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  • @emilyanne1562
    @emilyanne1562 3 года назад +1141

    Im on benefits .I know this series is quite old but these episodes are actually really motivating me.... I have 2 interviews lined up this week!

    • @Mjk10957
      @Mjk10957 2 года назад +26

      How did they go

    • @iescapedtheasylum2015
      @iescapedtheasylum2015 2 года назад +22

      How did they go girl?? 🍾

    • @mckenna9489
      @mckenna9489 2 года назад +11

      How did you get on hun did you bag a job?

    • @utilitarian
      @utilitarian 2 года назад +11

      Hope it went well Emily!

    • @pepcore
      @pepcore 2 года назад +21

      Yeah hope it went well. And even if it didn't you are trying and that is the most important. Good luck you can do it!

  • @andredaconceicao1219
    @andredaconceicao1219 3 года назад +810

    Dave seems like the type of guy to always find something to blame for his own situation.

    • @giani1680
      @giani1680 2 года назад +10

      He certainly blames migrants for "taking away his jobs", while he votes the tories who cut his benefits.
      What an idiot

    • @andredaconceicao1219
      @andredaconceicao1219 2 года назад +17

      @@giani1680 He should be blaming all the political parties who fail time and time again to address the issues with poverty in the UK and other issues. But politicians are delusional.

    • @giani1680
      @giani1680 2 года назад +12

      @@andredaconceicao1219 politicians have utterly failed in everything, especially regarding the fields of employment and social justice.
      One day I would like to work to get those disadvantaged people into employment, like hayley does. But maybe it is just delusion

    • @andredaconceicao1219
      @andredaconceicao1219 2 года назад +14

      @@giani1680 I do feel sorry for disadvantaged people who perhaps didn’t come from a good family background or maybe they made bad decisions when they were young. I do think that they deserve another chance to set things right and change for the better.

    • @giani1680
      @giani1680 2 года назад

      @@andredaconceicao1219 and imI alwys wonder how to give another chance. I have got a history of psychology blog, but I am going to switch the focus on more current and pressing issues. I have just decided that the next post will be on the psychology behind disadvantaged workers (with possibly some tips or suggestion to get out of there)

  • @lozzylols
    @lozzylols 2 года назад +347

    I can't believe Dave ever made a good security man. We have one for a shop near me and all he does is sit outside with a cup of tea. I can imagine Dave was like that!

    • @snowflakemelter1172
      @snowflakemelter1172 2 года назад +1

      A disabled pensioner could out run him.

    • @arbjful
      @arbjful 2 года назад

      So what else is he expected to do? Secure the doorstep with truncheon in hand?

    • @BIZZIB3ATZ
      @BIZZIB3ATZ 2 года назад +38

      as a actual security guard we call people like him jacket fillers he's everything you don want in a guard old, unhealth, ignorant, lack of self control, cant follow simple instructions, he wouldn't get involved if things got physical I've flat out refused to work with people like him on many occasions he probably thinks to himself the job of a guard is to sit around drinking tea as you said which is true because most of the time nothing is happening but what people like him fail to understand is when things happen are they capable of dealing with the issue physically or verbally and most of the time they are not imagine big dave confronting 10 chaves he's pie brain doesn't have the capacity to do things like that but they might get intimidated be the sheer size of him because he's a physical specimen lmao

    • @gilllarr9285
      @gilllarr9285 Год назад +11

      @@BIZZIB3ATZ when I was a security officer, I had to train people like him when they fucked up, so not only did I have my own job to do, but I had to do assessments on people like him. While I was doing my own stuff, they would go upstairs to the canteen and I would find them sleeping.

    • @munchyman6898
      @munchyman6898 Год назад +2

      I can imagine that you are extremely judgemental

  • @crazycatlady80
    @crazycatlady80 3 года назад +127

    I was on the sick and claiming, when Covid hit in August, I started volunteering on one of the NHS Covid test site and ended up doing full time hours voluntary. When we got the vaccines in December, the test site manager asked me if help with the vaccines. I was doing 12 hour shifts between 2 hospitals as a voluntary health care assistant and steward. In February, one of the doctors took me to one side and offered me a job in the doctors surgery that he was one of the senior GP at. The told me it had been noticed what I'd been doing. Im now a full time Administrating Assistant and Receptionist at an NHS Doctors Surgery. I couldn't imagine going back to just sitting at home and ive got 2 kids who are so proud, my eldest who's 19 this year has now gone and got herself a part time job as a home carer which she gets paid for and does in the mornings before college and then the evenings after college. It is hard though finding jobs if youve not got the proper qualifications or you don't look or speak how the they want you to.

    • @gaz8177
      @gaz8177 3 года назад +10

      Good for you, someone out there had seen the effort you made 👍

    • @britishempireno1fan851
      @britishempireno1fan851 3 года назад +8

      Well done 👏

    • @maryapatterson
      @maryapatterson 2 года назад +7

      That's absolutely brilliant !You deserved that job well done!🤗🥳🎊🥂

    • @crazycatlady80
      @crazycatlady80 2 года назад +11

      Update*** My daughter is now in Uni doing her teaching degree and I work full time for Amazon which is the best place I've ever worked, to say I love work is an understatement 💜

    • @maryapatterson
      @maryapatterson 2 года назад +4

      Brilliant!

  • @bankruptbritain6103
    @bankruptbritain6103 2 года назад +197

    Thatcher stopping school milk has thwarted Dave's job hunt

    • @LA-zy3ht
      @LA-zy3ht 2 года назад

      Lol!

    • @janestirling7970
      @janestirling7970 Год назад +9

      I hated being forced to drink that shite when i was at school, even my Dad said when he was at school, you had to drink it if you wanted it or not, and he`s 90 years old now

    • @gilllarr9285
      @gilllarr9285 Год назад +3

      So Derrick Hatton had nothing to do with it then?

