My life after divorce and why I should have built myself as a man before getting to marriage | LNN

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  • Опубликовано: 21 янв 2025

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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  7 месяцев назад +49

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    • @Becky370
      @Becky370 7 месяцев назад

      Good morning too

    • @annwandia1632
      @annwandia1632 7 месяцев назад

      Lynn I love what you've said and true at times you have to walk the journey before you can talk about it and the day I'll be ready to share my story I pray it will be with you and for the glory and honour of God.

    • @LadyS-02
      @LadyS-02 7 месяцев назад

      Lynn when is Elvis W and Llwenya coming 😊

    • @eunisonc7494
      @eunisonc7494 7 месяцев назад

      I have my own convictions and I love to see a lasting marriage. Having said that, I’ve learned to let everyone live their lives their way.
      Each one of us has to face the consequences of their own choices and decisions

  • @LarryNgetich
    @LarryNgetich 7 месяцев назад +246

    From what I know there's no formula. Some people are better off getting married early, some people need more time to find themselves.

    • @Kibibi23
      @Kibibi23 7 месяцев назад +5

      True

    • @Kibunjalucie
      @Kibunjalucie 7 месяцев назад +3

      True this life has no manual

    • @annesam3671
      @annesam3671 7 месяцев назад +6

      I second it but I suppose experience n maturity plays a big part. No wonder they say say age is just a number.

    • @yegokiprotich2091
      @yegokiprotich2091 7 месяцев назад

      Yes

    • @melankoli1225
      @melankoli1225 7 месяцев назад +7

      I've seen so many people who marry late but they still divorce

  • @kandisphere8828
    @kandisphere8828 7 месяцев назад +156

    I agree that no one should be getting married at 24! Your early 20s are for self-discovery, settling in a career, and at least wait till 26 because true maturity begins as from 25. And please don't attack me if you got married young and have had a successful marriage. That's my opinion, and the reality of life. I declined a marriage proposal at 24, and I think I did that man a favour 😅. Now in my 30s, my mind and career is settled, and I can nurture and give my person peace because life experiences, maturity of age and mind, financial stability and knowing God have a way of making someone grounded.

    • @SO-xi6vm
      @SO-xi6vm 7 месяцев назад +2

      Agreed

    • @LolaBugzy85
      @LolaBugzy85 7 месяцев назад +5

      Our parents generation believes in getting married early which I have also never agreed with.

    • @drewalex-wd6zn
      @drewalex-wd6zn 7 месяцев назад +1

      Agreed

    • @maur7892
      @maur7892 7 месяцев назад +3

      I totally agree with you, as much as people say there is no specific 'age' when it comes to marriage, I strongly believe times have really changed. what we want in partners evolves over the years and it's good to take your time.

    • @user-wr9fn4ny4i
      @user-wr9fn4ny4i 7 месяцев назад +1

      I believe that Gods time is the best. Yes their is a specific time for marriage,I have seen young people getting married and thrive in life.I don't want to start getting kids when it's over thirty-five with healthy risks associated with it.

  • @sarerashel2201
    @sarerashel2201 7 месяцев назад +135

    I got married early but I never thought that it would work ,I had that inner voice of fear but one thing that made my marriage strong up to now 15years it's building it under the foundation of God.what I know is that anyone who is in marriage they don't wish it to end but if you see one decides to divorce don't judge them ,just encourage that and give them hope the problem with our society today we do judge a lot instead of allowing them to give them a chance to heal.marriage can be made on earth but maintaining it is God.

    • @cel4lyf
      @cel4lyf 7 месяцев назад +10

      Actually it is us who maintains marriage, not God. God gave us brains, he finished his work. There's no praying and fasting that will sustain a marriage if the couple is not willing to do the work. I have seen many people saved in very toxic marriages
      All they do is pray for their partners to change. They have done everything, waganga, fasting , postors...you name it and nothing changes. God helps us through our journey, he's not a fixer of things.

