IF YOU DO THESE THINGS NO MAN CAN RESIST YOU

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  • Опубликовано: 21 янв 2025

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  • @bongumamacline8452
    @bongumamacline8452 Год назад +9

    I got blessed the moment I landed on this channel, my life has never been the same..from Uganda

  • @annishkim5170
    @annishkim5170 Год назад +17

    He is like a father to me . he's teachings gets deep to me
    Thankyou

  • @nancyssonni8365
    @nancyssonni8365 Год назад +65

    The gentleman that oozes wisdom. Yours is not a profession but a talent, thank you sir.

  • @angelanjeri6369
    @angelanjeri6369 Год назад +34

    My first time listening to this man n damn i admire his wisdom a real gentleman.i could listen to him over n over n over😊

  • @ednahchirchir1924
    @ednahchirchir1924 Год назад +82

    Sometimes being broke doesn't mean you don't have money 😮 lesson learnt

  • @lynmokodaya2431
    @lynmokodaya2431 Год назад +59

    Aah Zulu,I swear God doesn't regret giving you a voice😂😂God bless the womb that carried you🙏

  • @jackienjeri2404
    @jackienjeri2404 Год назад +28

    I really don't know how people keep writing we should be serious,we laugh too much , I look forward everyday for this.. Benjamin and your crew..God bless You for me .

    • @benjaminzuluglobal
      @benjaminzuluglobal  Год назад +4

      Awww, thank you. 😊

    • @hellenopiyo5810
      @hellenopiyo5810 Год назад

      Love the teachings so much but the too much laughters aren't always necessary. I mean you're there seriously hearing the content then they burst into laughter n you have to wait, yet what was said is so serious. 1:42

  • @nikitavyleen8337
    @nikitavyleen8337 6 месяцев назад +1

    Used to watch Benjamin on TV, Citizen to be precise, until today...never knew he had a soul warming RUclips channel. Benjamin oozes wisdom en knowledge at the same time. I've only watched few episodes en already am feeling enlightened. Indeed let our mindset govern us rather than life's realities. © Benjamin...you're a gem.

  • @akampaolivia1094
    @akampaolivia1094 Год назад +2

    Was about to leave aprince but listening to u has saved me, respect sir

  • @beautybyTasha
    @beautybyTasha Год назад +17

    The first time watching this andi can say I have learnt a lot.+humour =100%.

  • @salomeorina3579
    @salomeorina3579 Год назад +6

    Ohh these one is so impact to my life the way you dress attract antention not respect......i salute you

  • @yourstrulydenise7272
    @yourstrulydenise7272 Год назад +38

    1. Confidence (be secure)In you’re own skin
    🤣🤣🤣 Benjamin I’m learning as a new wife & a new mom been struggling with this…..
    2.Good listener ….Be an empathic listener (understand Him)
    3.Disciplined keep boundaries
    4. To have time limits…..

  • @relelekata5361
    @relelekata5361 Год назад +31

    You are loved and valued in RSA 🇿🇦

    • @nawazoTV
      @nawazoTV Год назад +1

      I know why he is valued in RSA. The ZUKU name 😂😂

    • @mandy7168
      @mandy7168 Год назад +1

      @@nawazoTV u mean Zulu

    • @n.m6249
      @n.m6249 Год назад +1

      Yebo

  • @lucywanjiku8525
    @lucywanjiku8525 Год назад +8

    Benjamin thanks for this ,,,a humble reminder ,kindly invite an image consultant one of these days.

  • @DorryDolin
    @DorryDolin Год назад +5

    This is me,i have a scar on my lips and one side of my nose not on the same size and shape but i love myself.Before i used to fear out of place but as am growing up am continuing loving myself more and nothing can make me lose self esteem.Thanks for education us Benjamin

  • @queeniengabo8920
    @queeniengabo8920 Год назад +3

    I can't stop listening to you again and again...Uar the BEST Zulu👏
    Everlasting Blessings Upon U

  • @loyceainomugisha4980
    @loyceainomugisha4980 4 месяца назад

    Since i started watching your content my life have changed may God continue to use you

  • @gamuchiraitinazindoga3750
    @gamuchiraitinazindoga3750 Год назад +2

    Initially I wanted to skip this because there is soo much gibberish on this topic on net ...but after listening I think this is more relatable than any content I have ever come across I found myself correcting my faults ...thank you Benjamin and especially for advocating without waiver for no sex before marriage ....thank you

  • @Rosepeter001
    @Rosepeter001 Год назад +121

    Be very secure
    Learn to distinguish sincere men from chasers
    Work with internal deadlines
    Give him a taste of your charm not everything
    Stay on your way until a man decides he doesn't want to lose you.