    • @philpants44
      @philpants44 Год назад +8

      basically he blamed everyone but himself. but i get the feeling he wasnt trying all that hard

    • @c0ree
      @c0ree 8 месяцев назад +2

      ahahahhaaha

  • @marieboutin9054
    @marieboutin9054 2 года назад +171

    This woman who is helping people to get back to work is absolutely awesome. What a kind person. Very professional, but also very sensitive and nice. what a great job she is doing.

    • @philpants44
      @philpants44 Год назад +3

      @Johannes C yeah, if only half the people she sorts back into work were actually as ill as they make out. she's got plenty of people jobs if you've watched other episodes most of them are just happy to let people make excuse for them..these people are literally all saying they want to find a job and she's helping em and you're STILL bitching. she got 4 women jobs in the last one i watched and one quit after the first paycheque. so much for the mental benefit and not wanting handouts..

    • @eamonnquigley2125
      @eamonnquigley2125 Год назад

      your right and she a beautifull full figured buxsom babe she takes no bullshite

    • @chloeelizabeth2174
      @chloeelizabeth2174 Год назад

      @@johannesc9660as someone who works whilst living with a chronic illness that came from being hit by a van. If she got ill - doesn’t mean she’ll be on benefits.

    • @dianebalata7065
      @dianebalata7065 10 месяцев назад

      Dave needs his benefit stopped, hes too cold to wpork

    • @katiegeorgeripia
      @katiegeorgeripia 10 месяцев назад

      In New Zealand we call them work brokers. I had an awesome lady who put onto the right courses & in touch with the best ppl who helped me get a job not only worked but really enjoyed

  • @Bonditotaltan
    @Bonditotaltan 3 года назад +172

    Poor darling crying getting overwhelmed. Having a father like Dave lord only knows what he’ll she has been exposed to. 21 without a job EVER 🤷🏻‍♀️. I hope she is doing well in life now.

    • @bradleymilton9372
      @bradleymilton9372 3 года назад +4

      He died

    • @nifralo2752
      @nifralo2752 2 года назад +3

      @@bradleymilton9372 how do you know ?

    • @carolinesconcertvids860
      @carolinesconcertvids860 2 года назад +6

      I didn't get my first job until I was 21. I ended up working for 4 years with a well paid job, sadly went back to unemployed for a couple of years, now I'm back working again

    • @ansal847
      @ansal847 Год назад +5

      getting overwhelmed in a new situation is totally valid, but tis good she went back out and tried again :)

    • @rampz975
      @rampz975 Год назад +2

      Yea his daughter seems so sweet and that she actually wants to make a future for herself

  • @hat_ankh8798
    @hat_ankh8798 2 года назад +44

    "I can't hear it when it's on silent" did make me chuckle

    • @gilllarr9285
      @gilllarr9285 Год назад +1

      I used to say things like that when I went to job club about 30 years ago for a week

  • @lesleyallinson8738
    @lesleyallinson8738 3 года назад +133

    The young girl who was on the tills, hey girl your doing good don't give up. I brought my 2 children up alone after losing my husband, then I was in a car crash.
    So instead of giving up I retrained by going to college, I trained to become a medical secretary. I did nvq in administration up to level 3, I learned to touch type and did RSA up to level 3. I did it within a year.
    I did 1 day a week in a dr surgery with the course, so gained experience. Then I managed to get a job at the local hospital, I still went to college night school, then within 18 months I became a medical secretary. I loved my job and felt I was helping people

    • @stevechristie2569
      @stevechristie2569 2 года назад +6

      Mrs Allinson you are an inspiration!!!!!!!

    • @Xerthios
      @Xerthios 2 года назад +3

      Lesley what a credit you are to our country.

    • @sandrafinbar
      @sandrafinbar 2 года назад +1

      Well done.

    • @snowpz
      @snowpz 9 месяцев назад +2

      That annoyed me. They should have taught her when it wasn't busy. A trial run... Don't just shove a socially anxious person into a busy shop, order them around and overstimulate them by telling them to smile etc when they have no clue what they're doing. No wonder she had a meltdown, my god. I hope she doesn't feel bad about that because they set her up badly there.

    • @snowpz
      @snowpz 8 месяцев назад

      That is not how it works. Jesus.@FreePigeon

  • @KittehHawk
    @KittehHawk 2 года назад +132

    She has much more patience than me. I would have told Dave where to go at so many points during the filming of this.

    • @gilllarr9285
      @gilllarr9285 Год назад +8

      But he’s probably been told that for years, all he needed was one one to tell him the opposite, and it worked.

    • @DTM93
      @DTM93 Год назад +4

      Dave's a legend, he reminds me of Jim from the Royle Family 😂😂😂

    • @philpants44
      @philpants44 Год назад +1

      @@DTM93 he's weirdly entertaining. not sure "legend" is the word i'd use though.

    • @ijustdidahugeshit
      @ijustdidahugeshit Год назад

      ​@@philpants44I am a qualified lesbian

    • @JD-lp5rw
      @JD-lp5rw 9 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly. "Put tax up" so we will have to pay MORE for him to do nothing?? His attitude stinks, wouldn't employ him to sweep the floors.

  • @akkinak
    @akkinak 3 года назад +287

    Why do people always hate on McDonald's jobs? I don't think I could do it, it looks damn hard work.

    • @JoJo-hg7tg
      @JoJo-hg7tg 3 года назад +66

      Hospitality and customer service isn't easy. Especially when some customers feel they can treat hospitality workers like sh*t

    • @howey935
      @howey935 3 года назад +49

      I went to school with a lass who took a job at McDonald’s to help pay her way through uni and she ended up working her way up to manager and she now owns 3 McDonald’s herself.