    • @DigzGuy
      @DigzGuy 7 месяцев назад

      Well said @sarera

    • @emilykinya2147
      @emilykinya2147 7 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@cel4lyfhow about both? In trying to emphasize on the relevance of principles and putting in the work, you don't have to rule out the part of divine help in any matter. Besides the efforts of the couple, spiritual attacks against marriages are also a thing. So don't leave everything to God and also don't depend solely on your effort. Can have both.

    • @cel4lyf
      @cel4lyf 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@emilykinya2147 Hizo spiritual attacks surprisingly live in Africa, other nations deal with their problems in a different way. We are responsible for our own mess. Some people feel happier blaming it on others or evil spirits. Now if you read well, I said in my first comment that God helps us through the way while working on it. Meaning both.

    • @emilykinya2147
      @emilykinya2147 7 месяцев назад

      @@cel4lyf by spiritual attacks I didn't even mean witchcraft and all... Satan can amplify reactions and encouraging bitterness, offense e.t.c. The same way the Holy Spirit helps us in relating with other people, He can guide us with wisdom to resolve issues that would have otherwise escalated. Take an example: God at certain times has asked me to apologize even when I knew I was right. I had to trust Him and that obedience brings a totally different outcome. Here, you see both God's help and a willing person.
      You said it is us who maintain marriage. It is us helped by God.

  • @luciawakim5
    @luciawakim5 7 месяцев назад +74

    You two looks amazing. For me I was married at 18 and at 27we divorced having 3kid. I hated this thing of mapema diyo best. It's better to take time and achieve your dream first then marriage to be next😳

    • @Godschild7924
      @Godschild7924 7 месяцев назад

      you are very right

    • @elizabethnzioki7627
      @elizabethnzioki7627 7 месяцев назад

      Me and you sis the same story ,3 kids it's not easy,but I made the best decision to quit coz now am doing abit well but its hard,I hate this thing mapema the best

  • @karenndoro6383
    @karenndoro6383 7 месяцев назад +148

    The right time for marriage is when you are ready,whether this is 18 or 50 or 60.When you are ready that is the right time!

    • @esthermwangangi4625
      @esthermwangangi4625 7 месяцев назад

      Ur correct karen

    • @faithmwangi2493
      @faithmwangi2493 7 месяцев назад +4

      ​@JosephinePendo I think she meant that there's no right time. If you are ready,, go for it

    • @annettemunyiotieno6672
      @annettemunyiotieno6672 7 месяцев назад +2

      How does one measure readiness? What does one look for to know one is ready?

    • @serahpondera2575
      @serahpondera2575 7 месяцев назад +17

      I got married at 18 and my husband was 20 and by the grace of God we are still happily married 53 years later!!

    • @Kids-global
      @Kids-global 7 месяцев назад +4

      And how do you know you are ready?Is there a possibility of thinking you are ready and not be?How do you measure the readiness😂😂

  • @gathymelkiz
    @gathymelkiz 7 месяцев назад +17

    When a man speaks makes me wanna grab my coffee, sit and listen because few men speaks which ain't healthy at all.
    I ❤ you Lynn

  • @mareshalite
    @mareshalite 7 месяцев назад +45

    It's not about age at times I waited for marriage till my mid 30s to a 50 yrs old it was his second marriage 1 week into it I knew it was a mistake divorce 4 yrs later, was homeless in mzanzi yaani marriage is personal. Am happy I walked away broke now God has blessed me soo much

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 7 месяцев назад +2

      It seems you entered the marriage as an economic refugee.

  • @annekagiri4303
    @annekagiri4303 7 месяцев назад +47

    My husband and I got married very young. He was 24 and I was 23. We have sailed through many storms together and we are still together 38 years later..As they say...age is just a number...what matters is the maturity and commitment.