    • @edithmubbala9253
      @edithmubbala9253 Год назад

      ?,

    • @edithmubbala9253
      @edithmubbala9253 Год назад

      ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,z,,,,,,,,,Azzaro,,,,,,z,,,,,,,,,,-,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

  • @cherotichjanet3928
    @cherotichjanet3928 Год назад +24

    It is that time to learn and laugh. Keep up the good work.

  • @soniachichi2301
    @soniachichi2301 Год назад +13

    I can watch this video over and over making alot of sense!

  • @pirrymlamba5179
    @pirrymlamba5179 Год назад +22

    Work with internal deadlines this is my pique side🙏God bless you my brother Zulu I never get enough of your messages .

  • @leahmalwa6580
    @leahmalwa6580 2 месяца назад +1

    Message is loud n clearly, tnx mister 4rm south Africa 🇿🇦 ❤

  • @ewetes254
    @ewetes254 Год назад +6

    I never knew you're this learned and speaks sweet,good English. I have always seen on lulu and rashid

  • @jacklinekirungi5488
    @jacklinekirungi5488 Год назад +14

    I’m empowered by your conversation.

  • @nagashaannitah6304
    @nagashaannitah6304 Год назад +29

    From Uganda 🇺🇬 I appreciate sir! We need more content on finances too! ❤️ Thank you sir

  • @beatricemwangi1029
    @beatricemwangi1029 Год назад +1

    Thank you Benjamin this is very educative. In the world we are in we need to hear this more and more

  • @FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz
    @FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz Год назад +1

    You're really knowledgeable sir...the time limit, and to differentiate between two chasters is what I really like most..am blessed by this teaching

  • @thembiskosana3910
    @thembiskosana3910 Год назад +19

    😂😂😂I love this man so much. Love from South Africa.

  • @kaosaomari5888
    @kaosaomari5888 Год назад +49

    How I wish our Women of nowadays would understand and know the meaning of RESPECT...
    Thank you..Am always inspired and mentored by your advice....keep the Fire Burning....

    • @aworpiece9293
      @aworpiece9293 Год назад +3

      Thank you so much Mr Benjamin 🙏 I have learnt Alot on this video I'm this Kind of A lady who has Alot of veins on my legs and hands like that of a man 😢 I could feel so nervous even passing by someone when my arms are down oh my goodness But now because of this video am learning to be me NO MATTER How I LOOK ❤

    • @eunicewaithira2352
      @eunicewaithira2352 Год назад +4

      Am from Kenya I would suggest you address lack of intimacy and sexlessness in marriages . Marriages are ailing and it seems to be a taboo to talk about such a topic.Thanks

    • @peterjacob7142
      @peterjacob7142 Год назад

      the challenge men keep on talking respect respect but never get specific with what respect really means .... women don't know , what is it please, be specific... I am female by the way

  • @mercymaina6813
    @mercymaina6813 Год назад +21

    This interviewer though… he can hype 😂

  • @eyleenvictorians7062
    @eyleenvictorians7062 Год назад +7

    You have alot so much wisdom. Much love from +254 🇰🇪 😊

  • @estherasasiira1838
    @estherasasiira1838 Год назад +3

    Ladies listen to this..what a great message

  • @siphesihleshongwe4786
    @siphesihleshongwe4786 Год назад +13

    Such profound wisdom Mr. Zulu. God bless you

  • @jeannekaze560
    @jeannekaze560 Год назад +8

    The very beautiful peoples they don’t show up every where, they know they are beautiful! If some people saying oh isn’t beautiful they don’t care;but one day some people they will surprise.Always put interrogation point,If someone told you someone you don’t know! Some time the body is need to show up for but isn’t always of in everything.

