People be wanting a serious relationship or marriage or even kids but they don’t want to put in the work it takes to have and maintain those things. Relationships/Marriages take effort. Just because he or she may be a good man or woman doesn’t mean they make a good husband or wife. Not everyone is equipped to be a good husband or wife! It’s takes selflessness, sacrifice, compromise, consistency, honesty and stability but everyone don’t have that in them 💯
I agree, I'm a good man and I think I'd be a good father but not a good husband. Women seem to want too much, I know I can't fulfill them, plus I don't want to be around them all the time. But kids are cute and cuddly so I wouldn't mind being with them for alot of the time.
I'm going to have to respectfully disagree. There's no amount of vetting that will catch every issue that a person is dealing with, because sometimes, that individual is not aware of it themselves; and sometimes... ... people are really good at hiding stuff! I would never carry the burden of blame for someone else's messed up past, even if it did have an effect on my life. I suppose, brother, that you and I should agree to disagree on this.
Great message Kendra! Yes, I always text my husband when I get to my destination with the name & address of the stores where I’m shopping. I also let him know which friends I’m with & where we’re going when we meet up for lunch/shopping. My circle is small, they’re married & one is engaged.
Very true. My favorite flex is the fact that my amazing man leads me. I love catering to him cuz that makes him look like a boss which in turn makes me look like a boss. We feed each other’s egos and I’m happy to say it. What’s sad is how close to you the people that shame you about relationship are to you. It’s hard having to fight your family to save your family.
No disrespect intended, but always keep in mind what The Godfather once said; "Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer!" In other words, the ones who are talking stuff about your relationship may be the exact ones who are trying to pull some snake shit behind your back to get what you got! Think about it!
@@kncox81 I have already cut those people off, so I get it. I was happy that I discovered KS for real after those relationships severed. Unfortunately it was after he passed tho. He really helps me get through.
Another good presentation. You have given me so much clarity into why my marriage failed. Not just my wife's role in it, but my role as well. Thank you.
Your not the problem and you likey wasn't the major problem in your marriage, Men fail and then re evaluate everything even ourselves females or these modern women on the other hand do not, it's likely you've grown immensely from that failed marriage and can have another marriage and be way more successful but your ex probably not! For some reason I don't think personal development is pushed for women like it is for men, in many red pill video men will talk about that but I don't hear women talk about it alot at all
For the record, in my many years of living. I have never ever heard a woman say: " I am praying to be a good wife. But I hear so many women say they want a good man. Its chaos and mayhem out here. I pray God rectifies
Mane!!!! You were getting it today!!!!! A lot of what you said today was something I was saying for years and when I said it people thought I was crazy! Thank you for letting me know that I wasn’t crazy and proving me right!
My Wife’s Father…. Yes Birth father gave her away to me and a few months later he unfortunately passed away 😔… So with that being said I’m forever honored and I pray I serve my wife well ..#My4PsAreForherTildeathdoUsPart🙏🏿✊🏿😎
Good video. It's not men or the patriarchy that many women have a problem with. It's the Most High and the structure and order that he has decreed that these women have a problem with.
Shalom Ach, That is the number 1 issue therefore not submitting to Yah, is direct disregard of the husband covering her in a spiritual covenant with him period.
@@pleasantd1 Shalom! It's like in the book of 1 Samuel. It wasn't Samuel that the people were rejecting when they asked for a king, it was the Most High...
@@erikoneal7932 That's right, But in this hr Yahs names is in the earth, the new song and judgement is being prepared....Ms. Crimson is the voice of wisdom for these women in the last moments to fill their lamp stands. I'm seeing the men of Yasharahla stand boldly seeking standards to please our El, reestablish the culture, and wanting Eve to submit so we can be a whole nation under Mashiach. I pray they get it together.
I’m so thankful as a man who knows he lost control, and divorce pushed me out of my family, this hits so close to home. But I promise to not give up and fight out of this
Shout out to you ms ❤ I'm really trying to put my 26 yr old daughter on to you because I ve been in her ears since pre teenager about how to move in society differently from her mother and grandmother. I lost my step daughter to the 304 lifestyle that destroyed her life at 17 and now at 32 got nothing for anyone to build on. My daughter already has 2 beautiful kids and 2 baby daddy's that I warned her about having unprotected sex with sucker's 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
You are 100% right. Just look at what happened to Shanquella Robinson, she went on a trip with a group of single women/men by herself but Shanquella Robinson had a boyfriend and didn't even bring him with her.
