Bunny seems to have a good head on her shoulders. I enjoy watching her and Riley traveling together as well as Lady Bugout because they exude joy and positivity. The world could use a few more people like them.
Wanted to add that I think its great that you include some of your awkward moments so that new people can have a more realistic expectation of what can happen and idea's of how to maybe deal with it. Thanks Bunny.
I’m super awkward all the time so my regular every day life is just me being absolutely ridiculously silly and funny but at the same time since normally I’m filming things that have more purpose like education I try to just stick to the matter at hand lol but in videos like these and then also my day in the life videos, I’m able to show people you know the human side of things
As a woman, I appreciate that you’re talking about the weird men because I doubt that most people understand how many strange things happen as a result of just being a woman. I’ve seen a couple people on here say that they wouldn’t have had a conversation at all, but at the same time I have personally been in situations that there was no avoiding the conversation because it felt like it needed to be had. Especially the one at the Walmart if you are there and the guy just suddenly dart his head at you you don’t know if he’s violent or not so just by asking if he’s OK you’re more likely to get a calm response which seems to be the case of what happened with you. I had a person at my apartment complex a couple of years ago before I moved who had a mental health crisis and was screaming in the hall as I walked up the stairwell he was standing between me and my apartment and there was no way to go around him so I had to have a conversation Because it was 1 AM and there was nowhere else to go. I was very nervous because I knew he was my neighbor but at the same time I didn’t know what was going on, so I just kindly asked him if he was OK and that brought him to a place where he realized that he was possibly spiraling and it was like it reset him and he instantly calmed down. That was also very scary because I didn’t know if he was calming down because he was about to do something bad however he calmed down long enough where I was able to say have a good evening I hope to see you at one of the mixers at the apartment complex. he ended up going into his apartment and I ended up going into mine and I didn’t hear a peep from him the next day he came up and apologized and said that he had run out of his medication and that he was having an issue and that me being nice to him triggered something that made him stop. It could be a trigger that could’ve gone the opposite direction, but there was no other choice. I appreciate that you shared that you were also kind in your scenario and that it helped because I think more people need to understand that this is not a situation you can necessarily navigate out of. The people who said that are very foolish.
Thank you for sharing your story. I know it’s really terrifying when you’re in a situation like this same same… Lol. I have had a few instances in my lifetime where I realize that being able to just keep my wits about me and have a conversation was the best way to diffuse something that was happening so that I could get to safety. I always try to think of my safety first And in these particular situations I thought it was very important to do so. I think a lot of people might watch this and think that I acted out of paste and did the most and didn’t have to do that but being in those situations, I think that they would have done something more similar if they would’ve realized kind of the tone and then also how that, just by having the conversation it halted the entire Conflict. People come from a place of lack of education a lot when it comes to life and travel and so as a person who is kind and joyous, it’s really hard to just be a terrible person when you see the other person is just killing me with kindness. I always will favor on the side of kindness in every scenario.
I love your storytime videos. Glad your safe and have to ask... Did you say your 40? Wow girl you look much younger than that. Hugs from a fellow Texas Girl!!
Yes, I am in my 40s just proving that we can have a good time no matter what our age and if we take care of ourselves, we can extend that time even more
I appreciate your transparency and talking about things instead of just showing the pretty things. I’ve watched your channel for quite some time and I’ve learned so much and I think that you are a great judge of character based on how you extended kindness even in the sketchy situation, and were able to determine that likely the cause was not you but other things but still being kind to the people you were able to be direct.
I’ve always tried really hard just to make sure that everyone can see both sides. I think that there is something absolutely amazing about sharing the beautiful views and allowing people to understand the peace that comes from exploring however, also understanding that sometimes life is not gonna be roses and sunshine, so we need to be able to think on our feet. sharing things like this I hope people can understand that even though the bogeyman isn’t around every single corner, the chances are you might encounter one here or there and being prepared is super important, but also giving Grace to understand there is a difference between a good person and a bad person good information and bad information
I think it’s great that you share all these things. As a guy who’s normally considered to be the scary guy because I am intimidating in size whenever I am at more remote places if there are women there I just know that they assume I’m probably a bad guy, but I try to make it very quickly known that I am not just so that they don’t feel like they have to adjust what they’re doing because I’m there.I saw your comment just talking to someone take it down a few notches and I think you’re right
I think that that’s really awesome that you do that also, I could see as a woman if someone were to just walk into my campsite that could come across as very scary lol so I’m sure that you have figured out a nice way to do it and if so, perhaps make a RUclips channel to tell people the right way to make people feel comfortable with your presence because a lot of men lack this particular ability lol
I appreciate your channel for the history you share and how you travel the way you do. I have never heard you ask for anything from any of us other than to promote another channel and asking people to go check them out. You are salt of the earth and we appreciate that. I do not enjoy creators who make videos asking for money. Especially those who think it is my problem when they want to do something above their means. You have shown so many things which are inexpensive and how you manage your movement without just asking for money. Others should take a look into how you do this. Especially the larger channels who do this, how can they not manage their own money enough to maintain?
Absolutely the world is a big weird place sometimes sometimes and so kindness does matter, but also assessing the situation was very important and feeling it out so I could know how to get out if I needed to in both scenarios
I think sometimes as much as we enjoy the positives there are a few hiccups... sharing the good and the bad helps others to see the value in trusting their gut, being aware and being prepared in times of weirdness....
Sometimes the reaction of just WTF as something pops up in front of you is the only thing you can do. I’m glad you were able to handle this and be safe and share the stories with us later on. I think that as women from the common that I was reading with all encountered some version of a crazy guy. It’s sad because we’re always told that we are the emotional ones but most of the men don’t actually regulate their emotions so they are the more violent emotional ones. Was looking up statistics recently after watching something and realize that most of the domestic violence situations or the violence against women’s situations happen at the hands of men not other women.
I think across the board people can act on emotions in a poor way... also however sometimes people just are removed from reality to the point of not understanding basic decency.... i will always take the high road and be kind.... always...
thank you so much... positivity is the most important thing we can be in todays world... it helps us find the joys and lessons in each point of life...
I normally would say ignore people like those two and stay to yourself but after reading some of the comments, I think you did the right thing saying something. Just make sure you don't forget that kindness cannot solve everything if someone is dangerous. Keep your head on a swivel and always watch your 6.
I think that there is some value to just reading the situation. If it would’ve felt like it was a confrontational situation that ultimately I needed to evacuate I would have done so but because of the way that I had my van set up, I knew there was going to be at least a moment where there was a chance of having a conversation so I braced myself just in case and in this particular instance, it seemed as though just by asking if he was OK he calmed down quite a bit. It’s like I mentioned kindness goes along way. There’s also also a difference though like you said, and I think that is a fine line but also that you get a gut feeling. I always trust my gut.
Hi, I don’t know you, but I feel the same way. I’m not necessarily going to do van life, but watching her videos has been inspiring and also has taught me so many things just about the places that she goes. I know you don’t know me, but I just wanted to say, you’ll do great because you have awesome information to start with.
That is so exciting that you are so close now! I’ve been traveling for a long time and I must say the adjustment to getting started is a bit rough at the first part just because you have to learn your space and how to move and maneuver however if you go into Traveling with an open mind, you will find the joys in the simple things.
I had a man walk though my campsite when I was camping in Tahoe. Not once but twice. I was not near the restroom, I was not near a path or an access point. He just kept using my campsite as his own personal path. I didn't know what to do, but he was walking closer and closer to my van. I have the same van as you and this was a paid site. I found the camp host and asked what I should do. I don't want to be a person who gets someone in trouble just for doing something so small but the host assured me that I was not wrong in this scenario. The host ended up having a chat with the guy. The next morning I woke up with a knife in my picnic table. Sometimes men are just bad. In that case talking to him would have been an issue. I also have stayed in place where a man was arguing with his girlfriend on the phone screaming. I could see he was stressed but it wasn't directed at me. I ended up when gathering fire wood saying hey hope everything is okay, this too shall pass. He apologized that I could hear all that and trauma dumped on me for about 5 minutes before apologizing again and telling me he felt bad for interrupting my stay and that he appreciated that I was nice. All was great after that. I think you did the right thing in judging the situation and then being nice. It seemed the better solution in this case.
I have learned that sometimes in order to get yourself into a better position to be able to navigate away from some thing that could be bad just being calm and using a clear mind is very important. Always trust your gut also just be receptive to the fact that if someone is a danger that you need an exit strategy. I always have not only an exit strategy, but also I way to defend myself readily available.
Sorry you encountere these two people. People need to respect others by not being loud no matter where they are camping. Thanks for sharing the videos you do.
I agree.. being loud isn't great for anyone.. not only because it is clearly creating probably high blood pressure for themselves but also it disrupts everyone.... not just who they project at
This past summer I was at a public laundromat. There was a man struggling with his backpack and screaming and cussing, begging "someone please help me!" Other laundry patrons looked on in alarm, mixed with fear, and not sure what to do. After listening and observing, I realized this poor man was really struggling and legit needed a hand. So I walked over to offer assistance. It turns out, he was severely dehydrated, and his hands were seizing up, causing him to not be able to zip up his backpack. Once I helped him, he calmed down and became rational again, bless his heart. And there was peace at the laundromat. :) It's scary when people behave irrationally, and we do have to exercise caution for our own safety in those situations, but sometimes, people just need to feel heard and validated. I think that is most likely the case with the first man you described, at the Wal-mart.
You helped and gave compassion. Maybe if we all tried that we could be in a better place instead of nixing people and writing them off for them doing things we don't understand.
And this is why we women choose the bear. I had a night out with some girlfriends in Atlanta and some guy was drunk and trying to get at my girl who was not interested in the slightest. We were walking to the car and he tried to grab her arm and get her attention. He kept walking with us even when we clearly were not interested. Men are persistent when they are emboldened by alcohol. There was no way to get away so we just kept going, calling the cops in Atlanta is pointless they don't care about those drunk guys unless they do something really bad. So we were annoyed but the minute she flipped the script and told him, you know what I am tired but why don't you call me tomorrow he got excited and she gave him a fake number and moved on. He left us alone. Kindness while annoying at times like these does work. Good for you to navigate toward safety in the right way.
