First story; I would have told the mom that since she hates the cooking so much. I (OP) would never cook anything for her ever again. If she wanted food then she either has to buy crappy store made/bought food or make her own damn meals
There's a couple of toxic mothers there that should lose all contact with their kid. Just because they are your parents doesn't mean you have to have anything to do with them once you're able to leave that toxic environment.
Story 1: I would make a point of serving everyone at the table EXCEPT mom, even giving her an empty plate. If she keeps complaining, she doesn't get any. If she complains she doesn't get any, suggest a local fast food place and GTFO of my house.
I wouldn't do that, I'd just go ahead and serve her something prepackaged (Lean Cuisine, Hungryman etc.) that I tossed in the microwave while everyone else is getting what I cooked... When she complains, I'd simply look her in the eye and say you always bitch and complain about my cooking while still expecting to get some of it and I'm not putting up with your Hipocrasy anymore so since you can't seem to appreciate my cooking, you don't get my cooking. If you don't want a TV Dinner, the solution is simple. Cook something yourself and bring it with you or don't come here for dinner...
Story 1: If you have to go through all that to get support from a parent, it’s just not worth it. I have to wonder how many other ways has OP’s mother tried to crush her dreams.
@@riley6740 I’m sorry to hear this. I hope you’ve been able to find support and encouragement from other sources. More and more, I realize how lucky I was to have two parents who gave me the chance to try different things, even if those things didn’t make sense to them at the time.
Wedding: from what I understand is that a wedding ceremony is just that a ceremony and isn't required by any law as far as I know of, actually all you need is the paperwork and nothing more.
Yup! I believe a non-Church Marriage is called a Civil Union and it can be just as elaborate and expensive as a Church service or it can be as cheap and simple as the 2 people getting Married, 2 Witnesses and a Justice of the Peace to officiate, everyone signs the Marriage Document, a small fee is paid and boom, they're Married...
A wedding ceremony is/was a way to officially notify relatives and friends that this couple are serious about each other (and in older times and societies, intending to have offspring and raise them). Makes it official in their community. Civil ceremonies are for those who just want the legally binding contract notarized (as people moved into cities and left clans/villages/communities behind). Because a lot of weddings are surrounded in various countries by certain religious practices, it's become customary to have them in churches, temples or similar settings. Everything else has simply been added on, because who doesn't need an excuse to feast and drink? Even funerals in some places are regarded as such an event to toast the departed and socialize. Sometimes the ceremonies are officiated by the family elders (who probably had a hand in arranging the marriage). It's not really "just a ceremony" but a way of marking a particular milestone in a couple's life.
I heard the last one before although in the other Version, it turned that OP and the General (who was mentioned once) were actually close(I think OP was his assistant or whatever that Military term is, at one point) And he wasn't happy about what the LTC done.
Where I live that’s called a courthouse wedding! One of my sisters did that! A lot cheaper and quicker! A few witnesses and then we all went out to a restaurant called Red Robin for dinner! 😂
The first one I’d have told her then go out and get fast food or cook yourself but you won’t ever eat MY food while everyone else eats in front of her.
I did that to my roommates when I was in my 20s ad taking culinary classes it was awesome even took it a step further when our boss(we all worked the same night job) gave me permission to sale plates at work. Then I caught him hiding eating a plate he paid someone to buy from me for him. The other roommates gave him hell for a few years when he asked me to make certain dishes.
@@samantajones6534 yea I did that to my ex one time. He always said I can’t cook blah blah so one nite I made my own dinner and when he asked where his was I told him I guess you’ll have to make your own since, in your own words, I can’t cook. He looked at me and said you’re gonna make me starve? I said no since you’re the only one that can cook knock yourself out. He never said that again lol. He didn’t eat that nite either since he didn’t make himself anything.
@@samantajones6534 My one ex used to work in several 4-star restaurants. His favorite food ON EARTH was my fried chicken. He would pout like an enormous baby (he's 6'10"...) if I didn't make it. Actually still asks me to make it on the rare occasion he's in town...