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns Probably because y'all BW don't like to listen to anyone and is exactly the reason why no one feels sorry for BW when something inhumane to them. This is incident is a prime example of BW being hard headed and disobedient. Why go to a foreign country with single people's when you're in a relationship??? But nevermind the "most educated" group of women fail again.🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
I'm glad that I saw my mother handling her marriage and corporate life. She had a good work life balance without much drama with my father. I'm leading my own family now with a solid foundation and teamwork.
PREACH!!!!!! I wish were here 10 years ago, It would have saved me so much trouble. You speak the truth. It blows my mind when women are married or have partners yet still want attention from other men, etc. I really believe many women don't want to keep and maintain a man. They just want to brag and say they have one or they were able to get one. They could care less about pleasing him, keeping him, submitting to him, and listening to him.
A friends wife felt like reporting their whereabouts was toxic. They had a morning argument and he left on his motorcycle only to wreck and die 20 minutes away. The police notified the wife later that day about her husband. She recalled seeing the accident in the morning while driving by to work and didn't know it was her husband on the ground.
@12:02- You already defiling the privacy and sanctity of marriage by not being a virgin or being given away by your father or family's...Whewww!! I felt that!! Sheesh!
Majority of Black Women will submit to Women who controls her life. They have to fit in with them because they don't want to get talked about. A Woman fears that losing a Girlfriend is more important than having a Husband
"Why?" Because single women keep women single! Listening to her single "friend" over her husband caused me to "strongly encourage" my wife to "relocate!" Then, not long after wife was gone, her "friend" tried to date me!
Sister, You're going over their heads. Your words are a breath of fresh air and you speak to uplift but too many of them will see it as you are bashing versus you are trying to teach.
Facts. They cannot handle the sacrifice and submission of self to Another that the role of wife entails. Once they find that they have to do for others other than their children, it becomes too tasking and they start to feel like something had been done to them or taken from them. The idea of selflessness is anathema to them.
I felt that last sigh Ms Crimson lol. Gone ahead and get into it! COOK! 😁... But yeah, for real when you were getting ready to make that last point about not being able to handle the load. Shoot most can barely handle anything at all... What? You lost your job?!?!? Divorce. What? You don't know how to remodel a whole entire bathroom?!?!? Divorce. What? You have to work overtime again to pay for this house we live in and food we eat and utilities we use all the time?!?!? Divorce. What? U said hi to me?!?!?!? Divorce. Lol, for a woman thay never wanted to make it work in the first place... it takes very little for them to want out
AS A MARRIED WOMAN I DESIRE TO HAVE COMPANIONS WHOM ARE ALSO MARRIED,SO I WENT TO THE LORD IN PRAYER ABOUT IT AND BEING PATIENT AS HE ANSWERS ON HIS TIME,BECAUSE IT'S PERFECT!
Any womyn that wants to challenge you on you making sure you are safe with any of that moden F-ism nonsense. It's time to set them free to wreakless ways.
Remember , You can lead a hoarse to water but you can't make him drink. It's not your job to make him drink , it's your job to make him thirsty , then he will want the water himself .
According to the bible , a wife's submission to her husband reflects her relationship with God. I've heard women say I just can't submit to this man and say that they love God and obey his word , which is a jezrbel lie.
My Grandmother, my Mother and her sister's ALL FLUNKED the 4 issues listed that the woman in the video made mention of......They ALL we're miserable FAILURES ect. And NONE of them saw their marriages to the end.
@10:50, met many of women in my single days who could not could not wait to tell me what they weren’t going to do or what they weren’t going to put up with. One women in particular I finely had to ask “Okay you have outlined clearly what I can’t expect with you or do to you. You also have made it pretty plain what you want from me. But what exactly are you going to do for me?”. When I said that you could have heard a mouse pee on cotton. It seems it never occurred to her to have a pitch about her value as a women beyond sexual matters. Her lack of a tangible answer was the beginning of the end.
