JustPearlyThings: A Danger To Herself And Others

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @RachelOates
    @RachelOates  Год назад +1605

    Sorry I can’t be here for the premiere today, I’m finally taking a day off and going to visit a museum! But I hope you all enjoy chatting with each other, be kind and have fun! 🥰

    • @MagisterialVoyager
      @MagisterialVoyager Год назад +20

      Enjoy! ❤❤❤

    • @dedkat7
      @dedkat7 Год назад +17

      Have a wonderful time Rachel ❤

    • @Emily-un1hf
      @Emily-un1hf Год назад +7

      Enjoy your well deserved time off!! xx

    • @angelmaureir429
      @angelmaureir429 Год назад +7

      Have a great time! Thank you for the great (informative, researched, well-edited as always) video! Really brightens up my day :)

    • @hannahr6324
      @hannahr6324 Год назад +4

      Have fun Rachelle!

  • @frontporchcake7592
    @frontporchcake7592 Год назад +3796

    I’ll never forget my grandma, born in 1932 in poverty on a farm and married with a kid by 19, crying and expressing to me how she’s so happy I have opportunities she didn’t get like getting a degree, holding a job, having my own credit card, and not being forced into marriage. Eva Jo would’ve hated Pearl.

    • @thelittlerussian3042
      @thelittlerussian3042 Год назад +386

      We love Eva Jo

    • @strawberryfox8819
      @strawberryfox8819 Год назад +298

      We stan Eva Jo

    • @DieAlteistwiederda
      @DieAlteistwiederda Год назад +178

      My maternal grandmothers name was Emma and she worked her entire life. She would have hated this woman as well.

    • @rachshred9613
      @rachshred9613 Год назад

      wish these types of women were alive today so Pearl could get her shit rocked by them

    • @ElleDiablo
      @ElleDiablo Год назад +91

      That's the name of a badass right there. The name of the starring of a GI Jane type movie. We need a movie about Eva Jo. We love her in this house.

  • @mrspreminger
    @mrspreminger Год назад +7524

    I would just like to put it out there that JustPearlyThings is 26, while being unmarried and childless career woman. Nothing wrong with that, but it does make her a huge hypocrite.

    • @Katie2986
      @Katie2986 Год назад +476

      And her one boyfriend catfished her - but she went for it anyway. 🙄

    • @AChickandaDuck
      @AChickandaDuck Год назад +694

      Major Phyllis Schlafly vibes - telling women to stay home in the kitchen while traveling around having a career 😂

    • @KateeAngel
      @KateeAngel Год назад +503

      Most of "trad" influencers like her are hypoctites

    • @KateeAngel
      @KateeAngel Год назад +424

      also it should be really embarassing to be such a pick-me and noone has "picked her" yet. Can't say I am sorry for her though, especially after she said voting rights for women was a mistake

    • @manderly33
      @manderly33 Год назад +360

      AND her parents sound like they are/were in a 50/50 relationship. They both worked at a software company they owned.

  • @Oujouj426
    @Oujouj426 Год назад +3121

    She's 27 and talks like a frat bro. She should count her lucky stars that her parents are rich because she'd get NOWHERE in life on her own.

    • @user-vc1ko
      @user-vc1ko Год назад

      Have you seen how she sits on a couch? It’s the frat boy stance crotch wide open.

    • @C.C.353
      @C.C.353 Год назад +84

      I would say its the other way around. She'd get nowhere in life because her parents are rich and failed to teach her anything.

    • @Oujouj426
      @Oujouj426 Год назад +252

      @@C.C.353 You don't have to get anywhere when you already have money, that's the point.

    • @hl1342
      @hl1342 Год назад

      This is an awful thing to say, but every time I see her talking bullshit, I want to punch her in the face. She's so privileged that she was probably never been hit before.

    • @skurinski
      @skurinski Год назад +8

      lol she's got further along than you

  • @Ligerscout
    @Ligerscout Год назад +370

    99% sure she has like no real deep friendships in real life. when she said she's made a hobby of beefing on twitter with random strangers. Like I'm imaging she's ultra lonely and this is the only way she gets ANY attention.

    • @khloeknievel3874
      @khloeknievel3874 Год назад +20

      I know a woman who grew up in a very wealthy home and she reminds me of Pearl. Her parents gave her everything she ever wanted which sounds great but it also means she never learned how to provide for herself. Money can get you a nice apartment and connections can get you a good job. But things like true friendship and love actually have to be earned. If you don't learn how to earn thing on you own when you're young, it's going to be a struggle in your adulthood.

    • @grassytramtracks
      @grassytramtracks Год назад +2

      Maybe that's why she's not married at 26, when she says women should get married at 27, her clock is ticking

    • @karahupp4589
      @karahupp4589 7 месяцев назад

      Their house looks like a McMansion to me. 🤷‍♀️

    • @marniekilbourne608
      @marniekilbourne608 6 месяцев назад

      Truth

    • @raminrouchi202
      @raminrouchi202 18 дней назад

      How many people ACTUALLY have any real friends. I'm 43 and I MIGHT have one or two real people in my life and that's alot

  • @genericwhitefemale6752
    @genericwhitefemale6752 Год назад +1567

    It actually makes so much sense that she comes from extreme privilege. When you're sheltered your whole life, you rarely face consequences for the things you say or do.

    • @campbellc6981
      @campbellc6981 Год назад

      Yes for real. Rich white woman crying about other women working screams privilege. And a complete lack of compassion

    • @Suited_Nat
      @Suited_Nat Год назад +17

      Yep!

    • @belle8732
      @belle8732 Год назад +53

      you can also tell that she just lacks insight in almost every area she touches on. of course not all privileged people are like this, but for her it makes total sense that she doesn't think critically given that she's never been required to in her life

    • @aaAa-bp1yd
      @aaAa-bp1yd Год назад +58

      Also explains why she shit-talks single moms, moms in general, and women for working. She's never had to work a day in her life; she's never lived as a single mom in poverty and therefore doesn't understand how much single women especially struggle to take care of their children. She doesn't have to sacrifice anything because she's rich af, yet single moms have to sacrifice their leisure time, their time, to work minimum wage jobs and come back home to take care of their kids. And she's shitting on them. I'm not even a single mom but knowing her perspective on them irritates me

    • @brigittecourson
      @brigittecourson Год назад

      That's why she seems like such a man child. She's very masculine, and very immature. Rich people are quite sheltered and arrogant.

  • @snowwhiterosered8571
    @snowwhiterosered8571 Год назад +2305

    I was married at 24 and am a stay at home mom and wife to a man who provides financially for me and our children. I spend my days cooking cleaning and wearing old maxi dresses barefoot in the garden. I have the life Pearl claims to want, the life she claims all women should strive for.
    How did I get here? By doing the literal opposite of what Pearl’s doing: I actually like other women and I don’t bend over backwards to appeal to men. I just do me. No need to put others down. Straight men actually like women-- imagine that-- and it’s not cute or attractive to decent and mentally stable (not incel) straight men to bully people they like.

    • @SJ-ru4ej
      @SJ-ru4ej Год назад +184

      Great comment. I’m pregnant with my first, work part time but won’t be working at all soon. We can be traditional women/do what we want with our lives without putting other women down. Everyone has the freedom to choose how they live their lives.

    • @sin3358
      @sin3358 Год назад +58

      Also a good point to make is that you want a quality man, and being a quality, educated woman with good morales, who can always teach their kids will attract the same kind of men as you are. If you believe you're inferior, that is asking for an abuser to come catch you and not only hurt you, but also your kids. Idgaf about women who choose to be abused like pearl seems to want it, idc if they need therapy, so do the abusive men and yet I'm allowed to hate them. What I despise the most is that these people will go and have kids and ruin other lives. I am a massive hater of the sentence "if it works for you, you do you" when it comes to relationships, because it is NEVER just the couple involved. It's always the worst people that decide to have kids

    • @nestorsifuentesaguirre2722
      @nestorsifuentesaguirre2722 Год назад +7

      @@sin3358 Suddenly the existence of infertile women is no longer a trauma lol

    • @MsFlamingFlamer
      @MsFlamingFlamer Год назад +29

      I’m a happily married woman and co-sign everything you said. A lot of people don’t really know what a healthy relationship looks like if it slapped them in the face so accept a bunch of quackery as truth

    • @Poopie_buttholelickeresquirejr
      @Poopie_buttholelickeresquirejr Год назад

      This!!!

  • @vitalyaloves
    @vitalyaloves Год назад +2388

    I hate to be so dark, but I really believe the women they invite on their podcasts who wear revealing clothing they are not just inviting as rage-bait in general, but something more specific. It seems to me they want the viewers to not only be angry at the women, but attracted to them. It really feels like they are trying to create some sort of grotesque experience for the male viewers by putting women on camera who they will be attracted to but who they will also want to “punish” for their lifestyle (and the knowledge the women would never reciprocate the attraction) which only furthers the rage. I really cannot overlook the sexual element of this, it feels so insidious.

    • @vitalyaloves
      @vitalyaloves Год назад +435

      And watching the women being degraded by the hosts…I don’t know it really feels like there is a (misogynistic and predatory) sexual element.

    • @msunje9862
      @msunje9862 Год назад +112

      You have a great point!

    • @msunje9862
      @msunje9862 Год назад +162

      @@vitalyalovesit is punish corn* for guys (replace the first with a p).

    • @vitalyaloves
      @vitalyaloves Год назад +50

      @@msunje9862 Yeah, it definitely seems like it.

    • @VeeKayGreenerGrass
      @VeeKayGreenerGrass Год назад +95

      They're told to dress nice and wear make up, and most, with the exception of a few, are digital working ladies/cam girls.
      It's rare that they have lady guests who are not IG ladies, like when they had The Queenmaker (aka Princella).

  • @juliawindstar
    @juliawindstar Год назад +561

    How is cheating high value? That is the main definition of the lowest of the low value. Its a lack of value😂. This woman is lonley and delusional.

    • @kennethkinney8892
      @kennethkinney8892 Год назад +4

      Y’all are so slow 🤦

    • @zizojaezekeom3565
      @zizojaezekeom3565 Год назад +56

      ​@@kennethkinney8892explain yourself when you speak 😂

    • @annjepsen1621
      @annjepsen1621 Год назад

      Men (and Pearl) seem to think that once a man brings in a certain amount of money, then he can do ANYTHING he wants. It's really quite pathetic to think that men don't have any worthwhile qualities other than earning potential. That's why it's so extremely important to their egos to earn more than their wives. It's a trap that men have set for themselves.

    • @annjepsen1621
      @annjepsen1621 Год назад +39

      ​@@kennethkinney8892 I think you're lost, son. 😂😂😂

    • @pingu3984
      @pingu3984 Год назад +33

      Exactly. Thunking that a high value man is just a tall man that earns a lot ... you've missed the point. A "high value man" is kind, strong, faithful.

  • @headerahelix
    @headerahelix Год назад +2327

    With all disrespect since she has none for anyone else, she seems stunted. She acts like me in my teen years, and she's approaching 30. Also minus points for sharing a name with me.

    • @justinwatson1510
      @justinwatson1510 Год назад +149

      Your parents also named you Just? Elementary school must have been rough; I'm sorry.

    • @mayanaw.9027
      @mayanaw.9027 Год назад

      Yes. Her worldview is that of a nasty child. It's unrealistic. It's silly. It's ahistorical, afactual and purposely so. She's just a immature mouth piece for a dying worldview.

    • @justynawisniewska1213
      @justynawisniewska1213 Год назад +101

      Even her nickname sounds like something a teenager would name their first email/instagram handle.

    • @bebebongBaebae
      @bebebongBaebae Год назад +59

      Pearl is a pretty name to me? Imagine your nice neighbour grandma Pearl who cooks biscuits for the kids around✨️

    • @linnvi08
      @linnvi08 Год назад +59

      @@bebebongBaebae her real name is Hannah

  • @campbellc6981
    @campbellc6981 Год назад +1558

    She calls herself an elightened thinker when her ideas about women are pre enlightement era ideas. What an intellectual.

    • @belle8732
      @belle8732 Год назад +25

      LOL right!

