The women I don't give a f#*k about, are the ones that love me so much and are willing to do anything for me. But the ones I show so much love and care to, are the ones that ends up walking away. I learnt this lesson the hard way 😅
The irony is, that’s being a DECENT PERSON - not a nice guy. Women’s biology tricks them into thinking a good man is a spineless nice guy, and a sociopath is attractive and ‘exciting’. 🫤🙄 Go figure.
And that’s why women have created the bad results they get by showing men that they are punished emotionally for treating their girlfriend well, but women consider them weak for it. So men eventually learn to not care about women because women see it as weak. And that is how women create men the men who mistreat women. We learnt that you disrespect us when we’re kind and you sleep with us when we treat you badly.
As a man who’s married but separated you made the right choice. I regret getting married and having a kid with her. She turned out EXACTLY how this woman described. Women make up lies and believe in them EVEN IF you show the evidence to their dumb faces. They’re beyond delusional. Stay single and you’ll stay good.
This stuff is SO true. I recently had to make myself stop pursuing someone I was really interested in. She told me how badly she's been treated in the past. I have absolutely none of that bad treatment built into me, but my being nice, accommodating, respectful, kind, and all the things that are completely opposite of how she was treated in the past seems to get me nowhere. So I had to bring myself to the realization that there's something about me she isn't attracted to. I've deleted her from my phone and I'm moving on.
Just understand that they are always looking for something better. You can be amazing and they will go, okay got him and he's crazy about me so I can do better because he doesn't treat me like dirt
It's because women are so confused in what they want. They always say they want a loving & caring man who works to provide but keep chasing after the loser sleazeball types who are the complete opposite.
I've long since given up playing women's games, they are not worth the effort, they crave validation and attention, look after yourself and your purpose in life.
Absolutely right, and once they get what they want....whether or not you get what you want don't mean shizzle!! What were they calling energy vampires again.........oh yeah NARCISSIST! Leave these sluts alone.
This is why the Gospel tells: men, love your women. Why is that? Because women cannot help nor love themselves. There is women's propensity for making errors and bad decisions, rooted in the original sin. Woman was first to sin, and the sin pulls her into self-destructive outcomes. Finding a good and nice man is woman's way to help save herself, but the propensity for bad and self-hurting decisions pulls her away. Unfortunately, modern feminist propaganda only adds oil to the already burning problem!
I feel the exact same way about men. men only play games because sex is all men want. you treat us badly, lie, cheat and steal from us. every sad sack man I've ever been with was the one craving validation. I wanted someone I could make a life with & a best friend who hates other people as much as I do. but all I ever got was players. if you are pretty - male or female - you cant trust those around you. and you cant trust your friends to not make a move even if they are already with someone else. humans are so stupid. they let the parts they pee out of make their decisions.
FFS. Nothing this woman is saying should be particularly revelatory to any man who's been around the block. The trick for men is getting to that point (it often comes with age) where you just don't care about women anymore or what they think about anything. Learn to live your best life being alone, and be happy about it. That is true power.
I still like women. They're always talking and looking for the fun. Just let them know from the start you don't want a serious relationship, especially sexual; unless of course, you do?
I know. But is not easy living alone with a raging hard on and a heart filled to Brim with extreme sexual longing and longing for s girlfriend. It is nature to want this. Living alone with a raging hard on is Against nature, against Animal nature, but not Against true human nature. Kings live alone. Jerking off is not the answer either.
I loved and respected women more than most.. but lately I'm really starting to think that their opinion is worthless.. even when they talk about what they want/are attracted to etc. I think they're completely clueless actually...
As a musician and songwriter, I find it even more puzzling that women find emotionally available men unattractive, when in fact it’s the men with the most emotional capacity who write some of their favorite songs.
I am nice guy, got a wife and 3 kids, joy and faith filled home, . The core should be within the man or woman, is the intention just getting a girl or guy, or finding a life partner.
I second this. I’m working on myself so that the woman I meet can see that I’m a stable, hard working guy with the potential of taking care of her throughout her life!
Had a mate once who started dating a woman who been used as a punch bag by her ex..my mate was a nice guy...six month later she finished with him and went back to her ex and used as a punch bag again...strange things aren't they!
Absolutely true. I knew a girl Who was literally pistol whipped by her douchebag boyfriend. And she would lament to her girl friends About how bad he treats her but she would not leave him. And like an idiot , I waited on the sidelines for an opportunity to date her. Until I snapped out of it and said WTF am I doing???!!!!
Yes, if your body is not pumped full of hormones then woman makes no sense But woman is playing with your hormones and you'll lose the battle because we are programmed in this way
The Joker: I know. They try to be like me but lack the guts to do something useful out of it. At the end of the day it's just... _much ado but nothing_
Contrary to a kicker's opinion, it was actually men that had the most diabolical lie told to them. "If you're nice to a girl, she'll go out with you." The reality is if a girl likes you, she'll go out with you, regardless if you're nice to her or not.
If you want sex, stay single and hangout at the clubs. If you want long term relationships, grow up and show your quality/loyalty to the boundaries of your significant others.
Generally speaking, women enjoy being treated badly. If you're a nice guy, the best thing to do is not stress about it and focus on things worth your time.
Common misunderstanding. Women don't "enjoy" being treated badly. The truth is it doesn't matter how you "treat" a woman at all. What matters is if she finds a man valuable (women call this "chemistry" or "connection.") Each women has a different "value" system, but how you treat her is NOT a factor for any of them. If she doesn't find you valuable, it doesn't matter how "good" treat her; it won't make her like you more. If she does find you valuable, you can treat her like absolute garbage, and she won't go anywhere. (This is where the misunderstanding that women enjoy being treated badly comes from. It's not the treatment she enjoys per se, it's that she finds the man valuable.) Yes, women may verbally complain about bad treatment, but you can ignore what they say and pay attention to what they do: if the man is valuable, they will keep going back again, and again, and again...
If you're a young man and the girl's you desire have no time for you. Do not be troubled, cruel as love can be. Know that youth is just as cruel to her, she avoids you today. But tomorrow youth will avoid her.
Men = Nice guys, bad boys, successful, poor, etc. but Women = Women??? Excuse me, there's Jezebel women of the world who are BROKEN and go for bad boys and there are Christian women who go for nice guys. We're getting too convenient here without splitting the subgroups of women.
My brother went through two divorces because he was a nice guy to them but then he became bitter and aggressive towards women and he now has more women than he can deal with.
