I’m Not Like Other Girls

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
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    pick me girls are at it again and this time… ITS GOTTEN SILLY
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  • @DramaKween
    @DramaKween  7 месяцев назад +100

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    • @Anonymous-su2fj
      @Anonymous-su2fj 7 месяцев назад

      You're so bitter 😂 who hurt you?

    • @quyereiii
      @quyereiii 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@Anonymous-su2fjbuddy, stop. get a grip.

    • @quyereiii
      @quyereiii 7 месяцев назад +2

      btw i love ur makeup drama kween!!!!

    • @JordanS-ww4eu
      @JordanS-ww4eu 3 месяца назад

      I like you as is ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lexiexcx
    @lexiexcx 7 месяцев назад +438

    Love when they say girls are too much drama…and then stir the pot 💀

    • @taylornusteling8692
      @taylornusteling8692 7 месяцев назад +18

      Ironic isn't it?

    • @caladana1
      @caladana1 7 месяцев назад +22

      Yeah, dude THEY are the girls that are too much drama XD Im afab and have always been friends with mostly girls/fems. They overall treated me much better (Im Neurodivergent so I can be a little odd lol) then my boy/masc peers. Me and my friends would be bullied by these girls, they'd try to start shit with us, then we'd get told they don't hang out with girls because its "too much drama" like girl huh??? you're the drama.

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson 2 месяца назад

      ikr

  • @ilovely4908
    @ilovely4908 7 месяцев назад +2267

    The fact that the meaning of "pick me" has evolved so much now😭 This one girl at my school literally insults and embarrasses her own friends for male attention yet still calls other girls "pick mes" for choosing to not wear any makeup or for wearing converse and etc.💀 But not only that, when her friends DO wear makeup, she says that they are "asking for attention" LIKE MISS MAKE UP YOUR MIND😭

    • @parasite3000ツ
      @parasite3000ツ 7 месяцев назад +148

      Hypocrite 💀

    • @ilovely4908
      @ilovely4908 7 месяцев назад

      @@parasite3000ツ FR

    • @Megan4ever
      @Megan4ever 7 месяцев назад +110

      There's a girl in my french class who's like this. NOBODY likes her 😭

    • @coolermoss
      @coolermoss 7 месяцев назад +51

      @OfficerZ637 I have no idea the context behind this or if you're just trolling, but maybe report it to the police if you safely can.

    • @starrcasm8488
      @starrcasm8488 7 месяцев назад +33

      ​@@coolermoss its a bot lmao

  • @pinkNperfect
    @pinkNperfect 7 месяцев назад +99

    this is why i try to not talk about my music taste because people might think I’m one of THOSE metal heads….

  • @qwerty-j6m4q
    @qwerty-j6m4q 7 месяцев назад +1

    I love your new haircut!! it looks super good on you

  • @AureliaSmith-qr6kc
    @AureliaSmith-qr6kc 7 месяцев назад

    These types of girls literaly make me want to just throw my phone across the room. The fact that these types of people think that they are better than other people for doing these things is absolutely foreign to me. Because why? Just what kind of story do you think your getting,like😃.
    Edit: of topic but her lupus tick is like really pretty😍

  • @Nova72878
    @Nova72878 7 месяцев назад +1

    i never thought it would get this bad lol

  • @azetoros
    @azetoros 7 месяцев назад

    i luv ur vids sm omg

  • @sunniiishxne
    @sunniiishxne 7 месяцев назад +2249

    I cannot believe people can still unapologetically and unironically act like this AND post it publicly 😭

    • @BouncingMonkey-zu3zb
      @BouncingMonkey-zu3zb 7 месяцев назад

      @OfficerZ637pray

    • @cheesecurdenjoyer
      @cheesecurdenjoyer 7 месяцев назад +36

      @OfficerZ637let’s not :)

    • @santamommy
      @santamommy 7 месяцев назад

      Call the police for help :) @OfficerZ637

    • @ImaniChepkwony
      @ImaniChepkwony 7 месяцев назад +10

      ​@OfficerZ637 delete it?

    • @Hopischwopi
      @Hopischwopi 7 месяцев назад +8

      I bet most of them are pretty young. At least for me it was the worst when I was in my late teens/early tweens.

  • @FINNZstuff_
    @FINNZstuff_ 7 месяцев назад +1526

    I saw a trend on Pinterest where people would take I’m not like other girls art and make it so that the girls like each other/respect each other. It was so wholesome 🥰

    • @kitty-q5o
      @kitty-q5o 7 месяцев назад +390

      the whole pinterest "im not like other girls" getting turned into lesbians is actually my favourite thing eva

    • @FINNZstuff_
      @FINNZstuff_ 7 месяцев назад +82

      Killing two birds with one stone
      Representation and pick me girls ❤️

    • @ness.39
      @ness.39 7 месяцев назад +29

      ​@OfficerZ637how did that happen accidentally 😭

    • @worm1533
      @worm1533 7 месяцев назад +48

      It's not a pinterest trend it's from a subreddit called r/gatekeepingyuri

    • @pixiv2914
      @pixiv2914 7 месяцев назад +18

      @@ness.39 It'sd a troll. report and move on.

  • @heylove9016
    @heylove9016 7 месяцев назад +502

    Putting down other girls to make yourself look better shows how insecure you really are. A confident person doesn't do that, shallow and insecure people do.

    • @CuddlesNCassy
      @CuddlesNCassy 7 месяцев назад +9

      This!! You are so right!! My fav comment 🤗❤❤❤

    • @drwolfie
      @drwolfie 7 месяцев назад +6

      exactly! i've stood with that statement for the longest of time.

