how i recharge my social battery // introvert self care ☕️ green tea talks ep 2 || ok ellie
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- Опубликовано: 30 июн 2020
- how I recharge my social battery // introvert self care☕️ green tea talks ep 2:
today i discuss how i unwind after social interaction. as an introvert i need time to reset after i leave the house so that i don't become anxious etc. talking to people can be very draining so i find time to be kind to myself and recharge :)
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thanks, el x
are you more of an introvert or an extrovert? ☕️
socializing? who’s she?
never heard of her
I’m an introvert person tbh 🥺
I'm sort of in between 🤷♀️
Sophia Ramirez me too!
“on the other hand. i hate everyone” this is such a mood
i love our generation
I relate to this on such a deep level omg--I definitely didn't realize how introverted I am until being forced into social isolation. I was asked to hang out with a friend the other day, and I found myself more inclined to reject the invite simply because I just enjoyed not seeing people. It's weird to process, but I definitely think the quarantine has made me reevaluate how I spend my time based on what makes me the happiest and the most full of energy. I love love love this video, and I wish more people would talk about stuff like this!
thank you for such a genuine comment this makes me so so happy :) i hope we all readjust to the situation the best we can
I relate so much to this as I am such an introvert and get so burnt out after too much interaction with others. I just need time to relax and spend time by myself afterwards
yes exactly!
i actually do have to turn my phone off for at least a full day. It still feels overwhelming and like I have the whole world in the palm of my hand. I realized I was an introvert when I accepted that even someone texting me out of the blue feels like unwarranted social interaction. When I go out I'm able to socialize and people even think I'm an extravert because I'm so collected and expressive but it's because I'm giving the only 2-3 hours i've got in me after being in complete isolation all week. I can't wait until I'm able to have the people in my life understand my needs. the perfect thing for me would be to be left alone all week to explore, relax, and focus on the things that I need to get done and then plan an outing on say Saturdays. A nice breakfast and stroll through the farmer's market is enough for me for the week
This is exactly why I have a channel fully dedicated to introverts because most times things like "social battery" or needing to "recharge" can seem crazy but they are so normal and neccessary.
Thanks for sharing this 🌼
exactly!
Lmaoo.. “it was just seeing ppl”. A girl after my own heart
i thought something was genuinely wrong w me because of how intense it is for me. glad to know so many people feel it at the same intensity.
literally just went online after a full day of hosting people at my house and searched “how do introverts recharge” on youtube because damn I am DRAINED. like, I can’t even answer back my mum at this point. I just wanna curl up and live in my blankets for 5 months straight… so yeah, randomly discovered your video (and your channel) and LOVED it. thought I would let u know ✨
this was so helpful as a fellow introvert!!
glad to hear it :)
Watching this for some validation. Just spent the entire day with a wonderful friend and the day was really great, but my social battery ran out at one point and it left me pretty overwhelmed and exhausted. So relieved to see that others experience this odd feeling.
i love this vibe sm just like laying on your side talking to the camera or just laying down and looking out the window it’s very real and calming
When you said seeing people is "traumatic enough, actually" . . . I loved that. It's hilarious because I get it, even though I very much love people. I had several social burnout today, which is why I was watching this video! Thank you for sharing your experience. :)
WHEN YOU SAID I HATE EVERYONE I DIED
olivia wain they’re all so annoying tho
ok ellie not me🥺
olivia wain i will tolerate you
I think you should definitely continued these types of videos. I don't quite know why but these videos sort of give me a sense of relief when it comes to those feelings that most people get during quarantine, and it's really helpful to know other people's methods for winding down, Thanks!
i completely agree w this comment 🤍
thank you so much🥺 i’m so glad to hear it
People have left me because of those things I have and esp the gathering and parties stuff like that I don't really good with these things, and sometimes when I just want to take everything off people just say that words like a weirdo or you are sick, etc. so I think It's hard but if they will leave me I will leave them too at least I have my self :) but IDK when the people will understand us.
