"Society can really pressure you" I believe there are basically three things that can rob someone's destiny. 1.Alcoholism. 2.Promisicuity. 3.Peer pressure... If you can keep off those three vices, and then work smart, your star will shine bright.
Sometimes its not about pressure from society... it's you people( upcoming celebrities) who sets these high standards for yourselves! Mnaambiwa kila siku live within your means na hamsikii
Ukipata pesa Kubwa una invest sio ku party especially kama umeajiriwa coz kufutwa kazi nikama asubuhi na jioni zina happen bila kutarajia hii iwe ni funzo kwa wengine .. kujionesha na kujifakhirisha kwa marafiki ni upuzi tuu ukiishiwa wao ndio wakwanza kukusema na kukucheka investment is the key to success.
My Takeaway: Njambi got an acting role. She became big in the industry. However, shocks in the industry saw her financial position dwindling. She became depressed and hopeless. She admits that she dated a man she was not in love with. She even went ahead to get a child (son) with the man. The relationship was rocky and majorly an on and off affair. This went on for years until the man found her chatting with her male beshtie about deep, intimate, and personal things. She quotes her childhood traumas. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
An authentic woman.Not many will understand her.Those fighting and still denying their own situations will find you laughter 'annoying' I believe this interview was edited heavily,I wish it was left to flow.Many people need to watch raw 'uncosmetic' interviews like yours... please use your platform to speak your truth the way you truly want it to be told.I totally get you and I thank God for that
Thank you for sharing Healing takes time. Please get additional help from a therapist. You have courage but the excessive laughter shows that there is a lot of pain still. It makes me sad when I hear the laughter because the worse the story the more you laugh. It is a coping mechanism. You are also very beautiful sister.
Hi Njambi, good to see you. I watch TRHK every now and then I really enjoyed it. It’s hormonal imbalance you’re dealing with. I’ve had same problems ever since I can remember. You will be fine keep praying and loving yourself and family
Manze the timing of this video sijui aki. I got a job at an international company as a graphic designer nakuambia i had prayed for this job aje. One month later kazi ikaisha bila explanations company mzima ikashut down. Its been a week now nakuambia pia mimi nashangaa aje tu but we move on. Niko hio stage ya kushtuka but you know we have to keep going manze. Everything you were saying is just resonating with me. Bana if you have a youtube channel huwa naunda thumbnails, inbox me tuongee. 😂😂life manze.
Me too. I had this client form Saudi Arabia and we've been working for about 6 months. I was doing academic writing so pesa kama si daily ilikua weekly, all over a sudden ninja akaniblock😂 it's been three months now but we move😂
Is she sure she's okay? I highly doubt it. Meanwhile, that laughter! Jesus Christ. You know people used to tell me that I laugh a lot. If that's how I sound when communicating, omg, I've vowed to adapt and improve instantly and immediately! Gosh.
Thank you for your vulnerability. Your honesty l wish most of the commentators would be kind and empathic to never say never ,because this is a lesson.Asante sana
It always amazes me each time i see a grown up who was brought up in a humble setting, coming out to say that, the period they were making crazy money they didn't invest cause they didn't know the money may run out or because no one came to them n advice them financially.....like seriously
I kinda get it. Money, power and fame has been known to corrupt and make humans feel and walk around like they are invincible. Its like theres a high and peer pressure that comes with it, others say they end up supporting friends and extended family to point of exhausting funds. Look at even people who suddenly win large amounts in lottery, few do anything substantial. It takes a lot of discipline and saying No to peer pressure, black tax and societal expectations!
@@ANM657 I get it, in that case they should just be honest and vulnerable about it and say the truth that, they were young, wild, free and kinda reckless. It happens to the best of us, what I don't agree with is that, they try and give an impression that they were not aware or that they were naive of some sort. I mean what are the odds that they were not aware in the year 2016, labda ingekua in the 90s
One thing me and Njambi have in common is that we are parents who have lost jobs abruptly without savings. Did I live beyond my means? No , money just wasn’t enough. Do not worry mama, utabounce back even bigger
Last part of your testimony is real and as much as it takes time to get to such a realisation, thank God its real. Wish you well my dear. You'll realise bigger things in your life. Keep doing good and you'll enjoy!
