How do I know if I should return to an ex or not? | @GodlyDating101

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  • Does God want me going back to my ex? Are they an EXample of who to never entertain again? I'm confused and I think they have changed...
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Комментарии • 162

  • @frencesdiaries5149
    @frencesdiaries5149 5 лет назад +74

    "now here we are. we're married. she's pregnant. God is good." 😂😭🙌
    you guys are a blessing! seriously!

  • @celinepristine8333
    @celinepristine8333 5 лет назад +120

    Thank you so much for this.. I got into a relationship with someone back then and a lot of things led to the break up, we were really young and not mature mentally and spiritually, he was also into women but few years down the lane we both grew and we are back together. It took lots of prayer. Thank you so much.

    • @Justmythoughts___
      @Justmythoughts___ 4 года назад +11

      Amazing thank God. Who approached the conversation of getting back together if you don't mind me asking?

  • @heatherdoyle9417
    @heatherdoyle9417 4 года назад +28

    I know the enemy is tricky I'm aware but the greatest testimony I ever heard Is this lady is a drug addict she was a backslider and after she recommit to God she went back for the drug dealer she use to date now he's the pastor of her church if we could all bring a sinner to God

  • @frankieclo9841
    @frankieclo9841 6 лет назад +54

    It can be two believers but they are still unequally yoked.
    Great advice! Congrats to you guys! I follow you on facebook, love your page!

  • @brandoncolbert
    @brandoncolbert 4 года назад +16

    “I will join a choir if I know you like guys that sing”😂😂 Funny but true, the people need this

  • @_iamabraham_
    @_iamabraham_ 2 года назад +7

    What you think is a NO in a relationship is probably a not Now … ima hold that to heart

  • @nanaosei9784
    @nanaosei9784 6 лет назад +15

    I was literally JUST talking to God about this and saw your post on ig. God is so faithful! thank you all ❤

  • @crystalflores8537
    @crystalflores8537 5 лет назад +34

    I have even MORE peace in my heart after watching this video. God bless :)

  • @calvindthao95
    @calvindthao95 Год назад +1

    Wow. This a breath of fresh air. Simple idea, we are constantly tryng to pick and choose how the bible applies to only some parts of our dating life, when god in his plans, desires for us to have courtships full of integrity and accountability to protect and build a foundation for marraige. Just let the scriptures do the guiding and help us follow suit so is my prayer. This video was very insightful. Thank yall

  • @beingroxy
    @beingroxy 6 лет назад +28

    Wooow thank you !!! I love that “don’t force relationships or try to make it work let it flow” ! 🤦🏾‍♀️ so simple and true and I loved what she said it’s “not really a no but just a not now !” Thank you again for your transparency guys !

  • @shanto0613
    @shanto0613 3 года назад +9

    I just broke with my boyfriend of 2 years 2 weeks ago. We were going to get married early next year. That was his plan. I used to be Muslim, I got saved by Jesus and wanted and still want my marriage to be one that honours and glorifies God. Everything about my life is around God. We suddenly grew apart when he said he expects me to wash his clothing, be home before him when we get married and other stuff. He was rude about it and decided that if I didnt want to do all that stuff then he didnt want me anymore. All i wanted was some respect and a polite way of discussing these things. I asked him to pray about our union and he said it wasnt enough then he just ghosted me. Everything was fine until that talk. I've been heartbroken however a good thing came out of my misery, I've sought God in this period and I still want a Godly marriage

    • @harrymarkson7971
      @harrymarkson7971 3 года назад

      Contact him on what's app for help
      👄👄👄

    • @harrymarkson7971
      @harrymarkson7971 3 года назад

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    • @tanniebee
      @tanniebee 2 года назад +7

      I'm glad you learned this about him before you got married

    • @mbithikimanzi715
      @mbithikimanzi715 Год назад

      But that bullshit that your role and you know that. You want to be married and not submissive. That the reality marriage roles not roses... Think beyond religion and get the answers right. Be like your mother...shit

    • @shanto0613
      @shanto0613 Год назад

      @@mbithikimanzi715 you just wrote bullshit acting like you know me. You could have skipped the comment since you're bitter about yourself

  • @bomoniyi
    @bomoniyi 5 лет назад +5

    Thanks you got me after the first one! Lord knows how hard this was. But I put it in His hands alone because His plans are better than mine.

