things that helped me go from GIRLHOOD to WOMANHOOD | fem energy, being unapologetic, healing & more

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  • Опубликовано: 22 окт 2024
  • Hi my loves! In today's video I give you my tips and advice that helped me move from grilhood into womanhood. I discuss things like healing your inner child, external validation, learning to trust yourself, balancing feminine and masculine energy, cycle syncing and more!
    my cycle syncing video • take care of yourself ...
    everything you're getting wrong with feminine energy • everything you're gett...
    rough timestamps
    02:05 healing journey
    12:50 living life unapologetic
    22:48 balancing masculine & feminine energy
    34:07 no quick fixes & living in the present
    The glow up secrets podcast channel @theglowupsecretspodcast
    Link to all my favourite beauty, skincare, clothes & wellness products on LTK www.shopltk.co...
    Work with me 1:1 shop.beacons.a...
    My heal to manifest & inner child discovery journal prompt guides beacons.ai/the...
    My book recommendations amzn.to/3AOnJuO
    Discount Codes candr.link/l/k...
    My audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: candr.link/the...
    Business inquiries ? eliciagoguen123@gmail.com (please do not send your advice questions to this email)

Комментарии • 108

  • @eliciagoguen
    @eliciagoguen  Год назад +27

    Filiming another video on cycle syncing for busy girls/the ones who feel overwhelmed with the topic!! What else on the topic of womanhood would you like me to discuss ? ❤

    • @dejarashida
      @dejarashida Год назад +1

      have you thought about doing hormone tests? i have started and am finding it so helpful for better understanding the personal nuances of my cycle. i think that'll be a fun video and an interesting conversation

    • @David-bv6xz
      @David-bv6xz Год назад

      In the name of Allah, I invite you to worship Allah alone, so say, I bear witness that there is no god but Allah, and I bear witness that Muhammad the Messenger of Allah. This is how I entered Islam. Read about our Prophet Muhammad, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, whom Allah sent as a mercy to the worlds, to keep us away from Hell and admit us to Paradise by following him, Allah willing, as he is a prophet of the end of time. .. .. And the Seal of the Prophets and Messengers ............ .......... ............ .............

    • @shaniyadunchie
      @shaniyadunchie Год назад

      Hi Elicia, I would love to hear about being submissive to your man and taking constructive criticism

    • @David-bv6xz
      @David-bv6xz Год назад

      @@shaniyadunchie In the name of Allah, I invite you to worship Allah alone, so say, I bear witness that there is no god but Allah, and I bear witness that Muhammad the Messenger of Allah. This is how I entered Islam. Read about our Prophet Muhammad, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, whom Allah sent as a mercy to the worlds, to keep us away from Hell and admit us to Paradise by following him, Allah willing, as he is a prophet of the end of time. .. .. And the Seal of the Prophets and Messengers ........... ................ ........... ...........

  • @khaliabynum3911
    @khaliabynum3911 Год назад +62

    Not going to lie I was just thinking about this topic. I'm 20 yo and I trying to visualize what kind of woman I want to be, but this definitely gave a blueprint. ❤❤😊

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +8

      This makes me so happy 🥹🥹🥹

    • @David-bv6xz
      @David-bv6xz Год назад

      In the name of Allah, I invite you to worship Allah alone, so say, I bear witness that there is no god but Allah, and I bear witness that Muhammad the Messenger of Allah. This is how I entered Islam. Read about our Prophet Muhammad, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, whom Allah sent as a mercy to the worlds, to keep us away from Hell and admit us to Paradise by following him, Allah willing, as he is a prophet of the end of time. .. .. And the Seal of the Prophets and Messengers ............ .......... ............ .............