  • @eshycmwangi
    @eshycmwangi Год назад +10

    Great Conversations from Zulu …as Always! These conversations are way more appropriate when the person in the listening chair is a lady Vs a man..

  • @annfriddemumo1210
    @annfriddemumo1210 Год назад +10

    Thanks alot sir,,,,,may God grant u more wisdom to inspire many

  • @stellamarisokoko1073
    @stellamarisokoko1073 Год назад +8

    You are teaching good sir,we should just be natural end confidence.

  • @onziluirene3423
    @onziluirene3423 Год назад +4

    How I fall in love with that intro..uwee!!, This is Benjamin Zulu Global....it kills me ❤😊🎉❤😅😅

  • @virginiawangoi4451
    @virginiawangoi4451 Год назад +3

    Wisdom 100 ......Let him see what it means for him to be with you for life ❤...

  • @Terrence696
    @Terrence696 Год назад +50

    🙋🏼‍♂️ From South Africa🇿🇦 we are still watching Dr Zulu !!! 😊

  • @florencewanjiru1564
    @florencewanjiru1564 Год назад +4

    This gentleman oozes wisdom

  • @dorothymoraa326
    @dorothymoraa326 Год назад +12

    Mostly am not comfortable with adds like making my nails , deep makeups coz I know one day I gonna miss them and I can't be able to go out, am proud of who I am

  • @Anita_Ndinda23
    @Anita_Ndinda23 Год назад

    Wisdom Mr Zulu 2023 you have been one of my greatest blessings I thank God for you

  • @jaellukaya2925
    @jaellukaya2925 Год назад +9

    Benjamin Zulu, you and Chris Hart are my role models in this field of Counseling Psychology.... bless you my mentors, you say it as it is, no sugar coating....

  • @riza6558
    @riza6558 Год назад +1

    Benjamin, Benjamin, Benjamin Zulu🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 You said it all!!!!! 👌 Awesome!!!! So so true ~ When you meet a gentleman!!! You know ~ but carry on your way if you must...
    Thank You! Have missed your lessons of Truth! I see you on World Stage Benjamin ~ Not just East Africa, Africa! Every woman on this Earth has to hear you ~ amazing!!! Keep it up!! Am.always in your classes

    • @riza6558
      @riza6558 Год назад +1

      Hey!!! And you look absolutely on point!!!

  • @chichiowino1723
    @chichiowino1723 Год назад +13

    It must be intense to handle the obstacles of life 👏🏾

  • @queenwenzile1807
    @queenwenzile1807 Год назад +24

    From Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 . Zulu you are loved and appreciated

  • @adelaideadu-gyamfi7728
    @adelaideadu-gyamfi7728 Год назад +5

    I am very confident and my boyfriend said earlier he loved that but now he’s complaining I I’m too confident and that I should calm down cos I’m a woman. Now I don’t know what to do

  • @ellahwoods3426
    @ellahwoods3426 Год назад +1

    Thx so much with dat adverse🥰

  • @pollynkirote9097
    @pollynkirote9097 Год назад +5

    Good advice brother Benjamin ❤God bless you

  • @wangarimugweru7473
    @wangarimugweru7473 Год назад +5

    Make peace with what you fall short of then confidence levels shoot up there.

  • @judithsakala4944
    @judithsakala4944 Год назад +6

    Absolutely True. Thank you Benjamin sir!

  • @faddyssweetmusicmymusic2401
    @faddyssweetmusicmymusic2401 Год назад +1

    Just admired your accent, and your show is real.bravo

  • @catherinenzungnjume7822
    @catherinenzungnjume7822 Год назад +3

    God bless you sir,learnt so much from you. Its your laughter for me🤣🤣🤣

  • @midabingamlata9129
    @midabingamlata9129 Год назад +3

    Fall ? Or Be ? You Can't Make Anyone ....and vice versa . Ticket for Narcissistic behaviour is to MAKE someone be for your needs.