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson 2 месяца назад

      I used to be so guilty of that because growing up I always always cheated on for skinny girls and had a thing against them and men. Felt guilty and still do

  • @EvennaDoesStuff
    @EvennaDoesStuff 7 месяцев назад +301

    You are not a pick-me girl if:
    - you have genuine, healthy friendships with men
    - you don't wear make up
    - you don't dress traditionally feminine
    - you call out generally problematic behaviour in other people
    You are a pick-me girl if:
    - You put down other girls for being different than you

    • @aylin_falzone
      @aylin_falzone 4 месяца назад +14

      THANK YOU. Istg I feel really pick me bc I have more male friends than female friends bc apparently that’s wrong and cringe in this generation. It’s not that I don’t like female friendships or that I am “different” from other girls, it’s just that, in my school I rather have chill male friendships than being friends with girls that exclude me, put me down and are generally just fake. That does not mean all girls are like that it just means thats what happens at my school!!

    • @Sanatizer_143
      @Sanatizer_143 3 месяца назад +5

      LOUDER

    • @AngieThaKid
      @AngieThaKid 3 месяца назад

      Nah really cuz ppl always call me a pick me cuz I don’t wear makeup LIKE I HAVE SENSITIVE SKIN STFU

  • @kennagrace4752
    @kennagrace4752 7 месяцев назад +496

    The fact that the girl that said "but her music taste isn't better than mine" couldn't find anything to compare them over other than music taste says a LOT. I love having friends that have different music taste than me because I enjoy listening to them talk to me about why they enjoy it and introducing me to new stuff and new artists in general!! I tell them about the songs and artists I personally love, and they do the same!! You don't have to hate on someone's music taste unless the artists that they listen to are genuinely just bad people and don't deserve the platform that they have

    • @IAM.THEMUSIC
      @IAM.THEMUSIC 7 месяцев назад

      lmfao this was all real asf. nigga said “WeLl hER MUsiC IsnT Bett-“ music still ass💀💀

    • @Idiotnamedlily
      @Idiotnamedlily 7 месяцев назад

      I agree as somebody who is a metalhead and all my friends listen to what you would call “TikTok music” when they talk about their music I ask about it and stuff.

    • @Xxxjuicepop
      @Xxxjuicepop 7 месяцев назад +5

      Fr they are so annoying like stop being a pick me girl and just accept others interests

    • @Satellit3
      @Satellit3 7 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly!!

    • @hawkins347
      @hawkins347 Месяц назад +1

      "Her music taste isn't better than mine" and goes on to list fucking Nickelback, 3 Days Grace and Kid Rock lmao, like nobody thinks that's some gourmet shit. You like rather mainstream rock, just own it.

  • @arya.e.c.
    @arya.e.c. 7 месяцев назад +451

    5:00 "If you play Nickelback backwards, you'll hear the devil. Worse, if you play it forward, you'll hear nickelback." - Dave Grohl

    • @Mothwing99
      @Mothwing99 7 месяцев назад +7

      I CANT WITH THAT LOL 😂

    • @DeePeeZee
      @DeePeeZee 7 месяцев назад +3

      Omg lmao 🤣

    • @LunaEmpress777
      @LunaEmpress777 7 месяцев назад +1

      oh no he did-duhnt😂

    • @krgxo
      @krgxo 5 месяцев назад +8

      The Nickelback hate not is justified 😢😢😢😢

    • @arya.e.c.
      @arya.e.c. 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@krgxo I think nickelback is one of the most hated bands of all time lol but I think it’s justified

  • @theresidentialrat
    @theresidentialrat 7 месяцев назад +876

    why can’t girlies just support one another😭

  • @femkefeenstra7754
    @femkefeenstra7754 7 месяцев назад +98

    'I'd rather be "weird"'
    *Literally showing the most basic stuff ever*

    • @kylie1504
      @kylie1504 4 месяца назад +4

      Yeah

    • @Pink.pillow357
      @Pink.pillow357 3 месяца назад +11

      It's the same style just different colors 💀

    • @digitalisss
      @digitalisss 3 месяца назад +2

      That post actually pissed me off so much 😔

  • @parasite3000ツ
    @parasite3000ツ 7 месяцев назад +790

    Pick me girls are annoying frfr💀

    • @Love_desirred
      @Love_desirred 7 месяцев назад +5

      Real

    • @parasite3000ツ
      @parasite3000ツ 7 месяцев назад +14

      @OfficerZ637 delete it out of ur computer?💀 what do you think?

    • @heathershangovercure
      @heathershangovercure 7 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@parasite3000ツit's a bot

    • @parasite3000ツ
      @parasite3000ツ 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@heathershangovercure I'd figured🤷‍♀️

    • @parasite3000ツ
      @parasite3000ツ 7 месяцев назад +12

      @OfficerZ637 in that case jst delete it?- I'm pretty sure it's illegal to keep it. Also why are you spamming it

  • @GoldenGothGames
    @GoldenGothGames 7 месяцев назад +206

    Women just want some validation, but doing this to get some? That’s just fucked up. You don’t need male or anyone’s validation to prove your enough to be yourself.

    • @IAM.THEMUSIC
      @IAM.THEMUSIC 7 месяцев назад +15

      dawg especially not a MANS validation bro

    • @jupitersnoot4915
      @jupitersnoot4915 7 месяцев назад +12

      I mean...humans are social creatures. We quite literally DO need external validation. That's literally an evolutionary need we have.

    • @GoldenGothGames
      @GoldenGothGames 7 месяцев назад +5

      @@jupitersnoot4915 I do appreciate your comment, because for lots of people it is like that, I wish people didn’t need other people’s validation and opinions to be themselves. But it’s not always like that. I suppose it’s more like you don’t need validation from those kind of people, because they won’t appreciate you the way you should be appreciated. Or I wish people didn’t need to depend on validation to prove they’re enough. Thanks for clarifying!!

  • @detectivetrashcat39
    @detectivetrashcat39 7 месяцев назад +266

    I'm not an old dude but I love this fact so I'm going to say it. Jonathan Davis himself said he doesn't want to be associated with metal or new metal because he doesn't want to be associated with the polarizing misogynist people in that community and I love that fact so much

    • @areuarealman7269
      @areuarealman7269 7 месяцев назад +2

      Korn?Not a fan but that mic stand was tight long long long time ago and my room mate thought they were the only ones with that style uh no .Not even .