  • @allyjoyce
    @allyjoyce 9 месяцев назад +1

    I missed out on going from adolescence to an adult because when I was 17 I ended up really sick and in and out of hospital for the next 6 years. My friends from school had gone to university which was my plan but I suddenly had to be a 23 yr old woman but I still identified as a teenage girl. Anyway, I’m 34 now, married and happy - from watching your videos and going to therapy etc. I have finally grown up and call myself a woman. Thanks so much, Elicia for your amazing content x

  • @jennaswanson34
    @jennaswanson34 Год назад +35

    Your videos always come at the best times! I said to my therapist not too long ago “Im 24, I want to start feeling like a woman” I am a woman, now I want to embrace her and feel that energy 100%

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +4

      I LOVE THIS 🥹🥰

    • @David-bv6xz
      @David-bv6xz Год назад

      In the name of Allah, I invite you to worship Allah alone, so say, I bear witness that there is no god but Allah, and I bear witness that Muhammad the Messenger of Allah. This is how I entered Islam. Read about our Prophet Muhammad, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, whom Allah sent as a mercy to the worlds, to keep us away from Hell and admit us to Paradise by following him, Allah willing, as he is a prophet of the end of time. .. .. And the Seal of the Prophets and Messengers ............ .......... ............ .............

  • @Brothisisprivate
    @Brothisisprivate Год назад +43

    Girl It’s absolutely crazy, since i’ve been following you, you always post videos about an issue I have or something I think about. I love how the universe work. I wanna work in a luxury brand and it’s the good moment to move from girlhood to womanhood !

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +2

      Girrrrrl you got this 😍😍😍

  • @Billy33753
    @Billy33753 Год назад +25

    Love when you talked about quick fixes . When something good happens it takes time

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +5

      Yes yes!!

    • @David-bv6xz
      @David-bv6xz Год назад

      In the name of Allah, I invite you to worship Allah alone, so say, I bear witness that there is no god but Allah, and I bear witness that Muhammad the Messenger of Allah. This is how I entered Islam. Read about our Prophet Muhammad, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, whom Allah sent as a mercy to the worlds, to keep us away from Hell and admit us to Paradise by following him, Allah willing, as he is a prophet of the end of time. .. .. And the Seal of the Prophets and Messengers ............ .......... ............ .............

  • @trupthijc
    @trupthijc Год назад +13

    im in my healing era rn and girl you play a huge part in me achieving even the smallest of achievements. today marks the one month of me beginning my self love journey and im so grateful for u. im doing better and i really thought I wouldn't see this day. one day, when im fully healed i know ill look back to the day i found out ab u and be so goddamn happy. lots of love

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +3

      Oh my goshhh this is so incredible and I am so unbelievably proud of you 🥰 love you so much 🥹🫶🏼🫶🏼

    • @David-bv6xz
      @David-bv6xz Год назад

      In the name of Allah, I invite you to worship Allah alone, so say, I bear witness that there is no god but Allah, and I bear witness that Muhammad the Messenger of Allah. This is how I entered Islam. Read about our Prophet Muhammad, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, whom Allah sent as a mercy to the worlds, to keep us away from Hell and admit us to Paradise by following him, Allah willing, as he is a prophet of the end of time. .. .. And the Seal of the Prophets and Messengers ............ .......... ............ .............

  • @helenmorgan9578
    @helenmorgan9578 Год назад +10

    I’m 43 and after 7 years of healing and shadow work,including watching your videos which I absolutely love, I finally feel like a woman ❤

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +2

      This makes me so happy for you, oh my gosh 🥺🥰❤️

  • @lunar3n
    @lunar3n Год назад +2

    girl you always go deeper than other content creators who talk about womanhood, self help, feminine energy, etc.. i love it. so many people in this niche of youtube are low key just perpetuating patriarchal standards through new language and the guise of being empowering. but you actually see these energies as archetypal and you see the nuances!!

