Asia VS. Europe | Traveling While Black | Melody Alisa

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  • @alissad.8793
    @alissad.8793 7 лет назад +86

    I laughed so hard when you said you thought that Italy was expensive, I go to Italy to shop because it's cheap. Then again, I'm from Switzerland, so my perception of "expensive" might be a little flawed. Also, I always find it hilarious when Americans call European buildings old, for me a 200-year-old building is considered new. I love how depending on where you live, your perception of really mundane things can be totally different.

    • @megmeginchinamcghee6909
      @megmeginchinamcghee6909 7 лет назад +8

      Alissa Ditten yeah when I lived in Italy it was super cheap, but once you live in Asia for awhile, everything is expensive...especially things like taxis

    • @alissad.8793
      @alissad.8793 7 лет назад

      Meghan Mcghee That's true, I stayed in both China and Korea for a while and it is so much cheaper than Europe!

    • @MelodyAlisa
      @MelodyAlisa  7 лет назад +3

      Lol! This definitely proves that perspective is everything.

    • @rrrado1
      @rrrado1 6 лет назад

      You;re from a country of fences... What is sad your not ashamed of it, but you should.

    • @Roberttang20
      @Roberttang20 6 лет назад +1

      if you ever consider going to Scandinavia you can save a couple bucks by not buying water and bring your own water bottle and use the super clean tap water that we have.

  • @Aixela_1
    @Aixela_1 7 лет назад +41

    I now live in korea (gangwondo) and omgosh the cost of living is so cheap! Being a new yorker, I was shocked. Girl, $6 for my electricity bill, $5-10 for dinner, etc. I'm loving it! Produce on the other hand is a whole other story...
    And YES Europe is freaking expensive. I've only been to England, Ireland and Iceland but I can say when it came to eating out, the food was so expensive. Even buying things at convenient stores.
    In regards to being black, when I was in Ireland people stared at me like I was a main attraction. I try to remember it's out of curiosity and not hatred. Surprisingly, I haven't received much stares since I've been in Korea and if I do , they're from ajummas and ajhussis. As for Iceland, a very homogenous country, they don't care. The people are so welcoming and helpful. Definitely my favorite country so far.

    • @MelodyAlisa
      @MelodyAlisa  7 лет назад +4

      Let's here it one time for Korean utilities!! I miss the cheapness so much! But you're right about the produce. Just forget about the fruit, don't even bother looking lol they be TAXIN' for some grapes oh my goodness. I hope you continue to enjoy Korea!

  • @nicolew3993
    @nicolew3993 7 лет назад +36

    Life is too short to worry about other people's opinions.

  • @charisse_xo
    @charisse_xo 7 лет назад +29

    You look extra pretty here! But you always are though!! Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us!

    • @MelodyAlisa
      @MelodyAlisa  7 лет назад +6

      I felt extra cute this day haha glad it translated :P

    • @kristianbrandt3012
      @kristianbrandt3012 6 лет назад

      While I'm not black I can definitely relate. I'm from northern Europe, Scandinavia to be specific, where people are quite tall. And while my skin tone isn't exactly exotic-quite the opposite in fact, I'm 1.88 tall(that's 6.2'') and in south-east Asia I'm a bona-fide giant, and it's an absolute riot. Especially in Tokyo which was brilliant btw. It's quite a useful trait aswell, Tokyo's walkways are extremely crowded but with my extended frame I can look over the crowd and pick the best route ;)

  • @Jazoom2
    @Jazoom2 7 лет назад +19

    Hmm you ever think that you are drop dead gorgeous why there staring

  • @michellemoore8776
    @michellemoore8776 7 лет назад +8

    You know when you left Korea I was very disappointed and stoped watching you. But I really missed your positive look on life and just your personality and that is why you're going to go far. You stayed yourself and I'm definitely looking forward to more of your videos(:

    • @MelodyAlisa
      @MelodyAlisa  7 лет назад +1

      AW! Thanks for that realness & I'm glad to have you back :)

  • @blackorchid253
    @blackorchid253 7 лет назад +7

    Some things haven't changed. Racism was rampant in Europe 40yrs ago when I was there. It made me really sad.

    • @MelodyAlisa
      @MelodyAlisa  7 лет назад +3

      Le sigh, let's hope we're singing a different tune 40 years from now.

    • @christina7215
      @christina7215 5 лет назад +1

      So Europe want to keep to keep their own continent European... and you are saying they are not allowed to? You know how racist that is? You ugly Bitch. We don’t want our countries to be invaded by blacks and browns. So yeh piss off.

    • @9yearoldepicgamersoldier129
      @9yearoldepicgamersoldier129 5 лет назад +1

      @@christina7215 Exactly preach. But if they are just travelers it's fine and they shouldn't be treated any differently than us.

  • @INeedABlessingNow
    @INeedABlessingNow 3 года назад

    Thanks for your perspective as an African American. I like the energy and enthusiasm you show.

  • @michelleious
    @michelleious 7 лет назад +4

    Your hair looks so pretty!!! Don't think I've ever been this early haha thank you for all the info!! I love how straightforward this video is, I hope you continue to have a good time!