When a married woman display your sexuality to the public it's synonymous to a fisher man who keep using his bait to fish for other fishes. Her sexuality is like a metaphorical bait and it shouldn't have anymore purpose except for the bedroom. If a married woman still flaunting her sexuality for the world to see then she's still interested in catching more fish (metaphorically men). A married woman shouldn't be dressing provocatively for the public to see that should be exclusive to the bedroom. I wish more Black women could received (understand & except) Crimson Cure wealth of knowledge. It'll be beautiful if these words could reach the ears of every Black women.
I agree to the extent of a good foundation for the relationship . However each relatinship is idivisualized and we do what nessary to maintain peace in our proper roles.......im continually developing in my marriage , however everything dont work for everyone ...... I said enough.... .....thank you for the video T always look forward to them She said "allow the man to lead she didnt say let ......
According to the official record of our time in captivity in America (450 years), BWs had no duties as wives and mothers, except since 1865. Unlike all other women, BWs were not held to any sexual morality at all. She only have one duty - serve the white man. Whatever he desires of them is right, and every one else was irrelevant. So, is it really all that surprising that zaddy's system was the "best fit" for them? The morality alone makes zaddy's system, especially the plantation model, is her 1st choice of life. The fact they admire and fear them as gods (the formula for reverence) is why they can give their very best in serving them, even if only as concubines. We only need accept they chose their lifestyles centuries ago, and we can get along with them with far less friction by never attempting to challenge or deter them. We still have to defend against the BM slanders, but if you see them as WM servants with our biological contributions, you can experience them like all other races of men. No reflection on them, just entertainment and other sefl exploitation opportunities. Peace and patience BM... by 2025 the BW arguments should be all but tucked away, and life will have opened up for BM who have successfully defeated the sex/mating embargoes against us. It's all about our demise brothers, and it really doesn't matter how "justified" our enemies feel, you either accept your sentencing, or you keep your sacred duty to keep your race/lineage alive and viable.
I've seen the effects of feminism! My mother LORD REST HER SOUL (FEB 2, 1938 TO MARCH 27, 2021), I REALLY MISS HER, TAUGHT ME AND MY BROTHERS THE ART OF SELF MAINTENANCE, HOME CARE, COOKING, CLEANING, SEWING, IRONING, LAUNDRY, AT A YOUNG AGE ( BY AGE 7 WE WERE COOKING FULL MEALS, SOUL FOOD! MOM'S DIDN'T GO FOR THE FEMINISM, BECAUSE SHE SAID THEM BIOTCHES ARE CRAZY. THEY THINK THEY CAN BE MEN, BUT THE LORD SAID OTHERWISE. SHE DIDN'T ACCEPT WELFARE, SHE GOT OUT THERE AND WORKED, UNTIL SHE GOT MARRIED, AGAIN!
It’s interesting video title! and it makes more sense as I have grown… forgive my grammar because I’m pouring out my heart….unfortunately woman in today’s society and culture are so masculinized but we strive to maintain an appearance or image of femininity without the time and resources to embody it… we are performing the exact duties of a husband and our brothers and males in the society, we labor for our children and family we go out to work for longer than normal hours we labor extensively in our fragile female bodies, give orders,teach, priorities work, cook ,clean, laundry, lift, bend,carry heavy loads mentally and physically do you think we have time for a man ??? Lmao especially one who is unsatisfied with how we perform??? My God my God we are so unstable because of the estrogen or lack of estrogen we are so unstable because of our hormones our adrenals are burning out cortisol is spiking, mineral deficiencies sleep deprivation lack of sleep lack of stability and security pushing everyday to make ends meet plus no one taught us what it is to be a wife we are still learning this and every man we have dated leaves us more confused we want to submit but can’t find a man we can trust with our heart and possessions to believe he is more capable to do better than what we already do alone
Thank you very much for this posting. Sadly I'm getting my passport and heading for Brazil. I still want a woman of African heritage but with wholesome family values. As much as Possible would love to find a quality woman here, the probability of such is so astounding as to not even be worth the pursuit.
This is why im so stuck on a man being "ready" for marriage after 30 or 35. I thought I wanted a wife & that whole life but I wanted the bottle more. Still immature at 26 yo when I got hitched.
