Icks on TikTok Are Destroying Relationships & It’s Sad..

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
  • pls use an umbrella, it’s the LEAST not great thing you could do as a human.. people are out here doing worse. ick culture in general makes no sense bc why are you posting your partner in this way?? THEY WILL SEE WHAT YOU DONT LIKE ABOUT THEM BROADCASTED TO MILLIONS OF PEOPLE BRO LIKE 😭😭😭
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  • @tylerblack3962
    @tylerblack3962 6 дней назад +1944

    My ick: People recording their partners and/or random strangers to judge them on Tiktok without their permission

    • @Nicole__Natalia
      @Nicole__Natalia 5 дней назад +24

      Or recording themselves 🤣

    • @alexissteele5274
      @alexissteele5274 5 дней назад +14

      This comment is gold 🥇

    • @shayshay7437
      @shayshay7437 5 дней назад +5

      Give this person an Oscar award

    • @Synthenoid_
      @Synthenoid_ 3 дня назад +9

      Was gonna comment this, like I'm finding it weird that people are so chill with filming their partners, notably when they're not looking?? As if for the specific purpose of judging too? gives creep vibes. Also just today learned people 'ick' at men tying sweaters/jackets on the waist, so much so that they'd laugh at the sight of it?? what rock have I been living under lol

  • @ukatchukun243
    @ukatchukun243 5 дней назад +425

    There was this girl in class, came up to me and said with a straight face: "you're giving me the ick by the way" I asked "why" I kid you not she said"you've been drinking a lot of water since you entered the classroom"...I don't even know this girl this was our first interaction and what I am supposed to do ,be dehydrated and pass out on the floor🤡. and quite frankly I only took two sips of my water and then I started to drink more water after she talked to me just to piss her off👁️👄👁️

    • @kleinesalaska666
      @kleinesalaska666 5 дней назад +17

      Thats the best comment here 🙌🏼

    • @Rae.Harper
      @Rae.Harper 5 дней назад +48

      Did you make it a point to make eye contact with her every time you took a drink?
      Is that just something I would do? I’d even call her out in class “hey Sarah!” *drinks*

    • @GraveyardShift-tl6ri
      @GraveyardShift-tl6ri 5 дней назад +26

      that is psychotic. girlie needs to find God.

    • @jaclynns.jungle
      @jaclynns.jungle 5 дней назад +19

      Don't you dare stay hydrated

    • @Gayditor
      @Gayditor 4 дня назад +19

      thats so funny like wwhat did she think u wwere gonna do. apologize????

  • @Luluhakumata
    @Luluhakumata 6 дней назад +1151

    Imagine recording strangers without their permission, posting the video on the internet and saying that it's an ick. It's such a disgusting way tbh, like how don't you feel bad when you record someone doing a human thing and complain about it?

    • @anyone1111
      @anyone1111 6 дней назад +11

      Exactly

    • @arodoeseverything
      @arodoeseverything 6 дней назад +58

      I'm terrified and honestly wouldn't doubt it if there was a video on the internet about me. I'm definitely the kind of person to jam out to my music regardless of where I am. Apparently me being happy is an ick.

    • @stickinug
      @stickinug 5 дней назад +34

      ​@@arodoeseverything one of my favorite things to see in public is a stranger thoroughly enjoying their music (as long as you're not disturbing the peace 😅)

    • @HELLINA-HANDBASKET
      @HELLINA-HANDBASKET 5 дней назад

      Filming strangers in public is both an ick and a red flag

    • @Xuromikuromi
      @Xuromikuromi 5 дней назад +13

      ​@arodoeseverything I hate that you feel this way homie. Jam out. Tiktok is a stain, and people who use it seriously and don't think it's just knock off decaf vine don't really care for their opinions you know. They can't even carry umbrellas without grossing themselves out. Who cares what they think 💪🧿 (although I also would be pissed if someone posted a video of me without permission, at least it reflects on their character and not ours!!)

  • @Chihiro._.Sen0
    @Chihiro._.Sen0 6 дней назад +1124

    This is why I deleted TikTok a while back, It's honestly such a toxic environment 🙏

    • @gloomymoon15
      @gloomymoon15 6 дней назад +16

      In my experience youtube is way more toxic then tiktok!

    • @itsmejahoo
      @itsmejahoo 6 дней назад +18

      Same. It was awful.

    • @luuhiyo
      @luuhiyo 6 дней назад +42

      ​@@gloomymoon15maybe you're right but tik tok is more loud about it i think

    • @Chihiro._.Sen0
      @Chihiro._.Sen0 6 дней назад +78

      @@gloomymoon15 honestly it genuinely depends on who you're watching, that goes for any platform. On RUclips you can choose who you're watching unless you're on shorts. That's at least how I view it 🤷‍♀️

    • @Antje_An
      @Antje_An 6 дней назад

      FR

  • @laurendearnley9595
    @laurendearnley9595 6 дней назад +172

    When they grow up, they'll realize these little quirks are the things you love about your person - its what makes them special.

    • @gabby222themoon
      @gabby222themoon 5 дней назад +25

      Bruh they don’t like their partners

    • @laurendearnley9595
      @laurendearnley9595 5 дней назад +9

      @gabby222themoon exactly why I said "when they grow up". They have the mentality of children, just in adult bodies. Maybe they'll never grow up. Alot of people don't, and they're immature and unhappy forever.