  • @blessednhm
    @blessednhm 5 лет назад

    I've been to both continents multiple times and I definitely prefer Asia over Europe. The cost is also a bonus. I'm saving up for my trip to Africa so I'm really excited to see how my experience differs there.

    • @christina7215
      @christina7215 5 лет назад

      blessednhm yes stay away from Europe. We don’t want you here.

  • @hamiltona7
    @hamiltona7 7 лет назад +2

    Hi Melody, thank you for the update and for the information on the atmosphere of Europe. Keep it coming, be safe and be blessed!!!

  • @theamethyst93
    @theamethyst93 7 лет назад +4

    I've never been to Italy but I have friends that have lived there for a short period of time and what they told me was that they assume you are Nigerian and there are a lot of Nigerian smuggling drugs into Italy and the rest of Europe. so they are suspicious of black people in general

    • @jj2517
      @jj2517 7 лет назад

      dominique007 What about Asians? Any thoughts?

    • @theamethyst93
      @theamethyst93 7 лет назад

      drama watcher I've never heard anything about Asians in italy

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 7 лет назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your perspective, Melody. I still look forward to broadening my horizons one day in traveling the world. U.S. share in some of these impressions when it comes to cost of living (NYC, California, etc..) acceptance (there are still places here in the states where I get stares, lol), and aesthetics (regions). I know its not necessarily the country but the people. Continue to spread love and joy wherever you go it's contagious! ❤🤗 Traveling graces!

  • @michael.gerard8687
    @michael.gerard8687 7 лет назад +9

    It's unfortunate to hear that you encountered some negativity in Italy. It would be awkward for me personally because my Brooklyn New York attitude would definitely come out against anyone who was out rightly rude to me. I might end up in jail LOL

  • @7I9HR
    @7I9HR 7 лет назад +1

    It's so interesting to hear your experience while in Italy. About 6 years ago I visited Italy and I never felt the "why are you here" stares. Maybe I'm just oblivious LOL I was living in Spain at the time and I didn't feel it there either. But I think a big part of it was that I was in an area that had quite a few African immigrants, so seeing a Black person wasn't out of the norm. But I absolutely loved my time abroad. So much so that I plan to move to Korea in the next few weeks. I really enjoy your vids and I hope you keep making them for a long time ❤️ BTW those Senegalese twists are super cute.

  • @elle2778
    @elle2778 7 лет назад +5

    I loved this video. I'm planning to travel to Italy next summer and wanted a bit of insight to what to expect. Its funny how being black is perceived around the world. When I was in China a woman on the train straight up stroked my face😂 p.s your twists are super gorgeous

    • @MelodyAlisa
      @MelodyAlisa  7 лет назад +3

      LMBO I can literally imagine the face stroke. Some people are SO bold!

  • @user-ln9yx2eu8l
    @user-ln9yx2eu8l 7 лет назад +1

    my sister and her friend went to italy this year and they said people wouldn't stop staring at them (they're both black) and they said it was really intense

    • @twil05
      @twil05 7 лет назад +1

      M. I live in italy its true. Im black but the do it to white americans too lol.

  • @deshandagreen
    @deshandagreen 7 лет назад +3

    I agree with you on the aesthetics. I absolutely adore Italy 🇮🇹!!! However, as expected, Europe is expensive. Teaching English there you, barely break even to survive. It'll be like living in US all over again. Thanks for confirming South Korea then Spain/Europe. I have to spend a couple weeks exploring. I can't wait to go to Greece and Iceland, the list goes on.

    • @deshandagreen
      @deshandagreen 7 лет назад

      Also, I didn't get any negative vibes from the locals in Italy (Venice, Milan, Florence, Tuscany). Like, at all. It was just amazing. See all of our experiences are different, as they should. Mel, check out Contiki Tours (if you haven't already). They're pretty awesome!!!

  • @jackiem1293
    @jackiem1293 7 лет назад +1

    I hope this experience changes your life! & I'm glad that you are having so much fun! 😀

  • @rosygarrido
    @rosygarrido 7 лет назад +3

    From my experience, I loved Italy. However, the "Why are you here" look and such was going on when I was there back in 2001. So if I'm hearing this from you in 2017, no it will not change. I was up North and I just ignored it. Not all Italians are like this but for those that were, I just let my narcissistic American characteristic take over. I wasn't mean but you're not pushing me around. The same applied when had lived in South Korea as well. As for Italy being very expensive, you are so correct. I was able to enjoy Lira just a few months before it changed to Euro. I was so pissed!!! Lol.

  • @lota3030
    @lota3030 4 года назад

    Totally agree with the Italy part! We felt somewhat like we weren’t welcomed in most places . We just assumed it might’ve been the language barrier. Otherwise, we didn’t really think about it too much because we were more excited about exploring and tasting all the good food!lol We didn’t get to do South Italy so it’ll be interesting to compare the two parts next time we visit.

