,it just takes time. Thanks for all you videos, they have pulled me out of some sad times.
Heartbreaking news so sorry to hear this. This was a sad film to watch but I think you captured your emotions perfectly. You are a positive guy LJ and Im sure you will bounce back from this what ever the outcome. Just remember you have a great channel, great friends and still living in a wonderful country. Stay strong LJ and take care, best wishes from the Uk!
Tida will be missed, but LJ try and not over think it. You never know, things may still work out- stay positive and keep friends around you. Cheers from Downunder.
I have been watching your epic videos since last year, I’m in shock too man, I well done for shearing your pain man. Hope you heal and look forward to a brighter future. All the best buddy 👍🏾
Life is full of suffering. As an old man I can tell you that everyone I have loved, every friend, has eventually left my life. Sadly, that is how life works. So I love my Thai wife every day and cherish the friends I have because I know that these too will pass. Life is not fair nor easy. More like dumbfounding and numbing. There is no answer to why so it is best to stop asking that question. This too shall pass and better days are certainly in your future. Thanks for the videos. ❤
Chin up Esquire! A very moving video with so much truth and pain. Have faith brother, these things are sent to test us. Sending positive and healing vibes to you!
I am pretty crushed watching this video. I can’t tell you how bad I feel for you. I really thought that you guys were in it forever.. you have shown great strength coming forward to all the people that cared about you and bringing us into your circle so we can send you vibes to bring you out of this darker phase you were going through right now. The only thing that I can say is that from what I saw and all the videos time will go by and she will have great regrets for leaving somebody as dedicated and caring as you are. That was so obvious watching the videos. You will find a happiness out there because you’ve shown who you are and show that it is there for you and also your ability to make someone else happy. There is someone else that there who wants to be happy with you. Just take your time you are still very young and have a lot more ahead of you. Believe me you gave as much to her as you feel she gave to you and that includes a lot of knowledge and common sense about this life… if there’s anything I can do for you please let me know I’m in your corner…peace,JM
Oh my heart goes out to you. It can be so hard the first months. No mater what I will always still watch you. You bring me and so many other people inspiration in your videos. I’m sorry for you and the same time thank you for giving us such inspiration, thank you for sharing something that is so close to your heart and personal, you made me and others shed some tears. God bless you Esquire.
Genuine self-reflection and warmhearted flashbacks to the good times you had together. This is how I chose to remember my years with my ex, there were many good shared moments and memories. The heartache will pass of course and your willingness to share such content is part of the healing process. Continue to focus on being the best version of yourself and living in the moment, the past is just that. There are many potential "soul mates" waiting to be discovered but female nature is universal, for most their "love" is opportunistic and transitory. Trust me when I say that a solo journey does not have to be a lonely one and in fact it's a more liberating one. Best wished brother.
Just watched your latest video. All I can do is send to you gods strength going forward. Thai birds really do get under your skin, and life with them is full of highs and lows, a real roller coaster ride. Best Wishes & God bless you. Sim - Koh Samui
Oh man, LJ this is such a bummer. Chin up mate, this too shall pass. I’ve read many of the comments that others have written, and their best wishes for you and can’t think of anything that wouldn’t sound cliche. Take some time for yourself and find what it is your looking for. Please know LJ you have absolutely been an inspiration and a positive influence on many of your followers, myself included. Love ya man and your channel. Be safe and stay strong!
100% respect for you, no bad words spoken about her or yourself. I've always admired your channel and I am confident you will bounce back better than ever. When you come to Pattaya, Man, I was really sorry to hear this. I enjoyed watching your adventures together and the love you guys shared. I've been there. I pray for your healing and for Tida too. Best wishes to you both.
I dont know why he is unhappy. go get another Tida. there is a Tida on every block. essentially he is looking for a jobless uneducated good looking girl who will leave her family to be with him. when he doesn't marry her they all leave
@@sahilprashar567 You'd need more details to make this conclusion. But yes most people in Thailand pick the low fruit, but you dont know enough about her to be so insulting
@@stevenobinator2229 dear sir where have I insulted my response is from watching 100 videos on Thailand. It's also from analyzing this fellows previous videos also.
Aww dude. So sorry. It was so much her loss... You're an amazing dude. I'm so excited to see your brighter and happy future coming soon. All your videos are great. Never dispair, you're loved by all who watch and follow you. Stay true to you👍🏻
One of the best videos I have seen on RUclips. You cant get any more authentic than this. Having experienced the same years ago, it all came rushing back for a moment. Thanks for being real man. I hope you are in a better place today.
Best thing is to grieve for a brief time and then move on. Of course I don’t know the details of your relationship, but generally it’s best to move forward and not try to get back together. Break ups of more than a week or two are usually for a good reason for both sides. You’ll find new adventures and a new great woman to share them with. As you said, work on yourself and success, and the other stuff will fall into place (with bumps along the way, but don’t let the bruises stop you). Best wishes to you LJ and your audience will be here when you decide to return. Cheers mate.
Oh My gorgeous nephew. My heart is breaking for you. You are more of a man than many and I honour your vulnerability and ability to convey your emotions. You truly are an inspiration and your family are so proud of you. I wish I could give you a great big hug x
..so tough to watch..and even tougher..to live through ..thanks for reaching out..and sharing..and best wishes ..for more smiles..tomorrow..and just around the corner..
I can’t even lie though. The breakup between me and my ex girlfriend four years ago was the greatest thing that ever happened to me. It was destiny ! Back then I hadn’t become the man I suppose to be today. And now, I’m shooting for universe. The greatest thing ever. Good luck my friend ! It’s gonna be amazing.
Men are the true romantics and good men get treated the worst , I’ve seen it many times. Don’t think negatively about yourself because of this it happens to everyone , it’s just the way we humans roll.