    • @Nin_the_Shinobi
      @Nin_the_Shinobi 2 дня назад +1

      I don't think they're ever going to grow out of it to be honest

  • @ikea_bear1791
    @ikea_bear1791 6 дней назад +494

    Super anxious girly here. You mentioning the “opening my mouth too wide when eating in public” is so real 😭 I feel so seen. I eat slow and in small bites when I go eat with friends outside because I become SO SO SOOO aware of how I look to others that honestly it sometimes ruins the food experience :(

    • @thecolourfulpill
      @thecolourfulpill 5 дней назад +13

      Some time ago I noticed that I eat while covering my mouth, but that's mostly because I didn't want to spit on people while talking... And now I do it all the time 😭.

    • @ChatWithAUnicorn
      @ChatWithAUnicorn 5 дней назад +9

      Most of the things we think others are staring at us for, they aren't even concerned about. As long as you aren't eating like Beast(Beauty and the Beast), 99.99999% of people aren't paying your eating habits any mind.

    • @davyjonesrealwife
      @davyjonesrealwife 5 дней назад +5

      I once was eating with someone and they looked at me eating and said "what kind of creature am i looking at" like dawg im just chewing on food 😭

    • @120magix
      @120magix 5 дней назад +4

      Same. It sucked back in school eating in the cafeteria. Whenever something dropped, I felt that people were laughing at me.

    • @leowright2251
      @leowright2251 4 дня назад +2

      i had the same problem for decades, finally just gave up and decided the joy of eating is more important, hoping that same thing clicks for everyone else struggling with the same issue because i know how much it sucks 🫠

  • @gracelovely3838
    @gracelovely3838 6 дней назад +222

    I think "icks" are okay sometimes. For example, if you don't want a man who wears his pants below his boxers or who is super rude to wait staff, totally valid. But getting the "ick" because he used an umbrella? Yikes

    • @dexter_-
      @dexter_- 5 дней назад +4

      in the case of men wearing pants below boxers it's also not hurting anyone...you do realize that right

    • @zero7769
      @zero7769 5 дней назад +39

      @@dexter_-yeah but we can also have preferences for the way someone dresses. i don’t like it either but i’m not gonna like approach ppl and tell them not to

    • @dexter_-
      @dexter_- 5 дней назад +2

      @zero7769 yeah but how is this guy arguing against icks for being harmless but saying another harmless ick is okay? that's what im saying, to pick a side

    • @Nicole__Natalia
      @Nicole__Natalia 5 дней назад +36

      ⁠​⁠@@dexter_-sure but it’s a “fashion” choice, not just an everyday thing like using a fking umbrella or drinking from a straw. You’re allowed to have style preferences for partners. Plus it looks ridiculous 😂 also OP didn’t mention anything about being harmless, yet you said it was their argument.

    • @promisemochi
      @promisemochi 5 дней назад +21

      i can't stand the pants below the boxers thing. it was everywhere back in the early 2000s abrocrombie days where they'd yank up their boxers to show off the brand. so unflattering lol

  • @bradleyharris774
    @bradleyharris774 6 дней назад +2754

    My only ick is treating wait staff (waiters, waitresses, etc.) like shit for no reason. That is a massive red flag because it speaks volumes about their character.

    • @Kaiszanimations
      @Kaiszanimations 6 дней назад +117

      YES! I’ve had a former friend do that and then justify it by saying “yeah well we are paying them”

    • @martian_chan
      @martian_chan 6 дней назад +162

      Or someone treating their pet like crap. If they can’t be kind to their animals, imagine what they’ll do to you.

    • @Jechti307
      @Jechti307 5 дней назад +40

      The Most Valid Ick.

    • @Who_evenamIanymore
      @Who_evenamIanymore 5 дней назад +44

      Was literally about to comment this, plus being rude/snapping at their parents for no apparent reason, like if that’s how you treat your own mother I don’t want to see how you’d treat me ten years from now.

    • @jackthejoke3298
      @jackthejoke3298 5 дней назад +11

      This is valid. But I feel like it can also be a red flag

  • @staircatz
    @staircatz 6 дней назад +562

    dude i think men tying their jackets and hoodies around their waist is hot asf.

    • @RobinDragonryder
      @RobinDragonryder 5 дней назад +79

      As a transmasc person who does this all the damn time, thank you for the reassurance

    • @AizawaOnTheHead
      @AizawaOnTheHead 5 дней назад +4

      ​@@RobinDragonryder depends, i feel it looks silly when anyone does it but people who are genericly "attractive" look okay in anything to society. If you arent... It doesnt look the best🤷🏽‍♀️ looks like you either pissed or ripped your pants either way lmaoo

    • @RobinDragonryder
      @RobinDragonryder 5 дней назад +67

      @@AizawaOnTheHead I have temperature regulation issues. Sometimes I need a jacket handy, and that's the easiest way to carry it. It's not a fashion statement, I'm just annoyed people label it an "ick"

    • @HarukaSakuraiLover
      @HarukaSakuraiLover 5 дней назад +70

      @@AizawaOnTheHead i fear you may just be a hater

    • @FowlsNest
      @FowlsNest 5 дней назад +59

      ​@@AizawaOnTheHeadDidn't realize I have to be hot to tie my coat around my waist! God forbid we want to walk around without carrying it in my arms or force myself to overheat because some person thinks it doesn't look good 😒