    • @Comfortirene3052
      @Comfortirene3052 7 месяцев назад

      Yes it's maturity and commitment, I strongly agree

    • @emeritatee1597
      @emeritatee1597 7 месяцев назад +3

      Not for people born in the late 1990s into 2000s

    • @emeritatee1597
      @emeritatee1597 7 месяцев назад +4

      In your generation that formular worked , marriagepreneurship was a thing

    • @bohboh7692
      @bohboh7692 7 месяцев назад

      @@emeritatee1597look at Soila and curtis how young they are ...... pluto and fel kina wa Jesus , wapendwa Musik heheeee ....

    • @jennifermcwhortet7934
      @jennifermcwhortet7934 7 месяцев назад +6

      So TRUE. Commitment and maturity from within. I have a brother who got married at 23 and his wife was 21. They are still together strong and knitted . Their children are grown and amazingly they even look younger.
      Its a matter of COMMITMENT.

  • @carolinemayende7917
    @carolinemayende7917 7 месяцев назад +12

    I like how he respectfully shares what happened in marriage good diction to respectfully pass on message

  • @alicemutuma15
    @alicemutuma15 7 месяцев назад +20

    Nice to see my primary schoolmate still.soft spoken and himself.
    Growth really looks good on you

  • @gigi.akinyii
    @gigi.akinyii 7 месяцев назад +18

    Victor sounds like such a lovely, grounded man. I wish him all the best in his future endeavors.

  • @theresanjuguna4474
    @theresanjuguna4474 7 месяцев назад +25

    My take home today, "do not listen to words, listen to actions". Wishing I had known this before.

  • @MariaBaemedi
    @MariaBaemedi 7 месяцев назад +7

    Learned so much from this young man, been married for over 30 yrs but still more to lean.

  • @shironjuguna5853
    @shironjuguna5853 7 месяцев назад +13

    Before even listening! I applaud this man! I love it when our men speak out!!! Loving it for Him!

  • @GreyMckrel
    @GreyMckrel 7 месяцев назад +62

    No two marriages or relationships are the same. What makes one person happy might not make someone else happy. But I've found that there's always a way to fix problems. Five years ago, my wife and I were almost getting divorced because of our issues, but we worked through them. It was hard, but we're better for it.

    • @RenaBalick
      @RenaBalick 7 месяцев назад +2

      I really get what you're saying, and I genuinely want to find happiness too. I have someone special in my life, and even though we're apart right now, I can't imagine living without her; my love for her is strong. I hope she comes back, and I'm fully dedicated to making it happen. We've tried therapy and other methods to make things better.

    • @GreyMckrel
      @GreyMckrel 7 месяцев назад +2

      Saying goodbye to someone you love so much is never simple, but I got help from a counselor named Aurelia Maisie Goelet, and she kept my marriage together.

    • @RenaBalick
      @RenaBalick 7 месяцев назад +1

      Your guidance is valued. I'll immediately seek her out online. Appreciate it. I'm hopeful that implementing this method will also bring me success; I miss her dearly.

    • @GreyMckrel
      @GreyMckrel 7 месяцев назад

      welcome

    • @Paulshevs
      @Paulshevs Месяц назад

      This is a bot😂.
      I've keenly seen this text across videos of the same genre😂

  • @elizabethwangui2008
    @elizabethwangui2008 7 месяцев назад +10

    It takes God to sustain a marriage no
    matter what ages. We got married at an early age but l would advise people to take time and learn each other before commitment. We are now celebrating our 44th year together but it has not been easy. Takes a lot of sacrifice on both ends.

  • @graciexellari7905
    @graciexellari7905 7 месяцев назад +37

    Broke up after 9yrs of being together and a 6 yr old son. I couldn't take anymore of whatever he was doing so I walked away. It's been 6 months and I'm still in denial. I even gained weight but I've managed to give my son a stable life. It's really hard😢

    • @kaliisakaita5831
      @kaliisakaita5831 7 месяцев назад +1

      May God see you through

    • @Lamarveille
      @Lamarveille 7 месяцев назад

      Make sure your son has access to his father, regardless of your relationship with him.

