My brother took me to see Venom back in the 80’s and I’ve been a Metal head ever since. The last concert my wife and I went to see was Benediction. We may be in our late 40’s, but we can still slam when we’re in the pit!
If you are on the ground floor. be aware of what's going on around you! My gf and I went to see Coheed a few years back and the first 2 bands that opened were kinda chill, but when Glassjaw came out and played we got just..absolutely tossed around,she got squished , I lost my beer and my coheed hat got bent, almost lost my signed key of z comic. Some guy was trying to like. .climb on my back and I had to deal with him. it was awful. sucked cause we were in the front row and had to go to the back...but we got to go over to this lounge area and meet some pretty cool people so it all worked out.But man....it was rough getting caught in a pit so quick....Daryl Palumbo did point at us to make sure we were ok though so that was also kinda cool.
Oh man, that sucks! Oh yeah sometimes you never know what’s going to happen. Glad you still had a good night though. Fellow children of the fence are usually fun company!
I've been a metalhead for more than 10 years but never had a metalhead friend and didnt know where to find them. By the time I knew where I could make friends I was too scared to be judge ( I'm very small 1,50m and "cute/girly") and that everyone would gatekeep me and start to ask me about all sort os trivia about the bands... because of that Ive been nervous of wearing bands t-shirts even though I'd be listening to them. This gatekeep of myself have brought lots os burdens beside not having metalhead friends, like I was always trying to listen to most bands that I could, listen to their whole discography, just to be sure that I could answer anything someone would ask me. I still have this problem of prioritizing the quantity over quality of the metal I listen to. I've been to my first metal show this year, I was an Emperor show, the only time they came to my country and I was unbelievable seeing that many people sharing the same passion as I. Anyways. Great video JJ♡
Hey, thank you for sharing your story. I also used to crazy research on bands because I was so afraid of being quizzed about it at shows. I’m happy to report that no one has ever questioned my knowledge on a band (though I know it has happened to others). Glad you enjoyed your first show! Also, I only have metalhead friends on the internet… ok my only friends exist on the internet 🤣
I love the idea behind this video, and it's something that never really occurred to me, since I've been a metalhead pretty much my whole life. On that first point of gatekeeping, it's really funny how many people psych themselves out thinking about stuff like that- here in the South, there's a lot of odd overlap where you'll see Hank III shirts, Infant Annihilator shirts, and the occasional Taylor Swift shirts all at the same Mastodon show for example- no one really seems to care. The ticket info was super good info to include- very well thought out thing to explain to someone who may not have ever been. I've been burned on a VIP ticket as well for an OzzFest- was supposed to do some meet and greet stuff, and didn't realize there was a section I had to go to until after the event, luckily the event managers were cool and gave me a partial refund. Seating info was pretty solid, too- one thing I'd mention as well is that if you're up close to the stage or in a smaller venue, EARPLUGS. My wife and I have been to quite a few shows and I figure you'll hit on it later on in the series, but run-free make up is great for if you sweat a lot (or are at a GWAR concert and are getting drenched in various alien fluids). Tight fitting clothing for women (sports bra, leggings, etc) are great, especially if you plan to surf because there's always that one gropey perv. I usually end up being the pack mule and wear cargo pants to carry whatever we need, and there's a couple of great brands that have zip-up pockets which rules when you're in the pit. Always eat and drink before hand- the food and drink in the venue is always mega expensive. Keep up the hard work, much love!
Thank you for sharing your story! Sucks you miss out at Ozzfest, but I’m glad you were able to get a refund (that’s almost unheard of these days!) And you brought up some great points for future videos. I’ll definitely have to include those points, especially about pockets and earplugs. 🤘🏻
Fantastic video series idea. As a metalhead, I believe there are many m ore metalheads out there who don't know they're metalheads yet. Heck yes for checking out openers. I've found so many favourites who started by opening for big acts I already love. One thing I would suggest including down the line (if you want to) is talking about earplugs. Obviously earplugs are a personal choice but I invested in a good custom pair as most of the shows i've been to were ones my band was playing at, but even some regular foam earplugs can do a good job of turning down the volume of the room without distorting the sound too much. At this point I swear by ear plugs at shows especially since hearing tests at work revealed some hearing damage in my right ear, and once they told me I knew EXACTLY which show it happened at (Dream Theater, '09 front row, right next to the mains, amazing show). Again, great video. Will be following with interest.