  • @AstraExplorator
    @AstraExplorator 7 лет назад

    You're so beautiful 😊
    And yes I know that feeling/look people give you. When I was in Vienna the entire vibe was cold & just OFF 😳, my entire family felt it, however I don't regret going. I recommend that anyone should go because it is a STUNNING city, the architecture is incredible & so is its history.
    I do want to explore more of Europe, but Asia is where my heart is 😍💓

  • @anon877
    @anon877 7 лет назад +6

    Is it just me or does she looks like the singer Yuna

  • @BahamaWynters
    @BahamaWynters 7 лет назад

    Living vicariously. So much fun. Blessed be your every step, your smile and laughter. Enjoy.

  • @teenatravels1018
    @teenatravels1018 6 лет назад

    I lived in Rome Italy for a year and I'm from California so I considered Italy cheap. Yeah perception is key Lol, coming from Los Angeles, Most Countries were cheap to me and I have been to around 16 European Countries. But if you really want to experience Europe's less expensive countries, visit Warsaw Poland and Prague Czech Republic and Budapest in Central Europe, these places are Amazing and so cheap, the US dollar and the Euro goes very far in these beautiful countries. Keep on Traveling girl, I am a female solo traveler who works from my computer and international travel is so rewarding and life changing. :)

  • @adriannemeyer-gruhl3319
    @adriannemeyer-gruhl3319 7 лет назад +2

    Loved your video, specialy the part you talk about desdain and how people treat you. I am white but as a Tourist you are more likely to be treated bad, specialy in cities like Venice, which strongly depends of Tourism to live. I live in Berlin for a while and is the same. As Tourist you are more likely to be treated as a not welcome thing than as a person. But if you live there it might be way different. Have a nice and save Trip! 🙏

    • @HAngeli
      @HAngeli 7 лет назад

      I'm interacting with you on youtube.

    • @dreamdelights
      @dreamdelights 4 года назад

      Ada Ada was going to Berlin will stay home. I loved Rome and Florence. Milan is nice also.

  • @twil05
    @twil05 7 лет назад +5

    I live in Northern Italy lol. The looks are true I am black but they do it to my white american friends too. If you standout in anyway they are gonna look. I've met some really nice people here too just gotta take the good with the bad I guess.

    • @mimmiblu6138
      @mimmiblu6138 7 лет назад +2

      we stare... we do! It's not considered as rude as it is in other parts of the world....sorry it makes people feel so akward. But as people pointed out, we stare whenever people are different, not much of an excuse but still not necessarily a sign of racism.

  • @ryannfoster-jones8312
    @ryannfoster-jones8312 7 лет назад +6

    Europe is cheap, it's just that travellers such as yourself go to the tourist areas. For instance if you just went to London then it's MAJORLY expensive! Believe me, I'm English and I live in the midlands and the cost to take a two hour train into London is bloody extortionate.

    • @megmeginchinamcghee6909
      @megmeginchinamcghee6909 7 лет назад

      Ryann Foster-Jones who goes to the U.K. And misses London though 😟

    • @ryannfoster-jones8312
      @ryannfoster-jones8312 7 лет назад

      Meghan Mcghee I wasn't saying to miss out on our beautiful capital, all I'm saying is that London takes advantage of tourists. 👍

    • @MelodyAlisa
      @MelodyAlisa  7 лет назад +1

      I agree with you on the point that London is expensive. Our two 10-12 minute cab rides were almost 20$ USD a piece 😩

  • @desterg43
    @desterg43 7 лет назад +3

    I'm sure the biggest difference is cost, higher cost

  • @JOHNOII
    @JOHNOII 7 лет назад +2

    I live in the UK I know the feeling when I travel to cities in Europe. I know those stares but even in our home country their will be race and prejudice issues so i just ignore it, and not let that stop me from enjoying traveling, there are also places in Europe I have gone and not experience it. Portugal's Lisbon and Sintra never felt the stare to be honest. Even Paris that most black people find rough for them wasn't bad for me. Just remember though that one persons experience wont necessarily be the same experience you have.

    • @jj2517
      @jj2517 7 лет назад

      3ripleJ Channel Is it the same thing if you are an Asian-American (Filipino) traveling/working in Europe? Would love to get an idea before I go.

    • @JOHNOII
      @JOHNOII 7 лет назад +2

      (@drama watcher )I wouldn't be 100% sure I am British Jamaican so I ultimately of African decent and my mate that was with me in Portugal was of Afghanistan origin but Persian background so he looks a bit Asian and he did not get any bad treatment and he travels to many places in Europe even more than I have, and I have yet to hear him complain. I would suggest that you show confidence like your a local in whichever country you visit and try your best to communicate in their language even if its just hello and thank you. They appreciate when you embrace their culture. Good luck.