I am all to familiar with scenarios like this... when i lived in Dallas my roommate and i had been out for the evening and were walking back to the car and someone came up in similar fashion.... my roommate was not having it.. we had just gotten to the car and she attempted to open the car door into the guy to get him to back off... he flipped and took his hand and grabbed her hair to bash her head... all because she took the confrontational road.... it was scary.... knowing scenarios like this and knowing that being nice does make a HUGE difference.... there is a difference between being dumb and kind and being smart and kind..
@@BunnyPlaysHere It is sad that we as women are always the ones who are viewed as the weaker sex when in reality we juggle the behavior or insecure men who overcompensate through violence and alcohol. Projecting because of their own insecurities and them thinking the world revolves around their needs and wants, they are the least able to process emotions and instead use brash acts against women to compensate for their own lack of integrity and ability.
I am so sorry about what your friend encountered. I’ve also encountered something similar to this. You’re right sometimes just being nice to the person. Makes them stop because there’s a difference between being nice and naïve and just being nice enough to get away.
You are a very bright girl thinking quick in bad situations. If you are in the four corners area of New Mexico I am a 60-year-old grandmother and I will offer you a safe place to park where you don't have to worry about weirdos at Walmart. The only thing you have to worry about is dogs that will kiss your face and a horse that will beg for treats. Be safe out there you are such a kind soul
I hav e girls and since they were young I have always taught them stranger danger and also to be careful when it comes to men who acting out in public. My husband and I have seen our fair share of poor behavior in our respected fields and so it was very important to not only teach our children to be careful but also how to respond with kindness and treat others how they would like to be treated. I heard you mention this on another video and it resonated. I am glad you are kind but also aware. Thank you for always sharing your journey with us all. And I am so glad you love our home state so much!
Sounds like you and your husband have been starting them off right .. being aware of their impact as well as how to detect the poor behavior of others...
I don’t like when people turn to the internet to make their lifestyle choice someone else’s issue to pay for. I have never heard you ask for anything even a single time. I cannot say that for others I have seen.
I have chosen to do what I do to help people see the beauty and wonder of our world around us. That doesn’t mean that other people should feel compelled to send me money to afford my lifestyle. It really does bother me when people do that as well. Every so often someone will Send a super chat or a donation for a future episode and I always think that right back into something that they have personally enjoyed for example, if someone mentions in their super chat that they love the brain wrinkles from museums. I make sure to spend what they have given toward another museum so that they can get more value. I would never invest that back into frivolous things. Integrity is more important to me.
@@BunnyPlaysHere I believe that your integrity shows not only in the fact that you don’t have your hand out, but also in the fact that you treat people the way that you want to be treated. I think that’s more important than anything shows that you were raised right
Thanks for not expecting the internet to foot the bill. In today's society it seems no one wants to work. It is clear that you have good work ethic. Consistency even just to post these videos is showing that you enjoy your craft. I can only imagine that by making it look easy to us all you are actually like the ducks, calm on top of the water, scrambling feet below the surface. Keep up the good work. More people should be watching your insights and history!
I never want anyone to feel like it is their responsibility to pay for what I do. Everyone is out here trying to survive at this point. Everything is much higher than it used to be and hearing someone on the Internet who looks like they have a carefree lifestyle telling you about how expensive things are doesn’t really solve any problems. Instead, I want the value of my channel to come with the content that I make and not be attached to me talking about money or jobs. My channel is about my life, but at the same time it’s more about the experiences that are out there for everyone. I try to share price points, free things and items like that not to benefit myself but more so so that people can see what is available out there for them or if they’re not able to travel to give them an experience from home. I think that is the bigger value and I have chosen to do this with my life. It is my responsibility to figure out how to make it work not the audiences. And because of that, I have been doing this for almost 8 years because I have been responsible in my spending.
I see a lot of comments here about poor experiences with men. As a man I have no excuse for others and how they do thing. But I would like to say that not all of us are angry all the time. I am sorry that unfortunately the ones who are speak more to the continued issues for women it seems. Good men don't have to make people feel afraid. Good men don't need to prove anything we mind our business. Good men are polite to women and try to hold doors .
I agree.. not all men are bad... i have been fortunate enough to see the positives of so many men out there starting off with my dad, he not only has always cared for us as a family but also others not related to us.. he shares positivity through his actions toward others... this along with others has allowed me to see that although it can be hard to find good people some days other days are filled with people who get it!!
People can be really rude to people in vans. We converted a van to use for camping and we took it to a park area near our home. I was moving our chairs out of the van and my husband had our dog out front and our pup went potty. I told him, "hold on I'll grab the doggie bag out of the front seat." I literally had a chair in my hand and was setting it down to grab the bag and a woman jumped out of her car screaming at me and ran over to pick it up. I dropped the chair and asked her to stop and said, "I want to get it' and took it out of her hand and said, "no, no, please don't pick that up. I just needed to set the chair down and grab a bag". She then went into a screaming rampage about homeless vanlifers ruining our city. She was screaming red in the face and was getting more and more belligerent. I explained that I'm not homeless but she was screaming so loud I couldn't get a word in. I felt safe enough because my husband was with me and finally realized it wasn't worth trying to say anything more to her and just took my cooler out and started eating my lunch. She ran out of steam and stomped away but I was stunned at the level of hate and anger this woman had. If she had given me 30 seconds I would have put the chair down and cleaned it up without delay. I get her frustration but it was placed on the wrong person. The irony is that my husband and I always spend time cleaning the area when we camp on BLM. Anyway you never know who is going to cross your path. Stay safe out there and be aware of your surroundings.
A lot of misconceptions of vanlife .... here i notice a lot of people talking about the stereotypical fear of white vans....they assume that all white vans must be bad people... it is amazing how speculation like that grows and festers
Absolutely I always want to make sure that people get to see the amazing part of what we do as travelers but also I want them to see the reality of things that do happen sometimes. We’re in the world of people that are wildcards. Especially in more remote spaces you never know who you will encounter so being mindful of that is really important but also being aware of things in a way that makes you comfortable. Great brain wrinkles are awesome but safety is always the most important.
@BunnyPlaysHere I absolutely appreciate you, And have grown to love, Sweet Child, I have 3 grown boys but you happen to be the girl that a blessing to have in our hearts, Stay safe, Say Psalms 91 over yourself, I do too.
I enjoy these kinds of videos because you share the not so pleasant side of what you encounter also. It is insightful. You have so much joy but even with that you have a bad day here and there where you end up somewhere you might feel discomfort and by rising above that it is inspiring to see that you can still find a way to have a positive take away.
thank you... i am just hoping this helps everyone realize that bad things can happen but remaining calm, positive and aware as well as having a strategy for safety is the most important part.
Exceptional video young lady. Sadly in the world today everyone seems to be on edge. I am glad in the midst of all this negative you still smile and share. Thank you for being one of the best channels to watch.
I applaud the way you handled yourself. People who may think otherwise might not understand de-escalation and though it has worked for me as a nurse on the job w a pt’s undocumented PTSD and in dealing w a black out drunk neighbor (many of us stopped calling our non emergency # due to his enablers’ monitoring of her police scanner). My stepping out to ask is something making you upset, and what can I do to get you belp you need? It ended in less than 5 minutes and I had him turned around and heading for his bed instead of his sometimes trespassing and damages to my property. Keep in mind how unpredictable these types of situations can be. I had to leave a truck stop quickly in Amarillo because of being aggressively approached by a sketchy individual and him not respecting my saying “STOP” and banging on my window - I called my Navy officer son. He insisted I contact a non emergency # as I’m 5’1 and no match for male aggression. My leaving and notifying authorities may have prevented him from initiating contact w another traveler at the specific location. Having that emergency buddy, Riley w details necessary to locate you just in case and identify the offensive party is the best thing I’ve ever learned from you on a couple of your videos. should I hit the road again solo. Similar to notifying my credit card companies ahead of time the states I’ll be traveling through, so I’m not a fraud alert and having my cards refused across the country and scrambling for an 🏧. Your video teachings have brought knowledge and taught this old dog a lot.
Exactly... trusting your gut you can see a situation and know what you need to do if you listen.. but in some cases you just have to calm the fire a bit so you can safely navigate toward the resolution be it leaving or just making moves.... it is important to listen to the cues of what is happening... sometimes people just need to know you are not a threat.. sometimes they are at wits end... sometimes they are dangerous.. mannerisms tell a lot
❤ Love that you speak so frankly about keeping sites well cared for, for the sake of all of our enjoyment and benefit. You’ve always strongly advocate for this and it is a valuable reminder for all of us. Imagine if we all left a campsite better than we found it. ❤
Yes, I was really concerned because it was very loud. It sounded like it was originally coming from a place of anger, but now I do believe it was coming from a place of potentially a breakdown. The next morning he seemed absolutely fine and the person that he was with was apparently his wife or partner.
It’s not your problem to deal with, if he was having a mental issue. If you truly believe someone is in need of assistance, it’s ok to call authorities for help. It can be very dangerous to engage with someone in that type of situation.
@@joellepatry493 I don’t think that you listen to the same video that I did because she clearly said that she opened her van so she could get out and he immediately tried to engage with her by staring in her direction, so the natural reaction was to ask if he was OK. Reading some of the other comments this is something that happens to a lot of women where they are just all the sudden thrust into the middle of some thing that they don’t necessarily want to be in but that’s just kind of how it is. I think that she was right by saying that and then just sitting and not saying another thing. It seems as though she made it out OK if she would’ve immediately tried to move to a place that could have triggered him to try to come and stop her or be violent. You never know what people have going on and I’m pretty sure that she has a good head on her shoulders based on what we have seen over the past so many years to realize that sometimes we as the audience don’t understand what’s happening in real time.