  • @msilva2423
    @msilva2423 5 дней назад +71

    My ick is pulling out your phone and randomly recording people (especially loved ones) and post it online to humiliate them

  • @Antje_An
    @Antje_An 6 дней назад +287

    My ick: people who make everything an "ick"

  • @Vickyshoka
    @Vickyshoka 5 дней назад +102

    I'm so confused why we hating umbrellas now? It's just a useful invention like c'mon. I personly love umbrellas they are so like elegant and romantic and i just feel like a gothic princess with them. It's mysterious, historical feeling, romantic and it's useful and most humans use it. And it can get pretty unique too

    • @pixelhunter0
      @pixelhunter0 5 дней назад +9

      I used to be goth and I wasn't allowed to bring umbrellas to school because the staff thought I could be using them to hide what I might be doing lol like kissing or doing drugs they said 😂

    • @rachael5025
      @rachael5025 5 дней назад +4

      i got a black parasol this summer to amp up that vibe lol plus i dont have to think as hard about sunscreen under it

    • @HuhWHODIDTHIS
      @HuhWHODIDTHIS 4 дня назад +1

      Real

  • @WarmZZy
    @WarmZZy 6 дней назад +125

    I have a major anxiety disorder and in middle school my brain fully created an ongoing scenario in which my crushes were watching me go about my day giving commentary, in little directors chairs, hosted by Ryan Seacrest like a reality show. And it seems like Tik Tok has proliferated this mental illness to as many people as possible.

    • @momplspickmeupimscared
      @momplspickmeupimscared 4 дня назад

      oh boy this gave me flashbacks...thank GOD therapy helped me enough to decenter myself and realize that not everything I do in certain ways matters so long I don't hurt anyone :)

  • @BillieHijabi
    @BillieHijabi 6 дней назад +163

    We're all being slaughtered by our governments.... and icks is what people are worried about?!? 😭😭😭

    • @torihanabi
      @torihanabi 6 дней назад

      Too bad “the government slaughtering people” isn’t the ick. 💀 but I think it’s safe to say that the fact “other people are dying from government attacks” is their actual ick 😭💀

    • @whatdafoxnfamily
      @whatdafoxnfamily 5 дней назад +10

      Killing is an ick

    • @pixelhunter0
      @pixelhunter0 5 дней назад +5

      Kamala's laugh is an ick

    • @ketameanii
      @ketameanii 5 дней назад

      @@pixelhunter0you look like an ick

    • @ketameanii
      @ketameanii 5 дней назад

      @@pixelhunter0women can’t do shit in america without being criticized for being human

  • @astermorgue
    @astermorgue 5 дней назад +86

    i stopped using tiktok and snapchat in 2020 and never looked back. but when instagram reels came out, a whole bunch of tiktok’s started flooding insta so i quit that too this past january. now im social media free except for long form content on youtube and it’s such a freeing feeling not being stuck in a loop of short form, toxic, brain rot content

    • @sylvianartist8930
      @sylvianartist8930 4 дня назад +2

      hell yeah, I switched to a flip phone for that reason and it's awesome. I mostly just use my old smartphone for spotify cause I love music forever

  • @Ophelianne
    @Ophelianne 5 дней назад +65

    A common theme seems that men appearring joyful or vulnerable are icks... Girl, what are you, twelve?!? Do you actually like them or not?!? They deserve someone who actually like and love them being themselves!

  • @angustheterrible3149
    @angustheterrible3149 5 дней назад +36

    My ick is people who record other human beings without their consent so that they can call normal human behavior an "ick".

  • @C0sm1cbr0wn1es
    @C0sm1cbr0wn1es 6 дней назад +193

    These “Icks” are getting out of hand

  • @nordicnerdy4032
    @nordicnerdy4032 5 дней назад +52

    "Performing for an imaginary camera" is the best way to describe social anxiety and what it feels like. Sure its not actually there but you feel like it is, you feel like every look is your way and ever glance is a judgement. It feels like being in the Truman show but with a lot more paranoia. Anyway I'm going to steal your words and explanation because its such a great way of how to explain what it feels like.
    I worry though that some people might think "oh yay all eyes on me" but its the exact opposite. I remember being in elementary school and being afraid to go up to the front to sharpen my pencil or throw something in the trash. It took me years to realize that feeling embarrassed about those things is not normal.

    • @bloodyneptune
      @bloodyneptune 5 дней назад +6

      That's _exactly_ how its always been for me. But the most frustrating part is _knowing_ its not true. I dont have to do over exaggerated movements like a mime if I have to say, stop and tie my shoe. I _know_ there aren't people spending their day staring out the windows and watching me like "why did she just stop? What is she doing, she's so weird".
      But while I'm thinking "this is so stupid why am I doing this" my anxiety is going "cause I'll make you stop breathing if you don't! ^^"