  • @alyssatorianna
    @alyssatorianna 2 года назад +5

    4 years later and still such great wisdom! This was so needed today and I’m so glad God dropped it on my timeline 🙏🏾 Thank you 💗

  • @Arkyark672
    @Arkyark672 6 лет назад +9

    This was so great. I thank God for your IG page and now I’ve got you on RUclips. Y’all are So on point. . I love the idea of just waiting on God. I’ve grown much more patient but sometimes I do have a desire for a deep relationship. I can wait though😁

  • @traviswilson9925
    @traviswilson9925 4 года назад +4

    So true! It is really awesome to see a couple doing ministry together, God Bless you guys!

  • @yvonnietaylor4354
    @yvonnietaylor4354 2 года назад +1

    You both are speaking into my life!! I am so inspired to make better choices. Thankyou for blessing me with this wisdom and knowledge. Truth hurts but it will set you free!! God Bless you Both!! 🙌

  • @jesseverything603
    @jesseverything603 6 лет назад +22

    Wow..this was much needed. My boyfriend and i of 2 years just decided to go separate ways due to minor rules my parents had in place, i.e. not being able to talk passed a certain time etc. but, we feel as though we can get back together after we finish school. I’m praying to God for clarity on everything. Nevertheless, I’ve learned a ton from you two !

    • @katieg.16
      @katieg.16 3 года назад +2

      How are you doing now?

    • @missjesstalks2222
      @missjesstalks2222 3 года назад +4

      @@katieg.16 im doing well, it’s been almost 3 years since we’ve broken up. Thanks for asking 💕

    • @ickyvicky433
      @ickyvicky433 2 года назад

      Did y'all ever talk again?

    • @jesseverything603
      @jesseverything603 2 года назад +3

      @@ickyvicky433 we haven’t spoken in over two years. I’m now in a healthy committed relationship with a man that meets more than what i could’ve ever prayed for. It’s crazy to read my comment and to see what i wanted isn’t what God wanted for me. I’m so grateful that i waited for Him to show me who He wanted!

    • @aizenosaimafidon1119
      @aizenosaimafidon1119 2 года назад +2

      @@jesseverything603 wow this is so timely 😭

  • @theedailyshannon
    @theedailyshannon 5 лет назад +1

    wow the truth hurts but it’ll set you free. appreciative of you guys for being obedient and helping others. God bless you.

  • @tanyciagrace9556
    @tanyciagrace9556 5 лет назад +7

    A much needed message. Thank you to both of you!

  • @Autumn_Forest_
    @Autumn_Forest_ 5 лет назад +36

    The one dislike is probably from my atheist ex-bf. ;)

  • @jacintobriceno1775
    @jacintobriceno1775 6 лет назад +7

    Congratulations! Great advice at a perfect time in my life!

  • @mauriceglass2854
    @mauriceglass2854 6 лет назад +6

    This was awesome you guys and please keep on spreading the truth of God's Word. Don't ever let anything or anybody stop you from speaking and living the Word. But if you can could you make a video consisting of modern day Gospel music and trying to get more young people in the church? Because I'm a bit concerned about how the church is going about trying to compromise so much of the world with the church and God's Word just to get more people in the church without really teaching or preaching about salvation and living for God. Also one more question what can Christians do for fun?

