What’s a family secret you didn’t get told until you were older that made things finally make sense?

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  • Опубликовано: 24 дек 2024

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  • @madysontaylor8767
    @madysontaylor8767 25 дней назад +24

    I was pregnant at 16. My dad ended up leaving my mom over it and taking me with. My man and I lived in a bubble as I like to call it. While my mom and some of my cousins on my dad's side ran around saying I was pregnant with my dad's child. I just found all this out a couple weeks ago. Mybheart breaks for my dad and I'll never speak to any of my family again. My daughter is 5 now and I thank my dad for keeping that drama away for as long as he did. The only reason it came up was because my grandpa just had heart surgery and these same people wanted to be in the waiting room with my dad. It has caused so much drama. I even remember while I was pregnant CPS having me do a DNA test and my dad just told me it was normal for underage pregnant kids to have that happen. Crazy shit.

  • @lcoq19
    @lcoq19 Месяц назад +39

    This video (listening at 2x speed) was the perfect length to listen to while getting my kid ready for school and running a quick errand after he left. It ended right when I walked back in my house. [I know that's not relative to the topic but comments boost the algorithm so I'm just doing my part!]

  • @Sketchedout1516
    @Sketchedout1516 Месяц назад +6

    Story 4 nearly had be in tears, don’t take for granted the family that loves and cares for you

  • @carolyncarlson6410
    @carolyncarlson6410 8 дней назад +1

    Mom went to indigenous boarding school, found out after she passed & I ended up inheriting her diploma. Much of the way she was treated, was how she treated me, which is why I recieve disability for trauma as well as debilitating physical issues. Therapy continues to help me heal

  • @schutzenhaus
    @schutzenhaus 2 дня назад

    All my grandparents were alive during my childhood, but I only met my paternal grandfather once. The others I saw fairly regularly, and he was divorced from my paternal grandmother. Eventually I learned my grandfather had abused my father to the point of dad attempting suicide. Grandma hated and resented him long after their divorce and his death. He hadn’t been very nice to her, either.

  • @YrimuMay
    @YrimuMay 29 дней назад +2

    I started working on my family tree many years ago, but realized there were some missing pieces. After talking to a my mum and my aunt, I was able to put the entire puzzle together (giving names to faces from my childhood).
    With this information I now realize the master list family tree can no longer be shared with the extended family (it includes illegitimate children only a few people know about). I'll have to create a PG version with the people we all know about. 😊 I don't want to be the reason our family doesn't talk to eachother.😅

  • @CrazyKoala1990
    @CrazyKoala1990 12 дней назад +1

    Already angry at the first video... imagine blaming the victims!! Thank god for your uncle!

  • @boogiebear3095
    @boogiebear3095 12 дней назад +1

    Walking all that way Judy to visit with her 🥹😭

  • @Sakura0754
    @Sakura0754 Месяц назад +6

    My father who i hadn't seen since I was two, turns out was not my father. Me and my sister are half sisters. It makes sense because I was always confused why she was blonde and blue eyed fair pale skin and very slim features. I have brown hair and eyes, darker olive skin that never burns just gets dark, with wider features, less pointy nose, full lips, semi curly hair. Found out after her suicide.

  • @shanadelahaye1213
    @shanadelahaye1213 Месяц назад +4

    I think as an adult, you know if your parent is dishonest or not. You just choose to stay in denial and vice versa! It's sad though!

  • @sherpajones
    @sherpajones 24 дня назад +3

    I can relate to story one.

  • @Gene-c8v
    @Gene-c8v 12 дней назад

    That my grandfather had killed himself because of something that his brother did. Cap. My beloved grandfather was an irresponsible alcoholic who had an infectious personality, but his brother was a Wharton graduate, and he took their company to another level variant

  • @randomgirlnamedfefe
    @randomgirlnamedfefe 9 дней назад

    I actually found out a shit load of secrets:
    Number 1: my dad was a drug addict he used to do Mary Jane and angel dust hence why he gets mad if we smell like drugs (he still does it)
    Number 2: he used to beat my mum up until she started fighting back
    Number 3: he has a kid in Mexico which is my step brother who is probably way older than me
    Number 4: dad cheated on my mum with multiple women including my cousin who is my mum's age
    Number 5: my mum could've been rich if she would've stayed with the guy who liked her
    Number 6: my great grandmother was rich and owned a city in my mother land (not anymore)
    Number 7: I was a mistake (as said by my dad)

  • @CurlyCrowie
    @CurlyCrowie 11 дней назад

    A family friend was my dad's half-brother. I always wondered why he was pall-bearer at granddad's funeral when there were enough males. A cuz and her mom investigated and found out. This man died a year ago. And at his funeral my I saw something funny on the funeral leaflet. He was 18 months older than my dad ...... My grandparents were married long before my dad was born. My dad wasn't the eldest, there was a baby that died. ..... So this uncle was the result of an affair. After the funeral I heard from several cousins withing seconds of one another. We had all been doing the math.
    Recently I was researching our family trees and when looking up my dad's Uncle I found a marriage of granddad that nobody knew about. We all knew he was married before our gran. My uncle found a marriage certificate where we found him married to a Muslim woman ...... Neither of these women were the wife we knew about before he married Gran. In our community in the late 1920s-'30s it was a scandal to have been married 4 times.

  • @JLeach8782
    @JLeach8782 Месяц назад +4

    First! And these are actually good stories!

  • @kristoffergroves90
    @kristoffergroves90 13 дней назад +1

    lol a gram of coke a week is nothing, definitely not enough to explain years of wild mood swings.
    also, you don't have to love somebody "because they're your mom." she sounds like a worthless 304 to me.

    • @leefi1
      @leefi1 8 дней назад

      In the 80's my daily stash was three grams and I was still fully functioning and employed.(it was free for me to be the "life of the party" at every event my benefactor gave) When I quit cocaine, I did it cold turkey. Everyone knew that coke was only psychologically, and not physically addictive in the 80's, so quitting was about strength of character.In two weeks I was fine.
      But once it was determined that addiction was a "disease" a whole very profitable industry arose to get lots of money from insurance carriers and desperate families. All that I have to show for my cocaine use is a 3 centimeter hole in my septum. Dissolving the deviated septum that had kept me from breathing easily actually helped me breathe normally for the first time in my life!

  • @michelled.5321
    @michelled.5321 Месяц назад +4

    What is the video this is voiced over? Is it game play? If so, what is the game?