To Njambi, some of us are just troubled from our childhood and it manifests in many ways including anxiety and depression. We also make decisions too quickly that's how you find yourself in relationships with partners not suitable for you. You'll experience criticism on your choices here on the internet regarding this interview let it not throw you off your healing journey. I relate to you in so many ways including your laugh. We are a work in progress.
but ne fair pia kwa boy child. let him know that haumtaki badala ya keeping silent as you ride along. kuna wale boy child pia wako na anxiety na depression. in short, be fair with your feelings dont hurt a soul as you save yours.
Very nice and real interview esp on the money parts and crossroads of life... That is real right there. Thanks for being vulnerable, your future is bright 🎉
So sorry Njambi for what you've gone through. I am proud of you for being bold enough to share and open up. Some of us huwa tunameza hio pain yote, we don't have the balls to talk about it, thanks for sharing this, very encouraging, you're bold and confident and you'll be alright. Healing is a process and we are going through. It's life, we'll win. Proud of you njambi. Let's keep learning and growing 💗
This is why guys like Eddie Murphy keep their family secrets secret. Plus they maintain respect and honor when dealing with others. Coz human beings like the flair but when you're down they wont want to associate with you.
We have financial advisers in a Kenya but the issue here is that we don’t prioritize professional financial advisors…. Especially where we have to pay for their services. We think of the small consulting fee is too much…. I regret the latter most. When I had money, I never invested in financial coaching etc…. When the money reduced, that’s w n I realize how ignorant I was in my days of my abundance.
Watching this now depressed on what i will do, nimeshindwa kulipa rent, so now the only way out of this naona tu ni kuanza life in a single room, juu wueeh, am so stressed RN like so f*ck, manzee this serves as a motivation that after all thro.
Hey interviewer i think you should talk in the show too. There are moments in this when Njambi needed reassurance and verbal support. It feels like you are just filming these people and making them look crazy on camera. Try and be talking too.
And i see people,,tapping to akina hannah bentas success,,ya kubadilisha TV na fridge,and moving out to "fancy apartments" and you just feel sorry for them,,,
It also prove to us you were really struggling coz how much can a tv station pay for a weekly script? Maybe 200k atmost divide them by almost 30 crews thats is plus behind screen stereos and always you'll not get same as directors, which means not more than 5k a week equivalent to less 30k a months
I don't blame hear, environment affect pple alot, there is a show. Called i blew it and there are lots of njambis there. Their names change but they loose everything
I remember 2018, she wasy favourite actress nikamkatia then i told her I'm a nurse in Australia can we meet then later you move Australia aki majibu nilipewa😢
No , I think she is laughing coz she survived and learned from her lessons. Laughing at your previous ignorance is so inspiring and the best you can do for yourself.
Why would u get pregnant for the 2nd time for a man that u are not inlove with😮😮..now thats creating a pattern of zero accountability...n yes you are the problem....goodluck though...hope u come out better🎉
The laughter was so so annoying! A psychologist will tell she's hiding pain with that laughter, she needs to see a therapist! She's not there yet but in the healing process
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"Society can really pressure you"
I believe there are basically three things that can rob someone's destiny.
1.Alcoholism.
2.Promisicuity.
3.Peer pressure...
If you can keep off those three vices, and then work smart, your star will shine bright.
Sometimes its not about pressure from society... it's you people( upcoming celebrities) who sets these high standards for yourselves! Mnaambiwa kila siku live within your means na hamsikii
Ur right money even makes ugly girls think they are beautiful
Ukipata pesa Kubwa una invest sio ku party especially kama umeajiriwa coz kufutwa kazi nikama asubuhi na jioni zina happen bila kutarajia hii iwe ni funzo kwa wengine .. kujionesha na kujifakhirisha kwa marafiki ni upuzi tuu ukiishiwa wao ndio wakwanza kukusema na kukucheka investment is the key to success.