Just saw your video man, coming from a person who was in an 11 year relationship, there is life after love! You'll build yourself up again and you'll be stronger. You are correct, use this time to focus on YOU and when the time is right, you'll meet the person that you're meant to be with!
I'm in the Philippines, I met my wife to be on my first weekend here. Now 23 years. Have a beautiful 22 year old daughter. We always got on but fell into financial problems and I became a workaholic to fix it. She left and got mixed up with bad people and ended up in jail, she's still there 6 years later. I've been by her side every step of the way and still fighting to get her out. I realised a lot of mistakes I made and understand her thinking. Although I don't have to be, I've been celibate for this 6 years but hope to get her out asap. Kind of fixed the financials and picking myself up, had a lot of help. So I know how you feel, these Asian ladies are something else. I could see it coming to be honest, not sure exactly why or how but Tida changed a little I think. O hope she comes back, you made a nice couple, sometimes the culture thing gets in the way, possibly language also.bif she doesn't come back, believe me, there are many ladies out there to take your mind off things and keep you comforted at night. Will miss you both and hope to see you back on your own, with Tida again and or with someone else. Take care.
Hello LJ, this is Bill from Canada! As old as I am, U were/R an inspiration 4 me! Because of U and a few others, I wanted and still want to visit Thailand! This situation with Tida has me with a bottom jaw on the floor and shaking my head. I watched to the 4:00 min. mark and tears in my eyes, I had to pause 4 a 15-20 minute break to feed my dogs, going WTF??? U guys seemed perfect together! Then emotions of my ex-wife leaving me and our 2 Dogs 10 years ago after almost 20 yrs. marriage, and then divorced almost 7 yrs ago! It will be difficult but U R young, and U will recover & be a stronger man 4 it! Take Care Buddy and stay safe! Looking forward to more RUclips when UR ready!
So sorry to watch this, time is a great healer though ,embrace the memories and hope you find Happiness ,thought you guys were Tight so I'm shocked, enjoyed watching your videos and look forward to seeing your next adventure's, Chin Up onwards and upwards in Life, best of Luck in the Future.
Wow 😪 I'm sorry LJ x the light will shine again - for those of us that watched your love grow and blossom through your videos this one is hard to watch - sending you both love and light right now 🙏💕
Sad to have watched this, it must be so hard. But it's a real shame all of your videos have now gone from the last year or more, you must have your reasons that it would be hard to have all of them with Tida in them but they are part of your journey on this channel and hope they come back here one day for all of us to see.
It's been almost 12 years since this happened to me. I have stayed single, I have no interest or ability to trust someone with the most precious thing I can give them, my heart. It's all healed up now but I just can't open that door to let someone in to hurt me again, good luck to you.
@@MishaElRusito a bad bad stomach is nothing compared to the pain I felt when I was surprised not only by her leaving but also cheating with her cousins husband. Then there's the pain of watching my 4 year old crying and asking if mommy is going to come home again. You have no clue of what you are talking about, I hope you never experience this but if you do you will totally understand how wrong your comment is.
I really like Belltown's comment . Sums it up. My opinion is later in this long reply! My recent situation is complex, as I think our distance relationship will just fade away. I'm the only one holding it up, but she is okay to keep us in limbo. Not to formally break up, but I'm not going to be anyone's insurance policy or wait until "she decides." Relationships are not about control . I am a lot more open than she is, and one does not really know the depths of another's experiences and issues they have to overcome, even if one thinks that they do. And just like this situation and maybe yours, we both thought that we had so much in common, and I thought we were inseparable. You need to be perceptive enough to see negative signs . And treat them without blinders on. But just two months ago, I got to know another woman in my profession much better than I had in the past. Was a strange thing that we caught up at the very end of the meeting when everyone was gone.... we clicked so well it's almost like I've known her all my life. I have always been attracted to her, but never in my wildest dreams thought that we would have such a conversation so special. Something rare that I have never seen before. So it sounds like I am suggesting to be optimistic and be open to trust. Actually I agree with you more than disagree. Keep open but not too much. If that true match comes, you will know it. Just keep your expectations reasonable at the start. My encounter just happened, so it's in the early stages. But it's looking very good. Hope things are going well for you!
Were all here behind you mate im sorry to hear of your breakup i can imagine how hard it would be. Looking forward to seeing your future your an absolute legend always loved your content and always will :)
This is why finding the right person is very essential. I feel your pain and know first hand how it is to have your heart stepped on don't change who you are stay true to yourself and always keep your dignity and self respect in tact. Tida will regret this brother their is someone for you. God Bless you.
One of the best RUclips videos I’ve seen in quite a while. Revealing yourself like this to your audience is a difficult task. It’s a part of your journey friend. Peace ✌️ and love ❤️.
You put the words right out of my mound mate- though it is a very sad experience this is one of the best YT videos I´ve ever seen - thanks for sharing your emotions and thoughts LJ - I definiteky feel your pain and neither words or time can heal you - you are on the right passway and something even better is just around the corner- because I know every change is always for the better even if it is hard to see right now - bless you LJ
Christ man I'm so sorry to hear this. Words won't help but know that I am thinking of you during this extremely difficult time. Take care of yourself my friend. I hope to meet with you soon. All the best. Mitch 🙏
We hurt because we can heal, and then love another. Glad you found pain while on the road to loving as it hols the promise an even deeper connection to others.
This is different & difficult to watch LJ.. It’s painful for you right now .. I know! I admire your courage & putting this video together! We all want to ( Love & be Loved )..And, yes the journey has its bumps & hurdles along the way. Your attitude is on point & moving forward and focusing on you is the way to go right now. Take good care & keep us posted. 👍
Hey little bro, you know you got us behind you and praying for your happiness. I really felt the pain you have lived through. Hope this new phase of your life brings you joy and splendour in your love life. 👌🙏👌 Nice to have you back. 👍
Out of all the people me and my wife follow on RUclips we always thought you was the more genuine and true as a person. They say time is a great healer. Everyone is behind you and as each day goes by life becomes more easier as new memories are made 💗
Just remember my brother, good days are still ahead! Never give up because there isn't a choice to, you have to go up from here and never go down. Even after seeing all those older videos that you left up on your page, shows where it all started and where this journey has begun. I'm saying this advice because my life was a very rough life in the beginning. I can tell you many stories that would blow your mind in my younger years. Pick up like your doing, and let the pain you're having be your driving force! Be blessed brother, and I really mean that!