@@joellepatry493 Have you never seen somebody who has been irate and then just kind of flipped back to calm before. And those particular situations if you called the authorities, it wouldn’t do any good. Also I wouldn’t want to call the authorities on somebody just for having a yell these days, the authorities shoot people. Maybe think about it there might’ve been reasons why she didn’t call the cops on this guy. I wouldn’t want blood on my hands if the cops acted badly.
Thank you for mentioning that you are not a trust fund kid or independently wealthy, I find that many of the things you are sharing are attainable in price point and you share how much they cost or if they are free, you are one of the only ones online I have seen who do that.
We just got back from Canada and have been traveling south for the winter as many do. This video popped up and we wanted to say you are a wonderful example of the good in the world. You are right it is rare to have a bad encounter but sometimes you are placed in a persons life for a reason and on these two days perhaps it was to extend some much needed kindness. Keep being yourself. We as a family love you!
Thank you so much and I’m hoping that your trip to Canada was absolutely amazing! I know that you have mentioned before that you do homeschooling as you travel did the kids like it?? I’m so jealous I want to go to Canada one of these days.
As a doctor who has spent some of my first years in the ER I believe what you did and said was correct. Deescalation is so important if someone is having a mental health crisis. Training shows that people who do this end with a far more positive outcome and much more quickly. You showing concern for the man at the Walmart allowed his brain a reset to slowly start to come down from the peak of his crisis. You showed empathy and intelligence through your response. That can make all the difference in bringing someone down from the worst moment and into a much more safe scenario for yourself and him. You are also correct, by resolving the issue and then leaving you might have retriggered the event. It was safer to stay with the knowledge of someone else arriving. The issue was over, if he had thought he caused further issue he might have tried to rectify and caused more fear to you without meaning to. Especially if he has issues with mental health and is medicated and having an adverse reaction. Smart and kind.
No one should think it is okay to judge others just because they are upset you are camping in a place they are. Small van or not, you don't overstay, you clean up and advocate for others to also. Was he doing everything right? No, he was out there yelling his fragile ego away to try to intimidate you to leave so he could have the entire place. He was in the wrong.
In a world of opinions sadly there are a lot of people who do but it is up to us to always take the higher ground and not retaliate with negativity! I don't know if anyone who is reading this is aware of the basketball player Jared McCain... he is a rookie who is tracking for rookie of the year... anyway i mention him because he is known for his social media presence on tiktok singing and dancing and spreading joy... he paints his nails and has a positive very secure look on life as a young man.. people make fun of his presence online but then he drops 30 on teams right and left because he is standing on business when it comes to his talent... he is judged for his look and the fun nonchalant way... but meanwhile he is laughing all the way to the bank proving his talent far exceeds others who mock him for the things he does off court.... moral of the story.. be uniquely yourself even when people make comments.... at the end you win and they lose and just look like haters...lol
Thank you so much for sharing these stories. It's always good to see how folks handle these situations so we can apply that to our own situations. I still have a lot to learn, that's for sure. :)
Omg you made me laugh when you described the first guy being surprised to see you then launch into the history of Walmart. Ik it wasn’t funny but you described it so well I could see him in my mind. The second guy you handled very well. You are a very smart girl. I’m glad you are safe. 😆
Good attitude! Glad you used wisdom in those situations. Using psychology can be very helpful & make you much safer. Prayer is always my first choice & let God show me what to do or say! 🙏
Absolutely being aware of the situation, getting a feeling for it and proceeding with a clear mind is always going to net a better result than aggression in response
thank you so much... just hope that by seeing this people are more aware but also that all days aren't bad days.. but in the trials they just need to keep kind and be safe...
The only time I've had an altercation in 10 yrs in van was when i thought i would be kind and move over one space to give a guy privacy, he came unglued and took it as an insult. It was very scary. You never know what will set someone off especially on drugs
Exactly that’s why I chose to be very careful and when he engaged with me at the Walmart, I engaged back in a caring way because I felt that would be less likely to trigger him considering the rapid response time
Glad you were safe in both instances, but in today’s world you definitely need the right choices and decisions and based on what you share and the type of person you seem to be you have both of these handled. Definitely appreciate you sharing because like I said, in today’s world, they got all kinds of things going on, understand from your viewpoint so that if need be things can be understood for their own instances. You’re definitely a smart traveler and you have the right options and play. Have a fantastic day.👍
It is a shame that a few people spoil camping for others. It is always better to avoid troublesome people. You are an upstanding person, just be careful.
Glad you made the right call on those two encounters! I'm sure that your length of time on the road has given you a sense of how to read odd people. I still think you deserve some kind of prize for the way you handled the kid and his mom when he attacked you not once but twice! I am a pretty laid back, live and let live kind of gal but I'm not sure I could have handled that with the grace that you did!
yes i am for sure a people watcher ... i have always been and it really helps with seeing what is actually happening with mannerisms and such...i think ti is so important to lead with kindness always
Seems that was the camping version of walking past someone you have a gripe with (paying by check in long check-out lines) and saying something under your breath just loud enough for that person to hear it. Those people who just havvve to get their angry two cents in are everywhere. Glad that’s all it was you can never tell till it’s over. Keep being smart, spreading the good word and staying safe! 🚐 💨……. ✨✌
I agree.. it is sad to see we have variations of anger in different areas of life... but also that we can find joy and positivity is the bigger picture... staying always mindful of who we are and how that is a reflection of our values vs the problematic ones out there....
I stayed at a national forest site once and a couple pulled in and ultimately wanted the site I had and they tried to make me want to leave. They were loud, rude and played music with lights everywhere like they were at a rave. I stood my ground and they were annoyed and ended up leaving. People sometimes yell just because they want something you have just like this couple did what they did. There is a time and place for that kind of behavior and it is not when camping near others.
oh nooooo.. nothing worse than having someone try to pressure you out of a space... i have had my fair share of party people camping near me.. it is not fun... at no point in nature should someone impose their party on someone else... there are events for that kind of behavior...
Another learning experience. You'll have plenty more. It's just life. You're living and wandering freelance. More encounters equals more learning experiences. Sometimes the experiences have some levels of suck. You survived the learning encounter and we will be better prepared to handle the next encounters to come. I've been doing it for 66 years and wake up looking to the new day. 😃😎✊🏾
Love your positivity but I hate that these (hopefully infrequent) random run-ins happen while traveling these days. I also find it hilarious that, even though people have been RVing for decades, we now only have two options for explaining why someone is traveling in a van - dirty hippie or trust fund kid. 😂
We all know you are a good person...we appreciate what you do. My goal is to be a "homeless hippie living in the woods down by the river" me my dogs n my van😂❤😂
Glad you don't beg for money. I have stopped watching several channels because they are always talking about how expensive things are. If you think it is expensive not my problem. If you choose to be out there then that is your responsibility to take care of your own bills. It is like people who beg on the street, I don't know if they are using that money to buy booze or drugs, so I am not giving anything to them. If someone truly needs help I don't mind donating to shelters and food banks or even buying a meal for someone here or there when the need is clear. But if you have a phone on the internet and a bunch of stuff you could sell to make money I don't feel like I should pay your bills. If I buy something from a link, that is my choice, but never should I feel like you are asking me to give you money directly. You never do that even when you have had hardships. You are responsible.
I want my work ethic to show for itself.... i never want anyone to feel they are obligated to do anything just because they enjoy my channel... a view is support enough because ultimately my goal is to share with others so they can benefit from the knowledge, experiences and be inspired to live life more fully!! at no point does that mean they need to feel responsible for my well being....
They were screaming at each other...therefore I would have continued MY life and ignored them. My husband is a SCREAMER!!!! for no reason...I spilled water...the dogs were making noise...he didn't like what someone else was doing etc. But does not bother anyone else only takes his anger and rage on me. Then suddenly it's over😢....
What you mean, you can understand when people come to their happy place. It's busy. This is a free reign world if you pay for a spot. Oh well, and if somebody's there, oh well move on, I can't understand that there's something wrong with this world, it's so cold, and people are so awful at times . There's that behavior its unacceptable, but oh well, have your little tantrum? I'm not going anywhere. I don't do that. I don't move for other peoples delight in themselves. I'm not gonna allow my atmosphere to be tainted I'm staying my happy place or whatever you want to call it. That's nuts. I don't allow people to change me. I just want I try to move forward and move on and not worry about it. Does she crate what
I think a lot of times this mentality of not understanding where people come from is also a problem though. There is a huge divide between recreational travelers and nomads at this time. Most of it comes from a place of lack of understanding. If we all took a little bit of time to actually I doubt Conversations that are being had by either group would be happening. For example, a lot of people say it’s always the locals that are the problem. However, sometimes it’s also the nomads. But all the people who say it’s always only the nomads are not acknowledging that locals are also a problem. The moral of the story is communication is important however so is just doing the right thing and being a decent human, not just to one another but also to the land that we stay on
Sounds like he either was on drugs or completely mad...glad your ok. Yea...I'll admit, on my 2 wk car life journey and the couple of times I've stayed in my van I think people thought I was homeless at certain moments but I don't care. I know I'm there to make content and have fun but that guy yelling like that and ASSuming all van lifers are "homeless bums" or whatever is ridiculous...probably some rich asshole, from what he said. There are way more people acting crazy these days...we are living in different times....I think maybe they should open upthe looney bins again...but knowing how this world is going? We (the sane ones) might end up locked up! You're a very understanding person...I can appreciate that.
I would never assume that someone is on substances, but that was one of the scenarios that did cross my mind and so by assessing how he spoke to me after the initial weird moment of opening the door, I realized quickly it probably was not that it was probably a mental health crisis because he jolted into like a form of reality that was very different. I think that it’s important that we allow people to understand that we are kind and so in the situation when he initiated a conversation, I was just like OK we’re in this together lol but at the same time, I was very mindful that I still may need to move. I just needed to do that in a way that made sure that I would be safe.
I'm sorry, but in both cases I would have dialed 911. When people scream louder and louder and don't stop, it doesn't matter what they're saying, they're dangerous. But I would also have an emergency buddy. And have pepper spray.