    • @stormie_skies
      @stormie_skies 7 месяцев назад +9

      i love jonathan davis

  • @LunarEclipes696
    @LunarEclipes696 7 месяцев назад +267

    OH NO NOT THE PICK MES 😭😭💀💀

  • @randomwhatever5403
    @randomwhatever5403 7 месяцев назад +161

    the urge to not be annoyed even while I understand the nuance that leads to it in the beginning is so hard with not like other girls

    • @peggedyourdad9560
      @peggedyourdad9560 7 месяцев назад +6

      It’s fine to still be annoyed by something you understand. Having a valid reason behind it does not erase the fact that it it annoying and harmful. Understanding is not condoning and reasons are not permission.

  • @crow_moriondo
    @crow_moriondo 7 месяцев назад +59

    Is it really that hard to dress in casual clothes, not wear makeup, and be "tomboyish" and still be a girl's girl? 😭😭

    • @imkindasortofmaybealittlegay
      @imkindasortofmaybealittlegay 7 месяцев назад +11

      fr like not everyone wears makeup and is feminine but girl. YOU CAN BE A TOMBOY AND HAVE UNPOPULAR INTERESTS AND STILL RESPECT PEOPLE WHO HAVE POPULAR INTERESTSSSS 😤

    • @I_loveanime62
      @I_loveanime62 Месяц назад

      Frrr. I want to be 'that girl' and is trying to be. But i don't wear makeup, does that make me less feminine. No! Im frickin obsessed with pink and kawaii.

  • @puppiesgacha2948
    @puppiesgacha2948 7 месяцев назад +76

    The funny thing is im a metalhead. I listen to other genres but mostly alt music whether emo goth metal or punk. And I make most of my friends through music. I hated it at school because I didnt listen to mainstream music or really like it but everyone else did and theyd joke about it or talk about celebrity things happening and I didnt get it and ended up being the "weird kid". I ended up sitting by myself and whenever I hung out with others, id try to join a conversation or talk with people and id be talked over and ignored. Having no way to relate to others doesnt make you cool and quirky. It just means its hard to make friends. And if you're an ass about it then im sure its even harder

    • @rosesweetcharlotte
      @rosesweetcharlotte 7 месяцев назад +10

      Seriously, being different is hard. I'm still different and it's hard.

  • @amicableenmity9820
    @amicableenmity9820 7 месяцев назад +313

    Sad thing is the girls who are different (not on purpose) are bullied by people who want attention themselves. They need a scapegoat for all their own awkwardness. Autism makes it hard for these girls to fit in, and they're not trying to be "different" they just are. Now that's not to say some on the spectrum aren't insecure themselves, I've seen it, but a lot of them just want friends who will accept them.

    • @Jabberwocky112
      @Jabberwocky112 7 месяцев назад +29

      The thing is, why is it their job to be nice to people who ostracize them. It seems to pressure for girls who are considered different to be nice to people who oppress them is higher than the pressure for teenage girls to be more accepting of their neurodivergent peers.

    • @leighslore
      @leighslore 7 месяцев назад

      THIS. I feel like there are two types of girls society likes to deem as “pick mes” yes there are girls who will intentionally fuck people over, who go out their way to appear different and quirky but these people are LOUD and post this in videos or act this way again loud publicly for the world for attention… HOWEVER there is another type of girl just like myself growing up who were “pick me” girls BEFORE pick me was a thing but the treatment we received and the fact we were pushed out of female spaces by other little girls themselves is always overlooked. I grew up being both on the spectrum and suffering with anxiety and to this day even now as a grown adult my friends are mostly male and this is down to the way girls treated me growing up, i was seen as more alternative, weird and tomboyish and pushed out by girls leaving me with only boys to play with/befriend. then you skip to being in high school and so many girls would want my help with getting close to my male friends and acquaintances which is all fine and dandy till said male friends get girlfriends who no longer want you in the picture, now ofc we are going to be upset when this happens as these have been our PLATONIC FRIENDS all of our lives whilst you wanted nothing to do with us, which is always ignored as is the treatment of said neurodivergent girls to begin with then as an adult when you still struggle to socialise and befriend women your seen as a pick me for having mostly male friends cos girls bullied you into it to begin with. I feel that THIS reality of “pick mes” needs to be acknowledged when people quote things like “i don’t get on with girls. all my friends are boys” to drag girls down it’s like okay but you are the reason we turned out this way down to your bullying in earlier years, if little girls were most accepting to girls who were more tomboyish or different and befriended them regardless then so many girls esp neurodivergent girls wouldn’t feel like they have no place in female spaces cos i am now in my 30s and i still do not feel welcome in female dominating environments

    • @RookMurphy
      @RookMurphy 7 месяцев назад +35

      Hey, I have autism. I dont act like that. I know it is a spectrum, I have friends who have autism too. We do not act like that. Acting how they do and purposefully putting down others is not something that should make you go "oh! they just have autism, its okay." They are the type of girls that bullied me for being "weird" and "different" when I read instead of talking and when I interacted differently that they expected.

    • @Trankuiru
      @Trankuiru 7 месяцев назад +17

      Thiss. I have a friend that is out of place awkward type girl and girls in my class would bully her so much, I'm not even kidding. When she got paired with girls that isn't in her friend group, the girls would always laugh at those who gets paired up with her. I really don't understand why. Yeah, she acts weird than most but is that really worth bullying her over? Apparently, for those girls, YES. Every little "oops" that she makes (which is just her being a bit weird), the girls would always bring it up again and again to make fun of her, it's honestly tiring.

    • @promisemochi
      @promisemochi 7 месяцев назад +18

      this discussion about pick me girls is about girls who put other girls down. i am autistic too. it doesn't give me a pass to be a jerk to other women or look down on them.

  • @cynamonowakanapka
    @cynamonowakanapka 7 месяцев назад +268

    Last year I gave my girlfriend a tote bag with a huge "I'm not like other girls I'm a lesbian" in the middle and she loved it lmao

  • @deobeesie369
    @deobeesie369 7 месяцев назад +131

    THIS IS STILL A THING??!?

