Give Men The Pain That They NEED! 3 Types of Pain That Makes Men Fall In Love With You

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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024

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  • @MindfulAttraction2.0
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  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers 9 месяцев назад +41

    *When you take care of yourself, you’re a better person for others. When you feel good about yourself, you treat others better.*

  • @Sunnysideup01
    @Sunnysideup01 11 месяцев назад +29

    I took your advice & it worked like a charm.
    Key words??? Don’t be afraid to walk away !!!

    • @tseerezy
      @tseerezy 17 дней назад

      Exactly ! They only being obsessed when you hurt them.

  • @basicinfo2022
    @basicinfo2022 Год назад +41

    6:38 stand up for yourselves ladies. dont let them think they can disrespect you. each time they do something you dont like, confront them and be ready to walk away.

  • @OhTHATSLc
    @OhTHATSLc Год назад +72

    Yall know whats crazy. When i was meaner men were stuck on me and hated me but now that im working on being super nice and understanding they think they can run over me and do whatever.
    Crazy AF. This roller coaster stuff is what keeps them around but im trying to not be that girl. Ughhhh... why are men like this. This that bull

    • @ShaDee-m7u
      @ShaDee-m7u Год назад +33

      Honestly i’m gonna turn into a bitch, i’ve been the nice girl and i’m done. Gonna turn into a fkn savage vixen now. Gonna start ignoring texts and calls, flaking, ghosting and all. I don’t care for a relationship so it’s time to break some hearts and fk some heads up and see the results. I’m kind of curious to see how being cold will turn the tables. I want to remain celibate too and not have kids (genuinely for myself) so that might be a plus too to make them crazy, see me as a challenge to be conquered (which they’ll fail at since i’ll reject them) and want to chase me 🤪💀 it’s their fault for turning me bad. Being nice has gotten be rejected, used, ignored, blocked, flaked on, ghosted, and most likely cheated on. Never again

    • @sunblaze
      @sunblaze Год назад +11

      I think if you wanna look at the healthy or positive side of this, it's actually similar to enforcing your boundaries. Sometimes when we are firm with our boundaries, we feel like we're being mean but we're actually just practicing our self-respect and knowing our worth. If you don't have self respect and self worth, then its less likely that you have boundaries, and thats when people just step all over you. So, it's not really all that evil just as long as you are just being your authentic self and not doing these things just to manipulate a guy.

    • @trinityp8575
      @trinityp8575 Год назад +5

      Most men are like this, but not all. Make sure you find the right one and don’t settle. It’s what you settle for, what you accept is that will keep happening. That’s the only control you have.

    • @angelhampton4365
      @angelhampton4365 Год назад +6

      You're absolutely right... When I was a bihh I got more respect and when I tried to gain consciousness of the narcissism that came with that I changed however I lacked the confidence that comes with being a bihh... Real self love is finding YOUR balance between good and evil

    • @marionschekierka6737
      @marionschekierka6737 Год назад +7

      Girl...it's true. I am a Rollercoaster and it works. Like...I'm naturally all of this. I alternate between sweet and a bitch. Without meaning to. Men run all over you if you're too soft.

  • @nondesalim7093
    @nondesalim7093 Год назад +67

    The level of spirituality that I have reached won't allow anything that isn't authentic.

  • @quinnemilepoe9604
    @quinnemilepoe9604 Год назад +344

    Someone played these games with me. Worked for awhile but I left after realizing you can only use these for hooking people, but not build with them long term. This is surface level stuff

    • @elarisa10
      @elarisa10 Год назад +28

      Same thing. I dont think this is what normal people do ...

    • @Lyzylyzy1922
      @Lyzylyzy1922 Год назад +8

      Thisss 😢

    • @Virvepaulina
      @Virvepaulina Год назад +17

      Good to know so don't need to even watch this

    • @annaisis7510
      @annaisis7510 Год назад +3

      Right there with you not for me either

    • @alexo1792
      @alexo1792 Год назад +25

      If he cannot see you for who you are he ain't the one lol this is just mind games .. its all fun 😂

  • @FyaCharismaTarot
    @FyaCharismaTarot Год назад +71

    Ladies, this is so true!!!! We were dating so quite naturally he was dating someone else also. He decided to make it official with me because of just what he’s saying in this video ❤️

    • @JumpWatsonYT
      @JumpWatsonYT Год назад +16

      I believe bc I been exactly doing this stuff and it seems men get obsessed with me. But I don’t like being that kind of person.

