The Stages Of Getting Back Together With An Ex

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
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    The No Contact Stage
    The Attachment Gravity Stage
    The Crossroads Stage
    The Texting Stage
    The Phone Call Stage
    The Meetup Stage
    The Romantic Date Stage
    The Asking For A Commitment Stage

Комментарии • 51

  • @RobbiJamesVogt
    @RobbiJamesVogt 6 месяцев назад +15

    Men - don’t force or talk about commitment. Let the woman bring up the topic of commitment. Just make her laugh and give her a good time. I speak from experience

  • @DIAMONDGIRL57
    @DIAMONDGIRL57 Год назад +10

    Wow! My ex and I divorced ten years ago. Now we’re talking about reconciliation for the second time. He had fear attachment; I have avoidance attachment. Not a good combination.

    • @BledaRassmar
      @BledaRassmar 29 дней назад

      This reminds me of a bit comedian Sinbad had (he and his wife also divorced and then got remarried 10 years later):
      “I thought just you were crazy…now ai know EVERYONE is crazy. At least I can deal with your crazy!”

  • @trishabackman9219
    @trishabackman9219 Год назад +32

    I just went through all these stages in 8 days 😂🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @philipramsden4975
      @philipramsden4975 6 месяцев назад +5

      Speedrunning achievement unlocked

    • @ckoplays1107
      @ckoplays1107 5 месяцев назад

      Skipped straight to the meet up stage. How do I go about it

    • @floroubaldo9403
      @floroubaldo9403 5 месяцев назад +1

      same. but now i am having thoughts I am in the crossroad again. 🤔

    • @BRR236
      @BRR236 2 месяца назад

      How did you do it ?

    • @Go4Gusto
      @Go4Gusto 11 дней назад

      😂😂😂😂

  • @thatboy3930
    @thatboy3930 Год назад +6

    My ex and I broke up, thought it was over. In that time I met new people and started to find myself again, but once I was back into reality I realized how much I actually missed them in my life after about two weeks.. Not even romantically, I just missed their presence. I added them and it turns out they missed me and wanted to start over. We had a very mature conversation about what we thought about during our time apart, then we agreed to start our relationship over again from the beginning. After we talk to each other and hang out for a while we will see what path we want to take. Either a relationship, friends, or go our separate ways.

    • @mattbraga4033
      @mattbraga4033 Год назад +1

      Hows your relationship going so far?

    • @thatboy3930
      @thatboy3930 Год назад +2

      @@mattbraga4033 I came back into the relationship with more self respect. She acted excited to talk to me again at first, but she quickly went back into her old ways of not caring about anything I talked about. So I stopped talking to her. I couldn't be friends with an ex because that would raise a red flag in my future relationships with other women.

  • @dnpaker84
    @dnpaker84 2 года назад +12

    We broke up a year and a half ago.. went through all stages and became casual friends.. And I got a date with my ex on Valentine’s Day!! I guess you can call that there romantic date. 😏

    • @joyiembernyiukaan4295
      @joyiembernyiukaan4295 2 года назад

      I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem >>>!!

    • @joyiembernyiukaan4295
      @joyiembernyiukaan4295 2 года назад

      whatsAzpp him☝️

  • @fitforfreelance
    @fitforfreelance 2 года назад +11

    Growing as a person... a confident, sexy, fit, capable, attractive, unattached person =)

    • @joyiembernyiukaan4295
      @joyiembernyiukaan4295 2 года назад

      I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem >>>!!

    • @joyiembernyiukaan4295
      @joyiembernyiukaan4295 2 года назад

      whatsAzpp him

  • @marlenedistancia452
    @marlenedistancia452 2 года назад +19

    I checked out. He dumped me so I decided to just let go. Did not contact him ever since he dumped me. It took me around 66+ days & one morning I just woke up & no longer felt like I did days after the breakup - that's when I knew I was okay & survived what I thought I wouldn't. 🙂

    • @joyiembernyiukaan4295
      @joyiembernyiukaan4295 2 года назад

      I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem >>>!!...

    • @joyiembernyiukaan4295
      @joyiembernyiukaan4295 2 года назад

      whatsAzpp him

  • @BRR236
    @BRR236 2 месяца назад +1

    This is amazing. I was rushing it, then realize….now trying to meet up.

  • @kendalxox
    @kendalxox Год назад +11

    Me and my ex broke up 11 months ago.
    I just saw him 2 weeks ago we went for a walk and dinner then my place. We were talking over text for a few days before meeting up. We never had a phone call stage though. Then two days ago he called me wifey out of nowhere and that he misses me and he wants to go away together and he booked a romantic getaway for us which we’re going on in a week and a half. Hoping he asks for me to get back with him 🙏🏽❤️ I mean I don’t know why an ex would call me wifey and book a romantic overnight getaway for us if he just wanted to be friends or just have sex. Any advice would be appreciated. Great video by the way it gives me hope!