Thanks for the suggestion! I hadn’t thought about talking about earplugs, but I will absolutely add that in to one of these videos. Especially after hearing your story. I’m terrible about wearing them but the next show I go to where I’m up near the monitors, I really need to wear them.
My first concert happened when i was 14 years old. *Motley Crue (Theater Of Pain tour) w/ guests Autograph* *November 12, 1985 Pacific Coliseum, Vancouver Canada* I feel bad for Teens today b/c of Ticketscammer & Bots that resale for more.
Watching this two years later and it's still so helpful! I don't mind crowds but I don't like being crowded, if that makes sense. So I don't usually go to concerts because giant venues make me uncomfortable. I do adore seeing my "niche" metal groups because the venues are smaller. I also don't want to look like a poser because I am not purely a metalhead (Spotify tells me Kpop and Power Metal are my top genres, lol). The one thing I learned is YOU CAN WEAR ANYTHING. No one truly cares if you 'look' the part. I saw Blind Guardian back in 2016 and there was a guy in a Pink Power Ranger onesie. Wear whatever you want. Just be respectful of the venues rules and of your fellow concert-goers.
My first metal concert was Iron Maiden with Airbourne and Powerwolf this year and I had a seating ticket since it was a bigger venue and I am a small person, was standing a lot during the concert anyways though just like most other people in my area, really enjoyed the concert a lot!!
Thank you for this!! I've listened to metal but have never heard it live; my usual vibe is much different. My crush invited me to a metal show and I just want to know what to expect. Thank you again!
My first concert was Metallica in 2014 at Hamburg, Germany, opening acts were Slayer and Ghost so it was pretty dope. I went with my sister and seeing these bands live is pretty unforgettable, the energy of the crowd and it was a great live. Especially entering the pit was kinda frightening but so cool !
I'm 14 and about to go to my first metal concert, Megadeth june 15th!! I'm a very awkward kid and scared of judgement, and not sure if I wanna mosh or not! I do, but too scared since I'm a kid and female, I might make it a worry for everyone 😅 doesn't matter tho, I'll still enjoy because your guide really helped me feel more secure and ready. Thank you!!
Enjoy the show!! You can always hang back and check out the pit and wait to see if you feel inspired to join. Don’t worry about being awkward. Literally every metalhead I’ve ever met is at least a tiny bit awkward to some degree (and some of us are way awkward but that’s how we roll 😅).
I’m going to my first metal concert next week! The fact that it’s a standing only venue is definitely the thing that made/is making me the most anxious. Other concerts I’ve been too have all been in theaters and seated only, so this feels very different. Also I can’t stand that long, but don’t need other disability accomodations so I never had to contact a venue about accessibility options before
@@JJMetalhead I went to see epica and had a great time! I got a bar stool (as did a few other people) and got to enter the venue early so I actually sat completely in front. I was scared I would have to sit in the back or something like that, so my view was so much better then expected!
I’m going to see cradle of filth in October and I’m excited but nervous AF so thanks for this!! It’s in New York so I’m worried I’ll get killed or stabbed or mugged at some point there 😂😭
Unless your going for a specific purpose like a metal show, your not missing anything in NY 😂 and thanks! My Fingers are crossed too, I do have another question, is it better to go to a show with one other person or a group? I’ve heard it can be risky depending on the venue for going alone but I’ve also heard from people who’ve been to metal shows that in collective, metal heads are one of tue best crowds and there’s nothing to worry about so I just wondering if you have any insight about that :)
@@MetalMF0508 I’d say it’s more fun to go with a group but it’s perfectly safe to go alone. I’ve gone to plenty of shows alone and felt safe. In my experience metalheads are great people.