    • @graciexellari7905
      @graciexellari7905 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@Lamarveille He does. I've never affected his relationship with his dad. I'd never separate them on purpose. I also don't talk negatively about his dad when he's around.

    • @graciexellari7905
      @graciexellari7905 7 месяцев назад

      @@kaliisakaita5831 Amen

    • @Lamarveille
      @Lamarveille 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@graciexellari7905 Wise woman 😊 Life will go on may you win in life.

  • @stephenmaithyatalkske
    @stephenmaithyatalkske 7 месяцев назад +18

    As I honed my photography skills, Victor Peace stood out as a true inspiration and role model among the many professionals in the field.

  • @hatriq8850
    @hatriq8850 7 месяцев назад +7

    By watching this I have also discovered something about myself. Thanks for the good work

  • @BeckyKathurima
    @BeckyKathurima 7 месяцев назад +7

    This was an amazing conversation. Thank you for speaking your truth and being so authentic Victor Peace❤❤❤.
    Lynn, you are an amazing and skilled interviewer❤❤❤.

  • @maryamash6019
    @maryamash6019 7 месяцев назад +16

    Victor sounds like a really fun person to hang out with. He is funny.

    • @Janice-sd7hl
      @Janice-sd7hl 7 месяцев назад

      Uko sawa, I love yr humour, uko so lively.

  • @YayaSedo
    @YayaSedo 7 месяцев назад +4

    I broke up after9yrs being together with my first born kn class3 now in form 3 and boy class5 and i don't regret now its 9yrs alone with my 2kids taking care of them alone and Gid have never left us alone

  • @everlynekayesi5510
    @everlynekayesi5510 7 месяцев назад +6

    All in All marriage has no manual, i also got married at an early age but am here still going strong courtesy of God's favour, i can say God has been faithful from the word go.its not that we know much about marriage but God's favour is taking us through a step at a time

  • @glorykinyua1669
    @glorykinyua1669 7 месяцев назад +3

    Such an amazing episode ..Lyn you owe us an Episode with Coach susan Wanjiku ...Missing the agribusiness shows already 😅😅😅🙌

  • @cikuciku4345
    @cikuciku4345 7 месяцев назад +39

    Make sure that you have your whole life first before you become someone's else wife/husband

    • @Tess863
      @Tess863 7 месяцев назад +1

      Absolutely 💯

    • @judwmbiyu
      @judwmbiyu 7 месяцев назад

      💯

    • @Janice-sd7hl
      @Janice-sd7hl 7 месяцев назад

      Love thyself first,Yu can't give what Yu don't have .

  • @glslatifahnsubuga51
    @glslatifahnsubuga51 7 месяцев назад +9

    "The beauty of wisdom is in the brevity of words "

  • @Lyn254
    @Lyn254 7 месяцев назад +44

    The problem is not the spouse is the unhealed childhood trauma that causes friction, I wish this would be a discussion on our African community where people marry before they are ready mentally, emotionally , financially and spirituality.I mean before you even know your path and purpose.

  • @christineleah7570
    @christineleah7570 7 месяцев назад +3

    He is giving Phil Karanja's vibe and he is Karanja . So eloquent.

  • @scolla81
    @scolla81 7 месяцев назад +17

    This is a amazing conversation at right time, it flash back when my first love after finishing my form four he wanted to marry me but his target was to impregnate me then his mission could be actualized. But guess what I was so clever enough, I looked mylife and promises i had with myself and mum and I had enough reasons to chase for my career .Here i am happy managed to do things i wished, enjoyed my youthful life and focused on my career.
    The sad thing is everytime i bump my x his like he made wrong decision to marry another lady early to show me that he was serious to his word's and now has 3 kids but not happy living because of the kids 😔 😪. Now as i listen to victor story and am like thanks God i decided to search for me first.
    Emotionally, physically psychologically and fncy am prepared to settle.❤️

    • @swift3070
      @swift3070 7 месяцев назад +3

      Glad to know you chose yourself. I did so too and self discovery will never be a loss. God is faithful.