  • @bermudabengal
    @bermudabengal 7 лет назад +13

    Throw that beautiful black face all up in their grill girl! Ignorant people...smh. anyway, you seriously deserve your own travel show on the travel channel....seriously! Your observations are so balanced and thoroughly put together. Magnificent 🤗

  • @georgep94
    @georgep94 7 лет назад

    Hello! I discovered your videos a few days ago and I have been watching them like crazy, I rarely subsribe to someone after only a few days, I usually wait for months to make sure, but you got me! Your work is amazing, I love your trips. You should definitely come to Greece (I'm greek), there are tons of amazing places to see, xx

  • @megmeginchinamcghee6909
    @megmeginchinamcghee6909 7 лет назад

    I definitely got the vibes you got in Italy, lived there for 4 months...in northern Italy, Torino. Almost as far north as you can go. Staring is normal, day to day and it did make me feel extremely uncomfortable sometimes. Being followed around stores, yelled at in Italian etc . Not all the i me and I wouldn't trade my experience there for anything, but there was definitely instances where I felt super awkward.

  • @Mikkixox9
    @Mikkixox9 7 лет назад +1

    I will say that the locals of Venice aren't supper friendly to locals in general. I went to Venice in July and I am white and from Canada, I speak very minimal Italian. And we got very very lost trying to find our hostel, people did not help, they looked down their noses at us or even completely ignored us when we spoke to them (and we tried to speak in Italian). It was disheartening, but I also knew going into it that people from Venice really don't like tourists, it is probably even worse as a black English speaking women.

    • @mimmiblu6138
      @mimmiblu6138 7 лет назад +2

      People in Venice are fed up of living in a town which resembles more Eurodisney than a real town. I am from Milan and went there with my kid for 2 days in July: my son was invited to play football with some local kids while their parents were collecting their school reports from the local school. That meant that the parents got to talk to me as well and loved the idea that we were Italian and could understand their problems.... can you imagine what it must be like to live in a place where people ask you thousands of times for the way not even trying to say Buongiorno in your own language?! Locals are ... people minding their own business... not local guides constantly on duty. If you have something in common with them (such as children the same age and you speak Italian, they're more than happy to speak to you). Just my two cents.

  • @TheRacingWind
    @TheRacingWind 7 лет назад

    I just found your channel and I instantly subscribed, you're such a vibrant and radiant soul. You seem like you would be a really great friend

  • @BerryBeautifulLife
    @BerryBeautifulLife 7 лет назад

    I've always wanted to go to Europe so it's disappointed that they weren't as welcoming in Italy. It sounds like London is a dream though!

  • @SuperLivelife2010
    @SuperLivelife2010 6 лет назад

    Thank you for this video. I experienced the staring and picture taking when I traveled to Taiwan back in August 2017. lol I'll be very brief with my experience. I traveled to Taiwan for vacation/pilgrimage back in August. While there, I spent time in the mountains and experienced everything you said. I was looking at a tree (it was 2000 yrs old) when an older man turned me around and had his wife or friend take a picture of us. I was like "Really" ?

  • @celestial8652
    @celestial8652 6 лет назад +1

    I hope the UK treated you well.

  • @MeLoveSmile1
    @MeLoveSmile1 7 лет назад

    But Italy is more expensive on food kinda, bc you also have to pay for your fork, spoon etc. That's not the case in other countries

  • @HAngeli
    @HAngeli 7 лет назад +8

    I want to hear you talking in Spanish * - *

  • @clairbyrer8097
    @clairbyrer8097 5 лет назад

    i lived in italy for a month, and i’m not from a minority ethnic group, i’m very irish american, but it was with the visible refugee crisis and the family that i stayed with, and frankly lots of other italian families that i met, northern italy is very racist and kind of behind on the times. they made me feel very uncomfortable in Milan and the villages around the lakes because they’re open with their attitudes and they still say words like “negro”. i’m glad you saw it pretty fast though because i was fairly oblivious. i’m sorry that in such a short time you had to experience that behavior though, and i’m glad the south was more accepting.

  • @MeikoRousse
    @MeikoRousse 7 лет назад

    Omg I studied abroad in Madrid and I shopped soooo much! It's so cheap to get clothes. Try the restaurant La Tierra and stores like Mulaya and Marypaz.

    • @jj2517
      @jj2517 7 лет назад

      Maya How are they to foreigners in Madrid? Are they like what Mel said about Italy?

  • @Mint_tea_cup
    @Mint_tea_cup 7 лет назад

    That opening song is so catchy I still remember it from the India vlog.