@@fatmaalbeity9097 can I marry you fatma?!❤
Correct!
She is not yet healed completely her laughter can say it all but she is in a better place than before
Correct.
Njambi you made my 2019 easy, watched the real house of kawangware because of you and Njugush
I remember nliwai kusalimia club fulani Ngong road....ukanisnobe juu nlikua nakunywa Gilbys nawewe Martel
Omg! 🙄😂 These "celebs" can be so silly! And then they come crying afterwards on social media. 🙄Ridiculous.
😂😂😂😂😂
My Takeaway: Njambi got an acting role. She became big in the industry. However, shocks in the industry saw her financial position dwindling. She became depressed and hopeless. She admits that she dated a man she was not in love with. She even went ahead to get a child (son) with the man. The relationship was rocky and majorly an on and off affair. This went on for years until the man found her chatting with her male beshtie about deep, intimate, and personal things. She quotes her childhood traumas. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
Hi Njambi I'm big fan from TRHK sending love to you
An authentic woman.Not many will understand her.Those fighting and still denying their own situations will find you laughter 'annoying' I believe this interview was edited heavily,I wish it was left to flow.Many people need to watch raw 'uncosmetic' interviews like yours... please use your platform to speak your truth the way you truly want it to be told.I totally get you and I thank God for that
Thank you for this level of honesty. We have learnt alot
I wish watu kaa akina Hannah Benta wanapeza sikiza such stories asave ana invest
What a lovely lady , God aendelee kukubless sana.
Tuliishi nayeye iyo time alikuwa na doo...wuee anyway
@@rosekabiti4697 - What is that supposed to mean? Is it good or bad? Was she a snob or not?
A lot of celebrities are living beyond their means to impress us
😂😂😂
@@marymackori-wd3hz Or rather we expect them to live a high cost life, and when they don't, we talk
My favorite show for many years was house help of kawangwere. I watched it all throughout. The last episode watched it here in Canada.. best talents
Thank you for sharing Healing takes time. Please get additional help from a therapist. You have courage but the excessive laughter shows that there is a lot of pain still. It makes me sad when I hear the laughter because the worse the story the more you laugh. It is a coping mechanism. You are also very beautiful sister.
Hi Njambi, good to see you. I watch TRHK every now and then I really enjoyed it. It’s hormonal imbalance you’re dealing with. I’ve had same problems ever since I can remember. You will be fine keep praying and loving yourself and family
Njambi live your life wachana na pressure
Njambi you are beautiful, gifted and blessed. You will be fine. Ignore the bad vibes in the comment section.
My love we have come from far and we are going far…..yes we have not fully healed but we will get there one day at a time ❤❤❤❤
When I hear mental health tears just drop down my heart
Manze the timing of this video sijui aki.
I got a job at an international company as a graphic designer nakuambia i had prayed for this job aje.
One month later kazi ikaisha bila explanations company mzima ikashut down.
Its been a week now nakuambia pia mimi nashangaa aje tu but we move on.
Niko hio stage ya kushtuka but you know we have to keep going manze.
Everything you were saying is just resonating with me.
Bana if you have a youtube channel huwa naunda thumbnails, inbox me tuongee.
😂😂life manze.
Her channel name is njambi trhk
Me too.
I had this client form Saudi Arabia and we've been working for about 6 months. I was doing academic writing so pesa kama si daily ilikua weekly, all over a sudden ninja akaniblock😂 it's been three months now but we move😂
Wishing you the best. You are here for a reason.
Is she sure she's okay? I highly doubt it. Meanwhile, that laughter! Jesus Christ. You know people used to tell me that I laugh a lot. If that's how I sound when communicating, omg, I've vowed to adapt and improve instantly and immediately! Gosh.