    • @page8301
      @page8301 Год назад +13

      If she were of an earlier generation she would think that a light bulb is a keen invention over a candle...

    • @MissSeaShell
      @MissSeaShell Год назад

      This is my problem with all of the grifters on the right who act like they're rebels and free thinkers. Like Andrew Tate.. people saying he's being framed because the powers that be want to silence his dangerous new radical rhetoric. Like... you mean patriarchy, traditional gender roles, and capitalism? Wow, yeah, soo new and wild. The people in power definitely want to stop those ideas. Powerful capitalist patriarchal men are totally threatened by his patriarchal capitalist speech.

    • @MissSeaShell
      @MissSeaShell Год назад +1

      I mean obviously I also have a problem with the rhetoric itself, but it's really annoying the way they act like it's new and enlightened. Bro, you ARE the matrix 🙄

    • @jocular1910
      @jocular1910 Год назад +1

      That's brilliant. If only more people looked at others like this.

  • @kirstinmaley1289
    @kirstinmaley1289 Год назад +1030

    My favorite thing about pearl is that she’s such a pick me, but no one picked her.

    • @bigwavesun
      @bigwavesun Год назад +23

      😂😂😂

    • @DZ-eu4pj
      @DZ-eu4pj Год назад +69

      All the men friendzone her because she is too masculine 😂

    • @mayjailerxx
      @mayjailerxx Год назад

      Men don’t have respect the pearls of the world.

    • @Aaditri44
      @Aaditri44 Год назад +40

      ​@@DZ-eu4pjor just annoying😭

    • @yahia9481
      @yahia9481 Год назад

      ​@@DZ-eu4pj
      Wach diri hna 😂

  • @jadeduong5968
    @jadeduong5968 Год назад +212

    her constantly looking at the men in the room for approval is soooo telling

  • @MalMotorDedo
    @MalMotorDedo Год назад +1294

    I don't like that ppl call her a "pick me", she deserves to be called what she really is, a grifter and, more specific, a bad person.

  • @mayas883
    @mayas883 Год назад +1781

    I really don't get how she tries to suck up to the alpha male sphere when those creeps prob think she's already 'dried up' because she's older than 18/20

    • @rejectionisprotection4448
      @rejectionisprotection4448 Год назад +98

      That doesn't matter if she's saying what they want to hear. They'll have wilful blindness in her case.

    • @mothturtle7897
      @mothturtle7897 Год назад +386

      ​@@rejectionisprotection4448 they'll never see her as a potential romantic partner though. Those guys want Instagram models.

    • @AmeliaMastervally
      @AmeliaMastervally Год назад +292

      They see her an an accessory that justifies their stupid ideologies, she's just begging for their attention... It's pathetic tbh lol

    • @MalMotorDedo
      @MalMotorDedo Год назад

      Nonono, there's a weird phenomenon that shows that right wingers are very horny for the 4 women in the existence of humanity that think like them. Look at Tomi Lahren

    • @justinwatson1510
      @justinwatson1510 Год назад +102

      While her age counts against her, I am sure she gets a lot of points for having no self respect.

  • @eva1585
    @eva1585 Год назад +4238

    Love how women like Pearl or Girl Defined or Morgan talk as if they'd still have platform to speak on if it werent for feminism.

    • @radioactivebeverage
      @radioactivebeverage Год назад

      My favourite subcategory of women are the ones who talk shit on the internet about traditionalism. Did your husband let you get on twitter? 😂

    • @ruminationstation4200
      @ruminationstation4200 Год назад +446

      Girl Defined bugs me the most because women are NOT allowed to lead ministries in traditional Christianity. Their entire career is a paradox

    • @caseyw.6550
      @caseyw.6550 Год назад +251

      ​@@ruminationstation4200 Rules for thee. Not for me.

    • @AiBkomachi
      @AiBkomachi Год назад

      Exactly, spewing some traditional bullshit when you’re on camera and earning money. Go back to the kitchen, be a good example or be quiet, that is the traditional woman after all.

    • @Suited_Nat
      @Suited_Nat Год назад +18

      ⁠@@ruminationstation4200 I mean, tbh that rule is also just misogyny. It’s kinda sad that’s what your stuck on though.

  • @hannaheydari2538
    @hannaheydari2538 Год назад +186

    Its just so funny to me cause pearl brings sex workers to degrade them and tell them their jobs are embarrassing and lacks self respect. But her job is more embarrassing. There is no amount of money or fame I would accept to go and sit there and disrespect myself and my gender and cause that much harm. Like I've never heard of a more embarrassing job.

    • @jocular1910
      @jocular1910 Год назад

      Don't look for it. I never degraded any "sex workers". I saw a bunch of guys putting in black top and I did not degrade them either even though they were toxic.

    • @Therav1
      @Therav1 9 месяцев назад

      No way in the world is her job more embarrassing no way, prostitution is the lowest people have to do that when they have no other value nothing else to offer.
      Dont forget degrading violent mentally abusive thete are no old happy hookers hell there are hardly old hookers they dont make it.

    • @nestorsifuentesaguirre2722
      @nestorsifuentesaguirre2722 9 месяцев назад

      @xXC4rcassXx It CREATES whorse so yes. God it feels great to have a country that never liked some shit ass pill like red or blue or black

    • @WynnWynn-gl3fk
      @WynnWynn-gl3fk 7 месяцев назад

      They all are degrading to women

    • @VelikaBulgaria2
      @VelikaBulgaria2 5 месяцев назад

      men need to stop paying for sex. Women and children are NOT for sale.

  • @darlabrumit2813
    @darlabrumit2813 Год назад +2880

    The way she argues with people and won’t admit when she’s wrong, she’s going to have a hard time submitting to a husband. 🤣

    • @sparklyunicorn5431
      @sparklyunicorn5431 Год назад +87

      THIS

    • @majkapanonska5493
      @majkapanonska5493 Год назад

      that's the most unreasonable thing about these women. the more they bash others for not being ''submissive'' and ''obedient'' enough, the more problems they have just having normal social interactions. a bunch of autists, nothing more, inculding the men from this so called ''traditionalism'' movement. they deserve each other 😂

    • @unicorn73212
      @unicorn73212 Год назад +62

      I heard she had over 100 partners. I only had 30 so by that same logic she's judging me for something I did in my 20s and she had more partners then I did 100 tells me she's still out there sleeping around because I've seen her pick me for all kinds of guys too. Everybody wanted to hook andrew up with the BBC woman but I think pearl and Andrew tate would be a match made in heaven. That should be his punishment an agreeable robot that would do anything to please a man.

    • @darlabrumit2813
      @darlabrumit2813 Год назад +11

      @@unicorn73212 😆😆😆 that would be poetic justice. 😆

    • @lizthedisjointedzebra692
      @lizthedisjointedzebra692 Год назад +17

      Right?? She doesn't practice what she preaches AT ALL

  • @stephaniebontorin6167
    @stephaniebontorin6167 Год назад +761

    I'm so glad that you talked about these insane podcasts. A bunch of 18-22 year old girls getting told to shut the F up by 45 year old men is WILDLY inappropriate.

    • @animegirls3219
      @animegirls3219 Год назад +62

      ​@@nealcassady1189all of the old men that scream how not emotional they are..to many pick mes...lol in chats

    • @love55ickbeat5
      @love55ickbeat5 Год назад +20

      ​@@nealcassady1189Steven crowder

    • @briskettacos
      @briskettacos Год назад +52

      As another commenter said, they invite young, sexy, but inexperienced women on, so the older guys (who are better at arguing) can "put them in their place." The male audience also gets to be attracted to the women but simultaneously look down on them.
      It's punishment corn 🌽

    • @stephaniebontorin6167
      @stephaniebontorin6167 Год назад +9

      @@briskettacos Wow that's such a good way to put it (and also disgusting)

    • @Goofybear253
      @Goofybear253 Год назад +7

      There just bully's it makes me sick ya your a bad ass man picking on Young woman

  • @manderly33
    @manderly33 Год назад +906

    Keep in mind that Pearl, a person who was catfished, is claiming that she can always tell when someone is lying.

    • @gajoratte
      @gajoratte Год назад +59

      The story about her moving him in is somehow both endearing and WILD

    • @lovetogiggle1o1
      @lovetogiggle1o1 Год назад +5

      @@gajoratte omg is this covered in the video

    • @klltpp
      @klltpp Год назад +12

      also as a woman against women cheating, has cheated herself.

    • @Jillberto
      @Jillberto Год назад +5

      ​@@klltpp i've read somewhere else aswell that pearl cheated on one of her exes but I cannot find anything that proves that. Do you have any source or something?

    • @redwoodrebelgirl3010
      @redwoodrebelgirl3010 Год назад

      Oh, YES!!!
      Where do we find this! 🤣

  • @raigenhuss7030
    @raigenhuss7030 Год назад +159

    Ugh.. I went to her Instagram and really really regret it. A slew of advertising her T-shirts “Women Shouldn’t Vote” and “Repeal the 19th” 🤢 I’m so horrified that she exists and actually has a following

    • @Nocturnal11Guy
      @Nocturnal11Guy Год назад +1

      I love it!

    • @ThatRedhedd
      @ThatRedhedd Год назад +13

      I'm extremely disappointed to realize you were being serious. I wish I could unknow that. 🙉

    • @thrasherdave1428
      @thrasherdave1428 10 месяцев назад

      I wanna start my comment with a disclaimer that I fully believe women should be able to vote and anyone who suggests otherwise is an idiot, but I think it would be funny to do a little social experiment. Wear a "Repeal the 19th" shirt and see how many people get absolutely triggered

    • @lalaland7961
      @lalaland7961 7 месяцев назад

      well I hope you feel comfort in knowing that is literally never going to happen. Men should realize the power women have . Governments already realize it they are doing anything they can to make sure women get pregnant. Businesses already realize it they pander to women to cell anything because we control most of the market. IF they push us too far they will reap the consequences .

    • @SummerGoforth
      @SummerGoforth 3 месяца назад

      ​@@ThatRedheddSame!

  • @Shadeflower15
    @Shadeflower15 Год назад +3744

    Maybe it’s just me, but I don’t think you can complain about people taking bad angles of you if you call other women whales just for existing in a heavier body

    • @visaman
      @visaman Год назад +30

      It's the whales that call themselves a 10 that irritate her.

    • @Valcera
      @Valcera Год назад +531

      @@visamanit sounds like anyone who has more self confidence than her is a problem to her. She needs therapy.

    • @linnvi08
      @linnvi08 Год назад +367

      @@visaman No. She hates fat women in general. It just infuriates her more when they have confidence.

    • @hospitable_ghost
      @hospitable_ghost Год назад +183

      Oh yes, you could hear how bothered she was when she made that comment. "They take such bad angles of me." Girl, go cry somewhere else!

    • @zombiemeat227
      @zombiemeat227 Год назад +140

      just proof of how insanely insecure she is, she has the same energy as a tv show highschool bully

  • @PocoMuses
    @PocoMuses Год назад +687

    She says “its a bit rude” about people commenting on her appearance, while she calls fat people “whales”
    The hypocrisy is astounding and yes, it IS uncalled for- but you can’t say that and not take your own advice 💀

    • @nicholasnelson6876
      @nicholasnelson6876 Год назад

      Yea, nothing wrong with pointing out how lazy morbidly obese people are. Lol

    • @izstrkv
      @izstrkv Год назад +23

      fr like if you think it's okay to use vile language like "whale" to put down ppl's appearance for literally no reason (other than being an insecure, selfish, vindictive bully), then i feel like you forfeit your right to be offended when someone insults your appearance 💀 like it is uncalled for but it's also what she does seemingly every time she opens her mouth so like, she has some gall to complain

    • @plantlifeforever6994
      @plantlifeforever6994 Год назад +10

      The definition of people in glass houses / pot calling the kettle black!

  • @hospitable_ghost
    @hospitable_ghost Год назад +577

    You REALLY nailed it with the comment about how Pearl insists that all women need a man in their life because she, personally, can't take care of herself (or refuses to) and projects that onto other women.