Cool video. My relationship of 8 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
So what you're saying is, you thought of this girl in your long term timline, where she thought of you in her short term (hence: her cold way of leaving & ignoring you). I can help you understand and fix your long-term vision with cold, hard facts. Although, I need some investment on your part. I simply need you to ask me for it. The shit I'll help you understand will crack your mind open (with the realization), seriously hurt inside, shame you (possibly), and make you very angry at yourself... in the beginning. I can not do that to you without your own permission. Also, if you're looking to get back to living? That is, feel good for now, so you can get back to enjoying new experiences, ignore everything I said, and scroll on. However, if you want to be a better survivor? In other words, to perfect your ability to sustain yourself and protect yourself, like I said, I need your permission to start.
I'm a nice guy and I did not finish last. With the same woman for 28 years, no cheating. Happy as heck. That term implies mating with a hot girl is winning. God blessed me by shielding me from shallow sociopaths who use you, lie, and toss you aside.
In the end people who want sex win. People who want relationships lose. Who wants relationships more? Who is actually losing in this modern dating culture game?
What are they winning? A short fleeting desire just only to get back to the drawing board, some people still going back to drawing board after 3 divorces
Blackpill says its all attraction in terms of looks and personality. They're mostly right. Red-pill says you can make yourself more attractive by focusing on yourself and making yourself your own priority, by not putting women on a pedestal, and doing whatever it takes to become a high-value man. They're right, but you still need the looks and personality as the foundation. Pick-up Artists and Players say you need the ability to run game on women, the ability to be smooth and say the right things, and do the right things at the right time and the right place to seduce her and win her over. They're right, but you still need the looks and personality. Blue-Pill says you can win a woman's heart by putting her on a pedestal and showing her how much you love her. They better have great looks and personality because that is the only way these men will ever get women.
Social media and reality TV have added to their deluded Disney Princess complex. They all think they’re tens and have a self-centred fragile personality that is reliant on constant external validation, especially from men. Zero accountability and a horribly high level of entitlement. If you’re a guy don’t play their games and NEVER get married.
@@larsf.4756 It's not about value. Relationships are mostly based on dependencies and possessiveness. They can be emotional, social, financial, etc. Most people are simply afraid of being alone, and unless a better alternative comes up, they will fear losing whatever company they have. Sometimes, even if they are being abused.
@@HeathenDance Yet either way, you need to value something, even if the only thing you get out of it is not being alone. If there was nothing you wanted, you wouldn't be in a relationship to begin with.
It's not luck. Just love for real cry fall down. But live with integrity. Men lives are hard. But protect yourself too. Pain make us real men. And there are things we cannot control.
My Dad had a legit Emotional Affair on my Mom. He clearly wanted the younger girl (who was young enough to be his daughter), confessed his whole life to her, she just didn't reciprocate the sexy side. Beyond that... very damaging. My mother still isn't over it to this day.
@@lancehuff2174 l have . It was a preachers wife . She used the word emotional because she didn't want the church to know she had sex with the other guy .
If you as a man start playing Mr "hard guy" just to keep a woman, she's not just meant for you. A woman will love you regardless of if you are a nice guy or not. Women move their heart, and they choose who their heart chooses.
"im attracted to people who will always leave me feeling my own level of inadequacy and insecurity over and over again making me dependent on their validation to fuel my own attention seeking behavior. Their ego validates my ability to take zero accountability for my own self and continue playing a zero sum game with a person who will continue to treat me like i don't matter." Your welcome.
When you treat a woman like a queen, don't be surprised when she treats you like a subject. The queen doesn't marry the subjects because they are beneath her.
That's a psychopathic quality. Psychopaths think non-psychopaths are suckers and weak for not committing crimes when they could get away with it. They think the nice guy is weak until the nice guy gets angry, then...
Attraction is the most important thing for women. Attraction is in the eye of the beholder so it differs and attraction also includes manners, respect, morals and actions..
odd how women always end up with bad boys & having babies by low value men. women always end up with men who display a lack of manners, respect & morals.
Being nice to people/women is actually very good & human ,but just have boundaries & having the courage to say "no" is good .No girl wants to be treated bad ,it's every girl's dream to be treated nice .
How does not caring or remembering something make men, men?. This is what women hear and when they see a nice man they say your not a man when it could be the only real man she's ever met
it took me until my mid 30s to realize that I was programmed by rom coms and feminism to think how to treat women a certain way, even have female family members tell me "be nice" "respect her" and I just turned 39 and am alone. I believed that somehow the girls I dated were all out of my league and I had to bring something and I would always tell them how beautiful they I found them even when they did. It was in all the love songs and romcom movies, to think all of the times I stood up for myself or called all the love songs and movies they loved, BS and that made them upset, that is what would eventually make them more attracted to me, just makes me hang my head in regret. SMH.
I figured this out a while ago, and have been giving similar advice to men younger men as well as my friends who are still single. Women will belly-ache about you forgetting this or that, but they actually feel attracted to men who are somewhat aloof. If you perpetually slobber all over them and put them on a pedestal they take that as weakness, and women have contempt for weakness. You know who comes at the ring of a bell? Servants. If you treat the woman like a queen, you shouldn't be surprised when she treats you as a servant.
Einstein was such a kind man and females were attracted to him too. Love is about being appreciative of an individual and if you need to alter your individuality than something is flawed and that relationship is not adequate.
I gave my heart to a girl. She broke it. Which broke the “nice guy”. After countless hours of research on understanding women and dating I concluded that I should just treat all girls the way I was treated. Never had better success. As a man who was raised with morals.. ngl it took a bit of a learning curve. BUT once you get the lies and emotional disconnection in every piece of conversation you have down… then blocking them right after having sex. It just works. Now I talk to 4 different girls at the same time all head over heels. Treat em like the sand on your feet walking in from the beach and leave em
Sexual attractive comes first before anything . This is what society and women condition inexperienced men to believe that sexual attraction isnt important but it's most natural and authentic way women are attracted to men .
@@modickens1272 Women don't understand that if a man is having sex with them and if she's emotional in a certain situation it's little less annoying because the man is having sex with them .
You have to be in the top 20percent of men. If you are not you are wasting your time. If you are then why settle down they had their years of fun why not have yours.
@@Brent-z2s Stop !! Top 20 percent of men don't have all the energy fuck with all these women . All women don't have access to the top 20% of men so that why we have beautiful and sexy women with "average" men .
I've never been an asshole to women and I've gotten plenty of them. Bottom line is, they either like you or they don't and there is not much yo can do about it. It's not easy to understand and can be frustrating I know but stick the women that like you and you'll be good.😀
Melvin Udall's line in As Good As It Gets when he describes how he accurately writes female characters is on the money - "I think of a man, then I take away reason and accountability." Women's prime directive is to never take responsibility for their actions.