    • @loycecarolkhayeli
      @loycecarolkhayeli 7 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly what I did,yeah I lost him,but looking back I thank God I made that choice koz cjui niseme nn to bring out clear.
      To me I still insist take your time,at the end of Day everything got consequences

  • @alicenyambura1130
    @alicenyambura1130 7 месяцев назад +2

    Rusungu nayo!! Brilliant young man there!! Keep doing you!

  • @thepearlsafrica
    @thepearlsafrica 7 месяцев назад +25

    My take home......
    Be you, work on you,...you can't give what you don't have...

    • @thepearlsafrica
      @thepearlsafrica 7 месяцев назад

      Mimi Lynn, support me get a washing machine....of all chaos I do at home....hiiii ndio inanimaliza aki......

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 7 месяцев назад +117

    Marriage is the only thing that gives you a certificate before you go through a test😊let me grab my coffee on this resting day.

    • @lindahvusha3790
      @lindahvusha3790 7 месяцев назад +1

      I went for the test first 😂

    • @Jojo-pv3uf
      @Jojo-pv3uf 7 месяцев назад +2

      Birth certificate?

    • @kezzkezz88
      @kezzkezz88 7 месяцев назад

      😂😂

    • @veramoraa5609
      @veramoraa5609 7 месяцев назад

      Wedding certificate ​@@Jojo-pv3uf

    • @veramoraa5609
      @veramoraa5609 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@Jojo-pv3ufmarriage certificate

  • @dorothynyaboke2478
    @dorothynyaboke2478 7 месяцев назад +6

    If you grew up in an environment that was unfavorable heal first before marriage.... Benjamin Zulu in his book healing inner self.

  • @emilynicholas4003
    @emilynicholas4003 7 месяцев назад +3

    Got marriage at the age of 22 and dropped out of college for the next 13 years were my most painful years of my life. I thank God i got courage and ended it. It depends on the motive of marriage and the parties involved.

  • @sherylschaffrath7190
    @sherylschaffrath7190 7 месяцев назад +9

    Team Victor Peace. I love his content.

  • @GirlOfTheAfricanSoil_001
    @GirlOfTheAfricanSoil_001 2 месяца назад

    I find it so hard sometimes to listen to stories from men on LNN😩, and I can't explain that because I am not discriminative. Maybe it's because of my work more with women and girls than men.
    But I am gonna listen to this one😀.

  • @alfonseandia
    @alfonseandia 7 месяцев назад +5

    Victor was happy the entire time. He was all smiley and was giving the positive energy. I need to know what he takes to keep him this happy.

  • @joycenjiri9456
    @joycenjiri9456 7 месяцев назад +2

    You just said it,me after divorce one thing I longed for it I mean I was ready ,I never regreted my move, and after I muted I don't even care about the other person coz I looked back and remembered those crazy nights, abuse and all sheets I really needed freedom and am doing well for real

  • @Nanabobo-us6kb
    @Nanabobo-us6kb 7 месяцев назад +1

    I got married, and i had figured out out after 5 years i will have already finished giving birth and building my family, my marriage never lasted even for 6 months, he left me after 1 month of marriage and went back abroad.....Its been 5 good years hata divorce sijafanya, na sijawahi pata nguvu ya kudate, i decided to focus on myself kwanza, funny thing he moved on and have a family already 😢😢😢😢😢........i need to get moving sasa.