    • @IAM.THEMUSIC
      @IAM.THEMUSIC 7 месяцев назад +9

      LMFAOO like lets leave begging for m*le validation in 2013 type shi💕

    • @KilljoyFreya
      @KilljoyFreya 7 месяцев назад +15

      @@IAM.THEMUSIC
      Did… Did you just censor the word “male”?

    • @WeirdDinosaurthing
      @WeirdDinosaurthing 7 месяцев назад +13

      ​@@IAM.THEMUSIC Why the hell did you censor the word "male"? I'm genuinely curious I've never seen anyone do that 😭

    • @ozaut
      @ozaut 7 месяцев назад

      ⁠@@IAM.THEMUSICmale

    • @promisemochi
      @promisemochi 7 месяцев назад +7

      @@IAM.THEMUSIClmao why censor the word male?

  • @HazZzel-
    @HazZzel- 7 месяцев назад +144

    I've never understood the country boy appeal either. And i mean each to your own but is being treated like an object really worth sacraficing your dignity 😭

    • @rosesweetcharlotte
      @rosesweetcharlotte 7 месяцев назад +21

      I love it when these same girls act like the country aesthetic and look are so unique. Like, girl, you really think you're the first one to have burlap at your wedding? Wear boots instead of heels?

    • @youresinningtoo3996
      @youresinningtoo3996 7 месяцев назад +6

      The farm girls need to sit down and shut up or go clean up the horses shit or something

    • @Bunn77
      @Bunn77 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@youresinningtoo3996a lot of country girls are not like this. Just like not all alt girls are pick me's

    • @HazZzel-
      @HazZzel- 5 месяцев назад

      @@Bunn77 I said each to their own, no need to get offended

    • @Bunn77
      @Bunn77 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@HazZzel- that's fine. Following the first sentence with the second made it sound like you were saying country people treat women like objects when I read it. I reread it and now I get what you're saying. My apologies.

  • @mysterylovescompany2657
    @mysterylovescompany2657 7 месяцев назад +322

    Dignified women > petty women
    Gracious women > competitive women
    Women's women > these women
    🌷

    • @moth399
      @moth399 7 месяцев назад +7

      ​@OfficerZ637 what??

    • @HunterLvyiXIII
      @HunterLvyiXIII 7 месяцев назад +18

      ​@@moth399 don't worry, it's just a bot

    • @OceansbutalsoLakes
      @OceansbutalsoLakes 7 месяцев назад +6

      @OfficerZ637have a seat

    • @skh.449
      @skh.449 6 месяцев назад +1

      @OfficerZ637 this one right here officer 👮‍♀

    • @mysterylovescompany2657
      @mysterylovescompany2657 4 месяца назад +1

      @@HunterLvyiXIII I'm not, but you gave me a chuckle.

  • @Foxifye
    @Foxifye 7 месяцев назад +83

    i went to ulta with my friend to see the price on the nyx fat oil and she fucking just was like "i dont know how you wear this stuff" or "i only know what chapstick is" the entire fucking time it was so fucking annoying

    • @promisemochi
      @promisemochi 7 месяцев назад +29

      omg this!! i took a new friend to a cafe that had a cute kitschy little clothing store and gift shop attached. the products are random but fun and silly and girlie and she complained the entire time, saying how tacky it all was, asking how i could genuinely enjoy being there, etc. the whole time i was like "so i invited you out to share something with you and you're spending the entire time putting me down by association"

    • @rosesweetcharlotte
      @rosesweetcharlotte 7 месяцев назад +24

      My God, is she 10? I get not wearing a ton of makeup, but acting like you're kewl because you don't wear a lot is so immature.

    • @oceanexblve884
      @oceanexblve884 7 месяцев назад +7

      I hate people who complain when you introduce them to a new thing

    • @KyleBruhVloski
      @KyleBruhVloski 7 месяцев назад +7

      ​@@rosesweetcharlotte"Not kewl Kyel." -Eric Cartman

    • @shoobamocha
      @shoobamocha 6 месяцев назад

      Imagine how women like her feel having makeup and pointless skincare shoved as necessities everywhere they turn for their whole life when they're not interested. After a certain time it becomes so ridiculous and the pressure to perform femininity just to be seen in public is outrageous. Because it's so normalized, she might feel out of the loop and genuinely shocked at all the options. Don't take it as personal offense but have a conversation about it next time and you might learn something new. It's always interesting to hear peoples perspective when it's different from yours.

  • @falconkid9167
    @falconkid9167 7 месяцев назад +98

    I also hate the fact that even when the opposite genders are friends, someone who I knew (uses they/them pronouns and are afab) would be weird about me and other people being around guys. I’m like I JUST WANNA BE FRIENDS DONT ACT LIKE YOU ARE BETTER THAN ME OR OTHER PEOPLE

    • @edithbella1018
      @edithbella1018 7 месяцев назад +4

      What the heck is afáb ? I’m lesbian and this other stuff just ain’t it

    • @mastertofu
      @mastertofu 7 месяцев назад +22

      ​@@edithbella1018 afab means 'assigned female at birth'

    • @heathershangovercure
      @heathershangovercure 7 месяцев назад +10

      ​@@edithbella1018assigned female at birth

    • @edithbella1018
      @edithbella1018 7 месяцев назад +9

      @@mastertofu so like a woman ?

    • @belphieyiu
      @belphieyiu 7 месяцев назад

      @@edithbella1018 ☠☠ig, what has society come to, for to be needing to specify that you've been a female since birth

  • @SillyWolfGuy
    @SillyWolfGuy 7 месяцев назад +63

    “Because my anxiety unfortunately goes brrr” that is so real and I feel that in my soul. Your videos are always awesome, keep it up!

  • @gemcorker3982
    @gemcorker3982 7 месяцев назад +50

    We all have "I'm not like other girls" phase, because it turns out we aren't the braindead caricatures of girls seen in movies. We have rich inner lives, and dreams & problems that only protagonists in Hollywood movies have, so we all assume we must be weird for not being stereotypes. It's ok! We were all this cringy at one point, and we have grown past it now!