    • @pamelamckenzie2685
      @pamelamckenzie2685 3 года назад +9

      I dont like the smell of the food in mcdonalds.

    • @akkinak
      @akkinak 3 года назад +22

      @@pamelamckenzie2685 I once noticed a turtle in a pond.

    • @bnhyg150
      @bnhyg150 3 года назад +9

      @@howey935
      Good on her people may not liking for McDonald's but they'll happily eat the food from their.
      I've no problem with what anyone does for a living once it's honest work or contributing taxes etc.

  • @mandi3891
    @mandi3891 3 года назад +140

    Alex and Louise are such sweethearts. I hope they can overcome their lack of confidence.

    • @gillianbrookwell1678
      @gillianbrookwell1678 3 года назад +18

      I could understand why Louise didn't like working on checkouts, I couldn't handle it either.

    • @bingbingbaobei
      @bingbingbaobei 2 года назад +3

      Worked checkout in the US for awhile when I was younger. It's quite stressful, and there's quite a bit to remember (checking id's for alcohol, writing down driver's license numbers on cheques, checking large bills to make sure they're not counterfeit, returns, price checks, etc. while having to be quick enough so the line doesn't wind back to the back of the store) If you're too slow, people complain to your supervisor. If you forget a step, they dock your minimum wage pay... so you make less than minimum wage. Better than no job, but not my 1st choice (same as waitressing in the US)

    • @Sinsteel
      @Sinsteel Год назад

      @@bingbingbaobei More and more here they just have self-checkout machines with just one person monitoring the customers as they do a job that no longer exists, that used to fulfil a valuable role - training people in their first job and getting them their first rung on the employment ladder.

    • @bubble8829
      @bubble8829 11 месяцев назад

      @@Sinsteel Same here in Australia. On the other hand, Australian supermarkets are offering more shopping online, which means they're now employing lots of people as "personal shoppers" and delivery drivers. It's swings and roundabouts I guess.

  • @labellamaffia
    @labellamaffia 8 месяцев назад +6

    I hate the fact that some of these people think it’s beneath them to do certain jobs! There’s always pride to be had in any work you’re doing because you’re contributing towards society. No one is too good for any job!

    • @astronomyphilly
      @astronomyphilly 8 месяцев назад

      There's also the argument that any job is too good for them.
      Some of these people will never get a job or be able to do so whatever you or they do.

  • @JoJo-hg7tg
    @JoJo-hg7tg 3 года назад +205

    8 mins in and Dave is already frustrating.
    What does being a scouser have to do with attitude?
    Why should taxes increase because you don't want to find work
    Edit: I loved the support everyone had for each other

    • @sharrone32
      @sharrone32 3 года назад +11

      How can dave be a security guard when he is lazy, mouthy and poorly educated, his opinions are less than needed

    • @annephillips1870
      @annephillips1870 3 года назад +17

      Did they say that Dave was only 53?! He’s got the attitude of a 80 year old curmudgeon. He certainly doesn’t have the ‘element of choice’. He’s no intellectual.

    • @carolewaite3730
      @carolewaite3730 3 года назад +23

      Why should working people pay more to keep Dave at home sat on his backside how lazycanyou be

    • @IwasBlueb4
      @IwasBlueb4 3 года назад +1

      @@carolewaite3730 Sitting, not sat

    • @Hotchocolatewithsugar
      @Hotchocolatewithsugar 3 года назад +6

      Agreed . 53 & moaning. His daughter is setting a better example and is getting on with it

  • @laragrove75
    @laragrove75 3 года назад +545

    "What's your greatest weakness?"
    "Diabetes"
    cracked me up

    • @mardjo595
      @mardjo595 3 года назад +23

      Don't forget the hernia 😂

    • @gazakim3060
      @gazakim3060 3 года назад +5

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @BeczaBot
      @BeczaBot 3 года назад +11

      Well he’s not wrong...

    • @HO-bndk
      @HO-bndk 3 года назад +20

      Good to see that he's dieting and undergoing a strict exercise regimen to control it...

    • @kenzih2027
      @kenzih2027 3 года назад +1

      Me too 🤣🤣

  • @kkdd6413
    @kkdd6413 Год назад +26

    My father always had executive type jobs and managing director of some very well known advertising agencies. He was english and very proper. I have never forgotten that he was between jobs and could not find employment in his normal field. At 49 years of age he took a job digging ditches for the water board. It was well outside his comfort zone but he did it willingly in order to put food on the table and pay the mortgage. Taught me a valuable lesson as a child. You do what you have to do and there is no job that is beneath us

    • @kimberleysmith818
      @kimberleysmith818 Год назад +1

      My dad was educated and skilled however, when I was a baby he took up a sales job which he hated to be around for mum and me. He then lost a job in sales and so he he dug holes for a living to support his wife and baby (me).
      He ended up going back to working at sea which meant be away for months on end which was hard on my mum but earned the money.

    • @ukmassive2544
      @ukmassive2544 10 месяцев назад

      What a mong.

    • @ukmassive2544
      @ukmassive2544 10 месяцев назад +1

      Thats just a tactic smart people tell poor people. You never hear " My father lost his job digging holes and now he's CEO of a company for a year till he gets his old job back".

    • @andrewfulton3435
      @andrewfulton3435 9 месяцев назад

      @@ukmassive2544????

  • @ellemorgan1331
    @ellemorgan1331 3 года назад +57

    I’ve been out of work due to lone parent and ill health, I decided to do what I’ve always wanted, which is to be a solicitor/barrister.
    I’m about to begin my 2nd year of my law degree.
    You have to work hard to get what you want..

    • @sanfordcurtis8242
      @sanfordcurtis8242 3 года назад +3

      I’m on my training contract at the moment. Go for it!

    • @SpeccyMan
      @SpeccyMan 2 года назад +1

      ​@Jambo M Shut it, Mr. Pointless.