In my lifetime I’ve seen a lot of things and I think the most important thing is realizing when something needs that and when something does not, I never want to be a person to make a report just because I’m uncomfortable when the best solution ultimately is to leave if it’s that bad. And these particular instances because of how they went down in real time, I realized that moving would be the first option to choose, but also if it was able to be diffused before that it could be. They weren’t so irate flailing guns or acting strange. I have camped at some places where people were partying super hard and we’re drunk and I just leave. These weren’t the instances of that though. I’ve also been around people who were just creepy and that’s a very different vibe also. I think the key to all of the scenarios on the road is trusting your gut and being able to assess the situation when in a stressful place. Kindness, hands-down is always going to make a difference in how we proceed but also having a good head on your shoulders. Authorities don’t want to be called simply for someone yelling and saying that they don’t like the people are camping. The Walmart scenario potentially could have been a situation, but at the same time, it was amazing how simply by me getting out of my van to go move my van the man instantly snapped back to reality, realizing that he was in the midst of a mental crisis. Safety always comes first of course but also really understanding the situations around you is so.
Additionally, we should never call 911 because that is the emergency line and unless something is truly an emergency, we should call the nonemergency line of each area. I know that that sounds really crazy but at the same time 911 is reserved for actual emergencies. Screaming people are not an emergence emergency people who are unhappy or not an emergency that specifically something that we should be calling the nonemergency line for unless we are in immediate danger.
If every woman called 911 every time she was uncomfortable 911 would never be able to help real people. The fact of the matter is that 911 can’t be used just to report men’s bad behavior unless they’re actually doing something that is dangerous.men are not good people most of the time and I say this as a person who has a lot of men in my family who are wonderful. The fact the matter is though not, everybody was raised the way that my family members were.
As a nurse absolutely DO NOT call 911 unless you are in the midst of actual medical emergency or are having a situation that requires immediate assistance. For issue with people call the police station directly. 911 is for medical emergencies and immediate attention things not yelling people. Resources in some of these communities are already taxed and they send out the entire brigade of help for these 911 situations. If everyone is called out for a frivolous fear then people who actually need these things will not have them accessible.
Ok, so you don’t need to acknowledge someone like that. My suggestion would have been to climb into the front seat and leave. If you need to exit out the door, simply move to the driver’s door asap, & leave. You don’t owe anyone a conversation. The way you described it, you initiated it, by asking him if he was ok. That’s the last thing you should have done.
Asking someone if they’re OK when they stare at you all of a sudden is not initiating. It is rather trying to make sure that you don’t become part of the problem and if it is something as simple as he was upset that I parked too quickly it was an easy quick fix. At the same time, I think it is important to acknowledge others and not be more of the issue by being rude to one another. Kindness goes along way.
I think she’s saying that she had the conversation because there was no other way to not have the conversation because the first guy just stared at her and it made it into an uncomfortable place. Everybody’s been there where they’ve been in a place that maybe you walked into the middle of something that you didn’t belong in and then you’re just kind of there. Find the way out it’s not always easy. I think what she did was good. Probably help the guy out a lot.
You endangered yourself. You don’t know what is going on with a stranger. He could have been armed, & simply making eye contact could be a trigger for him. I’ve been around enough unstable people. Best to walk away.
@@joellepatry493 no offense but i was in the moment of being there... i assessed and i moved forward.... i always trust my gut.... and gut said i had to get out of the van anyway so move with caution.... being in the moment is much different than perceiving the moment from the internet.... i shared this story today to help others see that in contrast to another situation where the gut was saying leave this time it was more so that i needed to address and move forward... trusting gut is always going to be spot on
Youre living a simple life in a tiny home and a tiny van and having a ball. If that triiggers some people that is their problem. They're mixed up amd don't realize the real problem lies with the small number of uber wealthy who suck rents and extra labour out of people like him. Instead he rails against people he sees as "inferior". He's broken. It's sad.
okay ya no more blocking your driver seat just in case for future also if you have to leave just say you sharted yourself got to go sharted my pants got to go right now. no one would stop you also my family has a code word you could have a few code words with different degrees of severity like call for help now could be "did i water my plant" etc.
I agree I feel like you never do that so the fact that you did and then called yourself out is kind of funny. How about this Bunny, don’t put yourself in harms way by blocking your seat
Well, you just stressed me out with all that. All that extra stuff is stressful. I would not do any of it. I have a right to be somewhere, just like everybody else. Jeep Van or RV period I'm not doing that I'm not doing any of it, I have a right as A usa citizen to be where the hell I wanna be long as I'm allow by the land. That's crazy
That’s fine to think that and everyone is entitled to their particular action course. But for me as a person again, who does educational content I think it’s important to see that there is value in both you can be to yourself and there’s nothing wrong with that if you feel comfortable doing that, however if you do feel comfortable stepping to the plate and having the conversation, it has a much more enlightening response on both sides and again, I don’t expect everyone to do the things that I do. This is just my RUclips channel and I share how I proceed through my personal life, but there is something too being able to just be kind
You live your life your Way she lives her life her way neither one of them is wrong. You’re right as a citizen you have the right to be where you wanna be but you also have to follow the rules. I think she’s talking about the people who don’t follow the rules and that’s what’s making it harder for everyone, including those who do follow the rules maybe don’t drink so much coffee in the morning you seem a little stressed.
absolutely not... i never would say something like that to someone already very emotional from their assumptions.. they could snap at that point antagonizing them
I think that the main problem is not so much that for example you are homeless and live in your jeep. It is the fact that there are a lot of people out there who look down on homeless people because they don’t understand that life sometimes just puts us in a position where uncontrolled variables Shift our life focus into something different. Because homelessness has always been demonized by allowing people to see that there are various facets of life that exist in all can coexist together. They don’t just see the worst case scenario. For example, I know several people who are homeless by choice and I know several who are not homeless by choice, and carrying yourself with the distinguishment of character and pride is important no matter how you live. I have gone to places where there are clearly homeless people who do not do that and they do overstay rules and because of that like I mentioned places get closed. Unfortunately, the worst in any group is always going to be the one that is seen the loudest, and sometimes the difference so people can understand that assumptions are wrong so they can grow and learn. Is it our job to educate them? No, however, we shouldn’t automatically assume that someone is entitled just because of their actions because of their lack of education. My channel is all about getting brain wrinkles and extending kindness to all groups as I travel, and do that simply by having these conversations it really does enlighten others who might not understand so that they can have a better understanding of the world around them so maybe they won’t make such as you said entitled comments. This man knew he was wrong he shut up because he had no power in the conversation anymore.
Absolutely I’m in my 40s! I feel like we can have a good time at any age and it’s just about how we treat ourselves and how we take care of ourselves that matters
I’m not exactly sure if I’ll do any kind of meet up last year. I received a death threaten and it made it very difficult for me to do things like that unfortunately because the person did not have their face on the Internet so I couldn’t see them I was able to report them to authorities, and after that I noticed that their account had been taken down However, unless something happened to beyond that, I was not aware of that person is still out there and unfortunately, they are part of our community and made that very well-known. So I tend to move on a bit of a delay and I also be very careful with how I intentionally share my location in real time. If something does change, however I will make sure that everyone knows I’m just not sure how comfortable I feel.
@ omg! That’s terrible and very scary! I’d love to meet you but I totally understand. Maybe we’ll run in to each other someday. I’m coming to Quartzsite for the first time this winter. Take care and be safe
Poor behavior should not be acceptable but in today's world it seems to be more and more the normal thing. I am glad you choose to always be kind.
Bunny seems to have a good head on her shoulders. I enjoy watching her and Riley traveling together as well as Lady Bugout because they exude joy and positivity. The world could use a few more people like them.
it is more and more common but we have to be the light to shine in the darkness
Right?😊👍
You saw who the US just elected for president, right? Common decency won’t be back for a long time.
Wanted to add that I think its great that you include some of your awkward moments so that new people can have a more realistic expectation of what can happen and idea's of how to maybe deal with it. Thanks Bunny.
I’m super awkward all the time so my regular every day life is just me being absolutely ridiculously silly and funny but at the same time since normally I’m filming things that have more purpose like education I try to just stick to the matter at hand lol but in videos like these and then also my day in the life videos, I’m able to show people you know the human side of things
As a woman, I appreciate that you’re talking about the weird men because I doubt that most people understand how many strange things happen as a result of just being a woman. I’ve seen a couple people on here say that they wouldn’t have had a conversation at all, but at the same time I have personally been in situations that there was no avoiding the conversation because it felt like it needed to be had. Especially the one at the Walmart if you are there and the guy just suddenly dart his head at you you don’t know if he’s violent or not so just by asking if he’s OK you’re more likely to get a calm response which seems to be the case of what happened with you. I had a person at my apartment complex a couple of years ago before I moved who had a mental health crisis and was screaming in the hall as I walked up the stairwell he was standing between me and my apartment and there was no way to go around him so I had to have a conversation Because it was 1 AM and there was nowhere else to go. I was very nervous because I knew he was my neighbor but at the same time I didn’t know what was going on, so I just kindly asked him if he was OK and that brought him to a place where he realized that he was possibly spiraling and it was like it reset him and he instantly calmed down. That was also very scary because I didn’t know if he was calming down because he was about to do something bad however he calmed down long enough where I was able to say have a good evening I hope to see you at one of the mixers at the apartment complex. he ended up going into his apartment and I ended up going into mine and I didn’t hear a peep from him the next day he came up and apologized and said that he had run out of his medication and that he was having an issue and that me being nice to him triggered something that made him stop. It could be a trigger that could’ve gone the opposite direction, but there was no other choice. I appreciate that you shared that you were also kind in your scenario and that it helped because I think more people need to understand that this is not a situation you can necessarily navigate out of. The people who said that are very foolish.