    • @Bunn77
      @Bunn77 5 месяцев назад +6

      Yeah, I think a lot of people went through this phase. I honestly feel bad for some of these people(except the last one that's just wrong) because I think they feel empty of experiences or trapped by expectations and they can't do what they really want due to fear. I think it's also a result of scarcity, financially and socially.

  • @InkyStarzzz
    @InkyStarzzz 7 месяцев назад +43

    IKR music is personal!! I personally like grunge, and some of my friends like pop sorta stuff and i seriously could not care any less man

    • @velvetkori
      @velvetkori 7 месяцев назад +5

      HEY, WAIT, IVE GOT A NEW COMPLAINT, FOREVER IN DEBT TO YOUR PRICELESS ADVICEEEE

    • @InkyStarzzz
      @InkyStarzzz 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@velvetkori HEY, WAIT, IVE GOT A NEW COMPLAINT... FOREVER IN DEBT TO IR PRICELESS ADVICEEEEE.... YOUR ADVICEEE!!!!

    • @velvetkori
      @velvetkori 7 месяцев назад +5

      @@InkyStarzzz MEAT EATING ORCHIDS FORGIVE NO ONE JS YET, CUT MYSELF ON ANGELS HAIR AND BABYS BREATHS, BROKEN HYMEN OF UR HGIGHNESS IM LEFT BLACK, THROW DOWN UR UMBILICAL NOOSE SO I CAN CLIMB RIGHT BACKKK

  • @SillyLittlePookie
    @SillyLittlePookie 7 месяцев назад +27

    pick mes and incels should get together

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson 2 месяца назад

      incels are too busy hating women while not leaving us tf alone lmao

  • @princessfetus
    @princessfetus 7 месяцев назад +37

    I’m not like other girls I’m much MUCH worse

  • @jaeisbillieswifeforlife
    @jaeisbillieswifeforlife 7 месяцев назад +39

    Rockers don't accept ppl acting like they're better bc they listen to rock :) I just wish all girls were girls girls-

    • @rachelreii5952
      @rachelreii5952 4 месяца назад

      Just cooking up a pork chop while jamming to metallica coz I can why is this PEAK performance me acting better I had to find out what others perspective on myself to see where i stand in this pick me era I had to be real with myself

  • @JustaNobody-j8x
    @JustaNobody-j8x 7 месяцев назад +42

    If you act like you’re better than everyone, better get ready for a hard fall back to reality. Hubris will only set you up for a humbling experience.

  • @ohhowkeni8709
    @ohhowkeni8709 7 месяцев назад +39

    Back when I was first dating my now husband, there was one girl who made me uncomfortable when she was around my boyfriend. She was not obviously flirty, but she had liked him before he and I had started dating.
    I never worried that my boyfriend would do anything with her, but it was just comments she made that were off putting to me, like she didn’t understand that certain comments or request would no longer be appropriate.
    For instance, we had a friend that was getting married. All three of us would be at the friends wedding. This girl asked if he could “save a dance for her”. Had this been the only request or comment she ever made, I would maybe have let it slide, but this was also after she had told my boyfriend that she “had a hard time seeing me with him” and asked if we could be less touchy around her.
    I politely asked my bf if he would not dance with her and gave my reasoning, and he sided with me. I don’t think I was ever jealous, because I didn’t feel threatened, but it just frustrated me that I even had to deal with those comments from her. I felt it would be obvious that those things were inappropriate.

    • @martiyarchive
      @martiyarchive 7 месяцев назад +7

      keep critical thinking👏🏼 lots of people cant or refuse too

  • @Kuro.is_d3ad
    @Kuro.is_d3ad 7 месяцев назад +40

    I have a guy best friend and everyone used to assume we are secretly "liking" each other. He's JUST a guy who happened to be my best friend.
    But now i am considered a pick me for not hanging out with girls instead. I literally did but because my best friend is a guy, i am called a pick me 💀

    • @fifi_______
      @fifi_______ 7 месяцев назад

      Did you make a shitty tiktok for people to pick you? No ? Then this video is not for you.but Just the fact that this triggered you so you had to write all that sht repeating ys says A LOT tho💀

    • @M155_M00nlight
      @M155_M00nlight 7 месяцев назад

      Bro what 💀 why does society think that boys and girls cant be friends because "Oh ThEy MuSt LiKe EaChOtHeR! tHeY aRe OpOsItE gEnDeRs! BLAH BLAH BLAH" like its ridiculous 😭

    • @felinelover1191
      @felinelover1191 5 месяцев назад

      Well is he has a girlfriend and you don't make an effort to put boundaries and distance yourself from him to consider his girl, then yeah you're a pick me.

    • @sumbunny2009
      @sumbunny2009 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@felinelover1191 Why the fuck are you telling her to back off? If he's in a relationship he should be the one initiating it. And why TF are you just assuming the worst?

  • @Alex-dj2um
    @Alex-dj2um 7 месяцев назад +21

    I’m friends with about any type of girl and guy and I hear all the time about boys being less drama when I know damn sure they’ve never been actual friends with guys bc they’re just as much of not more drama than women

  • @saturnayeon
    @saturnayeon 7 месяцев назад +12

    the music pick mes piss me off 😭🙏 like saying you dont like taylor isnt cringe but making it ur personality is… something! “im not like other girls i listen to nirvana” so do millions of others, u arent that different

  • @felixitations
    @felixitations 7 месяцев назад +16

    the music one pisses me off like girl i like metal and indie and kpop and rock and some of my friends like country and pop and stuff and honestly idgaf. like come on if anything its lovely i love talking to people w different interests

  • @_MissLoLo
    @_MissLoLo 7 месяцев назад +25

    I'd love to hear your thoughts on the trend of Korn and other nu metal bands being labeled "girly pop"

  • @Wisteraaa
    @Wisteraaa 7 месяцев назад +21

    “ Im not like other girls. Im not even a girl im a pterodactyl.”