    • @ruminationstation4200
      @ruminationstation4200 Год назад +52

      Which is ironic because if you can't maintain a home as a woman, what is even the point of you to a traditional man? Most of these dudes want wives specifically so they can be taken care of.

    • @MissSchnickfitzel
      @MissSchnickfitzel Год назад +6

      Its insane. I love my boyfriend he's a traditionally masculine man and all and he takes care of my emotional needs and what not.
      But i don't NEED him and we have had this discussion before! We talked about not being dependant on each other

    • @nah7656
      @nah7656 Год назад +3

      As someone that used to be quite liberal that sees myself leaning a tad more conservative (I guess that makes me moderate) I hate pearl's "factual opinions". she wants so badly to be accepted by men and it's obvious.

    • @1kpennyxx238
      @1kpennyxx238 Год назад +1

      ​@@nah7656and you're slowly losing the ability to care about human rights, so you're not much better than her unfortunately

    • @localpossum2690
      @localpossum2690 Год назад +4

      @@1kpennyxx238 conservative and liberal are very broad terms. The person that you sought to antagonize could be conservative in economic issues but liberal when it comes to personal freedoms. They could be right wing libertarian because as they said, they are moderate.
      People with conservative views are not evil, they have their views for a reason just like you have yours for a reason. The first step to equality and understanding each other is to be open minded to everyone’s reasoning. If everyone could do that, maybe the world wouldn’t be such a bad place

  • @ashleyrojas6301
    @ashleyrojas6301 Год назад +259

    I was definitely a "pick me" girl in highschool. I didn't realize it as I was doing it. In hindsight, I said whatever I thought would make me special, whatever I thought the boys would want to hear because in my mind, I never felt just being me was good enough. I feel bad for Pearl. I can't imagine still feeling this way in my late 20s. She's taken it so far- so publicly- it's going to be hard for her to ever turn it around now.

    • @redwoodrebelgirl3010
      @redwoodrebelgirl3010 Год назад

      I don't feel bad for her.
      That willfully-garbage "human" deserves whatever awfulness she gets.

    • @annjepsen1621
      @annjepsen1621 Год назад +6

      Pearl has definitely dug herself a hole that I'm not sure if it's possible for her to get out. She could if she wanted to, but she's not the type to work at being a better person. She's always looking to take the easy way out and it's a shame.

    • @rays_crows9
      @rays_crows9 6 месяцев назад +5

      Yeah, me too. I realized that when young girls say “I’m not like other girls”, they usually mean “I’m not a thoughtless caricature of pink, makeup and boobs, which is all society has taught me that girls are”. Pearl still seems to have this mindset that most of us abandoned on the middle school playground.

    • @marniekilbourne608
      @marniekilbourne608 6 месяцев назад

      At least you realize it now! I have NEVER been that! I didn't and don't have any trouble getting dates and boyfriends but I have always said exactly what I feel and made it clear what I will not tolerate from boys then men. I know what I deserve! I remember my Dad asking why I was no longer with my HS boyfriend and I told him he was disrespecting me behind my back and I refuse to put up with that. I don't NEED to be with any guy! If he doesn't treat me well truly, he can piss off! My Dad seemed kind of surprised for some reason for a second and then he said "I am so proud of you! You have a very mature and correct idea of what you deserve at a very young age". I said well I'm just me and telling it like it is. Besides, you had a part in helping me to know what to accept and what I deserve. To be myself. You raised me afterall!

  • @otterpoppin
    @otterpoppin Год назад +307

    Mysogyny from other women breaks my heart, but especially from the incredibly wealthy and sheltered. She really doesn't see how ignorant she is, how wrong she is, how much harm she's doing. All for profit and online validation. So sad, genuinely. I hope she comes around one day.

  • @pushinguproses
    @pushinguproses Год назад +401

    So she gets a little upset about how someone took a picture of her and judged her appearance. Then immediately follows it by saying “does this guy in the picture LOOK masculine?” Cool.
    I feel like every time someone has a very good statement (like the woman saying her partner is her equal) she has to punch down because she has no other reaction. It’s complete deflection. It’s like being insulted by a high schooler.

    • @RachelOates
      @RachelOates  Год назад +38

      Absolutely!
      (Also not sure if I’ve told you before but I really love your channel, your videos are some of my favourites to comfort watch when I’m have a bad day, so thank you!! ♥️)

    • @Sure_Sir
      @Sure_Sir Год назад +4

      OMG! So Random. I'm a fan/subscriber of your channel.

    • @someonerandom256
      @someonerandom256 Год назад +3

      I love you both! Two of my favorite channels 😍

    • @pushinguproses
      @pushinguproses Год назад +9

      @@RachelOates That is so sweet, thank you!!! Your videos are fantastic, SO thorough and thought out. I look forward to learning more about poetry, too! (I may even be inspired to post some of my (questionable) poems.

    • @WiseWordsbyWiki
      @WiseWordsbyWiki Год назад

      Eyyy, cool crossover of two fav channels.

  • @meltyrat
    @meltyrat Год назад +465

    It’s always interesting to me when these content creators don’t practice what they preach. Like babe, you’re LITERALLY single, no kids, and working

    • @kaivogel253
      @kaivogel253 Год назад +37

      please don't call that work. She is just faffing about.

    • @bariatric-parasite
      @bariatric-parasite Год назад +9

      @@kaivogel253 but to them it is work. these people get so rich of views and merch and appearances bc men pay for it to prove their point and further make some younger women feel that their internalized misogyny is justified

    • @annieh.5049
      @annieh.5049 Год назад +6

      completely agree. what especially irks me about the red pill community is the sheer amount of hypocrisy exhibited, usually by men, but in some cases by women (seen with pearl). & i agree with a lot of the points made by “red-pillers”; like the importance of monogamy, the family unit, the importance of saving yourself for marriage (for BOTH men & women). but then we have people who spout these ideas, & then say that it’s okay for “high value” men to cheat on their wives, or to have multiple girlfriends. for why? because you’re “high value”? sorry, you’re not high value if you can knowingly be that ignorant, hypocritical, & actively advocate for degeneracy while also advocating for sanctity.
      TL;DR: basically rules for thee but not for me

    • @rachymn7883
      @rachymn7883 Год назад +1

      Also peal is no bella Hadid just saying. If you are going to body shame people you better be looking like that. Its actually sad because the men she is selling to are not buying

  • @zarajones5428
    @zarajones5428 Год назад +115

    Honestly to me, she lives in this privileged rich girl naïve bubble. I'm honestly surprised at how she got so popular. Girly hasn't lived a real day in her life.

    • @stuff1784
      @stuff1784 11 месяцев назад

      TRUTH

    • @manyyoumas
      @manyyoumas 8 месяцев назад

      yeah totally. hearing her describe her past job, hand down to her by mommy and daddy, as "the worst job" when its literally just being a printer salesperson.... oh sweetie lmao, spend a day in food service, in retail... spend a day being a janitor, plumber... you would come CRYING back for that job. but we all know she would never do that unless forced

  • @aurizzistic
    @aurizzistic Год назад +7657

    Finding out her mom is a software engineer is wild. I wonder how she feels about her daughter believing she never should of been able to have her education lmao

    • @Koo-v5r
      @Koo-v5r Год назад +948

      Ironically enough, her mom was bragging about all of her daughters going to college in an interview.

    • @erikafermin7063
      @erikafermin7063 Год назад

      As a women in stem, it's sad to admit that a lot of women in stem are very sexist and have backwards thinking. I don't know a percentages but they were there

    • @JustPaulThingslol
      @JustPaulThingslol Год назад +718

      She made it possible for Pearl to live in that mansion.

    • @7Mushrooms7
      @7Mushrooms7 Год назад +892

      The thing is that Pearl doesn't believe in anything she says. This is all a grift for views and attention (I'm not mentioning money because her family is very rich and supports her financially). Friends of her from before the fame and even her content at first wasn't nothing like this nor these opinions.

    • @lv2756
      @lv2756 Год назад +453

      @@7Mushrooms7Pearl will say anything she thinks men want to hear

  • @EmbryW
    @EmbryW Год назад +265

    "I grew up with Amish people.
    Well, my family bought furniture from them, so i know what their lives were like"
    Jesus Christ, i couldn't make up a more blatantly ignorant and privileged sentence if i was trying to write satire

    • @selinakyle_
      @selinakyle_ Год назад

      I am Amish 😂 Literally they have no freedom. In fact, the girls stop going to school around the 6th grade and are homeschooled to become mothers and wives

    • @cediviannareeda4305
      @cediviannareeda4305 9 месяцев назад +8

      I know the plight of the underprivileged, my dining room table is black

  • @lynmcgrow9246
    @lynmcgrow9246 Год назад +593

    I wish we could time travel and out Pearl back where she, as a woman, had absolutely no rights. and leave her there

    • @atlantiswasinafrica
      @atlantiswasinafrica Год назад +24

      👏 yes!

    • @jlinus7251
      @jlinus7251 Год назад +80

      Just send her to Saudi Arabia and marry her to a traditional man there. She will beg to leave in a few days

    • @scarpfish
      @scarpfish Год назад +49

      With the way the world is going, time travel won't be necessary. Half the states in this country seem hell bent on moving The Handmaid's Tale from distopian fiction to the documentary section.

    • @lynmcgrow9246
      @lynmcgrow9246 Год назад +9

      @scarpfish Very scary in US at the moment with all the anti women stuff going on but it's especially hard when it's a woman who is doing it

    • @lynmcgrow9246
      @lynmcgrow9246 Год назад

      @@jlinus7251 Or Iran no education for women no life outside the house baby incubator she'd fit right in

  • @FundieFridays
    @FundieFridays Год назад +66

    This is an incredible video Rachel, thank you for making it!

    • @RachelOates
      @RachelOates  Год назад +18

      That means so much, especially coming from you! I adore your content so much. Thank you ♥️

    • @annjepsen1621
      @annjepsen1621 Год назад +3

      If Jen & James gave their seal of approval, you know you did good!! ❤❤❤

  • @gracelewis4016
    @gracelewis4016 Год назад +874

    Idk if this is just my autistic self taking things literally, but when she said not to have sex with whales my first thought was 'yeah! Beastiality is wrong!'

    • @redss111
      @redss111 Год назад +6

      Hahahahah

    • @the.graveyard.stitcher2571
      @the.graveyard.stitcher2571 Год назад +45

      Same here, I thought the video was gonna take a weird turn.

    • @czerkitka141
      @czerkitka141 Год назад +7

      No, not really, you didnt think that but i understand that sometimes u need to try to be quirky and it seems like a good opportunity

    • @KiKi-tf8rv
      @KiKi-tf8rv Год назад +29

      I’m not autistic and I thought that, too!😂 Maybe it’s because of that lady who has been in the news lately for beastiality with a horse. But I was trying to figure out how that was even possible!🤣 🐳

    • @lu546
      @lu546 Год назад +1

      ​@@czerkitka141 dude shut up

  • @adriennenosler5441
    @adriennenosler5441 Год назад +707

    it really makes me mad when everyone wants to shout “women are supposed to submit to their husband” but they never add that men are supposed to honor their wife

    • @montananerd8244
      @montananerd8244 Год назад +46

      And in Christianity, the person who said it makes me very suspicious, as he didn't even know Jesus and clearly had some of his own issues going on. The Gospel is mostly uninterested in gender and Jesus doesn't reinforce gender roles in the usual way. I refuse to accept Paul as canon, he is included due to efforts to have a legalistic system of control, it has to do with Christianity as state religion (which makes 0 sense in monarchies), not real Jesus-driven Christianity.

    • @RackednStackeddd
      @RackednStackeddd Год назад +41

      @@montananerd8244ike the bible actually has some notable women. Jesus first revealed himself to a woman after resurrecting, Mary is seen as a very respected figure in many types of Christianity, and Wisdom itself it referred to as a woman

    • @julkap4190
      @julkap4190 Год назад

      YES, THANK YOU!!! In my church it's discussed every year but people like them only talk about woman's submission and never about love of man.
      For those who are curious how it's described in Christian Bible, here:
      Ephesians 5:22-33
      22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
      25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church- 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[b] 32 This is a profound mystery-but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
      source: biblegateway(dot)com
      And from what I briefly heard Muslims have something similar, too. But feel free to correct me guys, I'm not that well educated.

