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Maybe the guy is just staring at her because she's crawling around on the floor with a barbell muttering "feral" to herself and he's wondering if she's insane.
@@billliealim Doesn't surprise me, I usually stand nearby and watch people while they use equipment I'm waiting for. If they get creeped out and leave, good. Fuck their junk volume workouts.
The chicks responses were also wild she goes on to complain about how she hates being sexualized and doesn’t even get in relationships because of it but then has a OF whole thing just seems blown out of proportion
@@REVIVALFitness I don't think she's getting a job after this....every HR karen won't hire her due to this insanity. I know if 'm hiring someone and do some digging; if i found this there's no way im hiring them. I will make every excuse imaginable to make sure she doesn't end up on my team due to her behavior
@@REVIVALFitness Yeah but when she hits the wall(she's already close) the only work she'll be able to get is being a cheap stripper and no men with money will want her anymore.
What happens if you’re a general nice person and you just like helping people. You can’t do nice things anymore without getting grilled on social media. It’s pathetic.
@@bentigers1019 there are many nice innocent men who have lost their freedom because of women falsely accusing them. If it's worth losing your freedom, go ahead and help them.
@@bentigers1019 did you not learn anything from these females gym videos? What I learn about life over the years is that, being too nice doesn't get you anywhere in life. You gotta find a balance of being nice and being an asshole. Especially to females in this society
What grills me is how girls like her want to be stared at by thousands on Tik Tok or by people they find attractive, but anyone else who they don't like or not attracted to must keep their eyes to themselves at all times. It doesn't work like that. You can't have it both ways.
It's interesting because in a way that is a form of bigotry, to treat someone as below you for being "different", but they wouldn't ever acknowledge themselves as bigots because that's a nasty word
I'm 21 and I cringe whenever girls my age say they're "underage". Once you are 18 you are a full grown adult, maybe not biological as the brain doesn't develop until 25 but under law, yes. Grow up, and take responsibility/ accountability for your actions.
I get what you're saying but 18 still isn't a "full grown" adult cause as you said your brain isn't fully developed til 25. Obviously I'm not siding with that lady like she has some personal issues clearly. I just wanted to say that it isn't fair to expect adult behavior from an 18 year old
Hair because you’re still changing doesn’t mean you aren’t an adult. Most men don’t hit their stride physically or mentally until late 20s early 30s as well but that would be dumb to not consider them adults until you can somehow calculate it out
When a wedgied up gym girl comes anywhere near me I move across the gym. I have one who wears a sports bra and routinely jumps rope directly behind me. Sick of it.
I'm sure it also hurts your situation that people are programmed over generations to be wary of our surroundings. Anything behind us we naturally examine for safety reasons, but if you do that she thinks you're staring. We're in a difficult situation these days
Not gonna help uyou as they accuse men at the other end of the gym, constantly looking in the mirror to catch anyone looking in their direction. They will then zoom slow it down, put words in your mouth like OH DAMN
What happened to gyms with dress codes? Been going regularly to multiple gyms since the mid 2000s, I even worked at one for a few years.... Dress codes used to exist at them all. No sports bras used to be the norm. I remember even giving a woman a free gym tee shirt to wear one day because she came to the gym only wearing a sports bra. This was a gold's gym too... Not some weird mom and pop place.
On a serious note, I dread encountering women at the gym bcos I genuinely fear tiktok controversy. I grew up with body dysmorphia , and will often subconsiousously scan a room of bodies to compare physiques with my own. I'm already a creep for mental health reasons, I don't want to be prosecuted by a brigade of online npc mobs. Please and thank U.
Mate fuck being scared of some little girl recording you tryna make you look bad because 1. It's 99.99% not going to happen to you. Your more likely to get hit by a car. Also fuck changing your behaviour due to a couple weird tik tok girls. Don't give them that power.
@Kazpa Mills haha i agree. Except i experienced something, not on tiktok but snapchat. I was younger. I didn't even know about it until people I'd smoke w briefly brought it up and refused to show me cuz the roast was "badd". And it mustve been cuz my coworkers at the time also saw it. Since then, I simply don't take chances.
I don’t give a F. I’ll stare at anyone I want. If you make a big deal out of it…I’ll be gawking at you hard! Who gives any F’s about what the internet thinks etc
I don’t find the guy creepy. When you’re resting during a set you’re either looking around the gym or on your phone. He just happens to be in her frame. As a female lifter I get stares all the time and it does get uncomfortable, but I’ve been in the gym long enough to ignore it and not give them eye contact. This girl looks novice so I sense she’s not used to wandering eyes yet.
I think you got it. When i am resting i AM either on the phone ir looking around. If there is a cute girl i Will look at her. Ir is not malicious, it is just natural
@@brunocarneiro9688 Right, humans naturally gravitate their eyes towards more revealing clothing too ie. tank tops, tight-fitted clothing, shorts. If I see a stunning girl or a hot guy I will look a few seconds longer and then go about my business.
People say how everyone stares at their phones, then you look up into the actual space around you, and you’re weird for making eye contact with people.
Here’s my take For the men: Never go up to someone and just grab someone’s weight it’s rude and assuming that someone wants your help, if you ask to help or they ask to help then them cool. Also women wearing their headphones is like gym code for please don’t bother me. Women: Let’s not be disingenuous if you’re wearing tight fitted gym pants and a sports bra you’re looking for attention and attention is what you’re going to get. Im saying this as a women, if you DON’T want unwanted attention wear loose fitted clothe to minimize dudes ogling at you. Key word minimize because the honest truth is it doesn’t matter what you’re wearing sometimes dudes will stare anyway.
