I’m Having A Style Crisis
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- Опубликовано: 6 июл 2024
- Have you ever had a style crisis (or identity crisis) with your fashion choices or personal style? Maybe you're having one right now! Well, if you are, don't worry, they're completely normal and I'm going to tell you what you can do when you have one and what we can learn from them.
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I had a style crisis recently so I’m making a video about it. Please feel free to leave a like, comment, hate comment or anything to help out. Thank you and I hope you enjoy the video 🤟
Your style has always been vanilla - there's isn't much to worry about. However, the content in your videos lately, could arguably be categorized as a crisis.
I don't call it a style crisis. I prefer to call it an evolution. Right now i feel like I want to move away from my preppier/minimalist style and move toward more of a grunge/punk look. Hopefully it will lead to a fusion of the two. I think the important thing is not to make a huge leap all at once. Dip your toe into different aesthetics, go into stores and try things on, stick to your budget. Trying things on is hugely underrated nowadays. Take a day to go shopping in a physical store and try as many things on as you can, but don't buy anything. It's very helpful.
Agree with you. I’m also taking my style in a more grunge direction at the moment. Slowly as you said.
@@HarryHas ayyyy, can't wait to see it. Thankfully it's a pretty economical style to get into. Black combat boots and then it's mostly just an all-black capsule wardrobe. Simplicity is key.
This may be the best advice about the topic given!
Looking fly my guy is gonna be my new catchphrase
It’s a solid one!
@@HarryHas when everybody likes what you wear that’s usually a bad sign.
@@luyolomify I agree
@@luyolomify why’s that ? I don’t get it
Makes me crack up when Harry says it
Your sense of humour kills me. Never change.
Glad you enjoy it bro
You both have the same name lol
@@Divosligo it’s actually just me on another account complimenting myself
my man is he the only fashion guy here on youtube that doesn't have to promote any products on every video he post? My man is the GOAT!!! He is the GOAT!!!
Hahaha thanks mate. 🙏
@@HarryHas My man I really love and inspired by your fashion style. Thank you for every video you've posted. Keep up inspiring others like me.
Wasnt expecting that Cbum Comparison 🤣 Cheers mate!!! I recently had a style crisis, been wearing skinnys for the entirety of my teens now Im 24 slowly transitioning to straight cut jeans, I bought slim fits and a couple of oversized shirts and I think its a good start
Hahaha thanks for watching bro. 🙏
I had that style crisis around 1 year and a half ago and I found you and other people who were doing videos like you and that helped me a lot to be more selective with my shopping habits, say goodbye to clothes that I wasnt feeling mine and change to more updated styles. Thank you, Harry.
That’s great mate. Glad to hear I could help
You’re incredible bro. So down to earth and so real. Thanks for the great content fr..
Thank you very much mate and thank you for watching 🙏
This is the first video that you upload since I subscribe (literally yesterday). That's funny! After being a kind of lost in trend in the last 3 years, I finally reconnect my style with myself and you have a big impact on this. Thank you! Cheers from Brazil
That’s great to hear and thanks for subscribing to the channel. Glad you like the content
Great video mate! I've only recently started to pay attention to what I wear. Your channel has helped me so much.
I've only just discovered your channel, but I wanted to take this opportunity to say that you have some very good content I can relate to. I love your style and the advice that comes with it. Keep up the good work mate!
Thank you very much mate. Thank you for the support too. Means a lot 🙏
You never disappoint with the content Harry ! Love your videos
Really appreciate that dude. Thanks a lot
Thank You Harry!
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My style hasn't changed for 25 years, which is in many ways a blessèd relief
Harry strikes again! Thoughtful, funny, helpful. What a joy!
Really pleased to hear that mate. Thank you
Great video as always
Thank you dude. Glad you enjoyed it and thanks for watching
Been watching you for a few months now. Great content, man. Keep it up.
Appreciate it man. Thank you 🙏
This vid was really helpful and informative. Currently going through the same thing so i could really relate to the stuffs you mentioned
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Honestly a really good video, straight facts
Thank you very much mate
The crossroads joke SENT ME, nice video!