    • @SuzetteKath
      @SuzetteKath Год назад +3

      @@montananerd8244 Except when it came to polyandry vs polygyny. He basically told the woman to stop having so many partners(polyandry). I don't remember seeing a verse where he got after men for having more than one wife/mistress/concubine(polygyny)

    • @Visarta
      @Visarta Год назад

      ​@@RackednStackedddWomen are unimportant in the Bible and Jesus even referred to his mother simply as "woman". That's why women can never be priests, neither were there female prophets. Men lead, women follow, swallow your fragile ego that reeks of inferiority complex and submit to the divine natural order of things.

  • @PixxiStitch
    @PixxiStitch Год назад +549

    How crazy is it that this woman thinks a "high value man" is a man more likely to cheat on you!? That is seriously so sad. Anyone with actual self respect would recognize that a high value man (if you wanna call it that) would never do that.

    • @saphire9823
      @saphire9823 Год назад +13

      I thought the same

    • @piya6929
      @piya6929 Год назад +51

      'high value man' they say, the value being just cash

    • @saphire9823
      @saphire9823 Год назад

      @@thomsonhomson hmmm. That definition of High value is made up by the Manosphere. Actual value in a person would mean integrity, loyalty, emotional intelligence, self respect etc. These Manosphere people including Pearl really be convincing men they are as dumb as cavemen

    • @hollydawn07
      @hollydawn07 Год назад

      @@thomsonhomson except women generally don’t want a man who cheats so your point is completely invalid and stupid. All these “alpha” men who think there are “high value men” who women should be trying to bag….? It seems like y’all are just describing YOUR perfect man.

    • @ameliaalastairmoon4145
      @ameliaalastairmoon4145 Год назад +45

      @@thomsonhomson Oh ok. So a "high value wife" is obviously attractive and so has the right to cheat too, right? I mean, this is what's commonly called an open marriage. Not my cup of tea, but you do you.

  • @x-X-PlagueDoctor-Xx
    @x-X-PlagueDoctor-Xx 8 месяцев назад +30

    the whole 'women in the past only worked in the home' thing frustrates me so much. It completely ignores so many people. What about immigrant women, who had to work to support themselves and their families? What about codebreakers during WWII? What about scientists like Marie Curie? Victorian women who worked in factories and mills all day?

    • @jamesbest9038
      @jamesbest9038 8 месяцев назад +4

      Yup. People seem to also think recorded history started the Europe in the 1700s. There are thousands of years of human history and dozens of human cultures.
      In most of them the genders were substantially more egalitarian.

  • @MoMo-rx4zr
    @MoMo-rx4zr Год назад +210

    I’ve always felt that it’s a facade and coping mechanism more so than anything. She claims that women should be married by 27, but she herself is 26 unmarried. She complains about women not being thin, but has a gut herself. She states women are responsible for the bulk of the overweight population in the U.S., but that’s statistical false and her ex-partner was overweight. He left her for someone who looks like a more conventionally attractive, traditionally feminine version of her with the red hair and everything. It’s her insecurities projected onto others.

    • @hopefulmonsters4407
      @hopefulmonsters4407 Год назад +2

      Tragic but true

    • @grassytramtracks
      @grassytramtracks Год назад

      She'd better hurry up and get married, the clock is ticking

    • @SuzetteKath
      @SuzetteKath Год назад

      She at least gave more of a longer time than what the Silent gen gave. Many of them wanted their daughters to be married by the time they were 19 at the latest.

  • @Frogelette
    @Frogelette Год назад +169

    I think Pearl stands a pretty high risk of ending up in an abusive relationship. She’s already too old to not be married by her own standards, thinks that “high value men” should have a pass to cheat and that there are almost no reasonable justifications for divorce. I think she will likely choose someone out of desperation and have a bad time.

    • @OG-zc2zj
      @OG-zc2zj Год назад +1

      Nah there's no way she believes what she's saying. She's just cashing in on this industry by playing a character. Her actual actions literally make no sense if you assume she believes what her "character" has been saying this entire time. She's like that fox news black woman anchor from dear white people. Just playing a character so she can get what she want.

    • @FwireFwower1989
      @FwireFwower1989 Год назад +21

      @@OG-zc2zj maybe but I think she just hates herself for being a woman. She has many brothers, according to her her father was a millionaire that provided for the family and her mother just stayed home to raise her and her other 8 kids. She had no female role model and probably heard nothing but negativity towards the female gender. She grew up stroking male egos and one day she decided, “I can make money doing this!”
      She’s a sheltered woman who clearly has mental health issues and extreme insecurities as a woman. I feel bad for her. When she is in her 30s and the “men” whose ego she’s been stroking choose younger women because they are easier to manipulate, maybe she’ll see how toxic their mindset is.

    • @piya6929
      @piya6929 Год назад +8

      i don't think she'll do that to herself though because she does not practice what she preaches...it's plain hypocrisy...if she were to fall into such a situation i'm almost entirely sure that she'll pack her bags and leave...i say 'almost' cause there's the 1% chance that she actually believes everything she says

    • @modestproposal9114
      @modestproposal9114 Год назад +5

      You are assuming she believes the things she says

    • @thesevenkingswelove9554
      @thesevenkingswelove9554 Год назад

      Sorry but pick me women like these do two things all the time. Either they marry a man who they call "feminine" or "beta" because they know they don't want to be @bused.
      Or they end up marrying a man who @buses them. There's an article about pick me women being @bused more by men.

  • @macgirl1234
    @macgirl1234 Год назад +440

    Pearl: "is this crazy marriage advice?"
    Me, a woman who's been happily married for 12 years: "yes. Yes that is crazy marriage advice"

    • @wildflower0901
      @wildflower0901 Год назад +55

      Also Pearl- I don't give advice, that's a huge misconception. 🙄
      She contradicts herself every time she speaks.

    • @hotsexyangel
      @hotsexyangel Год назад +1

      It’s crazy how she gives marriage advice without being married too💀💀

  • @feversandmirrors
    @feversandmirrors Год назад +864

    You'll never dislike Pearl as much as she dislikes herself.

    • @ThatRedhedd
      @ThatRedhedd Год назад +7

      I don't think she has low self-esteem...It just seems like she truly believes that an old-school, patriarchal family structure makes the most sense and leads to greater happiness. What's ironic is hearing a single person explain how being in a heterosexual partnership is the best way, the correct way, to live. I mean, she's not with a man, is she?

    • @mizravenkustoms
      @mizravenkustoms Год назад +45

      @@ThatRedheddthere are videos where she flat out says that she has low self esteem.

    • @funkyguy99
      @funkyguy99 Год назад

      ​@@ThatRedheddwomen are far more patriarchal than men cause they prefer traditional men that provides and protects. These traditional men came from an era of patriarchy. If you want men that are tall, strong, high earner, confident, have their shit together. Guess what, you support patriarchy and too stupid to even know it. Go figure!

    • @NoNameToYou
      @NoNameToYou 10 месяцев назад +4

      Or the men that watch her

    • @FdeProductions
      @FdeProductions 10 месяцев назад +4

      This is not true. You have no idea of how much I hate reactionaries.

  • @JamesCarter1998
    @JamesCarter1998 Год назад +626

    The fact that an absolute black hole of charisma like Pearl can somehow amass a following of over a million people is both incredibly inspiring and depressing to me 😳

    • @tommydevine9993
      @tommydevine9993 Год назад

      Manosphere version of Chaya Raichik. The only reason they can amass the following they have is by appealing to the lowest of the low who are either very hateful, very ignorant, or typically a combination of both.

    • @Vanillababe7
      @Vanillababe7 Год назад +63

      "Absolut black hole of charisma" had me rolling 😂. Its so true this girl indeed has ZERO charm. And she is physically not appealing. (I find her kinda ugly) But she tells butthurt angry men what they love to hear. She validates them and their egos. So everyone who is redpill subscribed

    • @chanellover4491
      @chanellover4491 Год назад +2

      Not necessarily love all her content but all those women who comes to her show serves as a cautionary tale to me😅

    • @candythedrummer
      @candythedrummer Год назад +10

      That was my first thought but now I have renewed hope for myself 😂 brb off to start my career as a content creator

    • @ashleyreynolds1991
      @ashleyreynolds1991 Год назад +8

      RIGHT? I believe this channel should have millions of subs, not her... i don't see how, like why? Her content is crap tbh...The lovely beautiful Rachel actually has things to say and share with the world... all this girl is spreading is more hate!

  • @hannamcswain
    @hannamcswain Год назад +662

    “They will post the most unflattering photos of me”
    Ma’am that’s all you’re providing 🫡

    • @beththegreen
      @beththegreen Год назад +31

      Right? It's not like they're the ones taking them, she's the one in control of the camera and what goes online, it's not our fault if those photos aren't attractive

    • @EEsYouTubeChanel
      @EEsYouTubeChanel Год назад +29

      She's wearing no make up in a oversized shirt with her hair pulled back. She always looks like she just got out of bed.

    • @annjepsen1621
      @annjepsen1621 Год назад

      She got a stylist at one point and he did her dirty! Her own choices aren't any better. If she did some minimal styling of her hair, she'd probably be shocked at the difference. Her potential will always be overshadowed by her shitty attitude and self-hatred.

  • @manderly33
    @manderly33 Год назад +367

    Rachel, these people with lazy podcasts and videos with tech issues get views because the bar is on the ground for people seeking to have their biases confirmed. They just want to hear “it’s all women’s fault” and it doesn’t matter who says it or how poorly they say it.

    • @ruminationstation4200
      @ruminationstation4200 Год назад +17

      Yup, like of course she doesn't edit her videos, she wants to have a longer run time and doesn't have the content to fill it. Why put in work when your bottom of the barrel audience will get you paid the same amount for less work?

    • @seamstressdragon8707
      @seamstressdragon8707 Год назад +12

      I do think that right wing RUclipsrs, podcasters etc who are lazy with their editing or boring in personality still get tons of view as conservatives want their biases confirmed but also they don’t care about creativity and the craft that goes into a good video.
      I think if there was a left wing/progressive RUclipsr who was just as lazy and boring as Pearl then no one would watch as I do think progressives value creativity and high quality craftsmanship more.

    • @BeepBoop14
      @BeepBoop14 Год назад +3

      SO TRUE

    • @Suited_Nat
      @Suited_Nat Год назад +3

      ⁠@@seamstressdragon8707 it’s true, as right wingers tend to want censorship on a shit ton of media anyways-
      Also the way she just confirms biases- it’s so annoying lol

    • @seamstressdragon8707
      @seamstressdragon8707 Год назад

      @@Suited_Nat It is teeth pullingly bad the way she confirms their hatred and drivel.
      I remember a leftist RUclipsr that I watch saying that right wingers/conservatives only like art that serves the state. Art encourages critical thinking and often critiques systems and governments which they hate. No wonder arts and humanities funding is always cut first when conservatives are in power.

  • @raigenhuss7030
    @raigenhuss7030 Год назад +274

    She sure has a lot of opinions for someone who thinks women shouldn’t vote 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @fabiotieri3155
      @fabiotieri3155 10 месяцев назад +3

      This comment is everywhere and I'm glad it is 😂🎉

    • @WynnWynn-gl3fk
      @WynnWynn-gl3fk 7 месяцев назад +2

      The same with Ann Coulter

    • @JuliusTurner-hm6ff
      @JuliusTurner-hm6ff 6 месяцев назад

      She's a quarter right. I believe anybody with common sense and a brain shouldn't vote.

  • @Annickicki
    @Annickicki Год назад +656

    I feel like in her case it is fair to critique her appearance. She's out there telling women how they have to stay thin and be all that for their husbands... while appearning to not do anything to even try to attract the kind of husband she tells every other woman they should want? She's either a complete hypocrite or the most amazing long-term troll account ever created.

    • @visaman
      @visaman Год назад

      She was quite obese, and is losing weight,

    • @ruminationstation4200
      @ruminationstation4200 Год назад +56

      ​@@llynxfyremusic I think she realized that her fan base doesn't care, and she's about getting her bag. Not really a troll, just someone prioritizing making money above intellectual honesty.