    • @MrTrolololol101
      @MrTrolololol101 Месяц назад

      Trolololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololol

  • @Prostyla100
    @Prostyla100 3 года назад +81

    On a positive, I admire Fairy Job Mother. You can see pride in her eyes. Genuine Article.

    • @gilllarr9285
      @gilllarr9285 Год назад

      Even when she worked for A4e she should of gone down with the rest of them.

    • @philpants44
      @philpants44 Год назад +1

      @@gilllarr9285 melt

  • @bigb853
    @bigb853 3 года назад +216

    "I have the right to choose what I want to do in life.." Yes lovey, you do and I as the tax payer have the right to not fund you! Fund your own purpose.

    • @cmarq817
      @cmarq817 3 года назад +11

      What I wanted to do in my life: read books and get paid for doing that … 🤓

    • @leannemilne1975
      @leannemilne1975 3 года назад +3

      @@cmarq817 same!

    • @cmarq817
      @cmarq817 3 года назад +1

      @@leannemilne1975 : 😄

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 3 года назад +9

      @ Big B, but you don’t have the right not to fund them. If you work, you pay tax.

    • @bigb853
      @bigb853 3 года назад +3

      @@hangsambo12 I am going to guess you are unemployed and live on benefits.

  • @JJ-oc5wz
    @JJ-oc5wz 3 года назад +204

    For some unknown reasons i enjoy watching this type of series ✋🤡

    • @mattmont1247
      @mattmont1247 3 года назад +18

      you get hooked after watching just one of these shows.

    • @KuiWagacha
      @KuiWagacha 3 года назад +21

      It's being an observer of Life isn't it? Especially pockets of Life that aren't too familiar. I defend my addiction to these shows by nodding wisely and saying "Everything is a learning experience!"

    • @oscargrainger2962
      @oscargrainger2962 3 года назад +12

      It’s called poverty porn. I think humans like to see other people struggle. It’s not a criticism it’s human nature.

    • @bnhyg150
      @bnhyg150 3 года назад +7

      Out of all these benefit documentarys this series is the best as the people are helped get work and given the opportunity and confidence.

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 3 года назад +6

      🙂 It's a mystery to me. Most of the people on these shows annoy the beejeebees out of me......yet I watch the ruddy things regardless.

  • @vickiesmith3021
    @vickiesmith3021 3 года назад +97

    Wow I'm so proud of all of them. Good on Dave for getting a job after the show!

  • @gaynorbrown631
    @gaynorbrown631 3 года назад +65

    I left my job. as it was awful, but I had to pay the rent. so I went to a pub for a drink, and said give me a job and they did. pride don't pay the bills x

    • @gemmamaymiller
      @gemmamaymiller 3 года назад +4

      Good on you!

    • @femby397
      @femby397 2 года назад +4

      This is an old comment but I hope you’re enjoying your new job and everything’s going well :)

    • @cheshirecat1212
      @cheshirecat1212 7 месяцев назад

      Good for you, but you know you’re just lucky. Like, rocking up and asking is barely enough to get an interview, let a lone a job.

    • @MJ37382
      @MJ37382 Месяц назад +1

      Drinking already scarce money doesn’t help pay the bills either.

  • @PrivateEye121
    @PrivateEye121 2 года назад +14

    These programs are a good reminder when your watching on your time off work.
    Makes you work that little bit harder when you go back.

  • @skaterjason91
    @skaterjason91 3 года назад +162

    Dave is literally Jim Royle 😂😂😂

  • @maccoll3644
    @maccoll3644 3 года назад +121

    It's really sad to see how things have gone down-hill during my lifetime. I feel a lot of sympathy for these people who have totally lost their self-confidence and connection with the world of employment.

    • @suilvenmountain2395
      @suilvenmountain2395 2 года назад +1

      I feel no sympathy for any ofthem.self entitled whiners who want shooting

    • @suilvenmountain2395
      @suilvenmountain2395 2 года назад +12

      they are lazy

    • @lozzylols
      @lozzylols 2 года назад +11

      I think more courses and support needs to be put in place for those who don't have the confidence and in an environment where they don't feel bad for saying they are struggling.

    • @firebyrd437
      @firebyrd437 2 года назад +3

      It is sad, once unemploymend apathy and low esteem kicks in, doing a job you hate is just as bad, however this woman and the series producer are merely exploiting these people as well, reality TV sucks

    • @mrjackelbox4418
      @mrjackelbox4418 2 года назад +5

      @@suilvenmountain2395 so the mother dying or the alcoholism or the anxiety doesn't matter? Wow you must be a real tough person too look passed all that huh?

  • @lucyluna3361
    @lucyluna3361 Год назад +13

    The fact that they're all happy for each other at the end 😊.... It was a good episode 😊

  • @gavintimson5940
    @gavintimson5940 2 года назад +25

    It just goes to show that anyone can get a job with the right training . I was quite impressed with how they were really trying to get work

    • @C_0_D_E1
      @C_0_D_E1 2 года назад +6

      Agreed, I think the only problem is actually getting that 'right training' has become far more difficult nowadays.

  • @gillianbrookwell1678
    @gillianbrookwell1678 3 года назад +112

    Dave reminds me of Jim Royle from that series the Royle Family.

  • @collinslfc
    @collinslfc 2 года назад +45

    Dave should do work as a Jim Royle impressionist because he could earn a fortune.

  • @ProjectCreativityGuy96
    @ProjectCreativityGuy96 2 месяца назад +2

    I find this lady pretty empowering, empathetic, and motivating!
    She's very clever! 😊

  • @Mr31261
    @Mr31261 2 года назад +24

    I’ve been on benefits once in my life for a year it nearly destroyed me and I made sure it never happened again so to be stuck in that situation for years must be soul destroying

    • @philpants44
      @philpants44 Год назад +1

      i did benefits for bout a year two. then actually decided to look for work, surprise surprise i a had a job a week or so later. if its "soul destroying" they know what they can do...