This "nice guy" thing is a bit of a sham. My best friend from high school was a nice guy, he married my ex and they had a family together. One of my best friends from college was a nice guy- but he was very athletic and confident in himself, and he had his own apartment- and he went from a girlfriend to six months later meeting my classmate and they got married. Yes, he was confident, and most importantly, employed and had his own place- but he was a nice guy, a good guy, in every sense of the word. Because he was more fit and 'handsome', he could get away with saying some naughty and inappropriate things and women would find him funny. I try saying the same things, the same way, and women would look at me with disgust because I'm fat and not dressed as well. I'm a nice guy, but I'm such a flounder, a ham, and I needed to find my own voice, my own way. The truth is there is nothing wrong with being nice- but you also have to be courageous and still have gentlemanly qualities. And if a girl doesn't want that and she picks the toxic, loud idiot guy, then you're not missing out on anything. I know for myself, when I'm confident and clear-headed, I've had good experiences with women, and I'm a "nice guy." Be nice, but also be direct, and also, relax. Even the go-getters get rejected, but they keep going. That's what matters: keep going. Be courageous.
I m basically a nice guy but I scored the hottest chick among my friends and colleagues. Still together with her after 18 yrs. I received countless rejection from girls before that but that didnt stop me from looking for my dream girl. U just need to keep trying and be courageous.
One thing ill NEVER understand , is that some woman are scared to death about communicating with other guys , whether it be a message, an instagram message , or a text, if this is true in a relationship, its a serious problem, and its doomed
Having listened to this, I do agree; the way I used to do things was non-masculine, I used to put females on pedestals; but in my 51st year, the realisation has set in. So I thank you for your wisdom and philosophy as it is much appreciated.
It all depends on the woman amd her level of beauty. I don't go after really beautiful women anymore because they're a headache. I go for 6&7's that are in their mid 30s. By that age they've usually had their fill if bad boys and want someone that's kind. I will also never be friends with a woman again and I won't date women with male friends.
Men want a woman to love and take care of. But we can only have the woman we want as long as we don't act like we love them and take care of them. It's a Catch-22. It's pointless.
Not pointless. Women are complex. Our job is to be "simple". Always be on your purpose and don't give a fuck what they think. You can love and protect her, but don't place her first or on a pedestal. Always lead, never follow
This just delays the divorce. Just have fun but always protect yourself. If you live in a non common law state you can live with her be sure the lease is on your name and wear protection.
i couldnt care less if i finish last, i enjoy my life being single, helping animals and my family and nature and helping with the mentally ill. I believe in doing good and trying to be kind to all, even at the cost of my personal gains. Giving back in this world even if you recieve nothing back is what life is about and i could not care one bit if women dont like that or whatever.
Sad but true. I knew a girl who was literally pistol whipped by her douchebag boyfriend. And she would lament to her girl friends About how bad he treats her but she would never leave him. Incredible!! And like an idiot , I waited on the sidelines for an opportunity to date her. Until I snapped out of it and said WTF am I doing???!!!! Be authentic to yourself, and date A LOT, without commitment, until you find the one truly worth your time. When you don't care and you're costing the right one always seems to come along.
This is why the Gospel tells: men, love your women. Why that advice? Because women cannot help nor love themselves. A nice man therefore indeed must suffer a lot to help save a woman from self-destruction. There is women's propensity for making errors and bad decisions, rooted in the original sin. Woman was first to sin, and the sin pulls her into self-destructive outcomes. Finding a good and nice man is woman's way to help save herself, but the propensity for bad and self-hurting decisions pulls her away. Unfortunately, modern feminist propaganda only adds oil to the already burning problem!
That's why I don't have any social media besides this . Social media is the cancer of most relationships . I had 2 back to back 4yr relationships where I was always there when they needed me . Worked 60hrs a week to save extra money to go on nice vacations for special occasions and made them feel like they were the center of my universe . I gave them space when they wanted it , but was always there when they needed me . Haha now I am single for 3yrs and devote all of my time to animal / wildlife rescuing and couldn't be happier talking to squirrels .... gents when the woman won't let her phone out of her sight and her "friend" texts her after midnight . I know you want to believe her BUT DONT BE NAIVE ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT . silver lining of being single again for 3ys haha I have a shit load of more money in my savings account . Women aren't evil they are amazing . Just don't trust blindly . If something feels wrong it probably is
Emotional affairs are cheating that just hasn’t become physical- yet. Even if the guy is half way around the world if she is investing all that emotional energy communicating , probably fantasizing about him too- she is already cheating. That is energy that should be going into her man, their relationship.
Good luck with that physical attraction thing she speaks of as everyone ages. For men to be with women simply requires resources (money). Nothing else is required. Men will always be truly alone but they can buy companionship. Which tells you everything you need to know about women.
I would say act for the friend, but I've also had friends that wouldn't have done the same for me 🤷 idk I don't think it's good karma to be doing stuff like that
Since I love my cars, my landscape photography, cooking, traveling, I am very happy! Woman lately became some sort of useless! I rose my two boys alone!! I learned enough from woman to keep them away from me! Nothing like better than jump on my Harley and ride! No cheater around me! PEACE and FREE from drama!
I consider myself a nice guy who respects women a lot. I waited and got the most beautiful and intelligent woman I've been married to for 22 years. I've just never been attracted to women who felt for the bad, cheap guys, and so did my wife.
I did the same, but after 24 years of marriage she divorced me. She then married a guy who had been married three times before. She's now divorced from him and broke, and I'm happily single.
Erm… dunno. I have always been called a nice guy by others, and I was married for over twenty years, had kids and the whole scenario ended only with my wife passing. Do I break the standard model? Was being called ‘a nice guy’ ego massaging by others? Most of them didn’t get involved in my life. They didn’t have to opine in any way. They could have called me a psycho or any epithet, but they didn’t. Perhaps I am the exception that proves the rule?
Strangely enough, I'm the nicest to people I don't like (especially women). It's not genuine kindness. It's keeping the peace long enough for them to go the fuck away. A way to keep the interaction positive so I don't end up telling them how I really feel or go off on them. It doesn't make them like me any more and I couldn't care less. It's just weird how my natural instinct to get someone to piss off is to be extremely nice to them lol I'm not saying I'm rude to people I do like, I'm just a lot more real in my interactions with them. More genuine responses and gestures. There really is something to this whole "nice" thing and I think it's a natural way to repel people. It's instinctual on both sides and women especially pick up on it (Even if you're not doing it to repel them. It is repulsive)
Today 2024 it is cheap for men to live by yourself, for women it is cheaper to live in a relationship. Thats why nowadays practically ordinary men don’t pursue women anymore k!