You Change, normally every 10 years. Whether its style or other things, its part of life. In regards of style if find myself sticking to classics and a capsule wardrobe. Thanks for an again very fun vid, cheers mate
Thanks for watching mate. Times like these remind you how important timeless pieces are. I’m going to be focusing on them more going forward
You are never too old for a RUclips Channel. Keep it going bro 👍
Was just thinking to myself about this topic and magically this video drop, I call it fate
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Lookin fly my guy!
You too my guy
love the points you made mate! Super relatable and helpful. Also feel you’re a lot bigger than Chris Bumstead haha
Pleased to hear mate. Hahaha I didn’t wanna say but you are 100% right. I am an absolute beast
Awesome content keep it coming my brother.
Thanks for watching mate
nice ,important video where you try to understand style and how you fit in or don't in any given time period, what works on you or dosent work based on age,weight even the area you live in,economics of looking hip can be an issue-anyway nice video ,thanks so much,it cannot be easy coming up with different topics each week👍💚🇺🇸🇺🇦🇬🇧
Thank you for watching mate. Sometimes it can be a struggle to think of an interesting topic but I think we normally get there in the end. Have a good rest of your weekend
Looking fly my guy!
Thanks my guy
Love this Harry, very valid points 👏🏼👏🏼!! Chris Bumstead 2.0 btw 👀!!
Hahaha thank you very much dude. Thanks for watching
I’m literally now having this 😂 I’m going back to timeless pieces thing I know won’t go out of fashion and just doing me
I’m doing the same bro. 🤟
Harry, looking fly my guy
Thanks my guy! Stay fly
Looking fly, my guy!
Haha thanks my guy
Yeah when u hit 40,the "am i too old" factor is definitely a thing. I'm a 46 year old skater and am into style. Some of my peers at the park definitely need to dial it back with the baggy clothes. Skate fashion/style always evolves,but its good to find that medium to not look 16 years old when you in your late 30s to 40s. Love your videos. Always insightful and a good laugh
Thank you very much mate. Really appreciate that. 🙏
Even though I don't give a flying eff about my age and what I wear or what people tell me to wear, I do think that ageing and polishing your style go hand in hand. It's like we both mature together.
I know exactly what you mean and I agree. I think you also learn what works well for you and what you enjoy as you get older so you look more put together
I can’t believe Harry gets hate on here! Iv been around since late 2019 when I watched his mock-up GQ “10 essentials” video he made and I can honestly say he is one of the most loyal RUclipsrs who stays true to his content since his channel first started. People don’t understand everyone has their own unique style and some fits may look like others because… well that’s their style! Keep doing you Harry and thank you for being the most reliable tips/style channel there is on the platform. 👍
Really appreciate that mate and thanks for your support. Really means a lot. To be honest, most people are very positive on the channel and I think there is a really great community here but you will always get people who dont like what you do. As any channel grows so does the hate, unfortunately but it means you are doing something right I think. You also never know what’s going on the that persons life so I tend to take the negative stuff with a pinch of salt (unless it’s decent constructive criticism). Anyway, thanks again and really glad you feel that way about the channel as a long time viewer.
I love this kind of content because the insight you get from it won't just last you a given season/trend (like spring, summer, etc.); it pretty much serves you for life. That said, keep up the amazing work Harry, and I look forward to the next video :))
Really appreciate it bro. Thanks for watching and glad you enjoyed it
Hearing you talk about impulse buying...as I just spend $800 at Uniqlo last month lol.
Exactly this. Sometimes I’m more of a streetstyle guy, sometimes more the Daniel Simmons type of look. And I’m struggling all the time because I own stuff from both styles, but not the enough in either of them to wear them as I would like.
You could mix the two and create your own style?
@@HarryHas first of all thanks for your answer and lovely that you actually take your time and reply to as many comments as you can, very cool. And yeah I’ve tried it but most of the doesn’t really fit together or it’s just very unsatisfactory. Don’t know why, but right now nothings really working for me🫠
@@lucakoselj7123 I know how you are feeling. As I mentioned, I was in a similar position recently and I’ve come out the other side knowing exactly what I wanna do next. You will get there and it will all come together 🤟
I always love the humor and useful tips in your videos! Keep up the great work.