  • @benithacalloway8286
    @benithacalloway8286 Год назад +26

    We should always pray for this guy

  • @RoseAStarr-ws6uf
    @RoseAStarr-ws6uf Год назад +35

    Here at 111 comments. I already watch Shera Seven, this about to make me a real monsta 😭😭😭🔥🔥🔥

  • @renchemarais8419
    @renchemarais8419 Год назад +54

    I'd be honest. I have to listen your teachings a couple of times before I start getting it. WOW!! (I am an empath. Some will kill my dog and say they helped the animal and I will believe them.) I've been raised to be a good nice girl if I want to survive in this world. And I have paid dearly for that stupid believes.)

  • @kimmybossible
    @kimmybossible Год назад +77

    Very proud of you for being so consistent with your content! You do a great job! 🎉😊

  • @BreaktheKarmicWheel
    @BreaktheKarmicWheel Год назад +15

    Finally someone is teaching the class about dating that I grew up feeling like everyone watched without me.

  • @libragirl5533
    @libragirl5533 Год назад +54

    If It meant to Be It's Gonna Work out...Trust The Process ❤

  • @pedroquiver9489
    @pedroquiver9489 Год назад +33

    This is crazy. Telling a woman to breakup and play games. Every 5 hours a black woman is unalived in the United States. To many games. The right man will act right. Always remember that. This is unhealthy.

  • @rahella8628
    @rahella8628 Год назад +20

    I’ve had this done to me by multiple men… always a turn off… I see right through this shit but I know a lot of people don’t when it’s being done to them. So what you’re displaying is how people prey on others with low self esteem, who are damaged and/or lack awareness. Education is 🔑. People’s take away from this is LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE YOURSELF. So this type of nonsense can never be used on you. I encourage you NOT to use it on others.

  • @Freetobeme8181
    @Freetobeme8181 Год назад +20

    I can totally see this working!! We BELIEVE they can hurt us and heal us, but nobody can really do this if we don’t let them. We can actually be our own healers, and no one can hurt you without you allowing them too. But for the clueless ones, this will work beautifully. 🤣

  • @trinityp8575
    @trinityp8575 Год назад +6

    All this tactics are great for attracting. But not for sustaining. Sustaining is the hardest part.
    Initial “victory” will soon reveal itself as loss. Loss of your confidence, mental peace and emotional security.
    Because at some point you will run out of “tactics” as you can’t use those forever.

  • @bjrambow584
    @bjrambow584 3 месяца назад

    Knowledge "IS" Power and helping the world where its most needed is always a super power! I love what you do...DONT STOP!!!

  • @Congtrihayankeomut
    @Congtrihayankeomut Год назад +5

    Alex, these all sum up to be just be your authentic self , show your like n dislikes n boundaries from a good n loving intention. That’s all the strategies you talk about without too much game.

  • @victoriasigal
    @victoriasigal 6 месяцев назад +1

    Actually sometimes people do this naturally and not to manipulate 😅. I’ve done this because people need to have constructive criticism to grow. But at the same time I have a heart full of genuine care and love. It’s not to be toxic or evil, it’s to challenge and help grow my partners where they need it!
    I can except someone for who they are, but if they for example don’t know how to handle their emotions properly, I have to bring that to their attention. It’s for both of our betterment and good!

  • @ceecee527
    @ceecee527 Год назад +22

    You’re talking about Vasopressin - this is the hormone that stimulates “love” in men. It’s released by pain.

  • @angiemason7021
    @angiemason7021 Год назад +21

    Always look forward to hearing your perspective. Thank you for the consistent content, Alex!

  • @brendalee274
    @brendalee274 Год назад +21

    Thats why the book of life says that one part of love is long suffering

  • @bettyfreddy8377
    @bettyfreddy8377 Год назад +23

    Only my mother could make me cry out of anger.

    • @RJK1647
      @RJK1647 Год назад +2

      Mine too 😂

  • @pennythepincher7649
    @pennythepincher7649 Год назад +50

    Father Alex u are a blessing. It's shadow work. Hugs n kisses😘

    • @renchemarais8419
      @renchemarais8419 Год назад +1

      👍💃💃🚀🚀🚀😂 You are A LIFE SAVER like ni other. Love & APPRECIATES you from South Africa. Only one honest. Teacheing the ugly TRUTH. No nonsense because you truly care. Teach like nobody else.

  • @lovesasori21
    @lovesasori21 Год назад +8

    Honestly, if I saw that in the first few weeks they get angry a lot. I wouldn't just bring it to their attention, I would have to walk away also.

