Men doing "everything" are dropping dead. It's too much for anyone these days. Times are different now and it takes two. I will be happy and appreciate a man who helps. I don't need him to pay for everything. I'm not paying it all either. We need to work together.
I agree!! This debate is social media nonsense. The majority of American households don’t even qualify to choose. Their finances are such that there is no choice..both people HAVE to contribute to the bills!
The Internet stay keeping people dumb lol contrary to popular beliefs. From my pov, most of these women are living in their masculine and are betting on men to feel the pressures from that given energy. Appreciate your opinion big bro ✨
no one else will ever be fully responsible for ME and MY LIFE dont matter how long we ''been together'' !!!! i will never put my life in someone elses hands like i cant get off my own as!
You have a woman in your life that’s willing to go 50/50 YOUR MOM until you get over those issues idk y anyone talk look about relationship PERIOD and no disrespect
Me and my man we do it together. You buy breakfast I'll get lunch. We don't live together which is okay so he pays his bills and I pay mine. If or when we do live together whoever makes more ( would probably be him lol 🤣) takes care of the big bills and the other (me) takes care of the smaller bills. I don't think I could be in a relationship where they take care of everything. Like I need to be working and making my own money and contributing to the household.
Me and my girlfriend split the household bills 50/50 and pay are personal bills ourselves. Average rent in my area is 2k a month and I found a cheaper apartment for 1800 after all household bills it comes out to 2500 month including food. We both have cars which we pay are own gas and insurance for. My monthly bills is less than paying for the apartment for myself and leaves quite a bit of money left over for investments/fun time. We have our own bank accounts and one joint one where we put money in for household bills.
The entire point of helping one another.. is to create more disposable income.. and money to save and invest with. If my woman approaches me and says she doesn't have her half of the rent/mortgage.. there shouldn't be any panic involved... pull from the emergency fund... and handle the issue. Replace the money afterwards.
In this day n age of monopoly, yourve gotta be smart, don't go on dates with broke people, don't have kids to just anybody. If your smart, don't have any kids at all, they cost more than a mortgage
Hell nawl… all that buying shit for her to only leave you for a dude that live in his grandma basement is OUT!!!! If u not meeting me halfway you can step.
IF money didnt exist how would we be paying lol. it should be 100/100 from both parties, both parties sign a contract to COMBINE therefore everything must be equal. We're so caught up in man's law/ways that we've forgotten nature's laws/regulations in MY opinion. A man can pay 100% all he wants, if he's no good, that money won't matter, same for a woman. it's not the money, its the principle for lack of better terms. Also the prob is, both parties are not vetting each other properly. I say a man SHOULD provide, yes, but all that taking advantage on the woman's behalf (her having bad intentions/being slick about it) is my problem. My pov is just trying to envision a couple WITHOUT money. how would they balance out their duties then lol If he/she dont have the money, we have EACH other! Thats a real couple to ME. fck these houses, mortagages, rent, all this man made crap. SURE we have it, im saying what about before money and mortgage? If a women depends on me for money ONLY, she not real, she not the one, and she's a sell out.
The guy should pay for the date first. What? I say a coffee date because you're just trying to get to know her. Strictly a coffee date, do not take her out for a free lunch. Because that's how they use you for free food. So Coffee date is the way to go always.
Men doing "everything" are dropping dead. It's too much for anyone these days. Times are different now and it takes two. I will be happy and appreciate a man who helps. I don't need him to pay for everything. I'm not paying it all either. We need to work together.
no 70:30 first date
In this economy; you have to work together. This isn’t 1957; both married members of the household should be working.
I agree!! This debate is social media nonsense. The majority of American households don’t even qualify to choose. Their finances are such that there is no choice..both people HAVE to contribute to the bills!
My husband does the same thing with, “we’ll figure it out “ and that gives me the strength to help figure it out together
this should be a lecture, real men assemble
The Internet stay keeping people dumb lol contrary to popular beliefs. From my pov, most of these women are living in their masculine and are betting on men to feel the pressures from that given energy. Appreciate your opinion big bro ✨
The 2 things that divides people the most in this world is money and politics.