I’m going to Sabaton and Babymetal in a few days, but my friends canceled 2 days before the concert. I’m not really that outgoing type of person, so I’m kinda nervous going alone haha. Especially since it’s my first Metal concert. I’m sure these tips will help though!
I hope you enjoyed the show even without your friends. I’ve gone to plenty of shows alone, it’s not as much fun but I get to focus on the music without distractions. Plus I’m usually able to wiggle my way up closer to the stage when it’s just me.
Definitely not new to Metal, but I've never been to a Metal concert. I'm planning on seeing Hypocrisy soon. In about 2 months or so. They are playing in my country then. Together with a band called Imperial Triumphant. Never heard of them before, but I checked them out and they're quite interesting! The headliner band is Behemoth. Hope I can see a bit of them too, but by then I have to get back to the train to go back home. So I'm not sure how much I can see of Behemoth. Luckily they are not the band I'm there for, even though I like them.
Going to my first concert (Korn) in a week. I get pretty bad anxiety, so would there be any tips for that? Does the music sort of just drown all that out once you’re there?
My first rock concert was Aerosmith in 1994 on the get a grip tour. At 44 years old I need me a seat lol. For Tool this year I was on the Floor but they had seats. At Tool I got keep cell phone but you could not take it out until last song
Wow I’m surprised they let you use your phone during the last song! Usually it’s instant GTFO if you even take it out of your pocket. I get why they do it though, it is really distracting.
My first show was like two weeks ago and I've seen Rammstein in Parc jean drapeau in Montreal and I'm 14 so i was in the pit but everyone was cool, i know it's not always like that but yh, it was perfect
As far as my experience goes, a lot of bands do not have patches available at their shows. Depends on the band of course. But I tend to buy most of my patches online.
@@JJMetalhead thanks! Then i don't have to worry about having to hurry to a stand haha. I am going to my first concert, amon amarth & machine head and soon after kreator & lamb of god, so your beginner guides come at the right moment 👍🤘
@@JJMetalhead yeah i can understand that! I'm really hyped to see those, they are the ones i bought the tickets for. Amon Amarth introduced me to the genre because I'm pagan and then i found Kreator and i fell in love. As i hear their music i can believe the performance will be great🍻
Not sure. I’ve never seen BMTH and I’m not sure the size of their fan base these days. I might suggest you join a BMTH facebook group and ask. They should be able to answer your question there.
My brother took me to see Venom back in the 80’s and I’ve been a Metal head ever since. The last concert my wife and I went to see was Benediction. We may be in our late 40’s, but we can still slam when we’re in the pit!
Hell yeah!
If you are on the ground floor.
be aware of what's going on around you! My gf and I went to see Coheed a few years back and the first 2 bands that opened were kinda chill, but when Glassjaw came out and played we got just..absolutely tossed around,she got squished , I lost my beer and my coheed hat got bent, almost lost my signed key of z comic. Some guy was trying to like. .climb on my back and I had to deal with him. it was awful. sucked cause we were in the front row and had to go to the back...but we got to go over to this lounge area and meet some pretty cool people so it all worked out.But man....it was rough getting caught in a pit so quick....Daryl Palumbo did point at us to make sure we were ok though so that was also kinda cool.
Oh man, that sucks! Oh yeah sometimes you never know what’s going to happen. Glad you still had a good night though. Fellow children of the fence are usually fun company!
@@JJMetalhead oh yeah, thats the only bad experience, everything else has been awesome.
Watching this video 5 hours before my first concert, Slipknot Amsterdam
Hope you had fun!!
I've been a metalhead for more than 10 years but never had a metalhead friend and didnt know where to find them. By the time I knew where I could make friends I was too scared to be judge ( I'm very small 1,50m and "cute/girly") and that everyone would gatekeep me and start to ask me about all sort os trivia about the bands... because of that Ive been nervous of wearing bands t-shirts even though I'd be listening to them.
This gatekeep of myself have brought lots os burdens beside not having metalhead friends, like I was always trying to listen to most bands that I could, listen to their whole discography, just to be sure that I could answer anything someone would ask me. I still have this problem of prioritizing the quantity over quality of the metal I listen to.