She got the attention she was looking for in the worst way possible . I’m glad her attempt to shame and embarrass someone undeserving backfired on her.
Probably didn't backfire at all, I wouldn't be surprised if she's making more internet cash after this stupid video. There are too many losers on the internet.
I've seen lots of guys built like this. Looks like a regular bro looking out for another gym member, he saw someone new to the gym and probably was just glancing to see if she was okay. I remember 3 months back i was "staring" at a kid pancake himself as he squated...outside the power rack, no safeties. The bar dropped behind him and almost crushed both his heels. It's really common for older wiser members of the gym to look out for this stuff and just lend a helping hand. The new generation of lifters really has no comradery and has no clue what it's like to have someone help and ask for nothing in return. The gym is a community...and tiktok is cancer.
Even outside of the gym, when anything happens in public now the first reaction is to just record and watch rather than step in. I can’t even say I blame people in many cases.
One time in the break between sets I was staring at a blank point, not really looking at anything, and then some dude waves his hand in my face and he’a like: can I help you with something? I was staring at him by mistake, but in reality I wasn’t looking at anything, it was such an awkward interaction 😂
Really hate how both of you acknowledge that a guy can just be awkward once and his life is over, but completely dismissed the things she said about ripping his dick off as "oh she's joking." if a man said anything about hurting a woman no one would instantly think "oh he's joking."
The chick is definitely in the wrong dude probably should of asked is she needed help but that’s the biggest overreaction ever she needs a home gym at that point
He *_DID_* ask if she needed help. Stop adding extras where women might feel somewhat justified for this despicable foolishness. This convo should have absolutely nothing to do with ‘what he did wrong’ or ‘what he should’ve done’.
I remember a girl at my gym who was struggling taking off plates on a deadlift or hip thrust (I don’t remember) and i helped her and it was fine but stuff like this makes me not want to do that. Like idk if the camera didn’t capture the whole story but it honestly just seemed like that girl didn’t know wtf she was doing which generally gets a lot of stares I think it should be perfectly acceptable and idk why it became taboo to be like ‘yo you need help with the plates’ or ‘yo you might want to try this on this exercise’ if they are doing is very wrong Like I saw this person on OHP was doing it pretty bad bar path and I helped them with how you want to push your hips forward and get a relatively straight bar path and it went just fine like it should. Or on squats I’ve seen people just say hey you might want to try using different shoes because half the people at my gym squat in runners on something like that.
I agree with you 💯 percent. Every time I seeing these videos of women in the gym falsely accusing men's for staring at them. It get me thinking why should I go back to a gym. That why I have my own home gym at home I don't have to deal with those people.
I used to workout at a gym in a predominantly gay neighborhood of Seattle. The stares and attention can be offputting if you let it, but you just need to focus on your workout and get out of there. Take the rest as a compliment.
Young ladies need to learn from older ladies that being stared is something you have to deal with in life. Even I, being a man, I get stared at the gym by either gay men or women, even more when working out legs
A gym I used to go to a certain timeslot was almost always taken up by 5 younger girls (me included) and one older lady joined us at some point and the conversation was about getting stared at. Eventually she just shut us all up and said 'You've been doing nothing but staring at each other, discussing equipment efficiency, form, etc. I'd not cut out half the population in being able to give that vibe.' She wasn't wrong, the creeps are rare, rest is just observing, at times admiring, we all do it.
@@esmee6308 problem is most women stare too. Ive been stared at a lot but i dont do any of this fucking shit. No basic decency amongst the opposite sex anymore. Women just have so many ignorant double standards. You’ll never find a vid of a grown ass man doing this childish bs (rarely) . Women need to grow tf up and just work tf out and leave the gym like everyone else
@@ExposingTheLies360 You're not wrong. When I said we all stare I do mean men and women and women more indiscriminately since no worries of this bs. Or less.
Agree with the sentiment expressed by the girl towards the end of the video. Well intentioned men who approach women in these kinds of 'neutral' settings have to be aware of the precedent set by the creeps - every girl has a story of being made to feel uncomfortable by the latter group and those men are often the most unreserved about approaching at gyms/libraries etc. Not to say that normal men should foreclose the possibility of these kinds of interactions, just that they should be assessed and initiated with caution and with the woman's interests in mind. The safest course of action would be to initiate conversations with the opposite sex in inherently social environments - sports classes/ bars / pubs / places of work etc, this substantially lowers the risk of any adverse reaction.
This is why the meme ' hmmm the floor here looks like its made out of floor' exists. 99% of the time at the gym i am either looking at my phone, myself in the mirror, the floor, or other dudes doing impressive weights
There is a cool blind guy on youtube who told a story that he was in a gym without sunglasses and a woman told her not to stare. Then he told her that he wasn't staring because he was blind. But the woman got the manager still. He told the same to the manager and then he said: "You still can't make people uncomfortable". what? :D
I guess some places, your allowed to film however you want. Depending where you live, if you focus on a person or group you might have to ask for permission. The moral and legal answers will vary.
This is why every girl has a "I've felt uncomfortable" story. The goal posts for what makes them feel uncomfortable has shifted in the last 20 years, now everything that isn't exactly what they want makes them uncomfortable. Like working a job and paying bills
Whenever i workout, i always zoned out and think a lot of things in my head, so i end up looking everywhere without even realizing. Maybe most people especially are like that.
There is a beautiful young girl at my gym that complained to me about this creepy old guy that stares at her when she walk in the gym. He stares at me that way too, and I’m 57. Lol. 😅 Sometimes the looks are harmless. In her case, she’s very attractive to look at, he’s never inappropriate with her. So take the compliment, or at least understand he appreciates a pretty face. He never says inappropriate or rude things.