  • @SuperGreatSphinx
    @SuperGreatSphinx 6 лет назад +3

    Asia is Earth's largest and most populous continent, located primarily in the Eastern and Northern Hemispheres.
    It shares the continental landmass of Eurasia with the continent of Europe and the continental landmass of Afro-Eurasia with both Europe and Africa.
    Asia covers an area of 44,579,000 square kilometres (17,212,000 sq mi), about 30% of Earth's total land area and 8.7% of the Earth's total surface area.
    The continent, which has long been home to the majority of the human population, was the site of many of the first civilizations.
    Asia is notable not only for its overall size and population, but also for large and dense human settlements, as well as vast, barely populated regions.
    Its 4.5 billion people constitute roughly 60% of the world's population.
    In general terms, Asia is bounded on the east by the Pacific Ocean, on the south by the Indian Ocean and on the north by the Arctic Ocean.
    The western boundary with Europe is a historical and cultural construct, as there is no clear physical and geographical separation between them.
    The most commonly accepted boundaries place Asia to the east of the Suez Canal, the Ural River, and the Ural Mountains, and south of the Caucasus Mountains and the Caspian and Black Seas.
    China and India alternated in being the largest economies in the world from 1 to 1800 CE.
    China was a major economic power for thousands of years, and attracted many explorers and traders to the east.
    For many others, the legendary wealth and prosperity of the ancient culture of India personified Asia, attracting European commerce, exploration and colonialism.
    The accidental discovery of America by Columbus in search for India demonstrates this deep fascination.
    The Silk Road became the main East-West trading route in the Asian hinterlands, while the Straits of Malacca stood as a major sea route.
    Asia has exhibited economic dynamism (particularly East Asia) as well as robust population growth during the 20th century, but overall population growth has since fallen.
    Asia was the birthplace of most of the world's mainstream religions including Christianity, Islam, Judaism, Hinduism, Buddhism, Confucianism, Taoism (or Daoism), Jainism, Sikhism, Zoroastranism, as well as many other religions.
    Given its size and diversity, the concept of Asia-a name dating back to classical antiquity-may actually have more to do with human geography than physical geography.
    Asia varies greatly across and within its regions with regard to ethnic groups, cultures, environments, economics, historical ties and government systems.
    It also has a mix of many different climates, ranging from the equatorial south via the hot deserts of the Middle East, temperate areas in the east and the continental centre, to vast sub-arctic and polar areas in Siberia.

  • @quanamckinney519
    @quanamckinney519 7 лет назад +3

    What type of twist do you have I need them😣

    • @MelodyAlisa
      @MelodyAlisa  7 лет назад +2

      These are rope/ Senegalese twists!

  • @soumikspath
    @soumikspath 5 лет назад

    "Everything old,london" didnt she go to a fort or other tourist spots in Korea?There must be places with old towns, just off beaten pat h.

  • @Vanavandamn
    @Vanavandamn 6 лет назад

    I'm half Vietnamese and went to Vietnam and experienced the same thing so I know what you mean

  • @nizia8059
    @nizia8059 6 лет назад

    The farthest you go from northern Europe the more you will feel it. I never felt but it's understandable. There are a lot of black people living in Italy so I'm surprised you say that because I particularly didn't feel it... maybe because I was in Milan and Time idk

  • @l242l305l
    @l242l305l 7 лет назад

    Apartment tour please! !!! Lovin' your background.

    • @MelodyAlisa
      @MelodyAlisa  7 лет назад

      Definitely going to film one! Thank you!

  • @Naioki4
    @Naioki4 7 лет назад +1

    I see you rocking that tan, Melody!

  • @raquelalmeida8536
    @raquelalmeida8536 6 лет назад

    it depends on the zone you're buying the water from or from which place. here in portugal i can eASILY pay 1€ for a ~0,50cl water in a /coffee shop// in the center of the city but also get one on the supermarket for like 0,30€ 😂😂

  • @VioletWillowTree
    @VioletWillowTree 5 лет назад

    I think Europe should be considered as very diverse. Just compare 2 countries and you see the immense differences. Just compare Britain to Spain, they are totally unique from each other. But it is very expensive, can't deny that! Glad we don't do tipping though :)

  • @OohFiona
    @OohFiona 6 лет назад

    I experienced quite a bit of racism when I lived in Madrid :(

  • @pimpscribe
    @pimpscribe 7 лет назад +1

    Sister there is a lot of black people in italy lol. Also glad that was the worst of the racism you dealt with. Love your vlog and you have a great spirit it shines through

  • @kristianbrandt3012
    @kristianbrandt3012 6 лет назад

    There are two more important categories aswell. Congestion and sex. Compared to European capitals which are generally very clean, SE Asian mega cities are extremely congested and some are very polluted aswell. There's also the matter of sex, despite Rome's multitude of Catholic churches the Italians, and western Europeans in general, have a very relaxed relationship with sex and romantic interaction, more so than the US. This, I found, was not the case in Asia.

  • @mmarmar122
    @mmarmar122 6 лет назад

    When I went to Italy, I didn't feel that. And I went with my family all of them are black. I had no bad experiences. I went to Genoa, Venice, Monterosso, and Rome. One time at a restaurant, we thought the waiter called us "Basura" which means trash in Spanish but when we asked to clarify he said "brown sugar" lmaoooo. And he asked us where we from(America) don't they call us that... and we said not with those words lol

  • @PrisseldaVoltaireQueensacha
    @PrisseldaVoltaireQueensacha 7 лет назад +3

    Come to France

  • @derekcasanares4785
    @derekcasanares4785 7 лет назад

    What are you using to record your videos so clear?

  • @terrellnowlin8406
    @terrellnowlin8406 7 лет назад +28

    i never wanted to go to europe. still dont

    • @Loriani93
      @Loriani93 7 лет назад +16

      Europe is awesome, full of history and culture!

    • @suncica3903
      @suncica3903 7 лет назад

      R R Why It has huge history

    • @MelodyAlisa
      @MelodyAlisa  7 лет назад +11

      True. I was always more interested in Asia myself but it's a huge chunk of the world and I'm glad to experience it.