I was missing your videos mate, was wondering what happened! I'm sorry that you went through this! Don't you worry at all, time heals everything! Keep traveling, keep smiling!
I just saw this. I had seen some of your recent videos & wondered why you were dating. You seem to have recovered well but I also know there's probably some lingering feelings. I admire your willingness to make yourself vulnerable. I could see the raw pain in your eyes. I've seen that before in the mirror. I also admire your always talking about gratefulness for the life you're living. Good luck. I look forward to seeing more of you.
Stay strong mate, we all know how difficult is broke up relationship with loved ones I was shocked when I saw this video like every other your fan but life goes on ok? You have to go thru this difficult time for you, it wont be easy but… “Whatever doesn’t kill you, it makes you stronger” Salute from Chicago 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Wow, your transparency in this video is amazing. We have all had heartbreak in our life and you feel like you are drowning and can't breathe when it happens. I love how you have thrown your ego as a man out the window and realize it is time to make your self just feel happy being alone again. I have recently gone thru a similar breakup and felt alone, sad, and wondering how I would ever find happiness again. It was great to see Johnny there for you and all you can do it lean on your friends, they will always love you the most and do whatever they can to get you thru the process. Stay strong and look forward to seeing your journey. I can relate all too much. Cheers.
Great to see you are OK as I was getting a bit worried about you! Mate, "Life Happens" & set backs like this make us better stronger people. As my late grandmother used to say- "Things happen for a reason..." It's great that you have a great mate in Jonny to reach out to if you need anything or even just a chat.
I went through the same crap 5 years ago, woman I loved walked out on me to live interstate, life takes you on a journey of despair, until someone lights up your path, makes you want to take that next step. you're still young, you have plenty of time to find your rightful place within this universe.
LJ Brother my heart breaks for you. Nothing can hurt so much, then the next day comes and you put one foot in front of the other. My prayers go up for you . Thank you for letting us all know what is going on with you. You are like a Brother, Son to us. Keep going Brother.
Be strong man, the end of a relationship is always like a deep tunnel... what it means that at the end always you will see the light. Best regards from Spain!
Brought me to a bit of tears. I’ve lost a few friends lately to the afterlife so feeling a different kind of loss but nonetheless, I feel you. You are very wise and channeling it properly. Doing the best you can do and I respect you for it. If she let you go, she’s evidently not the one. I wish you well through this healing evolving process. My thoughts are with you brother.
LJ, tough to watch as we all share this with you; as have all been there before ourselves. Time will give you a better perspective and appreciation of your time well spent with Tida. Grieve as you must, as it is part of the healing process. We are with you moving forward.
Sorry to hear that you and Tida parted ways. Here is a bit of advice based on experience. You and Tida and other Asian women are from different languages, cultures, and religions. Many people would say awwww that's not so important but to Asian women I believe it is more important then what you might believe. If you are serious and plan to live in Thailand. Please take the time to learn the importance of those things I mentioned above that are important to Thai and Asian women. LJ do a daily inspection of yourself through prayer and meditation. Use this time to learn, grow the inner man. Relax and enjoy life.
I’ve never commented on a video before; I was blown away by your honesty and openness. Cheer up … The best is yet to come my man.
My Girlfriend ran away with my best Mate, God l miss him
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Man, I was really sorry to hear this. I enjoyed watching your adventures together and the love you guys shared. I've been there. I pray for your healing and for Tida too. Best wishes to you both.
100% respect for you, no bad words spoken about her or yourself. Break up is hard, keep moving forward and healing. When you're ready, we will be waiting for more video's. Keep your head up, cry it out, and then smile!!
Hey there Esquire…….so sorry to hear about your break up……you will be fine…….I’m sure you will meet someone else one day when your ready to move on……life is a journey and that was just part of it……lots more happy times to come……keep posting and you will be fine…..go on some more adventures…..all the best Esquire…….looking forward to the next video……
It takes a brave man, a mature man to tell this story of love and loss, never mind on RUclips. Much respect.
Ditto.
I agree
Mate, I’m shocked to say the least, but as someone who has had two broken relationships and another partner who passed away, I can relate to what you’ve been through. You’re a strong sensible guy. Look after number one. And don’t rush into anything, you’re a really good guy. Much love from England.
Sad to see this video thoughts are with you mate
Be strong
Look forward to the future
Life tests us all
Awe w
I think we all knew something was up, when the videos stopped. I am truly heartbroken for you, I thought you two were a lovely couple. That took a lot of strength for you to share your raw emotions with the world. Keeping you in my prayers that you find peace and happiness. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Indeed. The hiatus of videos had me thinking that something was wrong. We've all been through this and it is a rough time to go through but there is light at the end of the tunnel. I'm planning to remain an interested subscriber to the channel and wishing LJ the best. Things do happen for a reason. As long as we stay strong and look ahead. Life goes on and can be better. I trust that LJ will prove to us all that he is strong
@@josephkensil8831 he not real man. He stick camera in face all day and just pay money. He not good guy off camera. I with Tida now. I am real bulgarian man
@@melvinstoychev5131 I think you've mistaken Handrea for Tida.
My brother this brought me to tears. I felt your pain, for the same happened to me 7 years ago when the love of my life just decided she needed space after 8 years together. I was broken in every way possible -- but as I was told and I tell you my friend "this too will pass". Maintain the great memories, but each new day brings healing to the mind, body, heart, and soul. Much luv Esquire.