Dude was definitely trying to do his own hip hinge or squat with the rack/platform that she was taking up. He was awkward as all hell but I don't think he had bad intentions. The end was a very poignant commentary though on social interactions, and how social media has made us lonelier than ever. People don't say hi to each other in person anymore. Everyone is absorbed with their cell phone, and in turn feel isolated from real other people. In the past you'd meet your husband/wife playing sports, at church, in school, at work, through mutual friends etc. But now those inherent social bonds which used to bind society together are fraying
People don't say hi anymore because a lot of girls are +trained+ to dismiss men that aren't Brad Pitt types. And what are you gonna go around and talk to all of the guys in the gym instead?
Regarding social interactions in the gym. I think a there is a lot to be said about "reading peoples body language". Some people typically with headphones on and a grim face are like: "I'm only here to workout stfu". But some are generally more open. They tend to smile more, tend to take their headphones off for longer periods of time. Look at people, look them in the eye etc. Talk to others. Like those people would welcome a stranger in their conversations. So you could talk to them and leave the other ones alone
In many peoples mind, everyone is staring at them, this girl just concluded the guy was a creep, while he just as well might have been a guy who wanted to use the squat rack, "how can she be there for half an hour" he thinks, then she is struggling with the plates, he might just have wanted to help her in order for her to finish her workout faster.
I’ve noticed chicks moving into my area and setting up their phone with me in frame…. It’s extremely uncomfortable thinking I might end up in some TikTok Edit: and then I can’t even look in that general direction until they leave
Doing hip thrusts on the deadlift platform. That's like doing squats in the curl rack, ffs. The dude probably had deadlifts to do that day and was like "phuck!" when he saw her.
Totally absurd. She doesn't want to be stared at, but shares her visit to the gym via TikTok with thousands who all stare at her because what else is a "viewer" supposed to do with a person on a screen other than stare at them. Yes, she the poor helpless victim, disgusting. One has to question whether she goes to the gym to work out or just to become a "victim".
Lol, so funny. When I workout all alone all of sudden a women will do her workout in front of me, super annoying. I finish my workout and move along quick. For how much awareness they have why do they do this crap above?
13:40 is the most important point of the video. It's not just the gym where being social feels taboo, it's literally everywhere. Everyone is a stranger, and if try to not be a stranger anymore you are punished for it.
Unless a person is eyeing someone down in the gym I don’t think the person being stared at needs to tell on the person or go confront the starer and if someone has a fear of being stared at in the gym I don’t think they should work out in a gym. It’s weird too how focused she is on him glaring at her every now and then it’s definitely understandable and rational for someone to be concerned if someone stares at you many times for brief periods or for long periods of times but I feel like people are often so focused on their workout and/or themselves that they wouldn’t notice someone staring at them unless the starer at some point is in their line of view. I haven’t seen a girl struggle with anything lift before in my gym but if I’ve seen boys and girls in the past having trouble with stuff like starting their treadmills since it was their first time using it, adjusting their heights on cardio machines, finding areas in the gym and I’ve helped them but I do feel like if I had experience with girls and guys showing disapproval in me kindly trying to help them I wouldn’t take the initiative to help them
I don't understand what's the difference between that guy looking at her vs her posting videos and pictures for the whole world to see? Can anyone tell me how delusional she is?
You can tell it was setup to falsely accuse him as she said feral feral feral then smirked and looked upshowing she having fun, at the camera. Also after she said she needs no help and thanked him, then talked about castrating him.
Their whole internet existence is based on creepers staring at them while they're exposing themself as much as is allowed yet guys at the gym randomly looking over are the actual weirdos It's stupid that she did this nonsense for attention and it probably worked positively for her. The internet is full of hopeless empty souls
For the girls out there - if you don't want to be creeped on, dress with loose fitting clothes or join a women's only gym. Is that morally right? I don't know but that is how it is - sometimes life is just like that...as much as you try to shame men a wandering eye is just the way they are built. In this particular case, considering she has an Onlyfans account and how ridiculous her actions are - sometimes you are just watching sociopath's - she just wants the attention and doesn't care if she needs to hurt an innocent bystander in the process - let's not overthink this scenario.
I'm in the gym to work out so the only exchanges I have with women are about equipment and I'm friendly about it but the closest thing to a situation like this is I was unloading the plate loaded hack squat and she's like oh you could just smack her in the head because the girl was kind of in the way I'm like no no she has a nice head I wouldn't want to damage it you know and then we laughed and carried about our business. I wouldn't want anyone to see me in that light
What does that mean unsafe at public gym? Also, she’s overthinking things and focus on herself not others. So people are just curious the type of workouts others are doing. I want to see how I compare to others around me.
@@REVIVALFitness yo I just want u to know that ever since I saw ur videos back in like Sept 2022, I’ve been on quite a journey - thanks for all the tips about form & mindset. even though I strayed into a the whole 6-7 days a week phase for a while, I’ve since stabilized to a 3 day weights / 2 days running routine, and life is feeling great lately. Thanks again man.
Good lord it's like we can't even look in a woman's general direction or be within 10' of them. Looks to me like he's annoyed she's doing hip thrusts in the deadlift/squat rack area and he's wanting in there to do the actual intended exercises.
I think just glancing over at someone is completley acceptable, especially if the girl wears the tightest pants she could find, that just naturally gonna attract some side glances, it's not about being a creep, i'd glance over to a guy in a tank top with huge arms too.