    • @ZabadaPomu
      @ZabadaPomu 7 лет назад +1

      I am French and i assure you that it totally depends on the individual. I am black and i traveled so many times to Italia ( i live in a french city close to it) and I never felt or had any experience related to racism. Due to migrants dying and constantly arriving through boats they tend the Italian population set more and more hatred towards black people I guess but please don't take someone else's experience as a definitive matter of fact.

    • @bitchcraftwitch351
      @bitchcraftwitch351 6 лет назад +1

      Asia is rising in the next years most of them will become first world so prepare to go more shopping and more beach and anime yay

  • @caddoman2794
    @caddoman2794 7 лет назад +4

    Funny that when I went to Italy........................98'. The Italian men loved black women. Damn near had to throw on the handcuffs to keep your girl with you. I guess it has changed.
    My difference is cultural. Europe is like America on steroids. They are way more rude and forthcoming. Everyone! In Asia, It was a culture shock on how much the older people were forthcoming and the younger generation was almost super chill. In Korea they are more helpful. In Italy, They act like you aren't there until you are in their way.
    Germany is more like Asia. There are super nice.
    I heard parts of China is like Europe. I will find out soon.

  • @BrinkersMad
    @BrinkersMad 7 лет назад +1

    flawless tell us your secret! haha quality content as always

  • @Ceilingkatwatchesus
    @Ceilingkatwatchesus 7 лет назад +1

    I love europe better than asia I've lived in europe for 8 years and currently living in Asia right now and there's nothing wrong with asia I just prefer europe and the cheese better lolz

  • @Mickeii617
    @Mickeii617 7 лет назад

    I don't understand what you mean about them not moving. is it like you're walking down the street and they see you but they're not allowing you to like walk??🤔 because that's ridiculous

    • @NICOLE-sb5so
      @NICOLE-sb5so 7 лет назад

      She mean they are blocking her way..and will not share the side walk..so she can pass by them....

    • @thequietspace2737
      @thequietspace2737 6 лет назад

      Unfortunately Americans do that also..HERE in America

  • @ronniehicks3258
    @ronniehicks3258 7 лет назад

    I am planning to travel, you are a big help.

  • @Zoe_K
    @Zoe_K 7 лет назад

    Sorry to hear about people treating you badly in europe! Not that's it's really comparable since I'm white, but when I lived in madrid for 4 months, I had people stare at me All the time because I look pretty obviously not spanish (I'm pale, I don't dress the same, I'm pretty fat and most of their shops didn't even have my size). Especially people over the age of 50 would just sit on the bus/train and stare at me the whole time, no matter my reaction to them staring, and they'd often roll their eyes if I was speaking english or french to a friend. Again, I'm not saying that I don't think that your experience is linked to racism, but I think some european countries just don't like anyone who doesn't look like they are "from here". Even my spanish friends who dressed kinda alternatively, even if it was just dyed hair, got a lot of judgments from locals. I hope that you are still interacting with nice and friendly people and enjoying your time here! Can't wait to see more content!

    • @MelodyAlisa
      @MelodyAlisa  7 лет назад +1

      I get what you're saying. "Differentness" in any way, shape, or form stands out and results in the infamous unapologetic stares lol. But thanks for understanding my perspective as well, and yes, still enjoying my time despite it all :)

  • @jj2517
    @jj2517 7 лет назад

    Hi Mel, I'm Filipino who've lived in the U.S. for 13 years. Do you think they would also treat me the same in Italy? There is an English teaching opportunity, but I don't know if I would feel so sad and lonely if people look at me that way.

    • @mimmiblu6138
      @mimmiblu6138 7 лет назад

      Drama watcher : I teach in Milan and in my school there are lots of people from the Philippins... they are probably the most integrated foreign community because they normally work directly for Italian families and most of the times they almost become family : my best friend has had the same Philippin babysitter for the last 15 years and she came with my friend's daughter to visit us in our holiday home... also there is next to zero criminality in their communities and they are considered very hard-working people. Not all foreign communities are considered the same, unfortunately some Nigerians have been engaged in slave trade, forcing some of their women to become prostitutes on our streets, some other black Africans are quite aggressive beggars and there seems to be no end to the landings on our shores of economic migrants with very litlle skills and therefore very little opportunity to integrate themselves in a country which has been experiencing its worst recession since WWII for almost a decade. Italians can be racist, that much is very true unfortunately, but at the same time there are reasons for asking why a person is here. If foreigners are here to integrate in our society, they are basically welcome. Filipinos certainly are welcome in my personal experience.

  • @Ch-ch-ch-chia
    @Ch-ch-ch-chia 7 лет назад +7

    I can say living in Italy for a year after graduating high school in Maryland.... the stares you get aren't as much as what are you doing here as they are.... what kind of African are you. In Italy they aren't used to black as in American black. They are used to Dominicans, Somalians, Tunisians, Egyptians, Cameroonian...people of those regions. And so when they see black Americans there like ok but what country are you really from and you say USA and they don't believe it, nor do they understand it when you say you may not know your actual heritage. I mean blacks from the USA do have a different appearance and accent from other African and Caribbean nations at times so I can see the weirdness in the looks. I lived in La Spezia in the cinque terre.... but low key they loved black people. I didn't experience hate or why are you here, I always experienced where are you from. That was my own personal in depth look on it.