Take care of yourself, I'm a sentimental man and I started crying when I saw this video. Now you just have to look ahead, even if you have a lot of good memories backwards. Wish you all the best in the future.
Greetings from Norway
Same i felt by watching this video. Both they were like good friends for me and always looking forward to the next video they shared.
I was married to a beautiful Japanese lady for 32 years. I loved her with all my heart. Parkinson’s disease took her in just two years. That was four years ago. I am 70 years old and a disabled veteran.
I am able to have happy days, I am able to make a difference by feeding the poor and helping my friends. I can still be a good person and contribute to society and live honorably. My life Diddnt stop after my wife’s death. You are young. This will pass. You are in control of how long you will suffer with this. It’s up to you. Your life will go on. Make it count. Make your life beautiful.
Most wemon want security in a relationship.
House ownership, car, all the timings in life,
You're better off travelling alone, good luck
To be fair i watched this channel before Tida was on the scene, and will still watch The Esquire solo. Chin up pal you will be fine matey. 💪 💪
Right. . . Amen to that 🙏
I thought this was a wind up or something if it is true, sorry to hear that mucker.
Or are you auditioning for Neighbours?
“If you brave enough to say goodbye life will reward you with new hello. “
stay strong and don’t give up your RUclips account, this will make you grow in many ways. You done it before you can do it again. Move on friend.
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Love you both. Thank you for sharing as painful as it is. Know that you are not alone. You have brothers and sisters worldwide that deeply care for both of you. Blessings from SoCal....Action Jackson and Erika America. :-)
Your pain is felt my friend. You are not alone. Thank you for being real and sharing ALL of your experiences with us - you are the real deal. The light always shines in the end. Be Blessed 🙌.
So glad you got to catch up with Jonny, he is truly a great guy and a great friend
Yes 100%, I am very lucky to have a good friend like Jonny 🤗 Thanks guys, Love your channel ❤️🙏
@@EsquireUnlimited you still in Pattaya
I know that there are no words to take away the emotions you are feeling. You have the right attitude mate, you will find your way through these difficult times. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. If ever you are in PKK, you are always welcome to come stay with Gift and I for a while. Wishing you nothing but the best! Much love.
That's a Shoulder 100000000%❤️
Just seen your video Joe, glad that you are not hopping mad.
@ F.J. get well soon
and bring along Jonny for a drink also :-)
Joe I wish you get well soon , take a good care yourself , Lj life is go on , what’s happening today it’s a history tomorrow . You will be alright mate , Melbourne, Australia 🇦🇺
I am shocked. My heart hurts for you. The courage that you display is an inspiration to me. It takes a heck of a Man to share his pain. I started following you pre-Tida and will continue to do so. Chin up brother, you are loved and you are not alone. Thank you for all that you are doing.
Esquire you don't understand how powerful this video is, lots of people find strength from your situation.
She may have left you but you must NEVER leave yourself my brother .
Why did she leave
@@user-me7tr8uc2b think that is a private thing.
@@kennethpaulsen5407 Kenneth?? How can you say this? He advertises his whole life and relationship with her on RUclips and the pain he’s going through with the breakup, in fact advertising your personal life and relationship on RUclips is the cause of many breakups in social media,,,,, so how could you say it might be a private matter? 😄😄😁😁😄😁😄
@@user-me7tr8uc2b maybe he will say later or not, its up to him. yes he shared his life but also could keep something private if he want.
@@kennethpaulsen5407 Yes, he’s has that right, good point
I’m beyond shocked 😳. I felt sure you two were together for life. I wish you both well in your lives. Please take good care of yourself mate 🙏🏻. Best wishes from Northern Ireland ☘️
I’m confused, why did they breakup ?
@@user-me7tr8uc2b Yea I wanna know too.
@@user-me7tr8uc2b lack of money same old story .
@@bigal2417 Can I ask you? Do you really think she left him because a lack of money? Seriously? You think because he doesn’t have enough? Life seemed very good for her with him! I’m just curious about why it really ended? Thank you Bigal 👋
@@user-me7tr8uc2b what I said was a bit tough in cheek but I would think it probably had something to do with money. U don't know what her financial commitments are and having lived in Thailand for 21 years I'd say money was a part of the problem.
That pain you feel is the good memories settling in. You will be able to look back one day with perspective and pleasure. love is painful, but it is a damn sight better than no love.
LJ, they say that ‘to grieve shows that you have lived’. And you two certainly did that. It was something that mattered and that is what makes life worth living. Sadly everything does end but at least you can console yourself with the amazing memories. It is better to have risked the heartache and had the experience. Look fwd to the videos as you rebuild to the better version of you. Good luck.
Unfortunately, we’ve all been there brother. When it feels like there’s no light at the end of the tunnel, I promise you that the light will soon appear and the darkness will go away. Hang tough and thanks for sharing.
You've just joined the 1000s before you LJ .. but time heals all... don't give up mate life is for the living. Bushyboy Oz.