My soon be ex wife said, " and ye thats another reason I dont want to be in a relationship, I want to be able to dress how I wana dress without worrying about offending somebody, what's appropriate and what's not, it's just too much pressure I'm a grown woman". I couldn't believe that was an excuse smh Marriage is "too much pressure" she says. And she's right. Being a single mother must be a hell of alot easier 🤷♂️
I just want to see something real quick comment if this was your experience growing up: So imagine you’re a kid right and both mommy and daddy has to work. Daddy gets to come home and just do him. Mommy has to come home clean cook make sure you’re taken care make sure the clothes are clean make sure dad is taken care of mommy is spending time with you mommy is the one that disciplines you lol I’d the one teaching you.mommy is the one buying you clothes going grocery shopping running errands buying you things mommy is the one who goes to your school meetings and make sure you’re good in school mommy is the predominant one in your life leading protecting and teaching and providing you through childhood into adulthood. Basically being raised by a married single mother
@5:30. What most modern women forget is that when a woman disappears her boyfriend or husband is the primary suspect. A man who can’t provide the authorities with a possible last location for his woman looks suspicious as hell.
What that woman is describing & teaching is called "Leading from Behind". Cowhands do this when they DRIVE Cattle to Markets. It never goes well for that HERD. (Com.165)
People be wanting a serious relationship or marriage or even kids but they don’t want to put in the work it takes to have and maintain those things. Relationships/Marriages take effort. Just because he or she may be a good man or woman doesn’t mean they make a good husband or wife. Not everyone is equipped to be a good husband or wife! It’s takes selflessness, sacrifice, compromise, consistency, honesty and stability but everyone don’t have that in them 💯
You’re absolutely Rt with the selflessness 😂😂😂😂
It is NOT for the weak or faint of heart!
I agree, I'm a good man and I think I'd be a good father but not a good husband. Women seem to want too much, I know I can't fulfill them, plus I don't want to be around them all the time. But kids are cute and cuddly so I wouldn't mind being with them for alot of the time.
Very well said, Madam!!! 👊👊✊✊👏👏👏🙏🙏
Yet folks get criticized when they aren’t living that marriage, having kids life.
A mans wife is a reflection of his principles and standards. How a wife carries herself tells a story about her man without him present.
That's why men leave when the story isn't correctly told
Would love to have another chance @ marriage. With the correct answer this time though.📚
So, if the wife goes off the deep end because of something that happened before she ever met her husband, it's HIS fault?
@@mr.dennis5503 at the end of the day it’s your choice so ultimately it’s your responsibility.
I'm going to have to respectfully disagree. There's no amount of vetting that will catch every issue that a person is dealing with, because sometimes, that individual is not aware of it themselves; and sometimes...
... people are really good at hiding stuff! I would never carry the burden of blame for someone else's messed up past, even if it did have an effect on my life. I suppose, brother, that you and I should agree to disagree on this.
You should start a wife school! Our community is in dire need of it.
This the MF'N ONE.!
As a man, I wouldn't mind a husband school myself
We have also etiquette classes!
I'm attending
“Put your D’ away” 🤣 😂. KS was a character indeed
They have penis envy like no other.
Great message Kendra! Yes, I always text my husband when I get to my destination with the name & address of the stores where I’m shopping. I also let him know which friends I’m with & where we’re going when we meet up for lunch/shopping. My circle is small, they’re married & one is engaged.
Very true. My favorite flex is the fact that my amazing man leads me. I love catering to him cuz that makes him look like a boss which in turn makes me look like a boss. We feed each other’s egos and I’m happy to say it. What’s sad is how close to you the people that shame you about relationship are to you. It’s hard having to fight your family to save your family.
💯
Good for you.
Catering to someone doesnt make you look like a boss, love what you said overall but that was goofy
No disrespect intended, but always keep in mind what The Godfather once said; "Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer!" In other words, the ones who are talking stuff about your relationship may be the exact ones who are trying to pull some snake shit behind your back to get what you got! Think about it!
@@kncox81 I have already cut those people off, so I get it. I was happy that I discovered KS for real after those relationships severed. Unfortunately it was after he passed tho. He really helps me get through.
This video should be watched during marriage counseling.
Another good presentation. You have given me so much clarity into why my marriage failed. Not just my wife's role in it, but my role as well. Thank you.
Your not the problem and you likey wasn't the major problem in your marriage, Men fail and then re evaluate everything even ourselves females or these modern women on the other hand do not, it's likely you've grown immensely from that failed marriage and can have another marriage and be way more successful but your ex probably not! For some reason I don't think personal development is pushed for women like it is for men, in many red pill video men will talk about that but I don't hear women talk about it alot at all
@@19floyed Thanks for the encouraging words.