    • @lenkajf7816
      @lenkajf7816 Год назад +5

      I mean, she said herself that she is a 5, so not a hypocrite, maybe just a self-aware woman

    • @anthonytitone
      @anthonytitone Год назад +16

      She’s a grifter

    • @pennybarker1596
      @pennybarker1596 Год назад

      It is fair. I just said she looks like a product of inbreeding, which is not far-fetched since the rich do these sorts of things.

  • @rozennrd4802
    @rozennrd4802 Год назад +491

    I absolutely love the term "body count". Like people who sleep with others consensually are serial killers. I find this hilarious and would love to write / read a story where two people go on a date and misunderstand each other : one is asking about the "body count" of the other wanting to know how many people they slept with, and the other answers seriously, a bit flabbergasted and pleased that their serial killer activities are so common and normal that this person casually asks them about it, and really glad they share the same interests and hobbies.

    • @anthonyplaysbass
      @anthonyplaysbass Год назад +47

      I hate the new language. "Body count" wasn't a thing a couple years ago. Im 30 and I only heard it last year on these toxic red pill platforms.

    • @Paula-zt9ol
      @Paula-zt9ol Год назад +32

      I like your story idea, that's hysterical 😂

    • @VeeKayGreenerGrass
      @VeeKayGreenerGrass Год назад +12

      ​@@anthonyplaysbassthey're speaking about it violently using death language. It's truly tradgic.

    • @VeeKayGreenerGrass
      @VeeKayGreenerGrass Год назад +5

      Please do it 😂

    • @SaigesArstgo1031
      @SaigesArstgo1031 Год назад +6

      @@anthonyplaysbassive heard "body count" for a decade where have you been. Its not new. Hell ive seen this story prompt on tumblr for longer.

  • @gsp4prez
    @gsp4prez Год назад +697

    Pearl has spoken openly about how toxic her home life was, with her mom pretty much telling her women are w****s and her brothers calling her ugly constantly growing up. I almost feel bad for her that she’s working through her trauma in possibly the worst way possible. Then I hear her talk shit about women and that goes away.

    • @Liitebulb
      @Liitebulb Год назад +66

      My mother does that too while simultaneously trying to be progressive. Eventually I got away from her

    • @hopefulmonsters4407
      @hopefulmonsters4407 Год назад +12

      You got it in one, 100%

    • @jaybee_.
      @jaybee_. Год назад +21

      Her brothers have a valid point lmfao

    • @irinaimme
      @irinaimme Год назад +29

      ​@@jaybee_. I don't think she's ugly on the outside. It's the things she says that are the issue. But I do feel bad for her, I think she's easily influenced and probably been through some trauma as others have said.

    • @aren7138
      @aren7138 Год назад +34

      She's not the only girl who goes through that. She could have risen above the hatred but she preferred money.

  • @blueberry4082
    @blueberry4082 Год назад +73

    Nine kids? Parents don’t have time for kids especially when both work. It shows that she hasn’t had a deep relationship with her parents. Not having a deep relationship with her mom leads to internalized misogyny

    • @Mylittlestcorner
      @Mylittlestcorner Год назад

      Nah I heard her mom is a woman hating hag so that bond wouldn't have helped either 😮‍💨

    • @annjepsen1621
      @annjepsen1621 Год назад +8

      And her Daddy has cleaned up all her messes and set up her entire podcasting business for her.

    • @opportunista88
      @opportunista88 10 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly.

    • @alexandrarusu3966
      @alexandrarusu3966 10 месяцев назад +1

      10 kids !

  • @PerpetuallyAnnoyed
    @PerpetuallyAnnoyed Год назад +246

    justPearlyThings: the pick-me that no one picked.

  • @tommydevine9993
    @tommydevine9993 Год назад +224

    4:45 "what is a hoe statistically? More than 5 partners".
    I'm glad she clarified that piece of crucial data for us. I wonder what statistical model she used to come to that determination. Curious what the p-value was to determine the statistical significance... 🤦‍♂️

    • @jaymarcotte947
      @jaymarcotte947 Год назад

      LMAO I THOUGHT THE EXACT SAME THING
      LIKE GO AHEAD. GIVE US THE RESEARCH THAT DETERMINED MATHEMATICALLY WHAT A HOE IS.

    • @EEsYouTubeChanel
      @EEsYouTubeChanel Год назад +1

      That movie with Anna Faris said the average before marriage is 8, not 5

    • @PrincessNinja007
      @PrincessNinja007 Год назад +1

      The mean is 7 iirc

    • @mE-zx7pt
      @mE-zx7pt Год назад +6

      I read elsewhere that she's had four. Not sure if that's true or not, but it's funny that she would set the number at one more than the number she's had.

    • @ThatRedhedd
      @ThatRedhedd Год назад +2

      And that's super effing low! LOL. I'm sure the national average is at least 8!

  • @conigliana
    @conigliana Год назад +321

    her standards regarding relationships are literally on the floor yet still nobody is picking her must be rough

    • @penguin974
      @penguin974 Год назад +13

      Look at the men she is with in the podcasts, they want a traditional woman on beliefs that's slim thick, perfect face, no makeup, perfect hair, no high education, know how to take care of a house and children, etc... Pearl is not even close to their type, she speaks up, she doesn't have s perfect face, and grown up rich so probably has never had to take care of a house

    • @conigliana
      @conigliana Год назад

      @@penguin974 they're just using her as a gateway to blatantly disrespect and trash women because they can point the finger and say "look even a woman is repeating our hateful talking points hence we're not misogynistic". what she's not aware of is that all of those men would rather cuff a good looking prostitute than pearl because those men see women as brain-dead sex toys and nothing else. either way, pearl is in for a rude awakening very soon.

    • @ashleyreynolds1991
      @ashleyreynolds1991 Год назад +7

      because of the men she attracts... they prob treat her horrible and cheat and crap... It is sad when she said if you want a high value man, that cheaing comes with the territory ... uh, yeah, we have different defs... to me a high value man treats their SO with love and respect and equality... not like trash off the street...

  • @alim.9801
    @alim.9801 Год назад +45

    Also here's just a nice story i want to tell:
    The best married couple i ever knew were married like 35 years. They were both professors in the theatre program at my college. He taught technical things and she taught acting and was the head of the department. They taught the stage combat class together as partners, and the best pic i ever saw was of them crossing swords in the air while kissing. Their names were Ed and Danette. They met at that same college when they went there, and after they graduated they lived and acted together in NYC. Eventually, they came back to teach. Danette was an ACTUAL girlboss- super talented, so kind but firm, wore stilettos with her jeans. Ed was the sweetest man i ever met and became a surrogate dad for me, they both helped me buy my medication one time when i couldnt afford it. Danette couldnt have children so they took the entire college department and treated them like family. They were in their 50s but were always aware of politics, what was happening in the world, and always strived to treat everyone equally, regardless or race or gender identity, etc. They were ALWAYS learning and always compassionate.
    I met them in their 50s and they would have been married until they were super old and tiny and grey, but Danette died of cancer 2 years ago. Ed is carrying on and still works at the college, but they were genuinely best friends so he really had a broken heart.
    Sure, they weren't that traditional. But they were actually happy, had a healthy and fun relationship together even decades after their wedding, and their compassion spread to everyone around them.
    Amazing people. Everyone deserves a love like they shared. 💜
    Sorry its a long story but i want the world to know how amazing they were. The world is a worse place without Danette 100%

    • @amiek9226
      @amiek9226 11 месяцев назад +8

      Thank you for sharing the story of Ed and Danette. Judging by what you wrote, they truly built a legacy with the investment they made in their students. 🙏 ❤️

    • @etwrnity
      @etwrnity 6 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you so much for sharing the story of Ed and Danette!

    • @maddieb.4282
      @maddieb.4282 5 месяцев назад +1

      Gonna be thinking about this for a while ❤

  • @CreepIt100
    @CreepIt100 Год назад +240

    My theory is that she was probably overweight or called ugly while growing up, and never got the male validation she thinks she desperately needed. Now she overcompensates for the lack of attention by becoming a pick me, and adapting the “alpha male mindset”. They’re never going to pick her tho because she’s not conventionally attractive (not insulting her look, but she doesn’t look like the kind of women those kind of men go after), and they only like that she’s basically their spokesperson.

    • @tashibalampkin8555
      @tashibalampkin8555 Год назад +21

      Probably called ugly? Look at her. She was.

    • @mariaathena7910
      @mariaathena7910 Год назад +9

      @@tashibalampkin8555 yessss like honey get a grip calling out other women

    • @powderandpaint14
      @powderandpaint14 Год назад +16

      She doesn't seem to put the work into her looks that those types of men would expect either, plenty of makeup, false eyelashes, dyed, styled hair, fake tan, lots of time in the gym etc. Odd.

    • @jillscheer3677
      @jillscheer3677 Год назад +5

      She was overweight as a kid so you are correct. I think she’s a grifter but also a validation seeker.

    • @RottenCheese
      @RottenCheese Год назад +1

      She was fat, was called fat, she chose to improve her health, slimmed down.
      Sometimes you need some outside pressure to make changes to yourself for a better future. The folks who succeed in life typically take in criticism and try to improve instead of blaming people.
      And what is with everyone and "pick me". We all have to be picked, whether it is for a job or a partner.

  • @desertrose0027
    @desertrose0027 Год назад +143

    She doesn't know ANY 30 or 40 yr old married couples who are in happy egalitarian relationships? ANY of them? You know the wrong people.

    • @carlamoss89
      @carlamoss89 Год назад +11

      it's cause she doesn't have friends :(

  • @semplybalanced3210
    @semplybalanced3210 Год назад +207

    She’s already aged out of the manoshpere (The say 25 is the cut off age for women). And 30 yrs old is elderly. So, what’s her endgame??? She didn’t think this through at all.
    She’s spewed out so much hatred & her latest unhinged takes on abuse, giving out false information & stats, is straight up demon territory. Her karma is going to be wicked.

    • @lemsip207
      @lemsip207 Год назад

      The honey badgers can be any age though. They cast off women for sex when they get to 25. I was told that on a course based on the Duluth model.

    • @hamsterstyle6152
      @hamsterstyle6152 Год назад

      Who is they?

    • @katyfive1
      @katyfive1 Год назад +10

      @@lemsip207 this is honestly the funniest thing tho. imagine you find the hottest woman imaginable and shes 26, lmaooo

    • @angel5423
      @angel5423 Год назад +1

      Literally. We'll see.

    • @SJ-ru4ej
      @SJ-ru4ej Год назад

      People who talk like that really need to take a look at the real world. Most people aren’t getting married out of high school anymore, and a lot who get married young are getting divorced by 30 (Not all, but some). I didn’t get pregnant until over 30 and it only took 2 months of trying. Most women are having their first over 30 now, and some not even until over 35. Some women in their 20s are doing IVF due to fertility issues. The majority of people who think women are useless over 25, are single.

  • @aidaosobampo648
    @aidaosobampo648 9 месяцев назад +32

    I'm only 34 and divorced. I was married to a pastor, I married "well" just like the church and purity culture expects us to do so. It was 10 years of abuse, physical, verbal, emotional, sexual, all kinds of abuse!!! When I left, on top of having to recover from all that, I had to go through all of it with a great amount of GUILT. Because of people like Pearl. This is DANGEROUS!!!!

    • @aidaosobampo648
      @aidaosobampo648 9 месяцев назад +7

      By the way, I took so much abuse for so long because we did marriage the traditional way and didn't have means to leave, nor the support!

    • @saintejeannedarc9460
      @saintejeannedarc9460 7 месяцев назад +1

      Very sorry that all happened to you. The red pill loves to quote how 70-80% of women file for divorce, usually for frivolous reasons. I really wonder about that, esp. when I see stories like yours. There are far too many of them, abuse, cheating, got tired of her, traded for a younger one, but it's the woman's fault becasue she filed.