  • @aquapiesworld
    @aquapiesworld Год назад +9

    I laughed through this whole video cause it's so true. I've done it to ppl and I've had ppl so it to me. It's very intoxicating to be in love but it's a scary thing

  • @JB-vg7ri
    @JB-vg7ri Год назад +10

    It's not being mean. It's being honest and holding them accountable. I'm very blunt, and i will be respected and call you out on your bs. But i like you though 😊😂

  • @holliewood8647
    @holliewood8647 Год назад +33

    Alex your videos are amazing! Your advice always works 😇

  • @DropsofJupiter1212
    @DropsofJupiter1212 Год назад +39

    It’s actually trauma bonding. Your binding this person to you. This is dangerous information to put out there. Most ppl are petty and shallow and think nothing of breaking another person and then leaving them once they’ve broken they’re toy. I just wanted to throw this out there. On the other hand men have been doing this to women since the law got passed that it’s illegal to beat your wife. Probly longer. It’s all fair in love and war. I guess. I’m currently trying like hell to break a trauma bond. I’m about ready to chew my arm off all coyote ugly style to get out of this ridiculous trap. It’s pure hell. Your mind and body are turned against you and used as a weapon. I don’t control well so I’m sure I can go the rest of my life with this F’d up feeling. Love is an addiction. You get addicted to the chemicals your body produces then when the source of that leaves you don’t want to do anything. Some ppl actually die. It’s horrifying and I’m pretty sure I’m not doing it again. I’ll just fall in love with the whole world. With life. With spirit. With myself. Anything but one particular person. Hell to the naw

  • @sandrahall9030
    @sandrahall9030 Год назад +31

    I learned a lot from you.

  • @MaybejustNarbe
    @MaybejustNarbe Год назад +12

    I’m going to use this at 100%

  • @nabilaoukhiat7247
    @nabilaoukhiat7247 Год назад +44

    I want to stay single❤ İ found my happiness like that

  • @KarynDeSimone
    @KarynDeSimone Год назад +9

    I love that you are bettering yourself and give back. Blessing to u Alex.

  • @Bianca2802
    @Bianca2802 Год назад +18

    omg..when you realize that you do all of these things and then wonder why others get addicted to you 😳😂👀
    actually I tried to be more consistent and reliable in my relationships but it is difficult to change patterns I learned since I was a child.. thank God my bf is just like me and we forgive each other for being egoists

    • @marvinpercival4717
      @marvinpercival4717 Год назад +1

      We men know that trick it no secret but we play along too.we love games just like women.

    • @angelhampton4365
      @angelhampton4365 Год назад

      ​@@marvinpercival4717thanks for admitting that and your correct... It's a balance of good and evil...

  • @KaayKayy
    @KaayKayy Год назад +31

    This is how narcissist do you.

  • @oliviac8613
    @oliviac8613 Год назад +5

    I feel like this video heavily applies to those of us who's man has a Scorpio moon 🌙♏

  • @wordofmymouthtarot
    @wordofmymouthtarot Год назад +8

    We are made of good and evil and it's for a reason.

  • @cmm867
    @cmm867 Год назад +7

    Wow Father Alex! We love you! Learn so much from your channel.

  • @TheOfficialJessicaDivine
    @TheOfficialJessicaDivine Год назад +12

    No wonder these men be pressed about me…I naturally do this. However, it’s not out of manipulation. 😅

  • @juliettb1565
    @juliettb1565 Год назад +3

    Good day, your highness. Here we have yet another masterpiece!

  • @ireneh.6356
    @ireneh.6356 Год назад +4

    YOURE SO REAL ILY

  • @deborahocampo852
    @deborahocampo852 Год назад +2

    I watch many videos on line...what i like about your videos.. You go out of your comfort zone with such confidence... your videos. With advise..go so much deeper than most...your sure make me think..and..make sence .thank you..for the work that gos into these videos. Debbie from London uk.

  • @gosia5961
    @gosia5961 Год назад +8

    This vido made me aware how to do the stuff I was scared to do and did not know how so I do not fuck it up.. Actually healing, educative vid. Hope used only for grace of fhe G :) love for anybody who was also struggling with the communication in the realationsips.