  • @35907
    @35907 Год назад +6

    We love you Zulu,God bless you

  • @lenabenjamin7789
    @lenabenjamin7789 Год назад +3

    Nice one...can see someone looks like Nodin Haji🤭

  • @consolataakinyi-zm1ix
    @consolataakinyi-zm1ix Год назад +20

    Very important message, thanks for opening my eyes because all this time l have been concentrating on useless things that's why my relationships don't last long.

    • @morrineluck
      @morrineluck Год назад

      Ooh my 😂 atleast you've learnt something dear

  • @moureenkaruirublessed9112
    @moureenkaruirublessed9112 9 месяцев назад +1

    You are such a vibe❤l learn alot from you😊😊

  • @JemilaOsman-en2wp
    @JemilaOsman-en2wp Год назад

    Amazing conciousness powerful man to the point

  • @Palesa80
    @Palesa80 Год назад +119

    Ha ha ha Benjamin, I heard Someone say cohabiting with a Man is like being a multi-million dollar Football Player who goes into a soccer field, play for a club without a signed contract. You get injured in that field, you are on your own and have no back up.😅😅😅😅😊😊😊😊

    • @mariejeanneumugwaneza4011
      @mariejeanneumugwaneza4011 Год назад +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @chriswalker-ul1bl
      @chriswalker-ul1bl Год назад

      😅😅😅😅😅

    • @JoyDavid-y7x
      @JoyDavid-y7x Год назад +1

      Very very interesting

    • @TawelaDaka
      @TawelaDaka Год назад +1

      If u get involved in such it means u are read for any out come because all u want is to see if ur love is strong enough to stand any storm and u are ready for the future. Hence living together to avoid divorce after one week of married

    • @joankidon4626
      @joankidon4626 6 месяцев назад

      Well said 😅😅

  • @abdullmumtaz7736
    @abdullmumtaz7736 Год назад +13

    In short badly dressed women attract alot of attention but not respect....

  • @Cypfit
    @Cypfit Год назад +1

    Benjamin is a comedian also,, how you say things in a joking way😂😂

  • @carolwambui5889
    @carolwambui5889 Год назад +2

    I just love my coach keep educating us

  • @sarumashua8453
    @sarumashua8453 Год назад +1

    Ooh i think i have to work on my egoo😢 thanks Brother Benjamin Zulu😊

  • @Glorie-oj7xc
    @Glorie-oj7xc Год назад +1

    Wow absolutely amazing ed inspiring , may God bless you man of God

  • @gracewanga-dp5jn
    @gracewanga-dp5jn Год назад +1

    Hi everyone 🤝 I am New here Dr thanks for the show lots of love from Uganda 🇺🇬

  • @nikitavyleen8337
    @nikitavyleen8337 6 месяцев назад +2

    4:20, when you do a lot of surgeries on your poor chest... Ouch that's super touching!

    • @evedivya
      @evedivya 5 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂😂that made me laugh also

  • @teresianjeri-k7l
    @teresianjeri-k7l 9 месяцев назад

    Wow,am what a topic u never disappoint Benjamin

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers Год назад +7

    *Empowering ourselves with knowledge on how to be irresistible is incredible. Let's embrace these tips and be the best versions of ourselves.*

  • @margret2688
    @margret2688 Год назад +23

    The bra and sitting allowance part 😂😂😂

  • @estherkitonga791
    @estherkitonga791 Год назад +5

    A great advice thank you Mr Benjamin Zulu I love it.

  • @annenaliaka-i1z
    @annenaliaka-i1z Год назад

    Good advice indeed keep up mr.Benjamin❤

  • @amusolochristine9090
    @amusolochristine9090 Год назад +2

    What a wounderful teachings thank you me mr benjamine

  • @stylefreakamy
    @stylefreakamy Год назад +2

    Wow! I have learnt a lot. thank you Sir

  • @nyotakasongo-yj1ot
    @nyotakasongo-yj1ot Год назад +5

    Keep preaching sir, ...from DRC

  • @Evelyns-p2d
    @Evelyns-p2d Год назад +1

    I love your shows big up Mr Zuulu B.