Thank you very much, Eric. Have a good Sunday
You always look fly my guy 😆, love from India 🇮🇳
I started by watching Style OG then Gentlemens Gazette then RMRS and then Harry. All have taught me new things about style and fashion. Harry's videos are fun and although not the same as my style, he explains some really good concepts likes the rule of 1/3rds
Glad to hear there is something in my videos for you mate. Thanks for watching
BRAVA!
once again "On The Money"
Kudos mate!!
Thanks mate
Harry, you’re looking fly my guy. 😎
Hahaha thank you mate
3:04 didnt know theese existed but they look really good, If i find a good deal i might buy them
i'm having a dinner crisis ! What to have !!! Can you make a video about that please ??
I’m having smoked haddock tonight but I’m aware that’s not to everyone’s taste. If you eat meat then go for a beef stir fry. Can’t go wrong with that
Time to hit em with the classic “Looking fly my guy”
wake up babe new harry has video dropped
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Well, for the first time in my life i'm ahead of the curve... I can't have a style crisis if i have No style at all.
Haha, fantastic video. As a 33 years old guy that just recently (6 months or so) started to actually pay atention to what he is wearing and fashion in general, the part where you talk about the question "am i too old to wear this?" resonated with me a lot. Very interesting, reasuring and entertaining video. Love your sense of humor hahaha.
Thank you very much bro. Glad you like the vids and cool that you are getting into fashion
I’m a little bit of a style crisis right now. I have a lot of clothes in my wardrobe that aesthetically I like, and they fit me well, and I have deliberately curated them over a period of time however they don’t match my current lifestyle very well. Which is to say, the way that I actually live my life physically, the clothes restrict me from being comfortable. I’m at a point in my life where function has to come first, form following that. Basically adapting my style to my actual life.
I get that. You can always sell them and move them on if that’s how you feel
It's funny you show a box of the onitsuka tiger, I like those and thought about getting a pair, but my cousin and her friend immediately told me not to lol idk why they look slick
I like mine a lot. A lot of people don’t like the black pair though
Hey Harry. Great content as always : )
What is the jacket you are wearing @1:26 ?
I always liked Abercrombie back in the early 2000s when I was a kid. I still love A&F to this day despite their controversy.
Had pink, red and purple hair in my 30s. Best style decision ever and no regrets, apart from the part where bleaching destroys your hair 😅
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I think Birkenstocks have been in and out of fashion forever, as when I was at Leeds uni in the 90s the "fashionistas" wore them, plus gorpcore/outdoors/hiking was in - what goes around comes around. I had a mid Life hype beast crisis, but I'm growing out of that, more minimal, sustainable, better quality, with less branding these days. Always enjoy your videos, you've got a great sense of humour.
Really glad you like the videos mate. Thanks for watching them 🙏
The previous thumbnail and title were more captivating
It didn’t seem so from the analytics
great video, felt how personal this came off and I appreciate your viewpoint/ advise thanks again for making videos like these. Been a great inspiration for me to improve and be more creative with the way I dress.
Great to hear dude. Thanks for watching
My only crisis is wishing I went out more to have fun with my style lol.
Never too late to start doing that
"Looking fly my guy" OMGGGG HAHAHAHA
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83kg what a unit! Good work bro!
😂😂😂 cheers bro. Got a long way to go still
Had the exact same issue with my thighs fitting into jeans after some gym progress, but I'm not a fan of the wide/straight fitting trousers... Recently found the "athletic fit" Abercrombie (lol) jeans, the slim fit ones i'm really happy with, fit a lot better than any Levi's I tried!
Tim Dessaint put you onto those by any chance? I saw him talking about them recently.
@@HarryHas Actually just a lot of googling and returned pairs of jeans before finding them! Will check his video out
Low key in a bit of a style crisis myself at the moment. I want to move from a Streetwear kind of look to a more elegant but not to elegant one. I have so much Streetwear worth so much money and I just do not know what to do with all of it. Tips are appreciated!