    • @Ch-ch-ch-chia
      @Ch-ch-ch-chia 7 лет назад

      But please go back to Italy. It may seem one way, but once you are there a bit longer, you'll notice it isn't what you thought it was. It's better. Plus Italians don't scoot over for anyone walking driving or in a stroller 😂😂😂

    • @MelodyAlisa
      @MelodyAlisa  7 лет назад +1

      Hmm, didn't think about the 'what kind of African' thing at all. If/when I go back I'll def keep this in mind. Thanks Nijae!

    • @jj2517
      @jj2517 7 лет назад

      Nijea Gist Do you know what they think of Asians, including Filipinos? I am thinking of going to Italy to teach English (I live in the US), but I am not sure if I would be so sad and lonely if people leave me out.

    • @Ch-ch-ch-chia
      @Ch-ch-ch-chia 7 лет назад +1

      drama watcher I can say this, they believe that Far East Asians are closed and not really accepting of others, so they don't tend to try to reach out to them. And then you have the ignorant ones that make fun of the accents as if they can't pronounce the Ls or Rs. And they are kind of racist if you don't show you want to be included. If you say you're American, they'll be all for you. They love Americans. And if you tell them your first language is English they'll love it. I personally don't like that part but it's true. And Italians where I lived were very inclusive of people. You also have to be a personality and try to be out there. Definitely be your self, but make a point of connecting with people early and they will basically invite you out all the time. Be ready for ignorant questions though. Not all are out of disrespect but just of not knowing. Like anywhere people make fun of what they don't know but Italians are loud but as soon as you tell them the appropriate or correct thing, the ones I met were willing to change and open up. It will be a good experience for you. A token of advice, find a few people that speak English really well, so you can express yourself how you really want to at times, the worst feeling is when you can't say what you want how you want to because of a language barrier. The second advice I'd give is, make a point to learn the language and you'll have an easier time. People are more willing to be around you and incorporate you into things if they realize you want to be apart and learn the culture. You should go for it! Good luck!

    • @noorbenameur4301
      @noorbenameur4301 6 лет назад

      Nijea Gist honey Tunisians aren’t black

  • @carrismorton3748
    @carrismorton3748 6 лет назад

    Hey thanks for posting the video, however I would just like to say although parts of your assumptions are true also remember that you visited the "highlights" aka the "Disney land" places of Europe therefore I personally don't believe your generalisations are valid. E.g the rest of England is nothing like London so people visiting London shouldn't think this is what England is like because its not. In both aesthetic, people group and national subcultures. In the same way people visiting Rome, Florence or Venice should be mindful of thinking "this is Italy or Italians" because you are visiting places maintained in order to generate revenue from tourists. Due to this, Also remember that they could also get sick of us simply because we are tourists and sometimes we get In the way or may act rudely when there is a language barrier. We also have to reflect on how we may be coming across. This is what I have learned whilst travelling both Asia and Europe. Thanks for posting ☺

  • @shayg.1273
    @shayg.1273 7 лет назад

    I really would like to travel to Spain.

    • @MelodyAlisa
      @MelodyAlisa  7 лет назад

      Spain has been so lovely so far!

  • @danigomes7879
    @danigomes7879 7 лет назад +1

    It's not that Italians or Europeans are racist. They might be discriminatory but not racist. There are Africans all over Europe so people don't care if you're black or not. They might be staring at you for many reasons that have nothing to do with you being black. Also you can't really say "Asia" and "Europe" you're boxing all Asian and all European countries and you haven't been to all Asian nor European countries...

  • @Trinnidee
    @Trinnidee 7 лет назад

    Does anyone know that song in the beginning of the video?

    • @MelodyAlisa
      @MelodyAlisa  7 лет назад

      It's KeepitGBaby by DJ Grumble soundcloud.com/gbeats/keepitgbaby

    • @Trinnidee
      @Trinnidee 7 лет назад

      Melody on the Move thank you so muuccchhh~

  • @cesar5478
    @cesar5478 4 года назад

    Ur beautiful!

  • @jasapol618
    @jasapol618 7 лет назад +10

    Can i get my comment loved?

    • @MelodyAlisa
      @MelodyAlisa  7 лет назад +2

      AND YOU GET A SMILEY :)

    • @jasapol618
      @jasapol618 7 лет назад

      😁😁😁 THNX!

    • @BahamaWynters
      @BahamaWynters 7 лет назад

      That was sweet of you. Love hearing about your adventures.