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +1

      I really appreciate this, thank you 🥹🥰🤍

  • @ridingthewavesz
    @ridingthewavesz Год назад +6

    Literally one of the only RUclipsrs representing 1995!!!! Yesss girl, share your wisdom and be that sister we all love and need ❤❤❤❤

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +1

      Omg yes!!!! Thank you babes 🥹🥹

  • @deannamcclease978
    @deannamcclease978 10 месяцев назад

    I enjoy that you sit and chit chat rather than rush through your content. I personally play your videos to get motivated while I’m either getting ready for work or cleaning my place, so it gives the vibes of a Bestie GRWM Chat!

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  10 месяцев назад +1

      Omg thank you for saying this 🥹🤍

    • @keino181
      @keino181 4 месяца назад

      i agree !

  • @aparnaagarwal9075
    @aparnaagarwal9075 Год назад +3

    Omg omg omg!!!! You actually made a video about what i commented? Thanks!!! I'll watch it when I get back from school. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ceciadovana5971
    @ceciadovana5971 Год назад +6

    I'm 28 and I still feel like a frickin teenager. Thank you for these tips, I'll try them out, hoping it works for me 🤞

  • @Xo_Chante__
    @Xo_Chante__ Год назад +4

    You made so many great point on the little girl inside of us. I am allowing her to guide me much more these days. Great video. ❤

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +1

      Thank you my love 🥰 glad you liked it 🤍

  • @BiraciallyUnfiltered
    @BiraciallyUnfiltered Год назад +3

    Let’s Go!! Spiritual Baddie love seeing you elevate 🤎🤍🦋🥹🔮

  • @MultiParallelGirl
    @MultiParallelGirl Год назад +4

    Just...thank you so much. Your videos are really helping me and guiding me as I feel like I'm finally allowing myself to become a woman, learning what it means to be in this body AS A WOMAN. It's still hard to keep insecurities and self hate in check.. but I am on my way to being a strong beautiful woman. Thank you so much.

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +2

      Awwww my HEART 🥹 you’re so welcome 🥰

    • @David-bv6xz
      @David-bv6xz Год назад

      In the name of Allah, I invite you to worship Allah alone, so say, I bear witness that there is no god but Allah, and I bear witness that Muhammad the Messenger of Allah. This is how I entered Islam. Read about our Prophet Muhammad, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, whom Allah sent as a mercy to the worlds, to keep us away from Hell and admit us to Paradise by following him, Allah willing, as he is a prophet of the end of time. .. .. And the Seal of the Prophets and Messengers ............ .......... ............ .............

    • @MultiParallelGirl
      @MultiParallelGirl Год назад

      @@eliciagoguen and then I find out you have a podcast too??? I've been listening to that at work and it helps me remember keep patience and grace throughout the shift 😂

  • @lisastratton8248
    @lisastratton8248 Год назад +1

    No you are Amazing ! I didn’t have this growing up . I listen and hear you 💖 a lot you have been saying has helped me a lot in the past many months I’ve followed you . Never stop explaining !!! I’m crying rn because how dare they. There are probably younger girls like me that need this guidance !

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +2

      Awww you’re so sweet, thank you my love 🥺🥰😌

  • @cozyhobbies_
    @cozyhobbies_ Год назад +5

    Hey elicia , I’m 29 and completely look up to you ! I have two older brothers and my older sis is a tomboy so I feel I stayed more in my masculine energy and clothes style and behaviour. I still do realy girly things and wear make up etc but I feel I lack womanly mannerisms sometimes / would be sloppy etc so I’m happy with this advice and video thank you ❤

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +4

      So happy to help!! 🥰🫶🏼

    • @David-bv6xz
      @David-bv6xz Год назад

      In the name of Allah, I invite you to worship Allah alone, so say, I bear witness that there is no god but Allah, and I bear witness that Muhammad the Messenger of Allah. This is how I entered Islam. Read about our Prophet Muhammad, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, whom Allah sent as a mercy to the worlds, to keep us away from Hell and admit us to Paradise by following him, Allah willing, as he is a prophet of the end of time. .. .. And the Seal of the Prophets and Messengers ............ .......... ............ .............