  • @nimusiima-co2ih
    @nimusiima-co2ih Год назад +2

    Thanks for Dat knowledge mostly to we who are going in marriage or friendship

  • @floridahchepkemoi8010
    @floridahchepkemoi8010 Год назад

    Have learnt something God bless you my coach

  • @doreenwanders4225
    @doreenwanders4225 5 месяцев назад

    Wish to meet you one day...just love alot you share to us

  • @nancykajoka1385
    @nancykajoka1385 Год назад +6

    Always stay on your until a man shows you he can't lose you.

  • @Estherwendy450
    @Estherwendy450 Год назад +1

    Hahahaaaaaaa.😂😂 I definitely don't want to be loved mildly but wildly

  • @hasfakitiibwa
    @hasfakitiibwa Год назад +4

    Am very much thankful i found mr Benjamin. Doubt overcame

  • @carolinechemutai8289
    @carolinechemutai8289 Год назад

    Don't spend at a man house before marriage good advice sir I really second

    • @HazelHanover-yk1ct
      @HazelHanover-yk1ct Год назад

      That is for africa not the USA because no man wouldn't want to married you without you spending the night at the house its very different here in usa

  • @njokikangasha1840
    @njokikangasha1840 Год назад +17

    Great lessons all through 👌

  • @adongosheila9215
    @adongosheila9215 Год назад +2

    Whatever you are good at, show it.Listen good babi

  • @kivivyamunyoki5270
    @kivivyamunyoki5270 Год назад +3

    I loved your advise Mr.Zulu

  • @patriciablankson8070
    @patriciablankson8070 Год назад +1

    When a man cares but does tell you his intentions, what can call that

  • @chepngetichperis6754
    @chepngetichperis6754 Год назад +5

    Wow you built up my confidents sir thank you

  • @emmasandranjambisalysandra
    @emmasandranjambisalysandra Год назад +2

    Always crazy of intelligent and inspirational

  • @Jummy_Endowed
    @Jummy_Endowed Год назад +9

    Be secured about your man,,if you keep tracking, how wl u have the time to encourage him, in tym of trouble, you won't even concentrate on yourself, then you can noticehis collar,etc
    Don't satisfy his hunger for sex, your marriage is foundation on cheat.. observe the discipline
    Help him get his career better,,show him ur ability, let them see wat you are doing forever. Listen to him, they don't feel judged in alcohol aos,
    He shouldn't milk u for free,leave let him make a decision, let him show commitment, is about how much interaction b4 u decide..
    Differentiate between a chaser,,to eat ur fruit(selfish) or plant ur garden with u(DNT play games with prince)
    Be confidence about yourself, shoe that part of your body you don't like, make peace with your body..(is mesmerizing.

  • @agneskyondi-tl1xh
    @agneskyondi-tl1xh Год назад +2

    Nice one brother.

  • @victoriaaggrey9821
    @victoriaaggrey9821 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you very much, I'm blessed to come by this man
    God bless you

  • @arinaitwemercy-dd2zr
    @arinaitwemercy-dd2zr Год назад

    Thanks u so much am coming from Uganda but thanks 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @serahnjuhi110
    @serahnjuhi110 Год назад +2

    this is absolutely inspiring

  • @albrightsenewa4481
    @albrightsenewa4481 Год назад +1

    Thank you for the lesson.

  • @farmgrl
    @farmgrl Год назад

    Thank you for this reminder

  • @florakathambi5815
    @florakathambi5815 Год назад +18

    Our coach's socks Soo cute 👌

    • @sarahagola6504
      @sarahagola6504 Год назад +2

      😂👍👍

    • @jesse_kihara
      @jesse_kihara Год назад +2

      Also noted

    • @margaretkisau2416
      @margaretkisau2416 Год назад

      Why why is it the work of a woman always,woman do this woman do this!?

    • @attentivegal5258
      @attentivegal5258 Год назад +2

      I'm telling u that's the first thing i noticed. Dress code also on point as always

  • @fanicekilele
    @fanicekilele Год назад +4

    I love this information...it's educative