I agreed with this video until the last segment, because in my 30 plus years of dating, the women I've actually gotten into exclusive relationships with (including my ex wife) all loved things that you, apparently, consider feminine behaviors, such as love notes, poems, creative/romantic artwork, and me recognizing our monthiversaries. And, yes, they were very feminine women. It was the few masculine women I tried to date who didn't go crazy for romantic gestures
I Like that She Comes right out if the Gate Saying Women are Run Around Street 304's and Delusional. "They believe their own Lies". Sadia get Points 4 this. I just want the Best women and they hitch their wagons to Guarented Big Money and the good life. I don't want to marry something I can barely put up with . Don't want a Fake relationship.
Enlightening. Just reaffirms my decision to remain single. No more b.s. and hoop jumping to secure fake commitment from fickle women. Loneliness is contentment. Trying to meet unrealistic expectations that keep changing wastes your precious time on this planet. At least Sadia is trying to be authentic unlike every other woman I've ever met.
“Nice guys finish last” is the biggest lie sold to men, I has never had any issues finding a relationships as a person who is trying to be more of a gentleman, it is “simps finish last”, you can be a nice guy and in this case your dating life would actually be pretty easy, but never become a simp.
"Don't try to understand women. Women understand women, and they hate them."
~Al Bundy
@@dustinmiller2775 hahahahahaha
If you understand them you will also start to hate them 😂
Another dude from the Bundy family wasn't very fond of women either lol...
The prophet spoke!😁
Women do not even understand themselves.
The women I don't give a f#*k about, are the ones that love me so much and are willing to do anything for me. But the ones I show so much love and care to, are the ones that ends up walking away. I learnt this lesson the hard way 😅
he who cares the least wins the relationship
The irony is, that’s being a DECENT PERSON - not a nice guy. Women’s biology tricks them into thinking a good man is a spineless nice guy, and a sociopath is attractive and ‘exciting’. 🫤🙄 Go figure.
why is this?
@@kz8950 I think that's what she explained in the video
And that’s why women have created the bad results they get by showing men that they are punished emotionally for treating their girlfriend well, but women consider them weak for it.
So men eventually learn to not care about women because women see it as weak.
And that is how women create men the men who mistreat women. We learnt that you disrespect us when we’re kind and you sleep with us when we treat you badly.
This is the kind of video that makes me feel so much better about being unmarried with no kids in my forties
100% same here
Or simply not bothering with women. What a sad world.
Same.
As a man who’s married but separated you made the right choice. I regret getting married and having a kid with her. She turned out EXACTLY how this woman described. Women make up lies and believe in them EVEN IF you show the evidence to their dumb faces. They’re beyond delusional. Stay single and you’ll stay good.
49 YRS OLD
3 BEDROOM HOUSE TO MYSELF. NO KIDS SINGLE. LIVE ALONE FOREVER
This stuff is SO true. I recently had to make myself stop pursuing someone I was really interested in. She told me how badly she's been treated in the past. I have absolutely none of that bad treatment built into me, but my being nice, accommodating, respectful, kind, and all the things that are completely opposite of how she was treated in the past seems to get me nowhere. So I had to bring myself to the realization that there's something about me she isn't attracted to. I've deleted her from my phone and I'm moving on.
Just understand that they are always looking for something better. You can be amazing and they will go, okay got him and he's crazy about me so I can do better because he doesn't treat me like dirt
All the very best!
It's because women are so confused in what they want. They always say they want a loving & caring man who works to provide but keep chasing after the loser sleazeball types who are the complete opposite.
If I do not want to see a woman anymore, I'm just kind to her. They fly away quickly
🤣🤣
Works every damn time 😂
I've long since given up playing women's games, they are not worth the effort, they crave validation and attention, look after yourself and your purpose in life.
@antarmy2 from experience that Is true and It’s not worth It lol
I agree why be a puppet! They're not loyal mind changes every 5 mins
Absolutely right, and once they get what they want....whether or not you get what you want don't mean shizzle!! What were they calling energy vampires again.........oh yeah NARCISSIST! Leave these sluts alone.
This is why the Gospel tells: men, love your women. Why is that? Because women cannot help nor love themselves.
There is women's propensity for making errors and bad decisions, rooted in the original sin. Woman was first to sin, and the sin pulls her into self-destructive outcomes. Finding a good and nice man is woman's way to help save herself, but the propensity for bad and self-hurting decisions pulls her away. Unfortunately, modern feminist propaganda only adds oil to the already burning problem!
I feel the exact same way about men. men only play games because sex is all men want. you treat us badly, lie, cheat and steal from us. every sad sack man I've ever been with was the one craving validation. I wanted someone I could make a life with & a best friend who hates other people as much as I do. but all I ever got was players. if you are pretty - male or female - you cant trust those around you. and you cant trust your friends to not make a move even if they are already with someone else. humans are so stupid. they let the parts they pee out of make their decisions.
Fellow men. You HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST! And don't EVER let ANYONE walk all over you or disrespect you in any way, man or a woman.
True dat
Amen.
Do you think we don’t love ourselves? 😂
Best comment 100%
@hastensavoir7782
Many dont. They are called simps.
FFS. Nothing this woman is saying should be particularly revelatory to any man who's been around the block. The trick for men is getting to that point (it often comes with age) where you just don't care about women anymore or what they think about anything. Learn to live your best life being alone, and be happy about it. That is true power.
I still like women. They're always talking and looking for the fun. Just let them know from the start you don't want a serious relationship, especially sexual; unless of course, you do?
I know. But is not easy living alone with a raging hard on and a heart filled to Brim with extreme sexual longing and longing for s girlfriend. It is nature to want this. Living alone with a raging hard on is Against nature, against Animal nature, but not Against true human nature. Kings live alone. Jerking off is not the answer either.
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Exactly!
BAMM!!! 💯💯💯
Long story short.. don’t fall for their bs.
I loved and respected women more than most.. but lately I'm really starting to think that their opinion is worthless.. even when they talk about what they want/are attracted to etc. I think they're completely clueless actually...
@@twonotesdown4032 you're becoming red-pilled.
As a musician and songwriter, I find it even more puzzling that women find emotionally available men unattractive, when in fact it’s the men with the most emotional capacity who write some of their favorite songs.
To them, being emotional as a man is a sign of weakness
they want a thug. women love violence.
Because they don't have to be with the songwriter in person, they just need to listen to the song and be done.
@@grimmywizard But they would swear on their grave that they do… in the beginning.
Its because they fantasise over the romance, but in reality they want to be the one in romance with a man who actually pushes them away
Girl. There is no possibility your male friends have no sexual interest to you. Its lie, they just dont show you :)
Right, rest assured they've all splattered the back of a computer pulling their meat bats to her
Exactly.. she's supposedly an expert. And she believes throngs of male friends don't want to bang her? 😂
It's not that she is repulsive.