  • @Eitner100
    @Eitner100 3 года назад +50

    Hayley is a gorgeous strong and above all sensitive woman.

    • @hihowareyouthen
      @hihowareyouthen 3 года назад +8

      Pfft, she is complicit in a rotten system. She has nothing to be proud of.

    • @georginacat7667
      @georginacat7667 3 года назад

      @@hihowareyouthen what's rotten about it?

    • @corinatsan
      @corinatsan 3 года назад +1

      @@hihowareyouthen you sounds jobless

    • @sponish0
      @sponish0 2 года назад +2

      @@hihowareyouthen what you want her to do? riot? refuse to work?

    • @philpants44
      @philpants44 Год назад

      @@hihowareyouthen lol! no she was doing a job behave XD

  • @paulowens4744
    @paulowens4744 Год назад +3

    Don’t give up folks. It is amazing how quick things can change.
    Like the guy says “you can’t go back, only forward!”

  • @judyjude
    @judyjude 3 года назад +58

    the difference in louise's selfconfidence came through so much. first, watching her walking down the strets or smoking, she seemed so tense, nervous and lacked confidence. Very hearthwarming to see someone young starting to believe in themselves. Hope she is doing well still

    • @ingridakerblom7577
      @ingridakerblom7577 Год назад

      Yeah I had a girl like her in my class.. she would blush immediately if someone even looked at her..
      She became terrible narcissistic instead..😅

  • @sharrone32
    @sharrone32 3 года назад +26

    Dates so arrogant he fell straight on his face during the practice interview infront of the mayor of Liverpool, making him look like he wasn't interested

  • @reganlee083
    @reganlee083 Год назад +19

    I relate to Louise, I'm autistic and I'm on benefits, I do photography as a hobby and im volunteering in photography courses & events. When Louise was having a breakdown behind the till, it literally felt like looking in the mirror, but for me it gets to the point where I can't breath properly and have severe panic attacks, or I shut down, so I can't talk to anybody if I'm in a stress situation...I'm gaining confidence but it will take a while...😕🤞

  • @samanthasmile8150
    @samanthasmile8150 2 года назад +43

    Underneath Dave’s bluster is a man with no confidence x

    • @arnoldarnold4944
      @arnoldarnold4944 9 месяцев назад +1

      No intentions!

    • @WinstonBuford
      @WinstonBuford 9 месяцев назад

      i think he does have lots of confidence. I just dont think he can see it.

    • @Maisiewuppp
      @Maisiewuppp 9 месяцев назад

      He‘s just a lazy git.

  • @chloeelizabeth2174
    @chloeelizabeth2174 Год назад +3

    Alex’s situation is sad, Grief affects people in different ways and it can affect all aspects of life. I’ve been there my self.

  • @rectify2003
    @rectify2003 2 года назад +3

    What a lovely group of people on Benefits and such a kind caring panel of important people.
    They are all so loveable

  • @Midnightconfessional
    @Midnightconfessional Месяц назад +1

    Really want hayley to come back and do another series!! This is great

  • @rhysmyatt5136
    @rhysmyatt5136 2 года назад +19

    Dave reminds me of my 'step dad' never worked, always blames others, never wants to change or to try.

  • @bigb853
    @bigb853 3 года назад +15

    Aw I really felt for her, she was soooo anxious and lacked any confidence. She needs to gain confidence and self believe.

    • @MrHunniebunnie
      @MrHunniebunnie 3 года назад +3

      I know. Customer facing roles aren’t for everyone. It’s not something I’d enjoy tbh.

    • @ellebelle8830
      @ellebelle8830 Год назад +1

      To be honest you can’t really blame her either , with a father like that. I doubt she’s had any encouragement or uplifting

  • @joannegrunwell5553
    @joannegrunwell5553 3 года назад +56

    Take away the ignorant 53 years old benefits and then watch him work.

    • @mattbritz5066
      @mattbritz5066 Год назад +1

      Exactly. Only reason he isn't is because they give him free money

    • @philpants44
      @philpants44 Год назад

      im not convinced even that would do it! and if he did do anythin i rekon it'd be cash in hand style.

    • @davidplaysriffs
      @davidplaysriffs 6 месяцев назад

      He probably earns £1.80 an hour on benefits when he could be working and earning more. Just plain laziness.

  • @kiarafrey3543
    @kiarafrey3543 3 года назад +19

    Why did they even let Dave get this opportunity when he clearly doesn’t seem to appreciate it or want it???

    • @AussieZeKieL
      @AussieZeKieL 3 года назад +1

      It’s more for the 3 young adults

  • @renegaudes3076
    @renegaudes3076 3 года назад +22

    That Dave guy! What a caracter.
    'I have the right to choose what I want'. And I choose not to work...
    It is very simple. Yes! You are free to choose what you want. But you are not free from the consequenses of what you choose.
    So...
    You don't work, you don't eat!

  • @loonylinda
    @loonylinda 2 года назад +6

    That was amazing so pleased for them all and Hayley was so dedicated to them. a few tears at the end for me.. well done all!

  • @IwasBlueb4
    @IwasBlueb4 3 года назад +30

    Although I find her overly strict, sometimes, she really does care...and when they get a job, her eyes fill up with real tears...