    • @GodlyDating101
      @GodlyDating101  6 лет назад +2

      maurice glass we will definitely get into those as soon as we can :)

    • @mauriceglass2854
      @mauriceglass2854 6 лет назад +1

      GodlyDating101 thanks you guys. You both are true examples of what it means to live Holy, be young and on fire for God. Hope that baby will be blessed and healthy as well. Also this video is what I really needed I was in that time of trying to figure out if I should let go of a relationship or just wait. Thank you guys so much.

    • @mauriceglass2854
      @mauriceglass2854 6 лет назад +1

      Thank you Jesus for these 2 vessels

  • @iszy2102
    @iszy2102 4 года назад +2

    Thank God for this edifying message. Really fed my soul

  • @ZebbieC
    @ZebbieC 6 лет назад +5

    This is so good thank you for sharing your wisdom God bless you both! 💕

  • @tyasiawalker97
    @tyasiawalker97 6 лет назад +5

    right on time... thank y'all!!! and congrats!

  • @kleetie12
    @kleetie12 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you for that. I am going thru that right now and I think GOD is saying not right now. I really needed to hear that.

  • @diannataylor555
    @diannataylor555 6 лет назад +6

    Love you guys too. This was right on time for me! I really needed this! You two are extremely disciplined and wise! Thanks

  • @cloyettegrant1733
    @cloyettegrant1733 6 лет назад +2

    Great advice. Congrats on the baby. God's richest blessings.

  • @ashleykirby3227
    @ashleykirby3227 6 лет назад +5

    This is really great for me. I'll be going off to college in a few months. Thanks 😊

  • @Lightlytoasted_2
    @Lightlytoasted_2 4 года назад +2

    Thank you!!! Definitely needed to hear this! Congratulations to you both! You are a rockstar couple! Keep spreading God’s love & light ❤️❤️

  • @lexidohmen8843
    @lexidohmen8843 6 лет назад +2

    thank you so much!! 🙌🏽 this was much needed

  • @TheLove2share
    @TheLove2share 4 года назад +13

    You two are so young & lovely. As a woman in my 50s I listen to some of the advice & smile because I know your messages come from a good place. Your audience are people your age & younger. People like me with more life/ relationship/ marriage experience can’t relate. You don’t know yet, what you haven’t experienced. The Bible is one thing. But reality & Biblical application is entirely different.

  • @oliviascardigan
    @oliviascardigan Год назад +1

    Can I have some advice???
    I’ve been a Christian all my life and I met the boy of my dreams really young (like first year of high school) he’s a Christian my faith wasn’t really that strong neither was his we had a lot of traumas and stuff ruining the relashonship but we dated for 8 months we were both in bad places but we was the most amazing boy I’ve ever met in my entire life and I just wanted nothing more then for us to work out anyways after 8 months he went to bible camp for a week and came back and he broke up with me he said told him it wasn’t right and he needed to focus on God and that left me in complete heartbreak I could barely function I’d see him at school and just started sobbing anyways I started to get closer with God and take this time to work on myself it’s been a month and he texted me saying he wasn’t sure he made the right decision he does want to put God first but he said he misses me and wants me back but only when we are ready and have worked in ourselves with God so our relationship can be centred on God and that is what I want to. So he said we can decide on a date in the future just so we’re not rushing into things so we can take our time to focus on God. I really want him back but I’m ready to put God first this time in our relationship. But I am also extremely heartbroken. Do I take him back??? I still love him. I’ve been praying about it but God is silent right now.

  • @antonette5127
    @antonette5127 6 лет назад +2

    So grateful for this video ! Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @move1071
    @move1071 5 лет назад +3

    Great video guys! How did you know, that after all this time apart God is leading you back to each other?