Many influences and celebrities should watch you, you are a true inspiration and l have really learnt from you. ❤❤❤
Thank you for your vulnerability. Your honesty l wish most of the commentators would be kind and empathic to never say never ,because this is a lesson.Asante sana
It always amazes me each time i see a grown up who was brought up in a humble setting, coming out to say that, the period they were making crazy money they didn't invest cause they didn't know the money may run out or because no one came to them n advice them financially.....like seriously
Like right aargh
I kinda get it. Money, power and fame has been known to corrupt and make humans feel and walk around like they are invincible. Its like theres a high and peer pressure that comes with it, others say they end up supporting friends and extended family to point of exhausting funds. Look at even people who suddenly win large amounts in lottery, few do anything substantial.
It takes a lot of discipline and saying No to peer pressure, black tax and societal expectations!
@@ANM657 I get it, in that case they should just be honest and vulnerable about it and say the truth that, they were young, wild, free and kinda reckless. It happens to the best of us, what I don't agree with is that, they try and give an impression that they were not aware or that they were naive of some sort. I mean what are the odds that they were not aware in the year 2016, labda ingekua in the 90s
Have you ever been 2 blocks famous?? It's easy to say what you are saying. Until you get deep in there
@@alexkibe4179 true. Never judge someone if you have never walked in their shoes.
Its good njambi owned up to her mistakes.that is the first step to healing
One thing me and Njambi have in common is that we are parents who have lost jobs abruptly without savings. Did I live beyond my means? No , money just wasn’t enough.
Do not worry mama, utabounce back even bigger
Last part of your testimony is real and as much as it takes time to get to such a realisation, thank God its real. Wish you well my dear. You'll realise bigger things in your life. Keep doing good and you'll enjoy!
Guys...kindly concentrate on the content....what Bernice is saying...her message...the lessons to be learnt herein...the substance...pu-lease!!🙃
THANKS NJAMBI
YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION TO MANY.
To Njambi, some of us are just troubled from our childhood and it manifests in many ways including anxiety and depression. We also make decisions too quickly that's how you find yourself in relationships with partners not suitable for you. You'll experience criticism on your choices here on the internet regarding this interview let it not throw you off your healing journey. I relate to you in so many ways including your laugh. We are a work in progress.
but ne fair pia kwa boy child. let him know that haumtaki badala ya keeping silent as you ride along. kuna wale boy child pia wako na anxiety na depression. in short, be fair with your feelings dont hurt a soul as you save yours.
I love this " i am God's favourite"
Thanks for sharing, please go for counseling...
I enjoyed listening to your take on this. Positive energy is key
Wishing you all the best jambi
Very nice and real interview esp on the money parts and crossroads of life... That is real right there. Thanks for being vulnerable, your future is bright 🎉
Let's go!
That laughter shows she still in the process but not completely healed
Yes, I thot so!!! Shes not completely healed, she's hurting!
Healing is a process, and she is laughing just to stop the tears .
Imagine that's how she is, that's her natural laughter
"Deep doen I know I'm spiritual " that there is your struggle kicker......
She's still young very young you'll rise 😊
they were still young you're going far
Guys, listen to what is not being said.
That is her laugher. If you watch her channel, she laughs the same... she is comfortable with self it seems ❤
So sorry Njambi for what you've gone through. I am proud of you for being bold enough to share and open up. Some of us huwa tunameza hio pain yote, we don't have the balls to talk about it, thanks for sharing this, very encouraging, you're bold and confident and you'll be alright. Healing is a process and we are going through. It's life, we'll win. Proud of you njambi. Let's keep learning and growing 💗
My classmate hhhs wish you the very best.
God is for us all, we must be ready to take responsibility for our actions.
I loved the RHOK! Kenya's got real talent!
My favourite actress Njambi.
You motivate us jaambii❤
Thank God she is not chewing gum today
😂😂I know right?!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Aiiii her laughter even when there is nothing to laugh at 😢😢😢
Great energy plus you keep it real...not the usual one sided stories of how it was the other person's fault
Am that kind of person who don't have friends...can i get a trusted friend,
This is why guys like Eddie Murphy keep their family secrets secret. Plus they maintain respect and honor when dealing with others. Coz human beings like the flair but when you're down they wont want to associate with you.