Bro you remind me of a young Arsenio Hall (respectfully). Keep going strong bro💪🏾💯
The names arsenio snipes
These women think it's the 1950's or something 😂. Until the dollar changes, being 50/50 is not even a choice.
no one else will ever be fully responsible for ME and MY LIFE dont matter how long we ''been together'' !!!! i will never put my life in someone elses hands like i cant get off my own as!
Happy Friday look forward to your videos daily thank you fr 🎄❤️
You have a woman in your life that’s willing to go 50/50 YOUR MOM until you get over those issues idk y anyone talk look about relationship PERIOD and no disrespect
🙄 wym fr ? You wanted to pop in this money world to payback bc you popped here f fools stfu
Me and my man we do it together. You buy breakfast I'll get lunch. We don't live together which is okay so he pays his bills and I pay mine. If or when we do live together whoever makes more ( would probably be him lol 🤣) takes care of the big bills and the other (me) takes care of the smaller bills. I don't think I could be in a relationship where they take care of everything. Like I need to be working and making my own money and contributing to the household.
Me and my girlfriend split the household bills 50/50 and pay are personal bills ourselves. Average rent in my area is 2k a month and I found a cheaper apartment for 1800 after all household bills it comes out to 2500 month including food. We both have cars which we pay are own gas and insurance for. My monthly bills is less than paying for the apartment for myself and leaves quite a bit of money left over for investments/fun time. We have our own bank accounts and one joint one where we put money in for household bills.
Well... he said what he said! lol
The entire point of helping one another.. is to create more disposable income.. and money to save and invest with. If my woman approaches me and says she doesn't have her half of the rent/mortgage.. there shouldn't be any panic involved... pull from the emergency fund... and handle the issue. Replace the money afterwards.
Bro just wanted her to stop talking …that’s all he wants
In this day n age of monopoly, yourve gotta be smart, don't go on dates with broke people, don't have kids to just anybody. If your smart, don't have any kids at all, they cost more than a mortgage
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Everyone wants it but not everyone has it; if you have free time then pick up some shifts.
What outfits are you wearing? It looks awesome.
Hell nawl… all that buying shit for her to only leave you for a dude that live in his grandma basement is OUT!!!! If u not meeting me halfway you can step.
I SAID ALL THAT PERFECTLY !! 😂😂😂😂❤
These not women from the 50’60🤣😂they I N D E N P E N D A N T…thats they song they sing so let’s get🤣😂🤣😂🤣I’m not a simp
That question only pertains to a man in a tax bracket who can pay 100%. If you are not that man, then the answer is clearly NO!
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That man better go hustle up some Uber eats 😂
IF money didnt exist how would we be paying lol. it should be 100/100 from both parties, both parties sign a contract to COMBINE therefore everything must be equal.
We're so caught up in man's law/ways that we've forgotten nature's laws/regulations in MY opinion. A man can pay 100% all he wants, if he's no good, that money won't matter, same for a woman.
it's not the money, its the principle for lack of better terms. Also the prob is, both parties are not vetting each other properly.
I say a man SHOULD provide, yes, but all that taking advantage on the woman's behalf (her having bad intentions/being slick about it) is my problem.
My pov is just trying to envision a couple WITHOUT money. how would they balance out their duties then lol
If he/she dont have the money, we have EACH other! Thats a real couple to ME. fck these houses, mortagages, rent, all this man made crap. SURE we have it, im saying what about before money and mortgage?
If a women depends on me for money ONLY, she not real, she not the one, and she's a sell out.
Lol..💀
TGIF!!!! 😊
Good stuff lol
Cause you're gonna get a lot of hate here's a fool. Why would you put your presence out there like that in the first place?
The guy should pay for the date first. What? I say a coffee date because you're just trying to get to know her. Strictly a coffee date, do not take her out for a free lunch. Because that's how they use you for free food. So Coffee date is the way to go always.
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i'll pay 100% no attention. 💯
The 2 things that divides people the most in this world is money and politics.