  • @karenac670
    @karenac670 Год назад +1

    15:50 💜💜💜💜 literally I relate so much I’ve lived for 19 years on this earth and out of all those years I’ve felt like I’ve lived my life wrong bc of the backlash and negativity I’d get from making decisions or saying my opinion

  • @carmenrodriguez-bs9qs
    @carmenrodriguez-bs9qs Год назад +2

    Look at the universe! 🥹💓 I’m a new viewer, let me start off by saying thank you for all the hard work you put into your content.. your videos have been such a helpful tool in developing my self awareness and on my healing / self love journey. I’m 28 and grew up mainly with my dad & brothers, an absent mom and lacked a healthy woman figure in my life when I started approaching girlhood/ womanhood so this video is 🤌✨ can’t wait for more videos on this topic!

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +1

      Oh my gosh. I’m so happy I’ve been able to help you 🥺 love you!!! 🥰🥰

  • @shaniyadunchie
    @shaniyadunchie Год назад

    You're one of the reasons I just started and put up a RUclips video. No editing and not much advice yet but it was the baby step in the right direction to actually start putting up content! Thank you!!! I can't stop thinking about video ideas and I'm ordering a gorillapod to start filming during my lunch break ♥️ I can't thank you enough!!

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +1

      I’m sooo proud of you babe 🥰 can’t wait to see you flourish 🥰🥰

    • @shaniyadunchie
      @shaniyadunchie Год назад

      @@eliciagoguen I think I can! I think I can! I think I can! 😊 Thank you again♥️♥️♥️

  • @krysiepredeoux
    @krysiepredeoux Год назад +1

    Your definitely my accountability partner whenever im in doubt i just gotta soak in elicias content!!!

  • @keino181
    @keino181 4 месяца назад +1

    i believe we don't need a 5 min video as well. I like the style of your videos and i feel like it's a chat with THE friend. It's okay to not go straight to the point and say things as they come to you. some people need to talk things slowly and others need someone franche and "aggressive". 😂when i need smth different i go a diff video but i am slow girly as well ;) i think our uniqueness of giving information can be just the shot for this one person !

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  4 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much for saying this. I really appreciate you.🥰🥰🥰

  • @applea3256
    @applea3256 Год назад

    Elicia I just wanted to say thank u and tell u how much I love u, I've been following u so long, I think 2022 and I'm just so happy that I found ur content bc u helped me so much and ur just such a comfort person.Thank you❤️

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +1

      Awww babe you’re so welcome 🥹🥹🥹

  • @malaysia1475
    @malaysia1475 Год назад +2

    I don’t know if you already have a video on this topic or not I’m not sure but could you make a video about dating. Like how to properly date. Things to look for. I feel like it would be good to hear a video about how to date while healing.

  • @popark9107
    @popark9107 Год назад +1

    I can't believe someone commented and is looking for a quick answer on a podcast 😑podcasts ARE SUPPOSE TO BE LONG❤❤

  • @sweetiepie9411
    @sweetiepie9411 Год назад

    If you ever have some type of meet up event I will literally hop on a plane to Toronto. Your videos have been so helpful when it comes to changing my mindset and healing my inner child! ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад

      Omg this is so sweet!!! I’m hoping to have a book launch event sometime in the new year so I will 10000% let everyone know! I would love to see you 🥹🫶🏼

  • @mosrade
    @mosrade Год назад

    Wow Elicia thank you for sharing this video with us. Always lots of love from Boston.

  • @AliciaSymone
    @AliciaSymone Год назад +1

    Love your content! It was right on time. ❤

  • @briaapope
    @briaapope Год назад

    Congrats on your book❤

  • @BriBorgersen
    @BriBorgersen Год назад

    26:52 yes yes and yes

  • @celina1756
    @celina1756 Год назад

    definitely needed to see this

  • @shawntelchinn84
    @shawntelchinn84 Год назад

    I’m about to be 39 November 11th ❤

  • @jordanrintoul-thomas722
    @jordanrintoul-thomas722 Год назад

    Winky Lux is a great brand. I have their Tea Time blush.