  • @avaolivas8669
    @avaolivas8669 3 года назад +2

    Love this video, I needed this 💗God bless you guys

    • @MaryJane-uv6yr
      @MaryJane-uv6yr 3 года назад

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    • @harrymarkson7971
      @harrymarkson7971 3 года назад

      Ava Olivas I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex wife and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems
      👄👄👄

    • @harrymarkson7971
      @harrymarkson7971 3 года назад

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  • @onkemetsetlape285
    @onkemetsetlape285 5 лет назад +4

    Hey guys. Can you do a video explaining what a courtship is and how it works out? Thanks.
    Sending love from South Africa! 😍❤😙

  • @feliciabanks2586
    @feliciabanks2586 5 лет назад +2

    Amen amen amen 100 timessss🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯This is amazing wisdom! Ty

  • @jilljames861
    @jilljames861 3 года назад

    Wow, I stumbled across this and needed to hear it!!! Thank you so much 😊

  • @carterhage9807
    @carterhage9807 5 лет назад +6

    I really needed to hear this!! Thank you!

  • @alexisbellinger24
    @alexisbellinger24 6 лет назад +1

    Thank You For Uploading. God Bless You!

  • @Apostylicpoet
    @Apostylicpoet 5 лет назад

    So much wisdom. Thank you man and woman of God!

  • @SeaWorthy2
    @SeaWorthy2 4 года назад

    Keep it going! It’s a challenge everyday!

  • @DJDuhrel
    @DJDuhrel 6 лет назад +1

    God bless you, I needed this.

  • @velorathomas4324
    @velorathomas4324 3 года назад

    Love this!! Sound biblical advice!

  • @ChristinaCarraway20
    @ChristinaCarraway20 6 лет назад +1

    This Was Awesome I Really Needed This

  • @peleleiataua719
    @peleleiataua719 4 года назад +1

    Such a blessing keep growing

  • @walkinginlightwithmelrufar4691
    @walkinginlightwithmelrufar4691 3 года назад +1

    I want my ex back. We are meant for each other.

  • @dilkertoquendo3083
    @dilkertoquendo3083 Год назад

    Thank you 👍 so much, God speaking through you 🙏

  • @shareyourstorypodcast7437
    @shareyourstorypodcast7437 6 лет назад +1

    Love you guys 🙏🏾

  • @emploridel
    @emploridel 3 года назад

    I love those lines, sometimes no is not a no but not yet

    • @MaryJane-uv6yr
      @MaryJane-uv6yr 3 года назад

      I know of a sorcerer who can help you regain your love ... He also helped me attract my ex partner back after the breakup ... Contact him at +2348086892323🌺🌺🌺🌺

    • @harrymarkson7971
      @harrymarkson7971 3 года назад

      Florever Grateful I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex wife and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems
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    • @harrymarkson7971
      @harrymarkson7971 3 года назад

      Contact him via what's app
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  • @tiffanysegree6435
    @tiffanysegree6435 6 лет назад +1

    Loved this & love y'all! 💕

  • @hopeemilysmith2094
    @hopeemilysmith2094 Год назад

    Needed this - thank you x

  • @ibannongkhlaw
    @ibannongkhlaw 4 года назад

    Just what i needed. Thank you so much ❤

  • @roshondablackmon6322
    @roshondablackmon6322 6 лет назад +1

    Loved this video, needed this! Congrats to the both of you! #newsubsciber

  • @joostbakker
    @joostbakker 5 лет назад +1

    Thanks for giving me hope! Lord thanks!

  • @sammykins7778
    @sammykins7778 6 лет назад +1

    You guys are so godly!

  • @deborahakintola5246
    @deborahakintola5246 6 лет назад +4

    😍😍😍 she's beautiful

  • @verysexychoco
    @verysexychoco 6 лет назад +1

    Pleasseeeee! Do more videos! I really like what you guys do!!

  • @dancingwithfatherhood5043
    @dancingwithfatherhood5043 4 года назад

    Thank you for your insight. Much need.

  • @yungsavs2858
    @yungsavs2858 7 месяцев назад

    this video really helped me thank you!

