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  • Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
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    Hi Beautiful
    This was a big part of my life that I’m choosing to share about narcissistic parenting and what I went through. I have healed and here are some ways I was able to recognise that I needed to start my healing journey.
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  • @abeniayisat
    @abeniayisat  Месяц назад

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  • @JuliaShalomJordan
    @JuliaShalomJordan 11 месяцев назад +4

    I’m going through this process, too. God be with us…as I did not get love growing up. Thank goodness we have our Heavenly Father.✨🙏🏻✨

    • @abeniayisat
      @abeniayisat  11 месяцев назад

      Thank goodness we do x He gives truly healing and love. Blessings on your journey x

  • @evergreen5432
    @evergreen5432 Год назад +1

    Very informative and eye opening video, thanks for the reminder, useful and helpful upload

  • @onebeautifulangel6706
    @onebeautifulangel6706 Год назад +4

    This spoke to me in so many ways ❤ Thank you for sharing this beautiful message. I think the book that you are referring to is The Body Keeps The Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk M.D. I hope you have a wonderful weekend ❤

    • @abeniayisat
      @abeniayisat  Год назад +1

      Aw yes that’s the book, thank you. I need to buy it. You’re welcome and thank you for watching and connecting ❤️🌸

  • @onyinne1327
    @onyinne1327 Год назад +1

    I grew up with some of these experiences but I think my parents didn't understand the difference in individual personalities because I am an introvert
    I also would encourage every parent to teach their kids the right yhing to do when scolding them for doing something wrong

    • @abeniayisat
      @abeniayisat  Год назад +1

      😊 It’s good that we know these things in order to do better moving forward x

  • @resablessed8470
    @resablessed8470 Год назад +1

    Amen yes that’s the key God yes❤

  • @Beingtransfiguredthepodcast
    @Beingtransfiguredthepodcast 10 месяцев назад +1

    Sis. This video is so so helpful. Thank you for sharing your healing journey.. ❤❤

    • @abeniayisat
      @abeniayisat  10 месяцев назад

      You’re welcome 🌸

  • @BECKYtheMOMMY
    @BECKYtheMOMMY Год назад +2

    Wow this was so me, I had a very bad traumatic experience growing up that I was soaked in pain. I use to be so upset and easily broken down in tears at every given situation, I shyed away from people because of my pain I couldn’t relate with people because I was rooted in deep pain. Oh well thank God for my husband who lived my opposite life growing up and had so much Love and Light in him that he passed his light in me. Am still healing though I think. But I try so hard not to always reflect back to my past pain. I have kids am trying so hard to bring raise in so much LOVE that they don’t go through half what I went through growing up. God bless you sis for this video. Wow

    • @abeniayisat
      @abeniayisat  Год назад +1

      Aw Becky this touched me. I love that you recognise where you are and thank God for your amazing husband to shine his light and help you. It’s a process and we must keep going for our peace and for the little ones. I’m the same way, so much love to the children. I pray God continues to cover you and your pain becomes a distant memory to learn and grow 🌸🌸

    • @BECKYtheMOMMY
      @BECKYtheMOMMY Год назад +1

      @@abeniayisat Amen 🙏🏻 thank you so much for this amazing piece you’ve shared once again. Much ❤️ always

  • @bettys8179
    @bettys8179 Год назад +1

    This is everything I needed to hear. Thank you for sharing your experiences 😊

    • @abeniayisat
      @abeniayisat  Год назад

      Lovely, thank you for watching x

  • @primordialG
    @primordialG 9 месяцев назад +1

    I just watched your last video and I realized something. A lot of people who grew up in these types of family systems go out into the world and try to form relationships with people who literally hate them and that’s your subconscious trying to recreate your previous relationship dynamic. I’ve gone through a long mourning process over the relationship with my mother and one thing that I had trouble processing is how love even if it’s just a little bit could possibly coexist with this level of disdain and it simply doesn’t.
    I started to find peace when I stopped looking for an angle where it’s possible for abuse to come from a loving place. Trauma and pain can lead people with weak spirits to release love and empathy. There’s room for grace for such people, but none for tolerance of their behavior.