As a guy who visits the gym everyday. When I get done with my set to cool down. I’m staring across the gym, looking at everything. Not to be nosey. But because of boredom while I wait for my next set. The fact that me looking around, and accidentally looking at a woman for a split second while I wait, is seen as creepy and makes me seem to be a predator, is heartbreaking. Also everyone looks around at the gym, for safety reasons. I’ve seen people alone at the gym, struggling with a machine, needing help as they drop the weight on themselves. And people rush over to help them. The fact that we can’t do that because we’ll be shamed with, “If I didn’t ask, don’t help!” mentality, when literally seconds matter, and you can’t speak when the weight is on your chess or your injured, with everyone wearing headphones as you try to yell for help.
If I’m not mistaken, Australia or some other nation recently made it illegal in some capacity to stare at a woman for too long, or in a way that could be deemed ‘harassing.’ It’s clown world.
That’s the ultimate kicker here… this can be avoided by going to a women’s only gym or training at home. Access to those could be an issue but if the problem was as severe as she portrays it, she would find a way.
Girl is recording some random guy at the gym without him knowing and then makes an entire tiktok about said guy in background. The girl seems a bit creepy herself
instead of being flattered and proud to see guys checking you out... exposing them? they don't seem to understand biology... the opposite s3x is SUPPOSED to be attracted to you... what is wrong with women.
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When she said “underaged” she meant mentally.
Coloring book in the gym bag
Nice one
lol
Maybe the guy is just staring at her because she's crawling around on the floor with a barbell muttering "feral" to herself and he's wondering if she's insane.
LOL, seriously
And she was whispering and taking to herself like a psycho 😆.
Well turns out he was waiting for his turn to use the equipment and the area but it was taking her so damn long to leave.
@@billliealim Doesn't surprise me, I usually stand nearby and watch people while they use equipment I'm waiting for. If they get creeped out and leave, good. Fuck their junk volume workouts.
Lol😂😂
The chicks responses were also wild she goes on to complain about how she hates being sexualized and doesn’t even get in relationships because of it but then has a OF whole thing just seems blown out of proportion
I think she did this for attention, and it’s worked like a charm
she's already sexaulizing herself lmao 🤣 😂
She just doesn't like being looked at for free. This is like for a prostitute, getting pumped with no pay.
@@REVIVALFitness Potential marketing stunt? Gets more attention on her and therefore her only fans? If she actually has one that is.
@@REVIVALFitness I don't think she's getting a job after this....every HR karen won't hire her due to this insanity. I know if 'm hiring someone and do some digging; if i found this there's no way im hiring them. I will make every excuse imaginable to make sure she doesn't end up on my team due to her behavior
Yeah she's so stressed over men looking at her she has a ONLY FANS page🙄. She was most probably upset he was looking for free.
This has definitely gotten her page many new viewers. So it worked.
@@REVIVALFitness Yeah but when she hits the wall(she's already close) the only work she'll be able to get is being a cheap stripper and no men with money will want her anymore.
She's got an OF, she's not mad he's looking, she's mad he's looking for free
wild
Missed opportunity for a business card. Sad.
dude's just existing lol
He’s big, he likely knows how to train and can’t mentally comprehend why she’s taking up the rack and deadlift platform at once.
How dare you exist at the same place?!
Exactly! Now explain to me how that isn't the same as rape? A man being alive is the same thing as rape. Duh.
He shouldn’t have approached her period.
To the fellas out there. If you see a girl struggling with the weights, don't bother helping her. She's strong enough to do it herself
What happens if you’re a general nice person and you just like helping people. You can’t do nice things anymore without getting grilled on social media. It’s pathetic.
@@bentigers1019 there are many nice innocent men who have lost their freedom because of women falsely accusing them. If it's worth losing your freedom, go ahead and help them.
@@bentigers1019 did you not learn anything from these females gym videos? What I learn about life over the years is that, being too nice doesn't get you anywhere in life. You gotta find a balance of being nice and being an asshole. Especially to females in this society
Right they are strong independent women….they don’t need a man….men are useless
Stunning and brave , plus they can do everything better than men . Lol
What grills me is how girls like her want to be stared at by thousands on Tik Tok or by people they find attractive, but anyone else who they don't like or not attracted to must keep their eyes to themselves at all times. It doesn't work like that. You can't have it both ways.
That’s one of the main cultural clashes in our society now. But mentioning this in a mainstream setting will get you dubbed a misogynist etc.
It's interesting because in a way that is a form of bigotry, to treat someone as below you for being "different", but they wouldn't ever acknowledge themselves as bigots because that's a nasty word
If I were him I would sue for emotional distress... You fight your battles on social media I would fight mine in the courts.
I'm 21 and I cringe whenever girls my age say they're "underage". Once you are 18 you are a full grown adult, maybe not biological as the brain doesn't develop until 25 but under law, yes. Grow up, and take responsibility/ accountability for your actions.
I get what you're saying but 18 still isn't a "full grown" adult cause as you said your brain isn't fully developed til 25. Obviously I'm not siding with that lady like she has some personal issues clearly. I just wanted to say that it isn't fair to expect adult behavior from an 18 year old
@@melmelon3393 I Cant agree more. If your brain is not fully developed to enable you to make the right decisions, you are not fully grown then.
Hair because you’re still changing doesn’t mean you aren’t an adult. Most men don’t hit their stride physically or mentally until late 20s early 30s as well but that would be dumb to not consider them adults until you can somehow calculate it out
damn brah thats so fr fr time under tension fr zyzz brah (spoken with a broccolli haircut)
LOL
She’s mad that the wrong type of guy is looking at her 😂 bet if chad was looking she would love it
That was literally chad tho
Or maybe brandon .lmao
When a wedgied up gym girl comes anywhere near me I move across the gym. I have one who wears a sports bra and routinely jumps rope directly behind me. Sick of it.