Only discovered your travel last week and already a big fan. When I stumbled on this one it really hit home. I met a woman from Thailand, fell in love and we got married… one day I came home and she was gone… years later she called to apologize but never gave a clear explanation. You’re a really good hearted human and it’s really valuable that you made this video. Thank you being who you are. Cheers mate
Damn. It surely must be tough. You two had an amazing two years together and nothing will change that. She may not have had such amazing adventures without you. You are resilient and will bounce back to live a rich and fulfilling life. Hang in there mate ❤️🙏
From one Australian to another . Don’t change yrself mate , you seem like a very kind genuine guy . Just stay strong . When one door closes another opens mate !! Beers are on me when I come to Thailand
I have enjoyed your videos and your “pure” energy my friend. I learned decades ago that a relationship is.... just a relationship. They build on each other. We can grow as men with each passing one. We are here to grow and what better way than by being in relationship. Personally I’m a much better partner today than I ever was. It’s taken many and I have more work to do. Relationships are a perfect mirror for us to grow and learn better ways to be in relationship. You said you will work to dissolve your ego. I’m proof that day only happens when we pass-on. So if we travel our life and relationships with an ego than accept it but don’t act on it. That is the muscle we need to train strong. Our muscle to keep our ego quiet and always behind us. Of course it wants to lead but it most often will cause us pain when it does. You are far along on your life path just by acknowledging the presence of your ego. Congratulate yourself for this advanced state and work that muscle as often as needed everyday. You are not your ego. Your ego is insane and you surely are not. You are a man filled with love, compassion and creativity. Celebrate the Spirit Being you are. You are a Spiritual Being having human experiences. I’m sure you’ve heard that one given the path you travel. Learn and grow from your time with Tida (sp). And take what you’ve learned into your next relationship and with that, think how wonderful it will be. Perfect Love is when two spiritual people share their lives and loves with each other. The key here is “share their lives” with each other. Not become each other or become one, but continue to grow as spiritual beings who are sharing their journeys together. We can loose ourselves in relationship and that’s more ego than being on our unique spiritual life path. Share lives, not become lives. You will hopefully have more beautiful relationships, growing all the time. It’s no accident this one is over. There must be one in the wings waiting for you to be open to her and her ready for you. Relationships are way too important to our growth and journey down here to be random. Be thankful for Tida and thankful for your new mystery woman when your timing’s are perfect. Be open to Love and revel in what you’ve learned so far and excited to share it all.
CBL
All you can do is appreciate the good memories you created together. This is a new beginning of another chapter in your life. The pain may seem too much to bear now, but keep your head up! Keep moving forward...keep improving yourself physically and mentally each day. I have no doubt that someone with a great soul like you will shine bright once again! Better days will come...I'm certain of it. Stay strong! 🙏
I've been married to a Thai woman for 10 years mate. Its an emotional roller coaster ride that is sometimes more than what you signed up for. Not easy bro. Aussies and Thais have different behaviours, opinions and goals. You be cool bro. Ok. Every things going to be alright. 👍
Things happen for a reason, always onwards and upwards onto the next chapter Esquire keep the vids coming and think how blessed and lucky you are to be alive.
One day at a time brother.... Don't rush too quickly to forget. You need time to come through the process the other end ready for the next chapter in your life. I've watched you from the beginning and followed your whole journey. I'm sure I speak for everyone when I say we're all with you buddy. Take care and keep your chin up.
So sorry Esquire. I was so enamored with you and Tida as a couple in my heart and mind. I do know though that you will go on and life will go around this corner to a new road. Keep the good and let the dark get behind you. You have many who are still with you and cheering for your peace mind and heart. Go forward my friend and know you are admired and dare I say even loved. Your grace and your fortitude and your clear vision is an inspiration for all of us and I know it has been for me. Peace brother.
Well said John
He stick camera in face and just pay for expensive trip. It was fake relationship base on material thing
@@melvinstoychev5131 Hi, do you really thunk this was a fake relationship? They were many years together.
@@altchavez it fake on camera. When camera not on no real love. He pay she stay. Very easy understand
@@melvinstoychev5131 I thought everything was real, cause i know that many people from outside Tailand get real married with thai girls. But that you saldrá make sense and can be possible, with money you can do anything.
I feel your pain, brother. Been there and it is never easy. Best wishes to both of you. One always wonders why these things happen. Sometimes, life leads you in that direction. Sometimes, we take ourselves in that direction. This is now a time of reflection and a time to ascertain how we can make ourselves better. Hopefully you and Tida can both grow from this and all the viewers as well.
Sorry to hear about this brother. Take care of your self - eat well and time will heal these wounds 🙏🙏🙏
I’m in total shock mate .
It doesn’t make sense , I just can’t imagine what happened between you both , but anyway , from my own experience being similar to yours LJ , my first Thai relationship failed due to her not being what she portrayed herself to be , but I learnt a lot from that lesson , and years later I met the greatest Thai woman who turned out to be the one that I was meant to meet , and I married her and my life has never been so full of love and happiness since the first day we met .
You always have to believe that everything in life happens for a reason, and when you finally meet the right one , you soon realise why you weren’t meant to be with the other women .
Chin up mate , as that mrs right is out there still wondering where you are , and one day when the time is right , you will meet her .
Sometimes we meet the right woman at the wrong time ,
Great to see Johnny trying to cheer you up LJ , as it is so good to have a good Aussie mate to help you through this tough time.
My thoughts are with you mate
And sending you big man hugs
From down under 🇦🇺
Well that's a great story. Their not all gold diggers and cold hearted. Just got to find the right one.
This is such an emotional video to watch. Only started watching your videos recently so by now a couple of years have pasted. Hope yo have healed your broken heart and are back to your old jovial self. Love you Bro, take care.
This broke my heart.. I feel the loss.. I was always so inspired by the both of you to be a better person myself and envied your relationship with the love, joy and respect you showed each other..I know we never can know the full extent of what goes on in a relationship from a 30 minute edited video but I always thought you were 2 wonderful human beings that had found their perfect match..I kinda still wanna believe that.. I just wish the both of you the best in all you do in your lives and hope you find what it is you each are looking for.. Take good care of yourselves and know there are many people out here who care about you both
AGREED
Your words and wisdom well beyond your years really proud of you for identifying your feelings and sharing them sitting with them is the hard bit especially the GoD hours (at night when alone) thinking about everything can be exhausting and taxing keep everything simple and self care I’m sure she is in as much pain as yourself I hope you both find peace and happiness staY safe bruZ - Johnny good man got your back both legends
I know your pain, and it is a very empty feeling. Things will get better,it just takes time. Thanks for all you videos, they have pulled me out of some sad times.