    • @StuJones-gn7te
      @StuJones-gn7te 6 месяцев назад

      Maybe you were abused. Its hard to accept the idea anymore, though. There are thousands of shelters and support programs for abused women (virtually zero for men though).
      Plus, claims of abuse have become the norm in virtually every divorce case. I knew a woman who filed for divorce and was repeatedly pushed by her lawyers to claim abuse and were shocked when she wouldn't.
      Coupled with no criminal liability for lying about a man in court, there's no reason not to.
      As far as I'm concerned, in the absence of medical evidence, you were not abused.
      "Emotional abuse" by women is so common, men regularly joke about it. In marriage we call it "nagging."

    • @rays_crows9
      @rays_crows9 6 месяцев назад +2

      That’s awful that you had to go through that, and I hope you’re doing better now ❤️ And yes, what Pearl is saying is actively enabling abusers! It’s absolutely dangerous, and it’s disgusting that Pearl, a privileged woman who’s never experienced that kind of hardship is spewing her bullshit out into the world.

    • @StuJones-gn7te
      @StuJones-gn7te 6 месяцев назад +1

      When this happens to a man, women tell him that he should have chosen a better wife.

  • @MszCharney
    @MszCharney Год назад +556

    For being a "traditional" woman and having "traditional" beliefs, she sure gives off very masculine energy. Nothing wrong with that, its just an observation. She does in fact put down men as well, so I am also getting the vibe that she is just salty because she cant find anyone who wants to be with her.

    • @MedusaChristo
      @MedusaChristo Год назад

      The way she speaks Is not feminine at all, & her style Is frumpy. She's not ugly but her enegry Is. She talks as a frat boy as someone else commented. 😂

    • @sharonberry410
      @sharonberry410 Год назад +5

      Maybe she's trans...

    • @cl5470
      @cl5470 Год назад

      She's a femcel. It's all based on hate and anger

    • @saiyamoru
      @saiyamoru Год назад

      She's too much of an extremist to get with a normal guy (can you imagine the dynamic of someone who has no idea who pearl is on a first date?) but she will also never be able to tradwife-up with one of the extremists she does podcasts with because she's 'too old, not a virgin, ugly' (their standards, not mine) and has a career as a podcaster instead of doing cleaning/cooking/child-rearing.
      In other words, she's put herself in a weird kind of no-man's-land of dating.

    • @sheknows5938
      @sheknows5938 Год назад +43

      ​@@sharonberry410nah. just a weird girl.

  • @brandenaustin37
    @brandenaustin37 Год назад +856

    Its weird how pearl not fitting any of societies standards for conventionally "attractive" woman has the audacity to tell other womanto stay thin and how to look

    • @angry-lucky-catty
      @angry-lucky-catty Год назад

      That’s the only box of “conventionally attractive” features she can check off.
      ✔️ not obese

    • @capitalb5889
      @capitalb5889 Год назад +37

      I think she's reasonably attractive from a conventional perspective

    • @kr3642
      @kr3642 Год назад +3

      Exactly.

    • @gracehetfield5331
      @gracehetfield5331 Год назад

      ​@@capitalb5889 I mean I would say she's rather plain or average but the way she styles herself is unattractive imo. I get that she's trying to look conservative and modest but you can dress modest without it being boring and unflattering.

    • @aplum4218
      @aplum4218 Год назад +138

      ​​@@capitalb5889 Pearl is that you? 3.5 on a good day.

  • @violentsobbing8614
    @violentsobbing8614 Год назад +324

    Just wanted to say that, as an asexual, I always feel super validated when you mention asexuality in discussing healthy, non-traditional relationships. Your allyship to the LGBT+ community is appreciated, as is your incredible content as a whole :) 💖

    • @ThatRedhedd
      @ThatRedhedd Год назад +12

      Totally agree! And the L's of the LGBTQ+ community also appreciate the consistently stellar wardrobe choices!

  • @DogVill-inc
    @DogVill-inc Год назад +55

    What I don’t get is that she’s so about “you need to get pregnant and married asap” meanwhile she’s almost 30 not married no kids. not that it matters but fertility starts to decline around 35. Sooooo girlie is running outa time to be a “high value” woman💀

    • @courtneyr6645
      @courtneyr6645 Год назад +10

      I am not fully versed in the established definition of “high value”, but I think brushing one’s hair would be a basic requirement. If she can’t even do that, she’s got a long road ahead

    • @Zookiethecrimecookie
      @Zookiethecrimecookie 3 месяца назад

      ​@@courtneyr6645
      She can't even build a IKEA furniture

  • @Loffeleif
    @Loffeleif Год назад +540

    This lady is insane. She keeps loudly arguing about a life experience she's never had. Something tells me her entire account is a megacope for some ex-boyfriend who cheated on her.

    • @fallenking578
      @fallenking578 Год назад +37

      ​@IngeniousMaultasche I mean...its kinda karma in a way for how she treats other

    • @peacechickification
      @peacechickification Год назад +37

      She comes from the church of ‘the louder you are, the more correct you are’

    • @fallenking578
      @fallenking578 Год назад +5

      @@peacechickification honestly, I wouldn't be surprised

    • @scipioafricanus5871
      @scipioafricanus5871 Год назад +4

      @@peacechickification Now there's a broad church.

    • @ouwebrood497
      @ouwebrood497 Год назад +8

      You take her 'content' far too seriously. She's just a grifter milking traditionalist men.

  • @thekatchat6017
    @thekatchat6017 Год назад +186

    Didnt she say that her dad AND MOM worked in tech? Sooo... She didnt even grow up in a "traditional house hold"

    • @twilightexposure8431
      @twilightexposure8431 Год назад +40

      Her mom even had an abortion. So what TF is even traditional about THAT LMAOOOOOO

  • @Hawther
    @Hawther Год назад +241

    I didn't expect my husband to become disabled and retire by 50. Glad I always out earned him and can support our family or we'd be fucked.

    • @Sara-sn5gd
      @Sara-sn5gd Год назад +21

      That's something I always think about with these situations where someone doesn't work. I do want them to have the option, but you should also know it's risky

    • @RR-on4sk
      @RR-on4sk Год назад +1

      Right? All different reasons women want to work, have to work, or don't go to work. Point of feminism is to have all options available.

  • @equestrianwhotravels
    @equestrianwhotravels Год назад +66

    My question is… if Pearl is everything these guys want, why aren’t they tripping over themselves to pick her?

    • @seia2758
      @seia2758 Год назад

      Because Pearl is about 3 at best. She's no instagram model, actress or even a sexy gaming girl. She makes money off of single lonely men who are purposeless and fail in life. These lonely men are complimenting her because they don't want her to stop giving them motivations. Not because they want to wife her up. The internet is loaded with instagram models and hot tub-soaking naked women who are much more hotter than her and that's what these men want - the women they claim they hate. Let's face it, if she leaves, these men will be devastated because no one will give them motivations anymore. Same deal with Andrew Tate back then. While they do have some good life advices, some of them are really bad. And Pearl is a fan of Tate. I'm also a Tate fan, but I'm not stupid enough to follow everything he says.

    • @nataliescott1914
      @nataliescott1914 Год назад +3

      Because Pearl is really homely!

  • @shallowwater
    @shallowwater Год назад +363

    Pearls lip smacks and mouth noises fills me with so much rage. And she wonders why she's single. If I had to listen to that on a daily basis I'd yeet myself into the sun.

    • @Tina-fj4xo
      @Tina-fj4xo Год назад +32

      i just had to pause the video because the sounds she was making are sooooo gross. Like someone playing with a piece of gum? or a loose retainer? either way...nasty

    • @shallowwater
      @shallowwater Год назад

      @@Tina-fj4xo I couldnt finish the video. Between that fake ass sigh and those smacks I had to let it go. One thing I wish people would call Pearl on is projecting.
      "Women lie!"
      Oh yeah? So is that something you do often?
      "Women use men!"
      So you're shallow and self absorbed? If you got issues, address them. You don't represent the rest of the female populous.
      I just hear her say things and it's like no one thinks to use that angle. Someone needs to really rip apart her bullshit down the molecular level so she'll slink off and find a new grift cause god damn this one is aggravating to listen to.
      "Bring back bullying!"
      *smacking noises*
      "Someone was mean to me."
      At least practice what you preach girl, man.
      Sorry, ADHD rage kicked in. Pearl just pushes all the wrong buttons for me.

    • @page8301
      @page8301 Год назад +1

      It is strange to me that this is something that has never really bothered me yet some are really sensitive to this. I do not mean that in a bad way, more of a curious observation on my part.

    • @shallowwater
      @shallowwater Год назад +23

      @@page8301 sound sensitivity is a special hell my friend.

    • @page8301
      @page8301 Год назад +1

      @@shallowwater I am sorry to read that. I am kinda the opposite and it bothers even some in my family how... insensitive I am. They sometimes even ask me "how can this NOT bother you?!" but I just do not know why.

  • @dominikaszymaszek45
    @dominikaszymaszek45 Год назад +201

    She has "debunked" Münecat video about manosphere - it was WILD!! Imagine "debunking" well researched data with anecdotal evidence 😳

    • @SoVidushi
      @SoVidushi Год назад +33

      I love münecat! Didn't watch the whole stream but I wasn't surprised pear responded.

    • @auroralee3934
      @auroralee3934 Год назад +14

      But...but- Pearl has assured us..

    • @anaionescu8913
      @anaionescu8913 Год назад +33

      Yea, basically all the "evidence" Pearl uses to back up her views is "trust me bro"

    • @mechanomics2649
      @mechanomics2649 Год назад +3

      She sounded high as hell throughout the whole thing.

    • @lemsip207
      @lemsip207 Год назад

      ​@SoVidushi Munecat did one more recently about sovereignty, the freeman movement, and common law. I fell for that years ago, so thanks to munecat for that.

  • @MacyMayM
    @MacyMayM Год назад +1474

    I feel like misogyny never been so obvious and normalized before in the modern world.
    I’m glad people are talking about the toxicity of these red pill content creators. They literally do mentally gymnastics to make people think men are oppressed.

    • @niklasmolen4753
      @niklasmolen4753 Год назад +38

      They are just the natural backlash against toxic feminism. Both groups are divisive and should be stopped. They both build on the same foundation, but just from different sides.

    • @CaptainObvious0000
      @CaptainObvious0000 Год назад +9

      I got into forced labor for 8-9 months because I'm a man, it damaged my health and career development. I did feel pretty oppressed at that time. the government will surely never compensate me for violating my basic human right to choose my work based on my sex.

    • @ruminationstation4200
      @ruminationstation4200 Год назад +102

      ​@@CaptainObvious0000forced labor? Like slavery? Who enslaved you?

    • @CaptainObvious0000
      @CaptainObvious0000 Год назад +11

      @@ruminationstation4200 being drafted, then doing alternative service because I had no choice. it's forced labor.

    • @coletrickle1775
      @coletrickle1775 Год назад +22

      @@ruminationstation4200 The private, for profit prison industry potentially.

  • @19BookLover
    @19BookLover Год назад +66

    Pearl says the most unfunny thing in the world then has a laughing fit by herself. Usually I think it’s a charming trait to laugh at your own jokes, but not when the “jokes” are so hateful.

    • @19BookLover
      @19BookLover Год назад +1

      GOD THE MEN PEARL ALLIES HERSELF WITH ARE SO GROSS

    • @jocular1910
      @jocular1910 Год назад +1

      Looking at men for approval? Heck, I did that once when I tried to see if the jury would believe those trumped up charges.

  • @mkay2925
    @mkay2925 Год назад +548

    I feel like she really just hates women cause she’s jealous. The way she talks over and dismisses them is very telling.

    • @Emma-dt5tg
      @Emma-dt5tg Год назад +48

      I know, she likes bringing much younger and prettier women into her studio to shout at them. Tragic.

    • @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
      @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 Год назад +18

      I have noticed that. I also see how pearl isn't married , she's actually starting to sound like a mini Lori alexander

    • @ejtattersall156
      @ejtattersall156 Год назад +2

      Yeah, but nobody, and I mean nobody hates women out of jealousy like a feminist. Feminism=misogyny. Perl has an audience for a reason.