Sell it, whenever I get bored of a shoe or piece of clothing and I know it still holds some value, I sell it and use the money towards buying new pieces that'd fit my new style better.
@@bingoing Thank you very much 🙏
Agree. Sell it if you think you will never wear it again. Make sure you know you won’t wear it again though as I’ve sold stuff and wished I hadn’t further down the line. Sometimes when you have a bit of a style crisis, it doesn’t last and you go back to what you wore before.
@@HarryHas Appreciate it a lot!
The problem I have with switching style is that I feel like my current style is part of my personality. Of course I’m not defined by the clothes I wear but changing style feels like throwing away a part of me. I’m bored of my current style but at the same time is the only style I truly like :/.
I know what you mean. When I change style I don’t change everything about it. It always has parts of my old style in it. It just evolves. When it does it can be difficult to know where to go with it as it’s new territory
So, it is important to create a transcendent style.
You can also stick to more timeless classics. I stay with slim jeans and chinos and feel like they still look modern.
I finally gave in to wearing wider pants last year and it took me like a month to get used to it. My skinny jeans and chinos have now been demoted to being only worn for like dates or when I randomly decide to wear my old Yeezy 750s or other Boost shoes lol.
Keep hold of them as you never know when you might wanna go back to them. I got rid of too many trousers that I wish I had now
@@HarryHas Skinnies will never leave my closet lol. Been wearing them since I was skating as a middle schooler in the mid 2000’s 🥲
I remember wearing Karl Kani pants that hung on my knees until my crush said she hated the way it looked on guys. Started wearing chino's and everyone was telling me i looked like their grandpa, a year later the chino was back from the grave and everybody wore one.
The issue I'm having has to do with clothes I want to wear but that aren't practical. Polo shirts and camp collar button downs can look good, especially with jeans or chinos...but when the next 3-4 months will really hot outside, it's just not practical to wear anything but tees and shorts. I have a bunch of nice polos and short sleeve shirts in my closet right now, but it's just too hot to wear them. And it would feel out of place when you go downtown and every last person is wearing tee shirts and shorts too. You might say I could wear them at night instead? Well no, it's still hot at night, and if it's a cooler night then I'd want something covering my arms. It's the same issue with lightweight jackets: where I live, spring and fall last about 2-3 weeks...there's no time to wear one of my great looking lightweight jackets.
I have constant mental warfare with trends! It's always good to hold off for a bit before buying into them. But then sometimes if you've waited for long enough before realising you actually like them, it's too late because they're all out of stock!
I know what you mean man. I’m the same. I also feel I don’t buy into them a lot of the time because I’m always worried I will get sick of seeing them and it will be a waste.
That crossroads reference was fly my guy
Hahaha glad you got it. I wasn’t sure if anyone would have known what I was on about! Stay fly my guy
every day is a style and identity crisis my friend
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I don't really have identity crises when it comes to clothes because I don't attach myself to my clothes. I think the best way to think about it is to be completely okay if your house burned down with all your clothes along with it because you know you have the style knowledge to rebuild it from the ground up.
I just focus on classic styles and it blends well with my work clothes - suits/blazers. They are things I can wear in my 30s and as I get older. And if I get bored, I go for classic, but rugged looks. But yes, my current challenge is my fluctuating weight. Just lost my lockdown weight of 15lbs and yet my legs keep growing due to cycling and running. Needed to size down from 33 waist to 30/31.
I went from a 33 to a 30 a few years ago. Had to get rid of all my old trousers and start again. It was a pain but has to be done sometimes. Good to hear you are keeping fit
@@HarryHas Thanks. Keep up with the great content 👍
i dont have enough money to get out of it 😂
Your style is you. Don’t think you should worry when trends are cyclical.
Agree
Damn dude, that’s an impressive gain in muscle!
Thanks man. It will be some fat too, not 11kg of lean muscle. I was too skinny for my build and wasn’t as healthy as I should have been.