  • @thethingofitis
    @thethingofitis Год назад +9

    We lose people even without the insecurities thing - illness, personality changes, even death. Time and a sense of reality is all you need. You don't need to manipulate things to intentionally create that. It's not really a nice thing to do, ok. I see the value in your message though because I've experienced this and it's interesting that it would be a universal maybe biological human thing but I don't believe should be exploiting that and if I found out someoydid that with intent it would ruin the relationship for me because I would think they wanted me to be in a state of pain around them so that would mean for me that they didn't respect me as an equal if they didn't care if I was suffering for their benefit... Right? I hope you think a little deeper on how this backfired because it's artificial.

  • @peacefulloveagain4124
    @peacefulloveagain4124 Год назад +7

    You are so good. Thank you.

  • @nickyclabbers8084
    @nickyclabbers8084 11 месяцев назад

    Loved that! Brilliant 👏👏

  • @Jayshree_bhattacharya_80
    @Jayshree_bhattacharya_80 Год назад +3

    Always thankful to father Alex ❤

  • @crystalriddick1968
    @crystalriddick1968 Год назад +2

    1)The Good Boss Effect

  • @elifnur5403
    @elifnur5403 Год назад +12

    OMG THIS IS SO TOXIC BUT I WILL DO THAAT🤣🤣

  • @courtneyalthouse2193
    @courtneyalthouse2193 Год назад +2

    Love you alex. Thanks for the insight, thanks for you help.

  • @maryamshi
    @maryamshi Год назад +6

    Please make more videos like this and when are you coming to London?

  • @benithacalloway8286
    @benithacalloway8286 Год назад +5

    I love this man 👠❤️

  • @starshine6321
    @starshine6321 Год назад +13

    Chrisean rock 🦷

  • @jillmariaplatteaux6083
    @jillmariaplatteaux6083 Год назад +6

    'This is fucked up' 😂😂😂 you rock Alex! Long time no see you. Hope you do good

  • @WANDERLUSTTEA
    @WANDERLUSTTEA Год назад +8

    I do all these things naturally 😭😭

    • @lashan4269
      @lashan4269 Год назад +1

      I was just thinking that lol

    • @WANDERLUSTTEA
      @WANDERLUSTTEA Год назад

      @@lashan4269 and that’s on they never leave me alone 🤣

  • @XanRussell
    @XanRussell Год назад +2

    New follower. Love your content

  • @Ilocsitdown
    @Ilocsitdown Год назад +7

    I like this guy!!!

  • @amerokeewiya1320
    @amerokeewiya1320 Год назад +7

    No. Being in love is not a form of abuse, tf r u talking about

  • @ninijaiani5510
    @ninijaiani5510 8 месяцев назад

    You are just amazing person

  • @IfyzionTv
    @IfyzionTv Год назад

    I love your cap. So good on you.

  • @annaisis7510
    @annaisis7510 Год назад

    Really informative and useful video thank you

  • @Meocon09
    @Meocon09 Год назад +14

    Why relationships have to be so toxic lolll

  • @trakalosabby
    @trakalosabby Год назад +1

    oh my so true on the criticism part, of willing to criticize a person who i don't like vs the person I do like. hahaha! I just criticized a person who I don't like much about the way he smells hahahahahaha

  • @tinap8227
    @tinap8227 25 дней назад

    These are narcissist tactics, evil. It's how they cause trauma bonds and not something you do to someone you love.

  • @dinikamilia
    @dinikamilia Год назад

    You speaking the truth

  • @kimraudenbush615
    @kimraudenbush615 3 месяца назад

    Ladies, if you truly love your man, be VERY careful how you approach this. Because this can backfire in a way that is permanent.
    I'm a guy who was diagnosed with ADHD and depression (it was labeled as "acute depression", even though I have never been suicidal), and was bullied verbally AND physically - by both guys AND gals - from kindergarten to graduation. In fifth grade, a classmate actually attempted to choke me, and it took three teachers to separate us.
    As someone who has been put through hell, I can tell you for a fact that not all men are open about past trauma and prefer to hide their scars. But playing mind games like what's suggested in this video can push a person who's already insecure and vulnerable to choose "a permanent solution to a temporary problem". You may literally hold that man's life in your hands. Ponder that, before trying to change a man who loves you.

  • @lovejacksonsmusic
    @lovejacksonsmusic Год назад +1

    Omg i have been doing all those without realising it😅😅😅

  • @chococookies7292
    @chococookies7292 Год назад

    Great content , awesome you shirtless and in a bucket hat too

  • @vathana_x
    @vathana_x Год назад

    Thank you Alex love to see the content & the growth 🥰

  • @queenoftheuniverse888
    @queenoftheuniverse888 Год назад +7

    Oh man... I literally just did this to my guy 😂😂😂

  • @CosmicGlowUP
    @CosmicGlowUP 3 месяца назад

    8:00 lol you kill me father alex so funny

  • @antisocialite13
    @antisocialite13 10 месяцев назад +1

    IDK big brother, I think I'd rather be alone than hurt, and be hurt.