Heartbreaking news so sorry to hear this. This was a sad film to watch but I think you captured your emotions perfectly. You are a positive guy LJ and Im sure you will bounce back from this what ever the outcome. Just remember you have a great channel, great friends and still living in a wonderful country. Stay strong LJ and take care, best wishes from the Uk!
Tida will be missed, but LJ try and not over think it. You never know, things may still work out- stay positive and keep friends around you. Cheers from Downunder.
I have been watching your epic videos since last year, I’m in shock too man, I well done for shearing your pain man. Hope you heal and look forward to a brighter future. All the best buddy 👍🏾
Life is full of suffering. As an old man I can tell you that everyone I have loved, every friend, has eventually left my life. Sadly, that is how life works. So I love my Thai wife every day and cherish the friends I have because I know that these too will pass. Life is not fair nor easy. More like dumbfounding and numbing. There is no answer to why so it is best to stop asking that question. This too shall pass and better days are certainly in your future. Thanks for the videos. ❤
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Chin up Esquire! A very moving video with so much truth and pain. Have faith brother, these things are sent to test us. Sending positive and healing vibes to you!
This channel is so underrated. You should have way more subs man! Ran into it last night looking for places to vacation. Great content. Keep it up!
I am pretty crushed watching this video. I can’t tell you how bad I feel for you. I really thought that you guys were in it forever.. you have shown great strength coming forward to all the people that cared about you and bringing us into your circle so we can send you vibes to bring you out of this darker phase you were going through right now. The only thing that I can say is that from what I saw and all the videos time will go by and she will have great regrets for leaving somebody as dedicated and caring as you are. That was so obvious watching the videos. You will find a happiness out there because you’ve shown who you are and show that it is there for you and also your ability to make someone else happy. There is someone else that there who wants to be happy with you. Just take your time you are still very young and have a lot more ahead of you. Believe me you gave as much to her as you feel she gave to you and that includes a lot of knowledge and common sense about this life… if there’s anything I can do for you please let me know I’m in your corner…peace,JM
Oh my heart goes out to you. It can be so hard the first months. No mater what I will always still watch you. You bring me and so many other people inspiration in your videos. I’m sorry for you and the same time thank you for giving us such inspiration, thank you for sharing something that is so close to your heart and personal, you made me and others shed some tears. God bless you Esquire.
Genuine self-reflection and warmhearted flashbacks to the good times you had together. This is how I chose to remember my years with my ex, there were many good shared moments and memories. The heartache will pass of course and your willingness to share such content is part of the healing process. Continue to focus on being the best version of yourself and living in the moment, the past is just that. There are many potential "soul mates" waiting to be discovered but female nature is universal, for most their "love" is opportunistic and transitory. Trust me when I say that a solo journey does not have to be a lonely one and in fact it's a more liberating one. Best wished brother.
Just watched your latest video.
All I can do is send to you gods strength going forward.
Thai birds really do get under your skin, and life with them is full of highs and lows, a real roller coaster ride.
Best Wishes & God bless you.
Sim - Koh Samui
Oh man, LJ this is such a bummer. Chin up mate, this too shall pass. I’ve read many of the comments that others have written, and their best wishes for you and can’t think of anything that wouldn’t sound cliche. Take some time for yourself and find what it is your looking for. Please know LJ you have absolutely been an inspiration and a positive influence on many of your followers, myself included. Love ya man and your channel. Be safe and stay strong!
100% respect for you, no bad words spoken about her or yourself. I've always admired your channel and I am confident you will bounce back better than ever. When you come to Pattaya, Man, I was really sorry to hear this. I enjoyed watching your adventures together and the love you guys shared. I've been there. I pray for your healing and for Tida too. Best wishes to you both.
You have gone from extremely high maintenance to zero maintenance, that is a win mate.
Solid advise
True
I dont know why he is unhappy. go get another Tida. there is a Tida on every block. essentially he is looking for a jobless uneducated good looking girl who will leave her family to be with him. when he doesn't marry her they all leave
@@sahilprashar567 You'd need more details to make this conclusion. But yes most people in Thailand pick the low fruit, but you dont know enough about her to be so insulting
@@stevenobinator2229 dear sir where have I insulted
my response is from watching 100 videos on Thailand. It's also from analyzing this fellows previous videos also.
Aww dude. So sorry. It was so much her loss... You're an amazing dude. I'm so excited to see your brighter and happy future coming soon. All your videos are great. Never dispair, you're loved by all who watch and follow you. Stay true to you👍🏻
One of the best videos I have seen on RUclips. You cant get any more authentic than this. Having experienced the same years ago, it all came rushing back for a moment. Thanks for being real man. I hope you are in a better place today.
Best thing is to grieve for a brief time and then move on. Of course I don’t know the details of your relationship, but generally it’s best to move forward and not try to get back together. Break ups of more than a week or two are usually for a good reason for both sides. You’ll find new adventures and a new great woman to share them with. As you said, work on yourself and success, and the other stuff will fall into place (with bumps along the way, but don’t let the bruises stop you). Best wishes to you LJ and your audience will be here when you decide to return. Cheers mate.
Oh My gorgeous nephew. My heart is breaking for you. You are more of a man than many and I honour your vulnerability and ability to convey your emotions. You truly are an inspiration and your family are so proud of you. I wish I could give you a great big hug x
..so tough to watch..and even tougher..to live through ..thanks for reaching out..and sharing..and best wishes ..for more smiles..tomorrow..and just around the corner..
I can’t even lie though. The breakup between me and my ex girlfriend four years ago was the greatest thing that ever happened to me. It was destiny ! Back then I hadn’t become the man I suppose to be today. And now, I’m shooting for universe. The greatest thing ever. Good luck my friend ! It’s gonna be amazing.
Men are the true romantics and good men get treated the worst , I’ve seen it many times.
Don’t think negatively about yourself because of this it happens to everyone , it’s just the way we humans roll.