Second one...I don't have any comments about the story since I am sure there is a LOT more to all of the stories given and it doesn't seem like we know enough to comment. I hope the original poster happens to be here and read this because she/he needs to let go of the angst and hate that is building inside them, it will only increase and eat you alive. Don't misunderstand me, don't forget what has happened, but forgiving and letting go of the negative emotions associated with the events, will allow your heart to heal. I recommend reading in the Psalms, they are amazing! IMHO.
The first one, the chef in training...another prospective, mine: she wasn't doubting you, she wasn't trying to be mean, she was trying to protect you. As a mother, we worry that our children (especially girls) won't be able to support themselves and have to live a life like we have lived, a constant struggle (that's my reasoning, i don't know what hers was). You try to maneuver your children into a profession where you KNOW they can take care of themselves, should the need arise. If they do get into a profession where they can take care of themselves, a HUGE burden is removed from your parents, moms especially. Just a thought, my opinion only.
Good afternoon RedWheel hope you are well. Thanks for sharing your stories everyday. Please stay safe.🏴😷😁👍. Have a great day and a wonderful week ahead everyone
Chef OP should not have been looking for approval from her mother , she has so many others telling her she is a good cook , that should be enough . i admit i do the same thing with my husband although he loves everything i cook anyways .
First story; I would have told the mom that since she hates the cooking so much. I (OP) would never cook anything for her ever again. If she wanted food then she either has to buy crappy store made/bought food or make her own damn meals
There's a couple of toxic mothers there that should lose all contact with their kid. Just because they are your parents doesn't mean you have to have anything to do with them once you're able to leave that toxic environment.
The first time she had complained about my cooling, I wouldn't have ever fed her again.
Yup. Start as you mean to go on.
Yes, don't throw pearls before swine, Mom or no mom.
The mother in that first story is a Next Level vindictive narcissist! Like seriously wtf!?
Story 1 - I would never cook another thing for that woman
Story 1: I would make a point of serving everyone at the table EXCEPT mom, even giving her an empty plate. If she keeps complaining, she doesn't get any. If she complains she doesn't get any, suggest a local fast food place and GTFO of my house.
I wouldn't do that, I'd just go ahead and serve her something prepackaged (Lean Cuisine, Hungryman etc.) that I tossed in the microwave while everyone else is getting what I cooked...
When she complains, I'd simply look her in the eye and say you always bitch and complain about my cooking while still expecting to get some of it and I'm not putting up with your Hipocrasy anymore so since you can't seem to appreciate my cooking, you don't get my cooking. If you don't want a TV Dinner, the solution is simple. Cook something yourself and bring it with you or don't come here for dinner...
Story 1: If you have to go through all that to get support from a parent, it’s just not worth it. I have to wonder how many other ways has OP’s mother tried to crush her dreams.
I had one such parent. Really messed up my life.
@@riley6740 I’m sorry to hear this. I hope you’ve been able to find support and encouragement from other sources. More and more, I realize how lucky I was to have two parents who gave me the chance to try different things, even if those things didn’t make sense to them at the time.
Last story, would have totally made him feel like a butt, saying "don't worry, I moved my wife so your driver won't be bothered"
On that 1st story, just don't feed her. I hate people like that. That 2nd story, I would have walked away from the mother.
That last one KILLED me! 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
About the first story my dear RedWheel, your comment is really to the point and shows how a fair and generous man you are.👏😘
That first story. At family gatherings, OP should serve everyone but her mom and tell her she can fix her own dinner, since my cooking is so terrible.
First story, I have the opposite problem. Mom won’t complain about anything I cook. Even if it’s horrible.
LOVED that last story 🤣 Bravo op! 👏
Wedding: from what I understand is that a wedding ceremony is just that a ceremony and isn't required by any law as far as I know of, actually all you need is the paperwork and nothing more.
Yup! I believe a non-Church Marriage is called a Civil Union and it can be just as elaborate and expensive as a Church service or it can be as cheap and simple as the 2 people getting Married, 2 Witnesses and a Justice of the Peace to officiate, everyone signs the Marriage Document, a small fee is paid and boom, they're Married...