For the record, in my many years of living. I have never ever heard a woman say: " I am praying to be a good wife. But I hear so many women say they want a good man. Its chaos and mayhem out here. I pray God rectifies
Exactly! Far too many are focused on finding the right person, when God's will is clear: We must focus on BEING the right person!
Mane!!!! You were getting it today!!!!! A lot of what you said today was something I was saying for years and when I said it people thought I was crazy! Thank you for letting me know that I wasn’t crazy and proving me right!
Many of them JUST want the "Ceremony!" NOT the responsibilities that come with marriage!!!
My Wife’s Father…. Yes Birth father gave her away to me and a few months later he unfortunately passed away 😔… So with that being said I’m forever honored and I pray I serve my wife well ..#My4PsAreForherTildeathdoUsPart🙏🏿✊🏿😎
Good video. It's not men or the patriarchy that many women have a problem with. It's the Most High and the structure and order that he has decreed that these women have a problem with.
Shalom Ach, That is the number 1 issue therefore not submitting to Yah, is direct disregard of the husband covering her in a spiritual covenant with him period.
@@pleasantd1 Shalom! It's like in the book of 1 Samuel. It wasn't Samuel that the people were rejecting when they asked for a king, it was the
Most High...
@@erikoneal7932 That's right, But in this hr Yahs names is in the earth, the new song and judgement is being prepared....Ms. Crimson is the voice of wisdom for these women in the last moments to fill their lamp stands. I'm seeing the men of Yasharahla stand boldly seeking standards to please our El, reestablish the culture, and wanting Eve to submit so we can be a whole nation under Mashiach. I pray they get it together.
@@shayemoore Be specific when you say men of Yah are breaking Torah law when it comes to his precepts. What are you speaking to directly?
@@shayemoore Shalom Achot I perceive you're on the wrong platform. The Maciach return is soon upon us beloved. Thank you for answering.
I’m so thankful as a man who knows he lost control, and divorce pushed me out of my family, this hits so close to home. But I promise to not give up and fight out of this
You're not alone. Haven't seen my kids in 2yrs.
@@sifundo77 I stand with you 🙏🏾
Divorce pushed you out? 😂🤣😂🤣 that's a new one 😂🤣😂🤣
@@areyourhandsbrokelol
Shout out to you ms ❤ I'm really trying to put my 26 yr old daughter on to you because I ve been in her ears since pre teenager about how to move in society differently from her mother and grandmother. I lost my step daughter to the 304 lifestyle that destroyed her life at 17 and now at 32 got nothing for anyone to build on. My daughter already has 2 beautiful kids and 2 baby daddy's that I warned her about having unprotected sex with sucker's 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
Kendra you’re absolutely on point. Point blank period 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
You are 100% right. Just look at what happened to Shanquella Robinson, she went on a trip with a group of single women/men by herself but Shanquella Robinson had a boyfriend and didn't even bring him with her.
The point of bringing this up?
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns You can't be this is stupid🤦🏾♂️
@@booneboone9705 Nothing stupid about it. Why didn't her father and mother train her? A boyfriend can only do so much!
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns Probably because y'all BW don't like to listen to anyone and is exactly the reason why no one feels sorry for BW when something inhumane to them. This is incident is a prime example of BW being hard headed and disobedient. Why go to a foreign country with single people's when you're in a relationship??? But nevermind the "most educated" group of women fail again.🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
@@booneboone9705 Do men listen either when tell them as opposed to nagging him with commend sense?
I'm glad that I saw my mother handling her marriage and corporate life. She had a good work life balance without much drama with my father. I'm leading my own family now with a solid foundation and teamwork.
What if a man isn't a good leader?
God bless this woman! Her mind and presence is a necessity 🙏🏾
PREACH!!!!!! I wish were here 10 years ago, It would have saved me so much trouble. You speak the truth. It blows my mind when women are married or have partners yet still want attention from other men, etc. I really believe many women don't want to keep and maintain a man. They just want to brag and say they have one or they were able to get one. They could care less about pleasing him, keeping him, submitting to him, and listening to him.