  • @librascorner2271
    @librascorner2271 Год назад +4

    Im glad u said it about the Leo shit 😂😂😂😂 lmao. That had me dying... 😅

  • @RealSyn
    @RealSyn Год назад +1

    There is alot of truth to what he's saying.

  • @camfrancisco
    @camfrancisco Год назад

    Very good! Thx

  • @zainabrose96
    @zainabrose96 Месяц назад

    Love ur vids haha

  • @iloveromeo3
    @iloveromeo3 Год назад +10

    What if he’s a really really good man. Gives me no reason to have to be mean?

    • @munix9351
      @munix9351 Год назад +29

      Ain't no such thing. Use it!!!

    • @annaisis7510
      @annaisis7510 Год назад +4

      ​@@munix9351 😂😂😂😅

    • @elysamarie1386
      @elysamarie1386 Год назад +2

      You gonna regret it in the long run. If you gotta be mean , don’t be an ass about it. Check their ass out if you gotta.

  • @whatsarilookingat
    @whatsarilookingat 2 месяца назад

    Alex you’re my fave

  • @nessav3187
    @nessav3187 Год назад

    YES SCHOOL!

  • @cherisew
    @cherisew Год назад

    I love the intro.
    “ Look ladies & gentlemen, I know that this video is pure evil.”
    Down for the evil😈

  • @missmorris6450
    @missmorris6450 Год назад +9

    I’ve taken your advice now he’s stalking me ffs 🤦🏽‍♀️ private number calls not saying a word should I be worried 😟

  • @ladyindigo1649
    @ladyindigo1649 8 месяцев назад

    Dang imagine someone losing respect because you're nice.

  • @shojo8532
    @shojo8532 Год назад

    The new guy will heal me.

  • @wrangelinhabitant161
    @wrangelinhabitant161 Месяц назад

    If im right with this Outfit, you are Sancho Pansa here😂

  • @OhTHATSLc
    @OhTHATSLc Год назад +1

    When is the next meet up cause im gonna come to NY to meet u and do this meditation thing also

  • @Airendeau2095
    @Airendeau2095 Месяц назад

    Now I'm getting dirty looks and he looking sad af when we pass each other driving in town 😂😂😂

  • @deborahocampo852
    @deborahocampo852 Год назад

    Your my number one..funny..smart..handsome and just great videos
    .your one likeable guy...pls continue making these interesting videos
    Debbie in london uk

  • @estefanyzepeda9334
    @estefanyzepeda9334 Год назад +1

    Hispanic parents 😭😂 I cackled

  • @happyhappyjoyjoy3275
    @happyhappyjoyjoy3275 Год назад

    It’s God… our Maker… allows evil and then shows goodness.

  • @jaychanel8333
    @jaychanel8333 Год назад +2

    I did this unknowingly then I found your channel 😈

  • @ldlg5726
    @ldlg5726 Месяц назад

    Ok so.. idk how to feel when I realize I accidentally do these things to others without knowing. Can it even be called manipulation then? 😵‍💫

  • @sharang747
    @sharang747 Год назад +3

    To be honest not everyone is your person you won’t need to play all this unless your overwhelming and clingy if the person does not like you this is useless game

  • @MissModernprincess
    @MissModernprincess 11 месяцев назад +3

    I study psychology so I watched it.If this is all truth than the world doesn't know how to love.
    And only God knows how to love human beings.
    The Bible says this about love : 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
    4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
    8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
    -------------------------------------
    I don't see any of this in the interactions you are teaching us about. Either it's not love that you are teaching about, or the world is messed up beyond what I ever imagined!
    Thanks for the entertainement !

  • @janicelcute4u120
    @janicelcute4u120 Год назад +24

    The half tooth looks cute

  • @patriciajimenez6258
    @patriciajimenez6258 Год назад +5

    Im doing this 😈😈😈

  • @FatimaPulido-xe9wd
    @FatimaPulido-xe9wd 9 месяцев назад

    They played my ass like this 💀😭

  • @lexuss_lovess5671
    @lexuss_lovess5671 Год назад +5

    Straight from the pits of hell 😂😂🔥

  • @ssharma861
    @ssharma861 Год назад

    too much medicine, can kill someone.. hahahaaaa. SO truth thought!