I dnt think its society, its called a shock of getting soo much money, that you did not expect, and not having financial management.
She has learnt her lesson very well
We have financial advisers in a Kenya but the issue here is that we don’t prioritize professional financial advisors…. Especially where we have to pay for their services. We think of the small consulting fee is too much…. I regret the latter most. When I had money, I never invested in financial coaching etc…. When the money reduced, that’s w n I realize how ignorant I was in my days of my abundance.
Hi njambi
man mi nlikufiaga njambi tangu nke mdogo....wueeh
Watching this now depressed on what i will do, nimeshindwa kulipa rent, so now the only way out of this naona tu ni kuanza life in a single room, juu wueeh, am so stressed RN like so f*ck, manzee this serves as a motivation that after all thro.
My dota still watch that show till date and she is a broad I that the only show she still recalls back in africa.
I rem her chanell's name "young Blended family"...Weh! All that glitters is not gold....pole Njambi.
Seek therapy mamii. Bado uko na issues that can't just be laughed off.
Hey interviewer i think you should talk in the show too. There are moments in this when Njambi needed reassurance and verbal support. It feels like you are just filming these people and making them look crazy on camera. Try and be talking too.
I agree
Njambi don't mind everything will be fine
I still watch the show now with my brother 😅
mi nae njambi alikua my crush na nilikua primary😂😂😂😂😂
Accept yourself for who you are.
And i see people,,tapping to akina hannah bentas success,,ya kubadilisha TV na fridge,and moving out to "fancy apartments" and you just feel sorry for them,,,
It also prove to us you were really struggling coz how much can a tv station pay for a weekly script? Maybe 200k atmost divide them by almost 30 crews thats is plus behind screen stereos and always you'll not get same as directors, which means not more than 5k a week equivalent to less 30k a months
Yani madem wengine wakipata doh wanashidwa kuweka doa brt wakiwa down wako tu sawa
When you depressed,you can lose interest in your passion and career...si ati we ni anti radar...
I don't blame hear, environment affect pple alot, there is a show. Called i blew it and there are lots of njambis there. Their names change but they loose everything
She's not healed yet but she will.
Pain in her voice😢
I wish Njambi well.Her laughter is full of pain... Healing is not linear..she will get there
The laughter though...
Seek therapy mama.you need to heal alot...the negative comments just assume them.
Don't understand Swahili. From Zim. Thank you.
Kindly turn on English subtitles by clicking on the CC icon
Huyu dame huwa msupuuu
I remember 2018, she wasy favourite actress nikamkatia then i told her I'm a nurse in Australia can we meet then later you move Australia aki majibu nilipewa😢
@@kimrodgers7809 heal bro!
Ai Njambi are you ok?
Na turu aliendaga wapi jameni
Am I the only one that feels she is not ok?I feel the laughter comes with so much pain.i think she needs help
No , I think she is laughing coz she survived and learned from her lessons. Laughing at your previous ignorance is so inspiring and the best you can do for yourself.
@@anitabell4203 I second you on this
Correct
There is nothing wrong with wanting the good things for you and your family ❤
But i remember you telling us that he used to beat you, how comes again you're blaming yourself? Anyways may you heal😢
Am good its with alot of pain
She was my neighbour here in Waithaka. They used to fight a lot with his husband.
Local artist is ok....celeb not so much.
people always fail and blame society
Did you really do law,ai i always doubt that njambi, you actually have a law degree 😳
She dropped to acting..hakumalza
Njambi u need Jesus,u been through alot.
Fame seems like a curse
Why would u get pregnant for the 2nd time for a man that u are not inlove with😮😮..now thats creating a pattern of zero accountability...n yes you are the problem....goodluck though...hope u come out better🎉
And its also very disturbing that he is the father of her child. Badmouthing. She spents a whole lot of deal addressing HIM
Hio kicheko c real... bt its life,,,,,,
I understand 😊
The laughter was so so annoying! A psychologist will tell she's hiding pain with that laughter, she needs to see a therapist! She's not there yet but in the healing process
Michereti alienda??😂❤
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