  • @prettyquoiamix278
    @prettyquoiamix278 3 года назад +1

    Thankyou for this ❤️❤️

  • @nikhatpathan
    @nikhatpathan 5 лет назад +4

    What if the leaders are more rational then Spirit-led?

  • @simonheathcote4173
    @simonheathcote4173 6 лет назад +1

    Wonderful! thank you from England

  • @FirexHive
    @FirexHive 4 года назад +1

    thank you two so much.

    • @sarahmitchell6632
      @sarahmitchell6632 4 года назад

      Hello are you planning to get your ex back why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back ..

    • @sarahmitchell6632
      @sarahmitchell6632 4 года назад

      Whatsaap
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  • @fashakinbanke3671
    @fashakinbanke3671 5 лет назад +1

    So much wisdom

  • @rachellowens1901
    @rachellowens1901 4 года назад

    Very sound counseling!

  • @susiepeters8154
    @susiepeters8154 5 лет назад +1

    I love your videos!! ☺

  • @rogelynluciano6338
    @rogelynluciano6338 5 лет назад +1

    Hello..
    My ex boyfriend is a Catholic..
    He said he just want to handle our differences and be together.
    He will respect my belief and same as to him..
    I still love him.
    Do you think I need to return to him?

  • @amoyabowerbank9984
    @amoyabowerbank9984 5 лет назад +1

    Amen 🙏🏾 and amen
    I endorse every word said

  • @candyramoswaana3543
    @candyramoswaana3543 3 года назад

    Still relevant,thank you

  • @cornellgrasty3537
    @cornellgrasty3537 4 года назад +1

    My BFF says “ when you get pregnant I will get a job and make money when your get pregnant I will go strait to rehab” I’m like
    Start now please we’ve been together like 6 yrs

  • @autumnwinds8636
    @autumnwinds8636 5 лет назад

    Thank you for posting this topic. May God bless you for it. :)

  • @amaawoye5235
    @amaawoye5235 6 лет назад +2

    Can you guys talk about parents and marriages? I mean for example what to do if parents don't like the family of your partner but they don't have nothing agaist the partner in self but because of the family they don't agree to the marriage....or if parents think that a specific person should be your spose while you don't feel like that and seem that are putting you into bondange/limitation (referring to the scripture that says that we should listen to our parent) so kind of restricting your view and choice...and other things that can arise through future marriages and families members..Could be God or not?

    • @GodlyDating101
      @GodlyDating101  6 лет назад +1

      jessica arko definitely!

    • @tribeofbenjamin6
      @tribeofbenjamin6 4 года назад +1

      Yes please!
      In-laws (or future in-laws) can be a huge concern and hard to navigate..

  • @brownnyko977
    @brownnyko977 6 лет назад +2

    Can you guys talk about relationship status please.. Like is Labbels important?

  • @ellietormozov9333
    @ellietormozov9333 4 года назад +1

    Amazing!

  • @withiunile
    @withiunile 4 года назад

    I'm blessed, thank you so much

  • @marthafrans
    @marthafrans 6 лет назад +2

    this was amazing🙏🙏🙏God bless you

  • @KayKudiwa
    @KayKudiwa 3 года назад

    Thank you so much!

  • @beverlyannecabagui8362
    @beverlyannecabagui8362 5 лет назад +3

    He cheated on me twice and found out more than 3 girls on the side. He said he was sorry and wanted to fix our relationship. Should I forgive him, or give him a chance or should I stay away?

    • @jr881997
      @jr881997 5 лет назад +2

      Stay away

    • @GodlyDating101
      @GodlyDating101  5 лет назад +15

      Forgive him and stay away.

    • @beverlyannecabagui8362
      @beverlyannecabagui8362 5 лет назад

      Even if he wanted to fix our relationship, I should just stay away?

    • @GodlyDating101
      @GodlyDating101  5 лет назад +7

      Beverly Cabagui I can only give my opinion sis. If you were married, I’d encourage you two to work through it. However, he’s just your bf and living a double life. Leaving is wiser than settling for that.