  • @mirriammbatha1877
    @mirriammbatha1877 7 месяцев назад +3

    This guy is me hata mtu anaogelela hizo story namtoa kwa life yangu
    My healing nah important

  • @bellaolum9768
    @bellaolum9768 7 месяцев назад +1

    I really enjoyed this conversation, Victor seems like a chilled guy, thank you Lynn for bringing us these raw and unfiltered contents. When people get married, they expect it to be forever but it doesn't always go that way, so allow yourself to go through all those emotions and don't force yourself to 'heal' overnight. Alafu he is giving me DJ Pinye vibes sijui kwanini LOL😀😀

  • @DorcasTabitha-sg2ev
    @DorcasTabitha-sg2ev 7 месяцев назад +1

    Never force things, what's meant to be will be .Listen to actions more than the words😢

  • @yvonneonganda261
    @yvonneonganda261 7 месяцев назад +2

    One of the best episodes I've ever followed. 👍 thumbs up LNS

  • @teresianjeri-k7l
    @teresianjeri-k7l 7 месяцев назад +16

    He has beautiful smile,weh i don't regrets waiting and building myself, until am ready

  • @Comfortirene3052
    @Comfortirene3052 7 месяцев назад +3

    Never force things, what's meant to be will be.listen to actions More than the words

  • @AquinasNgendo
    @AquinasNgendo 7 месяцев назад +4

    This guy is cute 🥰🥰🥰. Talk of his smile 🤩🤩

  • @wanguimacharia5964
    @wanguimacharia5964 7 месяцев назад +2

    Such an amazing conversation 😍 👏 ❤️ Love Victor's content ❤

  • @Audience_of_One.
    @Audience_of_One. 7 месяцев назад +3

    He is sooo sweet! lol throwing the phone away after posting 🤣

  • @MrAnjugi
    @MrAnjugi 7 месяцев назад +2

    I hope he heals from that whole ordeal. We saw it coming way back from experience

    • @susannjuguna67
      @susannjuguna67 6 месяцев назад +1

      who are these we😮😮😮

  • @marychuwa8159
    @marychuwa8159 7 месяцев назад +16

    Habari za Asubuhi 🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿nipo hapa kujiimarisha

  • @faithanangwe9972
    @faithanangwe9972 7 месяцев назад +15

    This is what benjamin zulu keeps telling the youth.

  • @candidajamesa5650
    @candidajamesa5650 7 месяцев назад +2

    My take home has been, do we ever think if our parents when we divorce or separate? This is huge, this is heavy. I have mixed feelings about this but this is legit.

  • @Wanjamburu.23
    @Wanjamburu.23 4 месяца назад

    In this life we fight battles no-one knows about like people don't know that once you divorce sometimes it becomes fearful to bump into your Ex-partner.😊

  • @him837
    @him837 7 месяцев назад +4

    The vibe and energy between you guys❤superb😊

  • @jacklineochuna2218
    @jacklineochuna2218 7 месяцев назад

    "The beauty of wisdom is in the gravity of Words". Wise saying

  • @mimap275
    @mimap275 7 месяцев назад +1

    Mariage, i think, is when u both agree u can handle and both feel ready for it , its abt energy being in sync especially spiritual values to sustain u when things get tough.

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 7 месяцев назад +10

    He has a very beautiful smile 🫠

  • @repotranstech
    @repotranstech 7 месяцев назад +2

    This guy was our dh captain in thika high school.Good talk.

  • @gwomondi743
    @gwomondi743 7 месяцев назад +13

    Good morning team Lnn,, Lynn am sorry to say this but as a good sister,I need your help! depression is killing me slowly and have tried by myself to overcome it but my biggest fear is baby Godswill's future without me! I wish you could hold her hand and give safety for her future 😢

    • @Kasweetie_254
      @Kasweetie_254 7 месяцев назад +2

      Hugs

    • @justinaopit
      @justinaopit 7 месяцев назад +3

      Please seek a psychologist. You can pull through

    • @gwomondi743
      @gwomondi743 7 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much sister for good advise 🙏 am willing but I don't have money so I can't.

    • @86122
      @86122 7 месяцев назад +4

      @gwomondi743.... Depression is not a sickness, it is a state in a man's heart when their heart moves away from God. God created man to be fully dependant on Him because God alone is the Way, the Truth and Life(John 14:6). My dear, trust in the Lord with all your heart (Proverbs 3:5), lean on Him entirely and He will keep your heart in perfect peace(Isaiah 26:3).
      Whosoever calls on the name of the Lord, shall be saved( delivered, healed,set free, separated) from all things including depression. Romans 10:13. God loves you and He has good plans for your life.

