THINGS NOT TO DO AS A LADY 1.DONT CHASE THE MAN. 2.DONT INITIATE LOVE TO THE MAN. 3.DONT BE AVAILABLE. 4.DONT COMPROMISE YOUR VALUES FOR THE SAKE OF SETTLING DOWN WITH A MAN.
Vulnerable....i think she meant that she is open &speaks without having her own life experiences sieged up fiercely (she is expressive & real...she mixes professionalism with a student's mentality...she still shows that she is one of us.........Thanks Lily 🇺🇬.
But I being honest, when u truly love someone, something are hard to play like not being available to him ,u really think too much abt him ,u wanna be closed to him all the time then how can u disappear when he invits or gives u an appointment !! Love sometimes has no sense😊 us ladies sometimes we can play it hard before falling in love but once get so deep with him my friend...no control abt anything again
If you invest in having a full life with hobbies and things to do you won't need to pretend you're going to naturally not be so available all the time. You're engaged with school, church, activities, volunteer work etc.
I was looking for this comment I was a big fun of this show until I realized this woman has no opinion🙄😏😏😏yaaaah....mnnnh....huuuu..sure...not even a question? Yawa hizi ni ngapi🚮🚮🚮
I was looking for this comment I was a big fun of this show until I realized this woman has no opinion🙄😏😏😏yaaaah....mnnnh....huuuu..sure...not even a question? Yawa hizi ni ngapi🚮🚮🚮
Wow, great lessons there; for me its loving myself the way God does. The lady host though can spook someone with her sudden screams and she almost turned this into a personal therapy session...
I am 28 years old ,i am dating this lady, she's 31 years old . Initially it all started well .But currently she tells me she has friend to visit ,and most of the time are men .I feel stressed.what should i do ?
I am 31..I recently met a guy who is 35.. immediately upon meeting him he started saying he loves me, wants me to marry him and stuff.. he keeps talking about having kids and stuff.. I have a kid, he has a kid.. I think I took time to heal from my last relationship but I feel this is too fast.. I am a Law student, second bachelors degree, and I am open to dating but nothing to do with marriage right now. Help
@TheBabadogo like what if he is really just eesdy to settle down and I am the kne not used to it.. it took me 4 years to heal from a past relationship..I just feel the urgency is a red flag
Lilly stop the agreeing sounds... validating everything your guest is saying...."hmmm, yeah, sure yeah" , etc. Be more professional by not accepting rather do follow up questions.
As a so called man of God, learn to listen and handle your business in a Godly way. Just because I called you out on your nonsense post, you blocked me. Was it not the truth? Are you going to keep misleading people?
Truth is subjective. Your truth isn’t someone else’s truth. Stay in your lane, keep to your truth and keep off Benjamin’s lane. Those of us who follow Benjamin are glad being ‘misled’, what’s your problem and we’re not even using your data or gadgets! Heal heal heal from whatever you’re going through and stop bleeding on people who are not responsible of your problems
@jmtestifies I hope you can learn to MIND YOUR BUSINESS AND FOCUS ON FIGHTING YOUR OWN BATTLES. A fully functional adult in the public sphere is capable of speaking for themselves 😅
Very true. Over the years, i have tried to understand this man and the basis of his theories that have , in my opinion failed especially to the older generation. More particularly, he is a woman's man and has no regard to the feelings and values of boychild. Truly, i dought his masculinity.
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THINGS NOT TO DO AS A LADY
1.DONT CHASE THE MAN.
2.DONT INITIATE LOVE TO THE MAN.
3.DONT BE AVAILABLE.
4.DONT COMPROMISE YOUR VALUES FOR THE SAKE OF SETTLING DOWN WITH A MAN.
❤
Thanks. This always helps
Thanks saved my time
Powerful from the beginning yooh, i'm already feeling convicted. "The path of truth is always narrow and it goes uphill"...yooh I felt that.
Good conversation Benjamin and Lilian. Thank you for the content.
Thank you for this episode Benjamin and Lilly. Can we have an episode about self-love please.
I love Lily .... She is so interesting, real and vulnerable. Very real. God bless you Lily and may God bring you the right person 😊
Vulnerable to what?
Vulnerable....i think she meant that she is open &speaks without having her own life experiences sieged up fiercely (she is expressive & real...she mixes professionalism with a student's mentality...she still shows that she is one of us.........Thanks Lily 🇺🇬.
But I being honest, when u truly love someone, something are hard to play like not being available to him ,u really think too much abt him ,u wanna be closed to him all the time then how can u disappear when he invits or gives u an appointment !! Love sometimes has no sense😊 us ladies sometimes we can play it hard before falling in love but once get so deep with him my friend...no control abt anything again
Gospel truth,
@@anneongadi2525 The time you get so deep you are done
If you invest in having a full life with hobbies and things to do you won't need to pretend you're going to naturally not be so available all the time. You're engaged with school, church, activities, volunteer work etc.
My advice for you would be to get some hobbies dear... That way you don't have him occupying your mind 24/7
Thank you, Benjamin, for talking slowly. I can now understand you well. I love your show.