    • @wooogie672
      @wooogie672 5 дней назад +6

      there’s a quote from margaret atwood that ends with “you are your own voyeur.” she was saying this in regard to “the male gaze” and how the patriarchy seeps into everything women (and other ppl affected by misogyny) do, but i think just that line alone is SO fitting when it comes to being socially anxious and self-conscious.
      personally, i’ve come to the conclusion that i actually have OCD and not (just) social anxiety (calling my doctor soon!). however, i am also AuDHD and experience something known as “rejection sensitive dysphoria” (RSD) which has made me hypervigilant to things i do that could POTENTIALLY be seen as embarrassing or “cringe” as the people in these tiktoks are like. and since i am autistic and have low social impulse control, i always inevitably end up “embarrassing myself” and those memories turn into intrusive thoughts.
      like for me the fear of embarrassment has reached beyond social anxiety and into OCD territory and being perceived as embarrassing in ANY way is a massive trigger for me. seeing these “ick” tiktoks and tweets is lowkey so upsetting and disheartening to me because it just confirms that people ARE seeing the weird little things i do in public as an “ick” and fuels my anxiety which causes me to pick at my skin and do other compulsions and it all becomes a vicious anxiety cycle 😓

    • @Ash_On_Pawss
      @Ash_On_Pawss 4 дня назад +2

      Sometimes I'm embarrassed to wake up in my friends house when they're not awake

    • @nordicnerdy4032
      @nordicnerdy4032 3 дня назад +1

      @@bloodyneptune YESSSSSS the rational and irrational parts of my brain are just constantly going at it and its exhausting. I totally feel for you

    • @nordicnerdy4032
      @nordicnerdy4032 3 дня назад +2

      @@wooogie672 YESSSS I totally feel for you I feel like I have similar thoughts. Like if I get anxious in public its similar phrases of intrusive thoughts just running through my head over and over again. I want to get tested to see if I have OCD honestly but those things can be so hard to separate (gl with your doc and such as well!

  • @WarmZZy
    @WarmZZy 5 дней назад +44

    As an adult, when your adult partner does something (that YOU THINK is) cringe but not malicious you can either make a safe space for them, or acknowledge that they aren’t embarrassed. You can even go the extra mile and help heal their rejection wound by finding that shit ADORABLE.

    • @AizawaOnTheHead
      @AizawaOnTheHead 5 дней назад +2

      Nah imma tell em when they're cringe and they better do the same lmao

  • @AHHHHHH107
    @AHHHHHH107 6 дней назад +134

    My icks are treating people different based off their jobs, how much money they make, being rude to waiters, and basic reds flags. Honestly idgaf as long as ssomeone isnt an asshole

    • @puipoka
      @puipoka 5 дней назад +2

      Yeah I agree so much

    • @YourManAl
      @YourManAl 3 дня назад

      Exactly

  • @margonaut
    @margonaut 6 дней назад +107

    working on being less irritable is a good life skill, esp if you want relationships that last

    • @ketameanii
      @ketameanii 5 дней назад +5

      i need help with that fr… it gets worse when im stressed tho lol

  • @Annathestickman
    @Annathestickman 6 дней назад +82

    "new ick unlocked 🤮🤢🚩"
    *dude breathing*

  • @nanaloba
    @nanaloba 5 дней назад +27

    The thing about Axe body spray is completely valid. The guys in my country will empty the entire bottle on themselves while they smell like a bag of onions. It makes it this unholy fusion of scents that literally chokes me out. It removes my ability to breathe. I've had to stop shopping and leave the immediate area because the smell was that aggressive. And for some reason it's only with Axe! I've never met a single guy who used Old Spice and smelled any other way than divine. Axe is cursed in the USA

    • @nanaloba
      @nanaloba 5 дней назад +7

      Oh, and then that smell has the AUDACITY to linger in the area!

    • @madpie5147
      @madpie5147 5 дней назад +7

      i remember in highschool you could tell exactly which vent had air coming from the boys locker room bc of the scent radiating from it as you walked past

  • @ciciciciciclala
    @ciciciciciclala 5 дней назад +16

    When I was 16 I broke up with my then 17 year old boyfriend at the time because I got the ick.
    Kind of abruptly losing all infatuation and being repulsed by touching him instead.
    But then again, he also yelled at me in public, unpromptedly accused me of cheating just whenever, and threatened to unalive himself over text messages before ghosting me an entire night.
    I somehow thought up untill recently these two things were completely unrelated, lol

  • @thealmightytuttle
    @thealmightytuttle 5 дней назад +12

    Honestly, I've never seen an earlobe jiggle like that...and its honestly kind of fascinating 😂😂😂

  • @BenSolo777
    @BenSolo777 5 дней назад +29

    That's the problem with "icks". Where do you draw the line? Everything will eventually be an ick.

    • @novastarburst3939
      @novastarburst3939 5 дней назад +11

      I think that the main problem is that "icks" should remain private. You are perfectly allowed to have some, but filming people and putting them on the internet for that? That's just mean.

  • @LeTAlLtHeEaRTHsING
    @LeTAlLtHeEaRTHsING 5 дней назад +22

    An actual ick to me.. is when someone chews food with their mouth open.
    Like it actually puts me off from wanting to eat, it’s why I don’t look at people when they eat

    • @Brain_Kandi
      @Brain_Kandi 4 дня назад +2

      Open mouth chewing disgusts me .