    • @TetraDizzle
      @TetraDizzle 2 года назад +3

      There is one series she was calling people on jobseekers scroungers, she took her "group" down to the local jobcentre and said "look at this lot you wanna be like them" she was totally disgusting, rude and even sometimes quite verbally violent

    • @Horriblebastad
      @Horriblebastad 2 года назад +1

      Tears of joy thinking of her bonuses

    • @juliet7703
      @juliet7703 2 года назад

      @@Horriblebastad 😅

    • @dansanders2002
      @dansanders2002 2 года назад +1

      @@TetraDizzle yeah she was awful in that but I like her a lot in this. This is exactly what people like Dave need. You can't go in there and be nice to these people because they have had laziness integrated into their life since they were born

    • @C_0_D_E1
      @C_0_D_E1 2 года назад

      @@TetraDizzle Almost like she was pushing a Conservative agenda

  • @joshswain6495
    @joshswain6495 2 месяца назад +1

    I left school at 16, got a job in a factory for a year, then McDonald's for 3 1/2 years. I then left and got another job in a food factory, now im 24 and im a full-time forklift driver and am so happy with what i do cause ive worked hard to get there. I've never not got a job ive gone for, i believe its because of the way you present yourself, progression and experience is key!

  • @kathrynmacmillan1361
    @kathrynmacmillan1361 3 года назад +102

    So Dave’s solution is to increase hardworking people’s taxes so that he will be able to claim more benefits. I hope after this episode that either all of his benefits were stopped or a viewer ‘talked’ some sense into him.

    • @jamesrg.1993
      @jamesrg.1993 2 года назад +4

      He had a job by the end of it...

    • @sponish0
      @sponish0 2 года назад +5

      IKR "make working people give me more of there money"

    • @gilllarr9285
      @gilllarr9285 Год назад

      MP’s dodge their taxes so I don’t see what’s wrong with it.

    • @fredmercury1314
      @fredmercury1314 11 месяцев назад +1

      Two years later and there are even more Daves in Britain.

    • @snowpz
      @snowpz 11 месяцев назад

      They don't want to hear that they just want to bash him and people on benefits because they're ignorant to how their money is actually squandered @@jamesrg.1993

  • @jeffreygoggin2849
    @jeffreygoggin2849 Год назад +8

    My wife is 65 year old and she is still working houses cleaning

  • @Mrs.Cochrane
    @Mrs.Cochrane 2 года назад +3

    Having being someone who’s always worked and also on the flip side no working for a short time due to leaving a job , I was without a job for 1 week and a couple days before a local shopkeeper offered me a job till something better came along and that did happen.
    My point is work hard , and the people who can help will see that you’re a work horse and have the sheer strength and determination to face anything in the working world. Every days a school day and you’ve got to be able to adapt and change to suit demand

  • @gemmamaymiller
    @gemmamaymiller 3 года назад +57

    How dare he suggest putting taxes up so that we (the tax payer) can continue to fund people who don’t WANT to get jobs. Disgraceful. 20-40% of my earnings I don’t even see a penny of, and this is the thanks you get from people like him 🤦🏽‍♀️ the problem is it’s just way too easy for people to play the system. The benefits system was designed for people who actually need help, how on earth did we get to a point where people can just choose to not contribute towards society but just reap all the benefits (literally). Mind blowing 🤯

    • @frankmangan2113
      @frankmangan2113 3 года назад +2

      You are off you're head there is no money in benefits just misery..get a life and come down from you're high horse 🐫

    • @ThatsWhtasUp
      @ThatsWhtasUp 2 года назад +1

      Lol go cry i dnt work and never will cuz im rich aff

    • @gilllarr9285
      @gilllarr9285 Год назад +4

      We fund members of Parliament fiddling theirs

    • @sponish0
      @sponish0 Год назад

      @@ThatsWhtasUp i myself don't work because im prince harry, go cry

    • @ThatsWhtasUp
      @ThatsWhtasUp Год назад

      @@sponish0 nice its been a year and still paid no tax or had a job 🤣😂😂🤣

  • @animegirl4595
    @animegirl4595 3 года назад +30

    Reminds me of supernanny for the unemployed

  • @Crimsonhaha
    @Crimsonhaha 2 года назад +19

    Dave is hilarious
    The tutor in this series is such a lovely woman i hope she is well x

    • @jennawalden8547
      @jennawalden8547 Год назад +5

      He reminds me of Jim Royall 😂

    • @gilllarr9285
      @gilllarr9285 Год назад +1

      @@jennawalden8547 MY ARSE 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @gaz8177
    @gaz8177 3 года назад +68

    “ there is jobs out there “ …… “ my arsssseeeeeee “ cracked me up lmao 🤣

  • @cosmic25sheep
    @cosmic25sheep 2 года назад +15

    Well done 👏 everyone on getting jobs. They came a long way in a short space of time.

    • @Nitrogenoxidegorillas
      @Nitrogenoxidegorillas Год назад +3

      I bet some quit after the show

    • @philpants44
      @philpants44 Год назад

      @@Nitrogenoxidegorillas probably. you often hear somewhere down the line these people who were desperate to work quite like under a month later

  • @j123web6
    @j123web6 2 года назад +16

    This is the funniest/saddest thing I’ve watched in a long time. I know these episodes are old and I really hope all these people got to where they wanted to be.

    • @philpants44
      @philpants44 Год назад

      i think some of em (one in particular) was already there! but i hope they've proved me wrong.

  • @vj5691
    @vj5691 2 месяца назад

    This is such a great and motivational show! Love the lady who mentors them. She’s so passionate and empathetic too. In tears watching people getting their first chance or being able to rejoin :)

  • @erikamimimallavalli1623
    @erikamimimallavalli1623 3 года назад +12

    Why do those people living on benefits look same all over the world? I'm from Germany and there are hundreds of Daves walking around here.

    • @HO-bndk
      @HO-bndk 3 года назад +6

      Years of cigarettes, booze, gorging on shit food, total lack of exercise...and voila you get a Dave!

  • @JRO-zz9lv
    @JRO-zz9lv 3 года назад +3

    A kiss from 🇧🇷 to the fairy jobmother. She is helping me a lot.

