This is so true, I talked to some prospect as friends for a long time (I dont remember how long) then ge suggested we should get to know each other on a different level...he was suggesting dating. We are both in the diaspora so I told him "I don't attach feelings to someone I have never met" and it even turns out he wants to settle in 8 years time😂😂😂 imagine the horror of waiting around for 8 years yet you are not even sure you will end up together. I simply told him you are being selfish, and I can't wait around for 8 years it's not like am growing any younger. I told him you are now officially a bro, and wat ever anticipation was building up in me vanished. Thank you Mr. Benjamin your shows help us alot......love from Mecca❤
Thank you for meeting mr Benjamin I have been an element without direction 😢😢,, at all it's the time am understanding myself at 26years old,,,. A big difference and change of my feminity 🎉 so far so good, 🤗thanks lilly and Benjamin for the show😊😊
Thank you so much for the insights doc,I really hate it when someone starts calling me wife,darling, babe even before he understands who I am ,its a total turn off for me and for some reason they think we are moved by the titles but not everyone coz some of us real think of the weight those titles carry. My take home today is having a silent deadline for i think many of us haven't been that kin to setting relationship or dating deadlines. we are really privileged by the knowledge on this channel .
The topic today was so eye opening..i enjoyed and learnt alot. Especially that part where post 35year old ladies make pre 25 mistakes. I never understand it..thank you hosts..be blessed❤❤❤
Wuueeh! Most of us past 35 are so guilty of leading jokers on; in the excuse of he's already visited home, we're expectant etc...the principle of celibate dating has been so sugar-coated until it's no longer recognizable..
Me too. But the accent is Kenyan. But originally these ZULUs are Ngonis from South Africa. History says, They left SA...passed thru Zimbabwe, Zambia, Malawi, Tanzania, to Kenya. In Malawi, We have plenty of ZULUs...Ngonis originally from SA. RELATIVES OF JACOB ZUMA
😂😂😂How Lilly said... "yeah, yeah" with confidence and Benjamin had to burst her bubbles politely. I Love this show, have learnt so much.
*Learning the art of communication, understanding his needs, and nurturing a strong emotional connection are vital steps towards making a man commit.*
This is so true, I talked to some prospect as friends for a long time (I dont remember how long) then ge suggested we should get to know each other on a different level...he was suggesting dating. We are both in the diaspora so I told him "I don't attach feelings to someone I have never met" and it even turns out he wants to settle in 8 years time😂😂😂 imagine the horror of waiting around for 8 years yet you are not even sure you will end up together.
I simply told him you are being selfish, and I can't wait around for 8 years it's not like am growing any younger. I told him you are now officially a bro, and wat ever anticipation was building up in me vanished. Thank you Mr. Benjamin your shows help us alot......love from Mecca❤
Thank you for meeting mr Benjamin I have been an element without direction 😢😢,, at all it's the time am understanding myself at 26years old,,,. A big difference and change of my feminity 🎉 so far so good, 🤗thanks lilly and Benjamin for the show😊😊
Yhooo Zulu you are spitting fire, sad truth guilty too staying in a mess not understanding
Thank you so much for the insights doc,I really hate it when someone starts calling me wife,darling, babe even before he understands who I am ,its a total turn off for me and for some reason they think we are moved by the titles but not everyone coz some of us real think of the weight those titles carry. My take home today is having a silent deadline for i think many of us haven't been that kin to setting relationship or dating deadlines. we are really privileged by the knowledge on this channel .
He can save you in the house wife,when he left home he unsave you and save you landlord.
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Are you me?! I always set a silent three month deadline and absolutely hate the titles and I love yous without getting to know me. It's so distasteful
The topic today was so eye opening..i enjoyed and learnt alot. Especially that part where post 35year old ladies make pre 25 mistakes. I never understand it..thank you hosts..be blessed❤❤❤
It has been two years of listening to Benjamin Zulu and my life has never been the same again. Zulu is a gem.
Wuueeh! Most of us past 35 are so guilty of leading jokers on; in the excuse of he's already visited home, we're expectant etc...the principle of celibate dating has been so sugar-coated until it's no longer recognizable..
Wow!! Another great episode, thank you Benjamin 💯
Thank you Sir. Great talk Lily. Looking beautiful
😂😂😂😂😂I awoke at 30...now at 33 I feel like damn why didn't I turn 30 ,10yrs ago🙆 I love 30 for sure
Woooooowww I've learnt alot today..... Sure Doc. Do it for us.... So that some of us... So that we may know when to say Yes I do....
I'm blessed I came across Mr benjamin. I was a fool with a degree holder😂
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Bramwel was a vibe i miss shows with Benjamin Zulu and Bramwel,
Exactly
I know right
He makes BZG flow...
My perfect Coach ever...BZG you're really growing my deeper understanding of healthy relationship..
I like you sir and wish to see you somedays
Haha, I am that colleague who is accused of being boastful and I have turned a lot of request for parties down
Mr.Zulu's body language is a killer one
Why why why indeed, mwalimu nimark present sitakosa kuja shuleni tena🥵
Looking forward to the a to z of dating show
We come here with a notebook...
I miss him too. I think he is the best
Hapo kwa "WhatsApp for me"😅👍🏼
Ati the man has rickets... 😂
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Indeed the brain arrives at 26 ....Wueh!!!!
I really want to be a kind of woman that can speak up
Please Dr .. you are shouting at me 🙆🙆🙆
Thank you..
This was very funny 😂😂😂😂😂
Profound teaching
Men have double standards I'm learning
Snacks 😂
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Can you guys stop shouting at me 😭
I thought this guy was south african,
But I heard swahili there😥
He's Kenyan
Me too.
But the accent is Kenyan.
But originally these ZULUs are Ngonis from South Africa.
History says,
They left SA...passed thru Zimbabwe, Zambia, Malawi, Tanzania, to Kenya.
In Malawi,
We have plenty of ZULUs...Ngonis originally from SA.
RELATIVES OF JACOB ZUMA
His accent is definitely not South African
Very Kenyan