    • @Sebastian-fy3hu
      @Sebastian-fy3hu 4 дня назад +2

      It's even worse when you can hear it without looking

    • @AlmaHeartfire
      @AlmaHeartfire 4 дня назад

      It's considered polite to eat with your mouth closed yes? Wonder why people do it

  • @sweesbees
    @sweesbees 6 дней назад +44

    imagine them being human 🤢

  • @Iam_scaro
    @Iam_scaro 5 дней назад +27

    I think it is just sad and annoying how this tik tokers just record somebody doing something and label it with just the excuse of "that gave me the ick 😿" and they just do it with such simple things such as even drinking from a straw 💀

  • @ghost.yoghurt7554
    @ghost.yoghurt7554 6 дней назад +48

    Honestly those ‘icks to get over him’ videos, some of the things would be really cute? Like them crying, imagine comforting them as well? It makes no sense to me tbh

  • @justozzy5559
    @justozzy5559 6 дней назад +40

    My biggest ick is people eating with their mouth open. Like. Yo did you never learn proper manners???

    • @pixelhunter0
      @pixelhunter0 5 дней назад +9

      It's the sound that bothers me the most. Especially when you're sitting down and someone is behind you doing it.

    • @bumblebeeyell
      @bumblebeeyell 4 дня назад +5

      How do I send this comment to the one coworker I somehow always am in the break room at the same time as-

    • @HuhWHODIDTHIS
      @HuhWHODIDTHIS 4 дня назад +2

      Yeah but it makes me feel so bad when my sister yells at me for it because it’s comfortable for me and I don’t even know when I’m doing it and sometimes she won’t even ask me once and just yell at me. 😭😭😭😭

    • @AlmaHeartfire
      @AlmaHeartfire 4 дня назад +2

      Now this is a ick for me my brother does this idk why aren't most people taught to chew with your mouth closed? 😐

    • @holidayin7962
      @holidayin7962 3 дня назад +1

      What if someone has a stuffy nose? Do they hold their breath when they chew?

  • @winna4564
    @winna4564 5 дней назад +14

    The axe body spray ick us valid and has been around since I was a teenager (2000s). 😂

    • @meganp3948
      @meganp3948 4 дня назад

      I was going to comment the same thing. The early 2000's misogyny in the commercials and the one random music video they made is a total ick that has followed me for 20+ years

  • @fr0giewrld
    @fr0giewrld 5 дней назад +16

    why does the girl who talks about the slow moving car, loook like she used cheeto dust on her face

    • @faetherflye
      @faetherflye 5 дней назад +4

      Not gonna lie, the cheeto face kind of gave me the ews.

  • @420washywashy
    @420washywashy 5 дней назад +11

    my icks (far as I know) are the word "peeves" (like in pet peeve) , a potential partner being bossy/rude, and people referring to women as "females" (this one actually makes me reconsider friendships at times)

    • @Kurm_sucx
      @Kurm_sucx 5 дней назад

      I refer to girls as females and boys as males and theys as theys cuz its the same thing isnt it? im a female myself 😭, I dont understand, maybe you mean people like going up to their female friends and saying “hello female”? ;-;

    • @420washywashy
      @420washywashy 5 дней назад +1

      @@Kurm_sucx i fully mean people saying things like "yeah so I was talking with this female the other day and yadah yadah" cause to me it sounds kinda like reducing someone to their biology and as a trans person that gives me the ick because it sounds uncomfortable

    • @Kurm_sucx
      @Kurm_sucx 4 дня назад

      @@420washywashy I hate people like that sm tbh, (Unless they’re young and don’t really understand it)

  • @endlessoceanic
    @endlessoceanic 5 дней назад +7

    Bro both the crushes I've had in my life, I've watched them pick their nose in public at least once, and get food all over their face like a toddler, and my reaction was always, "aww cute."

  • @harleydavidsonii8111
    @harleydavidsonii8111 5 дней назад +9

    I personally think umbrellas were one of the best inventions of all time! I am never embarrassed to want to stay dry in the rain. I think it's more strange to get wet because an umbrella is causing you anxiety. Why is an umbrella causing anxiety in the first place?😮

  • @moothevegan4440
    @moothevegan4440 5 дней назад +11

    my biggest ick about my ex was having to find out shes breaking up with me via my best friend rather than her . also her acting like nothing ever happened two days later and still hanging round me. 🙃

  • @ivyrose_writes
    @ivyrose_writes 5 дней назад +14

    I don't really like using an umbrella and when I do use it, for the first minute I'm thinking "Oh my lord, everyone must think I look ridiculous with this thing." And then I realize...
    Nobody cares.

  • @Vsarahv420
    @Vsarahv420 6 дней назад +39

    It’s actually a common way to cut your pizza with a knife and fork and most Italians do this.. lmao

  • @dancingneko6620
    @dancingneko6620 5 дней назад +10

    I had a guy dump me because every time we argued or didn't agree, I'd say "I love but (insert thing we're disagreeing on here)" or "(insert thing that went wrong here) but I still love you" ... I thought it would help him feel more secure in the relationship, turns out it sorta backfired ? "It feels like you're trying to manipulate me when you say it", "It loses strength when you tell me too often that you love me, it gives me the ick to hear it every time we see each other" ... Like, ok man guy ? Loving is an ick now I guess ?

  • @cheryltamelcoff2557
    @cheryltamelcoff2557 6 дней назад +38

    People are just stuck up little brats.