This is so true
"if you're in your masculine-hyena-back footed energy...." I can't with you Kendra! LOL
I love you my sister! Thank you for expressing so much of what men feel and have to go through in this day and tine.
A friends wife felt like reporting their whereabouts was toxic. They had a morning argument and he left on his motorcycle only to wreck and die 20 minutes away. The police notified the wife later that day about her husband. She recalled seeing the accident in the morning while driving by to work and didn't know it was her husband on the ground.
@12:02- You already defiling the privacy and sanctity of marriage by not being a virgin or being given away by your father or family's...Whewww!! I felt that!! Sheesh!
Majority of Black Women will submit to Women who controls her life. They have to fit in with them because they don't want to get talked about. A Woman fears that losing a Girlfriend is more important than having a Husband
sAD BUT TRUE
That's why most won't ever experience walking down the aisle.
Why?
@@mstwelvedeadlycynsthey’re bred to be sex machines and think backwards
"Why?"
Because single women keep women single! Listening to her single "friend" over her husband caused me to "strongly encourage" my wife to "relocate!" Then, not long after wife was gone, her "friend" tried to date me!
Sister,
You're going over their heads.
Your words are a breath of fresh air and you speak to uplift but too many of them will see it as you are bashing versus you are trying to teach.
Productive teaching doesn't normally include name calling and insults.
Really hit the bullseye 🎯 with this one. It's as though you have looked into my mind and extracted my thoughts.
Facts. They cannot handle the sacrifice and submission of self to Another that the role of wife entails.
Once they find that they have to do for others other than their children, it becomes too tasking and they start to feel like something had been done to them or taken from them.
The idea of selflessness is anathema to them.
@@shayemoore thanks for fixing this 🚶🏾♀️
FACTS 💯
It says in our vows "Till death do us part"...if you didn't accomplish that you failed!.
I felt that last sigh Ms Crimson lol. Gone ahead and get into it! COOK! 😁... But yeah, for real when you were getting ready to make that last point about not being able to handle the load. Shoot most can barely handle anything at all... What? You lost your job?!?!? Divorce. What? You don't know how to remodel a whole entire bathroom?!?!? Divorce. What? You have to work overtime again to pay for this house we live in and food we eat and utilities we use all the time?!?!? Divorce. What? U said hi to me?!?!?!? Divorce. Lol, for a woman thay never wanted to make it work in the first place... it takes very little for them to want out
Thank you, @Crimson Cure ! A good Woman (Wife) doesnt INTERFERE, with her Man's Leadership !👍💪
This Sistah's wisdom is off the scales...🙏🏾
Thank you. A man (a true man) has to make the decision for everything and everything. Which sometimes it sucks.
And to rest of your points, been in those situation with my relationships, why must always explain myself, over and over. No more.
Is this you asking me to talk to you on telegram?
Great conversation. Straight up jelly back ,is Hallrious. However it was the truth. Solid cooking. One Love !!
That woman’s body belongs to her husband and his body belongs to her.
Excellent content and work ethic CC! Thanks for all you do
I like this 1000 times. Keep informing them my sister.
AS A MARRIED WOMAN I DESIRE TO HAVE COMPANIONS WHOM ARE ALSO MARRIED,SO I WENT TO THE LORD IN PRAYER ABOUT IT AND BEING PATIENT AS HE ANSWERS ON HIS TIME,BECAUSE IT'S PERFECT!
Any womyn that wants to challenge you on you making sure you are safe with any of that moden F-ism nonsense. It's time to set them free to wreakless ways.
Wise words beautiful sister...love your common sense...
All I can say sister is three words, dam, dam Dam😢😢😂 on point again.
AGREE 💯‼️
Remember , You can lead a hoarse to water but you can't make him drink. It's not your job to make him drink , it's your job to make him thirsty , then he will want the water himself .
Hyenas think their submission is like Bonny and Clyde and Ghost from power. That's dirt D Tyrone.
@Let's talk on Telegram 👉@CrimsonCure thank you 😊 for responding.
& TRUTH
Vital information Ms Kendra. 🌷
According to the bible , a wife's submission to her husband reflects her relationship with God. I've heard women say I just can't submit to this man and say that they love God and obey his word , which is a jezrbel lie.
And I've heard men say they just want sex sandwiches and silence from a woman which is not loving her like god said he should and also a jezebel lie.