Thank you for sharing your story. I know it’s really terrifying when you’re in a situation like this same same… Lol. I have had a few instances in my lifetime where I realize that being able to just keep my wits about me and have a conversation was the best way to diffuse something that was happening so that I could get to safety. I always try to think of my safety first And in these particular situations I thought it was very important to do so. I think a lot of people might watch this and think that I acted out of paste and did the most and didn’t have to do that but being in those situations, I think that they would have done something more similar if they would’ve realized kind of the tone and then also how that, just by having the conversation it halted the entire Conflict. People come from a place of lack of education a lot when it comes to life and travel and so as a person who is kind and joyous, it’s really hard to just be a terrible person when you see the other person is just killing me with kindness. I always will favor on the side of kindness in every scenario.
I am glad you were okay. Been there similar situation. These men commenting on here don't understand what it is to be woman.
I love your storytime videos. Glad your safe and have to ask... Did you say your 40? Wow girl you look much younger than that. Hugs from a fellow Texas Girl!!
Yes, I am in my 40s just proving that we can have a good time no matter what our age and if we take care of ourselves, we can extend that time even more
I appreciate your transparency and talking about things instead of just showing the pretty things. I’ve watched your channel for quite some time and I’ve learned so much and I think that you are a great judge of character based on how you extended kindness even in the sketchy situation, and were able to determine that likely the cause was not you but other things but still being kind to the people you were able to be direct.
I’ve always tried really hard just to make sure that everyone can see both sides. I think that there is something absolutely amazing about sharing the beautiful views and allowing people to understand the peace that comes from exploring however, also understanding that sometimes life is not gonna be roses and sunshine, so we need to be able to think on our feet. sharing things like this I hope people can understand that even though the bogeyman isn’t around every single corner, the chances are you might encounter one here or there and being prepared is super important, but also giving Grace to understand there is a difference between a good person and a bad person good information and bad information
I think it’s great that you share all these things. As a guy who’s normally considered to be the scary guy because I am intimidating in size whenever I am at more remote places if there are women there I just know that they assume I’m probably a bad guy, but I try to make it very quickly known that I am not just so that they don’t feel like they have to adjust what they’re doing because I’m there.I saw your comment just talking to someone take it down a few notches and I think you’re right
I think that that’s really awesome that you do that also, I could see as a woman if someone were to just walk into my campsite that could come across as very scary lol so I’m sure that you have figured out a nice way to do it and if so, perhaps make a RUclips channel to tell people the right way to make people feel comfortable with your presence because a lot of men lack this particular ability lol
@@BunnyPlaysHere I agree if he were to tell other men how to be a little bit less crazy when they walk up, that would be helpful
being a decent guy is harder and harder because of all the bad ones out there making it harder for us guys.
I appreciate your channel for the history you share and how you travel the way you do. I have never heard you ask for anything from any of us other than to promote another channel and asking people to go check them out. You are salt of the earth and we appreciate that. I do not enjoy creators who make videos asking for money. Especially those who think it is my problem when they want to do something above their means. You have shown so many things which are inexpensive and how you manage your movement without just asking for money. Others should take a look into how you do this. Especially the larger channels who do this, how can they not manage their own money enough to maintain?
Thank you so much!! I love being able to share all the amazing brain wrinkles there are out there!!!
I am glad you are safe. You never know who you will encounter on the road. You made good choices. Enjoy your journey and safe travels
Absolutely the world is a big weird place sometimes sometimes and so kindness does matter, but also assessing the situation was very important and feeling it out so I could know how to get out if I needed to in both scenarios
Thanks for sharing this with us. Great advice 👍
I think sometimes as much as we enjoy the positives there are a few hiccups... sharing the good and the bad helps others to see the value in trusting their gut, being aware and being prepared in times of weirdness....
Sometimes the reaction of just WTF as something pops up in front of you is the only thing you can do. I’m glad you were able to handle this and be safe and share the stories with us later on. I think that as women from the common that I was reading with all encountered some version of a crazy guy. It’s sad because we’re always told that we are the emotional ones but most of the men don’t actually regulate their emotions so they are the more violent emotional ones. Was looking up statistics recently after watching something and realize that most of the domestic violence situations or the violence against women’s situations happen at the hands of men not other women.
I think across the board people can act on emotions in a poor way... also however sometimes people just are removed from reality to the point of not understanding basic decency.... i will always take the high road and be kind.... always...
😱BECARFUL bunny! 🙏Safe journey 🙏
safety is always first....
Glad you were safe in both instances.
Absolutely safety is always the most important thing
Bunny, what a great vid. I love your positive and proactive approach to some of these tricky issues. Thank you!
thank you so much... positivity is the most important thing we can be in todays world... it helps us find the joys and lessons in each point of life...
I normally would say ignore people like those two and stay to yourself but after reading some of the comments, I think you did the right thing saying something. Just make sure you don't forget that kindness cannot solve everything if someone is dangerous. Keep your head on a swivel and always watch your 6.
I think that there is some value to just reading the situation. If it would’ve felt like it was a confrontational situation that ultimately I needed to evacuate I would have done so but because of the way that I had my van set up, I knew there was going to be at least a moment where there was a chance of having a conversation so I braced myself just in case and in this particular instance, it seemed as though just by asking if he was OK he calmed down quite a bit. It’s like I mentioned kindness goes along way. There’s also also a difference though like you said, and I think that is a fine line but also that you get a gut feeling. I always trust my gut.
I have learned so much from you. 10 years in the making I'm gonna go van life soon and prepared and unafraid.
Hi, I don’t know you, but I feel the same way. I’m not necessarily going to do van life, but watching her videos has been inspiring and also has taught me so many things just about the places that she goes. I know you don’t know me, but I just wanted to say, you’ll do great because you have awesome information to start with.
That is so exciting that you are so close now! I’ve been traveling for a long time and I must say the adjustment to getting started is a bit rough at the first part just because you have to learn your space and how to move and maneuver however if you go into Traveling with an open mind, you will find the joys in the simple things.
I had a man walk though my campsite when I was camping in Tahoe. Not once but twice. I was not near the restroom, I was not near a path or an access point. He just kept using my campsite as his own personal path. I didn't know what to do, but he was walking closer and closer to my van. I have the same van as you and this was a paid site. I found the camp host and asked what I should do. I don't want to be a person who gets someone in trouble just for doing something so small but the host assured me that I was not wrong in this scenario. The host ended up having a chat with the guy. The next morning I woke up with a knife in my picnic table. Sometimes men are just bad. In that case talking to him would have been an issue. I also have stayed in place where a man was arguing with his girlfriend on the phone screaming. I could see he was stressed but it wasn't directed at me. I ended up when gathering fire wood saying hey hope everything is okay, this too shall pass. He apologized that I could hear all that and trauma dumped on me for about 5 minutes before apologizing again and telling me he felt bad for interrupting my stay and that he appreciated that I was nice. All was great after that. I think you did the right thing in judging the situation and then being nice. It seemed the better solution in this case.
i agree. ... each situation is different and it is important to feel each out respectably.... staying safe always will be the most important. ....
Bunny you did well defusing both situations!!!! Thanks for the example!!! I wouldnt have had a clue what to do!!!
I have learned that sometimes in order to get yourself into a better position to be able to navigate away from some thing that could be bad just being calm and using a clear mind is very important. Always trust your gut also just be receptive to the fact that if someone is a danger that you need an exit strategy. I always have not only an exit strategy, but also I way to defend myself readily available.
Sorry you encountere these two people. People need to respect others by not being loud no matter where they are camping. Thanks for sharing the videos you do.
I agree.. being loud isn't great for anyone.. not only because it is clearly creating probably high blood pressure for themselves but also it disrupts everyone.... not just who they project at
So unfortunate that anyone imposes their insecurities about others at someone like yourself because you are so kind.
I agree... it is life and it isn't fun to see happen but also in exchange i will always take the high road and be kind...
This past summer I was at a public laundromat. There was a man struggling with his backpack and screaming and cussing, begging "someone please help me!" Other laundry patrons looked on in alarm, mixed with fear, and not sure what to do. After listening and observing, I realized this poor man was really struggling and legit needed a hand. So I walked over to offer assistance. It turns out, he was severely dehydrated, and his hands were seizing up, causing him to not be able to zip up his backpack. Once I helped him, he calmed down and became rational again, bless his heart. And there was peace at the laundromat. :) It's scary when people behave irrationally, and we do have to exercise caution for our own safety in those situations, but sometimes, people just need to feel heard and validated. I think that is most likely the case with the first man you described, at the Wal-mart.
You helped and gave compassion. Maybe if we all tried that we could be in a better place instead of nixing people and writing them off for them doing things we don't understand.
Stay safe! Beautiful green eyes, btw. ❤
Absolutely safety is always the most important thing. Also thank you so much for the comment!
And this is why we women choose the bear. I had a night out with some girlfriends in Atlanta and some guy was drunk and trying to get at my girl who was not interested in the slightest. We were walking to the car and he tried to grab her arm and get her attention. He kept walking with us even when we clearly were not interested. Men are persistent when they are emboldened by alcohol. There was no way to get away so we just kept going, calling the cops in Atlanta is pointless they don't care about those drunk guys unless they do something really bad. So we were annoyed but the minute she flipped the script and told him, you know what I am tired but why don't you call me tomorrow he got excited and she gave him a fake number and moved on. He left us alone. Kindness while annoying at times like these does work. Good for you to navigate toward safety in the right way.
I am all to familiar with scenarios like this... when i lived in Dallas my roommate and i had been out for the evening and were walking back to the car and someone came up in similar fashion.... my roommate was not having it.. we had just gotten to the car and she attempted to open the car door into the guy to get him to back off... he flipped and took his hand and grabbed her hair to bash her head... all because she took the confrontational road.... it was scary.... knowing scenarios like this and knowing that being nice does make a HUGE difference.... there is a difference between being dumb and kind and being smart and kind..
@@BunnyPlaysHere It is sad that we as women are always the ones who are viewed as the weaker sex when in reality we juggle the behavior or insecure men who overcompensate through violence and alcohol. Projecting because of their own insecurities and them thinking the world revolves around their needs and wants, they are the least able to process emotions and instead use brash acts against women to compensate for their own lack of integrity and ability.