Or they are playing a very long game....
It can definitely be the other way around where she's the only one with the interest.
100%
I am nice guy, got a wife and 3 kids, joy and faith filled home, . The core should be within the man or woman, is the intention just getting a girl or guy, or finding a life partner.
I second this. I’m working on myself so that the woman I meet can see that I’m a stable, hard working guy with the potential of taking care of her throughout her life!
@@double_courage57make sure she is attracted to you physically and mentally!
Had a mate once who started dating a woman who been used as a punch bag by her ex..my mate was a nice guy...six month later she finished with him and went back to her ex and used as a punch bag again...strange things aren't they!
Absolutely true. I knew a girl Who was literally pistol whipped by her douchebag boyfriend. And she would lament to her girl friends About how bad he treats her but she would not leave him.
And like an idiot , I waited on the sidelines for an opportunity to date her. Until I snapped out of it and said WTF am I doing???!!!!
@@Kmack840 you dodged a problematic bullet there mate...she finished with may mate because he was "too nice"...cave women belong with cave men.👍
Let her go! This is the most depressing video I have ever seen.
@@patrik-vw4ek They only want thugs and criminals. Leave them to it!
I've seen that so many times.
I swear, women make no sense
Yes, if your body is not pumped full of hormones then woman makes no sense
But woman is playing with your hormones and you'll lose the battle because we are programmed in this way
I agree.
Exactly!
The Joker: I know. They try to be like me but lack the guts to do something useful out of it. At the end of the day it's just... _much ado but nothing_
@@DaniloRSilva-hh8md
That's why women never gets nice guys.
I agree.
@@DaniloRSilva-hh8md Got it.
Absolutely!!
Nice guys have NO Value
@@hastensavoir7782 How would you know?
Guys just be nice to your mother,not to strangers most of them hit the walls the older they get they’ll be like left over unattractive
But what if your mother is not nice to you ?
Contrary to a kicker's opinion, it was actually men that had the most diabolical lie told to them. "If you're nice to a girl, she'll go out with you." The reality is if a girl likes you, she'll go out with you, regardless if you're nice to her or not.
In this terrible time we all live in, I have never been more glad to be single, to be honest
All golddiggers.
Your absolutely right am after learning that recently. I got dumped by a divorced Ukrainian lady lately.
Hmm, golddiggin' f.....g whores.
Amen
If you want sex, stay single and hangout at the clubs.
If you want long term relationships, grow up and show your quality/loyalty to the boundaries of your significant others.
The first advice does not work without looks, height, money and status. The second advice does not work, period.
Doesn’t work for me
That's a load of bollocks Matthew.
@@nelsonhibbert5267 He's probably a Boomer stuck in 1973.
So basically, get a dog 🐕
Or a cat, popular with many men.😅
At least he will stay loyal to you for as long he lives.
If you want. Better yourself. Go to the gym. Get fit, work on your bag. Deal with your trauma. Be a better man.
Generally speaking, women enjoy being treated badly. If you're a nice guy, the best thing to do is not stress about it and focus on things worth your time.
That's the best idea I think as well
I'm a woman and I do not enjoy being treated badly !!!!
Common misunderstanding. Women don't "enjoy" being treated badly. The truth is it doesn't matter how you "treat" a woman at all. What matters is if she finds a man valuable (women call this "chemistry" or "connection.") Each women has a different "value" system, but how you treat her is NOT a factor for any of them.
If she doesn't find you valuable, it doesn't matter how "good" treat her; it won't make her like you more. If she does find you valuable, you can treat her like absolute garbage, and she won't go anywhere. (This is where the misunderstanding that women enjoy being treated badly comes from. It's not the treatment she enjoys per se, it's that she finds the man valuable.) Yes, women may verbally complain about bad treatment, but you can ignore what they say and pay attention to what they do: if the man is valuable, they will keep going back again, and again, and again...
@GabeGX valuable ? Like " attractive " " protector " ?
@@spartanghost9713good looking
So glad I'm a guy. I won't speak to a woman unless I feel like it.
Or anyone. 🤷♂️
Don't validate em til you penetrate em.
Good Man !
Yes
Same
If you're a young man and the girl's you desire have no time for you. Do not be troubled, cruel as love can be. Know that youth is just as cruel to her, she avoids you today. But tomorrow youth will avoid her.
Damn that's heavy.
Men = Nice guys, bad boys, successful, poor, etc.
but Women = Women???
Excuse me, there's Jezebel women of the world who are BROKEN and go for bad boys and there are Christian women who go for nice guys. We're getting too convenient here without splitting the subgroups of women.
Yup
@@lv2465 The Wall defeats them all.
My brother went through two divorces because he was a nice guy to them but then he became bitter and aggressive towards women and he now has more women than he can deal with.
Cool video. My relationship of 8 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
So what you're saying is, you thought of this girl in your long term timline, where she thought of you in her short term (hence: her cold way of leaving & ignoring you). I can help you understand and fix your long-term vision with cold, hard facts. Although, I need some investment on your part. I simply need you to ask me for it. The shit I'll help you understand will crack your mind open (with the realization), seriously hurt inside, shame you (possibly), and make you very angry at yourself... in the beginning. I can not do that to you without your own permission.
Also, if you're looking to get back to living? That is, feel good for now, so you can get back to enjoying new experiences, ignore everything I said, and scroll on.
However, if you want to be a better survivor? In other words, to perfect your ability to sustain yourself and protect yourself, like I said, I need your permission to start.
I'm a nice guy and I did not finish last. With the same woman for 28 years, no cheating. Happy as heck. That term implies mating with a hot girl is winning. God blessed me by shielding me from shallow sociopaths who use you, lie, and toss you aside.
Like seeks like. Nice guys marry nice girls. Women of character and men of character find each other.
In the end people who want sex win. People who want relationships lose. Who wants relationships more? Who is actually losing in this modern dating culture game?
What are they winning? A short fleeting desire just only to get back to the drawing board, some people still going back to drawing board after 3 divorces
Go marry an obese/elderly person then since sexual attraction DOES NOT matter to you.
@@Nalters short term highs are the only ones that many people can create. No knowledge or skill in producing lingering pleasure and satisfaction.
@@NaltersI see your point. I think he meant they are "winning" in terms of at least not getting friend zoned left and right
Fall in love with God.
Not with a piece of meat cuz isn't worth of your time.
Jesus died virgin at the age 30 and he never gave a sh*t about pu**y
NOT REALLY BECAUSE WOMEN THAT DON,T LIKE NICE GUYS , AREN,T NOTTING BUT TROUBLE START WITH .