Lol wedgied up
I'm sure it also hurts your situation that people are programmed over generations to be wary of our surroundings. Anything behind us we naturally examine for safety reasons, but if you do that she thinks you're staring. We're in a difficult situation these days
Act like a floozie, get treated like one.
Not gonna help uyou as they accuse men at the other end of the gym, constantly looking in the mirror to catch anyone looking in their direction. They will then zoom slow it down, put words in your mouth like OH DAMN
I thought the girl next to you was her !! I was like she’s clowning on Herself hahaha
What happened to gyms with dress codes?
Been going regularly to multiple gyms since the mid 2000s, I even worked at one for a few years.... Dress codes used to exist at them all. No sports bras used to be the norm. I remember even giving a woman a free gym tee shirt to wear one day because she came to the gym only wearing a sports bra.
This was a gold's gym too... Not some weird mom and pop place.
It’s an absolute free for all at this point.
That guy staring is way out of her league.
He’s a big dude, doesn’t seem to fit the prototypical ‘creep’ profile
If the guy was good looking enough she would be flattered by him staring instead of calling him creepy.
On a serious note, I dread encountering women at the gym bcos I genuinely fear tiktok controversy. I grew up with body dysmorphia , and will often subconsiousously scan a room of bodies to compare physiques with my own. I'm already a creep for mental health reasons, I don't want to be prosecuted by a brigade of online npc mobs. Please and thank U.
Mate fuck being scared of some little girl recording you tryna make you look bad because 1. It's 99.99% not going to happen to you. Your more likely to get hit by a car. Also fuck changing your behaviour due to a couple weird tik tok girls. Don't give them that power.
@Kazpa Mills haha i agree. Except i experienced something, not on tiktok but snapchat. I was younger. I didn't even know about it until people I'd smoke w briefly brought it up and refused to show me cuz the roast was "badd". And it mustve been cuz my coworkers at the time also saw it. Since then, I simply don't take chances.
This shows why guys not approaching woman anymore
isnt it creepy for them to film others without their consent in first place.
I don’t give a F. I’ll stare at anyone I want. If you make a big deal out of it…I’ll be gawking at you hard! Who gives any F’s about what the internet thinks etc
I don’t find the guy creepy. When you’re resting during a set you’re either looking around the gym or on your phone. He just happens to be in her frame. As a female lifter I get stares all the time and it does get uncomfortable, but I’ve been in the gym long enough to ignore it and not give them eye contact. This girl looks novice so I sense she’s not used to wandering eyes yet.
I think you got it. When i am resting i AM either on the phone ir looking around. If there is a cute girl i Will look at her. Ir is not malicious, it is just natural
@@brunocarneiro9688 Right, humans naturally gravitate their eyes towards more revealing clothing too ie. tank tops, tight-fitted clothing, shorts. If I see a stunning girl or a hot guy I will look a few seconds longer and then go about my business.
People say how everyone stares at their phones, then you look up into the actual space around you, and you’re weird for making eye contact with people.
i stare at whatever i want. sorry not sorry.
Women check dudes out too at the gym.
Here’s my take
For the men: Never go up to someone and just grab someone’s weight it’s rude and assuming that someone wants your help, if you ask to help or they ask to help then them cool. Also women wearing their headphones is like gym code for please don’t bother me.
Women: Let’s not be disingenuous if you’re wearing tight fitted gym pants and a sports bra you’re looking for attention and attention is what you’re going to get. Im saying this as a women, if you DON’T want unwanted attention wear loose fitted clothe to minimize dudes ogling at you. Key word minimize because the honest truth is it doesn’t matter what you’re wearing sometimes dudes will stare anyway.
If this issue was as bad as some women claim, I think women-only gyms would be doing much better financially
She got the attention she was looking for in the worst way possible . I’m glad her attempt to shame and embarrass someone undeserving backfired on her.
Exactly, that's the power of karma.
Probably didn't backfire at all, I wouldn't be surprised if she's making more internet cash after this stupid video. There are too many losers on the internet.
I doubt she gives a shit, she most likely gained subs for her OF.
I've seen lots of guys built like this. Looks like a regular bro looking out for another gym member, he saw someone new to the gym and probably was just glancing to see if she was okay. I remember 3 months back i was "staring" at a kid pancake himself as he squated...outside the power rack, no safeties. The bar dropped behind him and almost crushed both his heels.
It's really common for older wiser members of the gym to look out for this stuff and just lend a helping hand. The new generation of lifters really has no comradery and has no clue what it's like to have someone help and ask for nothing in return. The gym is a community...and tiktok is cancer.
Even outside of the gym, when anything happens in public now the first reaction is to just record and watch rather than step in. I can’t even say I blame people in many cases.
@@REVIVALFitness glad I have a family and just focus on them. Most people are scum
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One time in the break between sets I was staring at a blank point, not really looking at anything, and then some dude waves his hand in my face and he’a like: can I help you with something?
I was staring at him by mistake, but in reality I wasn’t looking at anything, it was such an awkward interaction 😂
The between-set aimless stare is real. Especially after getting near failure.
@@REVIVALFitness for reall, it’s like the brain stops all the activity to let the body catch a breath
That has happened to me before. It’s so awkward
This is why I look at my phone in between sets.
You and Joey Swoll keep on doing what you’re doing, and maybe these false allegations for attention will stop.
"I felt like i was on a casting couch"
"Sigma male"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The only reason she finds him creepy is because she finds him unattractive. Granted the unsolicited help was probably not the best move.
Oh you mean him seeing her struggle and trying to help her out ?
The girl needs help, shees craving to be a victim for attention on social media 🤢🤦🏼♂️
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Really hate how both of you acknowledge that a guy can just be awkward once and his life is over, but completely dismissed the things she said about ripping his dick off as "oh she's joking." if a man said anything about hurting a woman no one would instantly think "oh he's joking."