    • @zizojaezekeom3565
      @zizojaezekeom3565 Год назад +19

      ​@@ejtattersall156feminism ≠ misogyny i can't believe i have to teach you the meaning of words now 😂 feminism and that is the advocacy of women's rights , misogyny is misogyny just like misandry is misandry and that being a man ≠ a r* pist and a Muslim ≠ a t*rrorist, use the right terminalogy 😂

    • @fixerrr98
      @fixerrr98 Год назад +1

      Jealous of what? It sems You are threatened by her..

  • @Strikedingo
    @Strikedingo Год назад +1910

    As a woman happily married to another woman with no men in the house. I can say we DONT need men and she’s wildly indoctrinated. Very sad.

    • @Suited_Nat
      @Suited_Nat Год назад +126

      Yep! As a lesbian here, the only type of “man i need” is friends, platonic friends. LOL

    • @pennybarker1596
      @pennybarker1596 Год назад +29

      You guys are so lucky. Sadly, I was born straight, but sometimes I think about the idea of living with a woman and giving me a fuzzy feeling. This comes from a woman who always had decent men in her life, so I can only imagine how frustrated the rest of women must be.

    • @swampsprite9
      @swampsprite9 Год назад +47

      I'm a straight woman with no man in my life and don't need one.

    • @sumbarine
      @sumbarine Год назад

      @@Suited_Nat you are a man if your a lesbian----yuck

    • @sumbarine
      @sumbarine Год назад

      @@pennybarker1596 good riddens,heterosexual men dont need you,please leave the heterosexual way

  • @Jingleschmiede
    @Jingleschmiede Год назад +142

    As a man in his 40s I find it really amusing, when people in their 20s give life advice. There are some smart, thinking young people like Rachel, but usually .... . In my childhood parents gave us advice, were usually right, but we ignored them. :) Today young people give advice to young people. What qualifies young people to talk about life ? Being 20 years, living in the parents house isn't life. And I wonder what her mother thinks, who obviously helped building a business, about her thoughts.

    • @saphire9823
      @saphire9823 Год назад +5

      I am a woman in my 40s and ye's I wondered the same 😊

    • @piya6929
      @piya6929 Год назад +4

      as a woman in her 20s i think the same...i would never claim to know about most adult things let alone tell people how they should or shouldn't lead their lives...i truely believe these people will look at these videos in their later years and cringe at themselves the way i cringe when reading my middle school diary

    • @MS-we9gn
      @MS-we9gn Год назад +9

      I think it depends on what kind of advice they’re giving. I’m a trans man who is 30 and in my community I’m practically considered an elder

    • @unicorn73212
      @unicorn73212 Год назад

      I heard she had over 100 partners and it sounds like she's judging me for a faze I went through in my 20s but if that rumor is really true that means she's still out there hitting the pole at 26. I've been clean from being a hoe for 7 years and people forget that sleeping around is also an addiction you have to take steps to not be a hoe anymore they act like there's no cure for it too but there is just keep your legs closed.
      Her and Andrew tate are the perfect match because they had the same amount of ex partners. And they both sound like there into that BDSM kind of lifestyle I just hope pearl realizes she would be in the kitchen with that guy he might not even be home.

    • @Liitebulb
      @Liitebulb Год назад

      Not my case. The last time I took advice from my parents was when I was 15 and I only continued to take their advice to respect their opinion. They haven't given good advice only bad advice

  • @meghansaueressig266
    @meghansaueressig266 Год назад +53

    I think her monotony, lack of preparation, and lack of editing is all because she’s trying really hard to make it seem like she’s not trying too hard. I remember being a bit of a “not like other girls” girl in middle school, and at the time seeming like I was trying too hard was the worst thing in the world to me. It’s all an attempt to show men “look at me, I’m not like other girls, I don’t care about how I present myself and I don’t put any effort into it.”
    Basically what I’m saying is that Pearl is stuck in the mindset of a middle school girl with a lot of internalized misogyny

    • @titanblooded6222
      @titanblooded6222 Год назад

      She says she has an issue with toxic feminist ideology

  • @tinabalducci
    @tinabalducci Год назад +354

    I am always so puzzled by people like Pearl who advocate against feminism. When we ask conservatives what they think America symbolizes, most of them would reply freedom. Anti-feminism is anti-freedom which is anti-American. How can you advocate for rights and freedom but at the same time, advocate for women to not have rights and freedom? Breaks my brain

    • @Shidokun96
      @Shidokun96 Год назад +55

      Speaking as a tired American woman, because it’s never been about freedom for all-it’s been freedom for us (white, heteronormative, neurotypical men), screw all others. If someone falls into one or more of those buckets, it’s truly remarkable how every freedom that they already have shouldn’t be shared with anyone outside that, even if ideologically, they should be the loudest advocates.

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 Год назад

      What they mean is freedom for men only. Americans men do every thing possible to control women

    • @giaelie3283
      @giaelie3283 Год назад

      That's because Conservatives don't want freedom for all.
      They believe only people born Rich deserve respect and equality.
      They want to dismantle Democracy so only the wealthiest citizens are allowed to participate in government and make policies. They want the rest of us to shut up and do as we're told.

    • @user-mh7db7ei1s
      @user-mh7db7ei1s Год назад

      It’s because they think that ‘freedom’ means that they can say and do whatever they want without facing any negative consequences. They think that ‘freedom’ is the right to force their lifestyles into others (e.g. heteronormativity enforced by refusing to recognize gay marriage, sending their LGBT+ kids to conversion therapy.)

    • @UlshaRS
      @UlshaRS Год назад +15

      The wonders of cognitive dissonance. It takes a lot of rattling to make the brain cells storing opposing views to bang into one another and spark critical thought

  • @Jmmmmama
    @Jmmmmama Год назад +475

    She’s like “rich people don’t actually flex” proceeds to flex her parents house

    • @kayakat1869
      @kayakat1869 Год назад +33

      Imagine being 28 and flexing your parent's house. That's pathetic.

    • @neehaa
      @neehaa Год назад +7

      that’s cause she ain’t rich

    • @Kingofthenet2
      @Kingofthenet2 Год назад +2

      My thoughts exactly 😂😂😂😂

  • @ajnineteen3
    @ajnineteen3 Год назад +1490

    saying “I don’t think women should vote” when you ARE A WOMAN is like telling yourself to stfu because you shouldn’t have an opinion in the first place… like, what?😂

    • @diabloakland
      @diabloakland Год назад +58

      Yeah saying that shit is just crazy lol. She just goes for outrage

    • @wildflower0901
      @wildflower0901 Год назад +77

      She has never said that without giggling. She doesn't even take herself seriously.
      And in the next breath, claims she wants to run for office 🙄
      She is a walking contradiction and only spews reaction statements for money.

    • @bodhisattva2348
      @bodhisattva2348 Год назад +62

      Candace owens literally said a few weeks back that she don't think women belong in the work place because it's a distraction to men. This is a woman that have a whole ass job with a live audience 🤨😒 explain that logic to me

    • @5MinFantasyFootball
      @5MinFantasyFootball Год назад +2

      More women didn’t want the right to vote than actual advocates 😂

    • @andshereadstoo7809
      @andshereadstoo7809 Год назад +22

      I feel like sometimes she forgets she's a woman as well from how patronising her tone is when speaking to other women this is the funniest ☠

  • @trickymarigold
    @trickymarigold Год назад +87

    Pearl is literally like “they don’t like evidence” then argues from nothing but anecdotes as a mean to “own the libs” irony isn’t dead. It’s just tired.

  • @renanawulkan
    @renanawulkan Год назад +266

    Why is she always chewing? This is unbearable

    • @twawndawlight102
      @twawndawlight102 Год назад +33

      This is the comment I was looking for, thank you😂

    • @caseyw.6550
      @caseyw.6550 Год назад +52

      Yeah. My very traditional granny would say that's very unladylike. See, Pearl, how the goal post can always be moved on what makes a "good woman"?

    • @melissashiels7838
      @melissashiels7838 Год назад

      Yeah, I had to give up. This b*tch was triggering my misophonia something awful. Just what I want - intrusive violent thoughts before bedtime!

    • @user-vc1ko
      @user-vc1ko Год назад +37

      @@caseyw.6550 Glad i’m not the only one who noticed this. Between her posture, the legs spread wide on a couch and slumped over, I can’t believe her traditional parents allowed this.

    • @littlefurrow2437
      @littlefurrow2437 Год назад +25

      She got cud.

  • @sayruh2794
    @sayruh2794 Год назад +794

    If I die and then wake up sitting around a table at a stupid misogynistic bro podcast I will know that I am in hell.

    • @scofah
      @scofah Год назад

      😂 Good one! So funny.
      P.S. the right-wing Christian extremists know so little about the US Constitution that they don't even understand that hell would be unconstitutional.
      P.P.S. always remember our constitution created our *secular* government. Its only references to religion are exclusionary.

    • @SethHMG
      @SethHMG Год назад +14

      As a guy, same.

    • @ripwednesdayadams
      @ripwednesdayadams Год назад +4

      seriously 😂

    • @carolinem6655
      @carolinem6655 Год назад +2

      Lmaoooo too real

    • @RR-on4sk
      @RR-on4sk Год назад +3

      Lol it's next to being last at the DMV or getting a root canal.

  • @karly1702
    @karly1702 Год назад +461

    As a 20 year old woman, I get really triggered every time Pearl says 'we'

    • @Emma-dt5tg
      @Emma-dt5tg Год назад +19

      It’s hilarious to me because I happen to be very “traditional” in that I’ve only ever been with my fiancé and we plan to start trying for kids on our wedding night (which is probably a tiny bit financially irresponsible tbh). I’m younger than her, slimmer than her, less career-focused than her, have more domestic skills than her (she has a channel where she’s trying to learn “wife skills” and she can’t cook the most basic things), have a waaaay lower ‘body count’ (horrid phrase) than her… speak for yourself, Pearl, you bitter old spinster 😂

    • @lovebuzzs
      @lovebuzzs Год назад

      SORRY I GOT CONFUSED WITH NAMES MY OLD RELY IN WRONG MB 😭

    • @margarethegallersdorfer9702
      @margarethegallersdorfer9702 Год назад +1

      right. like who's "we", do you have a mouse in your pocket

  • @allisonsingh4728
    @allisonsingh4728 Год назад +12

    I have read the article saying that 50/50 relationships “don’t work”. The missing context is that they work only if the couple has a discussion and delineates what 50/50 will look like for them. Otherwise they might interpret it differently and leave necessary tasks undone or partners feeling overworked and unappreciated.

  • @victoriafrater3158
    @victoriafrater3158 Год назад +370

    "is it really her fault she's stupid?" I audibly laughed.

  • @electricmagnetic
    @electricmagnetic Год назад +200

    Pearl looks like one of those girls who cries when a guy treats her the way she's talking in her videos. And she looks like she cries a lot. I should know, I used to be a pick me door mat and men treated me that way. I had no self respect because patriarchy told me I have no value. She hates herself but can't break through. She will, hopefully.

  • @alyssastewart738
    @alyssastewart738 Год назад +82

    “Is it really her fault that she’s stupid? …..hard to say” 😂 that cracked me up. One thing I’ve always loved about you is how articulate you are, so I understand your frustration with her lack of ability to communicate effectively.

  • @Jumping-cholla
    @Jumping-cholla Год назад +12

    It was an A+ take that the men actually don’t care for her and if she steps out of line they’ll abandon her. When she’s challenged on her antisemitism and racism, she gets uncomfortable. She can’t bring herself to approve the message, but she can’t denounce it because they’ll turn on her. It’s so see through.

  • @hannahhannah7002
    @hannahhannah7002 Год назад +180

    Shes so desperate. And the saddest thing of all, even after all this, she doesn't have a man

    • @krrr.4902
      @krrr.4902 Год назад +56

      ​@@adwin1148 get to it, Adwin!!! Go make her happy and help her perform her womanly duties, we're cheering for you 🎉

    • @krrr.4902
      @krrr.4902 Год назад +1

      ​@@adwin1148 hmm.. sounds like she isn't prioritizing feeling whole as a woman. Her career is getting in the way of her potential to breed healthy children and if she really has so many men wanting to provide for her but she still refuses to settle down then she is being corrupted by all that attention she's gettin.
      Actually you're dodging a bullet, you deserve better. Sarcasm aside, I do mean it. You deserve better than a parasite woman who believes men are some sort of impervious creature biologically tasked with taking care of lazy girly women.