@@rickystutts6028 Nice guys Don’t stand up to them.The society and it’s norm put you in set up to be the nice guy.
Just be yourself.
Absolutely this woman and her followers are tripping hard
Women do not like nice guys, period. You can be virtuous without being nice, and that is the best combination.
@@Procopius464nice guys is scary to let his cojones hang. They like bold like the coffee. Supreme
Blackpill says its all attraction in terms of looks and personality. They're mostly right.
Red-pill says you can make yourself more attractive by focusing on yourself and making yourself your own priority, by not putting women on a pedestal, and doing whatever it takes to become a high-value man. They're right, but you still need the looks and personality as the foundation.
Pick-up Artists and Players say you need the ability to run game on women, the ability to be smooth and say the right things, and do the right things at the right time and the right place to seduce her and win her over. They're right, but you still need the looks and personality.
Blue-Pill says you can win a woman's heart by putting her on a pedestal and showing her how much you love her. They better have great looks and personality because that is the only way these men will ever get women.
Blackpill is about only looks
Ain't that the mfing Truth. 😂
Nailed it. Which is why women remain an enigma.
Remember Gentlemen, she’s not yours. It’s just your turn. She will always have options.
We all have options, but they're useless if they're shit options.
Blame Hollywood & the entertainment industry.
no, blame women.
No, blame female nature.
Social media and reality TV have added to their deluded Disney Princess complex.
They all think they’re tens and have a self-centred fragile personality that is reliant on constant external validation, especially from men.
Zero accountability and a horribly high level of entitlement. If you’re a guy don’t play their games and NEVER get married.
Blame nature
They do get good Guys .But they rip them off.Its the truth.
They hate men like that but will only give them the time of day to use them for money. I don't fall for that.
Attraction: fear of losing you physically and emotionally.
In a sense yes, but it's very simple: You don't fear losing something you don't value. This is true even beyond romantic relationships.
@@larsf.4756 It's not about value. Relationships are mostly based on dependencies and possessiveness. They can be emotional, social, financial, etc. Most people are simply afraid of being alone, and unless a better alternative comes up, they will fear losing whatever company they have. Sometimes, even if they are being abused.
@@HeathenDance Yet either way, you need to value something, even if the only thing you get out of it is not being alone. If there was nothing you wanted, you wouldn't be in a relationship to begin with.
Nice guys do not finish last, we just finish with nice women and leave the losers behind.
Only if you are lucky enough to
It's not luck. Just love for real cry fall down. But live with integrity. Men lives are hard. But protect yourself too. Pain make us real men. And there are things we cannot control.
Exactly. Toxic people will find toxic people. Nice people find nice people in the end.
According to Alan Harper, nice guys don't finish last, they finish in the shower
Exactly. Don't pay much attention to this lady.
I’ve never ever heard a women or a man confess to having an emotional affair😖
Usually it is a false accusation if you ask someone at work a few questions about relationships then you are having an emotional affair.
My Dad had a legit Emotional Affair on my Mom. He clearly wanted the younger girl (who was young enough to be his daughter), confessed his whole life to her, she just didn't reciprocate the sexy side. Beyond that... very damaging. My mother still isn't over it to this day.
@ I understand sorry to hear that
@@lancehuff2174 l have . It was a preachers wife . She used the word emotional because she didn't want the church to know she had sex with the other guy .
If you as a man start playing Mr "hard guy" just to keep a woman, she's not just meant for you. A woman will love you regardless of if you are a nice guy or not. Women move their heart, and they choose who their heart chooses.
Actually believe in that and I see live in that phone but it is just this so called stupid ideology of
And then they go out and the f boi makes their heart go fuzzy and then you're gone. Pick women based on their values
"im attracted to people who will always leave me feeling my own level of inadequacy and insecurity over and over again making me dependent on their validation to fuel my own attention seeking behavior. Their ego validates my ability to take zero accountability for my own self and continue playing a zero sum game with a person who will continue to treat me like i don't matter."
Your welcome.
Sadia herself doesnt like nice guys so basically shes talking about herself as usual
In psychology, yes. The way everyone gives advices are likely speaking to themselves. Those advices are just from experience and not all are correct.
She has many guys friends she talks to😂
She wants the materialistic fantasy and the physical-emotional fantasy, but she is not able to evoke it from men.
She acts like she is ruler of the world
@@sonnymills803she is delusional
It's the easy target syndrome. Women take their anger out on nice guys. Nice guys have had it with you.
You haven't met that many different women, sorry you are limited to the nonsensical ones
When you treat a woman like a queen, don't be surprised when she treats you like a subject. The queen doesn't marry the subjects because they are beneath her.
That's a psychopathic quality. Psychopaths think non-psychopaths are suckers and weak for not committing crimes when they could get away with it. They think the nice guy is weak until the nice guy gets angry, then...
A wise man once said, a woman always loves only a warrior. Bringing new life into the world is tough. You need a fighter by your side.
Attraction is the most important thing for women. Attraction is in the eye of the beholder so it differs and attraction also includes manners, respect, morals and actions..
odd how women always end up with bad boys & having babies by low value men. women always end up with men who display a lack of manners, respect & morals.
Being nice to people/women is actually very good & human ,but just have boundaries & having the courage to say "no" is good .No girl wants to be treated bad ,it's every girl's dream to be treated nice .
Attraction is critical! And if a man is totally unwavering in his attractive power, women will gravitate towards him, and choose him every time.
How does not caring or remembering something make men, men?.
This is what women hear and when they see a nice man they say your not a man when it could be the only real man she's ever met
it took me until my mid 30s to realize that I was programmed by rom coms and feminism to think how to treat women a certain way, even have female family members tell me "be nice" "respect her" and I just turned 39 and am alone. I believed that somehow the girls I dated were all out of my league and I had to bring something and I would always tell them how beautiful they I found them even when they did. It was in all the love songs and romcom movies, to think all of the times I stood up for myself or called all the love songs and movies they loved, BS and that made them upset, that is what would eventually make them more attracted to me, just makes me hang my head in regret. SMH.
Thats why women should raise kids only till 7y. Otherwise she shits his brain with bs.
I figured this out a while ago, and have been giving similar advice to men younger men as well as my friends who are still single. Women will belly-ache about you forgetting this or that, but they actually feel attracted to men who are somewhat aloof. If you perpetually slobber all over them and put them on a pedestal they take that as weakness, and women have contempt for weakness. You know who comes at the ring of a bell? Servants. If you treat the woman like a queen, you shouldn't be surprised when she treats you as a servant.
Einstein was such a kind man and females were attracted to him too. Love is about being appreciative of an individual and if you need to alter your individuality than something is flawed and that relationship is not adequate.