GREAT TALKING POINTS MA'AM AS USUAL MA'AM 👍🏾💯🌄
My Grandmother, my Mother and her sister's ALL FLUNKED the 4 issues listed that the woman in the video made mention of......They ALL we're miserable FAILURES ect. And NONE of them saw their marriages to the end.
Social Engineering/Government involvement is the absolute true reason
2:59-3:09 Right Kendra….a real man don’t play dat dumb shit…
@10:50, met many of women in my single days who could not could not wait to tell me what they weren’t going to do or what they weren’t going to put up with.
One women in particular I finely had to ask “Okay you have outlined clearly what I can’t expect with you or do to you. You also have made it pretty plain what you want from me. But what exactly are you going to do for me?”. When I said that you could have heard a mouse pee on cotton. It seems it never occurred to her to have a pitch about her value as a women beyond sexual matters. Her lack of a tangible answer was the beginning of the end.
Tia Lowry is an example for why black men are ✈️
How can you say that when you have NO clue what was going on behind close doors at their home.
I AM NOT ASHAMED.
IF your husband is happy 😃 and you know it, clap your hands 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😂
When a married woman display your sexuality to the public it's synonymous to a fisher man who keep using his bait to fish for other fishes. Her sexuality is like a metaphorical bait and it shouldn't have anymore purpose except for the bedroom. If a married woman still flaunting her sexuality for the world to see then she's still interested in catching more fish (metaphorically men). A married woman shouldn't be dressing provocatively for the public to see that should be exclusive to the bedroom. I wish more Black women could received (understand & except) Crimson Cure wealth of knowledge. It'll be beautiful if these words could reach the ears of every Black women.
This video is 💯
I agree to the extent of a good foundation for the relationship . However each relatinship is idivisualized and we do what nessary to maintain peace in our proper roles.......im continually developing in my marriage , however everything dont work for everyone ......
I said enough.... .....thank you for the video T always look forward to them
She said "allow the man to lead she didnt say let ......
According to the official record of our time in captivity in America (450 years), BWs had no duties as wives and mothers, except since 1865.
Unlike all other women, BWs were not held to any sexual morality at all. She only have one duty - serve the white man. Whatever he desires of them is right, and every one else was irrelevant.
So, is it really all that surprising that zaddy's system was the "best fit" for them? The morality alone makes zaddy's system, especially the plantation model, is her 1st choice of life.
The fact they admire and fear them as gods (the formula for reverence) is why they can give their very best in serving them, even if only as concubines.
We only need accept they chose their lifestyles centuries ago, and we can get along with them with far less friction by never attempting to challenge or deter them.
We still have to defend against the BM slanders, but if you see them as WM servants with our biological contributions, you can experience them like all other races of men. No reflection on them, just entertainment and other sefl exploitation opportunities.
Peace and patience BM... by 2025 the BW arguments should be all but tucked away, and life will have opened up for BM who have successfully defeated the sex/mating embargoes against us.
It's all about our demise brothers, and it really doesn't matter how "justified" our enemies feel, you either accept your sentencing, or you keep your sacred duty to keep your race/lineage alive and viable.
Peacock with the feathers is the male.
I've seen the effects of feminism! My mother LORD REST HER SOUL (FEB 2, 1938 TO MARCH 27, 2021), I REALLY MISS HER, TAUGHT ME AND MY BROTHERS THE ART OF SELF MAINTENANCE, HOME CARE, COOKING, CLEANING, SEWING, IRONING, LAUNDRY, AT A YOUNG AGE ( BY AGE 7 WE WERE COOKING FULL MEALS, SOUL FOOD! MOM'S DIDN'T GO FOR THE FEMINISM, BECAUSE SHE SAID THEM BIOTCHES ARE CRAZY. THEY THINK THEY CAN BE MEN, BUT THE LORD SAID OTHERWISE. SHE DIDN'T ACCEPT WELFARE, SHE GOT OUT THERE AND WORKED, UNTIL SHE GOT MARRIED, AGAIN!
Truth!!