I am so sorry about what your friend encountered. I’ve also encountered something similar to this. You’re right sometimes just being nice to the person. Makes them stop because there’s a difference between being nice and naïve and just being nice enough to get away.
You are a very bright girl thinking quick in bad situations. If you are in the four corners area of New Mexico I am a 60-year-old grandmother and I will offer you a safe place to park where you don't have to worry about weirdos at Walmart. The only thing you have to worry about is dogs that will kiss your face and a horse that will beg for treats.
Be safe out there you are such a kind soul
thank you so much for your kindness!!
I hav e girls and since they were young I have always taught them stranger danger and also to be careful when it comes to men who acting out in public. My husband and I have seen our fair share of poor behavior in our respected fields and so it was very important to not only teach our children to be careful but also how to respond with kindness and treat others how they would like to be treated. I heard you mention this on another video and it resonated. I am glad you are kind but also aware. Thank you for always sharing your journey with us all. And I am so glad you love our home state so much!
Sounds like you and your husband have been starting them off right .. being aware of their impact as well as how to detect the poor behavior of others...
Cute shades!
Thanks!!! I found these at dollar tree a while back
You always have good advice.
thank you so much... i always try to keep a level head...lol
I don’t like when people turn to the internet to make their lifestyle choice someone else’s issue to pay for. I have never heard you ask for anything even a single time. I cannot say that for others I have seen.
I 100% agree. If someone chooses to embark upon a lifestyle, they should also think about how they are going to pay for that lifestyle.
I have chosen to do what I do to help people see the beauty and wonder of our world around us. That doesn’t mean that other people should feel compelled to send me money to afford my lifestyle. It really does bother me when people do that as well. Every so often someone will Send a super chat or a donation for a future episode and I always think that right back into something that they have personally enjoyed for example, if someone mentions in their super chat that they love the brain wrinkles from museums. I make sure to spend what they have given toward another museum so that they can get more value. I would never invest that back into frivolous things. Integrity is more important to me.
@@BunnyPlaysHere I believe that your integrity shows not only in the fact that you don’t have your hand out, but also in the fact that you treat people the way that you want to be treated. I think that’s more important than anything shows that you were raised right
Thanks for not expecting the internet to foot the bill. In today's society it seems no one wants to work. It is clear that you have good work ethic. Consistency even just to post these videos is showing that you enjoy your craft. I can only imagine that by making it look easy to us all you are actually like the ducks, calm on top of the water, scrambling feet below the surface. Keep up the good work. More people should be watching your insights and history!
I never want anyone to feel like it is their responsibility to pay for what I do. Everyone is out here trying to survive at this point. Everything is much higher than it used to be and hearing someone on the Internet who looks like they have a carefree lifestyle telling you about how expensive things are doesn’t really solve any problems. Instead, I want the value of my channel to come with the content that I make and not be attached to me talking about money or jobs. My channel is about my life, but at the same time it’s more about the experiences that are out there for everyone. I try to share price points, free things and items like that not to benefit myself but more so so that people can see what is available out there for them or if they’re not able to travel to give them an experience from home. I think that is the bigger value and I have chosen to do this with my life. It is my responsibility to figure out how to make it work not the audiences. And because of that, I have been doing this for almost 8 years because I have been responsible in my spending.
I see a lot of comments here about poor experiences with men. As a man I have no excuse for others and how they do thing. But I would like to say that not all of us are angry all the time. I am sorry that unfortunately the ones who are speak more to the continued issues for women it seems. Good men don't have to make people feel afraid. Good men don't need to prove anything we mind our business. Good men are polite to women and try to hold doors .
I agree.. not all men are bad... i have been fortunate enough to see the positives of so many men out there starting off with my dad, he not only has always cared for us as a family but also others not related to us.. he shares positivity through his actions toward others... this along with others has allowed me to see that although it can be hard to find good people some days other days are filled with people who get it!!
People can be really rude to people in vans. We converted a van to use for camping and we took it to a park area near our home. I was moving our chairs out of the van and my husband had our dog out front and our pup went potty. I told him, "hold on I'll grab the doggie bag out of the front seat." I literally had a chair in my hand and was setting it down to grab the bag and a woman jumped out of her car screaming at me and ran over to pick it up. I dropped the chair and asked her to stop and said, "I want to get it' and took it out of her hand and said, "no, no, please don't pick that up. I just needed to set the chair down and grab a bag". She then went into a screaming rampage about homeless vanlifers ruining our city. She was screaming red in the face and was getting more and more belligerent. I explained that I'm not homeless but she was screaming so loud I couldn't get a word in. I felt safe enough because my husband was with me and finally realized it wasn't worth trying to say anything more to her and just took my cooler out and started eating my lunch. She ran out of steam and stomped away but I was stunned at the level of hate and anger this woman had. If she had given me 30 seconds I would have put the chair down and cleaned it up without delay. I get her frustration but it was placed on the wrong person. The irony is that my husband and I always spend time cleaning the area when we camp on BLM. Anyway you never know who is going to cross your path. Stay safe out there and be aware of your surroundings.
A lot of misconceptions of vanlife .... here i notice a lot of people talking about the stereotypical fear of white vans....they assume that all white vans must be bad people... it is amazing how speculation like that grows and festers
Thank you for keeping it real❤
Absolutely I always want to make sure that people get to see the amazing part of what we do as travelers but also I want them to see the reality of things that do happen sometimes. We’re in the world of people that are wildcards. Especially in more remote spaces you never know who you will encounter so being mindful of that is really important but also being aware of things in a way that makes you comfortable. Great brain wrinkles are awesome but safety is always the most important.
@BunnyPlaysHere I absolutely appreciate you, And have grown to love, Sweet Child, I have 3 grown boys but you happen to be the girl that a blessing to have in our hearts, Stay safe, Say Psalms 91 over yourself, I do too.
@@patrisha573 awwww so kind!
I enjoy these kinds of videos because you share the not so pleasant side of what you encounter also. It is insightful. You have so much joy but even with that you have a bad day here and there where you end up somewhere you might feel discomfort and by rising above that it is inspiring to see that you can still find a way to have a positive take away.
thank you... i am just hoping this helps everyone realize that bad things can happen but remaining calm, positive and aware as well as having a strategy for safety is the most important part.
Exceptional video young lady. Sadly in the world today everyone seems to be on edge. I am glad in the midst of all this negative you still smile and share. Thank you for being one of the best channels to watch.
thank you so much for your kindness !!!
I applaud the way you handled yourself. People who may think otherwise might not understand de-escalation and though it has worked for me as a nurse on the job w a pt’s undocumented PTSD and in dealing w a black out drunk neighbor (many of us stopped calling our non emergency # due to his enablers’ monitoring of her police scanner). My stepping out to ask is something making you upset, and what can I do to get you belp you need? It ended in less than 5 minutes and I had him turned around and heading for his bed instead of his sometimes trespassing and damages to my property. Keep in mind how unpredictable these types of situations can be. I had to leave a truck stop quickly in Amarillo because of being aggressively approached by a sketchy individual and him not respecting my saying “STOP” and banging on my window - I called my Navy officer son. He insisted I contact a non emergency # as I’m 5’1 and no match for male aggression. My leaving and notifying authorities may have prevented him from initiating contact w another traveler at the specific location.
Having that emergency buddy, Riley w details necessary to locate you just in case and identify the offensive party is the best thing I’ve ever learned from you on a couple of your videos. should I hit the road again solo. Similar to notifying my credit card companies ahead of time the states I’ll be traveling through, so I’m not a fraud alert and having my cards refused across the country and scrambling for an 🏧. Your video teachings have brought knowledge and taught this old dog a lot.
Exactly... trusting your gut you can see a situation and know what you need to do if you listen.. but in some cases you just have to calm the fire a bit so you can safely navigate toward the resolution be it leaving or just making moves.... it is important to listen to the cues of what is happening... sometimes people just need to know you are not a threat.. sometimes they are at wits end... sometimes they are dangerous.. mannerisms tell a lot
@ you handled everything like a pro, considering what you were dealt. I’m super impressed
@@laurieerickson7205 thank you!!
Bunny I want to say thanks for putting videos up like this because it offers ways of dealing with those uncomfortable situations. Good job!!
I just hope that by sharing people realize things can happen but that doesn't mean that it has to end poorly
This was a great and thoughtful video. Thank you♡
❤ Love that you speak so frankly about keeping sites well cared for, for the sake of all of our enjoyment and benefit. You’ve always strongly advocate for this and it is a valuable reminder for all of us. Imagine if we all left a campsite better than we found it. ❤
Wow the guy having a breakdown in a parking lot sounded like he might have some issues.
Yes, I was really concerned because it was very loud. It sounded like it was originally coming from a place of anger, but now I do believe it was coming from a place of potentially a breakdown. The next morning he seemed absolutely fine and the person that he was with was apparently his wife or partner.
It’s not your problem to deal with, if he was having a mental issue. If you truly believe someone is in need of assistance, it’s ok to call authorities for help. It can be very dangerous to engage with someone in that type of situation.
@@joellepatry493 I don’t think that you listen to the same video that I did because she clearly said that she opened her van so she could get out and he immediately tried to engage with her by staring in her direction, so the natural reaction was to ask if he was OK. Reading some of the other comments this is something that happens to a lot of women where they are just all the sudden thrust into the middle of some thing that they don’t necessarily want to be in but that’s just kind of how it is. I think that she was right by saying that and then just sitting and not saying another thing. It seems as though she made it out OK if she would’ve immediately tried to move to a place that could have triggered him to try to come and stop her or be violent. You never know what people have going on and I’m pretty sure that she has a good head on her shoulders based on what we have seen over the past so many years to realize that sometimes we as the audience don’t understand what’s happening in real time.