Einstein was not kind at all to women. He used them.
His wife left him
He was famous,rich and had a long tongue.
he had status.
@@Brent-z2slong tongue 😂
Lol he was pretty much a celebrity. If you're a celebrity you can pretty much be a cave troll and women would still be attracted to you.
I gave my heart to a girl. She broke it. Which broke the “nice guy”.
After countless hours of research on understanding women and dating
I concluded that I should just treat all girls the way I was treated.
Never had better success. As a man who was raised with morals.. ngl it took a bit of a learning curve.
BUT once you get the lies and emotional disconnection in every piece of conversation you have down… then blocking them right after having sex.
It just works. Now I talk to 4 different girls at the same time all head over heels. Treat em like the sand on your feet walking in from the beach and leave em
Sexual attractive comes first before anything . This is what society and women condition inexperienced men to believe that sexual attraction isnt important but it's most natural and authentic way women are attracted to men .
Exactly, they tend to forget that part. If the guy isn't choking his rod over some lady, he's not going to care how much she loves him
@@modickens1272 Women don't understand that if a man is having sex with them and if she's emotional in a certain situation it's little less annoying because the man is having sex with them .
You have to be in the top 20percent of men. If you are not you are wasting your time. If you are then why settle down they had their years of fun why not have yours.
@@Brent-z2s Stop !! Top 20 percent of men don't have all the energy fuck with all these women . All women don't have access to the top 20% of men so that why we have beautiful and sexy women with "average" men .
@@Brent-z2s 💯💯💯💯
I walk away when a woman who is in a relationship hits on me. I won't be part of the problem.
Yeah if she will cheat with you, she'll cheat on you
What she is saying is very true. Most women are that way as well. That is reality.
Guys dont complicate it by analysing. Just live the day . 🎉
So much honesty and truth. Thank you. Even tho it is upsetting.
I still refuse to be an asshole to women.
Same here.even being an asshole wont give you a woman.just a trip to jail.not worth it.why bother.
I've never been an asshole to women and I've gotten plenty of them. Bottom line is, they either like you or they don't and there is not much yo can do about it. It's not easy to understand and can be frustrating I know but stick the women that like you and you'll be good.😀
@@Mr6767Will thats true.
Don't be an asshole just don't give a shit.
Pfft they deserve it. Women are evil.
Melvin Udall's line in As Good As It Gets when he describes how he accurately writes female characters is on the money - "I think of a man, then I take away reason and accountability." Women's prime directive is to never take responsibility for their actions.
Bad boys give you something you can't get rid of....learn the hard way but you go learn.
This "nice guy" thing is a bit of a sham. My best friend from high school was a nice guy, he married my ex and they had a family together. One of my best friends from college was a nice guy- but he was very athletic and confident in himself, and he had his own apartment- and he went from a girlfriend to six months later meeting my classmate and they got married. Yes, he was confident, and most importantly, employed and had his own place- but he was a nice guy, a good guy, in every sense of the word. Because he was more fit and 'handsome', he could get away with saying some naughty and inappropriate things and women would find him funny. I try saying the same things, the same way, and women would look at me with disgust because I'm fat and not dressed as well.
I'm a nice guy, but I'm such a flounder, a ham, and I needed to find my own voice, my own way. The truth is there is nothing wrong with being nice- but you also have to be courageous and still have gentlemanly qualities. And if a girl doesn't want that and she picks the toxic, loud idiot guy, then you're not missing out on anything. I know for myself, when I'm confident and clear-headed, I've had good experiences with women, and I'm a "nice guy." Be nice, but also be direct, and also, relax. Even the go-getters get rejected, but they keep going. That's what matters: keep going. Be courageous.
Finally someone said the correct thing 🙌🙌🙌
I m basically a nice guy but I scored the hottest chick among my friends and colleagues. Still together with her after 18 yrs. I received countless rejection from girls before that but that didnt stop me from looking for my dream girl. U just need to keep trying and be courageous.
Being fat is unacceptable.
One thing ill NEVER understand , is that some woman are scared to death about communicating with other guys , whether it be a message, an instagram message , or a text, if this is true in a relationship, its a serious problem, and its doomed
Having listened to this, I do agree; the way I used to do things was non-masculine, I used to put females on pedestals; but in my 51st year, the realisation has set in. So I thank you for your wisdom and philosophy as it is much appreciated.
Sooo…… men who show women respect will never have a woman in their life.
Eventually they will. As providers.
Eventually they will. As providers.
It all depends on the woman amd her level of beauty. I don't go after really beautiful women anymore because they're a headache. I go for 6&7's that are in their mid 30s. By that age they've usually had their fill if bad boys and want someone that's kind. I will also never be friends with a woman again and I won't date women with male friends.
@@glennlgg6871 no we won't. many men are not marrying & not providing & becoming permanent bachelors.
@@asdfxcvbn746 many still are. And both have advantages and disadvantages. It's also not a good idea to generalize.
I'm glad i have zero attachments
Eve spoke to the serpent while living in paradise. Go figure.
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i used this video to help a friend or two, thank you.
i am not the nice guy so i had to help him the nice way.
Emotional affairs are almost as bad as an physical affair I went through this myself with my ex
No, they are worse. Without the emotional aspect, sex is no different from rubbing someone's arm.
She was definitely getting railed
An "emotional affair" can refer to the period of cheating before the physical cheating begins...when they're caught early.
Men want a woman to love and take care of. But we can only have the woman we want as long as we don't act like we love them and take care of them. It's a Catch-22. It's pointless.
Not pointless. Women are complex. Our job is to be "simple". Always be on your purpose and don't give a fuck what they think. You can love and protect her, but don't place her first or on a pedestal. Always lead, never follow
This just delays the divorce. Just have fun but always protect yourself. If you live in a non common law state you can live with her be sure the lease is on your name and wear protection.
@@LionMentality1982 women aren't that complex. they're just opposite. if it makes sense, women are the opposite.
This is why you get in a relationships with the women who love you, not the women YOU love.
Attraction is in the eye of the beholder.
She is not talking about women,
She is talking about narcissist women - a subgroup.
A very large subgroup, unfortunately.
she's full of shit, most women her included are narcissistic, just look at her lack of any semblance of humility.. what does that say about her ?
Yep. But in aggregate, Cluster B Personality Disorders are equally distributed across genders.
i couldnt care less if i finish last, i enjoy my life being single, helping animals and my family and nature and helping with the mentally ill. I believe in doing good and trying to be kind to all, even at the cost of my personal gains. Giving back in this world even if you recieve nothing back is what life is about and i could not care one bit if women dont like that or whatever.
All of the women I have known thought it was nice if I finished last.