  • @AvneetKaur-ow7vj
    @AvneetKaur-ow7vj 5 лет назад

    Nah not really In south India you will find black skin people in north mostly wheetish and in east its like southeast Asia like Japan or China different touch you cannot find any similarity between south Indian north Indian or east Indian all are totally different

    • @offbeatsofficial
      @offbeatsofficial 3 года назад

      i dont think so , as an african i've went to south asian places like india and they look white so it's hard

    • @AvneetKaur-ow7vj
      @AvneetKaur-ow7vj 3 года назад

      @@offbeatsofficial not south asia south India like south of India. Its more humid there so people are generally darker except upper castes. Some are more darker than Africans

    • @offbeatsofficial
      @offbeatsofficial 3 года назад

      @@AvneetKaur-ow7vj Well i am Japanese lol

  • @grimjowjaggerjak
    @grimjowjaggerjak 7 лет назад

    You should comes to france.

  • @blacklibya8103
    @blacklibya8103 5 лет назад +1

    When u said Italy I knew the matter!
    What u expect they were on the side of nazis

  • @redcharlie2385
    @redcharlie2385 7 лет назад

    Hello, I have been following up on your videos and it's truly inspiring. Is there a way we can communicate, cause I have been interested in going to South Korea for teaching. Please please get back to me 🙏

  • @NICOLE-sb5so
    @NICOLE-sb5so 7 лет назад

    great video....sorry people stared at you.....but you are a great person...

  • @bitchcraftwitch351
    @bitchcraftwitch351 6 лет назад +1

    Asia will rise

  • @tanakability
    @tanakability 7 лет назад +8

    You're paying money for that bread because people in Europe get paid proper wages. That money has to come from somewhere :)

  • @rrrado1
    @rrrado1 6 лет назад

    Italians are not steping out of the way in sidewalks to everyone, it has nothing to do with your ethnicity.

  • @moniquemcintyre8828
    @moniquemcintyre8828 5 лет назад

    You're too cute. You are paving the way, but I paved the way for you. I lived in London and studied there for 2 years in the early 90's. I lived in Cannes, France studying ballet when I was 11 in the 80's. There are Africans that live in Italy, and in France and everywhere! My mother studied in Spain for 1 year, where she met my father - before I was even a thought, or living - in the 60's. There have been Black people traveling throughout Europe since the Moors lived in Spain and Italy and Portugal, and elsewhere. I didn't have the same experience as you. I've not ever felt, when I'm in Europe, as though people were questioning why I was there. Black artists loved living in Paris at a time in American history when America didn't embrace them and their artistry, and when Europe celebrated them highly. You are not the "first." You are multiple generations away from being even close to the "first." I felt that what you said was arrogant, but I also like your style. So I'll give you a pass.

  • @TokyoDogz
    @TokyoDogz 7 лет назад

    Europe is expensive af. (Modern slaves i tell ya) Especially in cities like Amsterdam/central station (i live in the Netherlands), cuz tourists.
    And in Turkey (Asia) it ain't that expensive.

  • @sarazambelli1165
    @sarazambelli1165 7 лет назад +2

    The Northern that you go, more black and not Italian people are there, so they are more "😾"

    • @jj2517
      @jj2517 7 лет назад +1

      Sara Zambelli What do you mean? If more black people are there, then wouldn't it be the opposite, i.e. no stares? By the way, that emoji is a good way to sum up the look hahah

    • @sarazambelli1165
      @sarazambelli1165 7 лет назад

      drama watcher No, 'couse they are like "Another black and possible criminal here*roll of eyes*?" And for the fact of the stares Italians just stare and they stare even more if you are from a different ethnicity.
      Ahahahaha thank you.

    • @AbbeyTaylor93
      @AbbeyTaylor93 6 лет назад

      "more black and not Italian people are there" ma che stai dicendo? Ma dove? Viaggia un pò Sara e vedrai il vero significato di multiculturale. Il Nord Italia proprio non lo è. Milano non è Londra. Vai solo a Londra per vedere quanti italiani ci sono, pieno zeppo! Incredibile. Molti più italiani a Londra che neri a Milano. Italiani e spagnoli.

    • @AbbeyTaylor93
      @AbbeyTaylor93 6 лет назад

      Don't mind her please, she's just a troll and a very ignorant person. There are Black people in Italy and Black Italians of second and even third generation as well, but there are not as many as in the USA, UK or even France. Italy is relatively a new country, before WW2 it was fragmented in many little states and had no real power like the British Imper or France. Everything changed after WW2, when it became one big Republic. Immigration there only started something like 30 years ago, with the first immigrants coming from places like North and West Africa and Eastern Europe. Even thought Italians have been migrating for centuries to places like the USA, South America and the rest of the world (and they still do) they are not very well coming. They are still dealing with issues like xenophobia and racism 50 years later, even after sending millions of Italian citizens to die only because they had a different faith, political ideas or sexuality. But one day they will learn eventually. If the Germans did, they will too. One can't keep doing the same mistakes forever.

  • @theamethyst93
    @theamethyst93 7 лет назад

    I've never been to Italy but I have friends that have lived there for a short period of time and what they told me was that they assume you are Nigerian and there are a lot of Nigerian smuggling drugs into Italy and the rest of Europe. so they are suspicious of black people in general

    • @michael.gerard8687
      @michael.gerard8687 7 лет назад +1

      These are the same people who get so sensitive if you assume that they're part of organize crime. Yet they project the worst ideas about black folk. Total hypocrites.