I have one of these once a week
Hahaha I have them a lot too
I don't follow trends. I gravitate towards classic menswear but I just modernize it by changing the silhouettes or color combinations or putting patterns together ( as long as one pattern is more subtle). Lately, I have been wearing more trousers and got rid of most my jeans except for very few uniformly dark coloured jeans. I was never a fan of pants with really narrow hems. I have always gravitated towards straight cut pants but more recently, I have been experimenting with wide hem pants which create a nice movement when you walk as long as the pants have a good weight on them.
What kind of shoes do you wear with trousers?
@@BrandonAdams1010 I wear minimal white shoes or leather oxfords or loafers or boots with them. I just do not wear overly designed chunky sneakers with them.
“Looking fly my guy” ugh I can’t stand that guy you says this. Lmao
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Paul Smith says dress for your age 😊 I totally agree
Well, if that works for you then that’s great. I prefer not to follow ‘rules’ and just wear what I think looks good on me. Always will.
amazing point about you never being younger than you are today.
Its like the Sambas i hate those shoes but everyone seems to love them. I prefer the Gazelles over them by far
I like the Samba and always have but I do prefer the Gazelle. I just wish adidas had a white sneaker as good as the white Samba
Aye I made a video! Loved the video man
🤟🤟 Thanks for watching bro 🙏
My whole life is a style crisis
Nah. You are probably overthinking it all bro
Can I ask Harry what do make of Terrace clothing and culture
remember as long as you can keep saying smart in front of every item, it'll be fine
Thanks, Marcos. I know I can always count on you
Regarding dyeing my hair, I'm in my mid-30s now and I'm in denial about needing to do it lol. So many white hairs are popping up now. I just tell myself that I'll start in my 40s lol.
I have white hairs and I like them. Embrace the greys
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I lust love Retro Sneakers like Jordan 1s some good wider fitting cargos and a blank t (white or black) Its comfy and its ME but hearing everyone (on the internet) complain how dead the silhouette etc. is really gets on my nerves sometimes. Trends are fine and fun, but what I especially dislike when the love for a specific desirable product suddenly switches and turns into hate or people start to make fun of it. Yeah you liked it 2-5 months ago and now you act like you would have never stepped into a pair of them (just talking about foot wear).
now cbum, next Big Ramy pls
ahahahah
I think I’m almost there!
subtle flex
Everyone in my family knocks how I dress bc I'm 5'7 and love the look of a slight crop to my wider fitting jeans and trousers. Idk if I should just persevere wearing what I like or take what they're saying into consideration. I too have thick thighs Harry, most straight fits look like skinnies on me :(
Wear what you enjoy wearing bro. You are the one who has to wear it not them.
Im in the middle of a style crisis. Been in that shit for 1,5 years now.. dont know what to wear. Dont like anything that I have lmao
I know the feeling. It will eventually pass
When I first started dating my wife almost 10 years ago she had those Boston Birks. I teased her about them and she tossed em when we moved. She got to say I told you so and I ate crow.
Haha she was ahead of everyone else
My solution is to just hold off buying anything until the crisis ends. Usually a style/identity crisis stems from other problems in life that should be tended to first before fashion. I still dress like a 2018 hypebeast but honestly I'm okay with that because I know it's me. Birkenstocks, Sambas, varsity jackets etc. are going to go out of fashion just as quickly as they came in. Same thing for Stussy with streetwear; I can appreciate it's hype right now, but personally I can't stand the design, so I'll never buy it. If you know that's your style then by all means get those items but for most people it's very much a trend thing which, in my opinion, should be avoided.
I agree it’s a good idea to hold off buying anything right away. I don’t think a style crisis necessarily stems from other problems in life personally. I think that can have an impact if you are going through something but my style is the last thing I’m worried about if something bad is going on in my life.
bro where'd you get that red flannel it looks drippy af on you
5:24
What are you wearing at 1:29?
Omg spot on with the Birkenstock example. Years ago I tried out the Crocs look and got mocked relentlessly. Guess what the hot trend / bandwagon everyone got on was? Fickle.
Everyone is fickle 😂
5:41 honestly, that is a look
I mean..I'll say that about Birkenstock Boston's now.
You definitely aren’t the only one