    • @beverlyannecabagui8362
      @beverlyannecabagui8362 5 лет назад +2

      Thank you guys. I will continue to pray about my situation. I do agree with you, I should be more wiser and let God rule and decide on what’s best for me. And yes, we are only bf/gf and we’re not married

  • @theconversation5574
    @theconversation5574 2 года назад +1

    Beautifully explained.

  • @nesha50421
    @nesha50421 4 года назад +3

    I really didn’t get a clear answer on whether I should take my ex back or not after watching this video unfortunately 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @funnyvideoslol2540
      @funnyvideoslol2540 4 года назад +10

      Turn to prayer and the Word. God will reveal it. Don’t depend on man.

    • @msshay421
      @msshay421 4 года назад

      I’m in the same boat and I’m thinkin probably not for me 😔

    • @savymark1670
      @savymark1670 2 года назад

      I’ve been BEGGING god to
      Show me
      Signs if she’s the one for me
      But it’s been 3 months and nothing …
      Why can’t he answer me

    • @nesha50421
      @nesha50421 2 года назад

      @@savymark1670 I can relate so much. I keep praying and asking God.. I even went on a fast & then I keep watching different videos on RUclips to try n get answers & im still conflicted & I still do not know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @nesha50421
      @nesha50421 2 года назад

      @@savymark1670 I even ask God to show me in a dream or a vision or somegthing to let me know if he’s the one or not because I DONT want to waste anymore of my time or his time if he isn’t the one that God wants me to be with

  • @kelebohile5479
    @kelebohile5479 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you 🔥🔥

  • @fashakinbanke3671
    @fashakinbanke3671 5 лет назад

    Thanks for this video

  • @tenenciapinya2854
    @tenenciapinya2854 3 года назад +1

    Your pastor could never be your shepherd only father God is your shepherd

    • @nancyledesma9398
      @nancyledesma9398 3 года назад

      +2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.

  • @rjayspeaks
    @rjayspeaks 2 года назад

    You have such a pretty wife!

  • @Lovelybabe813
    @Lovelybabe813 4 года назад +2

    What happens if you broke up 3years ago? Never mind. Only God knows.

    • @sarahmitchell6632
      @sarahmitchell6632 4 года назад

      Hello are you planning to get your ex back why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back .

    • @sarahmitchell6632
      @sarahmitchell6632 4 года назад

      Whatsaap
      +234-905-978-27-93

    • @willamssandra7077
      @willamssandra7077 3 года назад

      Message Dr Johnson now for help he was the one who helped me gety ex back

    • @willamssandra7077
      @willamssandra7077 3 года назад

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      @willamssandra7077 3 года назад

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  • @way2girly
    @way2girly 2 года назад

    Thank you

  • @cornellgrasty3537
    @cornellgrasty3537 4 года назад

    How to handle the man dominated home In a relationship ? What to do when the male thinks the bible says men dominate women. pls make a video

  • @starrynight9999
    @starrynight9999 2 года назад

    I feel so broken😔❤️‍🩹

  • @lovethelordalwaysz6622
    @lovethelordalwaysz6622 5 лет назад

    How do you forgive yourself if God does when you lose virginity before marriage?

  • @masegomoruakgomo9033
    @masegomoruakgomo9033 4 года назад

    What if they married and divorced?

  • @emmanuelcarter7784
    @emmanuelcarter7784 6 лет назад

    Do you keep Torah?

  • @breefullerton9418
    @breefullerton9418 6 лет назад

    New subscriber

  • @terry-anngray9185
    @terry-anngray9185 6 лет назад

    new sub xx

  • @IndiansAuto
    @IndiansAuto 3 года назад

    My ex is a feminist and she’s full of thotivities!!! Next!!

    • @nancyledesma9398
      @nancyledesma9398 3 года назад

      +2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.