The chick is definitely in the wrong dude probably should of asked is she needed help but that’s the biggest overreaction ever she needs a home gym at that point
Watch to the end, she definitely wants the attention…
He *_DID_* ask if she needed help. Stop adding extras where women might feel somewhat justified for this despicable foolishness. This convo should have absolutely nothing to do with ‘what he did wrong’ or ‘what he should’ve done’.
Women deserve the world they are creating.
Not all women are this way.
But these specific kinds of women, yes. The misery they are bringing on themselves and their children will be profound.
I remember a girl at my gym who was struggling taking off plates on a deadlift or hip thrust (I don’t remember) and i helped her and it was fine but stuff like this makes me not want to do that. Like idk if the camera didn’t capture the whole story but it honestly just seemed like that girl didn’t know wtf she was doing which generally gets a lot of stares
I think it should be perfectly acceptable and idk why it became taboo to be like ‘yo you need help with the plates’ or ‘yo you might want to try this on this exercise’ if they are doing is very wrong
Like I saw this person on OHP was doing it pretty bad bar path and I helped them with how you want to push your hips forward and get a relatively straight bar path and it went just fine like it should. Or on squats I’ve seen people just say hey you might want to try using different shoes because half the people at my gym squat in runners on something like that.
When did it become taboo for people to look at each other?
I agree with you 💯 percent. Every time I seeing these videos of women in the gym falsely accusing men's for staring at them. It get me thinking why should I go back to a gym. That why I have my own home gym at home I don't have to deal with those people.
The female commenting on this is completely clueless. Dude was open minded and spot on
I used to workout at a gym in a predominantly gay neighborhood of Seattle. The stares and attention can be offputting if you let it, but you just need to focus on your workout and get out of there. Take the rest as a compliment.
When I lived in LA, gay dudes did the same to me.
Young ladies need to learn from older ladies that being stared is something you have to deal with in life. Even I, being a man, I get stared at the gym by either gay men or women, even more when working out legs
I don’t think anybody is more egregious with it than gay men. They are very efficient.
A gym I used to go to a certain timeslot was almost always taken up by 5 younger girls (me included) and one older lady joined us at some point and the conversation was about getting stared at. Eventually she just shut us all up and said 'You've been doing nothing but staring at each other, discussing equipment efficiency, form, etc. I'd not cut out half the population in being able to give that vibe.'
She wasn't wrong, the creeps are rare, rest is just observing, at times admiring, we all do it.
@@esmee6308 problem is most women stare too. Ive been stared at a lot but i dont do any of this fucking shit. No basic decency amongst the opposite sex anymore. Women just have so many ignorant double standards. You’ll never find a vid of a grown ass man doing this childish bs (rarely) . Women need to grow tf up and just work tf out and leave the gym like everyone else
@@ExposingTheLies360 You're not wrong. When I said we all stare I do mean men and women and women more indiscriminately since no worries of this bs. Or less.
Never understood whats wrong. they're literally filming themselves and they will be looked at anyway.
Agree with the sentiment expressed by the girl towards the end of the video. Well intentioned men who approach women in these kinds of 'neutral' settings have to be aware of the precedent set by the creeps - every girl has a story of being made to feel uncomfortable by the latter group and those men are often the most unreserved about approaching at gyms/libraries etc. Not to say that normal men should foreclose the possibility of these kinds of interactions, just that they should be assessed and initiated with caution and with the woman's interests in mind. The safest course of action would be to initiate conversations with the opposite sex in inherently social environments - sports classes/ bars / pubs / places of work etc, this substantially lowers the risk of any adverse reaction.
least overly verbose tankie (aka larper).
@@burritodog3634 😭😭
@@burritodog3634 😂 I mean.. this isn’t overly verbose. And how do I larp?
Easy solution is to not approach
This is why the meme ' hmmm the floor here looks like its made out of floor' exists. 99% of the time at the gym i am either looking at my phone, myself in the mirror, the floor, or other dudes doing impressive weights
There is a cool blind guy on youtube who told a story that he was in a gym without sunglasses and a woman told her not to stare. Then he told her that he wasn't staring because he was blind. But the woman got the manager still. He told the same to the manager and then he said: "You still can't make people uncomfortable". what? :D
They’re getting blind guys now? Good god
@@REVIVALFitness Yeah I saw that video, I couldn't believe it.
If I were him I would sue for discrimination
It sounds like she's making him pretty uncomfortable. She should be removed from the gym.
She is wrong,she didn’t ask for permission to film him. Why she film him?
Fair point. This really never gets brought up.
I guess some places, your allowed to film however you want. Depending where you live, if you focus on a person or group you might have to ask for permission.
The moral and legal answers will vary.
@@dudejoe8390 if she's allowed to film him then guys can film her, right?
@@usernameluis305 definitely
This will probably be considered a violent sexual assault in the future.
This is why every girl has a "I've felt uncomfortable" story. The goal posts for what makes them feel uncomfortable has shifted in the last 20 years, now everything that isn't exactly what they want makes them uncomfortable. Like working a job and paying bills
Whenever i workout, i always zoned out and think a lot of things in my head, so i end up looking everywhere without even realizing. Maybe most people especially are like that.
FOR THE ALGO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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@@REVIVALFitness gotta make a full song called Algo Rhythm lol
There is a beautiful young girl at my gym that complained to me about this creepy old guy that stares at her when she walk in the gym. He stares at me that way too, and I’m 57. Lol. 😅 Sometimes the looks are harmless. In her case, she’s very attractive to look at, he’s never inappropriate with her. So take the compliment, or at least understand he appreciates a pretty face. He never says inappropriate or rude things.