  • @Babybrownalien
    @Babybrownalien Год назад

    I love your videos so much !!

  • @blackandwhite691
    @blackandwhite691 Год назад

    Thanks for the feminine energy subject. I'm tired of women seeing being feminine as equal to being a housewife. American women especially seem to have a problem with being responsible for your own self.

  • @perrihogan
    @perrihogan Год назад

    Love this! ❤️ from stl

  • @Nicole-wd8yg
    @Nicole-wd8yg Год назад

    Love it😊

  • @MirleneFevrier
    @MirleneFevrier Год назад

    I need the long video's. 💙💜💙

  • @soleilisa
    @soleilisa Год назад

    A1 content.

  • @franciscahaltmann1272
    @franciscahaltmann1272 Год назад

    😊seeing

  • @asiadownes
    @asiadownes Год назад

    You seriously are my confirmation

  • @LeendaRella
    @LeendaRella Год назад

    If you have a Costco near you, they have the best avocados in bags of 5 for 8.99. Neve had an issue othervthat trying to eat them all before they go bad🤣

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад

      Good idea 😭 too bad I don’t😭

  • @coreyrobinson1900
    @coreyrobinson1900 Год назад

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👏🏾👏🏾

  • @MirleneFevrier
    @MirleneFevrier Год назад

    💚💛💚💛💚

  • @meganarencibia9166
    @meganarencibia9166 Год назад

    When is your birthday? November what?? ;)

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад

      5th 🫶🏼

    • @meganarencibia9166
      @meganarencibia9166 Год назад

      Girl, me too! I had a feeling, that is why I asked...WOW ...ok birth time? Mine is 8:32pm @@eliciagoguen

  • @David-bv6xz
    @David-bv6xz Год назад +1

    In the name of Allah, I invite you to worship Allah alone, so say, I bear witness that there is no god but Allah, and I bear witness that Muhammad the Messenger of Allah. This is how I entered Islam. Read about our Prophet Muhammad, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, whom Allah sent as a mercy to the worlds, to keep us away from Hell and admit us to Paradise by following him, Allah willing, as he is a prophet of the end of time. .. .. And the Seal of the Prophets and Messengers ............ .......... ............ .............

  • @justwatchingyoutube1612
    @justwatchingyoutube1612 Год назад +1

    First 🤍🤍

  • @blackandwhite691
    @blackandwhite691 Год назад

    What is a "steak era"? I'm tired of people calling everything an "era". 🤦

  • @gittylandau
    @gittylandau Год назад +1

    Love your videos!!!! I’m still very young, 22, but still learning a lot from your vids 🩵can you please make a video on how to make new friends and meet new people in a new city? I just moved cities alone and I’m struggling to make genuine friends, would love to hear what you have to say on this 🫶🏻😊

  • @NeetiiSharma
    @NeetiiSharma Год назад +1

    had the best night with you! You have the best energy and i’m so happy to have met you 🤍

  • @sapphiredgaff
    @sapphiredgaff Год назад +3

    always wishing you the most amazing success and happiness in life because u deserve it beautiful soul 🩷🌷✨

  • @RemiReagan
    @RemiReagan Год назад +6

    People need to practice patience! That’s why I love long form content. Short form content is usually used as a distraction.
    I just feel like long form content has value instead of guilt or boredom 😅
    I appreciate the style of your videos!! You always keep me inspired. I actually found you from RUclips. You were in my recommendations!

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  Год назад +3

      I feel the same way!!! So glad RUclips recommended you to me, 🥹🫶🏼

  • @christinescorner111
    @christinescorner111 Год назад

    I did not know you were from Toronto too🥹❤

  • @AnfalKhadir
    @AnfalKhadir Год назад +1

    I'm really glad that I'm watching yr video while cooking for myself, I'm really grateful for y 🤍