  • @stevenhull5025
    @stevenhull5025 2 года назад +4

    Update on my comment below. Respect for these four unemployed for their efforts in changing their circumstances. They can be proud of themselves for taking those first steps on their journey to a better life. They have proved beyond any doubt people living on benefits can, with determination and purpose, regain their confidence and self worth.

  • @lisalisa948
    @lisalisa948 2 года назад +3

    Such a difference in people she helps. Amazing

  • @stevefrost64
    @stevefrost64 2 года назад +3

    I'm in my third year of running my own business. It's not an easy ride, but I'm now starting to see results.

  • @kdp8133
    @kdp8133 3 года назад +38

    Dave, blaming Thatcher for his failures. No mate, it's up to you how you get on in your life......

    • @StepHanie-fb9nn
      @StepHanie-fb9nn 3 года назад +4

      Totally. People love to be stuck in the past rather than getting on with reality which means: you‘re not involved in politics, just get up and suck it up or get an education and suck it up. Nobody ever said; it was so great before WWII…

    • @elenawilliams32
      @elenawilliams32 3 года назад +1

      Any excuse will do.

    • @leedsman54
      @leedsman54 2 года назад +2

      Mrs.T gave the country a kick up the backside that it badly needed.

  • @barrybibb1329
    @barrybibb1329 3 года назад +28

    Live like a bum, blame Maggie Thatcher. On loop, again and again. Accountability isn’t an option for these people.

    • @SpeccyMan
      @SpeccyMan 2 года назад

      Quite clearly you didn't watch the full show so you are in no position to make a comment! Your options are far more limited due to your lack of decency and common sense!

    • @barrybibb1329
      @barrybibb1329 2 года назад +3

      @@SpeccyMan Acknowledged. Appreciate the feedback, Nick. You have a lovely day x

  • @alienstuff
    @alienstuff 3 года назад +84

    dont want to clean a car in basic british weather, honestly... youve got a future cold coming on that isn't here yet, and its getting colder... thats life! people don't want to work and when they get a chance given to them they moan like a child. its a job ffs.. i clean toilets offices etc full time and go home shattered to my kids with a feeling of safety and security! never moan about my job because i would be in the shit without it literally, Love my job, you need to have a positive mind set and want to better yourself, moaning really isn't worth it! Life is too short, immigrants are not taking your jobs maybe you just need to apply!

    • @marshnn
      @marshnn 3 года назад +8

      Lazy sods they always have an excuse

    • @coreyandersson1786
      @coreyandersson1786 3 года назад +6

      but they are taking our tax money

    • @daviniarobbins9298
      @daviniarobbins9298 3 года назад +3

      I wouldn't work for zero pay. If I am going to be cleaning cars for 8 hours I want £70 for my troubles otherwise am not doing it.

    • @alienstuff
      @alienstuff 3 года назад +7

      ​@@daviniarobbins9298 i wouldnt either but they are doing it for the show, its one shift, to show them, what they could be doing instead! and to help with confidence and self esteem! i wouldn't pay someone who couldn't bothered to clean my car either tbh, but if its your job you have no choice! you wouldnt act like this on a real job, just showing they cant be bothered, not the young girl, fair play to her shes trying!

    • @StepHanie-fb9nn
      @StepHanie-fb9nn 3 года назад +3

      You go gurl 🙌🏻💪🏻☺️

  • @stormy8427
    @stormy8427 3 года назад +18

    Think Dave is scared most of all. He has confidence, but he is also aware of society rapidly changing, and that he has not much formal qualifications, lots of humor. Hope it will work out for him. Louise is a sweet, sweet girl, that needs her dad's full support as a grown man.Sue is so brave!! She will make it, for herself and her daughter. Last, but not least, Alex is a diamond.
    The employer who gets him, is lucky!

    • @luckygirl7310
      @luckygirl7310 3 года назад +1

      They all have good qualities to s8me extent. Dave should be a stand up comedian.

  • @wotintheworld
    @wotintheworld Год назад +2

    I worked with a fella, they said he couldn't get another job elsewhere to build his hours up as he can't handle it.
    I disagreed and started to really build him up in confidence, well done for applying man. A few pats on the backs and "you should be proud of yourself" when he went to interviews and he did get more employment. Amazing what a bit of support and building confidence can do.

  • @annadawn921
    @annadawn921 3 года назад +31

    Most unlikeable family I have seen on this so far. Hayley and her neck scalves held it together well.

    • @missceebrownin
      @missceebrownin 3 года назад +2

      She rocks those neck scarves!!! 😂😂😂

    • @katie6384
      @katie6384 2 года назад +2

      They're not one family in this episode - one Dave and Louise are related

  • @jonnyarmstrong6563
    @jonnyarmstrong6563 11 месяцев назад

    I think this is an educational programme, it documents the reality of the variety of different reasons why a person doesn't have a job, there was someone who does need to take responsibility first and foremost, someone who was influenced by a parent in a negative way and needed to generally build confidence, and someone who'd been set back by bereavement and grief.

  • @mistofoles
    @mistofoles 2 года назад +5

    Yes, it's disappointing being rejected, I've been there - But no point in beating your head against the wall...If one place says no move straight on to the next an so on till you find employment.

  • @user-ec9rz7xh7e
    @user-ec9rz7xh7e 5 месяцев назад

    I’m so proud of Louise. Bless her it was so nice to see her become more confident ❤

  • @aishamohammad
    @aishamohammad 3 года назад +7

    This programme is so inspiring.

  • @MrVee24
    @MrVee24 2 года назад +16

    Daves attitude is his problem.
    You can't help those who don't want 2b helped.