A wedding ceremony is/was a way to officially notify relatives and friends that this couple are serious about each other (and in older times and societies, intending to have offspring and raise them). Makes it official in their community. Civil ceremonies are for those who just want the legally binding contract notarized (as people moved into cities and left clans/villages/communities behind). Because a lot of weddings are surrounded in various countries by certain religious practices, it's become customary to have them in churches, temples or similar settings. Everything else has simply been added on, because who doesn't need an excuse to feast and drink? Even funerals in some places are regarded as such an event to toast the departed and socialize. Sometimes the ceremonies are officiated by the family elders (who probably had a hand in arranging the marriage). It's not really "just a ceremony" but a way of marking a particular milestone in a couple's life.
I heard the last one before although in the other Version, it turned that OP and the General (who was mentioned once) were actually close(I think OP was his assistant or whatever that Military term is, at one point)
And he wasn't happy about what the LTC done.
Last Story . 😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🙃.
Where I live that’s called a courthouse wedding! One of my sisters did that! A lot cheaper and quicker! A few witnesses and then we all went out to a restaurant called Red Robin for dinner! 😂
God first story’s mom was infuriating
Good morning Redwheel. Thanks for the stories. Have a great day
It's too bad the title of this video spoiled the ending of the last story.
Wow! That last story was fantastic!!!!
First story: a GOOD chef? From what I can tell, I would say that you are an EXCELLENT chef.
The first one reminds me of the one video with Angry Grandpa, we’re Michael did the same exact thing
LMAO I wasn't expecting for the ending of the last history HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHGAHA
The last one wow. Turn out out to be his wife. I can not stop laffing
Why do you care if your lying mom says she doesn’t like your cooking? Stop seeking approval and put on your adult attitude and get on with your life
Great last story! Wonder how patient Karen liked her new roommate
The first one I’d have told her then go out and get fast food or cook yourself but you won’t ever eat MY food while everyone else eats in front of her.
I did that to my roommates when I was in my 20s ad taking culinary classes it was awesome even took it a step further when our boss(we all worked the same night job) gave me permission to sale plates at work. Then I caught him hiding eating a plate he paid someone to buy from me for him. The other roommates gave him hell for a few years when he asked me to make certain dishes.
@@samantajones6534 yea I did that to my ex one time. He always said I can’t cook blah blah so one nite I made my own dinner and when he asked where his was I told him I guess you’ll have to make your own since, in your own words, I can’t cook. He looked at me and said you’re gonna make me starve? I said no since you’re the only one that can cook knock yourself out. He never said that again lol. He didn’t eat that nite either since he didn’t make himself anything.
@@samantajones6534 My one ex used to work in several 4-star restaurants. His favorite food ON EARTH was my fried chicken. He would pout like an enormous baby (he's 6'10"...) if I didn't make it. Actually still asks me to make it on the rare occasion he's in town...
Second one...I don't have any comments about the story since I am sure there is a LOT more to all of the stories given and it doesn't seem like we know enough to comment. I hope the original poster happens to be here and read this because she/he needs to let go of the angst and hate that is building inside them, it will only increase and eat you alive. Don't misunderstand me, don't forget what has happened, but forgiving and letting go of the negative emotions associated with the events, will allow your heart to heal. I recommend reading in the Psalms, they are amazing! IMHO.
Don't feed her
The first one, the chef in training...another prospective, mine: she wasn't doubting you, she wasn't trying to be mean, she was trying to protect you. As a mother, we worry that our children (especially girls) won't be able to support themselves and have to live a life like we have lived, a constant struggle (that's my reasoning, i don't know what hers was). You try to maneuver your children into a profession where you KNOW they can take care of themselves, should the need arise. If they do get into a profession where they can take care of themselves, a HUGE burden is removed from your parents, moms especially. Just a thought, my opinion only.
Good afternoon RedWheel hope you are well. Thanks for sharing your stories everyday. Please stay safe.🏴😷😁👍. Have a great day and a wonderful week ahead everyone
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Chef OP should not have been looking for approval from her mother , she has so many others telling her she is a good cook , that should be enough . i admit i do the same thing with my husband although he loves everything i cook anyways .
Hello everyone and Redwheel I hope you have a great Thursday 😁😁😁👍👍👍!!
Good morning RedWheel
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Sorry redwheel, but I have heard all of these a long time ago. Wasted my time listening to them again. Please try to do better.
Good morning RedWheel thanks for the story. Have an awesome day