I've been to my first metal show this year, I was an Emperor show, the only time they came to my country and I was unbelievable seeing that many people sharing the same passion as I.
Anyways.
Great video JJ♡
Hey, thank you for sharing your story. I also used to crazy research on bands because I was so afraid of being quizzed about it at shows. I’m happy to report that no one has ever questioned my knowledge on a band (though I know it has happened to others). Glad you enjoyed your first show!
Also, I only have metalhead friends on the internet… ok my only friends exist on the internet 🤣
I love the idea behind this video, and it's something that never really occurred to me, since I've been a metalhead pretty much my whole life.
On that first point of gatekeeping, it's really funny how many people psych themselves out thinking about stuff like that- here in the South, there's a lot of odd overlap where you'll see Hank III shirts, Infant Annihilator shirts, and the occasional Taylor Swift shirts all at the same Mastodon show for example- no one really seems to care.
The ticket info was super good info to include- very well thought out thing to explain to someone who may not have ever been. I've been burned on a VIP ticket as well for an OzzFest- was supposed to do some meet and greet stuff, and didn't realize there was a section I had to go to until after the event, luckily the event managers were cool and gave me a partial refund.
Seating info was pretty solid, too- one thing I'd mention as well is that if you're up close to the stage or in a smaller venue, EARPLUGS.
My wife and I have been to quite a few shows and I figure you'll hit on it later on in the series, but run-free make up is great for if you sweat a lot (or are at a GWAR concert and are getting drenched in various alien fluids). Tight fitting clothing for women (sports bra, leggings, etc) are great, especially if you plan to surf because there's always that one gropey perv. I usually end up being the pack mule and wear cargo pants to carry whatever we need, and there's a couple of great brands that have zip-up pockets which rules when you're in the pit. Always eat and drink before hand- the food and drink in the venue is always mega expensive.
Keep up the hard work, much love!
Thank you for sharing your story! Sucks you miss out at Ozzfest, but I’m glad you were able to get a refund (that’s almost unheard of these days!)
And you brought up some great points for future videos. I’ll definitely have to include those points, especially about pockets and earplugs. 🤘🏻
Fantastic video series idea. As a metalhead, I believe there are many m ore metalheads out there who don't know they're metalheads yet.
Heck yes for checking out openers. I've found so many favourites who started by opening for big acts I already love.
One thing I would suggest including down the line (if you want to) is talking about earplugs. Obviously earplugs are a personal choice but I invested in a good custom pair as most of the shows i've been to were ones my band was playing at, but even some regular foam earplugs can do a good job of turning down the volume of the room without distorting the sound too much. At this point I swear by ear plugs at shows especially since hearing tests at work revealed some hearing damage in my right ear, and once they told me I knew EXACTLY which show it happened at (Dream Theater, '09 front row, right next to the mains, amazing show).
Again, great video. Will be following with interest.
Thanks for the suggestion! I hadn’t thought about talking about earplugs, but I will absolutely add that in to one of these videos. Especially after hearing your story. I’m terrible about wearing them but the next show I go to where I’m up near the monitors, I really need to wear them.
My first concert happened when i was 14 years old.
*Motley Crue (Theater Of Pain tour) w/ guests Autograph*
*November 12, 1985 Pacific Coliseum, Vancouver Canada*
I feel bad for Teens today b/c of Ticketscammer & Bots that resale for more.
Watching this two years later and it's still so helpful! I don't mind crowds but I don't like being crowded, if that makes sense. So I don't usually go to concerts because giant venues make me uncomfortable. I do adore seeing my "niche" metal groups because the venues are smaller. I also don't want to look like a poser because I am not purely a metalhead (Spotify tells me Kpop and Power Metal are my top genres, lol). The one thing I learned is YOU CAN WEAR ANYTHING. No one truly cares if you 'look' the part. I saw Blind Guardian back in 2016 and there was a guy in a Pink Power Ranger onesie. Wear whatever you want. Just be respectful of the venues rules and of your fellow concert-goers.