I literally thought this was just me, I’m so glad I’m not the only one 😭😭😭
You are quite the philosopher at this young age. Quarantine taxed us all, young and old.
I can deeply relate to this video, thanks for sharing your thoughts, it‘s nice to know that other people feel the same way as I do 😊
The first vid of you I’m seeing and I can confirm I love sit down videos :)
i definitely am in between an intro and extrovert too so i totally understand this video!! i think quarantine made me more in touch with my introverted self too. i do miss my friends but I'm also thinking about once i do get to go out again, idk if i wanna go out haha.
yeah it makes me so nervous but I wanna see my friends so bad! at least more people than I thought relate to this, thanks sm for watching
i loved this so much and i know you posted it like a year ago but i definitely think you should make more videos like this!! it was so relaxing and also i love your voice
I needed this so much. I spent this weekend with my family who are in my bubble. It's not like I don't enjoy seeing them but honestly I feel almost panicked by how much social energy it's drained. It's midnight, I've only just got home and I have to get up for work in 6 hours and this whole video just chilled me out. Thank you. X
i’m so glad omg !! hope u have a chill day :)
this was such a lovely video🥺 also love your filming background!! Can't wait to watch more of ur vids x
thank you!!!
It’s always comfortable to hear there is someone like me. It’s good to know I’m not alone😂
loved the thoughtful approach to self care, especially in understanding that sometimes we all just need a nap ! i’d love to see a video about how you get more in touch with your creativity/practice creating just for yourself (though it might be a bit ironic to film) 🌻
acacia thank you so much for this comment it was so thoughtful! i will definitely explore that idea in a future green tea talks
Wow I love this video, I relate so much and I love these kind of talking videos, keep it up, also you got a new subscriber!
Socialising is traumatic. I couldn't agree more.
OMG literally I have nothing these days except watching your videos (new sub ) so I have to say that the green tea talks are my FAAAAVVVVV ugh, you are like the friend I want to have :(
I myself am a social introver (as long as I get something in return for my social energy) - so recharging my social battery is very important cuz otehrwise id just eb overwhelmed all the time
my social battery keeps getting lower and lower. its almost every time i hang out i get exhausted mentally
it’s so difficult, especially adjusting in a pandemic, sending u good vibes :)
the talking alot and drinking heaps of water part is where I am massively relatable to :) and in being an ambivert in general
So glad to have stumbled upon your channel, this is actually great content keep it up !!
thanks you! that means so much
Thank you so much! You literally speak my mind. It helped me a lot
We love a green tea talk by Ellie
why thank you 🥺
The way that you speak is so beautiful, I really like your voice and your accent... It's kinda relaxing... As an English learner this helps me a lot, I don't why I'm saying this but yeah I like your voice😅❤️
this was literally so relaxing what🤩loved this x
rhoanna goulding thank youuu🥺
hiii i loved this video it was really comforting to watch!!
thank u ahh !
loved this
LOVE THIS introverts unite🤍💞
Julia Shapiro so glad to hear it! thanks for watching
so relatable.. thank you for tips
Ok I actually relate to this so much!!!
LizzieAde thank you sm for watching
Omg thank you for making this! I feel alone in thinking I just need silence, I think to recharge
yes !! thank u for watching
This was interesting and fun to watch !
thank you!
I just found your channel and your vibes make me so happy. Loved this video, I really relate with the social battery thing, mine seems to be drained far too easily. Also your comment about even *Zendaya* draining said battery is pretty accurate. Although I'd love to meet her- okAy anyway, I hope you're having a great day :)
if i don't meet zendaya at some point in my life what's the point
@@okellie you're right and you should say it
I'm introvert and thanks for sharing this :)
Sakura Hitam thanks for watching :)
pov: you searched for this video. ok but i just started to go to a new school and ive made like "school friends" in all my classes but some days ill just like early talk like i just dont have the energy. and at lunch i sit with people i actually want to become close with but im so drained and i could easily join there convo but i just sit and listen. what do i do bc 7-9pm in not enough me time
Thanks for this video :)
Im deffo an introvert but when im with the people i click with im extrovert. If i go to a party with my family my extrovert sister always tries to get me off my ass and dance and im like "no!". She never takes no for an answer so i always fuck off back home and im so glad when im home, as soon as i walk through the door im atleast 50% ok after like 5 mins.