Im getting really hot this is great
Nice guys are blessed by the all mighty. Living with a woman is one of the worst punishments a man can suffer in this mortal world.
Sad but true. I knew a girl who was literally pistol whipped by her douchebag boyfriend. And she would lament to her girl friends About how bad he treats her but she would never leave him. Incredible!!
And like an idiot , I waited on the sidelines for an opportunity to date her. Until I snapped out of it and said WTF am I doing???!!!!
Be authentic to yourself, and date A LOT, without commitment, until you find the one truly worth your time.
When you don't care and you're costing the right one always seems to come along.
This is why the Gospel tells: men, love your women. Why that advice? Because women cannot help nor love themselves. A nice man therefore indeed must suffer a lot to help save a woman from self-destruction. There is women's propensity for making errors and bad decisions, rooted in the original sin. Woman was first to sin, and the sin pulls her into self-destructive outcomes. Finding a good and nice man is woman's way to help save herself, but the propensity for bad and self-hurting decisions pulls her away. Unfortunately, modern feminist propaganda only adds oil to the already burning problem!
That's why I don't have any social media besides this . Social media is the cancer of most relationships . I had 2 back to back 4yr relationships where I was always there when they needed me . Worked 60hrs a week to save extra money to go on nice vacations for special occasions and made them feel like they were the center of my universe . I gave them space when they wanted it , but was always there when they needed me . Haha now I am single for 3yrs and devote all of my time to animal / wildlife rescuing and couldn't be happier talking to squirrels .... gents when the woman won't let her phone out of her sight and her "friend" texts her after midnight . I know you want to believe her BUT DONT BE NAIVE ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT . silver lining of being single again for 3ys haha I have a shit load of more money in my savings account . Women aren't evil they are amazing . Just don't trust blindly . If something feels wrong it probably is
Emotional affairs are cheating that just hasn’t become physical- yet. Even if the guy is half way around the world if she is investing all that emotional energy communicating , probably fantasizing about him too- she is already cheating. That is energy that should be going into her man, their relationship.
I discovered all of this about women in my teens I'm now 36 hearing women like this confirm it. Bizarre
Thank you for making this video. After watching and listening to this woman, my IQ has dropped 20 points. Time for football and beer…..
I never listen to a woman
Good luck with that physical attraction thing she speaks of as everyone ages.
For men to be with women simply requires resources (money). Nothing else is required. Men will always be truly alone but they can buy companionship. Which tells you everything you need to know about women.
It’s always man bad, woman good with this woman.
No one ever talks about love, and what love is, for instance like scott m. Peck did in "the path less traveled."
She said no sexual interest from her male friends. She might not have sexual interest. They do, though.
Because this world of humans is such a wonderful place, can't you realize it ?
If you are a man and she is risking it all for you, the real question is, do you act in self interest, or do you do the right thing for your friend?
I would say act for the friend, but I've also had friends that wouldn't have done the same for me 🤷 idk I don't think it's good karma to be doing stuff like that
Since I love my cars, my landscape photography, cooking, traveling, I am very happy! Woman lately became some sort of useless! I rose my two boys alone!! I learned enough from woman to keep them away from me! Nothing like better than jump on my Harley and ride! No cheater around me! PEACE and FREE from drama!
This woman is brilliant I don’t think I’ve heard her in tens of videos say one thing that wasn’t insightful
I consider myself a nice guy who respects women a lot. I waited and got the most beautiful and intelligent woman I've been married to for 22 years. I've just never been attracted to women who felt for the bad, cheap guys, and so did my wife.
Me too!
I did the same, but after 24 years of marriage she divorced me. She then married a guy who had been married three times before. She's now divorced from him and broke, and I'm happily single.
Well ...totally depends on individuals
WOMEN LOVE:
1. Their children
2. Their mothers
3. Their pets
4. Their friends
Notice there is no husband or boyfrind on that list.
Erm… dunno.
I have always been called a nice guy by others, and I was married for over twenty years, had kids and the whole scenario ended only with my wife passing. Do I break the standard model?
Was being called ‘a nice guy’ ego massaging by others? Most of them didn’t get involved in my life. They didn’t have to opine in any way. They could have called me a psycho or any epithet, but they didn’t.
Perhaps I am the exception that proves the rule?
Times have changed. Boys are romantics now and girls are the horndogs hitting the streets looking for quickies.
Strangely enough, I'm the nicest to people I don't like (especially women). It's not genuine kindness. It's keeping the peace long enough for them to go the fuck away.
A way to keep the interaction positive so I don't end up telling them how I really feel or go off on them.
It doesn't make them like me any more and I couldn't care less. It's just weird how my natural instinct to get someone to piss off is to be extremely nice to them lol
I'm not saying I'm rude to people I do like, I'm just a lot more real in my interactions with them. More genuine responses and gestures.
There really is something to this whole "nice" thing and I think it's a natural way to repel people. It's instinctual on both sides and women especially pick up on it
(Even if you're not doing it to repel them. It is repulsive)
Today 2024 it is cheap for men to live by yourself, for women it is cheaper to live in a relationship. Thats why nowadays practically ordinary men don’t pursue women anymore k!
I agreed with this video until the last segment, because in my 30 plus years of dating, the women I've actually gotten into exclusive relationships with (including my ex wife) all loved things that you, apparently, consider feminine behaviors, such as love notes, poems, creative/romantic artwork, and me recognizing our monthiversaries. And, yes, they were very feminine women. It was the few masculine women I tried to date who didn't go crazy for romantic gestures
One word replies we could do without
I'm nice and I'm single. Rich too.
She speak truth
I Like that She Comes right out if the Gate Saying Women are Run Around Street 304's and Delusional. "They believe their own Lies". Sadia get Points 4 this. I just want the Best women and they hitch their wagons to Guarented Big Money and the good life. I don't want to marry something I can barely put up with . Don't want a Fake relationship.
Nice Guyd Finish Last is Because women won't admit this they liked to be treated like crap
Ever see a woman roll around in feces to make a guy erect? Sickening
Heh heh. 'Shut the fuck up and get away from me ! " Classic.
Enlightening. Just reaffirms my decision to remain single. No more b.s. and hoop jumping to secure fake commitment from fickle women. Loneliness is contentment. Trying to meet unrealistic expectations that keep changing wastes your precious time on this planet. At least Sadia is trying to be authentic unlike every other woman I've ever met.
Her Happiness, answer. 🤨
“Nice guys finish last” is the biggest lie sold to men, I has never had any issues finding a relationships as a person who is trying to be more of a gentleman, it is “simps finish last”, you can be a nice guy and in this case your dating life would actually be pretty easy, but never become a simp.