  • @I_simp_for_Wesker
    @I_simp_for_Wesker 7 месяцев назад +61

    I hate when people pull the music stuff, I like stuff like Nickleback, Hollywood Undead, Rob Zombie, Damage Plan, Falling in Reverse, TX2, and Slipknot. And I don’t want to seem like that type of girl, but I genuinely scare some of my friends with my music taste because I dress athletic/girly. I don’t want to seem like that so I just tend to shut up about it even though I genuinely like talking to my friends about my music taste. I know I’m like other girls, hell I have a Stanley because it was given to me as a gift. (How dareth thou insult Nickleback, they’ve got a good beat in their songs :( /j)

    • @Starribruins
      @Starribruins 7 месяцев назад +9

      Falling in reverse fan? I thought I’d never find another!

    • @IAm-No1
      @IAm-No1 7 месяцев назад +13

      Honestly I think u should just talk about the stuff u like and if ur friends r good ppl then they won’t judge and if they do then they probably aren’t the type of friends you’d want to have. (Also ur music taste is so good!!!!)

    • @yehrme02
      @yehrme02 7 месяцев назад +7

      SLIPKNOT‼‼🔥

    • @OceansbutalsoLakes
      @OceansbutalsoLakes 7 месяцев назад +5

      Nickelback would be good if they had less corny lyrics/videos. I think that’s the main thing that turns people off, the music isn’t the problem.

    • @ButterrrrrScott
      @ButterrrrrScott 7 месяцев назад +1

      Oooh TX2!!

  • @BRIANNA_00
    @BRIANNA_00 7 месяцев назад +31

    God, i *love* your sense of style!

  • @machiavelliandcheese
    @machiavelliandcheese 7 месяцев назад +15

    “Look at this Biiiitch” sent me 🤣😭 as a Nickleback enjoyer, that was hilarious

  • @jeng2672
    @jeng2672 7 месяцев назад +26

    "ok, this one"
    *not even a second later*
    "AÉûGH"
    8:32 is the part I'm talking abt btw

  • @Starlantern367
    @Starlantern367 7 месяцев назад +21

    The pick me's need to calm down.

  • @mykittenisaferociousnugget
    @mykittenisaferociousnugget 7 месяцев назад +10

    It's pretty sad. Why can't people just respect one another? Like seriously, it's not that hard to see a more "mainstream" person/style and just say "oh that's cool, but I wouldn't wear it/do it/etc. Not just girls support girls, PEOPLE SUPPORT PEOPLE. Don't make people's boyfriends uncomfortable, don't make guy best friend's girlfriends uncomfortable, don't make other people uncomfortable, insecure or like they are less. It's not hard! I enjoy a variety of styles, from alternative to kawaii to cottagecore to weirdcore, but I don't put down "mainstream" styles or styles I don't like. It's not hard to respect people 😑

  • @annavanwormer970
    @annavanwormer970 7 месяцев назад +20

    My dad was a DJ growing up so I will literally listen to anything. Alone tho I have my own playlist that is me. I love that you encourage us to be ourselves. Also you’ve got me practicing my scream singing again it’s fantastic!

  • @vivitv6425
    @vivitv6425 7 месяцев назад +17

    Why have pick me girls not gone away? 😂

    • @Lalaacx3
      @Lalaacx3 7 месяцев назад

      Too much internalized misogyny, it may never go away

  • @KatietheKreator
    @KatietheKreator 6 месяцев назад +3

    I'm not like other girls, I'm a unique individual with a unique combination of traits, hobbies, opinions, and experiences, just like every other girl on the face of the earth
    no girls are like other girls 👍

  • @catchiita
    @catchiita 7 месяцев назад +4

    No... This cannot be real in 2024.. God, please no...

  • @mintyflow3796
    @mintyflow3796 7 месяцев назад +18

    The queen posted another video

  • @txtlynxt_s0phia
    @txtlynxt_s0phia 5 месяцев назад +4

    0:39 im pretty upfront so if a friend does something i dont like i do tell them, but in the politest way i can, not like this. but i get the “i’ll respect you if you respect me” part i can understand. the “hide ur *** its not cute” YIKES

  • @queentargaryen9389
    @queentargaryen9389 7 месяцев назад +22

    I don’t usually like eyebrows like yours but I love them on you! With your personality they are so expressive. Super cute!

    • @IAM.THEMUSIC
      @IAM.THEMUSIC 7 месяцев назад +7

      literally her makeup is always so cute

    • @tapijoz
      @tapijoz 7 месяцев назад +1

      That’s how it starts😂

  • @GenerationJonesi
    @GenerationJonesi 7 месяцев назад +3

    Are we still trashing women for having sex? I havent heard that misogynistic, double standard, for a long time. I thought it was dead. Hmm. Tbh I feel sorry for women who don't have women friends & trash their own gender. It just tells me that they've internalized that misogyny and it must be tough hating on yourself.

  • @casscat7
    @casscat7 7 месяцев назад +10

    i used to be someone who thought i was different than other girls and also pretty much everyone, and i feel like it's quite a common thing for many of us out there to feel different or like we are an outsider. but what i don't like is when people get toxic about it, and put down other people because they don't like the things or traits that are too "popular", too "mainstream", too whatever it is that they don't like. i hope one fay they will realize that we are all our own people and we can like a whole variety of different things, popular or not popular, etc. we can still be friends with anyone and let our connections form rather than picking and choosing people who match your ideal version of yourself. you can also relate to other people's experiences, and like the same things, etc. all of that is okay. it's all okay, just be yourself

  • @Dev0idovl1fe
    @Dev0idovl1fe 7 месяцев назад +7

    when dramakween metal growls at the most random times is funny as fuck

  • @ThyLocalBard
    @ThyLocalBard 7 месяцев назад +4

    I'm not like other girls. I'm worse (insert gremlin noises here).
    (yes i am so unoriginal and this jokes has been done hundreds if not thousands of times. i don't care. it's funny)

  • @kiwimiwi5452
    @kiwimiwi5452 7 месяцев назад +13

    a real conversation with a friend from this week:
    "I wanted this one because I really wanted the pink! ..but I don't like pink, like not at all."
    "there's nothing wrong with pink, I had a pink wall once."
    "ewww"

    • @rosesweetcharlotte
      @rosesweetcharlotte 7 месяцев назад +4

      I'm sorry, but pink is such a relaxing color. I would do my whole house in pink if I could...