And thats why the birth rates are falling
been in novice purgatory for a few years and been binging on your vids for the past two weeks, thanks for the content bro
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Dude was definitely trying to do his own hip hinge or squat with the rack/platform that she was taking up. He was awkward as all hell but I don't think he had bad intentions.
The end was a very poignant commentary though on social interactions, and how social media has made us lonelier than ever. People don't say hi to each other in person anymore. Everyone is absorbed with their cell phone, and in turn feel isolated from real other people. In the past you'd meet your husband/wife playing sports, at church, in school, at work, through mutual friends etc. But now those inherent social bonds which used to bind society together are fraying
People don't say hi anymore because a lot of girls are +trained+ to dismiss men that aren't Brad Pitt types. And what are you gonna go around and talk to all of the guys in the gym instead?
When your entire personality is being a victim
That’s like 1/2 people at this point
Regarding social interactions in the gym. I think a there is a lot to be said about "reading peoples body language". Some people typically with headphones on and a grim face are like: "I'm only here to workout stfu".
But some are generally more open. They tend to smile more, tend to take their headphones off for longer periods of time. Look at people, look them in the eye etc. Talk to others. Like those people would welcome a stranger in their conversations. So you could talk to them and leave the other ones alone
BROOO when you said Curves I was dead remembering the curves we had in our small little Michigan town 😂😂
I don’t think I’ve seen one in person since like 2010
She’s the most self-unaware one in the gym. There’s always one.
In many peoples mind, everyone is staring at them, this girl just concluded the guy was a creep, while he just as well might have been a guy who wanted to use the squat rack, "how can she be there for half an hour" he thinks, then she is struggling with the plates, he might just have wanted to help her in order for her to finish her workout faster.
Your frame looks so much wider and filled out when you're standing next to a normal sized person hahaha, shoulders looking hella broad
Thank you 😈
I’ve noticed chicks moving into my area and setting up their phone with me in frame…. It’s extremely uncomfortable thinking I might end up in some TikTok
Edit: and then I can’t even look in that general direction until they leave
Unless your gym is barren, you’re guaranteed to end up in someone’s video at some point now.
@@REVIVALFitnessmostly just worried about being portrayed as a creep by a TikTok zoomer girl. It’s like playing Russian roulette.
@@robertzehm Nobody but them and the simps take this stuff serious anymore u should be good
@@robertzehm This is why I always wear sunglasses, a wig, and a fake moustache so I don't get recognized in any Tik Toks. Can't be too safe...
@@SlurMaster9000 a wig? Lol. So u just walk around looking fake 😂
Great video of course. I’d love to see her back on the channel very informative ✅💚
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I like that you brought in a female perspective. Obviously she is one person but I like the alternative view.
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Really enjoyed the added perspective as well, especially for this video.
21 is underage? my ex is 21 and I'm 29 tf but I would never talk to a girl at the gym, and you guys look like a lovely couple
Doing hip thrusts on the deadlift platform. That's like doing squats in the curl rack, ffs. The dude probably had deadlifts to do that day and was like "phuck!" when he saw her.
I’ve said the same. The way he glares over has that tinge of “I really have to wait around for this.”
Totally absurd. She doesn't want to be stared at, but shares her visit to the gym via TikTok with thousands who all stare at her because what else is a "viewer" supposed to do with a person on a screen other than stare at them. Yes, she the poor helpless victim, disgusting. One has to question whether she goes to the gym to work out or just to become a "victim".
Not to be a prude but if you go to the gym in basically underwear and get surprised when some guys stare like come on.
You’re not wrong. Very skimpy attire is the norm now.
What did women used to wear to the gym?
Why are woman worried about being alone in public? We’re all equal and the same at this point.
Cafeteria feminism, pick and choose when and what’s convenient
@@REVIVALFitness you got that right
Pro tip: wear paper bag on head before approaching anyone in gym with camera
Just wear a bag bro
Lol, so funny. When I workout all alone all of sudden a women will do her workout in front of me, super annoying. I finish my workout and move along quick. For how much awareness they have why do they do this crap above?
Bruh 💀 i cant even sympathize with her, the dude did nothing. She was just plain obnoxious the whole time.
If she’s single & no guy ever check her out, she will be complaining even more
This beach is crazy 🤪 (I mean the tick tock lady working out, not the cute brunette criticing her with her man)
13:40 is the most important point of the video. It's not just the gym where being social feels taboo, it's literally everywhere. Everyone is a stranger, and if try to not be a stranger anymore you are punished for it.
I'm just glad you have a gf good job son 👍🏾
You'd think she was storming Normandy with the reactions shes putting on. We're too comfortable in society nowadays man its pathetic.
Enjoy the decline
This is by far the best video I've seen in response to the original video
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Unless a person is eyeing someone down in the gym I don’t think the person being stared at needs to tell on the person or go confront the starer and if someone has a fear of being stared at in the gym I don’t think they should work out in a gym. It’s weird too how focused she is on him glaring at her every now and then it’s definitely understandable and rational for someone to be concerned if someone stares at you many times for brief periods or for long periods of times but I feel like people are often so focused on their workout and/or themselves that they wouldn’t notice someone staring at them unless the starer at some point is in their line of view. I haven’t seen a girl struggle with anything lift before in my gym but if I’ve seen boys and girls in the past having trouble with stuff like starting their treadmills since it was their first time using it, adjusting their heights on cardio machines, finding areas in the gym and I’ve helped them but I do feel like if I had experience with girls and guys showing disapproval in me kindly trying to help them I wouldn’t take the initiative to help them
Seeing that picture of Steve Irwin brought tears to my eyes because of how amazing he was when he was alive and to see how much the world has changed.
it’s like people have both forgotten the art of asking for permission and telling someone “no thanks” in a reasonable way. wild.