    • @abeniayisat
      @abeniayisat  8 месяцев назад +1

      I'm sorry you went through a tough time. Glad peace is starting to come through as well, healing is such a journey. Once you start healing, you notice things about yourself and create the boundaries necessary to move forward and not repeat cycles. x

  • @odilemartel9158
    @odilemartel9158 11 месяцев назад +1

    I recognize my story in yours …
    This video made me cry (in public 😅), but I feel better. Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @abeniayisat
      @abeniayisat  11 месяцев назад

      Aw 🤭 glad it’s all out, glad you feel so much better. 🌸

  • @liamberry8064
    @liamberry8064 Год назад +1

    You have been through so much!! Love that no matter what you’ve gone through, your attitude is so much stronger for it
    God bless

    • @abeniayisat
      @abeniayisat  Год назад

      Thank you, I really appreciate that 🌸 God bless you too

  • @SimplyDej
    @SimplyDej Год назад +1

    Your words literally were speaking to me! I gotta learn to think of the positives and start myself a healing journey fr. ❤ loved your video!

    • @abeniayisat
      @abeniayisat  Год назад

      Aw lovely, you can get through it. One day at a time x

  • @threejdelaroca2010
    @threejdelaroca2010 Год назад +1

    The way you analyzed your trauma from your past helped you with your healing journey.. of course putting God to the equation hopefully fully healed you. The fact that you are openly talking about your journey publicly is plausible and could help peepz going thru the same scenario without a proper support system

    • @abeniayisat
      @abeniayisat  Год назад

      Thank you, I definitely want to encourage others to start their healing journey

  • @ThatGurrlLexus
    @ThatGurrlLexus Год назад +1

    I love this!! I’m In this era now so it’s amazing to see others journey 🤎

    • @abeniayisat
      @abeniayisat  Год назад

      Aw nice, blessings on your healing journey 🌸

  • @ConqueringSpiritwithK
    @ConqueringSpiritwithK 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hey Sis! I love it here 🫶🏽 Previously subbed with my other account and happy to sub with this one too.
    Exciting road to 1K 🎉🎉🎉
    Wow a beautiful and encouraging video. We have a responsibility to work on ourselves and the love, grace and mercy of God are always sufficient for us.
    I love journaling a lot, it’s
    indescribable 💕💕 God bless your beautiful soul 🙏🏽

    • @abeniayisat
      @abeniayisat  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate it 🌸 Amen He is enough x God bless you too Beautiful 🥰

  • @naledikomsana3443
    @naledikomsana3443 Год назад +2

    3:50 Referencing everything back to trauma! 😢exactly where I am at. Default emotion is anxiety. And God has really pulled me in recently so much, so my healing is still fresh even though I thought I’ve been in a healing journey for so long😅…I absolutely love the devotional journals you offer. And your newsletters are definitely a saving grace sometimes. Thank you ❤❤

    • @abeniayisat
      @abeniayisat  Год назад

      Hi Naledi, aw thank you for your sweet words. So happy to hear you are on the healing journey, and when you realise where you’re at it helps. I will do some videos on anxiety because I dealt with that too. If there’s any resources or things you need me to help with or talk about please let me know. ❤️🌸

  • @ashleydaguiarofficial
    @ashleydaguiarofficial Год назад +2

    Everything about this is beautiful ❤

  • @mysticalmisfit1332
    @mysticalmisfit1332 Год назад +1

    You are so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story and your healing journey. I too am a survivor of childhood narcissistic abuse. I'm 48 and only recently found the words. I am so happy you healed. ❤

    • @abeniayisat
      @abeniayisat  Год назад

      Thank you and you are beautiful too 🌸 I’m glad you are on your journey, it’s going to be so good on the other side of the pain. You can do it, you deserve it ☺️