  • @cantalope123
    @cantalope123 6 дней назад +51

    Thanks for uploading Queen, my first doggy died yesterday and her birthday was gonna be on Friday...I have been having a hard time because she was fine in the morning, but died through negligence at the vet...They closed barely the crate and she escaped...And then came back to the vet without breathing...I have been destroyed, your videos do make me a bit happy in this hard times. ❤

    • @oak5972
      @oak5972 6 дней назад +5

      Rip to your dog, it's in a better place now ❤

    • @MEERA-f2y
      @MEERA-f2y 6 дней назад +6

      I'm so sorry about your dog may she rest in peace❤
      I hope you recover

    • @cantalope123
      @cantalope123 6 дней назад +7

      @@MEERA-f2y She was gonna be 3 years old on Friday...She was gonna have her party. And she was my first dog I ever got-...It truly hurts so much that she was eating eggs and bread in the morning and came back home in a box. I will be fine...But I do miss her.

    • @dwellerofthings
      @dwellerofthings 6 дней назад +3

      Im sorry for your lost ❤

  • @zakjackson2610
    @zakjackson2610 5 дней назад +19

    Happiness and positivity are icks for a lot of people unfortunately.

  • @peepeeheadlovescat2
    @peepeeheadlovescat2 6 дней назад +45

    . Pacifica Northwest is the only one allowed to use ick. (Book of bill ref)

  • @GrayTimber
    @GrayTimber 5 дней назад +9

    I'm sorry, the floppy earlobe fucking got to me. I've been in a depressive spell all day and that got me to deranged laugh

  • @geraldineisorena582
    @geraldineisorena582 6 дней назад +50

    People are superficial and really out of touch now.

  • @honeydewbliss4072
    @honeydewbliss4072 6 дней назад +134

    0:20 reminds me of the laugh the antagonist had in barbie swan lake

    • @val71999
      @val71999 5 дней назад +4

      oh my fucking god you're right

    • @catlover2223
      @catlover2223 5 дней назад +1

      I mean, the makeup could be a cooler version of a Swan Lake villain. She could be the villain of Swan Lake Rock! I’d watch it! 😊

    • @esk_official
      @esk_official 5 дней назад

      Stop! I can't with this comment. 😂😂😂😂

    • @lazybobababe9403
      @lazybobababe9403 5 дней назад +1

      Honestly my favorite comment today ❤😂

  • @ishathakor
    @ishathakor 5 дней назад +6

    these icks are CRAZYYYY like girl i'm sorry i don't wanna get my hands dirty and stress about the cheese strings when eating pizza?? i'm sorry i drink from a STRAW??? like what the hell man

  • @Verydeadbarbie
    @Verydeadbarbie 5 дней назад +4

    I love my partner the only ick about him i ever have ever, is when we are watching tv and cuddling he'll get super excited and chew with his mouth open. It bugs me, but id never leave him over it 😂

    • @Verydeadbarbie
      @Verydeadbarbie 5 дней назад +3

      And to explain more this is only a ick cause I have misophonia, and it's the eating sound that bothers me my own eating sounds freak me out

  • @swift.4.swifties
    @swift.4.swifties 6 дней назад +21

    next icks: "breathing is an ick"😝😝😝😝😍😍🥰🥰😍😍😍🥰😝

  • @moonlightmerls1184
    @moonlightmerls1184 6 дней назад +24

    I swear i hate the word ick

  • @reincarnnated
    @reincarnnated 5 дней назад +12

    At 5:21, in Italy, (the part that I lived at) we would eat pizza with a fork and a knife. It’s normal there, and I think its odd to say it’s an “ick” when in reality, he might just have lived somewhere else where they did different things. I’m not saying all of Italy does this, but where I was pizza was often served with a fork and a knife and the locals would eat it with a fork and a knife. It isn’t weird, it’s just something normalized in a different culture. (I lived in Italy for 6 years by the way.)

  • @ThegoofyGhoulette6651
    @ThegoofyGhoulette6651 6 дней назад +15

    Nah bro I am a walking Ick at this point.

  • @alexissteele5274
    @alexissteele5274 5 дней назад +3

    My ick about people in general is this: when people try to talk to me when I clearly have headphones on. Like LEAVE ME ALONE.

    • @alexissteele5274
      @alexissteele5274 5 дней назад

      Another ick mine is whenever someone blasts their music all night.

  • @prenimystic
    @prenimystic 5 дней назад +4

    The entire world needs to disconnect their devices and go outside

  • @mr_nobody1098
    @mr_nobody1098 6 дней назад +9

    "Being a normal human? ICK!"
    POV my ex😭✋

  • @That-One-Silly-Val
    @That-One-Silly-Val 6 дней назад +23

    WAKE UP EVERYONE!!! OUR KWEEN HAS POSTED!!!!

  • @mickslife365
    @mickslife365 5 дней назад +2

    It seems a lot of these “icks” are things that if you don’t like them you hate but if you liked them you’d love.

  • @ashleyknott8455
    @ashleyknott8455 6 дней назад +5

    I sure do hate when boys get hit by slow moving cars. What in all the world is happening. Good grief.

  • @artlygalkd3502
    @artlygalkd3502 6 дней назад +7

    Good morning everyone.
    I hope you all have a fantastic day!
    It is currently 6:50am and I am starting off my day off with some bed rot and some drama qween.