    • @evelyngaiti9079
      @evelyngaiti9079 7 месяцев назад +1

      I can talk to you, but can only share my story maybe it can encourage you.have gone through alot still fighting battles but not ready to lose hope until sunshine comes on my way

  • @winfredndunda8709
    @winfredndunda8709 7 месяцев назад +4

    Good morning team Lynn 🤛 Everything happens with a reason cute man don't worry 🥰🥰🥰

  • @reginakogo624
    @reginakogo624 7 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you Lynn for making content for us to take in as you make more in Australia

  • @Jenny_justJenny
    @Jenny_justJenny 7 месяцев назад +4

    Way too many likes from Victor 😅 glad he found peace on the other side.

  • @IsMuthoni
    @IsMuthoni 7 месяцев назад +3

    Marriage is not for everyone kama haiwork don't force it... myself i can't wed again

  • @ichooseviolence2532
    @ichooseviolence2532 7 месяцев назад +2

    For today's calibre of women that we have, it's not a good thing for a man to even be ready for marriage 🙏

  • @mercyk2672
    @mercyk2672 7 месяцев назад +4

    I think its all about being ready and marrying someone you cannot live without. Some people get married for all the wrong reasons and hope it will work out, but unfortunately we know the end result.

    • @faithwainaina8504
      @faithwainaina8504 7 месяцев назад

      Are there people you can't live without though if we are being honest

    • @mercyk2672
      @mercyk2672 7 месяцев назад

      @@faithwainaina8504 yes my dear. My late boyfriend was the one person I knew I couldn't live without. I've not been able to find anyone that I love as much

  • @marywambui5208
    @marywambui5208 7 месяцев назад +14

    Normalize healing before you get married this applies to both male and female
    Just because ur out their having sex that's not a grantee that ur mature to start a family
    The other thing build ur self before u get married

  • @susanmwangi7811
    @susanmwangi7811 7 месяцев назад +4

    I regret too I could have built myself too before getting married

  • @hildawambui1468
    @hildawambui1468 7 месяцев назад +2

    Good show. I'm old and learning.❤

  • @berylanyango7131
    @berylanyango7131 7 месяцев назад +3

    @LynnNgugi I always love your shows. You should have seen me loughing as you guys lough.

  • @TerryWangoi-yj5fl
    @TerryWangoi-yj5fl 7 месяцев назад +3

    Good show... Lynn is glowing 🙂

  • @Priscillangaa182
    @Priscillangaa182 7 месяцев назад +4

    Live the moment you don't know tomorrow ❤❤❤❤❤
    I love the fact that He is saying this is my story 😍😍
    Team Lynn Road to 1million followers

  • @sarahanyango505
    @sarahanyango505 7 месяцев назад

    The mascara thing and mzee from soko killed it. Wah! I have never laughed. I wish this is aired on a national t.v. I see the way Kenyans celebs are faking it, I sympathize a lot.

  • @NsubugaLatifah
    @NsubugaLatifah 7 месяцев назад +10

    For sure when people breakup they tend to do things just to prove to the other person that everything is moving no well yet sometimes they are seriously breaking inside

  •  7 месяцев назад +1

    Sometimes we just need to discover or find ourselves alone

  • @KadengeMaureen
    @KadengeMaureen 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for this story,am going through alot right now but this so encouraging

  • @shishqeestheblessed
    @shishqeestheblessed 7 месяцев назад +4

    Goodmorning team lynne,tuned in kama kawaida

  • @jeddymoon3803
    @jeddymoon3803 7 месяцев назад +6

    Its my 8th year in marriage and yes marriage works but if it doesn't...