    • @sbaek3
      @sbaek3 Год назад

      Can you give some updates?

    • @kendalxox
      @kendalxox Год назад

      @@sbaek3 we dont even talk anymore.. i feel like he reentered my life for his own selfish reasons just to sleep with me again.. when i asked what are we? he said he doesnt want to rush anything which is fine.. but he would barely text me after that so honestly i decided to move on. He's only 29 and I'm 33 and i need to date someone older because he's clearly not mature at all because men mature much later than women. I need a real man who's ready for commitment and marriage.. not a boy who just wants to party and hang out with the boys all the time and who's not ready for a relationship.

    • @cosasvarias2460
      @cosasvarias2460 9 месяцев назад

      Wow! And who did the first move!

  • @jamesdeek7039
    @jamesdeek7039 2 года назад +10

    We met up again after breaking up 6 months ago. Was very tender, she loves me that's clear. But she mentally is unwilling to commit at the moment, she is dealing with mental illness etc.
    She talks to me now and wants me in her life. I don't know how to approach this

    • @barbarakrasnik5673
      @barbarakrasnik5673 2 года назад +8

      Just be her friend and have no expectations. Have fun and focus on your growth. Share what you've learnt about yourself with her. When I open up to my ex and share my deepest emotions and insights, it makes him open up to me too and the whole conversation comes to a deeper level. The connection becomes deeper too.

    • @joyiembernyiukaan4295
      @joyiembernyiukaan4295 2 года назад

      I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem >>>!!

    • @joyiembernyiukaan4295
      @joyiembernyiukaan4295 2 года назад

      whatsAzpp him

    • @christina689
      @christina689 2 года назад +1

      Sammmmmme exact place atm

  • @immariarivera
    @immariarivera 2 года назад +6

    Im on the txting stage now after 3 months of NC and now we agreed to meet up a week from now… and lets see if the phone calls will happend before the first meet up date.

  • @akosfellner5061
    @akosfellner5061 Год назад +4

    I think the phone call stage is not necessary.

  • @fatimeshahin6549
    @fatimeshahin6549 2 года назад +3

    I did almost 4 months NC. Successfully. I'm abroad because I study abroad but our 2 year relationship wasn't long distance. We met accidentally on New year's eve while I was home for the holidays and greeted each other and talked like for 2 minutes but positive. Then, we texted 2 times, positive things (nothing about the relationship, only about my personal growth) and common things, I was even funny and he liked the conversation, even thanked me. Than when I was flying back abroad I put a story tagging another guy because we were travelling together (he's my friend tho) and my ex replied on the story to wish me luck for my exams, we texted a little and that was. Now I'm stuck and abroad, Idk what to do next or if I even should do anything. I'm starting to forget him and not care but I still feel he is the man of my life. Just waiting... Maybe I can get back home after a month but idk if it's worth it.

  • @aiden_zae
    @aiden_zae Год назад +1

    im at the 7 stage after 3 months break of my 9 years long gf. She does said i love u and i miss you at times but its mostly me who invited her out. but everytime i ask can u b mine again she said not now. everyday i live in fear hmm

  • @DIAMONDGIRL57
    @DIAMONDGIRL57 5 месяцев назад

    It’s beenn ten years to get through the stages. WTH 😮

  • @cosasvarias2460
    @cosasvarias2460 9 месяцев назад

    What if the no contact stage still, we broke up 9 months ago, but I want her back, but still know this is not the time, I'm working on me, how should I handle this stages?

  • @justjakestuart
    @justjakestuart Год назад +2

    What if we didn’t really do no contact and they’ve been talking to me a few times a week every week since the breakup it’s been 6 and a half weeks?

  • @deevamuir8106
    @deevamuir8106 2 года назад

    Wow! Thx

  • @Tokaaa
    @Tokaaa 2 месяца назад

    8:01

  • @nemesis8626
    @nemesis8626 Год назад +7

    I'm gunna tell you some 100%facts here, these people are frauds, using you desperation and sadness for there own personal gain and views... if you have to go through all these bs stages to get with someone, they ain't the one! Why would you want to get back with an ex?? There an ex for a reason.

  • @oumaimamaq1121
    @oumaimamaq1121 2 года назад

    please i need your advices...I followed all your advices cause he broke up with me but it was my mistake( a week ago)....I started to do no contact rule and he is reaching out and sending me msgs, more than 5 times and I ignored him, yesterday he sent me a screenshot to a lady who ask him out and he refused( didn't understand why) and I didn't reply and posted a story of me enjoying my time cause it was my bestie birthday, he sent three dm and deleted them immediately and he blocked me again....
    from the day one of break up he blocks and unblock multiple time and he is the one who reach out but at z same time say he don't want me anymore.
    I love him and I don't know what to do

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  • @InResponseOutreach
    @InResponseOutreach 10 месяцев назад

    Any way this still ends as friends bec it's all followimg this exactly