5 Reasons to Never Chase a Man

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  • Опубликовано: 21 янв 2025

Комментарии • 27

  • @liveitup_GJ
    @liveitup_GJ Год назад +13

    For me number 4 reason is the biggest one, it’s taking me some time to recover from the rejection and to raise my self-esteem again! Please do not put yourself at their mercy 🙏💕 You’re worth much more than putting some guy out there on a pedestal. No, no, no!

    • @Ruzina
      @Ruzina  Год назад

      I agree 💯❤

  • @derwoodhamburger
    @derwoodhamburger Год назад +16

    If she doesn't pursue me back and plays games or acts uninterested I'm moving on. These tactics won't work on a masculine man who is secure within himself

    • @Ruzina
      @Ruzina  Год назад +7

      Hello thank you for your comment. As explained in the video a healthy relationship begins with two people showing interest in each other and both people putting in the effort. When there is chasing involved from either side there is risk this will lead to a toxic relationship.

    • @stevenkrupka3670
      @stevenkrupka3670 Год назад +1

      Amen bro

    • @TheSoldiergirl
      @TheSoldiergirl Год назад +2

      Calm down, Cinderella 👗

    • @derwoodhamburger
      @derwoodhamburger Год назад +1

      @@TheSoldiergirl feminist detected, opinion rejected

  • @jwon5614
    @jwon5614 Год назад +4

    Very well said!!!! Never look outside yourself for happiness or validation; find it within-always!!!!! It took me a long time to really figure this out and I still find myself wanting to chase-Don’t do it!!!

  • @RoseMwachia
    @RoseMwachia 5 месяцев назад +3

    So powerful, That part if a person likes you wil show it plain truth direct👍💯 truth hurts 💔 but doesn't kil regardless we move in peace 🤸✌️

    • @Ruzina
      @Ruzina  5 месяцев назад

      yes 💯 ❤️

  • @jordanrintoul-thomas722
    @jordanrintoul-thomas722 Год назад +5

    Chasing men is NEVER worth it.

  • @TheSoldiergirl
    @TheSoldiergirl Год назад +2

    Very true ❤ I'm glad i found this page

  • @loredanamunteanu5834
    @loredanamunteanu5834 11 месяцев назад +2

    Great video ! Hi from Italy

  • @aishab282
    @aishab282 Год назад +2

    loved this, but it cuts out about halfway through 😢
    anyway, very useful info thank you ruzina!!

    • @Ruzina
      @Ruzina  Год назад +1

      Hello thank you for watching 🙌 I have replayed this video and not experiencing it stop at any point 🤔
      I am sorry you are experiencing this problem

    • @aishab282
      @aishab282 Год назад

      @@Ruzina9:09

    • @Ruzina
      @Ruzina  Год назад

      @@aishab282 ah I see it now pausing :(
      If you try to move it past 10.00 the rest should play.
      Sorry about this inconvenience and thank you for letting me know 🙌

  • @bud1239
    @bud1239 Год назад +4

    Men that like you may not explicitly express it or at least at first. Some men are not going to explicitly express it but it go somewhere to hint at it in an very obvious way. Men aren't mind readers and women speak very indirectly or in relational terms that aren't explicit or obvious to men who have a logical train of thought
    Men chasing women (speaking from experience from my mistakes) signals a guy's neediness which is a turnoff for woman. I did that multiple times. My fault was not realizing that some women are not going to give me straight up rejections (I prefer honesty) rather than beat around the bush and say yes but give a bunch of excuses. Mistake of leading myself on with that one but I also did not like the girl to begin with but yeah multiple delusions on that one. I now am 1 and done in my contact to try to ask a woman out. If I get no response or excuses, on to the next one.
    I think it is fine for a woman to chase after a couple dates when they are warmed up and there is obvious interest and a guy is receptive. Might be better to just call him and say you want to see him. If he does not want to get together or does not respond then it would be a good idea to back off.
    If a girl that I am interested in is chasing me, I am obviously going to reciprocate and get her on the phone to schedule a time and place to together. Also if she is chasing me, she is not dumping or rejecting me so it is a good thing. If there are unrealistic expectations such as expecting me to process 10 text messages at once when I am busy with work or I am just not interested in her then would it start to be a problem (in the latter, I would be honest and explicit). But the chasing and delusions are a bad combination.

  • @staceywood7800
    @staceywood7800 Год назад +2

    Amen Amen Lady 💛
    It is what it is.. Just NEVER do it.

  • @TheGoodNurse95
    @TheGoodNurse95 Год назад +4

    Thank u Rozina , i am too struggling currently with such feeling , am fighting with myself to be calm enoght not to chase him

    • @Ruzina
      @Ruzina  Год назад +1

      Thank you for watching and I am glad you found it useful. I hope you find the strength within to do what is best for you. You've got this my dear! 💪❤

  • @initiatorhater0688
    @initiatorhater0688 Год назад +3

    yup, this is nothing new, i always hated being the hunter

    • @aishab282
      @aishab282 Год назад +1

      haha you’re username is perfect then

  • @jennifereastmond4415
    @jennifereastmond4415 6 месяцев назад +1

    Amen!

  • @liveandinstereo
    @liveandinstereo 2 месяца назад

    Men don't chase.