Christian you nailed it with your comments , you said it well
Well said
so true , he will learn and come back wiser
Men love idealistically. Women love pragmatically. Don’t believe those Disney films.
This is so true
Just saw your video man, coming from a person who was in an 11 year relationship, there is life after love! You'll build yourself up again and you'll be stronger. You are correct, use this time to focus on YOU and when the time is right, you'll meet the person that you're meant to be with!
I'm in the Philippines, I met my wife to be on my first weekend here. Now 23 years. Have a beautiful 22 year old daughter. We always got on but fell into financial problems and I became a workaholic to fix it. She left and got mixed up with bad people and ended up in jail, she's still there 6 years later. I've been by her side every step of the way and still fighting to get her out. I realised a lot of mistakes I made and understand her thinking. Although I don't have to be, I've been celibate for this 6 years but hope to get her out asap. Kind of fixed the financials and picking myself up, had a lot of help. So I know how you feel, these Asian ladies are something else.
I could see it coming to be honest, not sure exactly why or how but Tida changed a little I think. O hope she comes back, you made a nice couple, sometimes the culture thing gets in the way, possibly language also.bif she doesn't come back, believe me, there are many ladies out there to take your mind off things and keep you comforted at night.
Will miss you both and hope to see you back on your own, with Tida again and or with someone else. Take care.
You a tool and a simp. I bet she was thinking about you while riding another 🐎
I'd be walking away from that mess, dude!
Thai females go where ever the most money is offered. Money number one they never love you they love your money.
Hello LJ, this is Bill from Canada! As old as I am, U were/R an inspiration 4 me! Because of U and a few others, I wanted and still want to visit Thailand! This situation with Tida has me with a bottom jaw on the floor and shaking my head. I watched to the 4:00 min. mark and tears in my eyes, I had to pause 4 a 15-20 minute break to feed my dogs, going WTF??? U guys seemed perfect together! Then emotions of my ex-wife leaving me and our 2 Dogs 10 years ago after almost 20 yrs. marriage, and then divorced almost 7 yrs ago! It will be difficult but U R young, and U will recover & be a stronger man 4 it! Take Care Buddy and stay safe! Looking forward to more RUclips when UR ready!
With you revealing your vulnerable side, I'm gonna support your channel even more now
So sorry to watch this, time is a great healer though ,embrace the memories and hope you find Happiness ,thought you guys were Tight so I'm shocked, enjoyed watching your videos and look forward to seeing your next adventure's, Chin Up onwards and upwards in Life, best of Luck in the Future.
Wish you the best mate, stay strong 💪🏼 most of us have been thru the same, thank god I met a great lady from Vietnam 🙏
She was in Phuket club last nighy with a German guy.
This would have been such a hard video to make mate. Sifting through soo many fond memories to tell such a sad story.
I hope you are ok.
Wow 😪 I'm sorry LJ x the light will shine again - for those of us that watched your love grow and blossom through your videos this one is hard to watch - sending you both love and light right now 🙏💕
Mate, feelin for you and praying for you! I hope you come through this and find the peace you are seeking. Blessings
I feel for you. You’ve got a great attitude and doing the best you can- mentally & physically. Keep it up!!
Don't be a doormat mate! no welcome tee shirt sign all over your chest! Man up! there's tons of 'em out there!
Sad to have watched this, it must be so hard. But it's a real shame all of your videos have now gone from the last year or more, you must have your reasons that it would be hard to have all of them with Tida in them but they are part of your journey on this channel and hope they come back here one day for all of us to see.
Yes totally agree, your memories and experiences make you the person you are,
It's been almost 12 years since this happened to me. I have stayed single, I have no interest or ability to trust someone with the most precious thing I can give them, my heart. It's all healed up now but I just can't open that door to let someone in to hurt me again, good luck to you.
I agree with you
It makes no sense. If you had a bad stomach after McDonald's, are you gonna stop eating out at all? All people are different. Learn and move on
@@MishaElRusito a bad bad stomach is nothing compared to the pain I felt when I was surprised not only by her leaving but also cheating with her cousins husband. Then there's the pain of watching my 4 year old crying and asking if mommy is going to come home again. You have no clue of what you are talking about, I hope you never experience this but if you do you will totally understand how wrong your comment is.
@@moderndaydrifter4672 Still, not a reason to stop looking for a woman
I really like Belltown's comment . Sums it up. My opinion is later in this long reply! My recent situation is complex, as I think our distance relationship will just fade away. I'm the only one holding it up, but she is okay to keep us in limbo. Not to formally break up, but I'm not going to be anyone's insurance policy or wait until "she decides." Relationships are not about control . I am a lot more open than she is, and one does not really know the depths of another's experiences and issues they have to overcome, even if one thinks that they do. And just like this situation and maybe yours, we both thought that we had so much in common, and I thought we were inseparable. You need to be perceptive enough to see negative signs . And treat them without blinders on. But just two months ago, I got to know another woman in my profession much better than I had in the past. Was a strange thing that we caught up at the very end of the meeting when everyone was gone.... we clicked so well it's almost like I've known her all my life. I have always been attracted to her, but never in my wildest dreams thought that we would have such a conversation so special. Something rare that I have never seen before. So it sounds like I am suggesting to be optimistic and be open to trust. Actually I agree with you more than disagree. Keep open but not too much. If that true match comes, you will know it. Just keep your expectations reasonable at the start. My encounter just happened, so it's in the early stages. But it's looking very good. Hope things are going well for you!
Were all here behind you mate im sorry to hear of your breakup i can imagine how hard it would be. Looking forward to seeing your future your an absolute legend always loved your content and always will :)
This is why finding the right person is very essential. I feel your pain and know first hand how it is to have your heart stepped on don't change who you are stay true to yourself and always keep your dignity and self respect in tact. Tida will regret this brother their is someone for you. God Bless you.