@@joellepatry493 Have you never seen somebody who has been irate and then just kind of flipped back to calm before. And those particular situations if you called the authorities, it wouldn’t do any good. Also I wouldn’t want to call the authorities on somebody just for having a yell these days, the authorities shoot people. Maybe think about it there might’ve been reasons why she didn’t call the cops on this guy. I wouldn’t want blood on my hands if the cops acted badly.
Sorry you went through that. You are always so positive! Love it. It’s one of the main reasons I listen!
Thank you for mentioning that you are not a trust fund kid or independently wealthy, I find that many of the things you are sharing are attainable in price point and you share how much they cost or if they are free, you are one of the only ones online I have seen who do that.
I share so more can be inspired to try things.. no matter their budget.. i think the world has so much for us all
We just got back from Canada and have been traveling south for the winter as many do. This video popped up and we wanted to say you are a wonderful example of the good in the world. You are right it is rare to have a bad encounter but sometimes you are placed in a persons life for a reason and on these two days perhaps it was to extend some much needed kindness. Keep being yourself. We as a family love you!
Thank you so much and I’m hoping that your trip to Canada was absolutely amazing! I know that you have mentioned before that you do homeschooling as you travel did the kids like it?? I’m so jealous I want to go to Canada one of these days.
As a doctor who has spent some of my first years in the ER I believe what you did and said was correct. Deescalation is so important if someone is having a mental health crisis. Training shows that people who do this end with a far more positive outcome and much more quickly. You showing concern for the man at the Walmart allowed his brain a reset to slowly start to come down from the peak of his crisis. You showed empathy and intelligence through your response. That can make all the difference in bringing someone down from the worst moment and into a much more safe scenario for yourself and him. You are also correct, by resolving the issue and then leaving you might have retriggered the event. It was safer to stay with the knowledge of someone else arriving. The issue was over, if he had thought he caused further issue he might have tried to rectify and caused more fear to you without meaning to. Especially if he has issues with mental health and is medicated and having an adverse reaction. Smart and kind.
thank you so much.. coming from a professional who has dealt with things like this this is reassuring....
No one should think it is okay to judge others just because they are upset you are camping in a place they are. Small van or not, you don't overstay, you clean up and advocate for others to also. Was he doing everything right? No, he was out there yelling his fragile ego away to try to intimidate you to leave so he could have the entire place. He was in the wrong.
In a world of opinions sadly there are a lot of people who do but it is up to us to always take the higher ground and not retaliate with negativity! I don't know if anyone who is reading this is aware of the basketball player Jared McCain... he is a rookie who is tracking for rookie of the year... anyway i mention him because he is known for his social media presence on tiktok singing and dancing and spreading joy... he paints his nails and has a positive very secure look on life as a young man.. people make fun of his presence online but then he drops 30 on teams right and left because he is standing on business when it comes to his talent... he is judged for his look and the fun nonchalant way... but meanwhile he is laughing all the way to the bank proving his talent far exceeds others who mock him for the things he does off court.... moral of the story.. be uniquely yourself even when people make comments.... at the end you win and they lose and just look like haters...lol
Thank you so much for sharing these stories. It's always good to see how folks handle these situations so we can apply that to our own situations. I still have a lot to learn, that's for sure.
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Totally agree so many different people out there.
Just keep safe please... I do love how you keep respect of others and yourself.
Omg you made me laugh when you described the first guy being surprised to see you then launch into the history of Walmart. Ik it wasn’t funny but you described it so well I could see him in my mind. The second guy you handled very well. You are a very smart girl. I’m glad you are safe. 😆
Wow. Glad you are safe! ❤
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Great vid Bunny!
Good attitude! Glad you used wisdom in those situations. Using psychology can be very helpful & make you much safer. Prayer is always my first choice & let God show me what to do or say! 🙏
Absolutely being aware of the situation, getting a feeling for it and proceeding with a clear mind is always going to net a better result than aggression in response
I’m glad you have people to give information to so you are safe. Great ideas that you come up with. ❤
You are a great informative person, love your video
thank you so much... just hope that by seeing this people are more aware but also that all days aren't bad days.. but in the trials they just need to keep kind and be safe...
The only time I've had an altercation in 10 yrs in van was when i thought i would be kind and move over one space to give a guy privacy, he came unglued and took it as an insult. It was very scary. You never know what will set someone off especially on drugs
Exactly that’s why I chose to be very careful and when he engaged with me at the Walmart, I engaged back in a caring way because I felt that would be less likely to trigger him considering the rapid response time
Glad you were safe in both instances, but in today’s world you definitely need the right choices and decisions and based on what you share and the type of person you seem to be you have both of these handled. Definitely appreciate you sharing because like I said, in today’s world, they got all kinds of things going on, understand from your viewpoint so that if need be things can be understood for their own instances. You’re definitely a smart traveler and you have the right options and play. Have a fantastic day.👍
It is a shame that a few people spoil camping for others. It is always better to avoid troublesome people. You are an upstanding person, just be careful.
it is sad... but also being positive and also kind matters in the bigger picture
Sage words of wisdom spoken from an educated and kind woman.
thank you so much!
Bunny, you are so right. Thank you for being you!
Glad you made the right call on those two encounters! I'm sure that your length of time on the road has given you a sense of how to read odd people. I still think you deserve some kind of prize for the way you handled the kid and his mom when he attacked you not once but twice! I am a pretty laid back, live and let live kind of gal but I'm not sure I could have handled that with the grace that you did!
yes i am for sure a people watcher ... i have always been and it really helps with seeing what is actually happening with mannerisms and such...i think ti is so important to lead with kindness always
Seems that was the camping version of walking past someone you have a gripe with (paying by check in long check-out lines) and saying something under your breath just loud enough for that person to hear it. Those people who just havvve to get their angry two cents in are everywhere. Glad that’s all it was you can never tell till it’s over. Keep being smart, spreading the good word and staying safe! 🚐 💨……. ✨✌
I agree.. it is sad to see we have variations of anger in different areas of life... but also that we can find joy and positivity is the bigger picture... staying always mindful of who we are and how that is a reflection of our values vs the problematic ones out there....
Well said‼️ 🚐🚐🚐
thank you
I stayed at a national forest site once and a couple pulled in and ultimately wanted the site I had and they tried to make me want to leave. They were loud, rude and played music with lights everywhere like they were at a rave. I stood my ground and they were annoyed and ended up leaving. People sometimes yell just because they want something you have just like this couple did what they did. There is a time and place for that kind of behavior and it is not when camping near others.
oh nooooo.. nothing worse than having someone try to pressure you out of a space... i have had my fair share of party people camping near me.. it is not fun... at no point in nature should someone impose their party on someone else... there are events for that kind of behavior...
Another learning experience. You'll have plenty more. It's just life. You're living and wandering freelance. More encounters equals more learning experiences. Sometimes the experiences have some levels of suck. You survived the learning encounter and we will be better prepared to handle the next encounters to come.
I've been doing it for 66 years and wake up looking to the new day. 😃😎✊🏾
I like how you reacted! ❤
Wise words - thank you.
Glad you are ok.
thank you!!!
I want your sunglasses! So cute!
Great video you're very intelligent.
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PREACH! SISTER!
It sounds like you have a really great life!
Love your positivity but I hate that these (hopefully infrequent) random run-ins happen while traveling these days. I also find it hilarious that, even though people have been RVing for decades, we now only have two options for explaining why someone is traveling in a van - dirty hippie or trust fund kid. 😂
We all know you are a good person...we appreciate what you do. My goal is to be a "homeless hippie living in the woods down by the river" me my dogs n my van😂❤😂
Glad you don't beg for money. I have stopped watching several channels because they are always talking about how expensive things are. If you think it is expensive not my problem. If you choose to be out there then that is your responsibility to take care of your own bills. It is like people who beg on the street, I don't know if they are using that money to buy booze or drugs, so I am not giving anything to them. If someone truly needs help I don't mind donating to shelters and food banks or even buying a meal for someone here or there when the need is clear. But if you have a phone on the internet and a bunch of stuff you could sell to make money I don't feel like I should pay your bills. If I buy something from a link, that is my choice, but never should I feel like you are asking me to give you money directly. You never do that even when you have had hardships. You are responsible.
I want my work ethic to show for itself.... i never want anyone to feel they are obligated to do anything just because they enjoy my channel... a view is support enough because ultimately my goal is to share with others so they can benefit from the knowledge, experiences and be inspired to live life more fully!! at no point does that mean they need to feel responsible for my well being....
You are such a lovely lady!
Thank you so much!
They were screaming at each other...therefore I would have continued MY life and ignored them. My husband is a SCREAMER!!!! for no reason...I spilled water...the dogs were making noise...he didn't like what someone else was doing etc. But does not bother anyone else only takes his anger and rage on me. Then suddenly it's over😢....
Please be careful, there's crazies out there.
What you mean, you can understand when people come to their happy place. It's busy. This is a free reign world if you pay for a spot. Oh well, and if somebody's there, oh well move on, I can't understand that there's something wrong with this world, it's so cold, and people are so awful at times . There's that behavior its unacceptable, but oh well, have your little tantrum? I'm not going anywhere. I don't do that. I don't move for other peoples delight in themselves. I'm not gonna allow my atmosphere to be tainted I'm staying my happy place or whatever you want to call it. That's nuts. I don't allow people to change me. I just want I try to move forward and move on and not worry about it.
Does she crate what
I think a lot of times this mentality of not understanding where people come from is also a problem though. There is a huge divide between recreational travelers and nomads at this time. Most of it comes from a place of lack of understanding. If we all took a little bit of time to actually I doubt Conversations that are being had by either group would be happening. For example, a lot of people say it’s always the locals that are the problem. However, sometimes it’s also the nomads. But all the people who say it’s always only the nomads are not acknowledging that locals are also a problem. The moral of the story is communication is important however so is just doing the right thing and being a decent human, not just to one another but also to the land that we stay on
Sounds like he either was on drugs or completely mad...glad your ok.