My bestfriend doesnt wanne talk to me, her social battery is empty and this thing is kinda new to me. I am trying to understand it wich is kinda hard since i am different and thats okay. I told her that i respect it. Its kinda hard at the moment since i am going trough a depression + i have abodoment issues aswell where i am working on so this moment is really hard for me
i love your channel wow! we literally are so similar i love it aha 💘💘💘
we love to see it, thanks sm
Love this series and I definitely need time to recharge after hanging out with a bunch of ppl also THATS why I’m lowkey loving quarantine haha :pp
I’m a mini youtuber :-)
Thx for the video I'm trying to be more understanding of my friends' social battery. I do my best to not drain her and do what's best for her because im extroverted and she is introverted/extroverted.
I always assure her to don't stress it because I used to or may still be the same way time to time when so much is going on whether it's me checking in on her or me enlightening her on what's going on or something we could do due to our long distance relationship I assure her to don't stress about replying/calling cuz we both got alot going on and time differences until we can see each other irl.
It's crazy how I used to stress over hanging out with my friends like legitimate friends before of how to act or what I have to do in any said given moment I act so different around my friends to seem relevant but as I got older and our friendship has grown I learned first off it don't matter how you act unless you are being yourself cuz I would force my personality and sometimes yo it made social interaction very lame. In highschool me and my my friends were like the middle class between jocks and quiet kids we were just like any student but other students would come up to us and just be chill chill not trying to survive in highschool but have our own take ik enjoying it yeah it was stressful but surrounding yourself with the right people helps with the introvert vibes. Like for instance I was quiet in elementary school but in high school I found my Goofy friends and my personality was embraced and I would act out in class 😁
Thank you 💕
I like talking to people and everything but ever since I got into door 2 door sales I find myself finding out that I need to be alone a lot more
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i can relate so much tbh
thanks sm for watching
I started to work and ... bro people ask me too much .... they always talk and socialise but I a m tired.... my face says dont talk to me and they find it rude 😅.
Can you recharge it while being at someone's birthday party or something like that! When I go to a birthday party or just going to visit someone.. My social battery runs out and I feel like going home, but that's not always possible in the middel of a party. How can you survive a few hours longer if your battery is low? Sometimes I escape to the bathroom to be alone for a few moments, but it's not enough. Any advise on how to survive a party of some sorts? Thank you
god this is so tricky, obviously everyone’s different but music really helps me in those situations, if I can escape for a quick walk as well. Also if you’re with people you know, tell them how you’re feeling and they’ll hopefully help you get a moment of peace. I find deep breaths and a drink or food make me feel better but honestly I’m still struggling with the same thing! sending you all the good vibes
Introvert for sure!
Yeah she gets me. Lol
i love your accent
thank u !!
So I rarely comment on RUclips but I just have to tell you, I get your vibe so completely and this vid genuinely helped me get in a better headspace to take care of myself and recharge my social battery. Thank you! 🫶🏻
3 years late😅 but thanks for this
have you heard of 'false persona fatigue'? It's an insightful idea...
i love these types of like chill sit down chat video yanno that made no sense lmao!just subbed and would love if we could support each other
omg. i think ive just found me online😂🤠🤠
we love to see it
Hey! What camera and mic do you use?
soleil hi, I use the canon 700d and the rode video micro
Hi Mam how are you? I'm also like you Mam. I'm glad to meet you. God bless you. I'm grateful towards you.
Hey gurl, love this video. I can relate so much because im an introvert too. Just subscribed to your channel. I recently joined youtube too, lets support eachother 💫
“I just don’t feel real” - you were depersonalised/derealised
Why are you interacting with people during quarantine.
Very hard to watch your video if you haven't already planned what you wanted to say optimally. Disliked.