Watching from CapeTown
Great conversation 😊
Wueh, this sank so deep. Told my crush that I liked him and that's how I lost him despite him showing interest too before then.
Powerful talk Ben and Lily keep it up
Eloi Eloi ...Thanks for this Benjamin!
Thx benja ad lily, tis is show is informative, so priceless ad timeless.
The problem of interviewing a genius. Everytime you're like,"ooow, mmmm, yeah"😂
Sorry Lilly, up your interview game😢
😂😂😂😂😂😂staaaaap
She tried though
Ikr🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was looking for this comment I was a big fun of this show until I realized this woman has no opinion🙄😏😏😏yaaaah....mnnnh....huuuu..sure...not even a question? Yawa hizi ni ngapi🚮🚮🚮
I was looking for this comment I was a big fun of this show until I realized this woman has no opinion🙄😏😏😏yaaaah....mnnnh....huuuu..sure...not even a question? Yawa hizi ni ngapi🚮🚮🚮
Him: You are the one who wanted me.. hehe. Insightful talk. Well done Zulu, and Lilly.
Thank you Benjamin !
This one I have felt 🤧🤧🔥
They were looking for less and got more hahaha yes I will run with that.
Wow, great lessons there; for me its loving myself the way God does. The lady host though can spook someone with her sudden screams and she almost turned this into a personal therapy session...
where do you get your outfit Benjamin I would love to buy for my husband
Wow, this girl looks very beautiful in Yellow!
I am 28 years old ,i am dating this lady, she's 31 years old . Initially it all started well .But currently she tells me she has friend to visit ,and most of the time are men .I feel stressed.what should i do ?
Entrance sets the tone, exit sets the legacy!
Wow!! This is sooo deep Mr. Benjamin. So timely and profound.
Waaooh that's great and very powerful
Thanks Benjamin u have helped me.
Thankyou Lilly for taking one for the team 😂 👊❤
Glad i listened to this
Ladies never do that Swthrts😢 I did a shot 1.5yrs this guy never gives anything not outings not leadership he's jst relaxingr plzz, don't 😢
He wasn't prepared for anything yet he responded positively 😢
I feel you it's the most draining tng ever😢
It's well sweet heart you gonna find your match soon 🫂
Benjamin you are right
Great message to me.
Very nice Mr Benjamin
Wow,thanks for this information
I am 31..I recently met a guy who is 35.. immediately upon meeting him he started saying he loves me, wants me to marry him and stuff.. he keeps talking about having kids and stuff.. I have a kid, he has a kid.. I think I took time to heal from my last relationship but I feel this is too fast.. I am a Law student, second bachelors degree, and I am open to dating but nothing to do with marriage right now. Help
Take it slow don't rush
@@Queenvalle I edited it.. lol
You already know the right answer. Don't fall for the devil's advocate in your head that is telling you, "...what if he genuinely loves you".
@@TheBabadogo that's exactly it
. Lol
@TheBabadogo like what if he is really just eesdy to settle down and I am the kne not used to it.. it took me 4 years to heal from a past relationship..I just feel the urgency is a red flag
Please I am Ghana and how do I get a copy of this book..
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Insightful topic
This is so interesting and informative
Very true... Hadi huwa najicheka tuu😂
great message
Lily I like your last question thanks
Lilly stop the agreeing sounds... validating everything your guest is saying...."hmmm, yeah, sure yeah" , etc. Be more professional by not accepting rather do follow up questions.
I was wondering of the same she is making the show boring
She tried
Woooooo❤
Am 24 years and am dating this guy who is 37 years old.the man has 2 baby mamas .please help me with advice pliz
RUN away as fast as possible
Run for your dear life
Flee
Unless you want to be the third baby mama ......😮 Run
Run, run, run,run now!
Yeah
Let Brnjamin talk stop the wow wow wow lady .Nyamaza stop affirming you are interrupting
😂😂😂😂
Waw
Host seems to need help in forming leading questions and interjection for this interview... Or is it just me.
Good effort though.
Okay would you please stop with the snaps
As a so called man of God, learn to listen and handle your business in a Godly way. Just because I called you out on your nonsense post, you blocked me. Was it not the truth? Are you going to keep misleading people?
Truth is subjective. Your truth isn’t someone else’s truth. Stay in your lane, keep to your truth and keep off Benjamin’s lane. Those of us who follow Benjamin are glad being ‘misled’, what’s your problem and we’re not even using your data or gadgets! Heal heal heal from whatever you’re going through and stop bleeding on people who are not responsible of your problems
@jmtestifies I hope you can learn to MIND YOUR BUSINESS AND FOCUS ON FIGHTING YOUR OWN BATTLES. A fully functional adult in the public sphere is capable of speaking for themselves 😅
Very true. Over the years, i have tried to understand this man and the basis of his theories that have , in my opinion failed especially to the older generation. More particularly, he is a woman's man and has no regard to the feelings and values of boychild. Truly, i dought his masculinity.