Yea...I'll admit, on my 2 wk car life journey and the couple of times I've stayed in my van I think people thought I was homeless at certain moments but I don't care. I know I'm there to make content and have fun but that guy yelling like that and ASSuming all van lifers are "homeless bums" or whatever is ridiculous...probably some rich asshole, from what he said.
There are way more people acting crazy these days...we are living in different times....I think maybe they should open upthe looney bins again...but knowing how this world is going? We (the sane ones) might end up locked up!
You're a very understanding person...I can appreciate that.
I would never assume that someone is on substances, but that was one of the scenarios that did cross my mind and so by assessing how he spoke to me after the initial weird moment of opening the door, I realized quickly it probably was not that it was probably a mental health crisis because he jolted into like a form of reality that was very different. I think that it’s important that we allow people to understand that we are kind and so in the situation when he initiated a conversation, I was just like OK we’re in this together lol but at the same time, I was very mindful that I still may need to move. I just needed to do that in a way that made sure that I would be safe.
I would've been out of there, and find another place to camp
I'm sorry, but in both cases I would have dialed 911. When people scream louder and louder and don't stop, it doesn't matter what they're saying, they're dangerous. But I would also have an emergency buddy. And have pepper spray.
In my lifetime I’ve seen a lot of things and I think the most important thing is realizing when something needs that and when something does not, I never want to be a person to make a report just because I’m uncomfortable when the best solution ultimately is to leave if it’s that bad. And these particular instances because of how they went down in real time, I realized that moving would be the first option to choose, but also if it was able to be diffused before that it could be. They weren’t so irate flailing guns or acting strange. I have camped at some places where people were partying super hard and we’re drunk and I just leave. These weren’t the instances of that though. I’ve also been around people who were just creepy and that’s a very different vibe also. I think the key to all of the scenarios on the road is trusting your gut and being able to assess the situation when in a stressful place. Kindness, hands-down is always going to make a difference in how we proceed but also having a good head on your shoulders. Authorities don’t want to be called simply for someone yelling and saying that they don’t like the people are camping. The Walmart scenario potentially could have been a situation, but at the same time, it was amazing how simply by me getting out of my van to go move my van the man instantly snapped back to reality, realizing that he was in the midst of a mental crisis. Safety always comes first of course but also really understanding the situations around you is so.
Additionally, we should never call 911 because that is the emergency line and unless something is truly an emergency, we should call the nonemergency line of each area. I know that that sounds really crazy but at the same time 911 is reserved for actual emergencies. Screaming people are not an emergence emergency people who are unhappy or not an emergency that specifically something that we should be calling the nonemergency line for unless we are in immediate danger.
If you called 911 in Atlanta for a holler back guy they would absolutely do nothing. This is not how you call 911.
If every woman called 911 every time she was uncomfortable 911 would never be able to help real people. The fact of the matter is that 911 can’t be used just to report men’s bad behavior unless they’re actually doing something that is dangerous.men are not good people most of the time and I say this as a person who has a lot of men in my family who are wonderful. The fact the matter is though not, everybody was raised the way that my family members were.
As a nurse absolutely DO NOT call 911 unless you are in the midst of actual medical emergency or are having a situation that requires immediate assistance. For issue with people call the police station directly. 911 is for medical emergencies and immediate attention things not yelling people. Resources in some of these communities are already taxed and they send out the entire brigade of help for these 911 situations. If everyone is called out for a frivolous fear then people who actually need these things will not have them accessible.
The planets are in retrograde for sure.
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It was the hair lol
If so, that’s super unfortunate that they would make judgment based on someone’s hairstyle.
Ok, so you don’t need to acknowledge someone like that. My suggestion would have been to climb into the front seat and leave. If you need to exit out the door, simply move to the driver’s door asap, & leave.
You don’t owe anyone a conversation. The way you described it, you initiated it, by asking him if he was ok. That’s the last thing you should have done.
Asking someone if they’re OK when they stare at you all of a sudden is not initiating. It is rather trying to make sure that you don’t become part of the problem and if it is something as simple as he was upset that I parked too quickly it was an easy quick fix. At the same time, I think it is important to acknowledge others and not be more of the issue by being rude to one another. Kindness goes along way.
I think she’s saying that she had the conversation because there was no other way to not have the conversation because the first guy just stared at her and it made it into an uncomfortable place. Everybody’s been there where they’ve been in a place that maybe you walked into the middle of something that you didn’t belong in and then you’re just kind of there. Find the way out it’s not always easy. I think what she did was good. Probably help the guy out a lot.
You endangered yourself. You don’t know what is going on with a stranger. He could have been armed, & simply making eye contact could be a trigger for him. I’ve been around enough unstable people. Best to walk away.
@@joellepatry493 no offense but i was in the moment of being there... i assessed and i moved forward.... i always trust my gut.... and gut said i had to get out of the van anyway so move with caution.... being in the moment is much different than perceiving the moment from the internet.... i shared this story today to help others see that in contrast to another situation where the gut was saying leave this time it was more so that i needed to address and move forward... trusting gut is always going to be spot on
No offense, I’m just concerned for your safety.
You are 40??? I guessed 30
i never will believe this. She is so young looking. When I first watched I could have swore late 20s early 30s. Aging like fine wine.
yes.. i am in my 40s and it has been wonderful... i keep moving and always am go go go ... it is wonderful!! age is just a number
Youre living a simple life in a tiny home and a tiny van and having a ball. If that triiggers some people that is their problem. They're mixed up amd don't realize the real problem lies with the small number of uber wealthy who suck rents and extra labour out of people like him. Instead he rails against people he sees as "inferior". He's broken. It's sad.
Don’t come to Canada.. much closer campsite..
I don’t mind being closer to my neighbors if that’s how the campsite set up as long as people aren’t upset about being close together
okay ya no more blocking your driver seat just in case for future also if you have to leave just say you sharted yourself got to go sharted my pants got to go right now. no one would stop you also my family has a code word you could have a few code words with different degrees of severity like call for help now could be "did i water my plant" etc.
Yeah this is why I have a routine each day that I usually do I was just being tired lol epic fail lol
I agree I feel like you never do that so the fact that you did and then called yourself out is kind of funny. How about this Bunny, don’t put yourself in harms way by blocking your seat
yes please don't block your seat going forward.
Well, you just stressed me out with all that. All that extra stuff is stressful. I would not do any of it. I have a right to be somewhere, just like everybody else. Jeep Van or RV period I'm not doing that I'm not doing any of it, I have a right as A usa citizen to be where the hell I wanna be long as I'm allow by the land. That's crazy
That’s fine to think that and everyone is entitled to their particular action course. But for me as a person again, who does educational content I think it’s important to see that there is value in both you can be to yourself and there’s nothing wrong with that if you feel comfortable doing that, however if you do feel comfortable stepping to the plate and having the conversation, it has a much more enlightening response on both sides and again, I don’t expect everyone to do the things that I do. This is just my RUclips channel and I share how I proceed through my personal life, but there is something too being able to just be kind
You live your life your Way she lives her life her way neither one of them is wrong. You’re right as a citizen you have the right to be where you wanna be but you also have to follow the rules. I think she’s talking about the people who don’t follow the rules and that’s what’s making it harder for everyone, including those who do follow the rules maybe don’t drink so much coffee in the morning you seem a little stressed.
Next time somebody say homeless … oh yes haha give me some money for gas ..so I could leave .. that I would do ..
absolutely not... i never would say something like that to someone already very emotional from their assumptions.. they could snap at that point antagonizing them
I live in my my jeep i am homeless but I'm not explaining that to no one I don't care he sounded entitled
I think that the main problem is not so much that for example you are homeless and live in your jeep. It is the fact that there are a lot of people out there who look down on homeless people because they don’t understand that life sometimes just puts us in a position where uncontrolled variables Shift our life focus into something different. Because homelessness has always been demonized by allowing people to see that there are various facets of life that exist in all can coexist together. They don’t just see the worst case scenario. For example, I know several people who are homeless by choice and I know several who are not homeless by choice, and carrying yourself with the distinguishment of character and pride is important no matter how you live. I have gone to places where there are clearly homeless people who do not do that and they do overstay rules and because of that like I mentioned places get closed. Unfortunately, the worst in any group is always going to be the one that is seen the loudest, and sometimes the difference so people can understand that assumptions are wrong so they can grow and learn. Is it our job to educate them? No, however, we shouldn’t automatically assume that someone is entitled just because of their actions because of their lack of education. My channel is all about getting brain wrinkles and extending kindness to all groups as I travel, and do that simply by having these conversations it really does enlighten others who might not understand so that they can have a better understanding of the world around them so maybe they won’t make such as you said entitled comments. This man knew he was wrong he shut up because he had no power in the conversation anymore.
I don’t think entitled is the correct word I think that possibly the correct word would be uneducated
I probably heard you wrong cause my hearing is not so good but there is no way you are 40... maybe 30 but I really think maybe 27 or 28 years old???
Absolutely I’m in my 40s! I feel like we can have a good time at any age and it’s just about how we treat ourselves and how we take care of ourselves that matters
Let he who has no sin cast the first stone. This man has not heard the teaching of Christ and it shows by his judgement.
i think that more people should do unto others....
I’ve really gotten to the point that I’m just so tired of @sshole people. Sorry that happened to you.
Do you think you’ll have a meet up this winter?
I’m not exactly sure if I’ll do any kind of meet up last year. I received a death threaten and it made it very difficult for me to do things like that unfortunately because the person did not have their face on the Internet so I couldn’t see them I was able to report them to authorities, and after that I noticed that their account had been taken down However, unless something happened to beyond that, I was not aware of that person is still out there and unfortunately, they are part of our community and made that very well-known. So I tend to move on a bit of a delay and I also be very careful with how I intentionally share my location in real time. If something does change, however I will make sure that everyone knows I’m just not sure how comfortable I feel.
@ omg! That’s terrible and very scary! I’d love to meet you but I totally understand. Maybe we’ll run in to each other someday. I’m coming to Quartzsite for the first time this winter. Take care and be safe