    • @kiwimiwi5452
      @kiwimiwi5452 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@rosesweetcharlotte I had a glitter pink wall for years!
      Only painted over it with a different color because the pink clashed so much with everything else I owned, but if I'd had pink furniture it would have been 10/10

    • @KyleBruhVloski
      @KyleBruhVloski 7 месяцев назад +5

      I don't care for pink as much as other colors, but it's nothing to say "eWwWw" over, it's a color for Gods sake. People need to grow up just a little. Like you know, just this much? 🤏🏻

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson 2 месяца назад

      ​@@KyleBruhVloski FR

  • @Ashersfaithlife
    @Ashersfaithlife 7 месяцев назад +5

    I used to write off women because my best friend in hs broke my heart when she had a baby with my first bf . I’m gay now yea that’s how that turned out 😂😭

  • @WillowBlack888
    @WillowBlack888 7 месяцев назад +4

    6:42 me for real, but mine would say "When most girls my age are partying and hoeing it out, but I'm grinding and getting rich (I spend 8 consecutive hours selling dragons in 2016 adventure games)"

  • @aubreykelly9294
    @aubreykelly9294 6 месяцев назад +4

    If I ever found out a guy that I’m friends with is cheating on his gf or if I know something she doesn’t I’m telling her IMMEDIATELY

  • @RedVelvetRabbit
    @RedVelvetRabbit 7 месяцев назад +15

    I have very few female friends, I generally find them intimidating and I get nervous. I don't know how to interact with them properly and I get embarrassed and flustered..say something dumb 🤦‍♀️ but I can talk to males without having an issue. I feel like it's because I'm usually seen as "one of the guys" and they don't judge me for being my weird self, I don't get as nervous.
    I'm not "not like other girls", I just have a lack of social skills and get really worried that they'll think I'm stupid.

    • @rosesweetcharlotte
      @rosesweetcharlotte 7 месяцев назад +4

      Some girls will, but so will some guys. The main thing is to try and give them the benefit of doubt

    • @oceanexblve884
      @oceanexblve884 7 месяцев назад +8

      Sounds a bit 🏳️‍🌈👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

    • @im.inyourwalls.
      @im.inyourwalls. 7 месяцев назад

      dude, no.

  • @gemcorker3982
    @gemcorker3982 7 месяцев назад +16

    I used to think I was "not like the other girls". I used to define myself in reaction to what was popular, I rejected designer label clothes & fashion & acted like it was a moral stance, when in fact I was broke & wearing charity shop clothes. I do think at least some of this toxicity comes from girls trying to own things they otherwise would be ashamed of.
    Turns out I have ADHD, so I am, in fact, not like other girls. But I was never chasing male attention, beyond the guy I had a huge crush on.

    • @oceanexblve884
      @oceanexblve884 7 месяцев назад +7

      ADHD does not make you not like other girls … there are 3 million cases a year you are not different

  • @Frenchaboo
    @Frenchaboo 7 месяцев назад +19

    Trends come and go, but seems like internalized misogyny is something every afab person has to overcome to some degree at some point. These movements would always come back every 5 or so years I was growing up using the internet, just changed flavors slightly. This is only telling me that it existed all the way in Victorian era too lol

  • @tromboneartistreader
    @tromboneartistreader Месяц назад +2

    6:23 THIS BASIC IS Ë̶͖̳̲͍̟́̃Ų̵̺̝̬̣̙̺̮̖̬̍̈́͋͌͂͂͋̅͠G̶͙̙͔͙͔͕̖͔̫͎͍͖̐̊̀̅̊̏̕͘͜H̸̺̞̰̱̝́̋̀̽̕̚
    THIS BASIC IS 😍𝔂𝓪𝓪!🥰

  • @DDSmols
    @DDSmols 7 месяцев назад +3

    I'm not like other girls. I'm an absolute fucking disaster. 😎

  • @ragegremlin
    @ragegremlin 7 месяцев назад +5

    I’m not like other girls…
    *proceeds to open my trench coat and reveals 14 raccoons*
    I’m worse!!!

  • @Hiatus-x-Hiatus
    @Hiatus-x-Hiatus 7 месяцев назад +9

    You know it's gonna be a good day when Drama Kween uploads ♡

  • @EVELCATZ
    @EVELCATZ 7 месяцев назад +5

    Not like other girls I a man

  • @HuskersSlave
    @HuskersSlave 7 месяцев назад +3

    Im not like other girls 😒
    Im worse

  • @fleuridema3932
    @fleuridema3932 3 месяца назад +2

    I feel like these girls haven’t experience true female friendships. I hope these type of girls get to experience the love; support and true commitment that women show each other when they are connected ❤

  • @Wheres_Bunny
    @Wheres_Bunny 7 месяцев назад +5

    The Pick me knowing Guy Best friend dawg is giving FB shirt vibes

  • @MarvelSonicFan04
    @MarvelSonicFan04 7 месяцев назад +11

    This ought to be good

  • @kristinkemplen2063
    @kristinkemplen2063 7 месяцев назад +5

    The level of “I’m completely un-self aware,” is amazing. 🙄

  • @Amelias_Roblox
    @Amelias_Roblox 7 месяцев назад +2

    I’m a girl who likes boyish stuff, I don’t really wear that much make up some times and I’ll mostly wear hoodies and play video games most of my time, I will wear a dress or something like that if I wanted to and most of my friends are male, but I do respect other girls just not the loud ass annoying ones. That dosent make me a pick me right? I’m only asking just in case.