  • @Lilwolfie144
    @Lilwolfie144 5 дней назад +3

    “I don’t wanna be part of this generation” man I don’t wanna be part of this species 😭😭😭

  • @arodoeseverything
    @arodoeseverything 6 дней назад +6

    I love strawberry bubble tea 🧋

  • @Daniella-ck8gk
    @Daniella-ck8gk 6 дней назад +5

    New ick unlocked: normal human anatomy💀💀💀💀💀

  • @ladynoname3621
    @ladynoname3621 4 дня назад +1

    7:20 Lady what? 😭 Your outfit is so stylish and coordinated so well!!! Your hair dye adds a great accent color to the outfit ♡♡♡

  • @andrewcasias2676
    @andrewcasias2676 6 дней назад +7

    If my partner fell down the stairs and seriously injured themselves, I would break up with them immediately. I mean, that’s just so… icky!

  • @Sunshinegoddess777
    @Sunshinegoddess777 3 дня назад +1

    I personally don't like using umbrellas, but it has nothing to do with it being an 'ick' or lame or whatever- I just find them annoying to hold tbh and i get embarrassed if and when the wind picks up haha.. I prefer to just put my hoodie up over my head and I only use umbrellas when I truly need them like torrential rain.. Also they're a pain to carry around all day! Also I tend to lose or break them anyways so yeah,..

  • @noctissilentia
    @noctissilentia 6 дней назад +4

    i hate the word "ick". is that my "ick"?

  • @jjmar3875
    @jjmar3875 5 дней назад +1

    That was a lovely short rendition of "Blind", thank you for that performance

  • @Skoomasipper
    @Skoomasipper 5 дней назад +3

    The axe one I kinda get bc I used to play basketball in high-school and if you were the away team you had to use the mens locker room. It always smelled like are body spray war fare. He'll there was on occasion where there was a bottle of axe in a locker still going off

  • @kassidykuster
    @kassidykuster 5 дней назад +2

    The icks are crazy i saw a video with halo hayley and the lists are phenomenal

  • @kagaymine
    @kagaymine 5 дней назад +5

    Existing is such an ick.......

  • @RangeGleasry
    @RangeGleasry 5 дней назад +2

    When you stop being so judgmental towards people, you stop being judgmental towards yourself and overcome at least half of your anxieties.
    From your middle aged auntie with a diagnosed anxiety disorder

  • @shivvWhore
    @shivvWhore 6 дней назад +4

    I agree, knife and fork for pizza when in a restaurant and double fisting two slices at once when at home.

  • @sp00kyg1rl
    @sp00kyg1rl 5 дней назад +2

    Drama Kween saying she’s blind, girl. I got 20/20 vision and can’t do eyeliner like that.

  • @BROWNIEBOI-fo3np
    @BROWNIEBOI-fo3np 4 дня назад

    I do sometimes find random things embarrassing, and it makes me so mad at myself, I’ve been trying to just get over it, luckily it’s working

  • @ZoetheProcrastinator
    @ZoetheProcrastinator 5 дней назад +1

    This is why I am happy I didn’t grow up having TikTok. Growing up was already tough. I can only imagine how difficult growing up is with TikTok around

  • @ArsonisticElmo
    @ArsonisticElmo 5 дней назад +2

    I live in Austria and that's the normal way of eating pizza here at a restaurant. Generally, the only people I see eating it with their hands are kids and tourists. 😂💀

  • @Eppon6
    @Eppon6 6 дней назад +22

    You know what my relationship icks are? People who drink alcoholic beverages excessively (outside of social scenarios, multiple a day without breaks etc) people who smoke excessively, (multiple a day, interrupting stuff and/or inside buildings, not cleaning off the smoke smell before intimacy) people who do recreative drugs regularly, (outside of specific rare social situations) people who are mean to/about anyone/anything they see as beneath them, (animals/kids/homeless people/serving staff etc) people who cling tightly to people outside the relationship to the point of deferring to them for issues they should not be involved in, (mommy's/daddy's golden child, people obsessed with an ex/'best friend' etc) people who act superior/inferior to others to extreme degrees, (deliberately, not because of mental issues that they are working on controlling) people who fail to take accountability for their physical/mental health (no diagnosis/treatment) and stubborn people who make poor decisions in life and refuse to see reason when presented to them, with proof. (poor financial choices, poor health choices etc)
    You know, BAD people to be around for a stable living situation.
    Edit: I also go to the toilet with the door open, while at home. My cat gets upset if she cannot check in on me. I don't do it when guests are over though, out of politeness.
    Also, getting over someone is easiest done by knowing you mourn for the fantasy of what could have been, not reality. And it's better to celebrate what you can have than to mourn for what never will be. You deserve to have happiness, not to beat yourself up by letting this person life rent-free in your mind. Make them pay rent (AKA, be involved in your life in positive ways) to live in your mind because that space is limited and expensive.

    • @Ellie-t4k
      @Ellie-t4k 5 дней назад

      Not trying to be rude or whatever, but why is ‘best friend’ in quotes? /gen I don’t understand

    • @Eppon6
      @Eppon6 5 дней назад +1

      @@Ellie-t4k Because toxic people will call someone their best friend when really they are practically (if not actually) lovers, obsessed or something else toxic to their private life. Actual normal best friends respect each-other's private life and don't demand attention 24/7. I wanted to make a distinction between normal best friends and 'best friends' who aren't but are called that to hide what they truly are to the person.