    • @ennuiblue4295
      @ennuiblue4295 Год назад +28

      @@adwin1148 aw don't sell yourself short, after all, it's not about money ☺️

    • @AmeliaMastervally
      @AmeliaMastervally Год назад +27

      Right??? It's so funny to me. Like she jumps through all those hoops and guys still don't want her. Something clearly isn't working lmao

    • @bellamckenzie4433
      @bellamckenzie4433 Год назад +8

      @@adwin1148 Can you explain exactly what it is exactly that attracts you to her? I’m genuinely curious

  • @VoxMora
    @VoxMora Год назад +355

    I love how most of her arguments are
    1. “Come on, just think about it!”
    2. “What does that even mean”/“What is she even saying”
    3. “Man strong, woman weak”

    • @lovejunkie490
      @lovejunkie490 Год назад +23

      Your forgot « Mmm I feel like » or « women told me… »

    • @alim.9801
      @alim.9801 Год назад +13

      Is she one of those "it's JuSt CoMmOn SeNsE" people 😮‍💨

    • @ThatRedhedd
      @ThatRedhedd Год назад +1

      You nailed it! 😂

    • @dreamer9375
      @dreamer9375 Год назад +1

      ​@@lovejunkie490 She does that when she has nothing to talk about😂

  • @Lucabythesea
    @Lucabythesea Год назад +304

    Even with all her misogyny, one of her more annoying traits is having the guts to give a speech chewing gum. Just don’t.

    • @DarthBojangles
      @DarthBojangles Год назад +2

      I don’t think that’s gum 😳

    • @giuliab.5493
      @giuliab.5493 Год назад +13

      I know right, it made the things she was saying even more unbearable to hear.

    • @romeojulietlover
      @romeojulietlover Год назад +8

      Yes! Oh, God I thought I was the only one. There's was a point that I wanted to yell out "Spit out the damn gum!"

    • @bishielurfer
      @bishielurfer Год назад +14

      I also hate how poorly her content is formatted. Like... You know you can edit things out, right? You don't have to leave in all those long pauses. 😩

    • @smcv8365
      @smcv8365 Год назад +1

      Good point. She thinks it makes her sound girly-girly.

  • @JessieArnaldos
    @JessieArnaldos Год назад +10

    I just discovered your channel last night, and I can already tell that it will be my new addiction.

  • @starparodier91
    @starparodier91 Год назад +163

    I was watching this with my cat, and I swear at times she almost looked like she took something you said personally, and I said, “she’s not talking about you, Pearl, you’re a cat” 😂

    • @PreetiKaur1999
      @PreetiKaur1999 Год назад +5

      That’s a cute visual ❤ Does your cat sit steadily for sometime and watch stuff while listening intently 😮

    • @starparodier91
      @starparodier91 Год назад +7

      @@PreetiKaur1999 She actually has an obsession with computer/TV screens! She doesn’t even care if it’s on she just loves to sit in front of them. I have pics of her watching YT with me on my laptop as a kitten… I think that’s where it started 😂

    • @PreetiKaur1999
      @PreetiKaur1999 Год назад +5

      @@starparodier91 just too cute ☺️

    • @thrasherdave1428
      @thrasherdave1428 10 месяцев назад +1

      When someone manages to piss off a cat you know that person is really despicable 😆

    • @starparodier91
      @starparodier91 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@thrasherdave1428 She wasn’t even pissed, just disappointed 😂

  • @thatnicolechick222
    @thatnicolechick222 Год назад +124

    No way I believe her parents are in the 1%. Sure they’re wealthy, rich even, but not 1%. I’d be shocked if it were true.

    • @aprilsummers6447
      @aprilsummers6447 Год назад +21

      I mean 9 kids and that house? That looks like 1% to me or at least near it.

    • @MS-we9gn
      @MS-we9gn Год назад

      It’s possible

    • @thatnicolechick222
      @thatnicolechick222 Год назад +8

      They’d need approximately $10,000,000 net worth and a yearly income of around $597,815

    • @lindakabaghe5589
      @lindakabaghe5589 Год назад

      Shocking, yeah, but you'd be more shocked if you found out just how much of our population is way below sustainable living standards.

  • @maryp9923
    @maryp9923 Год назад +122

    Whenever I see pearly I see someone who really just doesn’t like being a woman. I feel like she just wants to be an alpha male. Her words just wreak of resentment

    • @gwentomologist
      @gwentomologist Год назад

      She’s probably trans and in the closet

    • @yahia9481
      @yahia9481 Год назад

      Self projection

    • @maryp9923
      @maryp9923 Год назад +15

      @@yahia9481no I like being a pretty girl

    • @vaishnavisingh9244
      @vaishnavisingh9244 Год назад +7

      @@yahia9481 Yeah Pearl is definitely self projecting

    • @sipi2009
      @sipi2009 Год назад

      Lmao, wait, imagine if she was trans masc this whole time and deep in repression? XD That would be the ultimate uno reverse.

  • @Squiwlybones
    @Squiwlybones Год назад +17

    A true testament to how you can be the devote your existence to being a pick me and still not get picked

  • @MKSpeakz
    @MKSpeakz Год назад +509

    her speaking to nick fuentes will always be more disgusting than her debating andrew tate. she uses black people and without them on her show it would be nothing, yet she had no problem saying slavery wasn't as bad as we think.. she lost respect from a lot of manosphere creators, and you know that takes a lot *from BLACK manosphere. there's a difference and it shows in some of the replies that you're not all aware of the differences.

    • @anthonytitone
      @anthonytitone Год назад +69

      I wouldn’t say it takes a lot to lose their respect because she’s a woman lol

    • @Suited_Nat
      @Suited_Nat Год назад +16

      Damn- that’s funny- like you really got to be a shitty human to do that.

    • @Suited_Nat
      @Suited_Nat Год назад +15

      @@anthonytitone tbh also fair XD

    • @MKSpeakz
      @MKSpeakz Год назад +9

      @@anthonytitone fair haha

    • @Zimzum93
      @Zimzum93 Год назад +39

      I’ve heard manosphere creators say that exact thing many times so it’s quite interesting that she can’t say it as a woman. The manosphere is quite racist but it’s only okay for the men in it to be racist? That’s an interesting random standard for them to have

  • @RoastedSaltedPeanut
    @RoastedSaltedPeanut Год назад +79

    I genuinely feel sad for her. She probably doesnt have any close relationships and is trying so desperately to gain approval from men that probability think she shouldnt be allowed to speak anyway. The ONLY reason they let her speak is because she is saying exactly what they want her to say.

  • @SilverDragonJay
    @SilverDragonJay Год назад +214

    "our generation has never seen a traditional couple"
    ?????
    My parents have been married for like 35 years. My dad worked himself to the bone at a job where he wasn't respected to eek out a living for us his income alone. Meanwhile, my mom stayed home and looked after me and my siblings. Granted, part of the reason for this arrangement is because my mom was disabled for most of my upbringing, but still, she was a stay at home mom before that happened. Part of the reason I advocate so strongly for equitable relationships and feminism is because I witnessed it first hand and decided that it wasn't for me. This isn't ignorance of some fantastical "better way" this is a choice, an informed choice.
    Its like when you run into Christians who have the mentality of "if you aren't a Christian then you just haven't been introduced to Christianity or not the correct way at least." When the reality is that is a completely ridiculous position to hold. You cannot exist in the US or Canada or the UK (I assume) and not be exposed to Christianity. Likewise, you can't exist in the modern world without being exposed to "traditional" relationships. This isn't ignorance on anyone's part, this is us seeing the flaws in a system and deciding that we don't want to participate.
    also: "we need men to survive"??? Pearl...where's your man? You seem to be doing pretty well for yourself but I don't see a man. Unless she's counting all the money she's grifting from her 99.9% male audience as her "needing men". In which case, yeah I guess she does need men...to give her money.

    • @justinwatson1510
      @justinwatson1510 Год назад

      There are more atheists, but the Anglican Church is the state church of the UK. We have more and louder crazy Christians, presumably because many of the religious nuts self-deported from Europe to the North American colonies.

    • @PasserMontanus
      @PasserMontanus Год назад +25

      In her case, the "man" is her dad who sponsors her grift.

    • @ArtisticlyAlexis
      @ArtisticlyAlexis Год назад

      The man was an overweight, homeless Black guy w/ 2 kids that Catfished her! What did Ms. Pearly do when she learns this, using her amazing relationship knowledge, she moves him and his kids into her parent's mansion just to FINALLY get a guy to want to be with her for more than a podcast. And guess what, He left her! Was getting a free ride from Pearl's parents, but he couldn't stand her so much, he took his kids & left with Pearl wanting him back even after all that. She doesn't live what she preaches & is actually more pathetic than the fake strawman version of an SJW feminist she's constantly complaining about.

    • @sayruh2794
      @sayruh2794 Год назад +24

      Like her dad **AND HER MOM** she said BOTH owned the company they sold. As in, an equal (or somewhat equal) partnership. What does her mother think of this nonsense? I'd be embarrassed if she was my child.

    • @justinwatson1510
      @justinwatson1510 Год назад

      @@sayruh2794 ok, so both her parents are parasites. Who cares what they think?

  • @0Duck1323
    @0Duck1323 Год назад +19

    Rachel's the one who should be blowing up, not all of these horrid people, who're putting on acts for views

  • @soyevquirsefron990
    @soyevquirsefron990 Год назад +255

    I work with disadvantaged people and over time as I had problems in my own life that weren’t my fault and were hard to deal with, I realized that the disadvantaged people had problems that weren’t their fault and they did NOT have resources to deal with.
    At first I think I felt like I was charitably helping people who had screwed up, and after a decade I realized that the only difference between their problems and my problems is that I happened to be born with more resources to deal with the problems

    • @justinwatson1510
      @justinwatson1510 Год назад

      Join a communist party. That is humanity's only hope for true liberation.

    • @caseyw.6550
      @caseyw.6550 Год назад +14

      100%. That's very astute.

    • @fallenking578
      @fallenking578 Год назад +18

      Sadly true, I live below the poverty line for my state and struggle with disability, I have issues other people won't suffer. But homeless people have struggles I will never suffer because I have family that have a house. We need to have empathy to people around us and recognize we can fight struggles others might not, yet Pearl refuses to see that. Refuses to see other people have lives and struggles she won't.

    • @alexwyatt2911
      @alexwyatt2911 Год назад +9

      When people talk about the good choices they’ve made, I ask-is it that you made good choices _or_ you had good choices to make?
      Kids who grew up with high quality K-12 education and parents who were able to support them during college, then those kids had good choices in front of them. Being successful and getting better opportunities are much easier if you’ve already been benefiting from success and have already been given better opportunities.

    • @sg-cg6lr
      @sg-cg6lr Год назад

      1 down, 2 billion to go!

  • @scarlettangel444
    @scarlettangel444 Год назад +993

    I love how she mocks other womens appearances as If shes a "10" 💀 She reeks of insecurity

    • @RottenCheese
      @RottenCheese Год назад +13

      Pearl is more humble, if you watch her content, she calls herself average.
      The thing is, we don't determine our price, the market does.

    • @Emily-xr6ny
      @Emily-xr6ny Год назад

      @@RottenCheeseshe’s not even average, she’s below

    • @shochre6497
      @shochre6497 Год назад +153

      ​@@RottenCheese"the market" isn't real.

    • @RottenCheese
      @RottenCheese Год назад

      @@shochre6497 So I can freely take 100 sexy women back home with me for free?

    • @ashleyreynolds1991
      @ashleyreynolds1991 Год назад +13

      YESSSSS, i didnt wanna say it but, YES!!!!

  • @jessicabrunelli8672
    @jessicabrunelli8672 Год назад +175

    Thank you for this. She is putting out some really horrible stuff. And these other podcasts that just bring women on to degrade them makes me want to cry. They are so young and are not deserving of the mistreatment.