    • @misuzu_dono
      @misuzu_dono 7 месяцев назад +2

      The fact that you are concerned means you are def not a bad person so i m sure you are good:)
      Also you can think of it this way, think about the concerned interaction with said girl and now imagine if a boy had been just as annoying and loud, if you would react similarly that means you don't make judgements based on if it was a girl or boy

  • @Eeee-xl4xb
    @Eeee-xl4xb 7 месяцев назад +2

    being honest doesn’t mean you have to insult someone lol

  • @shrub5094
    @shrub5094 7 месяцев назад +4

    I've been on the other end of it in high school where I was the guy's best friend & his girlfriend was jealous of me to the point she threatened to "fight" me over a texting typo. And I did not over step any boundaries in my friendship w the guy! Girl why was SHE jealous of me, she was literally dating him (which I had no interest in doing so)

  • @pestilenssi8979
    @pestilenssi8979 7 месяцев назад +6

    Also love the metal screams you randomly do

  • @I_like_racoonz.
    @I_like_racoonz. 4 месяца назад +2

    “I’m not like other girls!🤭”
    “I eat peop-“

  • @swiftlyaswiftie
    @swiftlyaswiftie 7 месяцев назад +11

    This perfectly sums up why I hate gatekeeping mentalities.
    Like I'm a massive Taylor Swift fan who went to the concert but I'd NEVER go around saying stuff like "if you can't name these Taylor Swift songs you don't deserve to go" because really, what's the point of gatekeeping? To keep it obscure? Because those people gatekeeping are the same one complaining about how 'underrated' songs are

    • @Stateofgracestan
      @Stateofgracestan 4 месяца назад +1

      Omg i hate those swifties
      I became a Swiftie in 1989tv and i was so pressurized to listened to xyz song and not Blank Space as only locals listen to that

    • @PineNeedle-Supreme
      @PineNeedle-Supreme 2 месяца назад +1

      God I hate those kind of people. I like some pretty obscure things, I dont care if they cant name certain things Im just happy someone finally knows what Im talking about! I want more people to talk too I dont care if theyre a bigger fan then me or literally just heard about it a day ago
      Gatekeeping sucks

  • @Uzi_inspaaaace
    @Uzi_inspaaaace 7 месяцев назад +12

    "This basic is eeehhhhhhh" THIS BASIC IS AAAAAAHHHH" I DIEEDD

  • @GinaBlythe
    @GinaBlythe 7 месяцев назад +2

    My dad told me that "If you have to put others down in order to build yourself up, remember that you can only stand so high in a pile of s&!t." I'm not always successful, but I do try to keep that in mind.

  • @chaosspy6723
    @chaosspy6723 7 месяцев назад +3

    i have guy friends and friends that are girls. one of my guy friends is married and from what he tells me about her, she seems cool and fun. one day we're going to make him watch barbie with us.

  • @Jellyfish4343
    @Jellyfish4343 7 месяцев назад +9

    You’re so iconic

  • @hoshicloverfield
    @hoshicloverfield 7 месяцев назад +6

    I get called a pick me for the most stupid reasons by a pick me.

    • @imkindasortofmaybealittlegay
      @imkindasortofmaybealittlegay 7 месяцев назад +2

      someone called me a pickme for saying i don't like how makeup feels on my skin 😭 i literally told her "but i think makeup looks really good on a lot of ppl" and she called me a pick me 😭😭

    • @hoshicloverfield
      @hoshicloverfield 6 месяцев назад

      ​Same! I also got called a pick me for saying that it wasn't appropriate to tell my best friend who is male to delete himself because of an online game that we were play. (She didn't actually say delete but you know what I mean)​@@imkindasortofmaybealittlegay

  • @def_not_makena
    @def_not_makena 7 месяцев назад +2

    do a collab with your sister haylo hayley

  • @wucanit_benou
    @wucanit_benou 6 месяцев назад +2

    “I’m not like other girls, I’m a homewrecker! 😝🤪🤣

  • @PrinzessinSchuhkarton
    @PrinzessinSchuhkarton 6 месяцев назад +2

    If you wanna be a good girl just follow these simple rules (hard techno by brutalismus 3000 playing full volume)

  • @Yawninggate
    @Yawninggate 7 месяцев назад +1

    “I’m not like other girls”; I’m transmasc hooray🎉
    In all seriousness though, it’s so wild to me seeing stuff like this as a transmasc person specifically because you realize that it’s also just really gendered in a way, I don’t really know how else to describe it, but it’s honestly kinda upsetting, because people are so so very diverse and different in their own unique ways but the very thing that makes us unique isn’t ever normalized and is instead put on blast in public to make themself feel better

  • @Gay-Miku_-w-
    @Gay-Miku_-w- 7 месяцев назад +4

    I hate the “I’m not like other girls” shit, it’s just.. why?

  • @tattedupluv
    @tattedupluv 5 месяцев назад +2

    don't yuck somebody's yum dude, not cool

  • @Mossymoss69
    @Mossymoss69 5 месяцев назад +7

    Someone should start a pick-me reformation program. A group of pick-me’s get sent to a summer camp, and slowly learn that they *are* like other girls.

  • @24shineon
    @24shineon 5 месяцев назад +6

    I remember seeing an incredibly accurate comment comment that says “it’s wild that I’m not like other girls went from tomboys to ‘actually I don’t believe some women deserve rights’”

  • @theyeszenmama4352
    @theyeszenmama4352 23 дня назад +1

    Why can’t us girls support each other and love each other??? It’s not hard😭😭

  • @Boredom-Incorporated
    @Boredom-Incorporated 7 месяцев назад +2

    No stop reminding me of the girls in my middle school right now not the Stanley’s I have to wait 3 minutes to get a sip of water cause they fill that’s shit up

  • @Azelia_Dragonz
    @Azelia_Dragonz 2 месяца назад +1

    She might be prettier than me😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣
    But her music taste isn’t better than mine😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚⛓️⛓️⛓️⛓️⛓️⛓️⛓️⛓️⛓️⛓️⛓️⛓️⛓️⛓️🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
    *literally only listens to Cavetown 24/7*