Ahhh a new on-screen character in the RF-verse. Protect her from PubMed Ned brother!
Ned doesn’t steal girls, he optimizes hypergamy
I don't understand what's the difference between that guy looking at her vs her posting videos and pictures for the whole world to see? Can anyone tell me how delusional she is?
At my gym its again the clubs policy to film other gym members without their permission. She'd be thrown out in some gyms for this.
You can tell it was setup to falsely accuse him as she said feral feral feral then smirked and looked upshowing she having fun, at the camera. Also after she said she needs no help and thanked him, then talked about castrating him.
People are LOOKING for it, for content - unfairly giving the gym a perception of not being a safe place for women.
Their whole internet existence is based on creepers staring at them while they're exposing themself as much as is allowed yet guys at the gym randomly looking over are the actual weirdos
It's stupid that she did this nonsense for attention and it probably worked positively for her. The internet is full of hopeless empty souls
They only do this with the ones they don't find attractive btw.
The hot guy/creep line can be very thin
For the girls out there - if you don't want to be creeped on, dress with loose fitting clothes or join a women's only gym. Is that morally right? I don't know but that is how it is - sometimes life is just like that...as much as you try to shame men a wandering eye is just the way they are built. In this particular case, considering she has an Onlyfans account and how ridiculous her actions are - sometimes you are just watching sociopath's - she just wants the attention and doesn't care if she needs to hurt an innocent bystander in the process - let's not overthink this scenario.
nah don't be a creep
@@edgyfitness how come it's okay to use derogatory terms to describe guys but when I say "don't dress like a 304" then I'm the bad guy
Or maybe creeps can mind their own business and learn to not get into women's person space. Always blaming what the woman wears is pathetic.
I'm in the gym to work out so the only exchanges I have with women are about equipment and I'm friendly about it but the closest thing to a situation like this is I was unloading the plate loaded hack squat and she's like oh you could just smack her in the head because the girl was kind of in the way I'm like no no she has a nice head I wouldn't want to damage it you know and then we laughed and carried about our business. I wouldn't want anyone to see me in that light
What does that mean unsafe at public gym? Also, she’s overthinking things and focus on herself not others. So people are just curious the type of workouts others are doing. I want to see how I compare to others around me.
I swear at this point they should just ban doing BB Hip Thrusts from all Gyms… it is so DAMN ANNOYING
Shes talking to herself,but hes the weirdo for looking around the gym😂
lol 1:45 - dude can’t help but provide form tips even though the topic of this vid is about gym culture 😂 trainer’s gotta train
It’s a reflex
@@REVIVALFitness yo I just want u to know that ever since I saw ur videos back in like Sept 2022, I’ve been on quite a journey - thanks for all the tips about form & mindset. even though I strayed into a the whole 6-7 days a week phase for a while, I’ve since stabilized to a 3 day weights / 2 days running routine, and life is feeling great lately. Thanks again man.
Good to hear 👊
Just as I expected a woman defending a woman LOL who didn't see that coming
Many are saying
So, are we already supposed to know who the special guest is? No intro?
Good lord it's like we can't even look in a woman's general direction or be within 10' of them. Looks to me like he's annoyed she's doing hip thrusts in the deadlift/squat rack area and he's wanting in there to do the actual intended exercises.
I really wish we had an alternate POV to see just how much space she was taking up
I think just glancing over at someone is completley acceptable, especially if the girl wears the tightest pants she could find, that just naturally gonna attract some side glances, it's not about being a creep, i'd glance over to a guy in a tank top with huge arms too.
As a guy who visits the gym everyday. When I get done with my set to cool down. I’m staring across the gym, looking at everything. Not to be nosey. But because of boredom while I wait for my next set.
The fact that me looking around, and accidentally looking at a woman for a split second while I wait, is seen as creepy and makes me seem to be a predator, is heartbreaking.
Also everyone looks around at the gym, for safety reasons. I’ve seen people alone at the gym, struggling with a machine, needing help as they drop the weight on themselves. And people rush over to help them.
The fact that we can’t do that because we’ll be shamed with, “If I didn’t ask, don’t help!” mentality, when literally seconds matter, and you can’t speak when the weight is on your chess or your injured, with everyone wearing headphones as you try to yell for help.
If I’m not mistaken, Australia or some other nation recently made it illegal in some capacity to stare at a woman for too long, or in a way that could be deemed ‘harassing.’ It’s clown world.
@@REVIVALFitness whaaaaat!!!😔
She is a narcissist, sometimes people look at you because you are doing it wrong. The gym is public space, if you don’t like it, stay home.
That’s the ultimate kicker here… this can be avoided by going to a women’s only gym or training at home. Access to those could be an issue but if the problem was as severe as she portrays it, she would find a way.
That girl is a walking red flag. "She is a young woman by herself".. men literally suffer more crime.
where's ur source for this? or did you just pull that out of ur ass?
That guy dodged a bullet by not getting her number
Girl is recording some random guy at the gym without him knowing and then makes an entire tiktok about said guy in background. The girl seems a bit creepy herself
instead of being flattered and proud to see guys checking you out... exposing them? they don't seem to understand biology... the opposite s3x is SUPPOSED to be attracted to you... what is wrong with women.
They know this, and they like the attention, if it’s from a guy that find attractive/socially savvy.
That woman is deliousional. He ain't thinking about her. He's trying to work out.
I´ll look as much as I want. And it ain´t much XD. But walking over for me is a red line. Especially in the gym lol. People just want to work out.