My first metal concert was Iron Maiden with Airbourne and Powerwolf this year and I had a seating ticket since it was a bigger venue and I am a small person, was standing a lot during the concert anyways though just like most other people in my area, really enjoyed the concert a lot!!
I'm so jealous, I have yet to see either of those bands! Glad you had a great time, sounds like an awesome show!
@@JJMetalhead Really hope you will get to see them in the future as well!! And thank you!
Thank you for this!!
I've listened to metal but have never heard it live; my usual vibe is much different. My crush invited me to a metal show and I just want to know what to expect. Thank you again!
Glad I could help! I hope you enjoyed the show!!
My first concert was Metallica in 2014 at Hamburg, Germany, opening acts were Slayer and Ghost so it was pretty dope.
I went with my sister and seeing these bands live is pretty unforgettable, the energy of the crowd and it was a great live.
Especially entering the pit was kinda frightening but so cool !
Jealous! What an awesome first concert!
I'm 14 and about to go to my first metal concert, Megadeth june 15th!! I'm a very awkward kid and scared of judgement, and not sure if I wanna mosh or not! I do, but too scared since I'm a kid and female, I might make it a worry for everyone 😅 doesn't matter tho, I'll still enjoy because your guide really helped me feel more secure and ready. Thank you!!
Enjoy the show!! You can always hang back and check out the pit and wait to see if you feel inspired to join. Don’t worry about being awkward. Literally every metalhead I’ve ever met is at least a tiny bit awkward to some degree (and some of us are way awkward but that’s how we roll 😅).
@@JJMetalhead Thank you! I really appreciate your advice ☺
I love content like this! Welcoming more new people into our scene to support the bands
GOING TO MY FIRST FESTIVAL IN JUNE AND I'M SO STRESSED, thanks a lot for this, made me feel a bit calmer xx
Yay!! I'm excited for you! I'll be doing a video on festivals probably before June. :)
I’m going to my first metal concert next week! The fact that it’s a standing only venue is definitely the thing that made/is making me the most anxious. Other concerts I’ve been too have all been in theaters and seated only, so this feels very different. Also I can’t stand that long, but don’t need other disability accomodations so I never had to contact a venue about accessibility options before
Yeah it’s definitely a long time to stand. I hope they can accommodate you with a seat. Who are you going to see?
@@JJMetalhead I went to see epica and had a great time! I got a bar stool (as did a few other people) and got to enter the venue early so I actually sat completely in front. I was scared I would have to sit in the back or something like that, so my view was so much better then expected!
@@ForTheLoveOfMusicals Awesome to hear!!!
GOING TO SEE BRING ME THE HORIZON IN JUNE FOR THE FIRST TIME
Hell yeah!! Have fun!!
@@JJMetalhead thanksssssssss
I’m going to see cradle of filth in October and I’m excited but nervous AF so thanks for this!! It’s in New York so I’m worried I’ll get killed or stabbed or mugged at some point there 😂😭
Awesome! I’ve not seen CoF live yet.Have fun at the show!! I’ve never been to NY but I hope you don’t get stabbed 🤞🏻
Unless your going for a specific purpose like a metal show, your not missing anything in NY 😂 and thanks! My Fingers are crossed too, I do have another question, is it better to go to a show with one other person or a group? I’ve heard it can be risky depending on the venue for going alone but I’ve also heard from people who’ve been to metal shows that in collective, metal heads are one of tue best crowds and there’s nothing to worry about so I just wondering if you have any insight about that :)
@@MetalMF0508 I’d say it’s more fun to go with a group but it’s perfectly safe to go alone. I’ve gone to plenty of shows alone and felt safe. In my experience metalheads are great people.
I’m going to Sabaton and Babymetal in a few days, but my friends canceled 2 days before the concert. I’m not really that outgoing type of person, so I’m kinda nervous going alone haha. Especially since it’s my first Metal concert. I’m sure these tips will help though!