One of the best RUclips videos I’ve seen in quite a while. Revealing yourself like this to your audience is a difficult task. It’s a part of your journey friend. Peace ✌️ and love ❤️.
You put the words right out of my mound mate- though it is a very sad experience this is one of the best YT videos I´ve ever seen - thanks for sharing your emotions and thoughts LJ - I definiteky feel your pain and neither words or time can heal you - you are on the right passway and something even better is just around the corner- because I know every change is always for the better even if it is hard to see right now - bless you LJ
Christ man I'm so sorry to hear this. Words won't help but know that I am thinking of you during this extremely difficult time. Take care of yourself my friend. I hope to meet with you soon. All the best. Mitch 🙏
We hurt because we can heal, and then love another. Glad you found pain while on the road to loving as it hols the promise an even deeper connection to others.
This is different & difficult to watch LJ.. It’s painful for you right now .. I know! I admire your courage & putting this video together! We all want to ( Love & be Loved )..And, yes the journey has its bumps & hurdles along the way. Your attitude is on point & moving forward and focusing on you is the way to go right now. Take good care & keep us posted. 👍
I’m shocked mate and lost for words… feeling your pain and wish you all the best brother 👍
Hey little bro, you know you got us behind you and praying for your happiness. I really felt the pain you have lived through. Hope this new phase of your life brings you joy and splendour in your love life. 👌🙏👌
Nice to have you back. 👍
Out of all the people me and my wife follow on RUclips we always thought you was the more genuine and true as a person. They say time is a great healer. Everyone is behind you and as each day goes by life becomes more easier as new memories are made 💗
Absolutely gutted for you mate. I loved they way you see the positives in everything. Stay strong, stay safe and stay positive. 🙏🏼
Come back Esquire we miss you Hope you're getting back on your feet
why she left? my english is not that good.
Just remember my brother, good days are still ahead! Never give up because there isn't a choice to, you have to go up from here and never go down. Even after seeing all those older videos that you left up on your page, shows where it all started and where this journey has begun. I'm saying this advice because my life was a very rough life in the beginning. I can tell you many stories that would blow your mind in my younger years. Pick up like your doing, and let the pain you're having be your driving force! Be blessed brother, and I really mean that!
I was missing your videos mate, was wondering what happened! I'm sorry that you went through this! Don't you worry at all, time heals everything! Keep traveling, keep smiling!
Agreed bro
I just saw this. I had seen some of your recent videos & wondered why you were dating. You seem to have recovered well but I also know there's probably some lingering feelings. I admire your willingness to make yourself vulnerable. I could see the raw pain in your eyes. I've seen that before in the mirror. I also admire your always talking about gratefulness for the life you're living. Good luck. I look forward to seeing more of you.
I can't believe Tida left. You, guys gaved me hope in falling in love again. So sorry for you Esquire but this will make you stronger..
why she left?
I dont get it..
Stay strong mate, we all know how difficult is broke up relationship with loved ones
I was shocked when I saw this video like every other your fan but life goes on ok? You have to go thru this difficult time for you, it wont be easy but… “Whatever doesn’t kill you, it makes you stronger”
Salute from Chicago 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
It's awesome that you have a friend like Jonny, he is one I admire.
Wow, your transparency in this video is amazing. We have all had heartbreak in our life and you feel like you are drowning and can't breathe when it happens. I love how you have thrown your ego as a man out the window and realize it is time to make your self just feel happy being alone again. I have recently gone thru a similar breakup and felt alone, sad, and wondering how I would ever find happiness again. It was great to see Johnny there for you and all you can do it lean on your friends, they will always love you the most and do whatever they can to get you thru the process. Stay strong and look forward to seeing your journey. I can relate all too much. Cheers.
Esquire I was so happy for you man to hear that it brought tears to my eyes the life you were living is the life I wish I could live.
Great to see you are OK as I was getting a bit worried about you!
Mate, "Life Happens" & set backs like this make us better stronger people. As my late grandmother used to say- "Things happen for a reason..."
It's great that you have a great mate in Jonny to reach out to if you need anything or even just a chat.
I went through the same crap 5 years ago, woman I loved walked out on me to live interstate, life takes you on a journey of despair, until someone lights up your path, makes you want to take that next step. you're still young, you have plenty of time to find your rightful place within this universe.
When the money starts running out they dissapear
LJ Brother my heart breaks for you. Nothing can hurt so much, then the next day comes and you put one foot in front of the other. My prayers go up for you . Thank you for letting us all know what is going on with you. You are like a Brother, Son to us. Keep going Brother.
Been there myself, left at alter, literally.. I feel for you, my brother. I hope you both are well and wish you the best life. She was a keeper.
Be strong man, the end of a relationship is always like a deep tunnel... what it means that at the end always you will see the light. Best regards from Spain!
Brought me to a bit of tears. I’ve lost a few friends lately to the afterlife so feeling a different kind of loss but nonetheless, I feel you. You are very wise and channeling it properly. Doing the best you can do and I respect you for it. If she let you go, she’s evidently not the one. I wish you well through this healing evolving process. My thoughts are with you brother.
LJ, tough to watch as we all share this with you; as have all been there before ourselves. Time will give you a better perspective and appreciation of your time well spent with Tida. Grieve as you must, as it is part of the healing process. We are with you moving forward.
Sorry to hear that you and Tida parted ways. Here is a bit of advice based on experience. You and Tida and other Asian women are from different languages, cultures, and religions. Many people would say awwww that's not so important but to Asian women I believe it is more important then what you might believe. If you are serious and plan to live in Thailand. Please take the time to learn the importance of those things I mentioned above that are important to Thai and Asian women. LJ do a daily inspection of yourself through prayer and meditation. Use this time to learn, grow the inner man. Relax and enjoy life.
I am sorry for your loss, I once had broken heart so know how you feel but still believe the right one is out there for me. Take care. Icecy :)
Sorry to hear, about your separation stay strong.
Time is a healer.