    • @jaykaye7025
      @jaykaye7025 Год назад

      I bet he earns well and has his holidays abroad

  • @stephenord3403
    @stephenord3403 2 года назад +3

    I'm nearly 66 and still working. Struggle sometimes, emphysema and arthritis but I just get on it. Oh, started work at 15. Coal miner then construction

  • @touraneindanke
    @touraneindanke Год назад +2

    I am a pensioner now…
    Done all kind of things…
    Had to get to 59 years of age to finally get the best of my jobs ever….
    What an stunning way to end my working life 💪💪💪💪
    I know i was lucky yeah….
    But to everyone looking for something…
    THE BEST OFF LUCK 🙏🏽❤️

    • @chrissmith6535
      @chrissmith6535 6 месяцев назад

      So let me get this straight were expected to work till 70 for a state pension unless you have another one started which most folk do ,and people who don't wanna work or can't be arsed get through life easy ? This country has gone to bollocks

  • @annahollander111
    @annahollander111 2 года назад +4

    The lady mayor was so supportive!

  • @Vlad-bu3mr
    @Vlad-bu3mr Год назад +1

    the small tie was amazing!

  • @deborahclarke1875
    @deborahclarke1875 3 года назад +32

    Dad reminds me of the dad in the Royal Family, actor Ricky Tomlinson.!

  • @juliewills8034
    @juliewills8034 Год назад +6

    Dave deserves to have his benefits stopped as he is not interested in looking for work.

  • @hsk-jm6kh
    @hsk-jm6kh 2 года назад +3

    Dave sounds like Jim royale lol! You can just imagine him bonded to an old crusty sofa all day shouting 'Barb' 🤣😂

  • @richardwitherow5289
    @richardwitherow5289 Год назад +2

    I loathed Dave for the first part of the video, but warmed to him. He's actually a really nice guy.

  • @pb89905
    @pb89905 3 года назад +4

    There was some controversial things said in this document however, all of you have found your way out from the benefit system... well done you all!

  • @lindadoughty4824
    @lindadoughty4824 Год назад +2

    That is the most horrifying degrading thing ,, having them stand shouting they want a job ,,, just as degrading as the sandwich board

  • @fullspeedaheadbarcelona6502
    @fullspeedaheadbarcelona6502 3 года назад +16

    “He wants shooting that Prime Minister” 😂

  • @JRO-zz9lv
    @JRO-zz9lv 3 года назад +2

    The job at the Garden Center is going to be a healing place for her, i have no doubt she Will Love It and grow a lot there. Happiness is our destiny! ❤️ 🥳 I wish i could work in a Garden Center !😘

  • @lipvandip6480
    @lipvandip6480 2 года назад +8

    I wonder if he realises there's no human right to get free money 🤣

  • @chloeelizabeth2174
    @chloeelizabeth2174 Год назад +2

    Though glad Dave turned changed his ways and sorted his drink problem out ❤

  • @HardwareHQ
    @HardwareHQ 2 года назад +3

    They sanctioned me a couple of years ago for a full year and I was left with nothing eligible for 0.00 for a full year it left me short on rent short on money for bills and if it wasn't for family and friends I would have been totally screwed. The DWP is putting drastic changes against claimants via sanctions. I rang them about it many times and they would give me a hardship loan of 70.00 pounds per month I had to pay back. I battled them for months after losing over 2k in benefits they gave me around 500 back when I reported them to the local MP. It was not a nice time I had things to buy and bills and to pay I had to move from the home I lived in due to it.

  • @melmel8606
    @melmel8606 9 месяцев назад +1

    This is pure gold ✨️

  • @frankiefranklin9761
    @frankiefranklin9761 Год назад +3

    ....her job search only takes an hour?! It's taken me longer than that to fill out ONE application form.

    • @sarataylor6420
      @sarataylor6420 Год назад

      It took me 4-6hrs to fill out the application form for the job I interviewed 17.10.23 - it was more than worth it as I got the job.

    • @WythenshawePhil
      @WythenshawePhil Год назад

      ​@@sarataylor6420What was the job?

  • @mikeztaylor3640
    @mikeztaylor3640 Год назад +2

    What Hayley and the job agency do for these people is amazing.

  • @SuperSenida
    @SuperSenida 3 года назад +25

    Doesn't want to wash cars and do hard physical work?!
    Mate, do you have the skills to be a lawyer? Doctor? Engineer? Teacher? Businessperson?
    Nope!
    Proceed with washing cars.

    • @nifralo2752
      @nifralo2752 2 года назад

      Doctors to physical work.

    • @SuperSenida
      @SuperSenida 2 года назад +2

      @@nifralo2752 Agree. Which is the point. People like this will find any excuse 🙄

  • @shinra6913
    @shinra6913 2 года назад

    i was a full time carer for my disabled mom for 5 years until she passed. took another 6 months of trying and failing to get into work until a charity run hospitality course helped me get into working at starbucks. it can be hard to find work when you have a several year gap but you have to make the effort. if your not willing to make an effort and don't have a good reason to be off work you deserve the minimum benefits.

  • @louisemerriman1079
    @louisemerriman1079 Год назад +3

    If I was skint and I couldnt feed my child I'd scrub them cars all bloody day

  • @EmilyThinks
    @EmilyThinks Год назад +2

    I don't know how the comparison hasn't already been made, but god Dave is a real life caricature of Jim Royle!

  • @ninoid51
    @ninoid51 Год назад +3

    Dave is the real life Jim from 'The Royle Family'

  • @francesmckee68
    @francesmckee68 9 месяцев назад +2

    I hope Louise does well she was so nervous x

  • @twinkd6363
    @twinkd6363 2 года назад +3

    I lost my job halfway through the 1st lockdown and i still found a new job 2 days later...there is no excuse but thease people seem to find them left right n centre..just stop the money make them get a job

  • @NoContextRDH
    @NoContextRDH 8 месяцев назад

    29:06 is Dave’s definition of trying his best