I hope you enjoyed the show even without your friends. I’ve gone to plenty of shows alone, it’s not as much fun but I get to focus on the music without distractions. Plus I’m usually able to wiggle my way up closer to the stage when it’s just me.
I'm 15 going to my first metal concert at an indoor venue, cannibal corpse and mayhem, pretty scared LOL
Have fun!! If you’re unsure, just keep near the back where it’s clear of the pit. 🤘🏻
Definitely not new to Metal, but I've never been to a Metal concert. I'm planning on seeing Hypocrisy soon. In about 2 months or so. They are playing in my country then. Together with a band called Imperial Triumphant. Never heard of them before, but I checked them out and they're quite interesting! The headliner band is Behemoth. Hope I can see a bit of them too, but by then I have to get back to the train to go back home. So I'm not sure how much I can see of Behemoth. Luckily they are not the band I'm there for, even though I like them.
Hope you enjoyed your fist show and I hope you had a great experience! If you did I’m sure you’ll be headed to many more.
Fellow metal nashvilliannnn!
Cheers! 🍻
Love this! Did you do the festival video?? 🖤
Not yet!
Going to my first concert (Korn) in a week. I get pretty bad anxiety, so would there be any tips for that? Does the music sort of just drown all that out once you’re there?
My first rock concert was Aerosmith in 1994 on the get a grip tour. At 44 years old I need me a seat lol. For Tool this year I was on the Floor but they had seats. At Tool I got keep cell phone but you could not take it out until last song
Wow I’m surprised they let you use your phone during the last song! Usually it’s instant GTFO if you even take it out of your pocket. I get why they do it though, it is really distracting.
@@JJMetalhead yeah they said you can record this last song and everyone took out their phones. I was surprised too.
@@JJMetalhead MJK let us record the..encore in Houston when Killing Joke toured with them.
@@ChaoticScholarTX Lucky! The only 2 Tool shows I’ve been to there was absolutely no recording allowed.
@@JJMetalhead Ya, he was in a really good mood at that gig, and bantering. My first gig, no banter LOL.
im going to go to opeth in a few weeks, im 5'2". is there a way i could push myself to the front so i could see.
im forty one years old
i will attend my first metal concert on april
Yay!! I'm excited for you! I hope you enjoy it. What band?
@@JJMetalhead a local filipino band🤘
@@alanabellanosa2636 No way! I'm half Filipino. What are they called?
they called themselves absit omen.a band from manila.
@@alanabellanosa2636 I’ll have to check them out.
Hey jj Can you still be a metal head if you have short hair Or does that not count as metal
You can be metal with any hair
@@nerotheprotogen5644 awsome
My first show was like two weeks ago and I've seen Rammstein in Parc jean drapeau in Montreal and I'm 14 so i was in the pit but everyone was cool, i know it's not always like that but yh, it was perfect
That’s awesome! I’m glad you had a good first experience in the pit. I have yet to see Rammstein!
What can you tell about patches? Will they sell out fast and how exclusive are they? Maybe some additional tips?🤗
As far as my experience goes, a lot of bands do not have patches available at their shows. Depends on the band of course. But I tend to buy most of my patches online.
@@JJMetalhead thanks! Then i don't have to worry about having to hurry to a stand haha. I am going to my first concert, amon amarth & machine head and soon after kreator & lamb of god, so your beginner guides come at the right moment 👍🤘
@@FatherOfSithis So jealous about Amon Amarth and Kreator! I have yet to see them. Lamb if God is always fantastic live. Have fun!!
@@JJMetalhead yeah i can understand that! I'm really hyped to see those, they are the ones i bought the tickets for. Amon Amarth introduced me to the genre because I'm pagan and then i found Kreator and i fell in love. As i hear their music i can believe the performance will be great🍻
tell me if i go to budapest park to see bmth and i wanna be in the front, are you SURE an hour is enough?
Not sure. I’ve never seen BMTH and I’m not sure the size of their fan base these days. I might suggest you join a BMTH facebook group and ask. They should be able to answer your question there.
okay thankssss@@JJMetalhead
Lmao