The Better Everyday Podcast | Ep.12 Relationship Dynamics
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- Опубликовано: 2 июн 2024
- In this episode we talk about the dynamics between a man and a woman in a relationship. We talk about how the pendulum has swung from men having machismo in a marriage and now where the dynamic has shifted to woman being empowered to the point where the men are expected to stay quiet and bottle their feelings or else be labeled as insensitive. What does a healthy dynamic in a relationship really look like?
What advice would you give when trust has been broken and anger is in the way. How can this start to get better if one person is so angry and no longer trusts the other person.
We believe it is not a question of anger but a question of desire and will. Is there a desire or a will for the relationship to work? If so, then healing between the two would be step one but that in itself requires trust. If the person originally hurt cannot allow himself/herself to forgive and move forward then the will for the relationship to work is not there. There must be repentance and forgiveness. Now repentance does not promise you it may never happen again and that is where the heart must be weighed. Maybe they really were trying and it was a slip up… it’s hard to say but that is also why seeking counseling helps a lot. If both parties agree to it, that is definitely a step forward and evidence that both parties want to make an effort for the relationship to work.
Thank you very much for the question and hope this helps. We welcome any follow up questions or clarification if it’s needed!
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