The BW I dated didn't appreciate protection nor my leadership qualities, I fired they asses on the spot!👋 🥶🥶
@@shayemoore 😂🤣🤦🏽♂️
Another great honest Video💯🎯
It’s interesting video title! and it makes more sense as I have grown… forgive my grammar because I’m pouring out my heart….unfortunately woman in today’s society and culture are so masculinized but we strive to maintain an appearance or image of femininity without the time and resources to embody it… we are performing the exact duties of a husband and our brothers and males in the society, we labor for our children and family we go out to work for longer than normal hours we labor extensively in our fragile female bodies, give orders,teach, priorities work, cook ,clean, laundry, lift, bend,carry heavy loads mentally and physically do you think we have time for a man ??? Lmao especially one who is unsatisfied with how we perform??? My God my God we are so unstable because of the estrogen or lack of estrogen we are so unstable because of our hormones our adrenals are burning out cortisol is spiking, mineral deficiencies sleep deprivation lack of sleep lack of stability and security pushing everyday to make ends meet plus no one taught us what it is to be a wife we are still learning this and every man we have dated leaves us more confused we want to submit but can’t find a man we can trust with our heart and possessions to believe he is more capable to do better than what we already do alone
Great content for couples to view and later discuss.
Woman submits to their boss submits to their friends ect ect. Men and women submits to the higher power.
Thank you very much for this posting.
Sadly I'm getting my passport and heading for Brazil. I still want a woman of African heritage but with wholesome family values.
As much as Possible would love to find a quality woman here, the probability of such is so astounding as to not even be worth the pursuit.
Great broadcast!!
The fact that this woman can come to the innanett twice a day and have teachable conversations about your woman lets you know that this 💩 is “OVER”!….
Lol yup.
Sho you right!
Kendra! You look GREAT!!! Love your glasses! Get it Gurl!!! I agree with you 1000%
A leader don't need permission, to lead.
This is why I'm afraid to get married 🤷♂️
This is why im so stuck on a man being "ready" for marriage after 30 or 35. I thought I wanted a wife & that whole life but I wanted the bottle more. Still immature at 26 yo when I got hitched.
I'm always stunned, when I get to the comment section, at the number of people who don't know how to spell, or conjugate a verb...
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Modern women want a wedding, not a marriage.
We need an interview with yu and Sista Sharazad Ali
Cooked to perfection!! As usual! ~klb~
My soon be ex wife said, " and ye thats another reason I dont want to be in a relationship, I want to be able to dress how I wana dress without worrying about offending somebody, what's appropriate and what's not, it's just too much pressure I'm a grown woman".
I couldn't believe that was an excuse smh
Marriage is "too much pressure" she says. And she's right. Being a single mother must be a hell of alot easier 🤷♂️
Yep if you don't trust his leadership why are you there 💯💯💯
The old ways were the best
I just want to see something real quick comment if this was your experience growing up:
So imagine you’re a kid right and both mommy and daddy has to work. Daddy gets to come home and just do him. Mommy has to come home clean cook make sure you’re taken care make sure the clothes are clean make sure dad is taken care of mommy is spending time with you mommy is the one that disciplines you lol I’d the one teaching you.mommy is the one buying you clothes going grocery shopping running errands buying you things mommy is the one who goes to your school meetings and make sure you’re good in school mommy is the predominant one in your life leading protecting and teaching and providing you through childhood into adulthood. Basically being raised by a married single mother
A lot of people can relate
Daddy just chilling, nice work if you can get it
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Real talk.
U.need to open a school for black women to teach them u r full of wisdom
@5:30. What most modern women forget is that when a woman disappears her boyfriend or husband is the primary suspect. A man who can’t provide the authorities with a possible last location for his woman looks suspicious as hell.
As a black man, its gotten to the point where I don't even compliment because they see this as WEAK.
Shame needs to come back in style. I’m tired of this over-sexualizing of women.
My sister you are a Goddess
What that woman is describing & teaching is called "Leading from Behind".
Cowhands do this when they DRIVE Cattle to Markets.
It never goes well for that HERD.
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Sounds like Tia Mowry to me 🤨🤨🤨🤨😡😡😡😡
What are the 4 P's again? Protect, Provide, Professing, and Promise-keeper or Problem Solver? Tfs
Procreate.
you right love
Tia is for the highway
Someone please listen to this wise sister.. even in her seriousness she still exudes femininity and it’s highly magnetic to a man.
10:32 no love for the hyenas..
If you say "do that again "guarantee she will laugh and refuse.
What a woman.