    • @Kasweetie_254
      @Kasweetie_254 7 месяцев назад +1

      Wow, congratulations 👏👏

  • @peshmumbi
    @peshmumbi 7 месяцев назад +4

    Nimefika... Good morning team ❤❤

  • @vionawamuyu
    @vionawamuyu 7 месяцев назад +1

    Truly I also had no business getting married that young.

  • @zwashebangani8328
    @zwashebangani8328 7 месяцев назад +1

    I was waiting for this episode

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 7 месяцев назад +6

    Today's take home as we grow old we yearn for the things we missed or wished we had during childhood.
    Victor has a good sense of humour i have laughed all through!
    Thank you for this conversation ❤️

    • @MarinaRembo
      @MarinaRembo 7 месяцев назад

      you changed your profile picture

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 7 месяцев назад +1

      What if your parents died when you were young. You want unconditional love but unfortunately huwezi pata. So how do you fix this 🤔

  • @jaykemmy7097
    @jaykemmy7097 7 месяцев назад

    Benjamin Zulu has been talking for years about pre-25s building their lives instead of thinking of relationships. Just because it has worked for some doesn't mean it's advisable to marry before discovering who you really are. As he always says, pre-25s are half asleep and don't know it.

  • @Nanabobo-us6kb
    @Nanabobo-us6kb 7 месяцев назад +2

    Yes we are not failure's, it can only get better

  • @teclakagai754
    @teclakagai754 7 месяцев назад

    Weuh just invest in yourself b4 entering into a marriage it's like uko ni jela bt enways thankx Lynn for this good advice

    • @teresiahwachira1099
      @teresiahwachira1099 7 месяцев назад

      That's true am in that real jail and don't know what to do just trusting God

  • @carolinemayende7917
    @carolinemayende7917 7 месяцев назад +1

    The beautiful Lynn ad always much love from uganda

  • @ireneivongo9191
    @ireneivongo9191 7 месяцев назад +1

    When a man is ready to marry , he will find a woman and proceed and that can still work on themselves in the marriage.

  • @samuelmaina4428
    @samuelmaina4428 7 месяцев назад +1

    This show was very good. It made my day.

  • @abigailkhumaloel-selahgosp9922
    @abigailkhumaloel-selahgosp9922 7 месяцев назад

    Take home;
    Don't be pressured to do things so as please people, or even more, to fix what could have happened wrong in your parents life..
    *There's a difference between Marriage and a Wedding. Be ready and prepared more for the many more days that you will spend in marriage than the 1 day of a wedding celebration !!

  • @yourcelebrityin30seconds
    @yourcelebrityin30seconds 7 месяцев назад +1

    Finally Karanja, finally! I'm so happy you're here. Now let listen I'll be back❤

  • @doriswambui1184
    @doriswambui1184 7 месяцев назад +2

    Beautiful ❤❤❤conversation

  • @agnesndumbi8072
    @agnesndumbi8072 7 месяцев назад +1

    I have learned something from this story

  • @Wanguicathy
    @Wanguicathy 7 месяцев назад +1

    My fav is on Lynn wow, love love him 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @sarahnemi4593
    @sarahnemi4593 7 месяцев назад +3

    Sometime separation is better than toxic marriage. Times heals

  • @mercymwatsuma8762
    @mercymwatsuma8762 7 месяцев назад +3

    I also regret getting married at younger age i wish i had gotten this type of sdvises.

  • @winnieawuor9129
    @winnieawuor9129 7 месяцев назад +2

    Hey Lynn, mind sharing your face care routine?😊

  • @sarahjepkorir-gh7ms
    @sarahjepkorir-gh7ms 7 месяцев назад +3

    Kifee students hapa nipeeni likes buana😂

  • @samsunggarden336
    @samsunggarden336 7 месяцев назад

    How did they meet with his EX........Lynn you never miss that question 😅.

  • @selinawegoki
    @selinawegoki 7 месяцев назад

    If you can do it.If you can't don't

  • @ButterflyInSummer
    @ButterflyInSummer 7 месяцев назад +2

    If you come from a broken family, don't get married young. You're more likely to make a mistake.