  • @0p0ssum
    @0p0ssum 5 дней назад +1

    i have an ick for someone standing behind a person to look at what they’re holding and also breathing heavily through their mouth subconsciously

  • @funisinfinite_
    @funisinfinite_ 5 дней назад +4

    my ex was REALLY, REALLY fucked up. he found almost anything to nitpick and call and “ick.” he called my fictional crushes a fucking “ick….” i use a body pillow for medical reasons and he called that an “ick.” then he goes on to call my off days an “ick.”
    this is so… damaging. its kinda why i gave up dating.

  • @Eddysig
    @Eddysig 5 дней назад +1

    Things like "mistreating service/retail workers" is a red flag not an ick, i agree with the end there where people just conflate the two internet terms. Ick = cringe , red flag = concerning behavior that crosses your boundaries even just a little. It doesn't matter but calling ab*se "icks" is just so dystopian lmao

  • @lordknightalex
    @lordknightalex 5 дней назад +1

    recording random strangers and going "new ick unlocked" is straight up distopian. having someone do that when im just out and abt is like up there with "all your friends have a secret groupchat to talk shit abt you" when it comes to deep fears that come from having an anxiety disorder 😭

  • @Tony30086
    @Tony30086 6 дней назад +4

    17 seconds… 😨 I am a resident of Yappersville

  • @JadedToast
    @JadedToast 5 дней назад +1

    At 31 years old I’ve never in my life owned an umbrella 😢 I just walk through the rain out of spite lol

  • @sweetnsaltyfnv
    @sweetnsaltyfnv 6 дней назад +4

    Was JUST re-watching your videos 😋🙏🙏

  • @laurenddddddd
    @laurenddddddd 3 дня назад

    I grew up with extreme social anxiety. I couldn’t imagine having tiktok and the ick trend around back then… it would’ve made everything so much worse.

  • @starry-eyed_68
    @starry-eyed_68 5 дней назад +2

    O my gosh, the guy who was doing the water choreography in the beginning. I would marry him.

  • @miag886
    @miag886 3 дня назад

    my "icks" are things that give me sensory issues. nothing else. just things like my skin being too dry, something not feeling right on my skin, or a bracelet moving around too much on my wrist. all these icks are not caused by anyone else. just me. i rarely get an ick from other people. and, if i do, its always related to my sensory issues.

  • @jenniferbeckman5435
    @jenniferbeckman5435 5 дней назад

    I used to have terrible social anxiety until it dawned on me that nobody cares what others are doing around them. They're probably more worried about whatever is going on in their lives to laugh at random people on the street.

  • @Barerantts
    @Barerantts 5 дней назад +1

    i got broken up with last night by my partner of almost 2 years and seeing people throwing away relationships because of stuff like this is infuriating.

  • @PARANOIDDAVEEEEEEEE
    @PARANOIDDAVEEEEEEEE 5 дней назад +1

    I've been told that I give an "ick" because of how much I apologize for no reason. Like, sorry man but that's due to trauma so uh, maybe don't berate me and make me feel toxic for it😭

  • @CheeseTrolling
    @CheeseTrolling 5 дней назад +1

    My biggest ick is people acting like normal everyday things IS AN ICK…like bestie can we NOT BE NORMAL ANYMORE? Seriously, these ick’s are just simply getting to the point where it’s like. “Oh are you bending down to pick up something? YEAH THATS ANNN ICKK.” LIKe betty (sorry to everyone NAMED betty and aren’t like this.) HOW ARE WE SUPPOSED TO GRAB SOMETHING THATS FALLEN? With OUr eyes? Like most of the time we got shoes on soo…

  • @galaxycraft2454
    @galaxycraft2454 3 дня назад

    Having “icks” really just brings you closer. You may not like a thing about someone but that’s everyone. Relationships last way longer when you accept the “icks”

  • @StarburstPink04
    @StarburstPink04 5 дней назад +2

    Biggest Ick; Recording tiktok’s of your children or allowing kids on tiktok knowing the kind of stuff that’s made/targeted at them 😭
    p.s
    People seriously should start limiting access to the internet at this point and stop acting like being human is something to be embarrassed about.

  • @SUTAZZZ
    @SUTAZZZ 5 дней назад

    Your right about the hyper aware thing i remember like 3 years ago the simplist things gave me the ick weither i did it or someone else. It was basic human things and at that time i hated the cycle of my life and never going out and did anything so i got tired of even the small, normal things in life horribly.
    Orrrrr "some" of these people could just be haters...😭

  • @stanleypfp
    @stanleypfp 5 дней назад +1

    tbh people who purposefully don't carry an umbrella even if they could kind of worry me because like.. damn you're too proud to keep yourself dry?

  • @TImAA616
    @TImAA616 5 дней назад +2

    Ur makeup lookss soo gooodd!

  • @xXt0mXx719
    @xXt0mXx719 5 дней назад

    OFF TOPIC BUT YOU ATE THIS FIT UP!! I LOVE IT SO MUCH!!!

  • @Moonysubliminals198
    @Moonysubliminals198 6 дней назад +3

    First!